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| – | Why do yall think BPers/feminist men do everything for sex?Misandry. /s It's obviously projection or the inability to see other people as full human beings with their own thoughts and passions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If you could say one sentence to your eighteen year old self regarding sex and relationships what would it be and why?Dude, you can be a nihilist and see the world in black and white, or you can see it in shades of gray and live your life. By all means, champion for the things you care about, but being bogged down by things you can't change never made anyone happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | If you could say one sentence to your eighteen year old self regarding sex and relationships what would it be and why?I think the entire species has done amazing, incredible things in a relatively short amount of time. Are we infallible? Of course not; there's still people dying in the streets from preventable diseases and hunger. Individually, I think the people around me are great, generous, and kind. Are they infallible? Nah. My mom's self-centered, my boyfriend can be an ass sometimes, and my best friend is pretty bullheaded about stuff. But they try, they change, they care, and they learn. That's the best … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 07:15 PM |
| 3 | If you could say one sentence to your eighteen year old self regarding sex and relationships what would it be and why?Seeing women as they are, human, lowers your expectations for them and that in turn makes you happier. When you expect the world of someone that only leaves room for disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this one of TBPs satire, or one of their rant posts? Can you tell, it could be both?Get therapy. | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | If female hypergamy and pickiness is normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed, men reacting with anger and misogyny is also completely normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed.It was a joke on thinking that sex is food. Basically, jerking one out can provide your own food. Anyway, it sounds to me that you find sex equivalent to relationships. You don't need sex to survive, but as social creatures, we do need camaraderie and affection to not be completely depressed. Focus on the person, not the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 05:01 PM |
| 7 | If female hypergamy and pickiness is normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed, men reacting with anger and misogyny is also completely normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed.Maybe you could self-reflect and ask yourself very honestly why women seem to be so averse to you that you can't even form a single relationship, romantic or not, with one. Seeing as I believe in the revolutionary idea that I'm a person, not a goddamn sex robot, I've never once turned down a friendship with a man who wasn't a raging misogynist. I've had my share of unrequited loves, with men who look more like this than this & women too. I know it's painful. I was a teenager too. I, however, gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 12 | If female hypergamy and pickiness is normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed, men reacting with anger and misogyny is also completely normal, "fair", and shouldn't be shammed.Because apparently women have the sole responsibility of fucking people that don't interest her in the slightest by virtue of being born with a vagina. If you see women as commodity and sex as food, you'll see yourself as literally starving. I wish these guys would just practice photosynthesis and jerk off until they start behaving like people again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Is this one of TBPs satire, or one of their rant posts? Can you tell, it could be both?LOL. Read the reference, Chad. I'm sorry mommy didn't love you. | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/16 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Chad isn't real (he's a psychological coping mechanism)I'd say it sounds more like a cult in that case... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/16 02:44 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Despite feminism trying to shame men into finding undesirable women attractive, all it's doing is making attractive to supermodel status more valuable.Then why do red pillers bitch about fuggo women being able to score any guy, but fuggo guys don't have the same luxury? As if men are ravenous animals that will fuck anything that moves? Are men picky or are they thirsty? Lol this is why AWALT and AWALT don't work. By the way, I actually agree with you. A lot of men are shallow, but it's funny that only women get that rap on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Society doesn't only tell men that being nice is enough to get a girlfriend, it also tells women that they should date someone just because he's niceYour only reason for being a good person is whether or not you're getting laid? That's just sad dude. Being a good person should make you feel good. Being nice feels nice. Positivity and all that jazz. Getting laid is not a reward for being kind to your fellow humans. Being attractive takes into consideration all of your physical and mental traits. If you're ugly, it's harder to just get randomly fucked by strangers. Try building relationships, you know, with your personality. Work on yourself, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Society doesn't only tell men that being nice is enough to get a girlfriend, it also tells women that they should date someone just because he's niceThe more money I make, independent of men, the more your theory becomes less relevant to me. Women aren't forced into childbearing and caretaking roles anymore, bruh. Straight women might feel a pang of obligation thanks to social conditioning, but more and more of them are waiting till they're self sufficient to have kids. ""Betas"" can go their own way all they like, but no one's guilt or money is going to make me feel bad enough to have sex with them. If my SO died, I'd rather date a woman th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4Feminists: Do you think the anti-feminists in PPD have a good understanding of feminist terms and concepts?You don't have to know history to repeat history. ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4Feminists: Do you think the anti-feminists in PPD have a good understanding of feminist terms and concepts?Well now we're getting to the root of the actual problem. You're a social conservative. A reactionary who dreams about the fictional moral fiber of a past-gone era. You rely on outdated notions of gender and sexuality to write your rules for you, which is fine, but you arbitrarily hold other people to those same standards. Sorry, but the world moves forwards, not backwards. More rights, not less. In any case, your flair encapsulates you well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Q4Feminists: Do you think the anti-feminists in PPD have a good understanding of feminist terms and concepts?Lol, dude, I just listed stuff that Feminism gets right and you replied with "well then why do I still think that feminism is horrible!??" I don't know?? You never gave me a reason. For all I know, the only thing you know about Feminism comes from a manosphere YouTuber and his daily "Busted Feminist" video or TumblrInAction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Q4Feminists: Do you think the anti-feminists in PPD have a good understanding of feminist terms and concepts?Very articulate response. I don't know why you care about a non-issue. I'm not in your head. There's infinite links and discussions about feminism already. Google your questions, if you must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | If You Stopped Reading PPD and Using the Internet Tomorrow...This is obviously a sore subject for you, so I can't defend my argument and assume you'll take it in good faith. I was pointing out the holes in your previous post, not personally attacking you or the men you love. You act like feminists want to absolve women of all responsibility and want to make people act like sociopaths. Okay. Fair enough. If that is what you actually believe, there is no way I can argue against delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Q4Feminists: Do you think the anti-feminists in PPD have a good understanding of feminist terms and concepts?Citation? While feminism doesn't start grassroot movements on the entire premise of male liberation, that doesn't mean it's not removing limitations and expectations. On the contrary, the more feminist you are, the more you realize that gender concepts are sometimes arbitrary and make little sense in your day to day life. Examples: "Why should I expect my husband to take out the trash? I'm an empowered woman who can take out her own damn trash." or "I'm not going to pay some scammer at a Pepboys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 08:59 PM |
| 3 | If You Stopped Reading PPD and Using the Internet Tomorrow...Women shouldn't be taught to be reciprocal of "unloved men's" advances by feminists or anyone else... Many men here have this idea that women somehow owe them attention, affection, and sex. If you see a woman accepting companionship, attention, advice, or literal gifts from a male friend and your first thought is "I can't believe she's taking the fruits of that man's affection, omg" then you have a warped perception of relationships. If one party feels that they're being taken advantage of, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: What do you like about being a woman?I think a part of me broke growing up. That part that wants to succeed and be better than others. I am a very competitive person, but somewhere along the way I decided that good enough was good enough. Maybe it's because I'm aneurotypical too (anxiety, ADD, etc), or maybe it's because my parents gave up on me, but no one ever told me to try harder. Good enough was good enough for me, according to the people who were shaping me. When I have kids I want to push them harder than that, gender be dam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/16 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Question for women: What do you like about being a woman?Society expects a lot of us... physically. However, it's easier to be mediocre than be expected to be this paragon of leadership and stoicism all the time. No one cares if I'm not a doctor or a savant. No one gets mad that I'm not some high earning go-getter. I don't really need to change my personality in fundamental ways to attract a man. Just being pretty and nice is enough for most guys. I guess this is why women are perceived to be "not as good" as men in a lot of non-physical things. If th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/16 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: What do you like about being a woman?I like the freedoms to be more creative with my body and what I choose to do with it. Men are almost manhandled into this position of "au naturale" that is boring and sad to me. I like make up, nail art, experimenting with my hair. None of this makes a stink and is sometimes encouraged. I really like how soft my body is, especially my boobs and hips. Femininity is attractive to me. I'm secretly glad that people tend to have lower expectations for women. It's both good and bad. No one ever calls … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/16 10:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The 'subtle' signals and lack of 'frank' communication many women give is the reason so many men misinterpret friendly behaviour as sexual/romantic interest.Women who are friendly but make their intentions very clearly at the beginning are the best. People say this, but then get up in arms about the woman who takes the time to say, "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm not interested" right away. Either you're a tease or a frigid bitch, no in between if you don't reciprocate the Nice GuyTMs feelings. There tends to be a thin line in what would be considered flirtation and friendliness for some women. We women are trained from very early to be friendly and bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/16 08:22 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women want "equality" while being held to the sexist standards for responsibility and/or punishment, not actual equality.It's almost like ordinary people aren't as involved in gender politics as red pillers or self-proclaimed feminists. Everyone wants to have their cake and eat it too, but that doesn't mean that the concept of equality is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/16 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why are condoms no longer emphasized in society?Good observation. Me being a fan of TRP would be like a chicken being a fan of KFC. Doesn't make a lot of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why are condoms no longer emphasized in society?Lol, not on college campuses or high schools unfortunately. You usually have to settle for women wanting actual relationships. :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why are condoms no longer emphasized in society?That's a shame that you're surrounded by illogical people. I mean, I had those kinds of people around me when I was 14 and they were saying "bro, I can't feel it as good with a condom on..." Of course, 14 year olds are inherently illogical. There's no excuse for this kind of behavior when you're in your 30s, but people somehow find a way. Oh well, just take care of yourself and date outside your circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Why are condoms no longer emphasized in society?Hey, I'm not here to preach monogamy just cause it's worked for me these past 6 years. I agree with you, but some people (a lot of red pillers here especially) do not like monogamy and want to jump from one set of genitals to the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: Why are condoms no longer emphasized in society?Part of why you don't have sex is because some people want to be reckless with their bodies? Just find someone who isn't reckless, you can both get tested, and problem solved. There's no use in trying to police other people's choices. As long as you and your chosen partner(s) get tested every 6 months, you're doing your part to stay clean and healthy. I also don't know anyone who thinks they're above condoms. Maybe it's just on college campuses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | A healthy environment for children to grow up in would be with a Blue Pill mother and a Red Pill fatherMaybe you just haven't read enough TRP theory? By the way, those last two links are from TRP sidebar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 06:28 PM |
| 9 | CMV: (Most) Anti-feminist women are attention seeking snowflakesYeah, usually friends don't like it when other friends call them retarded. Funny how that work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourEvery movement in existence has had converging ideologies and people who have flown under that flag who don't agree with each other. It's the nature of having such a broad topic discussed. I guess where I lose you is that you see that as a female failing where I see that as just human nature. Even with the red pill, Not everyone seems to agree with each other on how best to solve the issue of not having women fuck them. Some want to go their own way, some just want to curse women and call themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourI personally don't think claiming victimhood is actually that bad or wrong. There's a lot in society to feel angry and hurt by. I think the first step to writing wrongs is to accept that they hurt us and other people. Do I personally "get" the plight of the misunderstood furry-kin-gender-variant? Not really. I can appreciate that they're probably not gonna have a good time irl because of who they are, though. Same with pedophiles, incels, sociopaths, and non-conformists of any variety. Feminism … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 10:27 PM |
| 7 | The little things: NaggingOkay, that's his side of things. What about hers? He said he would do this thing 6 months ago. He hasn't. He becomes aloof and childish when she has to keep reminding him/nagging him. This thing he said he would do, now I have to hire someone/do it myself. Why do I ask him to do anything? Rinse, repeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/16 10:00 PM |
| 3 | If hypergamy and the 80/20 rule are real, the following statements must be trueYou hit the nail on the head. Women and men are different socially and biologically. For a group of people who argue the exact same thing, why is this so difficult to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | If hypergamy and the 80/20 rule are real, the following statements must be trueThat's because you're arguing with moral absolutists who believe all human interactions can boiled down to a simple mathematical formula for success. I'm a woman. I 100% agree with you. Men and women alike, to me, require more than just a face and body for raw attraction to take effect. It's a combination of properties and what makes that person who they are. Red Pillers won't get it because it's completely foreign to how they operate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/16 09:15 PM |
| 3 | The danger zones of the red pillYou're basically arguing that men perform at the lowest common denominator and are one step removed from common apes...yet feminists are the misandrists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/16 03:38 AM |
| 0 | What is an average woman?Then I suppose we're on very different pages. Among other things, men feel pressure to be physically big, have strength, and gain power in society. Do all men succeed and become top tier men? No. That's why we have persuasive advertisements telling us how incompetent we are. If the pressure wasn't there, those ads wouldn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What is an average woman?I can counter that by saying that although all men are pressured to perform masculinity, TRP's 20/80 figure suggests that most men fail at it. Just because there's societal pressure to behave a certain way, that doesn't mean that the majority are even good at or capable of performing "at their peak". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Can't this whole dating-debate be summed up by: Gender roles have evolved massively, but dating-standards remain unchangedThat's true. Dating is essentially still a game of cat and mouse, and a lot of that has to do with the advice of well meaning relatives and the media we consume. Of course, that's not to say all attraction is socially constructed. However, preferences only go so far, so it'll be interesting to see how millenials deal with the gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Single mothers: A product of feminism or the failure of men to step up and take responsibility?Absent periods: can be a sign of serious health conditions and your friend should get that checked out. Being regular is ultimately the goal, because that means your hormones are regulating themselves properly. Menstrual cramps: are treated because we live in a modern society where people go to doctors and receive treatment for things. Most people generally enjoy being happy and pain free. Shocking, I know. Hormonal acne: is a thing that is not easily done away with with one visit to your dermat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 07:35 AM |
| 7 | What is an average woman?She follows the rules of society as best she can, which means performing well in the following two areas: childrearing and beauty/health. Women aren't really pressured to be or do much of anything besides become a mother and look pretty. Anything beyond those two 'requests' society makes is vague, and honestly, it's considered fluff for the most part. Men have more pressure on them to perform masculinity, and in a variety of strict and confining ways, which can make even an average Joe want more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 06:53 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Claims of Bigotry are an Anecdotal fallacy and hence inconclusiveThe examples you've given aren't of bigotry, they're of prejudice. To exhibit prejudice against something you don't really need empirical evidence of said something. Prejudice is by definition a "preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience." It's a biased assumption people make in the heat of the moment or through osmosis from their community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are women much more concerned with their appearance than men, when women are generally the 'choosers' in the dating game?Because being beautiful comes with a lot of societal perks? Being noticed is only one of them. In general, people are nicer and friendlier to you. They greet you differently. They take special notice of you and your life (birthdays, holidays, new shoes/hair color). If you're pretty and look put together people assume things about you; that you're more responsible, more caring, more determined. On the flip side, if you're looking au-naturale you're asked if you're sick, people assume that you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are women much more concerned with their appearance than men, when women are generally the 'choosers' in the dating game?I personally identify with this. Everyone I meet, men or women (I'm bisexual), would probably get an average rating from me prior to getting to know them, UNLESS they're obviously a model or something. Even then, I'm not really attracted to the pictures, I just find them aesthetically pleasing in a non-sexual way. I always thought I was weird because I didn't swoon over celebrities like my other friends did, but maybe they were somewhat faking it for the "girl time bonding." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 10:40 AM |
| 2 | This is Why Guys Give up on DatingIf a minimum wage job is the end of the rope for someone, there are still other ways to cultivate a personality that sparks an interest in women. You could be creative/artistic/entrepreneurial/inventive/etc. When I was a supervisor in a grocery store, I met this 50+ man who was a janitor there. Beyond that, he made miniatures. He had this really cool Star Wars set that he created using the plastic from our receipt machines. He once told me that he wasn't the marriage type, but he was never short… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 09:16 AM |
| 2 | This is Why Guys Give up on DatingLol, yeah a playboy bunny definitely isn't the average woman. I would say the average waitress looks more like this. Which, you know, she could find a hubby at the local Denny's if she wanted, but they're definitely not going to be some hot shot baseball player. I think the male and female experience isn't as different as people like to make it. It's a bell curve. Really hot people end up fairing better in life because, well, they're nice to look at. 'Through no fault of your own' is also kind o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 08:31 AM |
| 5 | This is Why Guys Give up on DatingI would argue that being 42 and having a minimum wage job (without sound reasoning, such as being laid off or over employed) is in itself a turn off to most people, men or women. Minimum wage jobs do not earn you a liveable wage, meaning you're probably living with your parents or 3 other roommates. No one looking for commitment or to start a family (real possibilities in the dating pool of a 42 year old man) will take a person earning minimum wage seriously. Sure, he could date teens at the loc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4 Non-RP What do consider to be the best ethical alternatives to TRP/PUA?So, the end goal is "a cool girlfriend." However, on the road to her, you also want to have 'night games' or hookups with a lot of women "to see what kinds women are out there." But you don't casually fuck these women because you want another notch on your bedpost, but because you think it'll help you find that coveted cool girlfriend? I just think this is such a complicated way of just saying you like casual sex. There's no reason to make it about some cool girlfriend when in reality you just w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 11:52 PM |
| 3 | PPD Let's watch <> Movie Suggestion threadWe Need to Talk About Kevin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4 Non-RP What do consider to be the best ethical alternatives to TRP/PUA?Not just me, but Red Pillers like Roosh V help to frame it as casual and meaningless. In the case of just you and OP, I would suggest becoming interesting yourself. Interesting people attract other interesting people. Join a club or gym, get into a "lifestyle" and meet like-minded people. Be flirtatious but don't override people's boundaries. That's usually the creepiest part of Red Pill theory. If someone's not into it, don't force it. Eh, in general, I'd say just live your life and do what mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Q4 Non-RP What do consider to be the best ethical alternatives to TRP/PUA?But how do you get to know people and what you like about them through random meaningless sex? Most people who just want a hookup aren't trying to impress you with their amazing personality, they just wanna get off. If this hypothetical guy just wanted to meet a cool girlfriend, he'd do activities where meeting people is the goal, talk to classmates/workmates, online date, have female friends, etc. Essentially, do more than just fuck an entire tri-state area with the only goal in sight being to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 11:12 PM |
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