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| 18 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity God, I wish this could be handed out as a pamphlet to every kid in high school. The pressure to change your appearance is so strong when you're younger. And I also want to give this to guys I know. They all say things like "man, it must be so easy/nice to be a cute girl" and I have to tell them, absolutely not. Being attractive means being a target. It means having to change your phone number when guys you barely know won't stop harrassing you for years. It means being sexually assaulted by men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I'm saving this to re-read before future relationships. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!This is really interesting. I'm mixed Asian/Caucasian as well, and my type is solidly dark haired white people or else Hispanic, Indian, or Middle Eastern guys. I always wonder why I'm not attracted to celebrities like Chris Hemsworth and Brad Pitt... and I guess not seeing my type represented in film would explain why I generally "don't find celebrities attractive". Also, have to agree that some people exclusively like half Asian as a type, though I have no idea why. I do agree with you about r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:21 AM |
| 8 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!hahahaha. Two of my exes' parents said I look like an anime character, and that they always expected their sons would date an Asian girl. I'm part Korean, though, so they were way off the mark on the type of Asian. Anyway, now that's a huge red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:53 AM |
| 9 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!God, same. I remember asking what his "dream girl" would look like and if she'd be anything like me. I said he was my type and then he basically said to my face that I wasn't his. ... And then I dated him for 6 more years. Thanks, brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.YUP. 6 years and he only ever gave me one orgasm. Never went down on me once lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:51 AM |
| 8 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedOh, SAME. My ex wanted a BBW woman for a threesome and frequently compared me (unfavorably) to chubbier girls. It was so bad that I seriously contemplated breast implants, even though I never felt insecure before and everyone else I've ever been with has liked my body type. He ended up cheating on me with a very overweight woman and then moving on to dating another overweight woman. Now, his new girlfriend is trying to lose weight and I have to wonder if he's doing the same shitty things to her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:24 PM |
| 11 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.Oh my god. I literally had to make a chore chart and gamify the idea of cleaning to get my ex to do basic things like close pantry doors after opening them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:25 AM |
| 17 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.Ugh. I know this feeling. My ex basically decided that if he cooked, I'd get to clean, and if I cooked... I'd get to clean. And yet somehow he always made it sound like some sort of equal exchange between partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020To tangent off of this, has anyone else run into the trend of sleazy guys promoting having more women in their field, not because they actually want to help even the playing field, but because they want to be able to have female co-workers to hit on OR they want to be able to use their position to "help" women reach opportunities in exchange for sexual favors? I feel like I kept falling for the male feminist types and am only now realizing that they were only really thinking with their dicks in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Woman writes a song using her boyfriend's cheating textsI love this so much and she deserves way better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:44 AM |
| 7 | Woman writes a song using her boyfriend's cheating textsOkay, but why do guys who cheat all look the same?? Honestly, he kinda gives me Max Landis vibes without the makeup on. He also reminds me of my ex, and his two white boy idols who also publicly cheated on their wives... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Signs he’s a control freak misogynist : breadcrumbingGod, this is scary… I related so hard to a lot of what you wrote. Wanting me to move in with him / marry him after only a year (which he would say literally 20 times a day) to then saying he was just joking when I started taking it seriously. He did the same with his “just a friend” girlfriend who he’d stay up until 3 am helping with her college essays and “coaching her” on her relationship with his best friend. Then he turned around and asked her out right after we broke up. He said he wasn’t i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌Now I really want someone to start houses for women who just want to have friends, drink wine, and pursue their hobbies free from any relationships. I'd sign up in a heartbeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌My ex told me when we broke up that my expectations were too high, because I expected him to tell me important things upfront rather than hiding them until he was forced to bring them out. I broke up with him because I caught him masturbating to pictures of girls on OKC and then he lied straight to my face about it. Like, sorry, yeah. I expect honesty as the BARE MINIMUM. I can't believe that's "too much". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:49 AM |
| 2 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌God, seriously. I'm not even waiting for "the ideal man"... If anything, just one who can treat me with a shred of respect and honesty. I'm tired of man child relationships. I'd rather be single forever with good friends and my dog than pour my energy into a relationship vampire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:39 AM |
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