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That depends. Do you think ‘I’m afraid of getting raped or catcalled at night’ is an equivalent grievance to ‘all women are fundamentally worthless over the age of thirty?’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:03 AM
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Women do not belong to a hivemind and do not expire at the age of 30. The world is not run by a secret shadow cabal of women who control the world’s economies, laws and media. The average woman has a roughly equal amount of sexual partners as the average man during his lifetime. The world is not flat and they’re not putting chemicals in the water to turn the frogs gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:45 AM
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If men are annoyed they can’t scold women because of handful of nonsense conspiracy theories, then that’s fine. I’m a-ok with you guys being annoyed by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:38 AM
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He asked for delusional and conspiratorial beliefs and I gave him some. Do you genuinely want me to explain to you why women aren’t members of a hivemind who expire at the age of 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:28 AM
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Because we don’t vindicate delusional grievances just because they’re based on authentic emotions. It’s unhealthy and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:26 AM
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I can’t comment about your personal life because I don’t know you and you’ve given no examples or elaboration. Men receive pushback here because their ‘troubles’ are usually a smokescreen to say extremely aggressive, cruel and incendiary things about women at large. It’s currently happening in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:33 PM
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AWALT, gynocentrism, hypergamy, evopsych, “AFBB”, “cock carousel”, ‘chad-chasing’, pre/post wall, ‘herd mentality’, to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:30 PM
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The empathy gap is real: WHY does everyone care about FIRES right now? Earthquakes are just as deadly, but nobody cares about the victims of earthquakes! Why is everyone in the comment of this post about fires discussing FIRES? What about EARTHQUAKES!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:21 PM
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Nuance is a concept for dipshits? I can see why you consider serious discussion to be shit-flinging over N counts on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:09 PM
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Ladies, ladies, please. I think you're BOTH obnoxious dorks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:32 AM
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Totally man, there are zero women in the army. Not only that, but men have never ever chosen not to fight for any reason whatsoever. I don’t even know why we have words like ‘desertion’ ‘conscious objection’ or ‘dodge drafting’ because none of that has ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:00 AM
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I don’t know, I think there are interesting discussions to be had about sociology of gender that aren’t ’girls are mean’ or ‘boys are stinky’.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:39 AM
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Do the words ‘it depends’ not exist in the pilled lexicon? Why can’t you guys nuancemaxx or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:42 AM
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Said the guy who didn’t have an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:16 AM
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Of course, the famously egalitarian society of Russia, where the she-eos and girlbosses of Putin’s war room are ready to give the orders to rape and pillage at a moments notice. Only uneducated people argue against points that haven’t been made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:51 PM
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So the valiant men are defending women from the evil oligarchical… men? That’s a net helpfulness of zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:38 PM
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The war effort against… who?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:05 PM
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Men rape, kill, steal... It's in our hormones Feminists can only hope to hate men as much as other men hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:03 PM
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during catastrophes like (…) war, 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:00 PM
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Why consider the opinions of someone you believe is inherently inferior to you? If you’re getting the final say on all matters, why would you have a conversation about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:53 PM
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The stupid rules you guys insist on living by baffle the mind. Is it now cuck behaviour to have a conversation or consider the opinions of your partner and go from there? Exhausting, needlessly neurotic mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:28 PM
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Again, volunteer for a day and see how feasible it would be to make everything said in government on record. Yes, adults are trusted to be around each other alone. This happens in workplaces across the country without incident. Most people aren't animals. It's not flippant and ill-thought, you just can't argue against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:19 AM
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Two adults in a workplace environment is a vastly different circumstance to a child and a teacher in a school environment. Lots of things get discussed in politics without a witness present. It's an intense, fast-moving job, it would be almost impossible to have everything witnessed and on record. If you don't believe me, try out volunteering. Nurses and doctors are alone with patients frequently. It would be extremely difficult to have at least one witness present whenever a patient interacts w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:13 AM
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Okay, no need to get upset. Women work at the white house, so this would affect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:11 AM
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Women work at the white house. You can't see a situation where someone would be alone in a room with their boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:25 AM
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Sure, but one directly affects someone's ability to do their job and interact with the public they've chosen to represent, and the other one is crossing the street to avoid someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:12 AM
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What if a woman elected to public office refused to meet with male staffers out of fear they would assault her? Or a religious person refusing to be alone with a secular person? People are allowed to take reasonable precautions to protect themselves, but sequestering yourself from half of the population directly affects people in the workplace in a way that someone being across the street from someone else would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:05 AM
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In what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:03 AM
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What are you confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:48 AM
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Again, feminism is a specific ideology. It's not liberalism. It's not just talking about gender. It's not even being attracted to liberal men. Again, you didn't show Jessica Valenti contradicting herself. Her stances were logically consistent with feminist thought and with each other. You can't point out a contradictory statement she made. And, again, nothing in that paragraph supports your point about Jessica Valenti. Again, a lot of this debate could have been cleared up by just reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:48 AM
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But the true Scotsman fallacy doesn't apply here. It would if those women said 'I'm a feminist and I get sad men don't hit on me', but they're not even doing that. They don't identify as feminists. You should probably identify what you're arguing against and what your argument is before you start making blanket statements about women or feminists. A lot of this debate could have been cleared up by just reading the article and thinking critically about what the author is trying to say. Sorry for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:16 AM
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You don't think the idea that men need to interact with women less in order to avoid false rape accusations isn't in line with conservative thinking? Or that women desire men to fulfill masculine gender roles, including catcalling them? I'm not dismissing your counterexamples, I'm asking you to explain why you've used two women who don't identify as feminists as examples of feminist thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:08 AM
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Jessica Valenti labeled the Mike Pence rule as misogynistic by arguing that it perpetuates the idea that women are inherently dangerous to men Where. Those feminist identifying women. Okay, I'll take it on your word that these women online are making content about their genuinely held beliefs. Where do they identify as feminists? The woman in one video says she's a liberal, and the second says she 'supports women's rights'. You've pushed back on several people labelling you as a conservative bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:01 AM
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Again, the problem isn't that 'it's misogynistic for men to interact with women less'. Again, here is a quote from the article. You see, this week a Washington Post article about Karen Pence revealed that the vice-president will not eat a meal with a woman other than his wife. Those on the right are commending Pence’s marital devotion and moral fortitude, claiming that such a rule is a smart defense against sexual temptation. She's critical of the Mike Pence rule's application against 'sexual te…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:48 AM
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It's not hypocritical. She's written an article about feeling ashamed that her self-worth is affirmed even through misogynistic violence, and an article about the Mike Pence rule. These are logically consistent views to hold. She doesn't want men to catcall her. She's writing about how women are encouraged to seek out affirmation from men, even in forms that are violent, scary and dangerous. She's not perpetuating anything, it's critical of catcalling. You haven't shown me an example of a femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:36 AM
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Jessica Valenti? Who said this about catcalling? Being harassed on the street is not a compliment, and it surely has never felt like one. For most, if not all women, it can be scary and sometimes dangerous to deal with. But I can admit that - even as a seasoned feminist - sexism is a powerful enough force to still reside my head. This is an essay about internalized misogyny, it's a common feminist theory. It's an incredibly normal and consistent view for a feminist to hold. What's contradictory …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:25 AM
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Where are you getting your insights on feminism from? If your answer is legitimate feminist theory and not random anonymous comments online I'll be genuinely floored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:18 AM
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That is so stupid cute. I love your nails as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:10 AM
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No thanks, I don't loathe men quite that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:09 AM
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Yeah. They're not the desperate, horny simpletons being ruled by their dicks you guys like to paint most men as.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:03 AM
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I know lots of men who have friendships with people who won't have sex with them. This seems like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:58 AM
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I think a woman choosing to cross the street to avoid a male stranger is different to a public official refusing to have one-on-one meetings with an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:55 AM
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Why date then? If you've decided the perfect person doesn't exist there's nothing more you can do than spend the rest of your life single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:29 AM
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A lot of you guys are very silly and it's fun to argue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:06 AM
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I don't think forty million women are defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:52 AM
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Should've chosen better. The problem is you. I thought men had superior logic and reasoning skills, why do you keep ending up with terrible women? Why couldn't you predict how they would act once you were in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:22 AM
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<image> The last well-dressed couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:15 AM
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No, men shouldn't be awarded extra rights based on their ability to impregnate women. As I said in my initial comment, the current rights and laws we have around pregnancy and parenting are gender-neutral. Unless women also get a period after birth in which they're allowed to decide whether or not they want to retain legal rights regarding motherhood, the current system should remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:15 AM
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What does 'supposed to' mean here? Sure, in a perfect world, all rights would be recognized all the time. No, this isn't how things work out 100% of the time, especially within the court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:03 AM
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To award someone a specific legal outcome? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:53 AM
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Attempt as in the judge has the grounds to deny or require the parent without rights to pay child support. Nobody has the legal right to a specific outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:30 AM
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Yes, men can attempt to voluntarily terminate their parental rights, as can women. The legal process is slightly different to the way you've laid it out, but it exists as an option to both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:26 AM
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Parents of both genders can terminate their parental rights, but they need to follow a legal process to do so. It's also possible for both genders to terminate a pregnancy they're carrying, for both genders to owe and pay child support, and for both parents to campaign for and win custody of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:33 AM
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The OP has quoted seven examples for you and included a tweet at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:15 AM
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Yeah, gender affects society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:14 AM
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humphry spotted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:03 AM
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The alternative to remaining in a marriage here is death. As in, the manosphere believes women leaving a marriage or getting a divorce is punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:58 AM
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Technically these things don't contradict each other. I imagine if you asked someone who believed in this why men oppress women, their answer would be masculinity or maleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:44 AM
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You think it's acceptable that a man murdered a woman because she treated their marriage 'lackadaisically'?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:41 AM
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Did him dirty by fucking murdering him? I think most people would find this abjectly terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:16 AM
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This is deflection through making a counter-accusation. It’s the definition of whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:03 AM
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What about! What about! What about!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:03 AM
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I’m pointing out a double standard. One is already acceptable and the other is not. They’re both fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:25 AM
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Outside? You’re on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:09 AM
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Yeah, there’s nothing wrong with being gay, it’s not an insult. I wouldn’t feel offended by being called a lesbian, lesbians are fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:07 AM
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Rape would still be a problem if it happened to a minority of people. This is like saying stubbing your toe is just as bad as being stabbed because it happens to a majority of people. Even if there were three times more men struggling with getting a girlfriend than struggling with the trauma of being raped, rape is the more severe issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:53 AM
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Why is it homophobic to imply than men who dislike women and admire men are gay? Men on this subreddit seem to think it’s fine to call all women lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:48 AM
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Rape is a far more severe event than a man struggling to get a girlfriend in highschool or tinder matches. It’s not selective outrage, it’s an appropriate reaction to two seperate problems with different impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:44 AM
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Okay, surely the answer here is that rape is different to struggling with dating, so of course they’re going to get discussed differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:57 PM
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I’m discussing the report I shared from the CDC. What statistics are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:57 PM
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12-month occurrence has a difference of 2.3% of women vs 0.3% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:59 PM
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I think they've copied and pasted your deleted comment. Anyway, is it not comparing the severity of dating struggles and rape if your point is that it's equally as bad to minimise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:49 AM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/documentation/nisvsReportonSexualViolence.pdf Here's more recent data from the authority you're citing, presented without information regarding perpetrators and including the currently accepted definition of rape. One in 4 women (26.8% or 33.5 million) in the United States reported completed or attempted rape victimization at some point in her lifetime. About 1 in 26 men (3.8% or 4.5 million) in the United States reported completed or attempted rape victimization at som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:44 AM
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I'm asking why compare those two situations specifically. The topic of 'bad thing happening to person' is so wide, why pick out rape and struggling with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:31 AM
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Hey, man. Here's the attention you're seeking. I see you, and I acknowledge you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:47 AM
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But HOW is it hypocritical to treat rape differently to dating struggles? You keep saying you're not comparing the severity of the situations, but then you're saying it's hypocritical not to treat them as exactly similar. It's not hypocritical to treat something as different to another thing, even if they occur with a similar frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:45 AM
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What do you mean by 'feminists exaggerate the extent of sexual violence'?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:19 AM
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Sorry, which statistics are you going off of that say men make up half of rape victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:17 AM
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But why compare it to rape? It's like saying 'more men are going to struggle with dating than with getting hit by a car'. This statement is technically true, but it's easy to understand why people are going to discuss getting hit by a car differently to struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:12 AM
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But they're not the same thing. This is like asking why people are so sad when their pet dogs die when rats die all the time. It's a silly comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:05 AM
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the insightful ways in which the two situations are similar They're not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:53 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:50 AM
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Even women demand more what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:32 AM
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Uh oh, men are going to start calling us nasty names? How scary, I don’t know how we’re going to cope with this shocking new development.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:46 PM
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I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:40 AM
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You’ve given me anecdata in your first sentence, and then you demand to see hard evidence in your second sentence. You keep on doing this thing where you’re making statements about how stupid you find me, but i’m struggling to understand what your actual problem is with what I said. Do you not think ugly guys can have bad personalities? Is ‘women would rather fuck chad than me’ not a popular topic of discussion here? It’s fine if you think I’m a troll, but either be content with that and scroll …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:51 AM
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But I’m not, if that’s what I was gesturing at I would’ve said that. This is about the self proclaimed ‘nice guys’ on this website who seem to think they have better or more attractive personalities than ‘chad’, when they’re just as bad, they’re just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:31 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:28 AM
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Not everything is an attempt to personally hurt your fee fees. Sometimes people share opinions that are different to yours, either pony up and discuss with them or scroll away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:24 AM
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You’ve just made up an entirely new situation in order to come up with a personal conclusion about the things I’ve said. Where did I say anything about celebrities, domestic abuse or guys venting online?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:23 AM
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You’ve just commented twice about how upset you are about what I said. Obviously not. Nuance exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:21 AM
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I’m not trolling, but I can’t have a discussion with you if you’re just telling me how upset you are over and over again. Sorry I made you mad, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:16 AM
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Weird, none of the guys I see complaining about ‘female nature’ and chads online seem to be very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:12 AM
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Whoops, my comment made you upset. Did you have something to say or did you just want to voice how I made you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:11 AM
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“Dumb women would rather date asshole chad than me!” does not work as a sympathetic grievance if you are also an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:07 AM
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Why are men on this website consistently surprised women would rather date a hot guy with a terrible personality than an ugly guy with a terrible personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:05 AM
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Subreddits are not indicative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:33 PM
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What are you trying to say? This doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:20 AM
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No, this is a sarcastic version of your comment with the genders flipped in an attempt to illustrate how ridiculous it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:19 AM
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Men choose to go into dark alleyways or secure their homes unsuccessfully. They clearly want these bad things to happen if they don't put effort into preventing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:08 AM
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Men must want to be robbed and murdered. Otherwise how would you explain the existence of crime statistics if men claim to be so strong and intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:05 AM
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Trust me guys, everyone secretly believes in MY fringe religion. Major world events are actually secret signs intended solely for me that confirm I've been right about everything all along, and everyone I've talked to has been convinced into following it because it's just so objectively true and correct. Soon the entire world will wake up and I'll be loved and important and in charge. You'll see. You'll all see!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:02 AM
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Yes. If you're attracted to white people, that's fine. If you're attracted to white people because you think they're the based aryan race and everyone else is inferior, that's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:58 AM
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I didn't say that. When I use the words 'white supremacist' I'm referring to the specific political ideology of white supremacy. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:53 AM
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You can be not attracted to anyone, it's not illegal. Context matters though- I'm arguing that I view it as more acceptable to not be attracted to someone with a mental disability, than say, a man who is not attracted to women with regular heights and curvy builds because they don't resemble children or a white supremacist who is not attracted to people of colour because they think they're racially inferior. It's about reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:38 AM
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That's fine. Different reasoning, but also a normal thing to experience in regards to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:26 AM
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Being of a certain race is different than having a major developmental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:59 AM
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No. Sometimes things are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:46 AM
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This isn't surprising. I'd imagine you'd see similar outcomes in groups of people with facial deformities or limb differences. I don't see how 'some autistic men really want to have sex but can't' is a response to the fact that autistic women are more likely to be raped and assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:55 AM
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My most controversial take is that it's okay not to be attracted to autistic people. Most autistic traits are offputting and undesirable. It's fine for the nondisabled to seek nondisabled partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:28 AM
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All sexual fantasies are self-focused, they exist solely within the self. This just seems like an attempt to accuse women of committing thoughtcrime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:16 PM
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Awww. Attention seeking online used to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:40 AM
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Exactly, you guys seem to think behaviour that is very rare is extremely common. Your comparison doesn’t work at all. Keep things real by standing by your brothers. AMALT, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:03 PM
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You guys love to complain about shit a tiny minority of women do. AWALT, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:54 PM
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Men should raise their standards. Not our fault they can't pick properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:31 AM
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He should've picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:56 AM
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I don’t watch youtube videos linked here, pls share a text source.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:10 AM
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‘Civil rights activists are only interested in ending racism when it comes to black people’
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:50 PM
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Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:48 PM
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Most women aren't into a bunch of kinks but I'm not going to be a bitch about it online. Care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:23 AM
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If you think the laws around the age of consent are arbitrary, you are the exact kind of person they have been designed to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:16 AM
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Just because you're into dominant men doesn't mean everyone has to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:15 AM
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Under the law, a child refers to an individual who is a minor, who is below legal age or the age of majority. The age of majority being 18 in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:14 AM
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Under the law, a child usually refers to an individual who is a minor, who is below legal age or the age of majority. The age of majority being 18 in most states. Being below the age of majority means that the child will have fewer rights but also less responsibilities than those who have attained the age of majority. Please stop responding to me as I will inevitably end up saying something that violates Reddit's code of conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:12 AM
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Yes, if a child shows interest in an adult and the adult chooses to initiate a sexual relationship, that's pedophilia and is illegal. 'Underage adults' are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:01 AM
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The man is not by default a groomer just because a woman whom he doesn't even know is attracted to him. No one is saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:53 AM
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Holy shit, 51 men found guilty in Gisèle Pelicot's trial. The man who raped her knowing he was HIV positive should be charged with attempted murder imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:25 AM
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The problem being described here isn't promiscuity, it's insecurity. It's possible to worry your partner has 'one foot out the door' even if you've been their first and only romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:02 AM
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Going to the hospital when you break your leg is unnatural, and I'm sure as fuck not going to stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:50 AM
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If GWTW came out tomorrow, reactionaries would call Rhett a cuck for being Scarlett's third husband and encouraging her to start her own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:07 AM
7

Why are you getting upset? Just explain what you mean when you say things. Why does it matter if the person is religious or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:55 AM
7

Okay, so it doesn't count if the person is religious? It seems to me like you're just arbitrarily assigning behaviour as masculine or feminine to suit your own moral judgements of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:46 AM
7

So a Christian man saving himself for marriage is feminine? Or a man who got married early and didn't 'whore around'?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:39 AM
4

I mean, men can still be incredibly fit, confident, assertive, and effeminate. These are not typically masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:20 AM
1

Do you have examples of non-weak, non-feminized men in movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:54 AM
1

Doesn't the entire genre of romance/romantic comedies basically disprove this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:44 AM
1

Thank you so much! I love Christmas haha. The tea set is from Bali, I’ve just gotten back from holiday there. And a Plume is a handbag! Hermes 🫣 so I’ve been saving up for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:50 AM
1

I've sourced a gorg leather briefcase for my partner this year, he's a real minimalist type and his current one is falling apart. I'm planning on getting it monogrammed too. I'm getting my mom a fragrance and my dad a handmade tea set I picked up on vacation. For myself I've finally broken the seal and picked up a Plume! I've had my eyes on it for yeaaaars so I'm totally stoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:41 AM
1

Honestly? They look a touch granny-ish and cheap. Skims, Brunch & Hawkins NY all do cute slippers that are more elevated and chic without breaking the bank. Splurge and get her a real fur or suede pair if you love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:34 AM
5

I personally love sitting in the library facing virgin beta incels so I can make as much eye contact and look at them as much as possible. I schedule six to eight hours of it into my day, I always get such a rush out of making them move and scurry away like rats. I don't even study, I just bring my books so I have a good excuse for when I'm exuding psychic hate beams to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:03 AM
1

Seems like the NPR article has a reasonable claim (data being entered erroneously or incorrectly), it would be interesting to see what the legitimate stats are around school shootings. Yeeeesh that first article.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:57 AM
1

Yeah, it was very knee-jerk of me. Some Americans are very normal! It must be really bizarre to have something so horrible happen so close to home and then go online to see people discussing it as if it's a sports game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:48 AM
1

Wdym bullshit? Like the categorization was wrong, or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:44 AM
7

It's kind of spooky how blithe most Americans are about violence. Very odd country, very odd people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:17 AM
2

Smh this man is clearly a badboy chad. Look at the material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:09 AM
1

No, I'm saying that DT traits aren't the sole thing women find attractive. Men who have high DT traits will also have the ability to project things that all human beings across the board find attractive (high social skills, confidence). It's not correlation, it's causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:08 AM
4

Okay, why care about people getting murdered if you haven't been murdered? If everything is the same and can be flattened down nothingness, why bother differentiating between anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:03 AM
2

The research doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:01 AM
0

I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:58 AM
3

You think women are lining up to fuck quiet socially awkward guys who are psychopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:58 AM
2

People who are good at manipulating other people will have high social skills. All the examples of the people you listed were good at projecting charming fronts that allowed them to get close to their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:31 AM
0

I think street harassment and a woman choosing to have sex with one man over the other are slightly different situations and warrant different arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:42 AM
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Where the nuance comes in is that the dark triad is associated with confidence, social skills and the ability to manipulate, so it's not much of a surprise that they do better while dating. 'Fuckboi' is an unscientific social term that varies from user to user so there's no point in using it as a measure of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:34 AM
5

Right, I forgot 'this incredibly nuanced study is conclusive evidence of my tangentially-related bugbear' is a part of the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:22 AM
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It keeps us from getting in the weeds of 'do you condemn x troll account'. After all, if this has become a competition of who says the worst things about kids, we can go on for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:20 AM
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Ain't I a stinker?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:10 AM
5

The same way society encourages and / rewards shoplifters and people who cut in line, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:09 AM
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But I haven't hurt you. I didn't fuck your bullies. Why do I have to answer for the crimes of a random woman who had sex with someone who was mean to you instead of you? I can't campaign against the larger socioeconomic influencing factors because there aren't any behind the insipid high-school drama you're describing. My behaviour in the larger world isn't affirming your hurt in any way, and if I did have some empathy for your personal situation it's completely undermined by your demand for it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:17 AM
1

NOOOO the cum guzzler guy got his comments removed! Rip king, hope you're guzzling cum in Reddit heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:22 AM
2

Yeah I'm a big cum guzzling cum guzzler that says I'm the cum guzzler and guzzles all over the board. We get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:16 AM
2

Cum guzzle cum guzzle cum guzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:07 AM
1

Cum guzzle cum guzzle cum guzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:01 AM
0

Yeah? I'm gonna drink cum and guzzle cum and then be a little cum guzzling cum guzzler? Cum guzzler cum guzzler say it one more time and the cum guzzler will appear in your room at midnight and guzzle your cum huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:49 AM
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Oh yeah? I'm a cum guzzling cum guzzler who guzzles cum? Just a big cum guzzling cum guzzler who guzzles up all the un guzzled cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:41 AM
1

Wait, why has 'women aren't 100% heterosexual' become the latest bugbear on here? It's something I see implied all the time but I don't really understand what the underlying sentiment is. Does that mean all women are settling for men because they'd rather be with women or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:30 AM
5

Guy who discovered the insult 'cum guzzler' like ten minutes ago and is really excited to try it out moment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:28 AM
2

Hahaha, my evil plan is complete! It's only because that song is constantly stuck in my head as well. Others must suffer the way I suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:22 AM
1

Yeah, exactly. This is the funny place to argue with people in my computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:13 AM
3

I think some of you may care about what happens on this subreddit a bit too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:05 AM
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Yeah, you're not supposed to let granular personal experiences drive you towards acting cruelly or negatively. There are lots of people who have had bad- even repeated- experiences with a specific group of people and still manage to be nice. I'm going to be mad at douchebags, even if they think their behaviour is justified. This has gone from vaguely understandable to incredibly insipid and immature. You need to grow up a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:57 PM
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Okay? I'm sympathetic to your experiences on a personal level, but I don't know what you expect me to say when you tell me you resented women because they didn't want to sleep with you. You wanted people who didn't want you, it's not exactly a gendered or systemic issue. It's hard not to dismiss these feelings when they're mired in generalizations and accusatory language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:48 PM
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You can have whatever preferences you like, making moral judgements on who does and doesn't comply with your preferences is bad. It's the difference between 'I would like a partner with no or very little past partners' and 'all women who have sex out of wedlock are stretched-out roasties.'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:38 PM
5

It's sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:32 PM
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the amount of women saying: “it could always have a clot death” or whatever One tweet with less than fifty likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:14 PM
8

Exactly, women reward le epic dark triad bad boys with sex, which means the bad boys get sex and the good virtuous virgins get none, so really it's women's fault they're getting used for sex and deserve to be called whores by the virtuous virgins. We have this conversation in circles every other week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:08 PM
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In conclusion, there is little support for men's rights because it's in our genes to think of men as somewhat disposable. Actually, it's because the men's rights movement is an extremely unappealing cause to follow. In its current form, it's a decentralized movement of online social activism from almost entirely anonymous posters, with its figureheads being a handful of virulent misogynists or D-tier manosphere influencers. Men's rights posters view the exacting political lobbying that feminists…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:25 PM
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Ugh, this fucking topic again. Excited for this to go the same way that every post about this inane nothingburger of a sentiment goes. "All women want fuckboys / chads / alphas and reward them with sex." -> "I don't, my husband / boyfriend is very nice and normal." -> "Yeah but most women will only get wet for dark triad badboys." -> "That's not true, most women I know prefer a stable partner." -> "Well they're lying because all women are lying whores."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:05 PM
1

You care enough to actively debate with people about it. if you don't want people to interpret ideology into the things you say, don't say certain things. If you don't have an opinion on things, don't describe your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:16 AM
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I'm not deciding your stance, you decided your stance through the things you purposefully chose to say. I'm just objecting to the framing that you don't care about this subject that you pretty obviously do care and have put some thought into deciding your opinion about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:12 AM
1

But you've argued from a genuine standpoint. If you believe abortion should remain illegal and condoms and birth control is all that's needed to control reproduction, that's a stance on abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:09 AM
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But you do care about abortion, you're arguing against people who are pro-abortion. You already have a stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:03 AM
9

Dancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:20 AM
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The legitimate reason was that they didn't want to keep in contact with you. They don't want to keep interacting with you. They have made a personal judgement that you are not a person worth forming a connection with, and it's up to you to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:14 AM
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It's really not. People are welcome to use the tools at their disposal to curate their online experience. I use my block button liberally (in places where it's allowed) because I don't want to be exposed to a constant stream of low-effort slop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:06 AM
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It's the internet, you're allowed to block or unadd people for whatever reason you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:59 PM
2

I wish everyone who shits up the daily thread with ERPing goes to hell no matter what <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:35 AM
3

No, you're thinking of movies and TV shows. In real life, men typically don't fight each other for the right to breed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:33 AM
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You're thinking of escorts, most men don't pay women to interact with them. Get off of the internet and enter the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:09 AM
2

What's the deal with gym bros and steroid acne? Surely whatever build you achieve is ruined by the open sores covering your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:27 AM
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Back in my day conservatives used to be overweight religious dads in blue jeans. Now it's all guys who mald about seed oils or anorexic web socialites. We used to be a real country!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:54 AM
0

Interesting how 'extremely neurotic health-obsessed moralists' flipped from being the dominant persona of liberals to conservatives in the space of maybe a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:44 AM
1

So saying ‘women judge men’s morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to them’ would be incorrect because it’s a phenomena that exists across both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:07 AM
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Okay, for the sake of your argument let’s agree that Emmett Till did actually whistle at the woman, and that wasn’t a lie invented by his murderers as justification after the fact. You’ve said that because of advances in feminism, men are being widely discouraged from approaching women romantically because they are being prosecuted for rape as a result, and the only specific example you can give me of this happening is the lynching of a fourteen year old boy in 1955. I’m just wording it like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:43 AM
1

Corporate oligarchs will lock a facsimile of human connection behind paywalls and micro-transactions and planned obsolescence and you’ll thank them for it. Depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:16 AM
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Sometimes you forget how truly bizarre and exceptional the people on this sub are, and then a take like ‘women are forcing men into gladiatorial combat for the privilege of reproducing with them’ pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:45 AM
1

Did the central park five and Emmet Till approach the people involved in their cases romantically? I’ve asked for examples of men approaching women and being prosecuted for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:25 AM
1

French chore coat. You can get some pretty high-quality canvas ones for about that price.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:18 AM
2

Man, seeing men cheer on tech that will inevitably prop up an industry making millions off of lonely mentally ill guys is depressing. You should want better for yourselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:11 AM
3

You think the mormon mom pregnancy announcement tiktoks are a psy op?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:00 AM
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A paper abortion is not equivalent to an abortive procedure. They shouldn’t be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:53 PM
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It’s not going to happen irt the current iteration of the men’s rights movement, and that’s largely an issue with image. Liberals don’t want to be peers with seething incels and conservatives don’t want to identify with self-flagellating victimhood. It’s too anti-family for the right and chauvinistic for the left. For all their ideological faults and infighting, feminists knew how to streamline their message and chase tangible goals with legitimate outcomes, which seems nigh impossible for the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:15 PM
3

Oh my god dude can you not find like a NSFW subreddit to discuss this stuff in. Surely there’s a place that can cater to your fetish somewhere more satisfactorily than this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:40 AM
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DO NOT ENGAGE WITH CUCK FETISH FISHERS DO NOT RESPOND TO CUCK FETISH FISHERS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:18 AM
1

Who was prosecuted for rape in the two "examples" you provided?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:56 AM
1

Where are the examples of men being prosecuted for rape? You gave me a man being fired for sexual harassment and a blog post about a blog post about a celebrity on a bad date. If this is a real problem, it shouldn't be hard for you to find a single example. Where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:26 AM
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In the business, we call inventing a scenario that doesn't exist to support your argument 'making stuff up'. Handwringing and equivocating to dodge the fact you're dropping huge porkies won't make you look better. Men aren't being prosecuted for rape because they approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:03 AM
1

Okay, so there haven't actually been any cases of men being prosecuted for rape after approaching a woman, let alone a feminist? So the thing you stated was happening in your original comment isn't happening and was just a piece of hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:04 PM
1

Okay, if that's happening, surely you can find me one example?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:31 PM
2

Yes, a generalization is a generalization. Even you seem to agree that you need to be more specific in your wording to avoid what you're saying being misconstrued (because you used the word tend).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:51 AM
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You know that people can click on your name and see the comments you've made, right? You're whining about a response to this comment: "Attractive women want men that other attractive women are already attracted to..." You didn't say 'women tend to' at all. If you say what you mean you don't have to get upset that people are taking your comments at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:43 AM
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Okay, I've edited my comment to reflect the reality of the interview. Double editing to say that you can actually read the manuscript this interview is based on for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:09 AM
1

Show me an example of a man going to jail for rape because he expressed interest in a feminist at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:07 AM
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No worries, the context is he wrote and edited and then published them in a book. The Wikiquotes site cites the page number and which book in particular if you feel the urge to cross-reference. They’re not obscure, they’re in some of his best known work. I don’t particularly view rape apologia as ‘advocating for men and boys’ so I guess we’re going to disagree on why exactly women’s rights activists had problems with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:39 AM
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"When I get my most glowing positive cases, 6 out of 200," says Farrell, "the incest is part of the family's open, sensual style of life, wherein sex is an outgrowth of warmth and affection. It is more likely that the father has good sex with his wife, and his wife is likely to know and approve -- and in one or two cases to join in." "Evenings of paying to be rejected can feel like a male version of date rape." Some more gems from the same source- "We have forgotten that before we began calling …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:38 PM
5

Warren Farrell, the guy who said a man raping his child and her friend was 'a part of the family’s open, sensual style of life, wherein sex is an outgrowth of warmth and affection'? The guy who compared being rejected to date rape? Sure, I bet feminists hate him because of his very valid concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:10 PM
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You've done this thing where you've re-worded the premise in a more palatable and gender-neutral way to get me to agree. 'People treat attractive people differently' is observably true, 'women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him' is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:04 PM
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I think the halo effect has basis in reality, 'women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him' does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:38 AM
1

But math has a basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:59 AM
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This is an incredibly boring topic that's been trotted out again and again to identical responses, but the central premise always strikes me as a bit of an own goal for men. If women are only rewarding evil chads with sex and letting the good incels die out, isn't that insinuating that most men are descended from psychopaths? All of the men in my life are normal and good, and the vast majority of them have partners. Have they been secret assholes the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:50 AM
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Nobody named names, op was just alluding to the fact that there are larpers who pretend to be women on here. Chill out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:38 AM
1

What beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:24 AM
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This isn't a court of law, we don't need to present cases to accuse people of being larpers. If you choose to believe everything you read that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:23 AM
1

What needs to be explained? Sometimes people lie on the internet, either to make their perceived opponents look silly or for random personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:28 AM
2

Going to a Halloween party + a themed gig the next day. Me and my partner are going in matching costumes to both so naturally I am over the moon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:15 AM
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It gets really glaring when you notice it. There's a big divide between 'things a normal woman would say' and 'things an abnormal man thinks a woman would say'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:07 AM
1

When will men be held accountable for the crimes of Darth Vader???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:51 AM
1

Anne Wilkes isn't real. She's a fictional character. Written by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:33 AM
3

Aww cute. Sounds like that would be hugely rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:12 AM
1

Oh yeah, main sub gets so incredibly heated. I've been sent some pretty crazy threats over dm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:54 PM
1

I'm considered one of those mean women but I just return the energy being put out. It's stupid to participate in threads calling women dumb shallow whores and expect to be treated with kid gloves. I have sympathy for the men here struggling with self-esteem and mental health issues, but that sympathy runs out when the solution becomes banning abortion or legalizing rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:47 PM
2

Man, imagine telling the programmers of pong that this is where things would end up. That's really tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:23 PM
3

I immediately take this back as I am always silently mentally beefing with a certain user who needs their return key destroyed posthaste
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:16 PM
2

You guys are joking about beefing specific users on here, right? Nobody actually cares that much about people on this sub, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:11 PM
5

What is the circumstance in which it would be wrong for a woman to abort?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:16 PM
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But it's happened to women too- Woman claims she’s been forced to give up daughter to man she accuses of raping her when she was 16 — and pay him child support
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:32 PM
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Both men and women are financially responsible for a child after it is born unless they give up parental rights. Both men and women can get an abortion and prevent the progression of pregnancy. Where's the inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:21 PM
2

I think some aspects of blackpill should be allowed (because funny), and we should be able to discuss looks in regard to attraction. Seems stupid that we can’t bring up female oppression either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:03 PM
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feminists 🤝 blackpillers agreeing the new moderation rules are retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:35 PM
1

They're the only ones posting mildly interesting topics. It's way better than the usual 'dae think da women are da evils????'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:35 AM
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Who is making tradwifery illegal? Where is all the hidden tradwife knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:48 AM
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The person who commented that was a man. Edit, lol, this is the account. These evil feminist women accusing men of wanting to fuck everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:19 AM
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I'm not arguing that all perpetrators are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:17 AM
1

When you say 'western women' do you mean women in Southern States of the US? Most western countries have legal abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:12 AM
0

What do you make of the neurological study linked above?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:17 AM
3

The rate of domestic violence doesn’t increase in lesbian relationships, there is a higher rate of women who have experienced domestic violence in lesbian relationships- obviously with two women there’s a higher chance at least one partner will be one of the one in four women who experience DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:26 AM
1

Why is it 'shifting' the issue? Misogyny is still a problem even if it's coming from gay men. It's an explanation not an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:33 AM
1

We aren't talking about happy, well-adjusted out gay men though, of which there are many. Plenty of men who have struggled with identity issues have shared that they expressed this through sharing harmful and offensive ideas about women, to cope with a lack of attraction. I don't think this is true just for gay men- plenty of lesbians have discussed the same phenomena but reversed and with misandry, and the 'incel to trans pipeline' is a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:54 AM
1

I've seen women express that men who are exaggeratedly misogynistic online (in discussions around women's bodies or female sexuality, for example) may have that response because they're not sexually aroused by women. There have been multiple gay men who have expressed that they held aggressive and discriminatory views towards women because of an internal insecurity with their identity. I don't think it's taboo or insulting to bring that into a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:51 AM
1

I don't think people have the same 'you're homophobic' gut reaction to implying someone is asexual. Also, I feel like it's more common to see vitriolic misogyny amongst gay men (closeted and out) than asexual men, which is what would prompt the accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:39 AM
1

Genuinely asking, why do you perceive someone implying you're gay as being an insult? If you're a man who dislikes most women, surely you'd anticipate that some people would consider that a sign of closeted homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:38 AM
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What is the actual potential evidence that someone isn't attracted to women, outside of voicing a general dislike of women? Just to preempt: I think women who dislike men probably aren't attracted to men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:34 AM
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I agree with the first part, but not the second- I agree that it's mostly internal (you don't have to identify with being a victim if you choose not to), but maybe not in some fringe circumstances. If you saw someone hit being hit by a car and they fell into a coma, you'd probably describe them to the police as the 'victim'. That doesn't necessarily mean the person who was struck will always be a 'victim' per-se - maybe in the future they decide not to identify with the label- but in the moment …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:32 AM
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Why is it homophobic to imply that men who don't seem to be attracted to women probably aren't attracted to women? It's not bad to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:23 AM
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I think it depends. It's not a tangibly enforced social class, so it comes down to the details of the events- if someone is involved in a carjacking, they could identify with being a victim of a crime or not. It's possible to be injured as a result of an event but not be considered a victim- I don't think people who participate in things like BDSM or injurious sports like boxing consider themselves victims. I know some women who have experienced rape who identify as victims and some who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:11 AM
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I don't think anyone here cares about humiliation fetish porn from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:00 AM
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victim/ˈvɪktɪm/noun a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action. If someone fits this definition they are a victim. If they don't they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:52 AM
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But women get this stuff all the time, as soon as we're old enough to conceive of rape being a threat we're told to avoid dark areas at night and to make sure people always know our location, to hold our keys between our knuckles and run when cars slow down beside us. I remember an assembly I had in my first year of high school where a social worker told us to monitor our alcohol intake and always keep our drinks in sight. I can't imagine anyone saying "don't talk about this" other than people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:56 AM
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But women have been getting more and more independent and 'boss-babe'-esque for hundreds of years at this point. If genetics favoured submissive and weak women wouldn't it have happened a handful of generations ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:06 AM
1

No need to throw your toys. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:58 PM
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Why would anyone use a dating app that displays their N count, male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:37 AM
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Getting baited by r slash advice posts is like biting into toy food and getting angry when your teeth hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:33 AM
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Men have written love letters to killers like Jodi Arias, Casey Anthony and Karla Homolka- Karla Homolka is married with kids now. Maxim Magazine voted Amanda Knox as one of the sexiest women of the year. Gypsy Rose Blanchard has had two fiancees since she was released from prison. Susan Atkins has spoken publically about the fanmail she receives from men, to the point where one of her fans married her. All you have to do is hop on twitter to examine how men feel about female pedophiles in high-…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:22 AM
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Yes, a lot of male attraction is formed by homosocial norms. Consider how a man would discuss casual sex with a fat woman vs marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:01 AM
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Okay? Would you like me to argue with you so you get the joy of talking in circles for hours? Like seriously, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:47 AM
1

How? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:29 AM
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Sure, but men castrated themselves for Marshall Applewhite and went to die in Guyana for Jim Jones as well. Being in thrall to cult leaders isn't exactly a female trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:19 AM
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Okay, so your evidence that women lust for rapists and terrorist is a Facebook page dedicated to Dzokhar Tsarnaev having 13,500 members and a totally legit screenshot of a totally legit experiment you conducted via Tinder? You can see how this a less-than-convincing argument, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:11 AM
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Sorry, where's the implication that victims of IPV are good? You can be manipulated into giving over your bank details without being a good person, and you can find yourself in a relationship where abuse escalates without being a good person. People hiding their intentions doesn't automatically imply that victims of their deceit are morally good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:08 AM
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When did she imply all victims of IPV are good?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 AM
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Victims of intimate partner violence don’t have to be outstanding or even good people to be victims of intimate partner violence. You’re projecting morality onto the term of ‘victim’.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:19 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:15 AM
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Is this your first time learning about sociology?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:10 AM
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Men wrote love letters to Myra Hindley and Aileen Wuornos as well. Why do all men lust for serial killers and child murderers? No, a random composite of totally real screenshots does not an argument make.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:07 AM
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Yes, rapists and terrorists have problems attracting women. What world do you live in where women are falling over themselves to date rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:37 AM
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It’s not a non-response, you’re welcome to comment whatever you like wherever you want to. You seem very upset that I’m not engaging you in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:34 AM
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Sure, you’re welcome to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:08 AM
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What is the point of posts like this? They always go the same way- an insane seething premise about how women are all pathologically evil bitches where redpillers agree and bluepillers disagree. Is it just for the joy of talking in circles for a couple hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:40 PM
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If you don’t want people to contrast the experiences of men and women, don’t bring up gendered issues. Write about it in your diary where you never have to confront conflicting information, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:37 PM
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You're trying to present being harassed and belittled online as an issue unique to men when it's not. This is a sub about gender issues, obviously people are going to compare experiences men and women go through here. You've even done it in your original reply. Why is it suddenly self-absorption when somebody you disagree with does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:24 AM
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You're right, as a woman on the internet I have never been harassed, bullied or invalidated. There is no misogyny or vitriol to women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:57 AM
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I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:41 AM
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I've never said feminism is about equality. Why would an ideology about liberating women from oppression be about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:28 AM
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Sure, I agree, these studies are junk science and hard to prove. Women value kindness and fairness more, but it doesn't mean they express it. This point still stands: Converging findings from an independent neuroimaging study revealed gender-related activity in neural reward circuits during prosocial decisions. Thus, the neural reward system appears to be more sensitive to prosocial rewards in women than in men, providing a neurobiological account for why women often behave more prosocially than…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:00 AM
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Yes, NIMBYS exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:57 PM
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What are the gender roles feminists are forcing on men? Also, yes, I can imagine feminists are more concerned about women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:23 PM
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Okay, I've talked to lots of guys who have expressed that they feel like men will criticize them for being effeminate or gay if they talk about their feelings, and thousands of men have expressed feeling the same way around other men. It's a battle of the anecdotes, once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:54 PM
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Sourcing your beliefs about real-world phenomena from Reddit is for idiots so I won't be doing that. Besides, there's a guy in this very thread saying he has had better experiences opening up with women than with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:40 PM
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This is so vague and granular that it's basically impossible to prove outside of hand-wavey anecdotes, but if we're really going down that path, multiple studies have shown women are more likely to express and value kindness and fairness, the point where the reward systems in women's brains will respond more strongly after participating in pro-social experiences than men. I believe this is down to societal programming and moulding in early childhood than an actual difference in sexed brains, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:38 PM
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Yeah, there are probably a few people with hypocritical ideological standpoints out there. It's not a thing inherent to women, white women, or women who live in San Francisco. You're making up imaginary people to seethe at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:20 PM
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Lmao, the more "radical" feminists think we should abolish gender entirely and that all penetrative sex is inherently rape. The idea that a woman should work and be financially independent from her husband has been a cornerstone of feminist ideology since the 1910s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:16 PM
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Women are more likely to criticize men for being effeminate, not being a ‘leader,’ showing emotion, doing something ‘gay,’ etc. Lol. It’s like how they claim to want to end homelessness and support Black Lives Matter etc, but when they try to build a homeless shelter for minorities in her neighborhood, she’s going to oppose that. A lot women are emotional NIMBYs. Making up women to get mad at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:07 PM
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Feminists are pretty explicitly against gender roles and women's roles solely being housework and childrearing. I think you're using 'feminism' to mean 'thing some women do that I don't like.'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:57 PM
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Trauma dumping is not a man talking to his girlfriend about his problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:42 PM
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Only two?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:17 AM
2

Yeah, of course she isn't owed an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:07 AM
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What's your wildest PPD conspiracy? Mine is that a prolific black/redpilled poster and a prolific girlboss poster are actually the same person. The typing style and vocabulary is just too similar lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:03 AM
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Lols
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:58 AM
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I would be a little taken aback, the same level I would be if I found out a guy I was seeing was homeschooled or learnt to read at sixteen or something, as I exist in a culture that views loss of virginity as a normal developmental milestone. I wouldn't immediately assume he was an evil incel freak but I would want to hear his perspective about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:56 AM
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Being a victim= men Being a culprit = man See, I can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:38 AM
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Sounds like a vague complaint about a relationship. I don’t know enough information to make a judgement call.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:48 AM
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Real Men Use Their Mf’in Words?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:39 AM
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Another problem that can be solved by substituting ‘women’ for ‘a woman’. A woman has written an article wherein she shares that she thinks that some men who include the fact they’re in therapy on their online dating profiles are doing so to virtue signal. It’s the male equivalent of women using ‘boss babe’ to sometimes denote their involvement in multi-level marketing- it can be an issue, sometimes it isn’t. I think this should be filed under ‘big whoop.’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:37 AM
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But the fake guy has a point, you don’t have to give blood to people you’re responsible for. You don’t have to give blood to your kids. Why is somebody’s womb forfeit but their blood, bone marrow and kidneys aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:18 AM
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That’s because this is a fake problem you have made up. Nobody thinks a man talking about his problems to his partner is him using them as a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:03 AM
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If abortion is child sacrifice so reversing over a toddler in your driveway because you elected to get a ford F150. It's elective, ritualistic and engaged in for a desired result. If you can stretch the definition of words far enough they can fit around everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:28 AM
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I think suction removal of a developing embryo through a painless medical procedure causes less suffering than ending the life of a baby through suffocation, drowning or exposure. if you ban the first, the rate of the second will increase, that's the material reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:40 AM
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But women aren't taking unwanted children to fire stations, they're killing them. If you support abortion bans, you support up to 16% higher rates of infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:33 AM
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The better choice for an unwanted child is abortion, not dropping it off at a fire station or leaving it outside in the cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:30 AM
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Infanticides still happen in places with 'baby Moses' laws. Surprisingly, infanticide rates are 16% higher in states with abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:25 AM
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Thank you so much! We met at a party a mutual friend held, ended up on the fire escape talking for hours, literally watching the sun rise together. He's one of the smartest and most interesting people I've ever met, it's early days but I'm hoping this is something serious!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:45 AM
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Her hair always looks so thin and drab, it accentuates all of her worst features. She couldn't use all that Thiel money for a few tape ins?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:16 AM
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Thanks! And no, I'm going to be meaner. My bf thinks it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:28 AM
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Officially off the market! Feels good to graduate from a fabulous single woman to a fabulous girlfriend. Sending good partner-attracting energy to my fellow stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:17 AM
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Read an article about the Sandy Hook shooter and stumbled across a two-sentence summary of most posters here. The state’s attorney’s report says that when Nancy asked Adam whether he would feel sad if anything happened to her, he replied, “No.” A Word document called “Selfish,” which was found on Adam’s computer, gives an explanation of why females are inherently selfish, written while one of them was accommodating him in every possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:57 AM
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Don't worry, men make up the majority of convicted cases of beastiality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:14 AM
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So not only do men fuck animals more, they're prouder of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:14 AM
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Studies published between 2002 and 2016 indicated that most individuals who self-reported having sex with animals were white males ranging in age from 16 to 78 years. Table 1 summarizes the characteristics of 456 adult offenders who were primarily males (86.0%) and ranged in age from 18 to 82 years, with a mean age of 38 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:55 AM
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What's the distinction between fictional porn for women, and fictional porn for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:08 PM
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The comment I'm responding to implies that women consume 'victimless' fictional porn. So do women love reading smutty books and consuming artistic media, or are we prudes who hate any kind of erotic depiction at all because we hate sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:03 PM
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Example of what? How are men endangered and exploited in the process of writing romance novels for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:00 PM
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But you and I know that when we're discussing porn we're talking about all porn, including non-consensual porn with trafficked performers. You can't pick and choose which types of porn is actually porn and which types of porn don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:55 PM
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But there aren't 0 victims from the industry, that's the whole point. You can't imagine what women would think about porn in a perfect world where it's completely ethical because that world doesn't exist. Obviously women's views on porn in real life are going to be shaped by how exploitative and dangerous it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:34 PM
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But this person is bringing up romance novels for women as an equivalent to regular porn for men. Even so, how many men are trafficked and rape to create porn for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:31 PM
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How many men have been raped in the process of writing romance books for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:20 PM
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Yeah it’s just not gonna work, nobody is going to join in and use women as a punching bag so you can get off. You need new material badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:25 AM
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I’ll have to get you in touch with him, donations to charities that benefit the mentally disabled come out of a shared account
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:23 AM
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I’ll ask my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:17 AM
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Again with playing the victim, sensitive little poppet. Cry hard enough and maybe a big strong man will swoop in to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:17 AM
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It’s not an insult that you’re gay, it’s an insult that you use women as props in your creepy male supremacy fetishism. There are lots of places you can go to interact with men with the same kink, go there and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:10 AM
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It’s not homophobic to insist gay men who hate women get a life. Always playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:06 AM
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I’m looking down on you because of your behaviour and attitude, not because of your financial status. Being less wealthy isn’t funny, begging women to buy you magic the gathering cards and malding online is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:04 AM
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I love when I see your username because I know i’m about to read bait in an attempt to entice other self hating gay men to join in on your fetishistic roleplaying about stinky evil women and big strong chads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:02 AM
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You seem upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:01 AM
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I have plenty of positive reactions with people in the real world, this reddit account is mainly for laughing at spergs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:00 AM
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Ah, the malding about it is based in false assumptions. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:50 PM
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Duh it's true, I'm just confused why my parents being successful is supposed to be an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:31 PM
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Just walk up to them and explain that you're not interested in women, they'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:30 PM
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Is there a bigger cope than 'daddy's money'? Yes, my parents love me and had the financial capability to support me into adulthood. It screams insecurity and jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:27 PM
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nothing anyone posts here is worth reacting to with substance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:36 AM
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On PPD? Why not seek attention from normal people instead of the socially challenged spazoids on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:49 AM
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Are you not sure how their being your friends is relevant? And even if this was true, multiple studies have still proven that on average men cheat more frequently than women. It makes more sense that you're misrepresenting information you've personally collected instead of that multiple studies are incorrect because women are lying whores or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:47 AM
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I think you may be erroneously over-reporting the amount of women you perceive to be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:33 AM
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Trust me guys! I'm totally happy and fulfilled! That's why I always post about how happy and fulfilled I am to Reddit! Because my lifestyle is just too awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:01 AM
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Thinking normies don't know who is running for president or didn't see the highest-grossing movie of last year is inadvertently exposing yourself as somebody who has no idea how normies act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:53 PM
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Exactly, if you’re basing your adult worldview on things you perceived happening on a social level in middle school you need to emotionally mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:24 AM
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But they’re not ‘versions’ of anything that occurs in the real world. That’s as stupid as relying on media depictions of mad scientists in your argument about actual scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:23 AM
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The amount of earnest discussion here about 'bad boys' and 'jocks' really shows many people on PPD gain their understanding of social interaction through media. If you're an adult who divides the world between 'nerds' and 'bullies' you need to become loggingoffpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:40 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. I wish you luck on your quest to find a freaky pilled maiden
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:36 PM
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King. All these blackpilled and redpilled losers complaining about not fucking and you're the only one doing something about it. Personally I would rather kill myself in front of a crowd than hook up with somebody through Reddit but I have nothing but respect for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:30 PM
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Lmao at the absolute hero using PPD as a personals section. The only person using this place correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:22 PM
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When the men on this site regularly rant about how much they hate women and write long sexually explicit diatrabes wherein they describe their ideal male and how much imaginary sex he's having, you can't blame people for coming to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:06 PM
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better than defending a random sperg roleplaying as a hot guy on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:31 AM
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im laughing at retards on the internet, incl you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:29 AM
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malding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:23 AM
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But you've used Amazon slop as an example of things to whine about. Or is the UN funding programmes for women to study STEM in Uzbekistan what you mean when you're talking about 'state-sponsored propaganda?' What a sheltered little life you must lead, I wish I had your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:21 AM
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Once I heard a four-year-old say that boys are made out of slugs and snails and girls are made out of sugar and spice. What are you waiting for, go fine her too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:15 AM
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'Lol check out this retard catfishing' 'Haha match with him and fuck with him'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:13 AM
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Lmao, what a tiny and inconsequential thing to get upset about. Do you cry about 'girl power' being a slogan that advocates for male genocide too? How about 'girls rule boys drool?'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:11 AM
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Why is everyone on this sub obsessed with tattling to teacher? Yes, gormless fuckwits are allowed to use the internet too. If I got upset every time a mentally ill male on this sub whined about women voting or how they wish they were molested as a kid I'd be catatonic. Scroll past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:03 AM
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In terms of boredom, men and women are nearly tied—with 5.8 percent of men also citing this as their reason for cheating. However, men are almost twice as likely to cheat out of the need for novelty, scoring at 10.9 percent. Lmao, males excusing male degeneracy as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:44 AM
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Wah wah wah all women are evil because they don't want to wash the stains out of my spongebob undies. This will surely be the undoing of Western society, wah wah, Chad, wah wah wah...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:09 PM
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Why do guys always use this thread to sext each other? Surely there are better platforms for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:52 PM
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I live my life on the internet, checkmate feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:25 AM
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Yes, designers can make pieces for specific models, but it's uncommon. It would be extremely inconvenient if all pieces were custom, in case models are replaced, the lineup or the show is switched around, or the designer decides that certain pieces need to be cut. I know this because I work in fashion. In something like an S/S collection, a large show with hundreds of individual pieces, designers aren't going to be designing with certain models in mind outside of pieces at the beginning and endi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:18 AM
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HAHAHAHA this is so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:02 AM
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Designers don't create pieces with specific models in mind, except for some fringe cases. Designing an entire collection around which models wear what seems like a massive amount of work. And duh, I know that. If she didn't want to walk in this outfit she wouldn't have attended the casting call. Are you trying to say that an African model wouldn't walk for something that didn't integrate African fabrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:01 AM
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Models don't design clothes. She's not in charge of working anything into the show. She's in charge of wearing the clothes down the runway. The skirt is made of crocheted squares, not woven panels like the kente cloth. The inspiration is clearly retro woollen blankets like this one, dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:59 AM
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That's not sex. That's the psychological torture of a woman by dangling your large pendulous teats in her face. Truly an example of the daily horrors of a woman's existence in the third world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:54 AM
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Jfc is that really you? Stop worrying about women and invest in a training bra, your gigantic breasts are incredibly repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:43 AM
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Omg I could not believe this was Moschino! Lots of Todd Oldham inspiration but so modern. It’s fab!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:38 AM
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The outfit is adorable, she looks chic as fuck. Also did you say the skirt looks like kente cloth because she’s black? It’s clearly crocheted granny squares lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:35 AM
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Avg male ''''attracted'''' to women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:54 PM
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I said that men are getting slaughtered in hundreds of thousands to defend women and children, From who? Ghosts? Women despise the vast majority of men, and only view a microscopic minority of the most attractive men as human beings Unlike men, who we can see from this thread, are caring and empathetic towards all kinds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:36 PM
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Went on that date to the viral tiktok place, turns out my date chose it because 'it looked super artsy so I thought you'd be into it,' which is very sweet. Unfortunately the food was disgusting and he was incredibly, incredibly boring. The 'looking for a man in finance' thing must be a psyop by Big Male because every finance bro I've met has been soooo incredibly annooooying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:31 PM
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Women want good communication but won't sit down with me to explain step by step how I should wipe my ass, wtf is wrong with these bitches????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:13 PM
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NAMALT, but EMALT. I'm not going to rely on a stranger in a dangerous situation just in case he's the 'join in' type and not the 'help' type. I'd rather just excise caution in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:08 PM
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Not at all, I see a guy offering to pay as a nice gesture, the same way I would him offering to get me an Uber or buy a round of drinks- appreciated but certainly not expected. I understand why some women say they don't enjoy this as it creates a sense of obligation, but I'm Meanypilled and don't feel bad about letting a man pay and not fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:08 PM
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Whew... what a dark chaotic joke-esque thing to do... some men just want to watch the world burn... you have truly won the internet today good sir... take my updoot and my respect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:59 AM
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He's living proof that in a hedonistic society, a man can be the most honorable man on the planet (the greatest nice guy among nice guys) but if he's average in other categories, he'll basically be an incel compared to someone like Tate who hits 100% on every superficial marker but is morally bankrupt. I mean, why stop there? If Andrew Tate is proof of this, why isn't Jimmy Saville? Or Bill Cosby? They both had wives and relationships and managed to do horrible acts while maintaining a veer of n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:52 AM
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No, my comment clearly uses a few examples of violent and misogynistic offences committed by colonial settlers as things that wouldn't happen if they never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:26 AM
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When I said 'pre-colonial societies,' I meant pre-colonial societies. I would've gone into more granular detail if I was talking about a specific place and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:58 AM
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Okay, great. Do you disagree with me or anything or did you just want to compare notes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:28 AM
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It's so funny. "We're not going to help you! We don't give a fuck!" "Okay, you're not going to help us." "No! You can't say that! What about Ukraine???"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:26 AM
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Lmao. Men are all strangers only in it for themselves and don't give a fuck about random women, and simultaneously awesome badasses protecting us from the evil invaders and we need to treat them as heroes? Make up your mind, are you stepping in to help us or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:11 AM
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Okay, so how much do you know about pre-colonial societies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:48 AM
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Of course, there are lots of instances where men have attacked and raped women in public and other men have stood idly by or joined in. The idea that a guy would give enough of a shit to intervene is a nice fantasy, but I don't think anybody is surprised that you have this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:34 AM
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Is that what your anthropology degree specialises in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:15 AM
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No seriously, are people actually going out and doing drugs? Seriously? I'm disgusted. Really? That's degenerate behaviour as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:43 AM
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I have a minor in anthropological studies focusing on Micronesian, Polynesian and Melanesian societies, specifically Papa New Guinea from 1540 to 1840.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:42 AM
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Oh my god, people are going to parties and doing hard drugs?? What the fuck, isn't that illegal???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:08 AM
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Reddit is such a weird place lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:36 AM
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Do people really think going to a music festival is a red flag? Is this a yank thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:30 AM
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Worlds fakest and gayest post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:21 AM
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Q4stacies, a guy is taking me out to a restaurant tonight, looked it up and turns out it went super viral as a 'great selfie location' because of the decor. Is he ran through?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:06 AM
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No, pre-colonial societies were still pretty shit places to exist as women. It'd just avoid the existence of specific horrors committed to women during colonialism, like men pimping out children to curry favour and the rape of Indigenous women by settlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:00 AM
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But why bother talking about Andrew Tate's existence if you're not going to stand back and look at the full picture? He's a pedophilic sex criminal who is largely successful because of his rabid fanbase of elementary school aged boys. These things- his pimping, his imprisonment, his views on women- are just as much a part of his success as his models, his cars and his sunglasses are. People like Tate because of his degenerate behaviour, not despite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:55 AM
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Andrew Tate is about as 'real' as all other influences are, his thing is just virulent misogyny instead of gym stuff or makeup artistry. Nobody is trying to argue that he doesn't pose next to expensive cars, or that he doesn't have women in his videos, but that his photoshoots are in the service of creating a fantasy that convinces people to give him money and publicise him online, just like you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:16 AM
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He's an influencer, he makes content to generate clicks, he has specifically baited you into the fantasy that he's selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:37 PM
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pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:59 AM
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Me made Thog big upset. Was only trying to help Thog. Me Thog friend :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:58 AM
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Couldn't handle heat, had to leave kitchen. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:56 AM
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You Thog. Thog not words good, so me use less word to hurt Thog brain less. Make easy for Thog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:55 AM
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Thog not calm. Thog mad and want attention. Thog relax now please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:50 AM
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Thog mad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:49 AM
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Thog want attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:46 AM
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I don't know who those are. Is this an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:45 AM
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Hey, thats me! Thats a funny assumption, but all the men in my life have been really great. I have lovely male friends and all my partners have been awesome. I just think the guys here are mostly gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:40 AM
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That may be true, but it certainly doesn't come off that way in your comments, so you probably shouldn't include the fact that you're an ugly horny unfuckable guy in your insults. Also I get why you feel that, it's because I have an interest sociology of gender. It's fun to have a space where I can talk about one of my academic interests and also call people names.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:39 AM
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Okay, man, that's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:34 AM
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Woah, you used a different gross word with a roughly equal meaning!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:26 AM
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Yeah but 'ugly unfuckable miscreant' is roughly equivalent to 'DND nerd' in the eyes of normal people, and even then, the DND nerds are probably getting laid more. You need to find somebody who is objectively lower than you on the social ladder- may I suggest meth addicts, the inbred, or pedophiles as targets for comparative insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:25 AM
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Taking what far too seriously? The joke that I made?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:22 AM
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Okay, sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:18 AM
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Nice, you're learning. Proud of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:16 AM
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They banned being smart on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:13 AM
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I get it, man; you're just asking questions. But it doesn't work if you're trying to make someone upset about being fat who is empirically not fat. Instead, it would be better if you latched onto an insecurity that is subjective and hard to prove, like being ugly or annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:12 AM
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Yeah, the DND angle just doesn't work if you're an ugly guy who's desperate for sex. Instead, I reckon the way to go next time would be pointing out the fact that my comment was kind of long and used complicated wording, like, 'nobody gives a fuck about your dissertation in fat studies, whiny cunt'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:09 AM
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Don't worry mongo, nobody is trying to dish it out. You go back to matching the shapes with the holes and somebody will come along to wipe the drool off your chest shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:03 AM
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'Fat chicks' is the lowest hanging fruit when coming up with an idea of a person that evokes disgust. It's like when women use 'homeless guys' as the epitome of repugnance in a male form. But women here don't really talk like that, so I used the one guys normally go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:03 AM
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You've already said the gym thing once, you don't need to tire yourself out by trying to think of a way to bring it up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:59 AM
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About what? The fact that guys on this sub really want to be bullies, but aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:55 AM
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See, this is what I mean. 'Nuh uh YOU have no friends' would have been just as effective. Just a bit sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:52 AM
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See, it just sounds so empty and insincere. Just an attempt at being mean but it's obvious you don't have the juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:50 AM
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Nooo, guys who call women fat whores are going to be insulted by my observation, I didn't intend this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:47 AM
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I don't have a chip on my shoulder about kids who were excluded from normal socialisation, I actually think it's really sad. I think overcompensating by trying to be as gross on the internet as you possibly can is just a bit pathetic though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:43 AM
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Is one fat chick that’s interested in me really too much to ask? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:41 AM
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but you should not be showing fat girls attention, you should give them gym recommendations only I'm talking about you retard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:39 AM
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The overly gross and juvenile way men on here talk always cracks me up. It's obvious they're trying to imitate a kind of pubescent chauvinism but failed at socialisation when that sort of thing was appropriate, so now they have to make up for it by guessing what normal middle school boys with friends talked like. "Imagine fucking a fatty obese chick but secretly she's also fucking a big dick chad and popping out his grody gremlin babies!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:35 AM
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You don't understand us, you're jealous of us. Leave us alone and go chase Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:52 AM
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Just because you lust for 6'4" white chads doesn't mean all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:22 AM
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Yeah, men are constantly saying their friendships are less deep and men treat their friends like shit and don't enjoy emotional connection. Seems shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:19 AM
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Nah, the onus is on men to start being good fathers. Your dedication to dickriding deadbeats is the only poor life choice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah, shitty investigating is bad, that's my whole point. If you don't think we should be investigating reports of rape IDK how to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:23 PM
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Wow, you sound super emotional when confronted with science and research. Are your hormone levels okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:22 PM
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Yes, the source of the fatherless problem is a lack of fathers. Men should start taking responsibility for their children and be more involved. You let fuck boys rut and nut, not men. Ew. I don't participate in the discussion of fetishism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah, lots of rape accusations get thrown out because of shitty investigating and the terrible treatment of reporters. MRAs should be outraged about this, too; bringing more rape cases to court would mean unearthing these false reports and we'd be able to determine a more conclusive number of cases on both ends. Alas, the justice system doesn't take reports of rape seriously, and we have to base our numbers on multiple sources and make a rough estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah, but one is an estimate based on multiple international studies that specifically use academic research and testing standards and the other is based on your feelings. Isn't the fact that some information is superior to others, like, your entire point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:04 PM
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Sounds like something you've made up based on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:48 PM
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'Believe women' is just sound probability when false reporting accounts for 2% of sexual assault and rape. Also lmao There is another explanation, that feminists are just bunch of hormonal women who just make decisions based on their feelings Elon Musk is an asshole but he is most likely asexual so I believe that those accusations are false.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:24 PM
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Agreed, men should stop abandoning their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:11 PM
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Oh boy, a thread about women's standards! I sure am excited to read a handful of decades-old Psychology Today articles that unequivocally prove that all women find most men visually disgusting until this thread is deleted for breaking the 'no posts about looks' rule. Can't wait to see it devolve into the same circular arguments where women share their perspectives and men call them all exceptions to the rule!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:09 PM
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I'm starting to believe you about the veteran stuff because you write like somebody who was shot in the head multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:58 AM
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Women need women-only shelters to keep them safe from men. Men don't need sex-segregated shelters, as they already use a majority of resources for the homeless. Men make up 80% of all homeless people. Women aren't taking up more space in shelters. If I lose my job and become homeless, I can either schlep to a woman's shelter or risk becoming part of the 70% of homeless women who are raped or sexually assaulted. Pretty raw deal if you ask me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:53 AM
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That's okay, I suppose you need something to do to distract yourself from the hunger and cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:51 AM
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Did you stroke out writing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:43 AM
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Why would there be men-only homeless shelters? Are homeless women so dangerous to homeless men that they need sex-segregated shelters?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:40 AM
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For sure, Edgy the Hedgehog. You've dominated life, and now you're here to do a victory lap on the daily thread of an obscure subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:33 AM
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This was sarcasm, I replied to the off-topic comment. I don't actually think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:25 AM
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Okay, does your dad take you to his office at Nintendo and let you look at the unreleased Mario games too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:19 AM
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people are being silenced and locked up over memes! where? unrelated X gorn video This must be those superior reasoning skills I've heard so much about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:18 AM
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You're a 44 year old two-time veteran worth 30 million dollars who regularly has sex with 25 year olds, and you're choosing to spend your time in a subreddit where retards regularly spend hours arguing if women can experience complex emotions or not? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:12 AM
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Terpers love and admire attractive men so much they consider a woman who was in a previous relationship with one to be a widow? Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:04 AM
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Approaching is masculinising, and being approached is feminising. I don't want to emasculate a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:02 AM
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Where? Also, that's a fundamental misunderstanding of how homeless shelters work. If a bed is open, they will accept the first person who asks for it, not turn away a man so it can stay open if a woman needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:00 AM
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Men who lose their jobs and become homeless can also go to homeless shelters. They're not for women only. Single men who parent their kids get money for their children as well. That's how sole parenting works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:45 AM
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I, a childless single woman, pay less tax than a childless single man? That's awesome, when does that start?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:05 AM
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Well yeah, you said dole bludger is a gender neutral term, so it's used against men and women. Men and women both face pressure to provide for their families, it's just women that face intense violent sexualisation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:15 PM
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So women are judged based on their ability to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:09 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Welfare_queen A "welfare queen" is a derogatory term used in the United States to describe individuals who are perceived to misuse or abuse the welfare system, often through fraudulent means, child endangerment, or manipulation This stereotype implies that these women intentionally have multiple children to maximize their welfare benefits, avoid seeking employment, and live extravagantly at the expense of taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:02 PM
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Absolutely, but I'd probably avoid having male friends. Male socialisation seems horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:56 PM
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Wow, I get seen as just a cog in the machine instead of a cog in the machine which is also a sex object? Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:54 PM
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"Girls being nurturing to drunk assholes" just sounds like she's been put on babysitting duty. Anyway these girls honestly sound like angels for making sure these losers don't black out and choke on their own vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:03 AM
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Why do feminists/women only entertain the idea of choice when it comes to women? I don't; if a man gets pregnant, he's free to abort it without consulting his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:21 AM
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We’re getting welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:52 PM
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How do you suppose we punish women for being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:43 PM
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Male hivemind strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:29 PM
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Fair play to him, ‘guy who clocks in every day to post his singular bit to tepid reactions’ is very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:16 PM
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The constant fetishposting (sperm bank larp guy, BMI larp guy, the many race kink guys, male supremacy fetish guy, fat fetish guy). Just find a forum where you can happily discuss shit that gets you off instead of trying to rope in randoms to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:53 PM
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fenimism https://preview.redd.it/ftrzykd2xgkd1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d5ddca89955f7710ceb1a605fbfdc80cfeeda178
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:49 PM
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Dad is 6’1”, exes range from 5’6” to 6’3”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:43 PM
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see daily thread ask if thread is normal or fetishposting mods laugh. "it's a good thread ma'am" look inside it's fetishposting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:59 AM
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Man, shit like this is why I read PPD. Where else am I going to find a reply that simultaneously insists feminists using statistics around welfare is ‘stolen valour’ from black women but also ‘ghetto poverty’ black women are welfare queens who get abused and sexually assaulted because they choose badly? It’s like if a gender studies professor got into the machine from the fly with a race kink guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:01 AM
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Oh, so you ARE talking to me? Why would you respond directly to me using third person pronouns?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:51 AM
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who are you talking to? blackpill induced schizophrenia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:40 AM
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Well if you have looks, then women should be throwing themselves at you. If personality doesn't matter idk what you're complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:40 AM
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Lmao, this conversation always goes the same way. "I would be happy with an ugly woman" "Okay, get on tinder and match with a meth addict or obese woman or middlle-aged woman or a single mother." "No! I should be able to have sex with a woman I'm attracted to! Ugly women fuck chad all the time!" "Okay, what's an example of a woman you're attracted to?" "Sydney Sweeney, but I'd settle for Margot Robbie." It's the same hoops they constantly jump through to avoid confronting reality. Like clockwork…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:37 AM
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Yeah, I've been told I'm pretty charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:29 AM
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You've taken the bait of other men who have convinced you it's not worth trying. They've dragged you down into the snake pit, and nobody can do much if you've decided you're happier there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:28 AM
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This is about men, blackpill guys want gfs because they want approval from other men. They aren't attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:25 AM
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Charisma and conversational skills are learnt. If you can't be bothered to put effort into getting what you want, you probably didn't want it that badly in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 AM
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These guys would never be content with life; if they didn't view women as a way to gain male approval, it would've been something else. It's a personal problem not a societal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:22 AM
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If all four billion woman on the earth reject him then I'll accept that he has truly failed in his attempt to attract a mate and grant him the blackpill crown
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:18 AM
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The black pill is men unattracted to women trying to convince other men not to try so they'll have peers. Every post boils down to 'I have never tried to get with a woman and shouldn't have to, it's over for me, and it's over for you, come hang out with me'. Truly blackpilled men should separate from the rest of the population and live in some sort of monastery so they don't disturb proper society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:10 AM
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A girl I knew had a guy track down her social media, call her workplace and threaten to turn up and rape her because she bet him in a shooter. Turns out he had a track record of making disgusting threats against women online. The weirdest part was that he was a normal guy with a wife and a kid who would regularly get online and verbally abuse women because he was so furious about losing in a video game. It really brings out the worst in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:04 AM
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Over a decade ago, 184 women rated an awkwardly posed and badly lit photo of a guy with a neutral expression over an awkwardly posed and badly lit photo of a guy smiling; this must mean all women hate fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:01 AM
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Approaching is masculinizing behaviour, and being approached is feminizing behaviour. The reward of getting a guy's number or making out for a few minutes is just not worth the risk of being branded a nasty desperate slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:31 PM
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For sure, I’d rather be dying in the street of cholera or getting raped to death by an invading army.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:11 PM
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There are lots of straight & bisexual guys in fashion. After all, it's one of the best industries in which to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:55 AM
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Lol, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:42 AM
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What should disqualify a couple from being able to get married? I agree in some respects- a woman should be legally informed if she's going to be married to somebody on the sex offender registry, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:32 AM
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This has such a 'couple pushing an empty stroller walking down the side of the highway' energy to it. Those people you're from high school you're 90% sure are addicted to meth and constantly fighting on Facebook vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:25 AM
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Okay, so men are the sole people in power in states where homosexuality is punishable by death, but homophobia is still somehow women's fault, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:18 AM
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Which countries are you talking about? How many have women running the country?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:36 AM
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Dominant accounts of sexual prejudice posit that negative attitudes toward nonheterosexual individuals are... ....higher among men (vs. women)... after adjusting for endorsement of traditional gender norms, the relationship between participant gender and sexual prejudice is inconsistent across Western countries, but men (vs. women) in non-Western countries consistently report more negative attitudes toward gay men; and a significant association between gender norm endorsement and sexual prejudic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:57 PM
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I work in fashion, if I wanted to fuck every attractive man I laid my eyes on I'd never get anything done. Luckily for me most heterosexual male models have terrible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:36 PM
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If your girlfriend is unable to make real-life friendships because she is constantly enmeshed in drama and has to find friends through Bumble, it lowkey seems like she's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
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There there, you guys gave it a good shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:31 PM
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Jesus, you guys had singular control over politics, the economy, labour, laws and the court system, mass media, academia and religion for a majority of human history and still became second-class citizens? Men are just terrible at running societies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:25 PM
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I have lots of male friends and have always been in mixed-gender friend groups. Still, given that men say over and over again they have no interest in platonic relationships with women and they find women's personalities grating and unlikeable, it's no surprise to me there are women who only seek out female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:09 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:06 PM
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Okay, so if all women will put up with verbal abuse and bullying because they’re so deeply attracted to hot men, all men are seeking out children to have sex with based on what we’ve seen in pedofishing experiments. Unless that’s not true, and basing the actions of an entire gender off the back of a few people online is insane, right? After all, Chadfishers never discuss the thousands of women who DIDNT swipe on them, or the thousands of women who realised what was happening and told them to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:06 PM
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I have no idea who you are lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah I think this is absolutely true, women have had it beaten into them by societal messaging that the most disgusting thing they can do is be masculine or display masculine traits. It’s obviously that on average we’re going to seek out partners who are larger, stronger and more masculine than us to feminise ourselves. Women who prefer outwardly feminine androgynous guys will be as common as men who look for strong muscular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:02 PM
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The few US dollars a fat balding pedophile spends in a brothel will be far outweighed by the costs it takes to raise thousands of abandoned children. Leaders may love sex tourism now, but that’ll change if your projection becomes true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:58 PM
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I mean, I don’t think that’s true, but if we’re going to be basing our assumptions of an entire gender off of the behaviour of a handful of people online we need to stay logically consistant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:57 PM
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The government would never allow a study that proves women find attractive men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:51 PM
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Again wrong. Men have multiple avenues through which they can pursue or be pursued by age-appropriate women, but instead they go out of their way to interact sexually with children. Pedophile baiting experiments prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:38 AM
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You keep on changing the idea of what 'Chadfishing' means. Does it mean women are willing to debase themselves to get attention from attractive men, or does it just mean women are attracted to attractive men? Attraction isn't 'debasement'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:37 AM
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Men have thousands of age-appropriate women to match with on dating apps, but will mainly go for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:19 AM
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If you think it's safe to assume all women debase themselves for conventionally attractive men, it's safe to assume most men will be disgusting creeps when they think they have an opportunity to molest children and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:19 AM
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If "chadfishing" proves all women want chad, 'To Catch a Predator' proves all men want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:45 AM
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I have faith 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:18 AM
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I don't think these men want attention from women at all. They're pretty open about how much they're disgusted by women and the idea they have sexual desires, bodies and personalities. I posit these guys are more envious of the attention women get from 'good' men (Chad), who they desire kinship and recognition with. I think the idealized state is platonically frolicking through a field with Chad, their equal, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:11 AM
2

Can you share some ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:18 AM
0

Sure sure. Wink!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:16 AM
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The longer I spend on this sub, the more time I'm convinced guys who are the most vocal about hating women are envious of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:06 AM
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Where do you live? I'm considered pretty wealthy and everyone I know sees trad roles as a bit gormless and backwards. I can't imagine any of my privately educated friends turning around and becoming a housewife for the men in their lives- running a household when they've decided to have kids maybe, but we all have careers we're happily pursuing for the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:59 PM
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There seems to be a pretty pervasive idea that posher people have a stronger inclination towards traditional gender roles, but in my experiences it's been the opposite. Mild acquiescent husband / freewheeling artistic wife was 90% of my friend's parents, and I'm pretty sure they were all swinging with each other. Maybe people who have less economic freedom are more conscious about things like splitting incomes, who pays on dates etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:43 PM
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I can’t imagine anything that will make a country adopt a ‘shoot on sight’ policy for sex tourists quicker than old troglodytes coming over in droves and fucking up the gene pool with their subpar sperm, so I agree. Sex pests need to go the way of Western drug traffickers and be executed by the state if they refuse to take responsibility for their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:24 PM
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Immediate break up. Can’t imagine anything less attractive than dating a male PPDer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:19 PM
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Tiktok brain 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:17 PM
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Lmao at your entire post being ‘actually women are the ones propping up rape and rape culture’ and then going on to act as if you’re incredibly magnanimous for believing rape culture exists. My, what a gentleman!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:15 PM
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I don’t know, is it part of my 4.5x internal bias rate to think that it’s silly to be concerned about a 4.5x internal bias rate when 85% of the global population harbour a 90% bias against women? It’s not surprising at all to me that you’re part of that 90%, women bad after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:58 PM
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No, what, women bad? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:38 PM
1

Is it white knighting if I’m a woman? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:36 PM
1

What, do you want me to come up with an impassioned and well-cited rebuttal for why most women probably aren’t anxiety ridden messes who offload all their emotional onto their partner and make relationships border on total catastrophe? You might as well have said you think all women get angry at the colour red and charge at it like bulls. I gave a gender neutral definition of the term ‘emotional labour’ and you said ‘uh this is a woman problem’. No it isn’t? I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:03 PM
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I don’t know how to argue against your perception that women are bad and ruin relationships. ‘Women bad men good’ is just not a point worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:52 PM
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No, the guy you’re replying to is a redpill tard who is constantly getting dunked on for being pro-rape. It’s pretty sweet that you’ve somehow interpreted his comment as being something super lofty and intellectual though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:49 PM
1

I said I’ve been in relationships with strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:34 PM
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Would you jump off a bridge if women told you to? Grow a backbone and stop being cringe online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 AM
3

Everything is a syndrome or trend to you people. Exhausting way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:41 AM
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I probably wouldn’t send a dessert to him because he mentioned he didn’t like sweet things last time we went out, so I’d do something else. We’re both nice people, it’s not on either of us to ‘impress’ more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:40 AM
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lol why’d you assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:30 AM
2

Is it nice guy syndrome or is he just being nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:27 AM
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I think it’s a nice unexpected gesture that I really appreciate. ‘Simping’ is a nonsense term for 14 year old boys and moronic porn addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:27 AM
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I’ve met him before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:25 AM
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Had to cancel a date because I'm sick and he sent me dessert and a get well soon note. How great are guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:06 AM
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"I'm a shut-in who spends all my time on the internet and views socialisation and spending time in the real world as below me, and I'VE never seen a woman go for an average guy, so it NEVER happens!" You could play bingo with them at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:21 AM
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Jesus Christ, what a garbage excuse for a 'study'. Are you really citing this as if it's a reputable source? Focusing their analyses on single heterosexual women, the researchers used data from the American Community Survey (2008-2012; 2013-2017) to predict the likely characteristics of these women's husbands if they had husbands and then compared those characteristics to what's actually available in these single women's dating pool. Making up imaginary women to get mad at. RPM come up with a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:13 AM
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This entire thread will be full of normal women saying no and terpers will still be like 'nuh uh all women want dark triad chads'. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:02 AM
3

Redpill or schizophrenic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:40 AM
1

I’ve never been threatened before because my partners have always been physically strong men, yes. Jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:38 AM
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Don’t cross this guy, he’ll make a collage of the times you were on reddit for an hour!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:38 AM
2

It’s the internet. Are you well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:36 AM
0

Yes, I have been seethed at by mongoloids on the internet before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:31 AM
2

Where’s the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:23 AM
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How is it homophobic to assume you’re gay if you’re saying you need a man? Is it bad to be gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:21 AM
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If you need a man go on grindr, Idk what you want me to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:18 AM
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Mods helppp I’ve seen things I disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:15 AM
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I think teaching proper boundaries and emotional regulation is good and shame-based bullying and emotional hostage taking is bad, so I guess that’s the main thing I disagree with you about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:14 AM
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Exactly, women require strong and physically intimidating men to protect them from threats while men who want younger women are vain and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:12 AM
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Cool! I’ll date other evil capitalists with normal boundaries and we’ll have a bunch of evil capitalist kids. You’re welcome to try and find another selfless and brave collectivist who has zero boundaries and will spend every moment maximising how completely they can dedicate themselves to keeping you as happy as possible, if you can find one, and we’ll meet on the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:05 AM
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Men who are attracted to women who are built like anorexic 14 year old boys are deeply disturbing and feminine imo. Truly masculine men are drawn towards vibrant, well-fed and healthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:38 PM
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Why is she worrying about career? A woman’s role is to find a husband and pop out kids. If you’re going full tradcon sharia law, you can’t condemn all of us to be walking wombs without including your daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:23 PM
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Didn’t you say a woman’s role is to find a good husband and pop out kids? Why is your daughter suddenly exempt from that? If you really believed in this shit you’d be raising her to be a traditional wife who is controlled by her husband, not a feminist girlboss in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:13 PM
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Wow how edgy and contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:57 PM
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To me, emotional labour is managing somebody else's emotions and feelings to the point where it causes a sharp negative personal decline. People in this thread have given examples of what they see as unfair emotional labour- talking a partner out of suicide, repeatedly sacrificing important personal events to comfort a partner, or feeling pressured to forgive major betrayals like cheating out of fear of your partner's mental health. None of these situations are healthy or normal in a loving rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:50 PM
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There are lots of women out there who are interested in the specific kind of expectations you have in a relationship. I believe in you, go find the traditional GF of your dreams! Go sire some children with them! Go!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:11 PM
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This is just a difference in expectations going into a relationship. I don't expect my partner to be everything for me, I expect a level of healthy separation in which we can remain in peak form. Being a source of emotional support for my partner is great, it's something I really love doing when I'm in a partnership. Still, when things get to an unhealthy level and I feel like there's nothing more I can do without making the situation worse for both of us I'm going to look for outside solutions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:37 PM
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Who ‘destroyed’ traditional gender dynamics? If you want to financially support a household while the wife stays at home and cleans it’s still perfectly legal. There are lots of women who post nonstop about how they want this exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:23 PM
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What is the line that separates emotional distress that requires therapy and emotional distress that requires the support of a partner for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:19 PM
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So you don’t have a problem with a man supporting his partner through pregnancy and childbirth, it’s just the childrearing bit you have a problem with? In that case I agree, I think financial responsibility and domestic labour should be split equally to avoid burnout and resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:17 PM
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Aren’t they his children as well? Why wouldn’t he want to support his pregnant wife and children? Sacrificing nine months of your life to subject your body to intense biological changes to bring forth a child and then dedicating yourself to being the primary parent for at least three years in exchange for support seems like a pretty equal transaction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:11 PM
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“In many cases all a therapist does is let you talk about your problems.” I’m apparently a bad partner because you don’t know how therapy works? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:00 PM
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Right, and if I fall down the stairs and crack my head open, why call an ambulance? My partner should be able to do everything for me, and If they aren’t able to save my life I guess they didn’t love me in the first place. See how silly this line of logic is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:59 PM
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If my partner needs their car fixed, I’ll advise them to call a mechanic. If my partner needs therapeutic help, I’m obviously going to advise them to talk to a therapist. If that makes me Scrooge McDuck / Ronald Reagan then fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:52 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:09 AM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:08 AM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:07 AM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:06 AM
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Yeah whatever all women are inherently evil and need to be rounded up and shot rape should be legal blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:03 AM
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The way a handful of female posters on this sub always treat terpers at face value is really sweet. It's so funny seeing a kindhearted woman respond to u /hitlerboner1488 posting about how all rape should be legal with evenhanded feminist analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:54 AM
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You’re so right! My life is fantastic, I have a wonderful job and a fulfilling social life. It’s nice to unwind here and laugh at depressive reprobates who actively make their lives worse and deserve every minute of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:49 AM
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Of course a male perceives rape to be an act of attraction rather than a violent crime. Degenerate thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:35 AM
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male "humour" be like pedophilia 😂😂😂😂 rape 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:20 AM
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Reading personal posts about how depressed and unhappy the womanhating men in this sub are always makes me smile. Couldn't have happened to a better group of people 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:11 AM
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Gross. I can’t imagine being such a nasty pig and then feeling the urge to brag about it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:34 PM
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Ew. Why are you living in your own filth?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:14 PM
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There are more factors, I just don't feel like explaining the granular detail of how wearing a space suit would affect my life. You asked me to give a simple explanation and I did. Wearing a space suit every day would be uncomfortable because I imagine it would be hot and physically restrictive. Id probably get pretty sore and uncomfortable after a long day in a plastic/polyester suit. So to be clear, if the act of guarding your drink was subjected to social ridicule you would no longer guard yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:26 AM
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Having this response to a common phrase is possibly the most autistic thing you could do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:22 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:21 AM
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That's the journal that the study is cited in, I'm asking if there's more information about that study specifically. Like, by what margin were women with tattoos more willing to engage in uncommitted sexual relations? Of the sample of 814 women, how many women were tattooed vs non-tattooed? What were their ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:12 AM
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What's the study being cited here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:53 AM
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But being interesting and capable of thoughtful conversation is what can contribute to making somebody attractive. If a guy starts talking at length out of nowhere about laws of relativity that makes him a bad conversationalist, which is an unattractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:42 AM
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It would be restrictive and uncomfortable, would majorly impact my job and would subject me to social ridicule. I do take precautions against COVID-19, I just take action on a level that I think is reasonable. If I wanted to completely protect myself against spiking I wouldn't ever drink liquid around other people, but that would be an unreasonable level of precaution that would majorly affect my life. Besides, glancing down at my drink every couple of seconds also helps me check that I haven't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:35 AM
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Do you genuinely need me to explain to you in minute detail how wearing a gigantic space suit would affect my day-to-day personal experience? How is it neurotic to glance down at your drink every couple of seconds?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:16 AM
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So men don't want to have conversations with women because they have poor social skills and mistakenly believe talking at length about irrelevant information they're personally interested in is an enjoyable interaction? That seems uncommon, I have lots of flirtatious and thoughtful interactions with men I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:14 AM
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It would majorly affect my life in terms of my work, my social experiences, my interests and the activities I do from day to day. You don't seem stupid enough that I need to explain how wearing a gigantic space suit would affect those, so I won't. It's insignificant because the drink is in my hand and all I need to do to keep an eye on it is to look down at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:11 AM
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A negative drawback would be wearing a gigantic restrictive suit every day regardless of weather, social appropriateness or activity levels. An insignificant drawback would be looking down at my drink every couple of seconds to make sure that it's still in my hand and there's nothing in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:08 AM
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I've just explained why, one has significant negative drawbacks while the other one has zero negative drawbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:04 AM
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Sure, I think wearing a gigantic restrictive space suit every day in every situation is less reasonable than making sure to hold the drink that I am currently drinking at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:03 AM
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You're getting angry at me because I think wearing a gigantic space suit around is less reasonable than keeping an eye on your drink at a bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:59 AM
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Yes, I find wearing a gigantic spacesuit out of the house more absurd than keeping your eye on your drink at a bar. I think this is a silly comparison, and you know this, but you're too dug in to accept just how stupid this is. Like seriously, this is your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:56 AM
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So men don't want to be interesting or connect with the people they're romantically pursuing? Why, are they less intelligent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:50 AM
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Why can you only conceive of someone taking precautions in the most cartoonish, over-the-top manner? I take precautions against COVID by getting vaccinated and not being around people who are sick, and I take precautions against spiking by keeping an eye on my drink and monitoring my alcohol levels. You're the one who introduced space suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:49 AM
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You've explained yourself fine. The use of infantilizing language is just unsettling. I don't want to turn a "boy" into a "man", I don't want to be in a relationship to fulfil my partner's neglected childhood development.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:47 AM
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Right. So even if I was worried about catching COVID and dying, I wouldn't be wearing a gigantic space suit, right? So it's not really comparable to watching your drink at the bar, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:43 AM
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Yes, women enjoy it when men they are attracted to flirt with them. Why does that negate a man's ability to have a deep and thoughtful conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:40 AM
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Did everyone who was cautious about COVID in 2020 wear space suits? What a dumb line of questioning, I cannot believe you thought this was a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:36 AM
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If a father can't make his son a man. A woman still can. A woman without a father is a woman who will have a harder time making her boy into the man and father she desires, To the women. Don't love a boy, don't give a boy time, don't listen to a boy. Ignore the boys. You can bring the man out of the boy Eugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:10 AM
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Of course women are going to ask a guy if he's a virgin if he seems like a virgin. I know a woman who asked a guy 'you seem nervous, is this your first time?' after he had to take a break to wash the sweat off of his hands. The average adult virgin is going to be largely incapable of creating the illusion they're a person who regularly has sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:53 AM
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Sure, if a guy with zero previous sexual partners and no romantic experience with women can somehow pull off having sex so competently that she never even questions if he's a virgin or not, he doesn't have to own up to it if she doesn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:36 AM
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Yeah, this is very reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:34 AM
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So he lies and tells her he's not a virgin, and then owns up to having been a virgin as soon as sex is over? How do men expect to go from 'this isn't my first time' to 'that was my first time' during a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:32 AM
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I date people with healthy social lives, and I don't sperg out because the adult man I'm seeing wasn't created in a lab specifically for me. I'm going to assume he has had previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:28 AM
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Out of all of the shitty advice this sub gives, 'just lie bro' has to be amongst the worst. How is a guy with no sexual history and no EQ somehow going to be able to pull off Machiavelli-type social manipulation to the point where he not only bags a long-term partner but manages to uphold this major lie to her throughout the entirety of their relationship? I can't imagine the type of hot water this has gotten guys in because they assume all women are as stupid as they are. Tell her you're a virg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:20 AM
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Wearing a gigantic spacesuit clearly isnt the same as watching your drink when you’re at the bar though is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:31 AM
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So what’s the problem then? Drunk people are annoying sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:22 PM
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Weird that everyone has a vague nonspecific story of a time a lying woman said she had been roofied, but there’s never any concrete proof of this being a common occurrence OR of it having any material effect in regards to someone being accused / a bad or restaurant suffering / any strain on medical resources / any mass hysteria. Seems like a fake complaint made up to make women the boogeyman- again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:10 PM
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annoying anti-woman twitter poster constantly braying about 'fatties' posts shirtless picture pectus excavatum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:01 PM
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It definitely isnt taking part in all the sensationalism and fervor when your friend gets so drunk she has to claim she was roofied to save face Is this really happening at such an extreme rate that it's fuelling anti-male paranoia? The highest rate of self-reported spiking (no gender distinction btw) the OP could find was 1000 people over 3 years, and even then 21 people in that study had actually been spiked. I'm not going to stop taking spiking into consideration when I drink because a handfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:45 PM
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It’s incredibly “””enflamed””” behaviour to write a diatribe on reddit about something that is so incredibly minor (the largest sample size you can find by your own admittance is 1000 people over three years) and then accuse women who take responsible steps to avoid spiking of being like policemen racially profiling black people. Bizarre and hyperemotional response to a nonissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:37 PM
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How are you this emotionally enflamed by someone saying they’re going to keep an eye on their drink? The labyrinthine workings of the anti-women mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:25 PM
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It’s bizarre that you’re so anti-narcotics because you’re clearly smoking crack right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:22 PM
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But what if that makes the other M&Ms feel bad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:14 PM
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The worst thing that could happen if I don’t stay vigilant about spiking is that I could be spiked. The worst thing that could happen if I do stay vigilant about spiking is that some random on reddit will feel personally attacked. I’ll keep an eye on my drink :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:11 PM
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“Women need to stop complaining about rape and assault. If you keep yourself safe there’s no danger. Have some responsibility!” “Women need to stop complaining about rape and assault. Being worried about spiking is making women paranoid and fuelling anti-male sentiment. It’ll probably never happen, stop being worried about it!” Can’t win. Will keep watching my drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:04 PM
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Oh my god, when I first started working in styling one of my clients was desperate for a Hermès saddle. I had to bullshit with a consultant at Hermès for HOURS about horses and close contact saddles v dressage saddles only to find out my client wanted it for DECOR.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:54 PM
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Probably not, I’m a heterosexual woman attracted to heterosexual men. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to date somebody who aligns with your sexuality, I know a couple of lesbians who prefer to date exclusively other lesbians. I’m not saying that conclusively though- if I’ve met my soulmate and he happens to be bisexual, then I guess I’ll get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:43 PM
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The substantial arguments in question being ‘a reddit post where some commenters were mean and gave bad advice’.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:31 PM
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No 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:24 PM
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Roughly $90k a year, I work on commission so the exact number varies. I am single but dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:04 PM
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But Chad loves his deodorant, he told me so himself. So let’s wear our deodorant so we can be big and strong like Chad, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with it, just bizarre that grown men with ostensibly stable jobs and lives smell like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:48 PM
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6 & 8. I’ll go out clubbing but would never walk home alone afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:44 PM
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Yes, I’ve had guys get weird about how much I earn / my spending habits and freak out about how they won’t be able to ‘provide’ for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:41 PM
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Genuine question, do men receive less social messaging around hygiene while growing up? I swear I’ve seen so much parental advice floating around on how to introduce adolescent boys to deodorant. I was on the train today with a bunch of guys in office wear / business casual and almost threw up in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:40 PM
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How often have you been involved in women’s locker room talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:33 PM
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Aww, that’s so sweet! Hope you have a great time, and happy upcoming birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:23 PM
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What a genuine post that was definitely made by a real woman. This has totally changed my mindset. Time to dedicate my life to worshipping men!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:05 PM
5

The article says 53% of respondents believed a mother with a baby should not be sent to prison with her infant if a community-based alternative was available, not 53% of women think prison should be abolished. If you have sources you should just present them, instead of equivocating around with all these things that kind of resemble your point but largely do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:14 AM
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Where are all the articles? Where are all the mainstream publications saying women shouldn’t go to prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:29 AM
4

Totally dude, you’re such a cool anime character.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:26 AM
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Yeah dude, you’re the guy who’s grotesquely and performatively endorsing a bunch of horrible shit. Obviously I’m going to be in opposition to you, and whatever prolongs your life and keeps you happy and healthy. I would vote in a train for president as long as it’s the same one you’re inevitably going to step in front of as soon as being a little curdled shit on reddit stops bringing you joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:13 AM
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What point? The only thing you’ve managed to say is that you’re in opposition to feminists who are trying to end rape, murder and mutilation- meaning you’re pro-rape, pro-murder and pro-mutilation. I’m obviously going to fall on the side of the feminists as opposed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:55 AM
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Huh, I wonder why there aren’t a lot of outspoken feminists in places where it’s still commonplace for men to exact physical and sexual violence against women they disagree with. Anyway, you continue to make kill-all-men feminists seem correct by being opposed to them, they sound very based. I mean, if their whole thing is being anti-rape, anti-mutilation, and anti-murder, how bad could they be? I wonder if I should identify as a kill-all-men feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:44 AM
5

Two things can be bad at once. Is FGM bad? Is it used as a method to destroy a woman’s sexual organs? If you agree with both of these statements, you shouldn’t have a problem with me bringing it up as a form of systemic violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:27 AM
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Is female genital mutilation not bad? Is it not an attack on women’s sexual anatomy? This is not a ‘yes but’ question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:22 AM
11

Inadvertently making kill-all-men feminists sound unequivocally correct by placing them in opposition to female genital mutilation and wartime rapes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:20 AM
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Yup, FGM, wartime rape, legal marital rape, sexual slavery, these are all things RPM view as harmonious and functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:30 AM
15

A 13 year old is going to make a twitter thread about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:35 AM
9

Keep your banana, my 5 billion dollar dailywire check has just arrived in the mail. My talk show is called ‘One of the Good Ones’ and the logo makes all the O’s venus symbols.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:34 AM
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As we all know, intra-gender dynamics were fruitful and relaxed for all these thousands of years. Nothing of note happened, and societies were peaceful. For thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:29 AM
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To the extent that female promiscuity has been shamed? No. I can’t think of a clearer example than the way adultery laws were enforced throughout all of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:21 AM
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Based, I think we set you up in the town square with a big bell you can ring when you point out the harlots. This will surely fix the fact that it’s impossible to buy a home on a single income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:20 AM
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When men want to have lots of sex, it’s totally natural and traditional. But when women want to have lots of sex, it’s scary and weird! Anybody keen to give me a book advance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:08 AM
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What could possibly cause a collapse in single-income nuclear households and a rise in unwed women having children on welfare? It can’t be anything linked to the economy, it MUST be women wanting to have kinky sex more! Anyway, I’m curious to hear what your totally feminist ideas are around shaming women back into rigidly-enforced monogamy. Legitimately, I want to hear what you think the shift in attitudes should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:05 AM
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Lol, the classic ‘I’m a feminist, but have women gone a bit too far with this whole “enjoying sex” thing?’ If you want to get into a monogamous relationship, get into one. The woke feminist left hasn’t made them illegal yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:57 PM
1

Aw dude, you can’t even spell crayon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:15 PM
1

You seem a bit intellectually stunted and unable to understand what an equivalence is. If you can’t have a simple conversation without getting agressive, you should sell your computer and trade it in for a 30 pack of crayons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:03 AM
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Calling somebody unhinged is a personal attack. Accusing someone of having a victim complex is a personal attack. Saying that someone is incapable of having a personal conversation is a personal attack. Seriously, grow up. I won’t be having a conversation with somebody who is so emotionally volatile that they can’t respond without throwing insults around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:54 AM
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lol, calm down and stop with the personal attacks for just a moment, would you? If it’s distressing you so badly to have this conversation log off and do something else. A man is fully entitled to stop having sex with somebody for whatever reason he likes. I just believe if there is a change in stated intention (like saying ‘I really like you, I can’t wait to keep seeing you) he should be honest and open about it, the same way a woman should if she has dinner bought for her but decides not to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:22 AM
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You aren’t owed sex because you paid for things. You said all that matters is the sex. I’m sure lots of women would stop being sexually attracted to men if they were honest about their intentions (a one night stand), but you’re insisting they should have sex anyway. I’m insisting men should save women the misery and have sex with each other, even if they’re not sexually attracted in the first place. Women have a lot to lose if they offer sex to a person with shady intentions. Imagine if a man li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:43 AM
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We’re going to do this forever because you’re trying to argue a subjective opinion that doesn’t make sense. If the only thing that mattered about sex was a pleasurable feeling, all lonely men could just fuck eachother. However, there is emotional and social context to having sex that can change how a person feels about the encounter- for example, if sex is happening through force, or if one party has lied or manipulated to make sex happen. So again, if it doesn’t matter how the sex is happening,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:09 AM
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But if he didn’t enjoy spending money on her, he wouldn’t do it. It’s not like she’s threatening him into doing it, she’s just presenting a different version of events. She enjoys his money, he enjoys spending his money. I’m struggling to understand what the difference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:32 PM
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Men who tell women they are planning on seeing them again but have no intention on doing so are actively lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:04 PM
0

Right. So if a woman tells a man, ‘if you buy me dinner tonight, I will have sex with you,’ and she skips out on him and never contacts him again, she’s not in the wrong? She’s not a bad person for pursuing food, it’s something everybody needs to survive. Otherwise she might have sex without being attracted to the man she’s having sex with, which would make her incredibly uncomfortable and put her in an undignified position. So it’s okay if she’s twisting the situation for her gain, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:02 PM
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Wow, I’m super offended that a guy has low standards for sex. This is super shocking and a total surprise to me. You’ve owned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:08 PM
1

lol, I don’t know any women who swipe on men based on how many pictures they have with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:23 PM
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I don’t know man, you’re trying to justify why I shouldn’t see you as a greaseball and then expressing that you don’t have standards regarding sex. If you want to be greaseball, embrace it. Enjoy that hole!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:20 PM
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If you have that little respect for yourself and your partners in the pursuit of sex, why don’t you find a glory hole or dig a hole in the ground and fuck that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:11 PM
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This seems like a horrible way to live. Do you really think this is a society working at peak cohesion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:30 PM
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Posts that blow up on Reddit get copied every week to mine the success of the original. “AITA for screaming at my obese sister for being a fat fatty and ripping my wedding dress???” is my favourite out of this genre. Or “I (f21) love my husband (m56) but [textbook description of abuse]. Should I leave him????”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:22 PM
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You just said that men treat their friends like shit. You seem to be advocating for a society without manners and basic social etiquette, which seems like a complete devolution from where we are now. Personally, I prefer living in a world where respect and mindfulness is an expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:17 PM
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Wow, I didn’t know most women are offended when men they aren’t attracted to approach them. It’s gotta be a pretty observable fact if you’re bringing this up in response to a study that shows men prefer women with a certain body type, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:14 PM
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All stories written on Reddit should be assumed fake and created for the express purpose of garnering as much attention as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:07 PM
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If you don’t want to respect social normality, why live in a society? If being polite doesn’t matter to you, why not live in a hovel in a mountain town in Siberia? I’m not talking about the intricacies of dating, I’m talking about basic observable politeness- not calling women who don’t want to fuck you evil stretched out roasties, for example. I know lots of men who treat me normally and with a great amount of kindness and politeness. I guess this is just a you thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:04 PM
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Why do men treat eachother like garbage? Why do women have to drag ourselves down to meet men? Everyone is owed niceness to each other because that’s how civil society works. Trying to justify acting like an upset toddler is just pathetic. If you want to throw rocks and call people names, do it all you like, don’t be surprised when you’re shunned out of polite society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:45 AM
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Don’t forget women who wear makeup, women who wear revealing clothes, women who wear modest clothes, religious women, muscular women, tall women, women who use dating apps, bisexual women, women who grew up without either parental figure, introverted women, extroverted women, women who use drugs or alcohol, influencers, actresses, rich women, divorcees, women who read horoscopes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:23 AM
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Aperol spritz weather 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:18 AM
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It’s a good place to meet members of the opposite sex as a competent, socially aware person. The unsaid part is that mixed-gender hobbies are the place to go at the end of a self improvement journey wherein someone can at least present as a normie. If you think there’s a magic wand solution where you can wander in off the street, dust the sandwich crumbs off your chest and have women falling over themselves to fuck you, I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Board game stores, maybe? Discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:13 AM
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Yeah, they dislike men who use dancing groups as a way to get dates. The implication is that these men are so socially inept they can’t create an organic connection without trying for some kind of romantic overture. It’s not the presence of men that’s the issue (there are going to be men in every hobby space, even the ones that are perceived as ‘female’ hobbies) it’s the lack of social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:04 AM
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I can’t imagine anyone would have a problem with this incredibly basic premise. Of course most women are attracted to traits that are socially considered desirable, but most women I know understand that it’s unlikely they’ll hook up with a 6’5” roided up stunt actor, and therefore treat men who don’t necessarily meet all of those standards as legitimate romantic options. I feel really sorry that most men in this subreddit think that if a woman doesn’t seize on the ground in a puddle of primal at…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:01 AM
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They’re leaving out the mean part of the advice, which is that socialising should only be done after someone learns the basics of social interaction. Obviously if you stand in the corner of a salsa class with your hands in your pockets, women will know you don’t give a fuck about dancing. You have to complete the basics of not seeming like a freak before you can go out in public and socialise. Women have no problem sharing spaces with men who are polite and socially competent, even if those men …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:55 AM
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Terpers think this is an equivalent argument to ‘treat women you don’t want to fuck as people.’ It’s all building to a justification that because women aren’t desperate to fuck overweight shut-ins, they get to be as cruel and callous to random women as they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:53 AM
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Why is the assumption that woman needs a man to supplement her income or she’ll be homeless? Every woman in my life has a job of her own. Personally, I prefer seeing a man who has a stable source of financial income because I do, and I like participating in activities that cost money. If someone wants to do these things with me they need to at least pay for themselves. I haven’t met a man I’ve liked enough to sit around at his house and do nothing for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:26 AM
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Yes, women are people and their behaviour and personalities vary. Yes, people tend to act differently towards people they are attracted to, male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:21 AM
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This isn’t true, not even the red pill guys here believe that. Every manosphere guy whinges about how women are looking for a betabuxx to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:16 AM
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Sure it does, ‘I wouldn’t eat a shit sandwich with you but I’d get a pizza’ doesn’t mean I’ve eaten shit sandwiches before. It’s an awkwardly worded statement, but she doesn’t mention other men or previous hookups in any way, shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:58 PM
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“Not someone I would hook up or be a fwb with but marry.” Those are the verbatim words from the OP. Where are the other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:53 PM
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Where did she mention other men? You’re so obsessed with the idea of other men having sex that it’s clouding your brain and making you hallucinate words that aren’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:51 PM
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Holy fuck that sub. It’s so interesting to get a glimpse into the minds of the middle-aged men who stand awkwardly in a bar or club and strike out with disinterested women over and over again. I always see them in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:49 PM
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Why is everyone here pretending that she brought out a list of every man she’s ever fucked ordered by girth and compared him to every point? She could have a body count of one and it still makes sense for her to tell her partner she views him as an option for marriage instead of a one night stand. It’s paranoia driven by men who are psychosexually obsessed with the idea that their adult partners have had previous partners, it’s incredibly bizarre imagined subtext that barely dignifies acknowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:45 PM
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Interesting- I have a lot of male friends who have kind of gone the opposite direction, where they’ve studied and absorbed things to build up intellectual rigour. I think they’d be equally disappointed if someone was only attracted to how they looked and not the things they care about. Very interesting to see how it all shakes out from person to person!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:32 PM
1

Why not? Do you not think you have a good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:25 PM
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She considers him attractive enough to marry for the rest of her life. The issue here seems to be that men value fleeting sexual experiences but not lifelong commitments, which says more about men than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:24 PM
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It’s exasperating having to constantly hear the same explanation of ‘she did not adequately create the illusion that he is a mega-promiscuous ultra-sexy fuckboi.’ I’m not at the table currently because every option I’ve been given is to lie and compliment men through emphasising values that I don’t personally hold, so I’ve taken the alternative route and decided not to engage at all. If you can give me a solution that doesn’t glorify sexual immorality, I’m happy to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:22 PM
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The guy breaking it off after she indicates she’d choose him as a husband over a FWB indicates he’s not a serious long-term partner as his current goals (brief sexual attraction over lasting commitment) are selfish and unstable. He’s 28, he needs to end the illusion that he’s a mega-promiscuous fuckboi and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:19 PM
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Who says her boyfriend isn’t just super triggered by his dark secret backstory where his deceased mother told him he’d never be boyfriend material and that’s why he’s upset? It’s easy to invent a story when you don’t know the wider context of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:15 PM
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Eh, the men I know IRL and have been in relationships with aren’t that shallow. They’ve valued things other than their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:14 PM
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Her boyfriend should sit her down and logically explain that he’s not happy with the kind of compliments he’s getting. Men as less emotional and more practical, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:10 PM
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What is ‘enough’ then? Lying and appeasing with things we don’t really believe? Men have ‘educated’ us over and over again that being a sexually attractive but fleeting hook up is good and being a husband is embodying the philosophy of ‘betabux’ is bad. Where to next?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:07 PM
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Sure, but she’s made an entire reddit post confused and upset about why he’s so extremely distraught. If there was constant tension in the relationship about her not being attracted to him, I don’t think she’d be so incredibly bewildered at his reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:02 PM
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I thought women want to hook up with chads that we have a raw, animalistic primal attraction to? Are we now also vetting for safety and potential providers? If she’s not giving him sex and is only stringing him along, why has he been in a relationship with her for two years?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:56 PM
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I think we’re wrong, in that it’s not the right way to compliment a man- you’ve just told me it’s the equivalent of calling a woman a fat pig. I view boyfriends and husbands as positives and hook-ups and FWBs as negatives, so I won’t be complimenting men because I don’t want to hurt their feelings but I also don’t want to lie and tell them things that I don’t personally believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:51 PM
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Is that not what she’s talking about? She doesn’t see him as a hook up or FWB because she wants to marry him. If she had raw animalistic attraction but didn’t want a long term relationship, he would be a FWB or hook up, no? Why isn’t she attracted to him if she wants to be in a long term relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:48 PM
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Okay, where are the similar waves of backlash against men for giving certain compliments to their girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:47 PM
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This is all personal emotional context you’ve provided. Every time I’ve used ‘husband material’ used, it’s a shorthand for ‘man who would be a good husband’. Given that the woman in the original post was talking to her boyfriend of 2 years, I’m pretty sure she doesn’t see him as a guy who is not killing it in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:46 PM
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She’s a woman, hook ups and FWBs are cheap. The homeless man on the corner could be a hook-up if I wanted him to be. She said she’d rather be married to him than hook up with him once, that’s a greater commitment and indicates she feels a stronger attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:44 PM
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What point? That people shouldn’t take compliments the wrong way? I totally agree, it’s bad in both circumstances. It just seems like this has had such an extreme backlash and an emotional response from so many men that there’s a demand for change in behaviour, which I’m happy to oblige in by not giving out compliments anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:42 PM
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Do men really view being seen as a husband as equivalent to being called a fat pig? Seems like compliments really are that distressing, I feel a lot better about choosing not to give them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:39 PM
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I’m sure any woman would prefer being called down to earth than being compared to a porn star, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:38 PM
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Women need to stop complimenting men, on the off chance that they interpret it in a way that makes them incredibly upset. If telling your boyfriend you view him as a husband and not as a hookup is offensive, then all compliments can be misconstrued as offensive, so it’s better to avoid distress and stop trying to complement men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:33 PM
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Why not? If it’s okay to engage your significant other in sex while they’re unconscious, does it matter what kind of sex it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:19 PM
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If that’s not rape, neither is pegging your husband while he sleeps. Or inviting another man into the bedroom to fuck your husband. “Babe it’s because I’m literally so attracted to you I couldn’t wait until you woke up to ask if I could, if you have a problem with this you hate me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:02 PM
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Yes, when you freak out and accuse the person you’re having a conversation of being an illiterate mentally ill person who takes meds, you’re getting emotional and having a temper tantrum. Look, we can have a conversation about super secret social cues until the cows come home. But in one instance, someone is actually admitting their manipulative behaviour (in the post description), you’ve just come up with a seperate scenario in which somebody else has super secret manipulative behaviour. I’m di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:58 PM
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Is the expectation around shaven legs still a thing? I rarely shave my body hair and haven’t had comments about it since high school. Anyway, I think expecting people to have singular standards about things is sucking all the spice out of attraction and physical presentation. I choose certain things about how I look because I want to attract other people who are also drawn in by those things. It’s fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:53 PM
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Extremely based, women need to start demanding legal protection against extortion before having kids again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah, I don’t doubt that I’m probably less interested in online dating than you. Hardly means I don’t care about empathy or men’s emotions, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:29 PM
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I would say I love you back but I’m too much of a badass alpha male to experience love. Can you settle for primal evolutionarily-driven masculine lust? 🫶🫶🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:27 PM
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Yes, I normally work full time and have quite a lot on so I’d be frustrated if someone got annoyed at me for not texting once a day. I can go a few days without looking at dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:25 PM
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Yes, in some very specific and rare instances I can imagine that some women are pretending to be boring to cover up the fact that they’re not attracted to their dates and would be more attracted to someone else, the same way I can imagine that there are people out there with a fetish for chewing drywall. Can you stop throwing a temper tantrum and whining about me being a mentally ill illiterate now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah these all sound like awkward or slightly uncomfortable conversations, I would probably unmatch too if I was getting messaged this frequently or had somebody on a dating app wanting to stay in touch every day. I think it’s a far leap to assume all women hate men who show any sort of emotion in any way- judging all women by the behaviour of women on dating apps is already a far cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:03 PM
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But a woman being boring on a date isn’t a telltale sign that a woman is secretly using you, it’s often just an indication that’s she’s boring. Thanks for the singular anecdote, I’m sure this gripping story about how a woman was more attracted to one of your friends than the other is applicable to literally every woman on earth, to the point where it’s now fine to act like a greaseball because all women are secretly lying to you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:54 PM
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I don’t know why women aren’t attracted to you. Every man I know shows emotion and doesn’t seem to have a problem with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:36 PM
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I think lying to a woman about being more interested in her than you really are is different than helping a friend by lying to them when they’re suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:31 PM
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How are women scumbags for being boring on dates? You’re just assuming they’d magically be more interesting on dates with “Chad” based on nothing. Some people are just boring or have bad craic, I hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:30 PM
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I agree, women need to influence other women to vet men better and to be more discerning about who we’re intimate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:28 PM
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Coaxing somebody into intimacy under false pretences is the problem. If you’ve had a terrible time with a boring woman you have no interest in seeing again outside of having sex with her that night, telling her ‘tonight has been so amazing, I can’t wait to see you again, lets go back to mine’ is an attempt at misleading someone. That’s the gross part. Having an open conversation about somebody regarding a change in feelings is obviously different than lying to someone in order to bang them. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:23 PM
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Sure, I’m of the belief that women shouldn’t be physically intimate with a man until he can convincingly establish his intentions, but I’m not going to act like I don’t have sympathy for women who have fallen to male manipulation tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:06 PM
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Most of the time kicking guys in the balls is morally wrong, but I only kick guys in the balls when they WANT to get kicked in the balls. Does that make it fine for me to go around kicking guys in the balls, or does it make me a total asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:00 PM
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Deciding it’s okay to lie and manipulate to get off because some women make untrue claims their level of social intelligence is boorish. You can cover it up with justifications about post nut clarity or whatever, but the root of this behaviour is still sleazy and undignified, both to yourself and your potential partners. How to you expect to explain this? “Look, sorry that I told you I see this being a serious relationship, but once I read online that all women can smell when men are being disho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:47 PM
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According to who? I don’t know any women who think of themselves as human lie detectors. It’s a low-class look to be defending tricking women into sex by lying about your intentions. Very unpleasant, greasy behaviour you’re sticking up for here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:29 PM
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Manipulating someone into sex is sleazy, even if you find them boring or they’re bad conversationalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:44 PM
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When you get a boyfriend, you can tell him whatever you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:54 PM
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There there babe, I’m so sorry I insinuated our relationship is stronger than a hookup and said that I want you to be my husband for the rest of my life. I meant to say that you’re mommy’s ultra cool playboy chad, and I only see you as a mediocre drunk one night stand that I’ll discard later. Is that okay? Have you stopped crying? There, there. Who’s mommy’s precious alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:45 PM
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Don’t worry, men are plenty competent when it comes to violent domestic abuse, murdering their partners and molesting children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:32 AM
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Yes, killing your spouse is more serious than yelling at them or hitting them back when they abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:31 AM
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Lmao, so women DO care about social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:11 AM
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Within the cited study. In analyses of reports of violence frequency and injury occurrence, 2 clear findings emerged. First, perpetrators who were men were more likely to inflict an injury on a partner than were those who were women, regardless of reciprocity status. This replicates findings in the literature at large that women are more likely to be injured by partner violence than are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:09 AM
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The gymbro guy, or the bluepill guy with the wojack PFP. (My secret answer is a redpill chad. We’d have screaming debates about paying on dates and female hypergamy, and then have steamy, sexy sex in the missionary position for the purpose of evolutionarily beneficial reproduction.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:47 PM
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Well yeah, I tend to be at least a little interested in the lives of people I go on dates with. I understand the cardboard cut-outs of women you normally argue this point with are dumb bimbos, but a lot of women in the real world have high-paying jobs that involve foresight and strategy, and can relate to other people that deal with this in their working lives as well- as opposed to being roombas who’s jobs are to suck up cash at every given opportunity. Wait sorry, I’m going off the script you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:21 PM
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These guys want all of the benefits of acting un-evolved without any of the downsides. Like, start shitting on the floor and THEN I’ll take your appeal to nature seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:11 PM
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Proving what point? The endless ball-and-cup game where you hide an irrational hatred of women under random emotional justifications? If it was true that women were attracted to pure wealth, the sexiest and most desirable men on the planet would be ophthalmologists and communications directors. Instead every second post is fist-shaking at a cartoon hot guy called chad who embodies whatever trait women are most attracted to on the day- wealth, status, physical attractiveness, popularity, charisma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:05 PM
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Eh, I’ve been told women only care about status and will fuck CEOS but never even consider having sex with garbage men as it taints their social standing. Whatever the behaviour is, people on this sub have already assigned a pathological behaviour to it as evidence women are inherently evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:55 PM
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As soon as I typed that I knew someone would say this. Alright true, we’re not BARN animals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:44 PM
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Being unable to form meaningful connections with a person because of their gender is unhealthy in both directions. Abstaining from friendships with women because you can’t handle the fact that they might not want to fuck you is equally as inappropriate as having a FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:41 PM
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If the stats were the other way around, this place would be pissing out of their ass about how we’re shallow whores who only chase hot chads and don’t care about a man’s job or dreams. Literally no way to win, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:40 PM
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We’ve learned not to piss on the floor, to wear clothes, to fuck in private, to use medication and to walk upright. Why can’t we learn to not view everybody of the opposite sex as a potential sexual partners? We’re not animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah, if I were in that situation the whole ‘producing a female condom’ thing would seem like the guy is angling for a fight, which would be a massive turn off before sex. If he told me in the foreplay / making out / going home stage, I’d probably be more curious and receptive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:32 PM
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Lol, what’s your stat for the first point? Also, of course women are going to abuse and neglect children more, they’re the primary parent. It’s not like a deadbeat dad can abuse their kids, can they? Though weirdly enough it seems like men have to problem sexually abusing female children, seeing as perpetrators are overwhelmingly men (82%) and victims are overwhelmingly women (79%). Let me guess, those kids manipulated all those poor guys into abusing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:49 PM
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Do you know what reciprocal means? Or did you get yogurt all over your face when you spilled your bowl and sippy cup over and now you can’t read? Reacting with aggression is what animals, toddlers and the mentally handicapped do. Ungainly and embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:56 PM
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Wait, was your point that women are equally as likely to be abusers than men because we can stab men in their sleep? That’s an even worse point, it’s even stupider than what I thought you were saying. No need to be so aggressive, if this conversation is making you this angry you can always walk away from your device and do some square breathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:48 PM
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Why take any crime seriously if you can just imagine a scenario where it’s resolved? By your logic, nobody should seek justice for assault because they could have just stabbed the attacker or ninja flipped away or something. If domestic violence isn’t a big issue because women can stab their abusers, why is coercive control in a relationship such a big issue if men can just use their superior intellect to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:20 PM
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Yes, I do think eating play-doh would be a better use of your time instead of whatever you think you’re doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:17 PM
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Where are you getting your stats from? the National Centre for Domestic Violence in the UK reports that police reported 1,500,369 cases of DV in the year 2022 alone. The NHS reported that 1 in 3 pregnant women experience domestic abuse- that’s a huge problem. Obviously this is something that’s going to affect relationships between men and women. I don’t think coercive control is a non-issue, but claiming that women have all the power in the relationship when we’re twice as likely to be murdered …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:10 PM
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To be fair, ‘is domestic abuse bad’ IS a really complicated and to answer question. The blame is on me, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:30 PM
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I’ve seen piles of dog shit on the sidewalk hold it together better than you have. If debating is your hobby, consider eating play-doh full time instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:27 PM
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You didn’t answer my question, but I consider cracking someone’s head open and leaving them to bleed out on the carpet to be a more severe form of abuse than being disapproving about your partners form of decor, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:16 PM
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Meh, people are still getting into happy and committed relationships outside of 90s sitcoms and The Far Side comics. There’s a reason why marriage is still seen as the ultimate form of love and commitment. No matter how miserable people see being a married man as, being an old single guy over 50 will always be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:08 PM
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Your point is that women have more power and that makes it easy to bully their partners, and I’m asking you if you consider domestic violence (of which women make up the majority of victims) to be bullying. If you can’t defend your argument, your argument is bad. Simple question, just respond to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:06 PM
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Ugh, that’s sickening. I can’t imagine putting your hands on a pregnant woman, let alone killing her. Some people are degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:00 PM
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Okay, is beating your partner a form of bullying or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:58 PM
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Right, because a couple of guys at your work have bad marriages that make them cry, suddenly it’s disgusting and egregious for a woman to imply she’d like to marry her partner? Clearly your outlook doesn’t reflect the real world in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:58 PM
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Married men (ages 18-55) in America are about twice as likely to be very happy, compared to their unmarried peers. Being married is the most important differentiator with a 30-percentage point happy-unhappy gap over the unmarried. Swallowed the marriage-is-bad-pill. Sad sight to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:52 PM
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If you didn’t consider X points that disprove your argument, then your argument is weak. Your point is bad because it’s easily disproven by objective, real world data. You’re hemming and hawwing about my argument because you know in your heart of hearts that beating and murdering your spouse is a more harmful form of ‘bullying’ than having to do a hobby you don’t feel passionate about, and you’re too cowardly to admit that you have a bad claim. And now you’re going to splutter and hand-wring som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:44 PM
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If you wanted to argue in a space where snark is banned, you should’ve become a lawyer. Put your pearls down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:35 PM
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If women have all the power in a relationship, why does the majority of physical and sexual abuse in intimate partner relationships happen against women? Why is not being allowed to decorate a house abuse that matters, but being killed by your partner isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:34 PM
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So women have high standards for casual sex, but low standards for long-term sexual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, you’re trying to imply that women control the world because we have the luxury of logging onto tinder and getting fingered by a SPED graduate with three teeth in his head whenever we’d like. If being confronted with real-world statistics on abuse is enough to make you throw your toys, your argument might be a bit shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:16 PM
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I’m not sure, did you want me to go ask her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:12 PM
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But there’s no comparison happening, she’s not mentioned past hook ups at any point. That’s like somebody flying into a jealous rage when their partner says ‘that’s the best sex I ever had’ because it implies they’ve had sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:07 PM
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Yes, 50% of female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners and women are physically abused by their partners at twice the rate of men, but have you ever considered that sometimes women don’t let men decorate the house? Checkmate feminists!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:02 PM
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Yeah, if you automatically assume people have secret double meanings to everything they say, innocuous statements can be transformed into insults. This is not a particularly convincing argument. I’ve had conservations with women where they’ve used ‘boyfriend material’ genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:47 PM
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But where are the invisible hot men you’ve made up? She could have a body count of only him and it’d still make sense for her to say that he’s not somebody she would only want to fuck. Implying that’s she’s somehow comparing him to every penis in her life is bizzare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:44 PM
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But she didn’t word it like that, the equivalent would be ‘I wouldn’t want to be your friend because I wanted to date you.’ A little awkwardly worded, sure, but far from a relationship-ending insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:37 PM
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How? Being a boyfriend is a good thing, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:35 PM
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I wouldn’t be offended because I view being someone somebody could marry as preferable to being someone somebody could hook up with. Most people I see with a problem with it are fixated on the comments about hook-ups/FWB and ignoring the ‘because I want to marry you’ that comes afterwards. I guess it’s just jarring to see how starkly the difference between men and women are when it comes to being commitment-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:27 PM
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Why? You can have shitty hook-ups. Outside of PPD, deciding not to see somebody you had sex with a few times is indicative of a lack of attraction. It’s possible for women to hook up with guys who kiss weirdly, smell gross or otherwise display behaviours that ward us off of coming back and committing to a longer and more fulfilling relationship. If we meet a guy who we’re attracted to, we’re not going to potentially ward him off by fucking and having him view us as a desperate or a slut. ‘Boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:23 PM
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They’ve been in a relationship for two years, she’s not engaging in casual sex. Also, why does past encounters even come into it? She didn’t say anything about not being sexually attracted to him, or being more sexually attracted to past hook-ups. Must be exhausting being in a relationship when you’re constantly paranoid about invisible ghost-dicks hidden around every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:17 PM
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But she didn’t say she wasn’t sexually attracted to her boyfriend (they’re in a multi-year relationship, I imagine they’re having sex pretty regularly). If a man said ‘I wouldn’t have casual sex with you, I’d want you to be my wife’ I wouldn’t immediately freak out and assume he doesn’t find me sexually attractive, thats stupid. Seems like an extreme emotional overreaction to what is a pretty mild and positive comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:12 PM
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That’s a nice compliment, I think I would enjoy hearing that. A little awkwardly worded, but not something I would blow up a 2.5 year relationship over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:09 PM
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How on earth is it saying that? She’s saying she loves him too much to have considered him as just a hook up or FWB. Nothing about resources or stability, you’re just projecting your own negative feelings about marriage onto the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:08 PM
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Where did she ever imply she wouldn’t be sexually attracted to him? She said she would rather be in a long term committed relationship than have casual sex with him, that’s a compliment. The anti-marriage psyop has scrambled so many brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:02 PM
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I’m surprised ‘boyfriend-compliment-gate’ hasn’t exploded here the same way beargate did. Anyway, that whole thing made me so deeply cynical about how men view commitment and long term partnership. How is implying you’d like to marry your partner instead of viewing them as just a hookup insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:47 PM
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Nah, i’m specifically talking about how men are perpetrators in 94% of family annihilations. It’s certainly not common but a bellend statement whining about how women have jobs doesn’t dignify a proper response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:38 PM
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Women can destroy marriages, we just don’t tend to spiral off the handle and massacre our own families at the rate that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:25 PM
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True, men destroy their marriages and then annihilate their families too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:17 PM
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Less likely to kill our entire families execution style and then and ourselves when things go wrong at work I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:50 AM
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The roots of modern conservatism in the US are basically ‘control of the family’ and ‘being as cruel to the weak and vulnerable as you like’. I think lefties probably create a safer environment for reporting abuse, as you’re not gonna tell your dad his friend is molesting you if he regularly beats the shit out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:51 AM
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I think it’s possible to competently critique art while acknowledging the wider context of who the creator is and how that affects the work. Having a hardline stance either way is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:46 PM
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A simple but high-quality black silk dress was one of the best purchases I’ve ever made. It can be dressed up or down, super formal or super sexy, and the silk means it’s comfy to wear in every setting. I’d live in it if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:41 PM
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You’re right, we need to start diaryposting outside of daily. This place needs to become a refuge for slightly strange women to share their wins, losses and intimate details of what sweet treat they got on their way home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:33 PM
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But people say the reverse all the time, joking about a ‘hall pass’ has been a normal thing in relationships for ages. Normal couples who love each other tend to be able to joke around and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:29 PM
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Why are males so sensitive about what is obviously a joke? It’s not like she’s really going to meet Henry Cavill and fuck him. It’s just ribbing, you guys are truly the most sensitive wee tots
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:57 PM
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What’s the red pill perspective on having a pecan danish in the park after work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:08 PM
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Start?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:59 PM
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Situation 1 is obviously way worse than Situation 2. Why does the man in situation 2 keep entertaining the woman? If he wants sex in exchange for money, why doesn’t he visit a legal sex worker with who he can follow the official channels if she doesn’t supply him with a service he paid for? Most people would also view ‘being homeless’ as an observably worse outcome than ‘not having sex’. I fail to see how the OnlyFans situation is exploitative. If a guy who is talking to an onlyfans girl wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:59 AM
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Again, this has come down to a subjective argument (SMV versus financial value). For the record, I think financial status provides a person with way more leverage than physical attractiveness does, but also I don’t there’s any victimisation happening in this case either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:48 PM
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But it’s not like the man has no leverage, given that he’s able to pay any other number of beautiful young women for sex if these particular ones don’t want to. I think the argument here comes down to whether it’s worse to engage in sex for money or spend money for sex, which is basically subjective and has compelling arguments on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:43 PM
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You’ve never paid for women expecting sex, but my date did?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:39 PM
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They’re probably thinking about how much the guy is going to pay them for having sex later on, or what they’re going to have for dinner, or if they have to do laundry. What’s the issue? Where’s the manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:38 PM
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I’ve paid for men on dates and didn’t expect them to fuck me afterwards. You might just be sleazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:37 PM
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It’s entitled to accept a gift that somebody offers without fucking them afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:32 PM
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Why doesn’t the man just tell the hot young woman to fuck off if he doesn’t want to pay for sex? If it’s not ‘having your resources drained’ to decide to put all your money in a paper shredder, neither is paying for sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:29 PM
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Men aren’t the reason why I got my dinner paid for, my date being kind was, exactly the same way I can be and my female friends are. Trying to twist the fact that I went on a date and he paid into some grand conspiracy about how evil women are withholding sex for free meals is bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:22 PM
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I don’t force my friends to hang out with me after we’ve been out to eat, and I don’t force my dates to either. I didn’t tell him I would have sex with him if he bought me dinner, so I don’t know why the expectation would be there. I trust and like the guy, why would I believe he had some secret hidden agenda that he wasn’t honest with me about? Seems like a bitter and paranoid mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:10 PM
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Okay, I’m going to keep assuming the men I see are telling me the truth instead of taking your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:59 PM
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You were literally talking about male sex drive a second ago. Also I didn’t flake out after the meal, we said goodbye and I went to see a movie I had got tickets to go to by myself. If he wanted to see a movie with me we would’ve gone to a movie. Why are you so offended on this guys behalf lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:58 PM
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Sure, I’ve paid for dates and bought things for my friends when we’ve been out to restaurants together. They’ve been men and I haven’t expected anything in return. I didn’t have sex with the guy who paid for my dinner and didn’t imply at any point that I would if he did, so I’m not sure how that’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:44 PM
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Sure, I’ve paid for dates and bought things for my friends when we’ve been out to restaurants together. They’ve been men and I haven’t expected anything in return. I didn’t have sex with the guy who paid for my dinner and didn’t imply at any point that I would if he did, so I’m not sure how that’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:43 PM
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Alright, you’re not upset, you just find it weird that someone is talking about dating on the talking about dating subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:31 PM
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Do you not think you’re an interesting or sociable person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:30 PM
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What’s the big deal about splitting? It sounds like she offered and you accepted, or you came up with a different but equally acceptable scenario. I offered to pay, he said he wanted to pay, I offered to split, he said he wanted to pay, I let him pay. Are you trying to imply that he secretly wanted me to split the whole time and was lying about wanting to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:29 PM
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If you weren’t upset you wouldn’t comment about how weird and unnecessary it was. I was talking about a date on a sub that is pretty explicitly about dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:24 PM
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But I wanted to go to the movie by myself, and he was fine with that. I didn’t want to go to a movie and get an ice cream with him. The date was fulfilling enough because I’m an interesting and sociable person, and we had a nice time chatting and getting to know each other. If he didn’t want to go on a dinner date with me, he wouldn’t, I didn’t hold a gun to his head the whole time. When you’re on a date with a woman, she can take you out for all the ice cream and movies in the world. I didn’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:23 PM
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There are lots of comments here made by men describing humiliating sex with women, and I don’t see you calling them weird and unnecessary. Why don’t you just be honest about how my comment made you upset instead of coming up with a false equivalence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:19 PM
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I was HOLDING HIM HOSTAGE with my PSYCHIC FEMININE POWERS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:18 PM
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I offered, he insisted. Why shouldn’t I believe that’s what he wanted to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:12 PM
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Why? This is a sub about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:23 PM
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I did, he insisted on paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:20 PM
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How? I had a lovely date and he insisted on paying at the end, which I graciously accepted. Doesn’t seem like using anyone to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:55 PM
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What was I supposed to do, insist on paying and emasculate him? I thought it was bad when women hurt men’s ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:53 PM
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Also yes the man paid for the date and I will not be seeing him again. It’s hard being literally worse than hitler but somehow I manage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:37 PM
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Imagine never knowing the pleasure of picking ice cream cone on the walk back to your apartment. Countrycels are truly miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:36 PM
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Went on date at an Italian restaurant, saw movie afterwards solo and stopped for ice cream on the way home. I seriously struggle to understand people who hate cities, being able to do whatever you want 24/7 is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:19 PM
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‘Running your mouth like this’? Why do all guys on reddit talk like minor criminals from Dick Wolf shows when they’re trying to be tough? It’s very ‘I am twelve and have just discovered rap music on the family computer’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:50 PM
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“Give me super special good advice that fixes all my problems and works or I get to call you an idiot” is a demand for coddling. I’ve seen kindergarteners with better reasoning skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:03 PM
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Well the post is about men, dummy? I’d say the same in any other situation. Don’t be such a soft touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:02 PM
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Such an aggressive title for a post that basically demands coddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:30 PM
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As we all know, men are never argumentative and never, ever seek drama in a relationship, perfect angels that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:48 PM
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Nobody’s triggered, it’s just a very weird thing to say. If you don’t care about other people thinking you’re a grade A reprobate, shout about alpha seed from the rooftops. Normal people will be put off by you, but who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:46 PM
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“You’re literally the gestapo for making fun of my dweeby online presence! But you can’t make fun of me for saying that or you’re projecting!” Huh, I wonder why you struggle to create meaningful social relationships. Must be women’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:24 AM
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Nooo people are mocking me for being embarrassing online! This is literally 15 holocausts!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:59 AM
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30 something guy been on reddit since 2015 exclusively posts on PPD and the historical european martial arts subreddit doesn’t think the internet can make you strange and antisocial I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:47 AM
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Yes, if you act against social norms, it will make people like you less and they will become wary of you and behaviour, making it less likely they will view you as a potential sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:19 AM
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Yeah, referring to women wanting to hook up with hot guys as ‘thirsting for alpha seed’ is an example of a wider set of socially inappropriate behaviours that makes you unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:04 AM
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Are you trying to tell me women want to have sex with popular, good looking guys? This is truly the dark knowledge society keeps buried!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:43 AM
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What point? That if my comment was written about women it’d be different? What strategy? How am I supposed to work with incomprehensible statements like ‘It's not shocking how bias girls misframe unlike women’? What does that even mean? Did you fall down a flight of stairs and immediately sit up to gibber on reddit like an absolute idiot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:30 AM
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GF free
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:17 AM
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Wow, you’ve gone through my comment and replaced every gendered term referring to women with gendered terms referring to men. Such a good point that I didn’t even consider before. What if my comment wasn’t actually what I wrote and was something different instead? The men of PPD, using every strategy possible in their vast intellectual toolbox to change hearts and minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:14 AM
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Writing ‘I will not insinuate RPM are gay’ over and over again on a chalkboard like Bart Simpson
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:51 AM
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The way men twist everything into an excuse to act like neanderthals is actually shocking. Why do women have to drag ourselves down to your level to make you feel better? I want to be treated politely and kindly, the same way I want everyone else in the world to be treated. Why does that incite such hatred in you? Why have such an outsized temper tantrum at the suggestion that pro-sociality might be good? Women popularised one of the most milquetoast statements i’ve ever heard and somehow you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:45 AM
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The second you put the words ‘alpha seed’ together, you should have been struck with a chilling bone-deep sense that your time on the internet has deeply broken something within your brain, irreversibly changing the way you interact with others. You should spend the rest of your life in penance striving to undo the deep scars that your anti-social behaviour has inflicted on your personality. Reddit has pressed a white-hot brand against your heart and it reads ‘unfuckable’.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:33 AM
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I’m a woman, so my goal is to literally suck the life out of every man I meet through my seductive wiles. My intended outcome is 15 children through which I can extort him for child support, 15 sexy 6’5” chads I see on the side and a massive house I make him slave away as a deskcuck for. Every night I’ll secretly wake up and whisper in his ears the terrible things we all think but never say- you’ll never make it, I say in my breathy seductive voice. If you were two inches taller and had a square…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:31 PM
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But someone else within this very thread has told me that red pill ideology seeks to make women admit that they seek hypergamy and reward high-value men with sex, which is pretty obviously an attempt to change society. Seems like the ideological goals of the red-pill are mushy and vague, even amongst people who believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:09 PM
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Again, you’re doing a really good job of exemplifying exactly why women don’t like you or are attracted to you. Your demands are fantastic and delusional- you want women, somehow, to ‘admit’ to a list of perceived slights. You waver between things that are obvious and observably true- women enjoy men who put in effort, and display typically masculine traits- and things that expose a deep commitment a bizarre and conspiratorial view of dating- female hypergamy. These things- the hyper-online, emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:06 PM
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This is isn’t true but also it wouldn’t matter if it was, there’s basically no difference between these things to outsiders. Anyone who hears the words ‘red pill’ and isn’t already interested in gender sociology is going to associate it with conservative overcompensating online dorks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:36 PM
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This is actually a perfect example of what is so unattractive about the red pill. You want so badly to be unbothered cool guys who don’t give a fuck about women’s opinions, but the second someone expresses they wouldn’t be open to dating someone who identifies with the red pill you suddenly turn around and whine about how you’re being victimised. If you don’t give a fuck about the forces making the truth uncomfortable, why get so riled about this particular reddit comment? If you don’t care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:24 PM
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The red pill is built on the basis of encouraging men to have sex with as many women as possible. Responding to a perceived societal acceptance of hypergamy doesn’t make it more dignified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:01 PM
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Some traits the red pill associate themselves with are attractive, but self-identifying with the red pill is not. Women don’t want to fuck neurotic self-obsessed malcontents who spend hours online discussing things like physiognomy and pickup tactics, they want to laugh at them. Everything the red pill encourages- narcissism, vanity, insecurity, envy, hypergamy, epicureanism- flies in the face of traditional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:41 PM
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Hi uggos! I just got back from a lovely long holiday. How’s it going? Does everyone have the 16 BMI trad homemaker virgin GF of their dreams yet? Have the gender wars been won?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:32 PM
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They're not, the general public largely does not care about the issues of a bunch of aggrieved virgins on reddit. TRP is a punchline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:20 AM
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receive slight joking pushback online immediately decide that bigots are good actually Fuck me what a sensitive cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:35 PM
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slightest possibility of similar rights for men If a man wants to end a pregnancy he's carrying, I think we should let him!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:24 PM
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There's no point trying to have a discussion around a point as completely puerile and inane as this. Having a financial obligation to a child is different than having a biological obligation to carry a child. And we all know the primary reason women want access to abortion is not the burden of pregnancy, but the burden of raising a child. No, really? What? How shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:21 PM
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So true OP, every time a man asks me to split the cheque on the date I immediately open fire on a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:58 AM
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Yay, another fist shaking post about how all women are unfeeling lizards who are basically the anti-christ because we refuse to give kind, sweet men their much deserved handjobs and head kisses. This one doesn't even have anything interesting to discuss, just two paragraphs about how the world is going to implode because women won't give me fuck fuck. Come on man, at least introduce something juicy under the guise of a workable solution. A prostitute for every redpiller, Andrew Tate in the schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:59 AM
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$èxlessness...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:49 AM
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Absolutely not lmao, the core customer base for brothels here are still weird old guys. Maybe you'll hear about somebody who visited a brothel for a laugh, but actually sleeping with a prostitute is strange and a bit pathetic. Just because it's legal and safe (as it should be) doesn't mean it's socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:46 AM
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Omg will have to try this!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:41 AM
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Retinol purge week two is making me feel like the most disgusting woman on the face of the earth. Hold my hand fellow stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:11 AM
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Americabrained. Where I live it's seen as ignominious to identify as as conservative. Wealthy, well-educated men are more likely to be left leaning while being on the right is seen as fodder for toothless yokels and overly online teenage boys. Not exactly masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:03 AM
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Wow!! Was that a joke? Very good!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:35 PM
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I like that you decided to include bending over AND spreading legs. Adds some much needed flavour to the stream of milquetoast feebleminded redpill slop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:34 PM
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If you genuinely think some women are born with colourful eyelids and dark red lips, you should be learning what animals make which noises and playing with playdoh instead of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:08 PM
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Do you have a girlfriend, or are you talking about your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:28 AM
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Haha yeah, let’s be quiet and play with our toys now. Which hole do you think the square block goes into?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:23 AM
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Why can’t you just read a recipe and learn how to cook? Can you only consume food when it’s being cooked on a grill during events?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:16 AM
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Nice to see we’re on the same page, I’ll send you a link for helmets and adult diapers and see if your caretaker can put in an order for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:15 AM
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If you cannot tell when a woman is wearing makeup it should be considered abuse of a mentally handicapped person to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:46 AM
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Why can you only cook meat lmao? Are you stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:42 AM
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There are a few red pill guys on here that are pretty open about being autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:26 AM
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Autism is commonly linked with lower affective empathy, especially in men and boys. Obviously it doesn't mean that every autistic person has no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:18 AM
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Incredible innovations happening in the ‘women are like x’ sphere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:20 AM
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Imagine being mad that women have romantic partners and friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:06 AM
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Oh noes did I do a heckin meanie on the internet. No updoots for me I guess 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:51 AM
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Not to be like it’s autism, but it’s autism. When you have low empathy and little to no understanding of why people form social relationships, you tend to project that onto others. Autistic men are smart enough to question sociocultural norms around relationships but aren’t smart enough to understand that people feel differently to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:49 AM
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I have been proven wrong. The thing that is more pathetic is a male with redpill ideology using cutesy buzzfeed-era slang like ‘adulting’. Vomit inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:11 AM
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This entire sub is full of men insisting women want ‘bad boys’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 AM
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Is there anything more pathetic than a grown man who refers to other males as “good boys” and “bad boys”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:52 PM
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Did you somehow absorb Joe Rogans brain damage through the screen? Why are you talking about coercion? I’m not here to debate you I’m here to laugh at you for trying to talk like a middle schooler in your debased rants about how women are evil because they won’t fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:27 PM
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Unironic use of ‘rizz’ + Joe Rogan clip twofer. All timer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:15 PM
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But not every drug dealer has the same personality, behaviours or attitudes. If you can’t refer to a group of people in shorthand, why bother using label that’s inherently incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:13 PM
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So it’s like a cartoon archetype more so than a legit concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:10 PM
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Both drug dealers I know had jobs and sold gear on the side. How many legitimate career dealers do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:08 PM
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Why are all men in this sub so obsessed with drug dealers? It seems like every redpiller is under the belief that all women are deeply turned on by drug dealers and it’s one of the hottest things a guy could do. Both drug dealers I’ve met in my life were exceedingly normal blokes that didn’t seem to make women particularly horny. Is this something that’s been caused by video games or tv shows or what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:08 PM
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Why are men in this sub so deranged about drug dealers? It seems like red piller is under the belief that all women are deeply attracted to drug dealers and it’s the hottest thing a guy would do. Both drug dealers I’ve met in my life were exceedingly normal blokes. Is this something that’s come up out of video games and tv or what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:03 PM
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This weird kid in class showing you his ifunny account on a huawei covered in grease ass post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:51 PM
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“All women are single moms even if they’re not” retard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:49 PM
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It’s misogyny not misogynism. Adding extra letters on the end of words to sound smart is the final stage of PPD derangement syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:18 AM
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Totally dude, why would women pursue their own passions and be miserable when they could reproduce with the some the extremely stable, fun and interesting guys on this subreddit. I don’t know why any of you guys are blackpilled tbh you seem like the exact kind of person a woman would want to dedicate the rest of her life to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:38 AM
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I live in a country with an extremely narrow standard of attractiveness. The thing that jumps out the most to me is that there's a larger emphasis on having platonic relationships than romantic or sexual- being single is more socially acceptable than not having big group of friends. The guy who regularly goes out with a group of mixed gender people is going to be looked up to more than the guy who has a revolving roster of chicks, and regularly using dating apps is seen as seedy and a bit pathet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:01 AM
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Aww this was nice to read. Wishing you and her happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 AM
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Noooo a redpill man is leaving dating apps? But I really wanted to swipe on an unattractive, unhygienic guy who refuses to make eye contact so I could be bought to his place for 15 minutes of unenthusiastic sex before he rolls over and drafts a post on PPD about how all women are lizards who are secretly forming a new world order to enslave 5’8 males and instate chad as a warrior-god-king
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:56 PM
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Yeah man, you can definitely tell you’ve had some adverse experiences that have deeply affected you as a person. You give off very strong ‘there is something deeply wrong with the way I see the world’ vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:06 AM
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You spend too much time on the internet. Next time you get the urge to write a reddit post using phrases like ‘slopping down a gang banging criminals cock’ you should look out the window or take a walk with your headphones in or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:00 PM
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Damn, so there’s nothing to be done about the compliment gap and a generation of men are just gonna die un-complimented? Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:54 PM
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Why are you trying to argue with a point that I didn't make? You’re wasting a lot of time just writing ‘yeah but feminism’ in response to the things I bring it. Lots of women in this thread have brought up the fact that a lot of the time, neutral compliments do get misinterpreted as a sign of interest, and that can be a negative or uncomfortable outcome. Hell, a few guys on this thread are outright saying they actively devalue compliments given by people that aren’t sexually attracted to them. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:45 PM
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Man, some people really are their own worst enemies. I can’t imagine how shitty you’re making your own world if your reaction so something as innocuous as ‘we should be nicer to someone’ is to bitch and snark. Like, jesus man, maybe this response says something crucial about the way you view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:37 PM
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Not calling someone beautiful is fine and I can’t imagine it would affect somebody, getting up and loudly announcing that you’re not going to call someone beautiful because they don’t make your dick hard is weird and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:35 PM
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This blows. I like giving compliments to my male friends and family members, I don’t just want to just be nice to the people I want to fuck. Why can’t I be nice to everyone instead of being nice to nobody, on the off chance that somebody is just super bitter about compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:33 PM
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That’s a lot of blaming women broken up with platitudes about how it’s everybody’s responsibility to help with social issues, but how are you going to incentivise women to give out more compliments? If you refuse to uplift the men around you on the basis that women should do it, how do you suppose we get women to pick up the slack?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:31 PM
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How are you going to incentivise women to give men more compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:25 PM
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Apparently we live in a world where people aren’t judged on their personality, but ‘annoying’ ‘cold’ and ‘grating’ are all perceived as insults and negative things to point out about another person. I can imagine it would kind of be like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:23 PM
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What point? You just said it wasn’t a conspiracy and used an emoji. You can’t even explain what you’re trying to say, and now you’ve gotten all flustered and have taken safe haven in a bastion of contextless memes about guys on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:21 PM
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You don’t think calling somebody ugly would be a big deal if personality was held in higher regard than physical attractiveness? I think insults are still hurtful no matter what the context is. Like, I’ve worn clothing items that I know are ill fitting, but I’d still feel bad if someone pointed out they didn’t fit me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:17 PM
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Wait, are we doing it actively or subconsciously? Like, are we having secret meetings and setting feminist standards to purposefully weed out the alphas, or are our inferior women brains constantly set to opposite day mode and therefore we are attracted to men who we claim are problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:14 PM
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I can’t be bothered responding to you stamping your feet and pouting. If you want to engage, get off the floor and engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:11 PM
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Yeah, I’ve been complimented several times by men out of kindness this week. My dad said he liked my haircut this morning. Yes, I’ve complimented men who I wasn’t attracted to before, the interactions were all pretty pleasant and upbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:04 PM
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Women compliment men’s appearances all the time, you can even head over to the male grooming reddit and read some comments for examples. There’s no obvious solution to a social problem like ‘there is a considerable divide in the way men and women receive compliments online’, and insisting we place the burden on women is tantamount to wishing the problem away. Let’s be honest, you had an emotional response to the topic, which is fine. Center the discussion about how you feel and let’s talk about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:01 PM
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For sure, my social circles are young / progressive but my male friends still find it awkward to receive compliments and compliment each other. I’ve made a conscious effort to give more little offhand compliments to men in my life and it’s been a nice moment every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:49 PM
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Why is the onus on women to solve a problem that exists for everyone? Men are shitty towards other men about how they look all the time. Trying to single out and scold women for this is very odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:36 PM
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An 18 year old doesn’t look like a prepubescent child. A 20 year old looks like an 18 year old, and 18 year old doesn’t look like a 10 year old outside of extreme medical cases. Do you really need me to take your hand and explain to you what puberty is, or are we done with the constant talking around the fact that it’s not normal to be sexually attracted to traits associated with children? You’re making these extreme leaps in logic to justify something that makes no sense any way you try to twis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:33 PM
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It’s become apparent just how many people have had their empathy whittled away at by years of exposure to online slop. If your formative years are spent on the internet watching footage of people die in horrifying ways or splashing around in the wading pool of fascist ideology, calling somebody ugly just doesn’t feel like a big deal anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:26 PM
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This seems pretty rude and unfair to the guy in this hypothetical, lol. So what if he feels like he’s managed to score a hot girl, even if you think she’s a ‘literal uggo’?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:18 PM
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Controversial opinion, I think it’s fine to be nice to people about how they look even if you personally don’t want to fuck them. Paying compliments to each other is a cool and nice thing to do and people should do it more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:13 PM
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You’re arguing that men are attracted to women who look like children because historically people have been incentivised to marry young, right? But the example you gave was a 20 year old, and 20 year olds aren’t children and don’t physically resemble children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:10 PM
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I understand the power of anecdote, but because you’ve never met a lesbian who hasn’t exclusively had sex with women (bragging about supposedly cruising for lesbians at a gay bar aside), you genuinely and sincerely believe that there are no women solely attracted to women to exist or to ever have existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:07 PM
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Sorry, it’s not a grand conspiracy- it’s a social theory that proposes feminism has naturally formed like a crust around a deep biological urge to breed with the most dangerous, disrespectful and openly hateful men possible to ensure the strongest and best offspring, unbeknownst to all women whose deeply held moral convictions align with the tenets of that political movement, even those who aren’t attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:04 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:38 PM
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What do you mean when you’re referring to the past? The typical age of engagement has been 18 to 22 since before the dark ages, and those outside of these ages were usually pre-arranged marriages of convenience. In the classical period, marriage ceremonies could take place from 15 to 16, but it was generally seen as unacceptable for a young woman to live with her husband before she was in adulthood. Being attracted to prepubescent children was never a historical norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:37 PM
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20 year olds grow body hair. Children do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:29 PM
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I know it’s a big ask but I want you to give me the genuine answer that sits on your heart beneath all the online aggression and blustery passes at chauvinism. Please let all veneers drop for a moment and give me your most straightforward and honest answer: do you really actually believe lesbians aren’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:26 PM
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But if feminism is a grand conspiracy to dwindle down the male dating pool then why would any lesbian be a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:38 AM
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Yeah dude low iq bro simp schitzo emotional whining virgin mental illness bluepill autistic retard woman moment female brain hysterical histrionic no gf take the L. Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:35 AM
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Yeah yeah man, 25 year old women and bears and virgins and sluts and fertility and lookism and the wall and chad and cold approaching and rape accusations and whatever. It’s just all so tiresome. Just noise at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:52 AM
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Why do men on this sub insist on trying to act as grotesque and brusque as possible? Deeply immature mindset, very pathetic to be constantly looking for the weirdest and grossest things to say and then acting as if you’ve pulled off some masterful plan when people rightfully treat you like an idiot. This could’ve been ‘imo girls drool and boys rule??’ and we would’ve all been better for it. Anyway sure man, all feminist adult women should be rounded up and fed to bears or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:45 AM
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But… lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:25 AM
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Im not a member of the Chamorro people, and in the societal norms of the community that I live in place comfort and safety over physical touch between people without an established rapport. I would feel pretty violated and upset if somebody leaned in to smell my hair, because I don’t enjoy closeness with people that I haven’t given verbal or physical cues to. Your right to smell my hair ends where my right to control my body and space begins. These are concepts you learn in kindergarten. It’s gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:27 PM
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“I’m just like Emmett Till because I think I should be able to sniff people’s hair without their permission” is a new low in terms of arguments I’ve seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:11 PM
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Lmao at complaining that men’s sexuality is seen as predatory and then claiming it’s natural to want to fuck 15 year olds. Being sexually attracted to children is abusive, agressive and evil. I can’t even believe I’m stooping to offer a rebuttals to the nauseating slime you’ve scraped together in this comment, but women at the peak of their sexual maturity grow body hair, and women who are not sexually mature and not fertile do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:04 PM
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Lmao why would you use a source that directly contradicts your point and supports the opposing argument? Unless this is a covert feminist operation to make men look like dumbasses, in which case I see you my sister #herstory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:54 AM
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Nah I agree with you, I'm just saying that chuds who get off on the idea of a perfect 50's housewife and but hate body hair are contradicting themselves and being hypocritical. I am team bush !
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:48 AM
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First paragraph but once upon a time hair removal was not necessarily the norm and the cultural evolution of hair removal, particularly in Western societies, is a history about which we should all be educated. The cultural fascination of women’s hairless bodies stems from a place of body-shaming, and if you thought shaving is “just what we do,” think again. Last paragraph Throughout history, body hair has been used as a weapon of shame and conformity. No more! Body hair exists for a reason — an …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:43 AM
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classic 1950s housewife Funnily enough, shaving your pubes was seen as pretty kinky in the 50's! Most women shaved up to the thigh. So technically the perfect tradwife would be rocking a bush...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:37 AM
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People in this thread are (correctly) bringing up corporate interests and pornography, but lets be real here- the elephant in the room is the sexualisation of female children, particularly in response to second wave feminism. Adult women demanded too much progress regarding attitudes towards sex and the body, and anti-feminists punished them by turning their sights and sexual appetites towards children. It was a way to simultaneously shame women and reinforce standards of attractiveness and dera…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:29 AM
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But young 'fertile' women grow body hair and always have. How much body hair you grow doesn't change when you're an adult, and elderly women tend to have less hair in general than women at the peak of their sexual maturity. So what you mean when you say less body hair is more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:03 AM
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I’m in my early twenties and every young woman I know has body hair. We grow it out of our bodies. So what do you mean when you say “youth?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:49 AM
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Women are the mind killer. Women are the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face women. I will permit them to pass over me and through me. And when women are gone I will turn the inner eye to see their path. Where the women are gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:18 AM
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I like how you put (I don’t) at the end. For a moment I thought we had our next Gloria Steinem!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:15 AM
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Very emotional response
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:02 AM
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Do you normally roleplay as Andrew Tate in your non sequiturs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:58 AM
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She’s lying because you have a personal anecdote about an entirely different person has an opinion that contradicts with hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:55 AM
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One of the highest grossing films in 1972 was a porn about a woman with a clitoris in her throat. What do you mean ‘in recent years?’
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:14 AM
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“This thing I’ve decided is true about women is weirding me out!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:10 AM
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No? Kids don’t absorb everything they see unilaterally, they should be presented with difficult and tense scenarios in media in order to challenge them cognitively. Also it’s Ant man, kids don’t give a fuck about the relationship dynamics between Ant man and Ant wife, they wanna watch him shrink down and fight Thanos or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:07 AM
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Using Antman as an anecdote is like, the perfect encapsulation of this sub. Walking out of a kids movie about a guy who goes really small and shaking your head about the cheating b plot. Fuck yeah baby that’s what it’s all about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:04 AM
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What is this whole ‘lizard brain’ thing? I thought a part of the redpill argument is that men are superior to women because they’ve got super epic le badass naturally dominant hunter brains, but when women lean towards biological instinct it’s stinky and bad? Very dweeby mindset, I personally would never try to pursue a group of people I genuinely condemn as ‘lizards’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:41 AM
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Where is this fantasyland you live in where childless women who work have all their bills paid for them? And do they have any vacancies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:36 AM
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Why do men constantly need women to pander to their feelings? Needing to be uplifted at every turn even when engaging with causes that don’t center them just proves how emotionally driven men are. Truly women are the gender of facts and logic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:36 PM
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But that’s not true, you can look up the mugshots of guys booked for domestic abuse and rape and see for yourself that they’re not all chads. Why believe something that is patently untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:54 AM
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Thanks for introducing me to my next fragrance spiral lol, Journal’s Mango Sticky Rice sounds insane. Crazy how pepper notes instantly elevate any frag!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:33 PM
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What fragrance are you wearing today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:47 PM
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Why do you think women are uniquely unequipped to deal with conflict and stresses in professional settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:48 AM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:55 AM
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You didn’t say there are some women who would rather stay home, you specifically said women in leadership roles burn out and are unhappier at work than men. If you don’t have the numbers it’s fine, just plain silly to try and worm out of proving a point like this. “I COULD prove you wrong but I WONT!” come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:50 AM
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So when he said that he was directly addressing the women in the audience and told them the most exciting part of their life would be raising children, he was actually just talking specifically about his wife? Why bother drawing a comparison between ‘diabolical lies’ and job opportunities then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:41 AM
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Sure, there were women opposed to the idea of suffrage, but it certainly wasn’t the majority of women as you claim. If more women opposed the idea of voting than the suffragettes did, surely we… wouldn’t be voting? Unless you think Big Suffragette was pulling the strings lol. Also don’t be silly, there was never even a consideration of women being drafted in exchange for the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:36 AM
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What’s the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:19 AM
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If the research is out there, why can’t you share it with me? Also you’re the one who started the ‘debate’ my sweet little princess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:16 AM
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Isn’t the current ceo of one of the largest companies in the world a gay man? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:11 AM
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You see what’s happening, right? You came at me with a claim, I countered with a claim, and now you’re just making another claim. I can come back and say that women in leadership positions are perceived as underqualified because companies are ill-equipped to offer training, or female professionals have to exert themselves twice as hard to the offset the social pressure of being a woman in a historically male position. You can’t get angry at me for failing to prove something based on a random ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:07 AM
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Nobody’s calling you naturally evil and aggressive in this thread, are you? Why fight an accusation nobody is making lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:52 AM
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But it’s been proven that women in leadership positions often face institutional misogyny, which can lead to burnout. You’re not proving anything, the statistic you vaguely gestured towards doesn’t make the point you’re suggesting it does and you don’t have anything to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:51 AM
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But women weren’t totally fine sitting back, they’ve been asking for more rights and responsibilities since the Mesopotamian era. The first concerted effort to enshrine women’s rights in law happened in 1848, which wasn’t a particularly advanced time by modern standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:47 AM
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So women in leadership roles are just unhappy across the board? Seems like we should be doing more to make workspaces less hostile towards women in leadership positions. I can understand being burnt out after facing workplace sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:44 AM
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Man, for being naturally subservient followers with a biological imperative to stay home and have babies, we sure have to be told we’re naturally subservient followers with a biological imperative to stay home and have babies a lot lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:43 AM
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Is this in comparison to women who don’t work, women who work but don’t have leadership roles, or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:41 AM
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The fact that you can’t understand my argument doesn’t mean that I don’t have an argument, it just means that you’re an idiot. If men are secretly super into the idea of women being cultural leaders, why do so many men say otherwise? Your response was ‘biology,’ but that doesn’t explain why men would contradict themselves like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:19 AM
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You don’t want to live in a safe advanced world with technology that allows you to work a comfortable job?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:12 AM
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own ingrained biology such as biology lol You’ve just repeated back to me what you wrote in your post, but that’s clearly not true in real life as men are openly resistant to the idea of women ‘leading’- i.e being the head of a household. It seems like your idea of women ‘leading’ is just following a few behaviours you’ve picked out at random. Maybe your post should’ve been ‘it would be nice if women could buy us a drink now and then’?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:12 AM
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But if women didn’t want to vote or own property or have financial control of a household, why do so many women do those things now? Surely if women made societal progress and realised they didn’t actually want it they would turn around and push for less freedom instead of more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:06 AM
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Wasn’t there just a big scandal about a man talking to a group of college graduates and telling them pretty explicitly that they should be mothers and housewives? Seems like he was pretty resistant to the idea of a woman leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:04 AM
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woman of the streets lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:04 AM
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Lol. I went to university young, got a degree in a 'useless' field, made lots of friends, created connections in my industry, got a masters, started an internship, and now I work in a high paying job I feel passionate about, live independently in a major city and I'm not even 30. Why would I trade any of that to have a baby with somebody I met when I was 19? Every alternative you've given- working in ECE straight out of high school (sounds miserable), scrimp and save for pennies, go on welfare, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:49 PM
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Lets be real, the 'convict story' is a series of irrational leaps in logic taken to frame women as evil idiots who are largely responsible for their own abuse. No, women aren't attracted to horrible men, even if they're hot. If this was the case, retributive movements like MeToo or 'x is problematic' wouldn't gain any traction. Rich, attractive and disgusting men like R. Kelly, Chris Brown and Armie Hammer are widely hated by women and their defenders are mostly other men. The redpill idea that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:21 AM
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Behold, Chads as far as the eye can see. Most wanted by the law... and Stacys!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:56 AM
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So women don’t view the top % of men as men? I thought women viewed Chads favourably, why wouldn’t they see them as men? Where do Charles and Bob and the rest of the hypothetical dudes you’re talking about factor into the bear thing? Are you trying to say that when women talk about preferring the bear, they prefer the bear to Chad? But I thought women WANT Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:30 AM
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What the fuck is this even trying to say? Who the fuck are bob and carl? Are we seriously still going on about the fucking bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:17 AM
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What would ‘equality’ even look like in this sense? Should men be able to take babies to safe haven drop off boxes? Or should they be able to decide whether a woman aborts or not? The system in place makes sense biologically and gives men plenty of outs if they don’t want to be active fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:45 AM
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Praise PPD. Finally, a subreddit where the two sides of the gender wars can come together on the intellectual dark web to say the same thing about the same three topics over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:13 AM
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Do you talk about this stuff with your real life friends? The idea of saying ‘pilled’ in front of alive human people makes me want to throw myself out of a window
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:43 AM
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What’s the systemic sexism? Mothers are default parents, obviously courts are going to grant custody to the parents who are already doing the majority of parenting. In my country at least, 97% of custody cases are settled out of court, so it’s not up to a judge to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:21 AM
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80% of single parent households are led by single mothers, obviously there are going to be more diverse outcomes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:08 AM
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This was really sad to read. Why don’t men respect themselves? Why fuck someone you feel contempt towards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:19 AM
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In that case, if the only thing stopping women from being just as murderous and violent as men is strength, shouldn't women's rates of conviction for attempted murder and assault be much higher? This argument stems from a desperate attempt to view anything men do as good and anything women do as weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:38 PM
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Very enlightening thread, seems the majority of men categorise 'hurt feelings' as a form of violence alongside assault and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:34 PM
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This is an insane argument to make. Are you saying the only thing stopping men murdering and raping women is the presence of other men to stop them? Or that women are secretly just as violent towards men, but we don't act on it because we know men are going to intervene and stop us? anything it proves just how much we love and protect women roflmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:32 PM
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Does it only count as misogyny or misandry if they specifically say 'i hate [x gender]?'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:28 PM
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The CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010 reports that 42 percent of all female rape victims in the US were raped for the first time before the age of 18. According to the Pennsylvania Child Welfare Resource Center, adult perpetrators are responsible for two-thirds of CSA cases. Among them, up to 90 percent are male. Ah yes, men are raping female children because they're just so good at violence! There's no way violent men specifically target weak children because they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:26 PM
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All of the comments in this thread are based in personal opinion and anecdote. What is the concrete evidence we're supposed to give in response to 'all women are evil meanypoos'?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:21 PM
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My favourite part of engaging with people online is slowly learning more about their personality and imagining what they’re like outside of whatever website they spend the most time on. Like, you’re a 16 year old with a reddit account who spends most of the day screeching at people about ‘contraptions’ and calling people autists to cover the fact that it’s not normal for a teenage boy with friends and a healthy social life to be arguing with adults on a subreddit about dating. Do you live at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:24 PM
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Very embarrassing moment for the right. Closeted bisexual with mommy issues accidentally goes too hard too fast with the retvrn messaging and now they have to stick up for the guy in the face of countless easy dunks from the online left. Must be aggravating as a conservative influencer to wake up and have a new career grifter to endorse. I wish him luck in group therapy and with his future anti-woke veneer friendly toothbrush brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:14 PM
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Do you mean contraception? Holy fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:05 AM
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I am saying this completely neutrally and without any sort of negative undercurrent at all: I do not think you understand what I am saying. I am agreeing with you that all of these things were uncool in the 90s but are cool now, but only because of a shift in perception. I am disagreeing that the same will happen to AI girlfriends, because having an emotional and sexual connection with an AI will always be percieved as strange and offputting. I think the only way that AI companions will become m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:36 AM
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You share videos of onlyfans models making ragebait videos with your cousins?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:24 AM
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Outside of the obvious (survey done through social media app aimed at college students) the 0% answers indicate an incredibly small sample size. This could be a poll taken from 50 men and 3 women and nobody would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:16 AM
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This is a garbage tier survey and even then over half the woman in it said they'd be flattered by an unattractive person complimenting them. Where the fuck are you getting all the hate from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:09 AM
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Did I say that lmao? It's just stupid to seriously engage with something specifically designed to grab your attention and evoke a particular emotional response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:06 AM
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That's exactly what I'm saying, that these things are normal because they've been separated from the dorky sexualised undercurrent that fuelled fandom in the 90's. Things like cosplay, fursuiting and LARPing only reached the mainstream once they were thoroughly sanitised and de-sexualised. AI for companionship as it was suggested by OP is simply too horny to see widespread usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:58 AM
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How dare somebody disagree with our male worship hugbox!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:51 AM
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If you're only getting a girlfriend to impress men, why don't you skip the middleman and fuck men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:38 AM
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Why are you so upset about a made up scenario then? Just stop thinking about it and you won't be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:36 AM
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Why do you guys keep genuinely engaging with ragebait? I'm surprised half the male posters on here aren't running into paintings like wil e coyote
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:34 AM
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Playing DND is normal, having a group of male friends roleplay as large breasted elf women is weird. Watching anime is normal, consuming ecchi is weird. Watching a porn video is normal, having a hard drive full of alphabetised webms is weird. Using AI to cheat on an exam is normal, using AI to fulfil your sexual and romantic needs is weird. The things you've used as examples are only normal now because they've been thoroughly corporatised and scrubbed of any underlying sexual deviance, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:30 AM
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Meh. I don’t think women will be replaced by AI for the same reasons women haven’t been replaced by porn, or fleshlights, or holograms, or waifus, or realistic sex dolls. The first wave of AI gfs will be embraced by lonely gauche tech nerds, and by then will have garnered the disgust of most normal people. Even the guys who are slightly intrigued by the concept of forming a relationship with an AI woman will be turned away by the type of men who have already embraced it. In five years ‘AI girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:02 AM
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There needs to be a post flair on here for male temper tantrum lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:52 AM
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