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| 4 | What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy?Child support and all of that can be avoided by just not impregnating someone. How do you not see how this can be turned around on women? "Just don't get impregnated" and then outside of rape, abortion should be wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people?This is true, but let’s be a bit more brutally honest about it. Most people prefer generally athletic, low-fat bodies. Most guys prefer skinny women even if they settle for a chunky one. Same way with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:48 PM |
| 0 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?A lot of red pill talking points are so endlessly recycled it's pathetic. Those Fresh and Fit podcast guys repeatedly bring up the same red pill points and they keep finding women who think it's new or something. - It's the same few recycled talking points - The women that come on and get "lectured" are almost universally ho's - They live in Miami which seems to be "ho central", I don't think there's much to do there except party. What the hell do these guys expect? It's not like they live in so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: Should ugly women glamorize themselves to look nicer and ultimately do better in the dating world, or should they stay in their lane?Awesome. Just see a lot of people who are really unhealthy/overweight and think that having nicer nails or makeup will improve their looks somehow. Keep it simple 🤷♂️ at least that’s what’s attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Question for Men: Should ugly women glamorize themselves to look nicer and ultimately do better in the dating world, or should they stay in their lane?Are you fit? Are you morbidly obese? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Question for Men: Should ugly women glamorize themselves to look nicer and ultimately do better in the dating world, or should they stay in their lane?Improving your figure will go way further than your nails. If you disagree, you’re just wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I am 34, have climbed mountains all over the world and was sponsored for such, make six figures, own two houses, have a ton of loyal friends, am 6’0’’. I can provide lifestyle, adventure, comfort. I HAVE seen the world and am fit and all that. Downsides: I’m bald. The dating pool still feels like garbage sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?If he brings home the 💰and you take care of everything else and do a great job of it, that sounds like a great arrangement and something I’d love to have. Your phrasing of that sentence however is terrifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?“My husband is frugal with himself, so that I can have the freedom to spend his money how I want to.” 🫣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"The way is that you pass a law that says by third trimester or whatever, the man has the ability to opt out, but also has to be formally notified that he has a child on the way. Could also lead to a lot more women deciding to abort when they know the father isn’t in it. “You can kill it, can’t I at least abandon it?” - Chappelle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedThe vid of Patrice yelling “I’m lovable” sounds like Joffrey from Game of Thrones yelling “I am the king.” An obese guy yelling how great he is, then he died early because he was so unhealthy. No one should want to emulate him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 4 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?You might live in a particularly broken place. What region are you in? I live in northern colorado and know very few sex workers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Getting Fuckzoned is worse than being FriendzonedThe last couple of women I’ve been with have fuckzoned me. One would always say yes to my invitations to hang out, do an activity, make dinner, bang. But she just would never invite me to do anything or text/call for fun, she made it clear this was just banging. The next one literally texted “I’m not looking for anything serious but I think you’re 🔥” and we did hook up but then I bumped into her in public the next weekend and she was a cold fish. Anyway sometimes it happens the other way round. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)The strangest thing to me is that women I have met lately generally prefer casual sex over LTR's. Seems odd. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 10 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)I agree with improving seduction/game to find a good partner. And to have been around the block once or twice so you understand people and therefore your lover. So yes, most of us would probably prefer to be able to bang 56 women in a year. 56 in a year is totally excessive though, if he didn't find one he wants long-term out of that many, that sounds sad. It also means some of these women are in-turn selecting him for ONS. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?To be sure, there are people who should not have kids. When I was 24-26 I entered an elite mountain climbing program and met tons of really famous climbers, mostly older men. I learned which ones I wanted to emulate, and which I didn't. They were all really accomplished at what they did, but the things that separated them: One guy was simply emotionally and morally bankrupt. It made me re-focus on being a better person Some are well-off financially, others are not Some have kids, some don't. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?I’m a man, talking about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:10 PM |
| 7 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?“Want kids someday” “Looking for something casual” Age: 30+ Really? You don’t start to hit 28, 29, 30 years old and think about how sad life will be if you fail to reproduce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Dinner With Rollo Tomassi Tomorrow NightRight, is seems like their idea is that the woman should only fuck him on the first date, and be his loyal woman for ever, and love him unconditionally. And love him for being him, not for being an alpha. If you want a woman who doesn't put out right away for dudes, you better expect her to make you wait a bit too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?The last sentence in the second paragraph didn't quite make sense to me. But I think I get what you mean; RP can help you just "not be naive" and help you maintain respect, help you recognize red flags. For example I had one girlfriend jokingly call me a "bitch". When I called her out on it, she said she was joking, but would your grandmother EVER say that to your grandfather? I also find it fascinating that people like Roosh V went from full pickup/sex master hooking up with 200+ women, then mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?I agree, it will help to bed some women but not most of the decent ones until you find a little more peace with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?It has made it easier for me to get casual sex, but not real intimate relationships/companionship, which is what I long for. now I feel jaded towards women, but don’t want that. I just wish I could find a cooperative/nice one; the way I see my mother and grandmothers treat my male relatives. For me that’s the biggest thing. My grandmothers treat their families really nicely. I can’t see most modern women doing that 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | "Status" is probably the most overblown and ambiguous RP concept for attracting women.Right -- if you're badass at snowboarding, girls who snowboard will be receptive to you. On dating apps, looks are the primary "measuring stick". Sure, the badass chess guy will match with chicks who like chess, but for the most part women are going to look at your looks because that's the biggest tool they have on the app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Taking to you is liberating me from my red pill mindset. Not so much the “that’s how it is” part, but the victim part attached to it. Look to Goggins for the answers. We live in a society that is incredibly fortunate, no reason to be a little pussy and complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?You’re right, climbing is too mainstream. What’s your plan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?I’ve spent 15 years climbing all over the world, it isn’t 0.001% of my life, it’s a way of life. just one example of a cool activity where height is not an advantage and you could be good at something. Might as well not be a pessimistic loser like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsIf the bar for relationships is so low, then why do women initiate 70%+ of divorces? And supposedly it's 90%+ for college educated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Then explain Tommy, Yuji, Lynn, Beth. They are all GREAT climbers who are relatively SHORT. Jean Christophe-Lafaille was a short guy who achieved the highest achievements in sport climbing and alpine climbing simultaneously. Ueli Steck was not a tall guy. Steve House is not a tall guy. Big list of GREAT professional climbers who are short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Great now explain Tommy Caldwell, Yuji Hirayama, Lynn Hill, Beth Rodden, lots of others. The point is, a short guy can do really well in some areas of life where tall guys don't have some advantage the way they do in basketball for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?How tall are you? I grew up a "late bloomer" and was also one of the youngest people in class, so I was generally one of the shortest guys through high school. Eventually I hit 6'0''. So now I'm "slightly" tall but have known a bit of life as a shorter guy. Yes it's a very real difficulty, you might as well learn to just deal with it and that your life story will just be much prouder with you doing things with a little social difficulty. Also, play to your strength. For example in steep rock cli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:53 AM |
| 4 | How do I flirt with a coworkerThis. Go slowly, be funny, be "friends". You might get friendzoned. Better to be friendzoned than to have problems at work. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 09:26 AM |
| 3 | I understand the hate towards menBoth sexes have specific issues that they need help with. - Social media is disproportionately negative for women - Video games and porn are disproportionately negative for men Can't we all be humanist and recognize both sexes are important and we need both?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 24 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Was waiting for this comment. In the US, you can't drink the tap water in Flint, Michigan. In India, you can't drink the tap water anywhere. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’Top result in Google search: https://thebolditalic.com/the-two-worlds-of-tinder-f1c34e800db4?gi=9872a1b957b9#:~:text=While%20women%20swipe%20more%20than,yes%20more%20often%20than%20no.&text=Ultimately%2C%20most%20women%20only%20swipe,more%20freewheeling%20with%20their%20swipes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’Men swipe right on many women, women swipe right on very few men. What more is there to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’When you look at a herd of Elk or something, there's usually like 20-50 females around one big huge male(the rest of the males have none). Biggest antlers and all that. One time I watched a scene evolve where a secondary young male had two females with him. The big-ass alpha buck bugled real loud and those two female elks ran over to him and his "harem" of 30 other females as well. This is a fully polygamous order. Most mammals are like that. Humans are different because the young need years, de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’on dating apps men find something like 60% of women attractive, but women find something like 4.5% of men attractive. So yes their standards are too high unless we revert to full polygamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksYou're still talking like what they "should" do and not how men get divorce raped. Going back to that example of the friend who supported his wife through nursing school, she also tried to take 50% of the house that he bought himself and she was living in, for free. Luckily he had a decent lawyer and got away without losing any of that. But you get the point; he was just trying to not lose everything after already paying for everything. That's why when you asked if there's any way to get such mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksThe courts may "take that into account" except the person who makes less money usually does better coming out of the divorce. It's usually the woman. But obviously not always. If you supported the other person through school, but they still don't have money, where would the courts even get the money if they wanted to award damages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksAre you fucking kidding me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?This. “You sure showed him!!” The guy sounded pretty lazy, like he needed a wake-up call. But instead of working through that, now the kids will deal with a divorced home for the rest of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksWell, I know a guy who supported his wife through her nursing school while he paid for the house and all of their living expenses for years. He was really looking forward to the household finally having two incomes. Then of course she left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP’s attitude towards crying makes you weakRed pill in my experience suggests that men shouldn’t cry publicly unless someone died or something. And women are free to cry. Seems reasonable to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Any hope for older incels?Animals are great. A really affectionate cat is a special thing, that sort of love can be so calming. Exercise alone obviously won't solve all problems, like the abusive relationship you mentioned. But I do subscribe to the idea that humans are beasts of burden who do best when challenged. A human with no exercise is like a plant that just never gets quite enough light. It can survive, but won't really thrive. The plants droop. The humans also have poor posture, which directly affects confidence… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Any hope for older incels?I really appreciate the spirit of this post. I do have slightly different advice, but in the same spirit: **You have to do something legitimately physically difficult. Do it for you.**I don't mean "go for a walk."I don't mean "take a jog".I don't mean "go to the YMCA and do a few push-ups and crunches". I don't have the answer for you, only you can find that. But it needs to be legitimately difficult, for YOU. It could be lifting, crossfit, or combat sports like kickboxing or jiu-jitsu(seems to … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson is red pill?an explanation for femicidal killing sprees. This was actually his response to the bus attacks, (if not, a similar incel killer around this time). we aren't getting married off like we used to. Imagine the fuel given by that statement. Young people have sex-appeal forced down their throats from earlier and earlier ages, and more constantly from Instagram, TikTok, general pop culture, etc. It is more constant and unavoidable now. The Eliot Rodgers types will grow in number. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | RedPill’s dogma on Women’s OptionsI like conversations. Good thinkers who spent time contemplating the truth of life, their values, why they value those values, and learning about science and life is attractive to me. I'm like that too, I really like people who get into deep conversations. Observant people with novel perspectives on life are fascinating to me. For all you know, I might ask you out after barely knowing you. What would be wrong with that? Wouldn't you be judging me too quickly? What would be wrong with hanging out… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | As an Ex-MGTOW, and I wish you all the bestmen are equally as capable of betraying, lying, and stealing from you. Don't be on "team men" or "team women." Amen. Leonard Sax has two books, one about how video games and porn are having a disproportionate and negative effect on young men. His other book is about how social media is making a disproportionate and negative effect on young women. This is a humanist approach. Ask yourself why men are more likely to cheat on their spouse. Could you provide some evidence of this? I tend to think wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers hate western womenI'm family/marriage oriented. My hunch is that most redpillers are. They are just struggling to make it happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 06:48 PM |
| -2 | Redpillers hate western womenThis set of rules is fairly easy for a man to live by. - Make money - Follow the "rules" around how you're supposed to behave - Respect your elders To me that's a pretty easy recipe for an average guy to follow. If you are from a developed country, it should be a good bit easier to make money and show up in Asia with more money/status than most Asian men. You have a leg up. Western women place more emphasis on some mix of playfulness, comedy, charisma, muscles/athleticism, social status, being v… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW todayProbably a lot of people here wouldn't like Elliott Hulse, and I think he's rather extreme too. But, he has some pretty important points. He has statements like, "people think promiscuous women are sluts... well, promiscuous men are sluts too!" Maybe calling people "sluts" here is divisive, but my point is that it takes two to tango. You probably wouldn't respect your grandfather(or other responsible men you look up to) for cheating on your grandmother with a stack of women either, right? I sure… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?You see a career woman and doubt her commitment to her motherhood, and to me that's incredibly offensive to the hardworking women out there who are wonderful mothers. Mine included. You have my stance a little backwards; I've seen a lot of career women who become mothers, and quickly become great mothers. At that point I doubt her commitment to her career. This doesn't make me respect these women less; it makes me respect them more, because I value strong family bonds. It also makes me want to f… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?I appreciate this response! Since you do seem legitimately interested in my perspective, this might not be short, and I'm fairly busy today/this weekend so will have more time early next week. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?First, I've never had any involvement with the red pill aside from seeing its (awful, horrifying, backward, misogynistic, disheartening) impact on the men on whom it preys. I'm part of this sub because it interests me to gain an insight into that mindset and how people come out of it, because I'm a teacher and the best way to avoid kids getting sucked into Redpill thinking is to educate and socialize them out of it as early as possible. I would call myself center-right, but I live in very libera… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?Then you still aren’t picking up MY message. First, it isn’t just towards women not wanting families; it’s towards men too, and it also includes a sadness that Western civilization has lost faith in itself despite being the least awful. See Douglas Murray, Niall Ferguson, Elon Musk or anyone else on demographic collapse. Second, I don’t think “women need to do what grandparents want”, they need to do what they want. it’s more like, “look at the people in your family that are much older; even the… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?I would not say that women have a responsibility to bear children. I would say that I am sad when they don’t want to. Rapidly Declining birth rates, the coming demographic collapse will not be fun. I do think if more women were interested in starting families then men like me might find more satisfaction. Ultimately I’m more judging society in general in this way; we told a generation of women to be Astronauts and entrepreneurs and etc instead of showing them how much their grandparents value fa… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 05:58 AM |
| -1 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?Well, I know multiple smart, college educated women who are generally great people that suddenly decided at 35-37 that they want kids, and then started racing to do it. This includes my own sister. Earlier in life they didn’t want to. Seemed odd that it took them until that stage in life to figure that out. Surely the women I know are different than the ones you know. I wasn’t suggesting that women should have kids just to satisfy men, but rather I would personally want a woman who likes the ide… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 02:35 PM |
| 0 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?Great point. The War on the West by Douglas Murray makes a strong case for a lack of faith in western civilization anymore. A ton of people just don’t want to have kids. Sure seems like a sad future to me without them. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 11:49 AM |
| -8 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?The women on the show are pathetic. To the point that Myron is a loser himself; look at his company of women! I do believe women hit the wall, hard; so do men. What hot 24 year old girl wants to seriously date a 45+ year old guy just because he’s wealthy? Not many. They’d rather bang good looking 25-30 year old guys. That being said he does have a point in that a lot of modern women that I interact with simply don’t seem to grasp the biological clock for having children, e.g. ideally they have k… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 05:47 AM |
| 2 | have any of you guys watch rom wills? he emphasize on the body game which is to have a good body to attract women)Haven't watched Rom Wills, but a fit, attractive woman is clearly going to be more interested in a fit guy. You'll also have more confidence if you are fit. You'll feel better about yourself, and other men won't see you as a scrawny twig or a fat slob. If men respect you physically, you'll have social proof. If we went back to the 1800's, being a guy with a solid farm was probably more important than a good physique. You had resources that women needed. Now, food isn't scarce, so some amount of … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 02:27 PM |
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