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From my experience, at least texting the next day can work wonders and doesn't come off as too strong. Just don't pester her if she doesn't reply right away. I don't think the 3 day rule really applies anymore to our super fast paced society.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:47 AM
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Asian male here too. I feel like I creep girls out as well, even though I am known by many and quite social.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:46 AM
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It's not a seduction question. And it depends why she's your ex. For instance, if she cheated on you, then no.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:27 AM
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Been on three dates putting on lots of kino but she isn't returning kino at all! Not even touching my arm or anything during conversation. Just sitting there. If she isn't returning any kino at all but still wants to hang out, uhhhh then what? I see how she interacts with other guys and she will be ok with putting her hand on their backs, for instance.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:25 AM
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I have the same problem!! I seem to have no problem talking to and getting numbers from HB7+'s (I think I'm a 5). I'm about a year into practicing seduction but have only kiss closed once and never F-closed. This girl I just had a second date really loves movies. She really only wants to go on movie dates so...Both dates were movie dates. 1st date - I number closed and initiated the first date. It was friendly. Fun. Some kino on my end but no reciprocation. I dropped her home and she rushed out …
/r/seduction14/10/12 12:02 PM
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Yeah...to be honest, I really have low self esteem and thought she was wayyyyy out of my league. Like I mentioned, I'm still new to this. I have decent first impression skills, but my closing is horrrribleeee. I've only ever K-closed 3 dates in my entire life (F-closed one) and I just turned 29. Trying to teach this old dog new tricks! I'm in it for the long haul though. Thanks for everyone's help. I hope this can also serve as others to read and learn from my mistakes -_- That's what FR's are f…
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:05 PM
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Just an update, I screwed things up. She called me up the next night to hang out and watch my band. I didn't know if it was a good idea or not, because I would have rather gone on a date with her rather than to have her come out and spend 3-4 hours just hanging out. Plus she didn't really get along with the rest of the band members the night before (she was kind of a loner and my friends felt awkward around her), so that kinda made my attraction towards her less strong. Anyway, throughout the ni…
/r/seduction14/07/12 07:43 AM
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Any closes?
/r/seduction12/07/12 11:00 AM
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Thanks for directing me to the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. Very useful information, and I'll study it and lots I have already organized in my head, but it's nice to see it in paper and it'll help fill a lot of gaps on my knowledge. I do second guess myself a lot. I am very new to seduction (6-12 mos, still rAFC). On my last date with other girl, I was getting a lot of IOI's and was able to K-close. This date though, I wasn't getting the feeling of reciprocation of kino so that's why I backed off.…
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:27 AM
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5'1" Asian male here. I have been studying seduction for only about half a year and am still an AFC, but no longer socially awkward as much. My AA is a lot less and I don't have too much trouble #closing with someone I'm having a decent conversation with (prob only like one number a month tho). I'm pretty confident with my kino too. But I have trouble getting IOIs. I know when I'm being successful at IOIs, but I don't get them often and I think it's because I'm short and Asian. So yes, I'm havin…
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:49 AM
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PUAdept: Oneitis definitely not there. I think I've developed feelings for her, but I'm doing my best to drown them out. I've been doing a lot of watching HIMYM and it's refreshing to see how a great (fictional eh) PUA like Barney can have feelings for Robin and not know how to deal with them either. Anyway, I'm not giving her any special treatment, and I will definitely keep my dating options open. boss413: Your last sentence was great and pretty much sums up what I needed to hear. I hope you'r…
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:35 PM
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You sound like a dick. But to help you out, try kino over a dinner and movie date. If no kino, no in.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:43 AM
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Before: SAP. Afraid to talk to girls because all I can think about is sex. After: I'll talk to girls just for the hell of it. I still have AA, but I'm more confident in general and have many HB9/10 friends who help me in my confidence to attract more women. I still have yet to F-close, but I love my new confidence level. I no longer put HB7+'s immediately on a pedestal.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:41 AM
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I have no problem with this. I didn't want to go past k-closing because I was hoping for a longer term thing. She's already told me her number of guys (over a dozen), and she's barely old enough to drink (I'm almost 10 years older than her too). She also mentioned something about cleaning her life up, so I thought maybe she would be looking for something more meaningful.
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:43 AM
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Haha we must be living in a weird parallel universe in which I am slighly behind. We haven't been on a second date (obviously since I posted this wondering if I should). Yeah I did see her hanging out with her ex at a bar one time. I think you're right and that I should probably wait for her issues to clean up before considering dating her. I won't friendzone myself though. I don't know if I could pull off that un-friendzoning technique.
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:36 AM
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Yeah...I used to be a SAP. I am actually a 5'0" asian male nerd/dork, but reading on seduction over the past year and practicing has upped my AFC'ness into rAFC. I still haven't gotten laid since breaking up with my 7 year relationship, but I hope I'm getting closer. In the mean time, I'm staying lightly flirtatious with this same girl without going overboard. The only reason I think I'm hung up a bit on her is that I think she would be a great match for me, but I know in the seduction world to …
/r/seduction09/07/12 10:53 AM
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Thanks. Great read... Helps a lot. Over dinner, after she told me what her deal was, I did indeed ask her if she could be my wingwoman since we can't be together. She said yeah, but she had a little frail giggle behind that. Haha. So yeah, bag of mixed signals. Doing my best to move on because I know that's the best thing to do.
/r/seduction09/07/12 10:48 AM
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