| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 30 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky? | Escalation & Calibration | corrupting-minds | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | I’m feeling a little bit lost with a girl | Field Report | corrupting-minds | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about “Attached”? (Book) | Resources | corrupting-minds | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Is it a coincidence that the women I treat like a second thought, generally care more about me than those I apply pressure on?This is the way | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 06:56 AM |
| 22 | 3 Best Tinder BiosI would say cringe more than anything | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Most approach anxiety is just fear of looking cringeYeah, totally true, the most difficult thing for me always has been the first words. So much overthinking sadly | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 03:59 PM |
| -1 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?I wouldn’t keep a 6 just because it’s easy to please… Always aim higher, abundance mentality, I wouldn’t talk to a 6 to be honest. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Ultimate Tinder Profile GuideI get your point but I don’t think that having “professional” photos is a bad thing. I would choose professional over any mirror selfie (that’s creepy as f) everyday of my life for sure. Nowadays your iPhone is more professional than any early 2000s camera so… | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:52 AM |
| 19 | Ultimate Tinder Profile Guide“Blurred background” is not an effect (of course it could be sometimes). It’s just a consequence of different parameters when someone is taking the photo. Just date girls in your IQ range. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is ghosting bad?Avoding conflict is always a signal of a bad mental status. If you find ghosting a better alternative could be because your self esteem is low and someone telling you his PoV can break it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | First MessageYou are very late. Overthinking won’t help you. Anything that happened that night with a light pun is more than enough. Next time propose that plan while iron is hot and next day is just confirming and organising. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 05:07 PM |
| 4 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsI can say that you must work out to be the very best version of yourself and that is not enough information. I appreciate the mindset behind models but I don’t feel that enough information is given related to the seduction process. Maybe it’s a book more oriented for emotional people and not rational. Not in a bad way, some people like me tend to see everything like an optimisation problem/an algorithm. So “deterministic” problems are much more easier. Obviously dating is not like that but an “a… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsOf course self esteem and self respect is the origin of every kind of social interaction. If you don’t like yourself is hard to like other people. The thing is people usually stops in Models. Maybe you are more natural in other aspects of your life and using techniques for it feels weird but I think every skill is learned by training following certain instructions. I could put some people in the middle of a forest and tell them “just survive” and some of them probably will do and others just don… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on sending a follow Up Text?I wouldn't say all double text is needy. Context is key. If your last message was "hey we should grab a drink" probably following that with any other thing could be needy yes. But if the last message was a conversation about a book, or something that "ends" it's okay to bring another topic when you feel it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsProbably this sub will hate me but I find “The game” kinda revealing. I don’t know if books could teach game to be honest. You need to be fluent texting or speaking. Like OP said, the push/pull post is useful if you learn to do it. Sometimes when I go out and I’m not in my best moment I like to use what people call “canned material”. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 05:43 PM |
| 11 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsYes, I read the same posts and I feel that type of content much more appealing. Maybe we must split a little bit what is seduction. Mindset, social skills, etc. It’s a big topic and everyone is more “natural” in each own way. Maybe you are so good with personal care (working out, dressing properly and so on) and then your flirting sucks. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 72 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsIn my case, I don't resonate at all with the content of Models, I see it as a more elaborate version of the typical phrase 'be yourself'. It's true that there are some interesting aspects, but I think it focuses more on the mindset of seduction and leaves the whole 'how to' aspect underdeveloped, if it even addresses it at all, since I don't even remember | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | When is it a good time to invite for a date?I would say that you could push for that at the bar. If you have been crystal clear about your intentions... Just grab a beer and having fun is okay, you are not asking her to marry you. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?I like your "scientific" approach but I would like a little bit more explanation on points 2 and specially 3. Of course I get what are you saying but I need examples maybe. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?I don’t know how you guys act or flirt, but in my environment, coming from a fairly open country, hugging a stranger (on a first date, maybe in a nightclub it can be 'forced') is incredibly creepy. That said, other forms of physical contact are manageable. I have no problem making a move or anything like that, it's just that the point of my post was more about how sometimes with some girls, the escalation happens naturally—they give more space for it—but with other girls, it’s terribly difficult… | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?I feel your response is too philosophical, and I can’t grasp the practical nuances. I understand the part where you point out the signs of breaking the tension, but I don’t want to break it—I want to build it. I don’t want to force it like you mention, but I also don’t think standing still in the face of a lack of 'game' is optimal. I want to improve it. Don’t get offended, but I feel like this answer is more of a 'be yourself, be water, my friend' | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?Thanks for your response, I think this is a simple but nice tip. Similar to other responses. The thing about interests and "invest" into her is easy. I will practice the endearment and compliment thing next time I feel stuck. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?I think you misunderstood me, I'll try to explain it better. I agree with what you're saying; however, I was referring to the fact that in my environment, I "should be grateful" for having the success that, as you all know, is achieved by seeking it (talking to strangers, improving your profile on dating apps, dressing well, using a good perfume...). I have no problem rejecting women, it's just that I think there are girls with whom, on a "logical" level, something more should have happened, but… | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?Thank you very much for the response! I understand that the point of your argument is that "you can always modify any sentence toward a more emotional/sexual tone," and it makes sense; I saw that with your example. However, I think this is where I fall short. Due to my education and profession, I believe I’m a very methodical and concrete person when I speak. I don't tend to use emotional language (sexual language is outside of that scope hahaha), so I’d say I’m not sure I’ve been able to create… | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing?Post like this makes me wonder how many girls I lost because they were so confused in showing interest. Whatever, as a girl the best strategy when you are confused and the boy has shown interest is being as direct as you can. "Hey, let's grab a beer this friday, I want to spend time with you". That's it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | How often should you text a woman you just met or cold approached?What do you think about having a convo in the night and saying goodbye to each other before going to bed and you are the last one to write? Does it counts as double texting? Sometimes I feel that is her job to show interest and sometimes I think is my job to lead the interaction. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Best (German) books for texting game?I think any book is useful if you understand the ideas inside. There is no magical receipt that you say and then she fall in love. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 4 | which will be a better thing to do ?I’ll forget about women aproaching you. You should go because that’s a way of saying to yourself that you are choosing what life are you living. Reassuring yourself in your path. If you feel like you can improve (body, haircut, beard, clothes, parfums…) and you want because you want to be the very best version then do it but expect to have 0 impact in women. Probably it will have impact because you will be a different person, not the same person with different appereance. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue girl with a BF?This time this is not about seduction, it is about core values of your personality. You should do whatever you think it is correct. There is no correct answer. In my case I'll ignore her. "best scenario": She dumps her boyfriend for you. Now you have a girlfriend and the infinite doubt of when she will do the same to you because if she did it once... | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Seduction is a subset of being generally charismatic with people.I did it unconciously because I just wanted to be more fluid and I promise it is a game changer, specially if you do this before going to a "event" where you can meet girls. You know, talk to everyone if you are going to a party/disco/bar tonight, when you arrive there you will be in the mood for talk with any girl of your interest. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I’m feeling a little bit lost with a girl1 The line..... I mean I was basically referring to the line when I said you should continue living your life. If she's on a trip, it's kind of defeating the purpose of going on a trip to be constantly in her phone putting her focus somewhere else. And it should be the same with you. Texting to set up a meat is one thing and maybe sending notes every so often is definitely a thing. But texting should not be a huge concern in the scheme of things. You have a life right in front of you and that do… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Should I text him now, or wait until the weekend when I’m actually available?Text him now. I usually plan my weekend at the start of the week so just bring something about your last conversation and keep it casual and it should be fine. Two days ago is enough in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I’m feeling a little bit lost with a girlThis is a standard progression when people are getting more intimate emotionally. Most people don’t just open up immediately and that’s healthy. Or understandable at least since it doesn’t make sense to invest easily in someone you don’t know yet. Yes, I get this, I think in any case this is a green flag. There is people who need more time/confort to reveal their emotions and I understand that obviously but when you are involved in this “emotional trading” it feels like I have any kind of respon… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Paying for sex, am I a loser?Listen, I understand your doubts and I'm not judging you for that kind of path that you are building in your mind. I'm here to ask you a few questions. Is that the kind of sex that you want? Do you think it will be enjoyable for the girl? And for you? Sex is sex, it is pretty corporal, there is no mystery on it, we all know what it is but your character, principles and self esteem are much more important than put your little friend inside a woman who probably would be glad in other kind of jobs.… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 11:52 AM |
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