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Fundamentals cormacru999/r/seduction21/09/22 01:46 AM
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Its is bizarre that you think the problem is they had a preconceived notion about his origins & when they didn't get that, they left. Truly strange.
/r/seduction24/10/22 01:21 AM
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I have a suggestion for all men, that is based on women's experiences. Men already understand some of it, but they tend to have distorted interpretations of it. Women, from the time they are children to their old age, are bombarded by men's attention & desire. They often have all sorts of what you might call "hacks" to deal with men noticing them & talking to them, whether its a man that is attracted to her or threatened by her in a work setting, or other situations. When they are doing their la…
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:17 AM
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Ah yes, the old all girls must be this way because I don't like it. You'd probably be the first to complain if you saw a blanket statement about men. Of course there are all sort of other factors that many men are completely unaware of, like the way society has dictated to women what they must do, how they act, how they look, how the can be accepted & only now, in modern time are we seeing so many women choosing to explore their own sexuality, but you, some random guy needs zero evidence to clai…
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:28 AM
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Its always so strange how many men think women exist for them, for their pleasure, &if they won't shower you with attention or agree to date or hook up, that must mean that those women are faulty or flawed. Has it ever occurred to you that you aren't worth their time? What makes you such a catch that you think many women should focus on you instead of any other aspects of their lives?
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:25 AM
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I swear, from the questions to the answers, this page is a stew of ignorance & assumptions. Consent is the best thing & just ask. Y'all are convinced men must make the move but since women are so crazy, its a mine field of danger. "I'm really enjoying my time with you. I'd like to kiss you but I don't want to swoop in without your consent." If she gives you a hard time that you asked, that's a red flag, not of danger, but of maturity. Most women will appreciate that you asked.
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:58 AM
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Are women bombarded from men, even your ugly friend, so women can't choose a great guy like you? The answer can be found in your ideas about the world around you.
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:30 AM
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Again, so many of these are vague, how is anyone supposed to answer a question like this based on that? But there is a massive flaw in your understanding too. The friendzone is a myth created by men because they can't ever seem to understand their relationships with women. They want to date but they don't say that, hang out with a woman, who assumes they are friends, then he announces what he hoped for & she's not interested & then the guy cries that he's the victim of women. If you knew she had…
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:13 AM
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Yeah, be as toxic as possible. lol
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:09 AM
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This is another one of those questions where men think there's a "equation"to get right, that fears of being too eager are bad & that being more aloof is good. These ideas are generally popular because of men who present themselves as dating gurus, thought there are at least 2 women I know of trying to sell the same scam. Its true that you can turn anyone off by seeming clingy or desperate, but most people enjoy when someone is into them,or interested in them, that's very basic human nature, & s…
/r/seduction17/10/22 01:57 AM
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Describe that feeling.
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:01 AM
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Says the man in a group of men all confused about what women do or want. hahaha
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:00 AM
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What exactly is the move you make? And why are all of you afraid to just ask them? Just communicate that you're interested in whatever you want, a romantic relationship, a sexual relationship, whatever.
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:00 AM
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Yeah, its sort of trope or well known but unproven thing that when we are searching for a person, we tend not to find them but as soon as we focus on ourselves, suddenly people are interested in us. But its a good way to live, letting go of expectations, which often breed resentments, to just try to experience life & take what comes without trying to force the world to meet our wants.
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:18 AM
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Its interesting that your issue is that you think work on yourself only means money, physical fitness & the nebulous "high status" & so you're here to tell men that they need to work on social skills & flirting skills. Anyone with any sense understands that working on yourself includes social skills, learning how to communicate well, carrying a conversation, etc. They aren't separate from each other, there are just different parts of self work. I get that you're trying to say that money or a ric…
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:44 AM
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You can file this under the type of thing that you can't explain like an equation, all people, men, women, etc, don't all have the same personality, so you could talk to women who are direct with a strong personality, who will keep eye contact, or you could meet a shy woman, who's anxious & unsure about eye contact. Its much more about their total behavior, but so many men come to this site asking for the clues to figure out if women are into them & I would say if you're not sure, then its proba…
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:24 AM
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Never heard of a 3 second rule but it sounds like the usual nonsense that I'd avoid. It sounds like you are over analyzing, & anxious about the outcome & it paralyzes you. Therapy is a great resource & choosing to try it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. We are never taught anything about relationships, what are healthy relationships, what are good mental health tools to use, what are good boundaries, how to set limits & challenges for ourselves & so much more. Therapy transformed my…
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:17 AM
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As some have said, in a different way, the friendzone is a myth created by men who are upset that they don't know how to tell if a woman is interested in them romantically or platonically. So more than learning that, the question is why does this happen? From a woman's perspective, she's never done anything that even hinted at romance & when a man, who seems to be her friend, suddenly announces that he wants to date her, & discovers she never saw him that way, they either try to stay connected &…
/r/seduction03/10/22 01:18 AM
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It sounds like she was happy to be friends with you & your decided you were in love. This happens often for young men because they are often pretty bad at making friendships & can't discern what is a friendship or a romance & then they destroy the friendship because they couldn't read the signals right.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:55 AM
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Despite the answers other people are giving, in general, sure, but its not a hard rule. And there are factors that can alter that in either direction. You could be a handsome man who doesn't take good care of your teeth, & women will refuse to date it for that. You could be an attractive woman with hair loss issues who has to wear a wig, & plenty of men might like her out & about but can't handle that she's bald at home. You can be old, & gross, but with enough $ & power, you can take advantage …
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:33 AM
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I'm glad that it seemed to have a positive effect, but you should understand that many women feel like men see them as tools for their self improvement, as opposed to people, real, human people, with lives, dreams, hopes. And let's be honest guys, if you found out that women that approached you to chat, said "Oh, no, I'm not actually interested in you, I'm just practicing being a person," you'd be furious.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:00 AM
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How did you mess up? You find a partner in the same places anyone finds a partner, there is no space that promises a woman will want to be with you. You have to put yourself out there, meet them, and offer them something to connect to.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:58 AM
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For years I have talked about what I call "the touch barrier," which just means that often, if a woman touches you, if she's making deliberate, physical contact with you, she's into you. The part about not having sex could have been a strange way to gauge what you think, & I would say all relationships have a better chance of lasting when we do not dive headfirst into them, sleeping together too soon, moving in together too soon, but really, you should just ask her. You can say something like "I…
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:50 AM
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"The women I've laid well" lol
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:50 AM
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I think I love the idea that you think women are dying to hang out with you, but if they don't find you attractive, you refuse to treat them like human people. Woof. Definitely going to share this one.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:49 AM
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I posted this as a quote somewhere else & here's what 1 woman had to say, but it general, this is the reality, your belief system is created by men dating gurus, who prey on your fear & anger, for their own benefit, then you spread the same ideas & men continue to be angry & anxious about meeting women. When the truth is, men's inability to be real people & treat women as real people, gets them no partners. Her reaction: "Umm….. HEY ….. no note to you’re clearly a sh*ty person and that’s why you…
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:42 PM
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God no. First of all, going to a place of faith to meet women with zero intention of joining that faith means you're setting up for immediate conflict either right away or eventually. She will have a deep focus on her faith of choice & no matter what your opinion os of that, people who actively participate in their faith & the community of their faith have chosen to integrate their faith into much of their lives. Depending on what faith you decide to swim in, this will impact your experience. If…
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:29 AM
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Or, even worse, you're a fan of that video & you're helping them make $.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:41 AM
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Oh lord. Tinder is mostly a hook up system, that works so well, that they are still in business. Making videos preying on men's fear, anger, rejections, to make $$ is also a business. Your business only works if you trigger men to feel this way. If they use tinder & have sex, date, get married, you might not have them watching your videos.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:40 AM
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I think the point here is that you don't know enough on the first date to know if the sex will be enjoyed by both or explode in your face. My suggestion is be clear that that's what you want so they can decide for themselves.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:31 AM
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While I'm glad to see this being mentioned here, its also important to understand that adults, including young adults, can have casual sex, but in this exact situation, she's looking for an emotional commitment & that makes this particular woman unsuitable for casual sex. As long as both adults are honest, & forthcoming, as long as everyone understanding the motives & agrees, sex is fine. The danger however is that most people don't have much experience, or great mental health tools, or understa…
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:30 AM
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Here is what you need to understand. There are laws in place that decide who can hook up, date, have sex, etc & as long as you follow those laws, legally, you are safe. Beyond that, there are other factors that you might call moral, or intellectual, or something else, depending on what your reasoning is. While me, being almost 50 years old, can legally sleep with or date an 18 year old college girl, there are certain factors that we look at socially, psychologically, morally, etc. The biggest 2 …
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:20 AM
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Do NOT read books by men to men about how to seduce women. Its the worst possible advice & this is exactly why your perception of reality is so bent out of shape.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:01 AM
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I was going to support the comment until I got to the end where you said how its sucks that men have to deal with that secret sign language as if men's feelings are giant neon signs above their heads. Besides the silliness of that on its face, let me point out again for men that men are dangerous to women & part of women's lives is trying to navigate is this man's interest in me romance? Or abuse? Or will he beat me or kill me? Women & girls are assaulted every 9 seconds in America, one of the w…
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:00 AM
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This is another example of how often men think there are right equations & wrong equations. That if you work out enough, but not too much & not too little, & you make enough money, again, not crazy rich but not poor, & then you get the number, there are texts that will work & texts that won't. In reality, my advice would depend entirely on the details on the circumstance. How old is she, how old are you, where do you know her from, what interactions have you had so far, what do you know about he…
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:33 AM
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What's interesting is that you seem to think that a woman that YOU find more attractive is somehow also so different from a woman you find less attractive, that you malfunction. They are still both women & while perhaps most people with agree with you that woman A is not as attractive as woman B, you've somehow convinced yourself that they are world's apart instead of just women. It sounds like you're psyching yourself out, which may have more to do with how YOU see YOU, your own self worth.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:34 AM
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You stop being a loner by doing things with other people. You do things with other people by going to where people go to do things. You could start with online groups that share likes of yours, gaming, comics, movies, books, etc. Go into it to just make friends & go from there. Its kind of strange that there are all these men seduction gurus & yet men seem to have no idea how to mingle with other people.
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:14 AM
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I have always tried to be as honest as I can to people that I want to respect & be respected by. This obsession men have where they think they have to have sex, lots of sex, to prove their worth is as lame as women being taught that the only thing worthy about them is their looks. We all know this stuff, that those are shitty ways to live, so why do it. If you're a virgin say you're a virgin. I promise, if you try to hide it, you'll be found out & then the woman will think ok, this guy is fragil…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:30 AM
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This is a whole new toxic take on being nice. Well done on the mental gymnastics you've achieved!
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:27 AM
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I would tell you that although women enjoy being fun, & they like men that are funny, having a man's respect is a rare thing, so shaking her hand was a good move. It also breaks what I call the "touch barrier" which is normally when a woman casually touches you,& its a real sign that she's feeling more comfortable at least & may be into you. You breaking that with a handshake is great too, now see if she reciprocates in some way. Taking it slow is GREAT, we often rush in & we & they often miss s…
/r/seduction27/08/22 02:05 AM
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I would like ten million dollars, given to me as a free gift. Equally likely to happen.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:52 AM
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My recommendation is to offer YOUR number to her & if she says ok, give it to her & tell her she can hit you up anytime. Men that are aware that women have to always think about danger, look better as potential partners. It lets her know that you're interested but the ball is in her court.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:05 AM
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Its weird that you're confident, & good looking & you think she might be into you, but you want to pass notes with her friends? Go up to her, say hello, ask what her name is. Do NOT walk into it with the expectation she'll react the way you'd like. Just go meet her, talk about anything except how hot you think she is, or how much you want to hook up or date. Just go be friendly & see how that goes. When I was in my mid 20's, I worked at a supermarket, a small chain of just 3 stores, they liked t…
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:34 AM
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I love all these answers. Man, this reddit is wild, I don't know how y'all survive your own world views. Women, & men, can both have their feelings change. It can be for a variety of reasons. Sure, a woman or a man, might think they can do better, or find someone better, & then later decide they actually had a good thing. Or someone can be an active addicts or an alcoholic, or have mental health issues, they could have had no good role models growing up. This can happen often for women, includin…
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:32 AM
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Sometimes, for young men, the problem is your motives & intention. You may be too focused on the idea of dating or sex, & you should start by meeting women as people. Don't do what so many men do, look for any woman they are most attracted to, & then try to chat them up. That can create an immediate "conflict" of perception from the woman. But if you just start by seeing them as people, what are they interested in, what hobbies do they have, what are their families like, just general parts of li…
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:44 AM
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Are you confused about what polite is? Just be polite. "Hey, just wanted to let you know that I'm not going to stay in touch after this." You can make it better by adding a bit more, if you want, like "I really enjoy when we did (that thing you did), but I've decided to break contact. Of course, the real issue here is that you are yet another man who can't seem to handle being friends with women you aren't going to sleep with, which suggests that you don't see them as legitimate people, as peopl…
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:42 AM
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I disagree. You don't have the right to thrust yourself into someone's space, time, day etc because you're human. And if people react negatively towards you, its much more likely that YOU did something to warrant it as opposed to random people just freaked out for no reason. Given that you're throwing this "advice" in a group about seducing women, with a total disregard of what women experience, worry, fear, etc, where you suggest that you have every right to say anything you want & screw them i…
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:30 AM
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Its always interesting to me how often men think women are some kind of way, independent of anything else. As if women just are, & are not responding to YOU. First, as I've said dozens of times, women do NOT like men just randomly approaching them, especially for a date or sex. They say this every day, in multiple forums, & yet men keep coming here to talk to other men & then argue about what women say or do or mean. And if you insert yourself into a person's social circle, you shouldn't expect …
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:10 AM
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I wanna say that its good that you are self aware enough to recognize that you're being a shitty person. That gives you a leg up on changing that, & its pretty rare for men to be that self aware, more rare to actually change it. Now, why do women react that way? Although being a parent is the hardest job on the planet, we do not teach anyone how to be a great parent. We do not teach people about good mental health tools, or what are healthy relationships, from family to friends to romances. We d…
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:06 AM
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Man, this group. Just when you think you've seen the most ridiculous thing, you see a new, most ridiculous thing. Many, perhaps even most women are intelligent & curious & eager to learn things & try things. The data we have, illustrates that because of the way we raise boys & girls, men often think they are smarter & more capable than they actually are when tested, & its the opposite for women. If you'd like to meet women with the same interests, go do those interests. If you like role playing …
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:35 AM
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Rare for me to see someone make sense here, but well done.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:13 AM
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Women hate this. Please stop trying it. Just be a normal human, make friendships, participate in groups, work at a job, meet women, get to know them. Women do not exist in the world waiting for some random dude that feels attracted to them will interrupt their day to demand their attention & hope to hook up.
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:04 AM
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I love that you think this. As if there's just no way for a man to ever figure out how to make himself look his best. lol
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:21 AM
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I can't speak for everyone, but my basis for that position is talking to actual women. Of course, I'm almost 50 & throughout my life, the majority of my friendships, working relationships, romantic relationships & family relationships have all been with women. I also read books by women, articles by women, watch youtube videos made by women, read the posts of all the women in my life & then the comments from all the women those women know. I also keep track of the research & data on these topics…
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:20 AM
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This is exactly why women are so exhausted with men. You should also just make your position clear first so that each woman knows you want her in a relationship with you so she doesn't waste her time thinking you're an adult who can be attracted to a woman without forcing her to date you or go away.
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:14 AM
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I should maybe also add, that the large majority of my friendships & other relationships are with women, young women from 19-25, slightly older women in the 30's & older woman around my age as well. And I do a regular post on FB these days where I copy & paste a post from here & let my friends see it. The young women usually think men here are just naive & are probably saying these foolish things to seem cool or get a rise out of others. The older women often share their experiences about men wh…
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:14 AM
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It sounds to me like you've come to this conclusion because you don't personally know someone that doesn't like it, which is VERY odd because you seem to think people that disagree with you on Reddit are not real people? Depending on your age, your ability to socialize & make friends, where you live, your personality, you may never even be exposed to those people, that doesn't mean they don't exist. This is DEEPLY dumb man. Try, just to learn, Google "Do any women like cold approaching?" & start…
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:08 AM
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Assuming you are a woman, asking a men's group for their opinions & if you've read the answers, you've already realized it was a mistake. I will point out that this subreddit is specifically for men trying to learn better techniques on dating or sleeping with women, & implicit in that is a disregard for the woman. Men will read that & be upset, but if you spend some time in this forum, you see it every day, especially when a man will ask the group why they never want to hear advice from women, &…
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:35 AM
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If you text them, & they text you back, & seem willing to be texting, you can text them. If you text them, & they don't text back, don't text again. If you text them, & they text back & either say don't text me or don't seem interested, don't text again. Y'all act like there's a right equation to interact with women. Women who want to interact with you will make that obvious by doing it.
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:31 AM
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Men here often seem to think that there's an equation or a plan that you can design to become more flirtatious. But that's not how it works. Flirtation is like adding a little flavor to the otherwise casual conversation & generally it comes naturally because you're doing it back & forth. What one woman finds flirtatious, another woman may not. The first woman I ever dated/slept with/married, we talked about our families, about her crazy mom & controlling dad, while I talked about the insanity of…
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:34 AM
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You know that commercial with the woman posting pictures to her wall in her apt & her friend says "That's not how that works?" That's you.
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:50 AM
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I wish a researcher would hang out in this subreddit & do a study on where men get their ideas about women even though they don't talk to women, follow women, are friends with women, & they argue with each other about why that is. I mean mostly y'all pick a team & then debate who's got the best plan, all while rehashing outdated male ideas about women. Or, like here, something happened & that suddenly "informed" the OP about how the world works. Y'all are always very certain that there's a right…
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:18 AM
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The weird part is that anyone thinks its weird to ask. The way this becomes an issue is when men are attracted to women, but don't say it & become friends. The woman thinks they are friends, but the man is obsessing about a romantic relationship. Then he finally reveals it & she's upset because now she figures that's the end of the friendship because men often can't handle being friends with a woman they wanted to date. I'm almost 50, & I've been friend with women & never dated, I've been cowork…
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:40 AM
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Women typically talk about a partner if they think they need to. So if a man seems like he's pressuring her without saying it, she's say it. If men would just stop being so weird about it, they could just ask.
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:33 AM
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This subreddit is like a basement of angry men. Women that I actually know are business owners, artists, gamers,game designers, authors, comic writers, comic artists, they make movies, they act, they are activists, they work with kids, they are teachers, they are often also mothers. Women can do anything men can do & have for hundreds of years. The biggest social issue for men is that for hundreds of years they have been told they are the bread winners, the family protectors, the workers, the hu…
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:47 AM
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nope, also dumb. Women are not inamanmate objects, nor are they animals. By this logic, we should start asking women how to better understand men. Its just profoundly stupid. nope, also dumb. Women are not inanimate objects, nor are they animals. By this logic, we should start asking women how to better understand men. Its just profoundly stupid.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:45 AM
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You entirely missed the point kid. I'm giving you great advice, but you're too young to see it. The fact that you focused entirely on that fact that I said your one idea is literally the worst thing you could do, & that learning more about what women want would be the best thing you could do, you got stuck on the part where I said stick to the right spaces. But hey, do your thing, I'm practically an old man now, with kids & grandkids & you won't listen even if I told you about all the women I ev…
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:15 AM
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DO NOT "cold approach" women anywhere except a bar or club or place that organizes some form of dating event. Join a dating site, or many dating sites & feel free to message any woman on the site. If they don't respond or don't want to go any further, leave them alone. Men spend so much time & energy telling other men how to seduce, date, approach, etc women. Except that data shows (Time just put together a brand new article on this) are more single than ever & if you pay attention to what women…
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:33 AM
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I can prove it actually, too. Go to Walmart, stay all day, go several days in a row & look at the couples. Count how many of the men are super hot. If women only dated super attractive men, why are there so many humans on the planet? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:05 AM
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Almost every woman I know in a relationship, in fact over the course of my almost 50 years of life, almost none of the men have been stunning. Women care more about how you act & treat them than how you look.This is why so many men are unhappy & angry, they all listen to other men taking advantage of them, teaching them nonsense for cash & fame, & y'all can't date because you have no idea what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:04 AM
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Haha, you're not using science. You're following seduction gurus who teach terrible behaviors that women hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:03 AM
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Again, if you focus less on what men say & more on what women say, you'd discover that women are often not focused on appearance, they are focused on how they get treated. Every woman I've ever known in almost 50 years of life has dated men that were balding, overweight, not real bright, etc, flawed men in your perception. But if you treat a woman well, not only will she stay with you, but even if you are not that attractive, she will become more attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:02 AM
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Its really important for men to understand how dangerous men are. Women have every right to be cautious & if you can't handle meeting them in stages & being ok with that, then perhaps you aren't really ready either. Most men seem to think only some men are bad or dangerous, but in American, the data says women are assaulted every 9 seconds. In other countries, its much less. We also have the world record for most convicted serial killers. The plain truth is that so many men are fragile & angry, …
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:59 AM
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If you pay me I'll teach you what you're doing wrong. You can afford it.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:04 AM
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I mean, depending on the details, it can but doesn't have to. Yes, most women, especially in their 30's & up, expect a man to be on his own. But the fact is, in America, 80% of the population is poor or lives in poverty. If you were living at home & playing video games all day long, then you weren't get far in a relationship, but it sounds like you are working towards a future you want in a way that might be best for you. I think as long as you're upfront about that, you'll both lose anyone who …
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:04 AM
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I think many of you are misunderstanding what flirting IS. Flirting is not a script, or a tone of voice, or joking or talking about sex. Its a style of communication, that can be applied to ANYTHING. How I flirt with 1 woman is entirely different with a different woman. I flirted with 1 woman cuz she made a crack about sex & I told her I'm hit it so hard that she'd fall into a sex coma,would lose her sense of reality. She came on strong & her flirtations were more like challenges so I responded …
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:20 AM
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Lord this is stupid advice.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:11 AM
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I certainly hope so. It was dumb as best & open harassment at worst. I'll say this over & over, stop asking other men to teach you how to interact with women - start paying attention to what women say about interacting with men. Men love to think only some men are bad, you'll often see men tell women that they must have been dating boys instead of men, but the reality is men's behavior is pretty bad, men are deeply fragile & resistant to growth, especially the ones who send me hate mail to prove…
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:03 AM
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Its always funny to me how often men tell other men to not show interest because you don't want to seem desperate, as if there's no middle ground. Women, like all humans, like to know that someone is into them. What's really wild is none of the men here responding have asked IF they know each other, what background do they have, what has happened so far, etc. Its all "oh yeah dude, I get attracted to women too, & here are the ways to not look desperate, but we don't need to discuss IF she is eve…
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:31 AM
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Honestly, if she's not texting you back quickly, she's probably not interested in you romantically. Going by what you've said here, YOU find her really attractive & don't want to miss your shot, but there's zero evidence that you have any form of relationship. Just because you are attracted to a woman & want to ask her out, doesn't mean she's interested in that & men must understand that women live under the "male gaze" constantly. Too many men ONLY look at women in those terms, am I attracted t…
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:27 AM
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Let me help translate this. Stop treating women like objects that exist only for your pleasure. Start treating women like people, like actual, regular human people. You'll notice that when you do that, women appreciate it. And perhaps, after slowly becoming a decent person, one of them might try to spend more time with you. Hint: Women have been saying this for decades.
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:09 AM
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The best advice I can give you, which I give all the time here, is stop talking to men about what women like, want, expect, etc & start listening & talking to women about what WOMEN look for, dislike, what they experience in their lives etc. I am an older man now, grew up with no internet & women were a mystery. All we had were Playboy & the like, where men who controlled the content created the ideas & male ideals of what women should be. Most young people, men & women these days, grow up with …
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:32 AM
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I'm not sure why you need them to be attractive to YOU in order to be friends, that seems disingenuous. But its pretty simple. Be considerate, be kind, be compassionate, and make it clear that you're not trying to date them or sleep with them. Basically, the same way you would make friends with men.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:36 AM
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This is why I always take a look at other posts from people - this same man, who is 27, argued with someone who researches data about erectile dysfunction, that data doesn't mean anything if its not a scientific debate - And I quote: "not everything has to be scientifically peer reviewed, especially when it comes to things like sex, the topics get a little touchy and most people are not going to share their sex lives with their doctors or a random scientist. I will tell you my personal experienc…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:52 AM
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Its odd that you leaped to hate speech even though what was said was very clear. A negative stereotype IS a form of racism, whether its from someone not of that race or in the race. C'mon, its 2022, you have access to the internet, learn what racism is.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:40 AM
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Additionally to what I said in my own comment, so many modern men get these stats & figures from other men & never really try to learn about it. I can't find any actual data that says white women prefer white men. lol https://www.asanet.org/sites/default/files/attach/journals/apr20srefeature.pdf
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:38 AM
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Wow. Just wow. First, there are certainly some similarities & differences between the "races." Certainly white people are often raised differently, they have different access to things, different levels of support, as well as less of those things, depending on what we're talking about. Everyone should understand by now that white men don't get the same treatment from cops as black men, & that institutional racism is a real thing & that touches most black people, as well as other People of Color.…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:36 AM
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I just need to point out that if a woman read this, she'd see massive red flags right away. The idea that a homeless person saying hello must be about to beg for $ or that your mom showing she cares about you is "viscerally unattractive" - woo, you have got some issues to work out. I don't have enough time to really go through the rest of this enormous comment (& I'm long winded) because that bit says SO much about you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:03 AM
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Wow, that other answer is so long & so unnecessary. Vulnerability, something that many women really appreciate in men, because its so rare, is when you are willing to show real emotions in life. It can be choosing to share abuse you grow up with, or that you're filled with social anxiety. Its the opposite of the arrogant, over confident, alpha male who is so obviously afraid of real emotions, real connections that may hurt him, etc. Being needy may mean different things to different people, but …
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:00 AM
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First, divorce yourself from the entire seduction guru world & philosophy. Its all trash, its all empty, & frankly, most women despise it. Focus on some basic humanity. Don't focus on being successful at dating or getting sex, just meet humans with no expectations, no motivations, no push to control or influence the relationship. I completely stopped dating a few years ago. I started paying more attention to women's experiences, which you can find all over the internet in articles, blogs, posts,…
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:10 AM
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I don't really follow every term in the selection guru nonsense advice, most of it is misleading men for profit, so I'm not sure what invest in yourself might mean, though I can make an educated guess. Making your body healthy is great, but the biggest issues men have today is that they often have no real friendships, no good family relationships, no real goals, no real hobbies, & do things that make them feel good/better but those things can't usually become a more meaningful thing. Men are dee…
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:47 AM
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This is deeply silly & gross. Don't tell men to "cold approach" random women. Its scary or makes them angry. Women don't exist so you can figure out if you're good looking.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:35 AM
2

Here's the thing you should learn. I might think you are very attractive, but someone else may not. Its also true, for women especially (& many men don't get this) but a woman can find a man more attractive based on his behavior. Men can experience that as well of course, but most women will say that. I myself (man) have dated women & thought they were the most attractive woman I'd ever been with. But years after the relationship ended, I see them & I'm really not sure what I was so into, which …
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:34 AM
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The first thing to do is STOP reading seduction/dating books, sites, blogs, videos, etc. The men & at least 1 woman I know of that try to sell themselves as experts are usually lying or at least wrong. You should pay attention to women that talk about their experiences, both good & bad, especially if they talk about what they like & don't like. You should pretty quickly realize that the majority of women hate the whole seduction culture & how gross it is. Women can talk about what they are inter…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:31 AM
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Its almost weird to see decent advice here, but well done!
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:48 AM
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I mean yes, in some ways, this is perfect, men rarely listen, rarely pay attention to the woman's experiences, many times not even believing them half the time. But the other thing is that all of the women I know are problem solvers because men are fragile, think they are smarter & more capable than they are, & they expect women to handle a lot of things, feeling that's just the way of things. Most of the men I know or know of are delivering pizza & playing video games & getting tattoos as their…
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:48 AM
1

Be honest, don't try to be what you're not. Practice communication.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:03 AM
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Wait, you can't control your own behavior & so you avoid revealing to women who you are to trick them into thinking you're not problematic? lol
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:09 AM
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The whole "high value" man stuff is a scam. Those men are making money off of your insecurity & convincing you you're supposed to be assertive in the wrong way, to act like you don't care what they do. That will typically give the woman exactly that impression & be less likely to attract them. Its good to show that you're interested, women, people respond to that, they like to be desired, to have someone show a special interest in them. Its not weak, or gay, or low value or whatever other dumb s…
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:08 AM
1

First, its absolutely matters how you say anything to anyone. 2nd, I tell anyone, but men especially because they notoriously get a girl to date them & then slack off, that when you want to be with someone, we often pursue them & then settle into the relationship like its a done deal & your relationship will be better if you can recognize that no one has to stay with you, that a hundred other options exist, so if you want someone to stay with you, you should continue to earn their time & affecti…
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:06 AM
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This is ALL such awful advice. Have you noticed that when Trump was elected, how conservatives created conspiracy theories, they got worse, some people realized that if you made some videos of yourself, had some self confidence, & could put a slightly different spin on the conspiracy theories (like Q of QAnon), you could rise in the rank of the cult, of the MAGA crowd, you could get a certain amount of fame, you could cash in on the conspiracies, etc, more & more people started coming up with th…
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:02 AM
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Joe, women don't need your advice. Do you get paid to hype other men's nonsense? Are you trying to build your own seduction business? lol
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:55 AM
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Imagine, if this is real, being the type of man who is so selfish, that he doesn't care about the effects of his behavior, he just wants to amuse himself, make himself feel special & important, & not for helping people, for fixing things, for creating anything, no, he's going out there, to target women, not as people, not as partners, not for anything more than his personal enjoyment. And then he came to boast about it, patted himself on the back, logged off Reddit & thought to himself, man, I w…
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:54 AM
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I mean yes, having a sense of self worth is good for your whole life, & of course relationships. But the idea that a surgeon, who wants to sell surgery, saying this, & then men being like aha! We have proof now - is silly. And the most important thing in life is balance, so yes, you should have a sense of self worth, that you are good enough for some basic interactions, but you also need to be honest with yourself so that you don't teeter too far that way. This whole Reddit cracks me up though, …
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:27 AM
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Focus on life dude, date when you have something to offer a partner, when you know what you want in life, you shouldn't even be worrying about this so much.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:53 AM
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You're only 16 & can't figure out why you're struggling? Most men don't know what they are doing then. lol I lost my virginity at 17.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:52 AM
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Its weird that you know what you're doing wrong but somehow aren't sure what to do. Stop doing the things you clearly know isn't working. Secondly, start looking at what women say they are looking for, what they don't like, etc. Women all over the internet write blogs, essays, articles, post videos, etc. Pay attention to that & adopt good practices.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:51 AM
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oh god, you've really just swallowed all of the sexist & misogynistic koolaid huh? I bet, if I could see your FB, it would be not too many friends, most of them women, most of them models or sex workers, who you love to look at but kind of hate because you want them, but you hate that you want them. You've been single & unsuccessful, but it makes you feel good to tell other men what they should do. If you can do, teach right? So gross.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:27 AM
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In every part of my life, I prefer compassionate honesty. But I wonder if this person was honest with you & you don't believe them so now you think they were misleading?
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:55 AM
1

the very fact that you refer to women as sexual marketplace really proves my suspicion. I think you would probably say some nonsense about better bodies or younger features but in reality you like that they are easier to manage & you don't need to do much to impress them. Your sister has you pegged.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:06 AM
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Yes it is weird. Why do you want to date women that young? Because they have so little life experience they are easier to manipulate or influence? Its is because older women are more experienced & expect more from men at that age but you like being less mature? The idea that age doesn't matter is ridiculous because we know its matters at very young ages, & we know that when someone becomes a legal adult that doesn't transform them into the same adult as a 30 year old adult. You need to analyze y…
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:03 AM
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Here's the thing, if they were useless, why would they exist? That just doesn't make sense. More importantly, you want us to support your idea that women just want attention, but why would they need a dating app for that? Couldn't they just use their social media? Couldn't they make an Onlyfans & get paid for attention? Of course they could! So the thing you need to work on is why you think this about women, & perhaps its your attitude & interior belief system that's turning women away from you.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:08 AM
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I really don't understand why people don't choose therapy for their mental health issues. I mean I didn't because my old man was a psychotherapist & he decided that my issues were because I was inherently broken, that I was an insane, angry child, from birth & he raised me to believe that so I felt very strongly that he was crazy & I avoided therapy & meds. Instead, I self medicated, with drugs, scotch, women, work & fighting. I wasted much of my life doing that until I was ready to die. I lost …
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:33 AM
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The best place in life is in balance. You went from "I must suck" to " these women suck" all because you now have sex with them. That's a YOU problem that you need to address.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:06 AM
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Its a bad thing. Sleeping with lots of women isn't bad in itself but the fact that you're not in control of what's happening is the bad thing. If you were meeting women, just for sex, that's fine, as long as you're being honest about that with the women. But it sounds like you can't appreciate them & now just want to experience the chase & probably the success of getting them to sleep with you, which is ultimately a very empty thing. You need to analyze your behavior & figure out why you're feel…
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:05 AM
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Be honest.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:30 AM
1

This is a bizarre question. Its weird that you think your personal issues, with multiple women, must be because women are screwed up. You're the common denominator. But even asking it, do you live in a forest alone where you've never seen married couples, happy couples, do you not see people on the internet in lasting relationships? Are you honest asking if we think ALL women do this & how does that play out? Do you think all men are going through this? Wouldn't there be at least one article by …
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:12 AM
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And you are not getting to see what they think on sex lol. You're possibly getting their feeling on male strippers, but more likely, they quickly decide that you're misleading them & now they have to figure out why? Are you just nervous, are you a liar, are you insecure?
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:20 AM
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Women are going to wonder why you're leading with a lie. When you explain its just a joke they will wonder if you would always admit that or just when you get caught. Why do men insist on gimmicks to talk to women? They are human too, they think & experience many of the same things. If you don't have anything to talk about, then puck up more things, hobbies, interests, ideas, reading, research, activities, etc.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:18 AM
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The most important thing here is that you figure out if she liked your stories because she liked your stories or because she liked you. Men have a terrible habit of thinking that because a woman liked their pic or liked their post, it must therefore mean that they like them romantically. Since you have no proof of that, stick to things that are NOT how hot you think they are, how attracted to them you are, or do they want to date? If you know them in real life, then invite them to a real life ci…
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:19 AM
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None of the women I know would be excited to be challenged to compete as a date. They would like to experience something & if the best line you have is "I'm good at something, bet I'm better than you," I'd suggest you work on that a lot more. Something better would be I know this great venue for music, or I know this place with amazing food, or ar you into any sort of art, when's the last time you went to a museum?
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:16 AM
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Its weird that you're right when you say that men shouldn't expect sex for being nice, but you also seem to think its fine for men to approach women romantically or sexually as practice objects. Doesn't seem to treat women well in the 2nd circumstance.
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:14 AM
1

I promise you, all the time spent in front of your mirror practicing sexy eyes is not gonna work for you. There are spaces that women voluntarily enter because they are open to being approached. All other spaces are their own, not related to your desire or how attractive you think they are. It's creepy, stop doing it.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:09 AM
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Women lie about having a boyfriend for 2 main reasons. One is that generally when men think another man has CLAIMED the female meat as their own, they back off, which is already gross. But the main reason is that men are DANGEROUS. Look at just the data, or look at women when they post about an experience & EVERY woman they know comments about their bad experiences. I watched a video of a man who had been arrested. In the video the police shared, a woman pulls into a gas station, midday, broad d…
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:07 AM
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Cold approching is an idea men came up with. Women all that harassment. Imagine you're doing anything & some guy comes up to & tries to force a conversation on you. Would you like that? Probably not so why would women like it? And really, the men who promote that are really telling you to try it to "practice" approaching women you really want to be with, which means who gives a shit about this woman, she just existed for me to deal with my anxiety. And what if women were out there teaching other…
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:03 AM
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First, you deserve sympathy when you struggle & its toxic to think that you need to say that before you share that you're struggling. We should all be more empathetic. Second, you're not weird, you're inexperienced & it makes you uncomfortable, which can have a variety of issues then. My advice, which I say all the time here & many men get very upset, is stop talking to other men about what they think you should do. Start looking towards what women say they like AND what they hate. Women are pos…
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:41 AM
1

Here's the problem with this advice - one, how does one get more confident? 2, what is confidence? Because many men think they are super confident but what they actually are is arrogant & cocky & women really don't like that. They think being confident means being commanding, many seduction "experts" tell men that what women really want is to be controlled & commanded, which is the exact opposite of what most want. I was born with a natural sense of self worth, which is a true form of confidence…
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:46 AM
1

You're right, but for some wrong reasons. Porn is really where many men & women get their main sex education. This can affect them both in different negative ways. Women can end up thinking the entire goal is the guy's orgasm or if you're as old as I am, you can remember how porn has changed over time & gotten more aggressive or abusive in content, & men & women can both think that's what you're supposed to do or expect to have done to you. Its also very unrealistic, especially for men, most men…
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:39 AM
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Its amazing that this is what you're thinking about. For the record, there are no damsels in distress, that is a romantic idea from the past, from a pretty specific era in time, when in reality, women have been saving themselves & doing many of the things men have done. The fact that more don't has more to do with our cultures & nothing to do with their ability. How about instead of dreaming up fantasies of how you'll use a global tragedy to get laid, you check out what many of the women in Ukra…
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:09 AM
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You've certainly put more thought & effort into this than many men & I like that you recognize the unlikeliness of a cold approach working (here in America, many dating "experts" preach this but most women hate &/or are scared when it happens, so not only is it unlikely, but you're doing harm. I just don't know enough about Egypt to really give much detailed answers, but let me say again that your instincts seem to be good & although you are access online sources, you don't seem to fall victim t…
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:42 AM
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I think you should be a bit more honest about why you're doing it, because you don't need to do it for stamina & masculinity & there is no such thing as blue balls in the context you're using. I stopped dating & stopped having sex a few years ago because I couldn't put in the time & energy to do it AND treat the other person with real respect. My masculinity hasn't vanished or wilted & my penis & balls aren't going to explode if I don't release the sperm. lol I don't masturbate either. I do thin…
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:58 AM
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I say this all the time here - there is no true & perfect method of courtship that you can apply to all people, meaning you can't teach straight men a perfect method for straight women, or any other gender or sexual interest. If I were to tell you everything that works for me, you couldn't use it, because you admittedly struggle with certain things that I happen to be great at. And likewise, even if you & I were exactly the same & we agreed on the right method for you & I, that never means that …
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:44 AM
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Once again, practicing approaching women is pretty gross. Women don't exist for you to practice with. There are spaces for romance & all other spaces are not acceptable. men teaching other men how to seduce women is deeply dumb considering that none of you ever talk to actual women about their experiences or likes & dislikes, yet you still feel confident to "teach" other men what to do. Now, let me also point out that you don't show ANY women in the video, so I suspect, like so many seduction "e…
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:21 AM
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Its important to remember that there is never going to be a set way to flirt, date or have sex. Everyone is different, so even if a method works with one woman, it won't necessarily work with another. But again, I say this all the time, many of you young men research & speak to other men, as opposed to women, & you're always caught off guard about what women say, do, want, etc. If you spent more time following women who post about these things reading the articles, blogs & essays they write, wom…
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:00 AM
1

This is a great example of how women are different from men, & how men get really judgy about women being free to have sex & men doing the same thing. God forbid women have lives. All the single men at work getting angry about the guy having fun & girls having fun.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:07 AM
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What is true for you is not also true for everyone else. A better way to say this would be, "For me, I don't know if I'll ever feel ready. So I've decided to stop waiting for some ready feeling, & just forge ahead." Its also very important to either have a system of consent, "Can I kiss you?" or be able to recognize that you're being invited. It would be very easy to turn this idea into "go for it" & you end up going for it when its not wanted because you're so focused on YOUR need to get past t…
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:54 AM
0

men CONSTANTLY randomly DM girls & women. Models, muscians, writers, reporters, fat girls, skinny girls, tall girls, every race, every nation. Constant.
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:09 AM
1

Weird, almost as if you got lucky the first time & then reality set in. lol
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:08 AM
1

Women don't accept creepy behavior just because they think you are attractive. That is often how men see the world, which women is fuckable, datable, marriage worthy, etc. Women, in general, don't care that much about looks, & its only men telling other men that they do. Y'all live in an echo chamber of men convincing men what women want.
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:07 AM
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Men get really upset with me about this but WOMEN DON"T WANT PRIVATE MESSAGES FROM YOU. They HATE men that write "Hey." They hate it when men start talking about how hot they are, or how they were watching her at work, or you liked her post. There are spaces for dating, sex, romance, stick to those spaces. Women are bombarded, daily, from as young as 5 years old, to what men see, think & want about their bodies. They want to live lives where they don't need to consider how dangerous you are if t…
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:05 AM
1

Yeah, women are usually very empathetic, & pretty willing to work with a guy. But they are so fragile, but can't be vulnerable, can't even admit they are fragile, so they just fall apart into shame or rage. My daughter's current bf is the best one she's ever had. But once a week he's upset about dumb stuff, & he can barely bring himself to actually help with the issues because he feels "uncomfortable" with feeling fragile. Examples are, she has adhd, so her house is very cluttered, he is natural…
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:38 AM
1

Another thing I find really funny, do you ever look at men's reddit tags compared to women's reddit tags? Men use toilet humor, chad jokes, talk about their penises, while women never do, they have philosophy like this one, or science, or something from a movie, a book, art. It's VERY telling. lol
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:26 AM
1

Men these days are deeply fragile, scared of women, relationships, life, but the fear starts to make them angry, they go on Reddit to seduction forums, to talk to other men about their issues. They don't talk to women, they don't read any of the posts, articles, essays, blogs, or watch videos by women talking about their experiences & perspectives. They struggle to form real friendships, even with other men, torn between being weak & real or tough & safe, they misunderstand social change, & beli…
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:24 AM
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It really depends on the individual. Some have a great sense of who they are & what they want or what they are willing to do. But many, especially young, men AND women, are not sure, they aren't confident, they don't have a lot of self worth. A no, is absolutely a NO. A I don't know, is probably a no. But a maybe could be either. The real problem here is that instead of talking about her character, her personality, what makes her a PERSON, you talked about how attractive you find her to be. Wome…
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:53 AM
1

Oh, now you want to discuss details, but rather than asking the OP, who is right here answering, you want to expand on your assumptions on reality. lol
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:30 AM
1

Oof, just saw this one now. It sounds like you think non natives must not have a good job, & fuck her if she loeses it & screw it if he loses it. Dude please try therapy & give up giving advice.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:29 AM
1

Wow, just wow. I mean yeah, don't talk about dating at work, sure. But don't focus on the woman, you've been too focused already? Are you saying that all men should treat all women as sex buddies & never try to form a more lasting relationship? Cuz you didn't ask any questions about the person who posted this, or the woman, or their interactions, you immediately jumped to fuck her, move on, try to fuck other women too. For what? Are you too fragile to commit some emotions on women? Taking a look…
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:28 AM
1

Parenting is not an impossible task. You can take parenting classes, you can research good parenting techniques, you can form social groups to have support. Dude, you have a very limited view of many things.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:27 AM
1

Oh, very easy to deal with. My daughter dated a guy from South America, & while the exact words can be a little different, you can use an app for translation so she can type or even speak in her own language, you can understand it in yours, & vice versa.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:23 AM
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Something I hear so many women I know say, is how many men they date who can't clean up after themselves, can't be bothered to do any chores, wash the dishes, do their own laundry, learn to cook a meal, & when a woman gets tired to being their mother full time & she complains, men will often respond with things like, "But I treat you so well, I don't curse you out, & I don't hit you." Sadly, & I point this out all the time here, what most men who post here think is important is really not anythi…
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:05 AM
1

The best thing you can do is let go of expectations. Have conversations to have that experience. Don't go into them as I need to get this woman to like me, or date me. Just have conversations. But, be aware that women all know that men can be dangerous, they can be controlling, demanding, scary, manipulative, etc, so they are on high alert when you go to chat them up. If they seem nervous, best let them go. Men need to be aware of women's experiences instead of their focus on making themselves f…
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:05 AM
1

Be kind but not nice? Men today are so lost.
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:00 AM
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It should also be said that if YOU tell yourself that you are ugly, stupid, bad, etc, you will believe that. Its one thing to be realistic, to recognize your strengths & weaknesses, but so many young modern men are just cruel to themselves as if that's a virtue of some kind.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:10 AM
5

The idea that you must be conventionally attractive is so dumb. Have you ever been in public & seen the couples walking around? Fat people, ugly people, crippled people, disfigured people, tal, short, athletic, flabby, etc, etc. Humans have been banging & living together for centuries. If only the most attractive people were successful, we'd probably have a lot more beautiful people. Y'all get hung up on these very superficial ideas & ideals that just don't have the same evidence.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:08 AM
2

8 days ago, you were wondering about some girl, a few days ago you were talking some other girl, & now you're seeing 2 girls successfully? Why are you worried about these other girls if you can't figure out what to do with the 2 that are willing to spend time with you. You're creating your own problems.
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:09 AM
1

So rather than talk to them about what you're looking for, what you'll willing to do, etc, you've decided to come to Reddit & ask strangers, that you have no idea what their experiences, education, etc may be? Just talk to them.
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:07 AM
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Woof, the sheer level of animosity you have towards women that you clearly don't have much experience with is amazing. Keep going at them, with this attitude, & you virtually guarantee that you will always get attitude back, which in your mind, will prove that you were right, but will in fact be a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:07 AM
5

Hahahaha. It wild that you assume all women will "do wrong" & that you're equipped to call it out when this is the level of your wise advice for other men. Going to be a long single life for you.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:05 AM
2

First, why wouldn't you ask & second why are you leaping to sex with multiple men? That says more about your fears & fragility than anything about her.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:05 AM
2

Women have to deal with men all the time. Men hit on them on online, total strangers, sending them a personal message. They get hit on while they are working, from coworkers & customers. They get hit on while they are walking. Girls that may not be conventionally attractive, also get hit on, fat girls, quirky girls, etc, but in those cases, men get even angrier when they say no, because men feel like they aren't hot enough to say no. Women get cat called & hit on as they walk down the street. Th…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:22 AM
1

my man, you are a complete mess.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:15 AM
1

Did you just suggest that he step in front of a walking woman & if she stops then he should talk to her? Great plan, be aggressive & if they are nervous enough to talk, then she must be into you huh? Good lord.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:14 AM
2

It seems to me that you are pretty judgmental but don't like the idea that other people are making judgments about you. But romantic or social rejection is the same thing as trying something new & not doing it well the first time, only when its social, it seems to crush people, but maybe change your perspective. If you picked up a guitar & couldn't learn a song the first day, its not the end of the world. You're not attracted to everyone & not everyone is attracted to you, but its near impossibl…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:12 AM
5

The concept that there are "high value" men is really very silly. Its normal to not be confident. Its normal to hate rejection. Its normal to obsess about relationships. And learning good mental health tools are ABUNDANTLY better than trying to force your brain to abandoned any sense of rejection & force yourself to hunt down a new girl. That will create disfunction in all of your relationships as you avoid any bad or negative feeling cuz its too hard for you to handle, & push yourself on others…
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:02 AM
1

You can't just assume that everything that's important to you is the same for all women, or men. There are certainly human patterns, & gender patterns etc. But I'm a white cis male who has seduced avowed lesbians more than once. Now, granted, you could say they were bi & had just never met a guy they liked enough, but its also true that in their descriptions of themselves up to that point, they would never sleep with a guy. Which just illustrates that all of us can have decisions in our heads & …
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:04 AM
1

Smoking weed will lower your anxiety, but also slows your thinking. In the last almost 50 years of my life, out of all the people I have known that smoked weed, 5 of them were highly functional when stoned. All of them were brilliant already, & smoking mellowed out their very active minds, it helped them calm some & focus. The majority of people though, get slow, lazy, a little dumb. Which is not an attack, you're allowed to enjoy that but here, we're talking about is this an effective tool when…
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:52 AM
5

Yes, of course! Women only care about physical size & strength, so the bigger you get the better relationship you get. That's just science!
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:56 AM
2

I'm glad that it went well for you, & more glad that she seemed ok with it. But the majority of women do not want men approaching them just because you are attracted to them. Seduction experts that suggest this behavior are misleading you, mostly because they seem to believe that women secretly love pushy, arrogant & demanding men, but trust me, they do not. There are arenas for dating, stick to those spaces, let women live their lives. They already know & have to deal with men desiring them fro…
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:29 AM
1

I'm not sure that you can train yourself to be witty or make witty connections between things. I think that's really a talent you have or don't. But you could just try any of the apps for training your brain to work better, but there are limits to what people can do. I struggle with anything with numbers even though in most other areas I'm very smart. Years ago, working to get my GED, I did a pretest to see where I needed to work, I did very well on everything but math, so we spend the next coup…
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:20 AM
8

2 things. 1 is that we are "taught" that being alone is bad. Women who are alone in their adult years are crazy old cat ladies & have been shunned throughout history. Bachelors are acceptable as long as they are still sleeping with many women. Most people are so desperate for human contact, for support, for love, for someone to just hear them, see them, to understand them, that they date serially, one person after the next, terrified of being alone with themselves. And you feel jealous because y…
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:31 AM
7

That sort of life tends to be dangerous & pretty empty besides the search for the rush. I lived life that way for a while & in some ways it was fun but there are no real rewards. A good life is far better.
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:48 AM
0

The majority of modern women want men to ask them out in APPROPRIATE places. Not where you both work, though sometimes that's ok. Not where they work & you're a customer. Not on the street, not at the gym, women get bombarded by the attention from men, & if you ask most women when did they first realize men looked at them in a sexual way, the ages tend to be between 5 years old & 12 years old. Everything they wear, do, enjoy, etc, is subject to the male gaze. The more you understand that, & stic…
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:13 AM
4

Sadly, these women exist in most places but the cultures they live in destroy them. Too thin, too fat, too pretty, not pretty enough, too tall, too short, too smart, too dumb, too emotional, too needy, too much clothing, not enough clothing, too pure, too sexy, too into you, not into you enough. Women, throughout history, have proven time & time again that they are resilient, tough, caring, empathetic, compassionate, brave, strong, bold, & most of all - capable. If we support them, listen to the…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:19 AM
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The funniest thing about men who use the term chad, is that's its doubly ridiculous. Because there are not alpha males. Even the idea that an alpha, based on the idea that the alpha male wolf is the hardcore, cool, tough leader of the wolf pack is based on a toxic misunderstanding of how wolf packs operate. A health pack does have an alpha male, alpha being the first letter in that alphabet, but there is also an alpha female wolf in the pack. They lead together & while yes, since wolves don't us…
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:52 AM
1

First, I want to say that its normal to feel bad about this & you shouldn't feel any shame about it, or like you're not allowed to feel that way. You are not allowed to blame everyone else for it, or women in general, but it doesn't sound like you are, I just mention it because some men do. There are several ways to go about changing this, one is just try dating, use a dating site, go on dates, don't have any expectations & understand that it will be a learning experience. And I think if you're …
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:12 AM
1

I didn't have my first gf until I was almost 17. I'm amazed that you think you are entitled to one before that AND that you think children dating is somehow so amazing that its upsetting you haven't done it yet. Kids that date are filled with drama kid. Grow up, become a person, life spans are long now, why are you in such a rush & why do you think your self worth is dependant on this?
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:13 AM
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Be honest, show interest, not in their appearance or how attracted you are, in other things, start with neutral stuff, tv shows that are popular, or movies. I would avoid the entire "seduction" gameplan, most of it is very misleading & really preying on you not teaching you how to meet women. Just be human.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:52 AM
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10 days ago you were dating a woman who seems to have stopped talking to you. Now you're sweeping women off their feet with this? Suss.
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:45 AM
-1

I don't really believe this. None of the guys asked you what the hell you're talking about? None of the guys asked each other who the weird guy is?
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:44 AM
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First, its important to remember that even your experiences & similar comments online does not equal Women Do This. Women are many & varied & all have their own desires, plans & reasons for their choices & behavior. And a big factor of YOUR experience is YOU. You affect the people you spend time with & just because a woman acts one way with you, that doesn't equal that she does that same thing in all cases. Its just as possible for a woman to have in her head a plan of action that she's been com…
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:34 AM
3

I need you to step away from the idea that abusive childhoods is an easy excuse for people. My pain is not an excuse & the struggle to find some happiness when abused for all of my childhood is certainly something I had to take ownership of & be accountable for, but none of it was easy, not the original experiences & not the work to figure it out. But the reasons you may struggle with intimacy may not be about the positives of your upbringing. They may have been very loving but did they teach yo…
/r/seduction01/01/22 02:17 AM
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This is so weird. I feel like I'm constantly saying this here but if I tell you all of my experiences dating women, they won't inform you on what works. Because the factors were ME & THEM. Each women I dated was a different experience, I approached them all differently, sometimes because I was younger at one point & older later, but sometimes because I was super confident with one woman & subtle with another, because each of them women are different. The whole new male idea that you can teach se…
/r/seduction30/12/21 02:17 AM
1

All women? No, not at all? Some women? Young women? Sure. A lie? Nope, just a modern way of presenting yourself. And that's nothing new, men do it to, most people try to create their best foot forward when searching for a date or partner. The real question is why do you feel this way? Why are you so personally offended that women might adjust their look? Go meet them. If they don't look the way you hoped, don't meet up again. No one said you have to date anyone. Choose better things to focus on,…
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:20 AM
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Woof, I think you spend most of your time online trying to feel better about your life by attacking women, attacking men, & boasting that you're having sex all the time.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:42 AM
6

Women are absolutely into sex & relationships. You claim to be a swinger & get sex all the time but you think women don't like sex? I came to see what else you post after someone said you seem really insecure & boy were they right! Look at you go. "I do so have a girlfriend, but she goes to school in Canada, you can't meet her." I call bullshit, you don't know much about women & you certainly are not having a ton of sex.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:40 AM
3

Exercise gives a small boost in testosterone. Which does literally nothing to you. It won't make you smarter or stronger or tougher or better at sex or last longer at sex. You're all wrapped up in nonsense so people can profit off you.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:37 AM
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Its because its nonsense. Its a new fad where men make money off other men by convincing them they need to raise their levels. It doesn't matter what rats have been shown to do in tests. You're not a rat. lol
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:35 AM
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Worrying about your testosterone levels is really pretty useless. Its never been a factor until the modern era where the spiritual, not religious, life coach, health gurus all arrived. Its a complete waste of your time & they are making money of the idea that you need to worry about it. Your body makes testosterone & estrogen, the combination of which is part of how our memories work. If you get a pituitary tumor or Alzhimers, a dr might prescribe testosterone, but you don't need to worry about …
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:33 AM
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There are several ways to lose your virginity, with some being less healthy than others. Personally, I think the wisest thing to do is just try dating, be honest about the fact that you've never had sex & that you're going to be cautious about having sex. There are SO many garbage men in the world that would actively be thrilled by the idea of being your first, because THEY want to experience that for themselves & I think it would be best to hold off until you have a good idea that a man is inte…
/r/seduction26/12/21 01:53 AM
2

Well first, I don't assume that making eye contact means she's romantically interested in me. Second, I don't really change anything, you either already sit up straight or you don't. Eye contact has rarely been the sign of romantic interest but you can start there, but you need much more to know if that's the direction its headed. I would suggest that you don't tell women you want to make them have your baby too. I don't know a single woman that would react well to this.
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:27 AM
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I mean, if you wanted to improve your skills as a chef, would you pretend it was an experiment so you could avoid feeling disappointed if you overcooked your meal? Or would you just understand that learning skills takes time & failure is part of the process? Don't be so fragile.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:07 AM
4

Its not really healthy to try to avoid thinking about what you're actually doing to trick yourself into avoiding expectation because you're afraid of resentment or some other emotion if you don't get what you want. In sobriety, we teach that you should let go of expectations because they breed resentments but we do not teach that you should trick yourself into pretending that its something it isn't. You should work on handling your feelings, realizing that feelings are not facts even though they…
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:06 AM
2

Why do men think there are perfect methods for all situations? What you would say in response would depend on a variety of things. Do you like her, do you want to sleep with or date her, do you think she's attractive? Who are you, what would work best for you, also what would best for her? I've said this again & again, every encounter is different, there is no playbook for every interaction. The key is to learn how to communicate.
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:47 AM
1

Given that not all women find the same thing sexy I would suggest you just work on highlighting your good points. I've never been considered unattractive but women have always been attracted to my mind more than anything else & the fact is, with a good mind, you can date anyone you want. The funniest thing about this Reddit is how often men ask for advice but the advice is different for each man & what would work for a woman is different for each woman. I've dated women that I was very direct wi…
/r/seduction16/12/21 02:26 AM
4

Considering you just started getting social in the last 2 years & no one really perfects anything in 2 years, keep working on the aspects of being social, like the comment I see, we don't have much to go on. maybe you talk too much about yourself. Maybe you just talk about how attractive the woman is. Maybe you only talk about a subject you love that they have no interest in. Who knows? But there are all sorts of techniques to learn about good communication & social skills.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:16 AM
1

Leave it alone, there are millions of other women. Or go ahead & poke that bear & see what happens. No one owes you an explanation or answer unless you have a relationship with them. If you're chatting with someone, seeing where it goes, you don't really know them that well, they don't owe you anything. It is the nicest thing to do? No, of course not. But often, everyone else is unsure how to handle certain situations too & in the long run, when you don't make a scene, you might run into her a y…
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:44 AM
1

So in the last 16 days you have started dating her & now you want her to stop posting selfies because its threatening to you?
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:19 AM
1

That dude's understanding of what kegel muscles are is so distorted. Bizarre idea about how a penis works.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:17 AM
2

And it should be noted here, that is seems like you are threatened by the fact that she's attractive & you want her to diminish herself so that you don't feel so threatened, rather than understanding that women shouldn't need to be nuns because you should just trust that they can manage the male attention that all women get. You'd do more good focusing on getting other men to be more secure & less sexist than demanding that she stop sharing selfies because you can't deal with it.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:16 AM
3

There are 2 parts to this. In all of our lives, we have good habits & bad habits, some of us have more of one or the other for a variety of reasons, but often people who have been hurt go on to hurt others. In a great relationship, you feel inspired to be better, to break your bad habits, to aspire to new things. In bad relationships, you do not feel that, which doesn't mean that those relationship don't have good parts, they are just probably not a long lasting relationships. And in this specif…
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:14 AM
1

Anywhere they want. They are adults.
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:57 AM
1

If you're shy & nervous then don't focus on flirting. There is no single method of flirting because all women are different. All men are differing as well, so if I told you about my kind of flirting, you wouldn't be able to pull it off even with the same woman. You should stick with any strength you have, or just focus on being honest & open, which communicates vulnerability & honesty, which can be attractive to women who need to deal with men trying to flirt when they can't.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:52 AM
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Never stop talking is terrible advice. If you think you're supposed to fill silence with any random shit in your head you'll come across a self absorbed or dumb. People want to be seen & heard, they want to know you are hearing them, so the key is to ask questions. The whole point of a first date is to see if you're a good match or not.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:07 AM
2

Wear some decent clothes, but you aren't required to dress up in any way. Do clean up before hand. Don't only talk about yourself, do ask her questions about her life, what are her interests? What is her family like? What are her goals or dreams? And a good method is when you ask a question, offer the answer to your question in the question, meaning something like "My parents split up when I was 12, & I have one brother. What is your family like?" "I hope to own my own mechanics shop one day, do…
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:05 AM
4

Its rare I see comments I like, but this was great. I tell everyone I care about how much I care about them. People often has low self worth, they feel stupid or ugly or not enough & the more that we can highlight their successes & achievements, as well as give them empathy & love when they are down, the better off everyone will be. Ideas about what is masculine & feminine should absolutely be analyzed, where did you get the ideas you have, are they true, do you need to follow them, etc.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:29 AM
1

It also sounds like you don't really know how to initiate conversation & that's a skill everyone should know.
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:58 AM
3

Its wierd that you think communication is only things that must be answered or things that don't need to be answered & therefore they get silence. I mean building any relationship, whether that's family, friends, romantic or sexual, requires communication & most people don't have a great handle of what makes good conversation in these different areas. It sounds like these girls are inviting you to interact with them & then get upset when you don't, but it really depends on what you want with the…
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:57 AM
1

Did you read a seduction expert book & then decide to pass that along? There is no one tried & true method to succeeding with women that suits every man & every woman. Being overeager is not bad because women are all calculating all this men's seduction analysis, they don't like it because its gross. And this sort of advice is all pretty dishonest & disingenuous & if you try to follow this whole pop psychology plotline to score, that relationship won't have a lasting foundation. I have never nee…
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:29 AM
1

Its difficult to give a list of advice because everyone has different issues & part of dating is that element of taking a chance, taking a leap. Some are more confident & will use eye contact, or may just approach you. Others will be very friendly when you approach them. But generally just talking to anyone is not a sure sign of attraction & one often pretty clear sign someone is into you, is if they are comfortable enough to touch you. It will be minor, in passing, maybe she'll laugh at somethi…
/r/seduction27/11/21 01:59 AM
1

Sounds like your behavior revealed some things about you & she may have been trying to help you, but women are not free therapists. Go to therapy, its not only helpful for you, but will help you have a more successful relationship.
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:58 AM
5

Personally, I like to be as upfront & honest as I can be, & I don't try to wiggle my way into her pants by making a weird offer of just in case. I know if we're having sex or not because we're adults & we talked about it, we talked about why we're dating, what we're looking for, what boundaries do we have, where do we stand on certain things. Women appreciate that because it lets them know what to expect so they don't need to be anxious about what you might do, what you might try to pressure her…
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:02 AM
1

I'm not sure I understand what a texter is? texting is an action, an action that is communication BY text. You don't need a special skill to do it, other than basic communication. As long as you can communicate, you can text. Its a lot like writing a letter, just a slightly different medium. I don't text, but a woman recently hit me up on a dating site & we've been texting every day since, because its the same as writing an email, or talking.
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:03 AM
1

This question is like how do I drive a car before I learn to drive? The answer is in the question, learn how to be more confident & then you'll have more success. Its not like confidence is only good for dating, its also good for employment, friendship, etc.
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:00 AM
2

If you decide to approach a woman, there are a few things to think of. Let go of any expectations or goals, if she reacts positively, that's great, but no one owes you attention or affection & although people should be polite, with alcohol & maybe substances involved, if someone is nasty, just walk away, let it go, bullet dodged right there. If she is open to communicating, stay away from mentioning her appearance or how attracted you are to her. Be polite, engaging, talk about neutral things, j…
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:00 AM
2

Things people announce that everyone knows in theory but may not have the mental health tools to actually follow.
/r/seduction20/11/21 01:44 AM
3

This is the opposite of what you should do.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I'm a great communicator & storyteller, & here are a few things to keep in mind. Ask them about them, people do like talking about themselves, or if they don't, it can be easier to answer questions than for them to come up with what to say. But a key thing to do is to also offer into about yourself, so ask questions like - "My favorite bands are Tool & the original Blind Melon, but I like a lot of different kinds of music, what are you into?" When they answer, you can often continue to dis…
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:41 AM
1

There is no solid texting advice because every woman (or guy, whatever you're going for) is different. Women aren't classifications where we can study them & figure out the perfect way to approach them all. You can study their experiences & what many are looking for & work towards that but if you want to get better at something, the basic idea is just keep doing it & refining your approach in general. You should also be deciding what you're not looking for or willing to do so if you're getting t…
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:54 AM
0

I don't know how old you are, but my suggestion, which makes other men angry with me, is to avoid listening to what other men suggest, especially the so called experts, & pay attention to what women say they are looking for & more importantly, what experiences they've had with men that they hated. Its very easy to figure that out by following women who speak about it publicly, which many do, there are articles, essays, twitter threads & reddit threads. But really its a matter of joining some dat…
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:00 AM
2

It may take you some time on your own, so I'll save you some time. Having an "abundance mindset" is pseudopsychological nonsense taught by men who fake having a great lifestyle to sell you the idea that if you buy their product, you can also achieve that lifestyle. Most of them rent a hot car, rent some space in a great house with a pool, hire a couple of attractive women to wear swimsuits & fawn on them. Yes, trying to avoid shitting on yourself & feeling like a failure is good, & therapy & goo…
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:59 AM
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The idea that you go in public & randomly ask women out comes from seduction experts & its a deeply gross idea. Women do not want to be harassed during their day by random men EVEN IF one woman seemed pleased. Women talk about this all the time & how much they hate it. There are avenues for men to meet women that are already established. You're not supposed to randomly ask women out, you're supposed to develop a relationship with them. The fact that even your name here involves your penis sugges…
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:48 AM
2

Men always make this way more complicated than it needs to be. Ask her if she's be interested in going out on a date. Be prepared for her to say no AND yes. If its a yes, have an idea of a date planned, but be willing to change it if its not something she'd be into. If its a no, make sure that you're capable of not making everyone, especially her, uncomfortable because you're upset. I mean really, if you hang out with her, you should know if she'd be interested because there would be some kind o…
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:39 AM
1

So, to begin, this isn't really dating advice, its life advice. If anyone mistreats you, you shouldn't accept it. But what's really interesting about the fact that you've filed this under dating advice is a seduction Reddit is what you've listed as disrespectful. In some cases, its a little disrespectful sure, they should be more clear that they just aren't interested in you, but men really need to understand the point of view from women. Men are less likely to become abusive if they just ghost …
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:20 AM
1

Its always bizarre to me that men have personal experience & then extrapolate that "women" do or don't do things. Of course some women approach some men. If they aren't approaching you, its one of two things, its either that they aren't into you, or they aren't comfortable doing it.
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:57 AM
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The first part of this that is bizarre is the "high level" idea. That's some manosphere nonsense right there. You never want to be the 'dominant' one, that's completely couched in the high level, which is the new alpha male idea where men have to be in control of everything & if you're domineering all the relationships around you, you'll be damaging them, not making them better. And last, women are much more likely to respect a man who is just straight forward than a man who's trying to manipula…
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:00 AM
1

Just ask. Why are you asking strangers to explain some woman's personal choices to you instead of asking her what's up? (I really hope Dragoncumbucket gets riled up again at this post too, shouting into the ether cuz I never read them lol)
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:56 AM
2

Don't believe that at 18 you're supposed to have mastered relationships or sex. I lost my virginity at 17, couldn't finish the first try, but managed to the 2nd try. I learned how to be a good lover by asking women what they liked, NOT by asking other men. Don't believe men that tell you they are experts at any of this. Its supposed to be awkward & weird & challenging, & that's ok. The men that want to be leaders of men are almost always actively misleading men & always wrong in their views of w…
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:11 AM
1

Stop thinking of women as objects for your pleasure & start seeing them as people with other aspects to enjoy.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:24 AM
2

Your masculine energy. lol This is a huge misunderstanding based on sex magic & some old versions of spirituality. Stop trying to manipulate your way into a woman's life & stop acting like your masculinity has been damaged when a girl isn't into you. Just meet a different girl.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:10 AM
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The friendzone is a myth created by men who can't figure out how to interact with women, where their attraction is the foremost part & if a woman isn't interested, she's not allowed to even be polite to you because that's too confusing for you to handle. I have been friends with women, & I have dated women. I have dated women I was no friends with & I have dated women I was friends with first (in fact, most relationships start that way). I have been friends with women, dated them, broke up & sti…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:08 AM
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Actually, confidence is one aspect that can get you a good relationship without being the most attractive guy. It's very important for men to understand that anecdotal evidence is not evidence of fact. Your personal experiences don't mean that you now understand all women or all men or what make what work & the other big thing that people do wrong, especially men is believe they know why women won't respond to them, when its often other issues. It is probably what you are saying that they don't …
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:53 PM
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Depends on the woman. The way you asked your question, why is it most of the time etc, is based on just your personal experience. More than ever before, women pursue men, ask men out, look for sexual encounters, talk about their desires & needs. If its not happening for YOU, I'd work on you instead of wondering why women aren't responding to you. It should probably also be pointed out just how many men struggle to get any interaction with women & it sounds like you get plenty you just don't know…
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:19 PM
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You do know what you're doing wrong, you're bad at talking. So the solution is to get better at talking. There are 2 parts to that, one, hang out with other men to cut out the attraction part of the dynamic & practice conversation. Research people who are good at conversations, but avoid dating experts & seduction experts because they are absolutely misleading you about women. And the 2nd part is, research what women are looking for by reading their articles they write, the threads they particip…
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:59 PM
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They are entirely right & I know that because of how you act in just this exchange. Arrogant & too sure of yourself, as if women couldn't possibly figure you out in 3 exchanges when we just figured you out in this one. And even if you disagree, you jumped to called them retarded, which is a really gross expression, & insulting people you disagree with is equally gross. They don't want to talk to you because of how you act man.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:13 PM
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It probably has much less to do with your appearance & much more to do with your 'game'. With your personality. Most of the women I know (& I have maybe a handful of male friends & we don't talk much, I'm notoriously tough on men) care less about what a guy looks like & care much more about how they act. Of course there are women out there who fixate on appearance but I wouldn't want to date them anyway. I'd bet you're getting denied because of what you say & how you act on those dates.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:10 PM
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One, who pays what should have been established early on, but what you're really saying here is you don't like paying for meals if you're not getting sex. That's what you opened with, & if you can't have the sex than you feel the transactional nature of your relationship is unfair. Me, whenever I hang out with anyone that I invite to hang with me, I pay. If you can't afford to buy her meals than that's one thing but really you've boiled the whole thing down to a transaction & if men started payi…
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:02 PM
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Women, like men, like all kinds of men or women. There is no chart, there is no certainty. You meet a woman, you find out what she's into. If she's into you, great. If she's not, that's fine. I would strongly suspect height is just something they are using to say no.
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:37 PM
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Remember guys, after you've begun dating, you can never ask a woman how she's doing again. lol
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:28 PM
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One, I'd need to know how long its been since you sent that message & she hasn't replied because there can be dozens of reasons she hasn't replied that don't involve her deciding to never speak to you again. Second, even if she had fun, she's not obligated to follow through & if she doesn't, you just move on. She may have had a few drinks, enjoyed the evening but rethought things, she may be shy when not drinking, she may have heard something negative about you, I mean there's no system to women…
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:23 PM
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This is the silliest thing I've read in a long time. Do you honestly believe that all human relationships are linear & you have to follow a system to make them work?
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:18 PM
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Today is the day I discovered there is a seduction Reddit & its exactly as ridiculous as I thought it would be. If men actually listen to women about what they like, & hope for, they wouldn't spend so much time & energy being upset & angry about not having sex or being liked by women. Its not complicated, its not a mystery, most of the men who go out of their way to tell other men how to do it are deliberately misleading other men for profit. Women literally shout about their experiences & feeli…
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:13 AM
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What's really bad about this advice, & is indicative of all seduction advice, is that more often than not, men want a real relationship. I mean sex is great, but you can't do it all day every day, for very long anyway, & eventually the rest of life kicks in. So you may be able to seduce them, which isn't all the difficult, but you'll never convince them to be in your actual life with this stuff. The easiest way to see that I'm right is that he sells himself as the pro who can make women feel goo…
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:12 AM
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This is mostly bad advice.
/r/seduction28/11/20 11:47 PM
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