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couldbemage/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:25 AM
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I didn't say it was good. You keep using that word.... Your title didn't mention the scotsmen. You started with the equivalent of an assertion about the bible and when people responded with arguments about the bible you respond saying things about Christians. Those are two different things. Damn near unrelated things. A piece of text is not a community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:49 PM
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Your title says "the red pill" so people will think that means the original guide, not the weirdo community. "The red pill" is just a guide for how to get laid, and it's mostly about improving their apparent personality in order to get laid. I have my doubts about how effective it is, but improving their personality is exactly the purpose of trp. The weirdo community that you call redpillers is mostly a bunch of incels, black pillers, and whiners. It's not everyone else's fault that you used a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:30 PM
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Have you considered not doing that? All that stuff is just a recipe for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:07 AM
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Yet somehow me and nearly everyone I know grew up with two working parents. It must not be that much work. Regardless of how much work it is, spending 40 hours at a regular doesn't make the housework magically go away. So it's still less work than working parents do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:52 AM
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Because r/antiwork. Working sucks, and some people actually like their kids. If you think everything is going to work out, it's a great deal. I've raised two kids, it's really nothing like as hard as actually working. And unless you're rich, dual income just means working all day and then getting all the stuff a sahm had all day to do done in your leftover time. If being a sahm is more work than working while also raising kids, then there's something weird going on. Because both have the same am…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:37 AM
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Just have the body composition of an olympic athlete. No big deal. It takes massively less time to get your build by lifting and managing your diet. You're wildly wrong about lifting injuries. You can look this shit up. The most common serious lifting injury is dropping a weight on your foot And cycling on the street is thousands of times more dangerous than lifting. People die cycling all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:45 AM
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This is entertainment. I'm not straight or monogamous, and I'm a natural. This shit doesn't apply to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:36 AM
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I think you have an incorrect premise here. No one ever said it doesn't matter at all. Just that it isn't enough on it's own. As the tradition goes, when describing someone in the dating context: smart means ugly, good personality means stupid and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:29 AM
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I think women overrate women, and men overrate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:10 AM
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The only useful league definition is who you can get, and by that definition, the average couple are what defines the scale. If you see lots of 6s with 8s, your estimation is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:09 AM
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425 tax free. Plus about 200 per month less taxes including the child tax credit. And average income is 3k per month. The 425 comes out after taxes. Dad can't claim any dependents. Child support doesn't include stuff like medical costs which are added on top, and also come out of the paycheck. Leaves about 1500 take home. According to my state, one of the most expensive, with a 15 dollar minimum wage, child care averages 700 a month. Once they hit kindergarten, you can get free 6 to 6 programs h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:54 AM
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Handling competition in civil ways is literally the feminine way to handle competition. I don't understand why all these right wing masculinity stans are such giant pussies. A proper hairy chested man handles competition by fucking shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:13 AM
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You don't understand words. Progressive just means not conservative, so as used in this conversation, they're the same word. Left can't not be progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:07 AM
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Advantage is a zero sum game, so you answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:01 AM
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"when I grew up we tolerated racists"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:57 AM
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The progressive democrat position on gay marriage in the 2000s was a flat no. So yeah. 90s progressives are conservatives by today's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:55 AM
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Like China, famously a microstate. Strong central governments are consistently better at getting things done. There's huge downsides, but it's still true. CA is failing at rail precisely because of the lack of centralized power. Counties within California have more autonomy than states due in in China.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:50 AM
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I think the fact that you mention your old drill sergeant points to OP being from a different sort of world, one that doesn't include enlisted men or the working class. Probably very few black or hispanic people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:41 AM
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I've occasionally visited certain affluent suburbs where I kinda feel like punching everyone I see. I think your world view is based in those places. Working class dudes aren't like that, nor are the educated types that choose city life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:36 AM
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No, it really hasn't changed. Wealth was always good. And saying social status is circular logic, you're saying social status comes from social status. Alpha, whatever it means, is social status. And physically confident is as popular as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:25 AM
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So you work a job at desk, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:18 AM
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Still need game. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:03 AM
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Really uninterested? Or just too risk adverse to try and trying to mask their lack of game with fake standards. Because I usually see the latter. Men who aren't getting laid because of standards mostly don't really have standards, they're just cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:55 AM
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Have you ever met any women? I've been with women that were so indirect that their initial response to guys they were disgusted by was near enough indistinguishable from their response to the guy they were sleeping with. (Me) Like, we're in bed and she's complaining about a guy that won't take the hint and fuck off, and I point out she told him exactly what she told me the week before our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:50 AM
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Normie culture serves up sex to specific sorts of guys. You're right about a rather large chunk of guys, who'd benefit from getting outside the box, but are leaving out or forgetting that there's a solid segment of normal guys getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:39 AM
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This is mostly entertainment. I'm queer and poly so this intensely fucked normie sexual politics stuff isn't really my problem. Though I sometimes try to help some of the clueless dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:04 AM
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Just have both...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:45 AM
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You literally ended with admitting this shit needs to be individualized. After going on and on about how great your hyper generic just be better plan is. I can't even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:02 PM
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Talk about reading comprehension problem. Not only are you unable to comprehend what I said, you can't even comprehend your own writing. Best version of yourself can mean literally anything. It doesn't include any advice at all. And then there's this weird rant about trp that has nothing whatsoever to do with anything I said. You are trying to deny red pill ownership of advice that isn't red pill advice, and was never claimed as such. I'm not red pill. You're just one of those people that is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:52 AM
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Umm. This is explicitly not the red pill sub. It's a debate sub and RP people aren't even most of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:30 PM
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And this sort of useless advice is what drives struggling dudes to RP. Be yourself works for winners. Learning social skills, implementing actual positive personal change, having realistic expectations, being in the right place at the right time, and more along those lines. That's what's needed, not just luck And happy thoughts. And those are all complicated and difficult. And that last line... Arg.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:25 PM
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I'd say he sounds impressive. I'm assuming attractive personality traits, but musician is good on its own. TRP is supposed to be cracking code to guys like your guy. I'd say they made it into the ballpark but missed badly enough that guys like yours don't even make it into their model.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:13 PM
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So this is actually "I'm not even playing the game but I'm still the real expert." I'm going to expect that I'm counted as red pill just for disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:55 PM
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I'm pretty sure I've seen the same video, and it's important to note that what he pointed out: when there are two sides, and only one offers any help at all, people that need help are going to choose that side.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:51 PM
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I think it's just a lot easier to complain than actually do self improvement. Like with the weight loss industry. There's nothing (except meth) you can buy to help you lose weight, but it's easier to buy into nonsense than just be hungry all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:35 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you on substance. I just don't like the label and think the popularity of that label pushes people towards unhealthy relationships. Maybe unsuperficial? Spell check says that isn't a real word, but maybe it could be one. Love based on fundamental features is what we want, something that can persist through financial hardship and health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:30 PM
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Unconditional love is a fairy tale, or at least an unhealthy mental state. Which based on your conditions I think you know. No point in calling it unconditional just to dress it up. There's always conditions that go beyond "don't stab me". And that's good. Staying with someone when you aren't happy isn't healthy. I suppose there can remain some love pebble inside you after you've moved on, but without doing the life together thing, what's that really worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:30 AM
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TRP noticed that some guys have it easy, and set out to figure out how to pretend to be those guys. The healthy version of this is self improvement. The unhealthy version is indistinguishable from PUA games. Which have bitterness baked in. As for 2: guys desperate for any connection lose sight of finding a good connection. You don't need kindness to laid. Kindness is really an obstacle to getting laid. But that leaves them with nothing but terrible relationships, which loops right back around to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:10 AM
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Attractiveness is more than looks. Stable and kind isn't attractive. You can make up for those failings, but they are failings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:59 AM
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So you're saying James Dean wasn't popular with the ladies? My closet includes 1 pair of black cargo pants, several running shorts, a bunch of tshirts, and work uniforms. I have a harem. When I go out women buy me drinks. Or their boyfriends do. This is the outliers thread. The nugget of truth around which TRP coagulated was noticing that those outliers exist. As such TRP is a recipe for faking being one of those outliers. There's plenty of women in that same category, women that don't have any …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:56 AM
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TRP are kids that found out Santa isn't real and reacted by going full cromwell on cristmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:24 AM
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Unless there's actually that many gay male couples and or men with several female partners those numbers are impossible. And it seems unlikely, since hooking up and dating around are not generally counted. I'll bet you 3 donuts that "Men are now more likely than women to be unpartnered, which wasn’t the case 30 years ago." comes from some restricted data set like between 18 and 30. Which could just be an increase in marriage age with an age gap of 2-3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:15 AM
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If you receive need based benefits you have a strong incentive to not marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:07 AM
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Near universal with some incredibly rare outliers is close enough to universal that you're clearly being pedantic. The nayar were nearly pre agricultural. The others cited are groups that set out to explicitly reject the society from which they sprang. That said, the nayar are really interesting in that had such a wildly different way of life than other societies they existed alongside. And at such a late date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:04 AM
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In a hard science this would be pathetically poor evidence. The subjects are literally choosing their interventions. What even is the the word for this? Worse than just not even single blind, enhanced vision? Would anyone pay attention to a drug trial where subjects choose whether they want the real drug?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:41 AM
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Choosing long term partnership instead of marriage comes with all sorts of life effecting features that are paired with less material success. Some examples: Government benefits for poor people can require staying legally single. General uncertainty about your future. (Aka economic instability) Not buying into the standard way of life. (This is me, I don't give any fucks about the rat race, turned down a management promotion because I'd rather be in the field, and put guns and motorcycles ahead …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:23 AM
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Being successful massively increases a man's chances of finding a partner. Being successful slightly decreases a woman's chances of finding a partner. You don't need anything else to cause the results in the OP. Marriage is the effect, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:05 AM
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You worded your original statement in a way that implies causation. Ordering of statements does that in English. I can do it to: Men who are healthy and happy are more likely to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:55 AM
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So you can get good treatment and attention at will from guys that are trying to have sex, but you want genuine affection. Sure. But you have to bring something to the table of you want that. This is the mirror image of the incels that complain about not getting the hot girl of their dreams with zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:25 AM
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Make a tinder account, you'll have hundreds of hits. The only way what you're describing can be true is if you just never give any guys an opportunity. An actual ltr requires more, but any woman, even unattractive ones, can get laid. Plenty of desperate horn dogs out there. Really, I think you're just lying. Damn near every woman I've ever known complains about getting unwanted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:16 AM
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Worthwhile work is mostly a thing of the past. Most work is bullshit jobs now, miserable work that produces nothing of value. Pretty common for young folk to be clued in about this now. Cubicle work is wasting potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:54 PM
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Sometimes individual women. A specific instance: sitting on my bed with a girl, reading her okc profile. Says she only dates feminist guys, would never date someone who has a gun in the house, and that she always uses condoms. We'd just had unprotected sex, I'm not a feminist, and there was an AK next to the bed. She said I was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:45 PM
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Men are typically pretty open about what they want in a partner, even when it paints them as shallow. It's common knowledge that men choose hot over everything else and few mem deny that. And the claim that men say they want career women but really want housewives is a crock. I've never seen that. I've seen plenty of men that want one or the other, but they're generally up front about it. Sure there are guys that don't meet the standards they expect, but that's not dishonest, it's just failing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:40 PM
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This. I'm into some fairly hardcore bdsm, but the biggest complaint I get in the bedroom is that I don't do enough of that. Wanting a bit of regular sex is apparently a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:13 AM
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That's not remotely possible. Obsessive behavior is a thing, but it doesn't change the size of your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:01 AM
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That's certainly a thing plenty of people say. It's also certainly not universal. And I certainly do whatever I want. I suppose you could say my subby enjoys pleasing me, but that seems like stretching "what the sub enjoys" so far as to be unrecognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:54 AM
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Literally a result of Japanese censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:40 AM
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Because it's your choice. Submissive men massively outnumber dominant women. You're either passively attracting dominant men or actively choosing them. There's a reason PUA, RP, etc teach guys to fake being dominant: there's more women that want dominant men them there are naturally dominant men. In the bdsm world, dominant women easily collect harems of submissive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:37 AM
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Radfems agree with evangelical xtians 9/10 on social issues. They're both hateful bigots. Funny thing about hateful bigots, they are big on denying how similar they are to others that look basically the same to reasonable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:06 PM
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I'm gen x. Everyone I know says they always use condoms, but most have an exception list a mile long. But only people actually in the room when the fucking happens would know. In public, they never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:05 PM
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Lots of us vape now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:01 PM
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Radfems and terfs are pretty much female Oliver Cromwells. They are social conservatives in every way except for wanting women to have rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:54 PM
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Most. But that's by way of being in the right places and being the right sort of guy. More like fishing than hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:42 PM
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My old job announced at a mandatory after hours meeting that one of the managers was taking a couple months paid leave because he had a baby. My son was 12 hours old, but I couldn't skip that meeting. Fuck this asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:39 PM
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Capitalists are going to capitalist. I'm sure he won't be offering paid leave to women either unless compelled by law. Working harder will not build a future for your kids, anyone saying that is just trying to exploit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:34 PM
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Those are clearly different groups of men. It's not shocking that upper class peeps do upper class stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:25 PM
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This is hilarious. Hitting on someone that isn't into you doesn't turn out well? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:19 PM
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I think you've confused reddit dudes that never go outside with frat bros. Not the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:09 PM
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But none of those are examples of being dishonest, just being failures or hypocrites. Sure, it's ridiculous to want to be treated like the mighty hunter when you're a cubicle toad, but they aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:58 PM
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Not a reasonable standard is completely different from not wanting the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:45 PM
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Whenever I see examples of attractive dad bod it's something that takes 10 hours a week at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:42 PM
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This is the most stupid gotcha. Guys like attractive women and aren't turned off by enhancements they don't know about. Duh? If it's undetectable, how would they know? No makeup means preferring women that look good without makeup. Sure you can lie, and plenty will fall for it, but those guys aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:39 PM
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Or had no intention of changing but is trying to keep up a persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:28 PM
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"I always use condoms." Followed by me being the only exception. Spoiler: I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:26 PM
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It never ceases to amaze me that people still think prostitution is illegal in the US. It's like these people have a big Nevada shaped hole in every map they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:44 AM
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How do people still not know nevada in in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:11 AM
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Have you considered being a good parent as an alternative? It seems nearly all Germans have managed to raise kids that didn't become prostitutes, despite it being legal. Nearly all Germans doing it immigrated as adults specifically to do sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:09 AM
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Been watching westworld?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:11 AM
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I think it depends on how good the tech is. Good enough and they're just people. Like in westworld. Now you're dealing with slavery and free will issues. If they aren't slaves, they don't change anything. So then the question of whether or not slaves would actually help those dudes comes up. And if they would, why not just hire sex workers now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:10 AM
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Gonna ruin your life. Right. No successful thrill seekers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:50 AM
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By your definition you're either bad or boring. And that also makes masculine bad. And apparently firefighters are a bunch of mental defectives. Bold claim there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:47 AM
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Literally never once that from any guy. And only the deepest fringe sjw women deny the massive advantage men have in strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:36 AM
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Based on all your comments here, you do seem to have a low libido... I've been to those beaches, as a teenager. Was pretty awesome for an American kid. Of course, even at 14 I could handle looking while being subtle enough. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:53 PM
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Literally red pill advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:29 AM
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You don't think conscription was near universal for all of history? Do you know any history?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:15 PM
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Pretty much every other blue pill answer in this post excludes your relationship from the good relationship category. Not that I think it's red pill, but then I'm of the opinion that both blue and red are living in fantasy worlds. Being firmly in the queer camp non egalitarian is normal to me, but obviously it's not tied to gender for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:54 AM
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I'm curious as to what this could be, since blue pill is either "red pill bad" or "just normal". The first wouldn't lead to an answer, the second is boring, you could just pick a few random examples from popular culture. Which is still a non answer. Seems like most are going with the second... Jeez. Not many real explanations of actual relationship dynamics, just empty platitudes. Lots of value statements...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:38 AM
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You seem to be denying reality. We're talking about how society treats people, not some utopian ideal world. Our society is shallow, and rewards shallow stuff, can't wish that away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:17 AM
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Because our society is judgemental and values people more when they meet certain standards. Being in a couple is expected and if you don't do that you get treated as lesser. A lot of classic corporate jobs avoid promoting single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:11 AM
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That's not incel. I'm filing this under "more evidence that incels pretty much don't exist".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:33 AM
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This is a good rule for men that are can't handle confrontation (or cowards). Life for risk takers is way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:31 AM
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Yeah, the wingman thing is overrated. But having a friend circle gets you into places you wouldn't otherwise go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:26 AM
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This is shockingly reasonable. Though I suspect guys with problems like the OP have issues with male friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:23 AM
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Maybe you just have a low libido. If I've gone a few weeks without sex I'd hit on the mom from gilbert grape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:18 AM
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Well there's your problem. If you think you wasted your money you have the wrong attitude. Going out is fun. If it's a waste of money if you don't find a fuck buddy, you're going to oose desperation out of every pore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:10 AM
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Three drinks that are a shot of whatever with a sugar free mixer is enough. And that's maybe 300 calories. You'll be fine. Finding a girl at a party and making her a gym buddy is way easier than finding one at a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:58 PM
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You still have to like it. If you just missed out when you we younger, nothing stopping you from getting into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:49 PM
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If you've been a boring homebody all your life you will have a tough learning curve trying to get into the party scene. Generally you build these connections over years in school. If you start going to clubs and party events now it's possible, but that is going to mean dozens of club nights mostly just being at the club by yourself. Various party events exist, and it's slightly easier to start with those, but still hard. You're learning a while new skill set, and that is going to take time. All …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:46 PM
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Yes. It's the incredibly unmasculine. Risk takers get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:08 AM
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That's you. Anyone working in healthcare knows the real hard truth. Everyone dies alone. Typically in terrible pain and misery. I'll be comfort measures only the day I retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:18 AM
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Not in the US. When I'm picking up sick old people I only see the kids of first gen immigrants. That family solidarity thing is gone as soon as assimilation happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:10 AM
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In the US, kids don't take care of their parents, they leave them in old folks homes to die alone. And fuck buddies are real easy for old men, since half the other men are dead. And if you're in the dead half, you don't care about anything anymore, since you're dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:07 AM
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The sort of guys that RP is trying to simulate certainly do. Know yourself is literally the first step. Whining about getting what you claim to want is the key conflict in every story about people trying to do what I do after failing that first step. So yeah. I do it. But you're right in that most people don't. I wanted a dedicated follower that does whatever I need her to do. Since I'm not delusional or stupid, I know that means I get someone that can't make decisions. I'm willing to pay that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:52 AM
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Or just laugh and say it's not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:04 AM
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Who said that? This is the first time I've ever heard it. Paying attention to tantrums and getting pushed around by said tantrums is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:02 AM
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If you're that dude there is zero reason went you can't have both. And certainly no reason to marry someone that isn't a good fuck buddy. I'm not even that dude and I still have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:51 AM
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Reality is a strange place. You probably don't want to look, your bubble will burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:16 AM
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What do you talk about with your partner? Your 401k? HOA meetings? Conversation subjects with my teenage kids, various partners ranging from my age to decade ish younger, and my father who was 40 when I was born, they're not notably different. My father, one partner, and I share the same career. My son's working towards it as well. Plenty of common ground. I feel like not having good conversation material with people outside your age bracket is a symptom of living a boring life. When I spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:46 AM
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Any woman that disagrees can't be a woman. Big oof. Try profile mining, you can see her naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:00 AM
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Replying to yourself multiple times is a really bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:51 AM
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Not long ago I was dating a fit 40 and and chubby 26. About even attraction. But there's a bunch of people that want to pretend this isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:31 AM
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Awesome people with good judgement usually have good relationships. If you generally suck good relationships aren't available. If your judgement sucks, you'll need a lot of luck. OP is based on assuming all relationships are bad. So...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:43 AM
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Literally the same meaning. Like how "good personality" means ugly and dumb. Most humans know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:03 AM
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Pretty much like rich people not caring about a few thousand dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:48 PM
1

To be fair, that is the perspective wealthy people have. So many articles out there about how hard it is to get by on a mere mid six figure income. Or "I own 30 houses and have 2 tenants I can't evict."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:47 PM
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All of them. If you want an example, look at the couple that owned the dodgers. Dude was more than rich enough to get the prenup done right. But prenups can't call for anything that isn't what you'd get in court anyway. They just make things smoother, prearrange who gets what, the total value must be the same as what would happen without the prenup. My parents split, but can't get divorced because my mother doesn't want to fuck over my dad. They can't file a valid divorce under current law witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:43 PM
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I've been in all of one fight that wasn't work related (lots of fights that were work, but that's different). But that takes situational awareness and knowing how not to look at people the wrong way. If was not actively avoiding trouble, there's plenty of fights to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:57 PM
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You could drop the entire population of Finland into the L.A. area and it would barely be noticeable. Seems like a nice place, but not in any representative of what most of the world is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:53 PM
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In certain segments of society violence is something only seen in the news. I grew up in that world, then I spent the better part of 2 decades driving an ambulance in L.A. UMC suburbanites unironically believe south central is basically beruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:39 PM
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UMC whitebread bubble people are literally the 1 percent and they think the rest of the world are the weird ones. Every place except that bubble men face potential violence daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:33 PM
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Tradcons and blues are both idealists, just with different ideals. Red pillers are cynics. Though there is certainly a tendency for extremists among rp to end up falling into the same alt right hole that tradcons can fall into. But tradcons aren't the alt right. Tradcons are guys like Romney, who actually voted to against the alt right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:18 AM
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I said that. The ideology is dumb. But did you even read your OP? You claimed the praxis didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:17 PM
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Nothing there about success rates of the praxis. Not even mentioned. Just the glaring obvious fact that the path to really extreme views passed through moderately extreme views. Like duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:13 PM
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That data isn't in what you posted. You've wildly mischaracterized that data.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:06 PM
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You are outright disagreeing with your own OP. Saying that yes, RP works. Then trying to act as if the loaded bullshit placed next to the practical advice somehow invalidates that effectiveness. Your cmv isn't "rp isn't unique" it's "rp doesn't work". Like exclusionary diets. They all work. They're all bullshit, but they still work because they all cut calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:01 PM
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That normal advice OP is talking about doesn't come from blue pill people. Normal is normal in a lot of places, like with blue collar guys, black culture, anywhere outside the middle class. Suburban white guys don't get this stuff. Different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:51 AM
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In this thread. Keep moving those posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:48 AM
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So you want anecdotes from rp failures and also state up front you are ignoring anecdotes from rp failures? And that last line is just a flat out lie. Near every anecdote describes success. Feel free to dismiss them all, but saying there's a lot of the opposite is standing in the rain and telling people it's sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:38 AM
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Acknowledging the friend zone even exists goes against the blue pill ideology. Countless examples out claiming even using the term is sexist. So yeah. Tons of people tell guys to be anything but bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:41 AM
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This OP is full of info about how bad TRP is, with links! But no dating advice. No links to dating advice. Just standard, those guys are bad schtick, followed by silence. Exactly what this guy points out: https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10 RP and PUA work. Worked for that guy. Yeah, it's attached to a bunch of fucked up nonsense, but for utterly clueless guys, those are the only sources for answers. Except, you know, the guy in the video. A reformed PUA, telling guys to use the basic functional bits w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:29 AM
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I have personally seen 2000 year old porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:55 AM
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Most guys are. Outside the bdsm community near every guy I know is the submissive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:20 AM
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Go to bdsm meetup. The women skew 90 percent subby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:07 AM
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But most RP dudes can't handle even approaching that scene... The bad parts of RP certainly don't play well in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:06 AM
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I assume you've never been in the military or anything like it, but I also assume you are aware it exists. Push comes to shove, a sergeant has to do what the lieutenant says. But the sergeant will be listened to, their advice followed more often then not. And that's in a relationship backed by force of law. Yet that doesn't qualify to you. If you just use your own definitions, it's easy to be right all the time, but that's not what other people mean by submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:59 AM
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I assume you've never been in the military or anything like it, but I also assume you are aware it exists. Push comes to shove, a sergeant has to do what the lieutenant says. But the sergeant will be listened to, their advice followed more often then not. And that's in a relationship backed by force of law. Yet that doesn't qualify to you. If you just use your own definitions, it's easy to be right all the time, but that's not what other people mean by submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:56 AM
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You don't see that most couples have a dominant member because you insist on a ridiculous extreme. The submissive partner isn't a literal slave, they just tend to defer to the other partner. If you pay attention, in most couples one partner tends to ask permission, and the other tends to make decisions and expect the other to go along. In most hetero couples I know, the woman is the dominant partner. Likely a bias from living where I do. I consistently see the same dynamic in gay couples. That s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:29 AM
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I don't get the feeling you're spending that on guns and motorcycles either. Sure I'll have nice dinner out as well, but I'm going to prioritize exciting stuff. Which includes partying, but the guns n bikes are likely more dangerous. I'm taking a week off to do a bunch of hiking and shooting. Way more expensive than a night of partying, which is tomorrow night. Sad would be the long boring life. Sure, somewhere in my 60s slowing reflexes will see me dead next to a burning sportbike. But I've mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:42 AM
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RP is supposed to be about getting laid, and risk adverse behavior is right at the top of the list of how not to get laid. And do you live in a dare video? Plenty of people manage moderation and live long successful lives. Sure, stay away from crack, meth, and heroin, but a little molly now and then, a few beers, or the occasional shroom isn't gonna fuck up your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:23 AM
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I suppose if you don't like sex and fun... But your red flag is my idea of a good time. Some molly and stay up all night fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:13 AM
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Never worked an office job, in the real job world everyone is fucking their coworkers. Essential workers FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:59 AM
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Where are you at? That isn't happening in my area, they're actually reducing precautions around here. The used to prohibit men being alone with underage female psych patients, but since they are short people for every medical job they just stopped bothering. General attitude these days is "you're lucky you're getting any medical attention" and short of a criminal violation it's very hard to get fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:48 AM
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But why does he have a roommate? Is he poor? A partner doesn't fix that, he'd likely be partnered with another poor person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:31 AM
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I meet elderly people that want to die on a daily basis. Ask anyone working in healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:24 AM
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Naive thought there. My job means I see a lot of nursing homes. Kids stop by a few times a year if you're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:09 AM
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Why would you be happy alone at 30 and not at 45? Do you think people change later in life? If you're happy with your hobbies and pets, why would that change?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:06 AM
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Not really modern cultures. You're talking about ancient cultures that have continued to exist. Traditional cultures. When you say something is modern, it means something that didn't exist in the past. My new production bow is traditional, and thus in a different class then modern bows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:49 PM
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So in order to qualify he has to sneak out while she's in the bathroom? Even inveterate players are typically polite to their booty calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:55 PM
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You seem to think that if someone expects a thing they want it. That's just insane. Soldiers going over the wall in WW1 certainly expected to die, and just as certainly didn't want to. But they did it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:41 PM
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Check out r/datingoverthirty. Lots of complaints and concern about this over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:32 PM
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Weird flex, but if that's what you're looking for, go for it. I don't think the dude you're responding to has the same desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:28 PM
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I'm 42 and have had sex with most of my female friends. Most of my unmarried coworkers have hooked up with other people from work. Not just college kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:24 PM
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You haven't been to a university have you? Researchers don't go to colleges and walk around polling students. Research is done at universities because they're the ones doing the research. It's easier to use the captive audience that's already in the same building, so they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:21 PM
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Bullshit. Grooming isn't even that important. Hitting the behaviour points can even outweigh the benefits of grooming. Knew a dude back in high school, all the women that had sex with him complained that he needed to shower and wash his hair. Of course it helps a bit, but most frustrated chumps are already doing the clothing and grooming. If taking a shower is the beginning and end of blue pill advice, that's the answer for why dudes are seeking out places like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:10 PM
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There's a strong behavioral component to attraction, and the answers for that really only come from PUA or redpill sources. And there are lots of problems with those sources, but since they're the only people answering the question, they get the clicks. This is a great video on the subject: https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10 Regardless of how you define things, and to what you ascribe the reasons for how things are, the techniques work. Mainstream society is either silent on the subject, or offers up …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:50 PM
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The problem here is having only two options on the nice to asshole spectrum. People that say women don't like assholes are talking about outright abusive guys, and the ones saying they don't like nice guys are talking about doormats. The answer being in the middle, the popular asshole as depicted in characters like tommy gavin. Men who put their desires first, yet still give a reasonable amount of consideration to their partner's desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:28 PM
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Where? Are you interpreting willing to settle as meaning they don't care about looks? Because that not what guys mean when they say they'd be happy with an average girl. They're being realistic about their chances, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:53 AM
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Like in my top level response: players know this. It's a good strategy for getting players to play you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:34 AM
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I kinda get the feeling fds isn't looking for self respecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:31 AM
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It's good only in the sense that it keeps fds ladies away from guys like me. I'm perfectly willing to support partners, and have done so, am doing so. But I'm not gonna put up with that kinda nonsense. Otoh I have known a lot of players, and they always pay, and if she's hot they'll do a decent handful of dates in order to get that bedpost notch before bailing on her. And besides, they have a less hot booty call they can just swing by anytime with a case of white claw and... You know. Game playi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:29 AM
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Okay. So, 6 year old gets raped, after that starts watching porn, and it's the porn to blame for the psych problems. I don't know what else to say, where does one even start dismantling that logic train?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:19 AM
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You said elsewhere he was molested at 6. Seems like a pretty big detail to leave out. It's like you're doing a Batman origin story and focusing on the cave full of bats while ignoring the dead parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:15 AM
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Being poor impaired my daily life, was I addicted to being poor? Yeah. Not a reasonable definition. If you look at the criteria for alcohol addiction, there's way more criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:10 AM
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How did he cheat if he can't have sex due to his addiction? Sounds like he can get it up, just not in certain situations...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:05 AM
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Maybe he was gay? Porn addiction could be the new "too into jesus to fuck" that closet cases use.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:03 AM
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Like even 1 in 10 parents is tech savvy enough to stop kids from seeing whatever they want. Commercial internet restriction software is about as effective as putting the cookie jar on the top shelf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:00 AM
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Victim of being paid 100 times what she'd have gotten at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:50 AM
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I'm shocked someone with such a prudish attitude has trouble with their sex life! Shocked! Somehow, normal working class dudes I work with all have girlfriends, all watch porn, and half of them hit up the occasional pro. Anti porn dudes just don't want to admit that they're the weirdos. Every (99 percent) dude you see walking about with his girlfriend or wife watches porn. They're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:47 AM
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For example: big market for US movies in North Korea, despite being illegal in a country with no limits on police power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:40 AM
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Have you met many men? Notallmen and such, but lots of guys really only care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:29 AM
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So this top level post has a bunch of "I never make guys wait if I like them, and I've never heard of anyone doing that". The next top level post with a bunch of agreement is "I always make them wait until it's an official relationship" What a world. OP is a little melodramatic, but if some women do one thing, and others do the other, from the guys vantage point, it's women doing both things. And if you like a guy, and immediately jump into bed, and then he ghosts, do you then describe him as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:59 AM
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There's your bingo. And it's actually in the damn study if anyone bothered looking. Happy and healthy are selected for in men, not so much in women. Marriage is the effect, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:43 AM
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Once again, there's no team men. Other men are not on each other's side, it's prisoners dilemma all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:33 AM
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Given this a a debate sub for people with opposite views, rp was a good assumption since claiming ppd men all think one thing is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:27 AM
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2 years of JC includes more education than 4 in high school. Only reason to go is socialization. I supposed you missed that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:23 AM
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Little note: there's pretty much nothing you can scream in a public forum that doesn't sound unhinged. Also, TIL cheating doesn't count as fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:17 AM
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I assume that worked out well. Really, I'm sure you will eventually lock down a dude in your league. But most women don't do that with guys higher up, those guys will just hit the next button. At least the 10s will. Can't speak for mr 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:11 AM
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Do you really think lord cheeto was eating McDonald's because the president doesn't have a personal chef? Because I can assure you, the Whitehouse comes with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:04 AM
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Pretty sure George is pushing 2-300... But he looks great for his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:50 AM
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Off the internet nearly every dude will fuck fat girls if they make it easy enough. Men with standards for casual are a ridiculous tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:30 AM
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Several fives is better than one 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:27 AM
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Sounds like you're denying that otherwise normal women would do that pickme behavior, my personal experience says otherwise. That said, gimpgirl is right up my alley...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:20 AM
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He can just lie to them. "None of those others meant anything, I'm all in for you babe."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:14 AM
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The word need is tripping you up. Sure. He could just marry Stacey. And he likely eventually will, but he's choosing to just fuck everyone while he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:10 AM
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Bassist as the only guy in the band not getting laid is a classic trope. Come to think of it, I was the drummer in a shitty high school garage band, and the only dude without a girlfriend was our bassist. Despite being the best musician we had.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:07 AM
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But the 4 will buy dinner, get you gifts, pay your bills... And then get you off while you watch the video you made with Stacey last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:01 AM
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It's insecure hot women, secure financially successful women pushing 40, and pretty much any sort of unattractive women. So long as they're missing even one critical feature. The hot, stable, successful women are the sort that lock him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:57 AM
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Always ignoring that the successful guys say the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:50 AM
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I must have missed where he said he didn't want murderers prosecuted, or even said anything that hinted he didn't want to reduce the societal causes of violent crime. I'm assuming in your mind caring about murder means hating men...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:22 AM
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Some can manage most of the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:47 AM
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Literally runs the pickme subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:35 AM
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Your problems are your problems and nobody owes you anything is some straight up maga energy. Thinking it's different because you personally don't care about the particular problem is literally the whole right wing deal in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:36 PM
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This thread is filled with that classic "I don't like big muscles" statement followed by a reference to a dude on gear who lives at the gym. I literally exercise 20 hours a week and don't look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:14 PM
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And I'm fine with my flock of extremely dedicated fat girls. I'm not going to compromise on personality traits in a partner. Doesn't mean I wouldn't choose a fit partner with the same traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:07 PM
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But you can lift and act like a bad boy. You can't just make your face pretty. I don't think anyone is denying face is important, but there's no point in obsessing over shit you can't change. That sort of thinking gets you black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:59 PM
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But it doesn't matter what they like, not for this. What matters is who they choose, which can be seen. So what weirdo women, which by definition includes every woman in the sub, say women like is not helpful. Lie, self delusion, just being a statistical anomaly, doesn't make a difference. Same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:23 PM
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No one who says ectomorph unironically knows what they're talking about. That shits right up there with phrenology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:15 PM
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And countless people that have never lifted think that look isn't particularly muscular. Never mind that without gear it would take years of dedicated gym time to achieve that look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:07 PM
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Pretty much any list of hot non ripped celebrity dudes is always all white guys. Seriously, try naming a few popular non white actors that aren't comedians. They're all ripped af. Momoa, crews, the rock, that other wrestler turned actor who's name I forgot. Pretty but not particularly strong is reserved for white guys. Fuck, common was great in hell on wheels, and he's twice as ripped as the white guy in that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:03 PM
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That low end likely includes a bunch of unlicensed plumbing company employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:04 AM
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And most lawyers don't make that much. My friend was making 70 of 1099 money a decade out of law school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:01 AM
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Cruise gimp's profile, watch her videos. She spells it out in amazing detail. I thought this was larp after reading her posts but... No. No it's it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:16 PM
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Troll implies she's lying. I've looked at her profile, just strait up disturbing in its authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:13 PM
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Anyone that loudly plays up their virtuous beliefs is suspect. If you're actually doing good things, there isn't any need to talk yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:05 AM
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Was just reading a dating over 30 thread about how spark is bad and there was a lot of advice not to think with your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:57 AM
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Bad boys aren't attractive is something I tend to hear from women that only have sex with me a few times before they bail, the ones that stick around admit they like bad boys. But like... They were certainly attracted enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:53 AM
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Millennials are 30 now. That said, I use teenage slang and I'm over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:34 AM
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None of that is mental illness except the anger issues, which is the classic manly mental issue, so that one is okay. Sob stories are bad shit happening to you, and it's okay to show appropriate sadness when something happens to you. But you can't cross the line into depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:31 AM
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Helots don't need Spartans, Spartans need helots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:05 AM
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There's a ton of people that would never even consider drinking a beer in the passenger seat. Exactly the sort of boring the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:19 PM
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Very much not prevailing practice. Surely you must be aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:08 AM
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Given common business practices, most employers don't agree with you. At least in the US, it's all stick no carrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:06 AM
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So what if a terrible turn of phrase was coined by a man. It's still terrible. If the chosen wording causes people to feel attacked, unless that's your intention, it's bad word choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:50 AM
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Except tons of people say that. Saying they're using it wrong doesn't remove the negative association. I don't go around telling black people negro just means black.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:42 AM
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So why do people insist on using a term that upsets the people they claim to be helping? There's a reason mental health workers don't use the term retarded anymore, and it's not because it's the incorrect word. Literally just means delayed. But it has negative connotations. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:39 AM
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You have a ridiculously rosy view of health care workers. I've worked in health care most of my adult life, much of it in the mental health field, and it's nothing like your description. More often then not, those with serious mental health issues get treatment that is indistinguishable from punishment. Sure, you can talk to a private pay therapist and get good treatment. But if you're on medicaid and admit you have a plan to go with your SI you'll envy the guys in jail. On the non mental health…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:31 AM
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I'm not one of those, I am, and also date sex workers. Yet it is super obvious to me there is no inconsistency here. There is a huge difference between saying a thing is good, and saying it should be legal. Heroin is fucking terrible, but should be legal. For example. Same for taco bell. I hate taco bell, and will look down on you if you eat there. Still don't think they need to be outlawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:01 AM
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Tell that to the boss that insisted I drive for 24hrs straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:47 AM
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It's only uncomfortable if you're a lunatic. It's just a way to communicate, people use it however they wish. Same as any other way to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:03 PM
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I've had coworkers who cheated all the time, they kept prepaid phones at work for messaging their side piece. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:53 PM
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Could just pay a bit more for a decent escort. Plenty of guys can afford a few hundred. (Obviously not all guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:14 PM
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I think the blue pill normie outlook is really just the suburban middle class white people outlook. It was never normal outside that bubble. Those people just have excessive influence on society. Overrepresented in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:47 PM
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The key is defining ageing better. It's not like men are peter pan. Men age better in the sense that some things that are more valued in a male partner tend to get better with age. Those features are less important for women. And just being younger regardless of looks makes women more desirable. If you're an ugly woman, dating an older guy is easy. But if you're an ugly guy, that isn't going to get attention from older women. Things like having an attractive job for example. Men might care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:30 PM
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This. If you look at some of the introductory qanon stuff, it's a bunch of legit complaints. Exactly the same problems the left is worried about. But the left isn't friendly to rural xtian white dudes, so they found someone else to give them easy answers. Batshit stupid answers, but these are peeps that don't want to hear "check your privilege" and they don't like queer people, so here we are. Angry people that know something is wrong are ripe for recruitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:05 PM
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Prostitution is, and has been legal in the US. Nearly all states outlaw it, but it isn't illegal nationwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:18 AM
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Small detail is that in the middle class suburb world men aren't in danger. Most of the people talking about women being in danger live in that bubble. No one living in nice hoa neighborhood has to worry about being beat to death for looking at someone the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:13 AM
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Cus pimpin aint easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:12 AM
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It's like some people here have never met any trailer park people. Addicts with no jobs are always dtf other addicts with no jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:10 AM
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This is hilarious given that non transactional marriage is brand new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:47 PM
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LTRs are bad for their business model. And a company can be sued by shareholders if they don't maximize profit or growth. So they are obligated to not actually encourage people finding partners for LTRs. The original OKC guy wrote an article on the subject before he sold out to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:44 PM
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There is a lot of space between no standards and unreasonable standards. If you actually are an 8 you could regularly find a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:03 PM
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Obviously not applicable. I'm bi, and if I want to hook up with an 8 plus dude later today I can. Could not manage that with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:59 PM
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Not fat, top 30 percent. No vices cuts that by anther 2 thirds. You're already in the 10 percent zone. If you're attractive, you're in the top few percentage points. No alcohol, nicotine, weed... That rules out literally every single person I know. Every friend. Every coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:38 PM
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Not perfect just in the top 5 percent, are you in the top 5 percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:31 PM
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Don't forget nevada. Still weird that people ignore the fact that selling sex is legal in the US. But camgirls are way cheaper, 20 vs 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:14 PM
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The trick is trafficking mostly just involves immigrants who's status puts them in a bad negotiating position. Not really different from an Indian tech worker who risks being kicked out of the country if he complains to his boss. The problems isn't related to the particular work, all coercive labor is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:55 PM
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That helps clarify my point. Finding a career is brand new. For nearly all human history you were born into your career. Your dad's career was your's, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:33 PM
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Western European peoples are pretty much the only ones with anti family culture. And it's new. Less than a century old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:36 AM
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Multi generation households are normal, moving out is weird. This moving out when you grow up thing is very new and specifically western middle class. Totally normal, even in the US, for non wasps to live with family even after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:32 AM
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Prostitution is normal, so why say prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:35 AM
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X being normal means the word for X shouldn't exist? WTF. I dare you to make less sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:34 AM
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They get it, they're just lying. Not remotely arguing in good faith. Ignore them, they just enjoy insulting people on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:25 AM
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But they don't. If both parents, or just one of there is just one, decide they don't want the kid they can legally give up that kid. Forced support only applies when at least one parent wants the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:20 AM
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This, I'm certainly an asshole. Ask any of my partners. Walking that line of being an asshole but not abusive is the sweet spot. Unless you use poppy's definition of asshole where anything short of outright abuse is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:45 PM
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I know, just being sarcastic. I've known the constant gnawing worry associated with being actually poor. It's fucking terrible. So not really things in general. A low class home that you aren't in danger of losing, plus enough income that you don't need to worry about utilities, food, or repairs. That's what you need. I'm fucking ecstatic having my single wide on my own land after years of renting crappy places in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:31 PM
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I get your point. I just really enjoy high quality meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:31 PM
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I don't think that toxic and asshole are the same thing. The people insisting women don't like assholes probably do. Those people have only two categories: nice and abusive. VS my view that there is a whole range from nice, neutral, asshole, then abusive. And the most advantageous place for men to be is in the asshole zone without crossing the line into being abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:07 PM
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I'm imagining eating high quality meat is your purpose and passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:09 PM
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Having gone from umc to poor back to comfortable, money is pretty damn important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:02 PM
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Just make 75k in a cheap area. Low cost of living is seriously underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:00 PM
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It's like that Beatles song, all you need is things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:58 PM
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Literally impossible to discern causation here. Never forget that helmets fill hospitals with head injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:15 AM
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This is great. Gotta note this one confidently incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:57 AM
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It's really strange how people in this sub focus age gaps in old age so much. 40 and 20 is weird and frowned on in our society, but 40 and 60 isn't, except here. 20 year olds are all at similar stages of health, but that isn't true at 40. Plenty of 40 year olds are in the final decline, while others are in their prime still. The problems are on the young end, not the old end. I'm thinking of my dad, doing great at 80 with a 60 year old girlfriend, and she's the one with the heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:45 AM
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Hot guys can just be upfront about they're looking for and still get it. Often women will convince themselves there's a monogamous relationship available even though I explicitly say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:32 PM
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I know lots of hot guys that date fat girls, just not monogamously. Not chubby chasers, just guys that want to fuck every girl they meet, regardless of what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:16 PM
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Legally, she gets half the stuff regardless of whether she makes all the money or none of it. That's the law. You can't even legally agree to less, if you tried to file am unequal settlement, it would be non binding. Even friendly divorce can require fucking people over. My parents split up 15 years ago and have remained legally married explicitly because of this. She doesn't wasn't to screw him over, but any legal divorce would leave him destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:57 PM
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Is there any example that would convince you otherwise, or is this just curricular reasoning where you define lvf by the men they choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:37 PM
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She's using circular logic: if woman likes bad boys she's broken, therefore only broken women like bad boys. Nevermind that often bad boys often decent partners. Even actual criminals. I've known a bunch of actual criminals that are both fun and loyal to their people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:31 PM
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Are you an fds devotee? Because this is idiotic. Guys will absolutely hang in long enough to get in and then bail. Otoh starting a first date with sex and then cooking me dinner is exactly how my girl got her permanent status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:50 AM
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Exactly what I was going to say. Of course, they'd have to be the rebellious version. I hate proper rich folk. But I'm down to be a tool for pissing off mum and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:05 AM
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Helicopter parenting is bad for kids. You're the adult, you make the schedule. Also a load of laundry is 5 minutes of work. Toddlers need a constant supply of 10 percent of your attention. Showers are kinda hard, but any task that can tolerate interruptions is easy. I had a stupidly high maintenance motorcycle when my 2 were toddlers, so I regularly did the valve service while caring for them. Yes, I often had to put my tools down to change diapers and such, but they only cut my productivity in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:11 AM
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Every theater guy I've known pulled off masculine very well. For example, check out philosophy tube on youtube. Pulled off masculine quite well in older videos, is now a woman, and is doing femme very well now. Professional actor. So, good at acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:29 AM
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Most straight men like giving anal...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:28 AM
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Wouldn't that mean when a rapist gets arrested they're now a kidnapping victim? Not their fault for getting kidnapped, since the action is done by the police? I think most people could be convinced that getting hauled away by the cops is a consequence of the kidnapping victim's choices, and is indeed their responsibility. Is it different when it's based on law? I'm not going to be on board with that. You can certainly be arresting without doing anything actually wrong. You seem to be a victim of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:11 AM
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How about a dude with a maga hat wearing a shirt with go back to africa nwords on it who's wandering around south central at 10 pm on a Saturday night? Does he bear any responsibility for getting his ass beat? Personally, I'd say say he deserves it. He chose his risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:16 AM
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Anyone who disagrees with me is unreasonable. That's the way to start a serious debate. Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:56 AM
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Read what you just wrote! You drink reasonable amounts, and that works. Of course someone that spends every free moment on porn has issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:22 PM
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I'm betting the people that drink the most alcohol are the least happy. Do you never drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:31 PM
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Men who are socially adept enough to deny porn use are socially adept enough to have good sex lives. News at 11. Most mericans live in a repressive culture where admitting porn use indicates they are not socially functional. Yes this applies to anonymous surveys. Keeping secrets is a skill that requires practice that makes it a reflex, and like my dad still hitting the deck in response to a backfire 20 years after his war, secrecy sticks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:24 PM
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I can't imagine the person who wrote this OP taking any risks...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:14 PM
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There's this glorious symmetry to the fact that needy people have the most problems finding people. I'm totally happy literally alone in the middle of the desert, but I have a flock of partners waiting for me at home. That's not a coincidence. Everything is easy when you're okay on your own. People in my life make it better, that's all. I really don't need anyone at all. This fear of dying alone is whiny bullshit. I see people die all the time. Everyone dies alone. That's death.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:12 PM
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Religious nutballs that would stay with an abusive asshat for life to avoid hell. That's who you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:02 PM
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Given that you were a virgin I'd assume you must have been adamant about not having sex with those guys, enough so that you succeeded in chasing off the players. Players will move on when they encounter someone with strong boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:14 PM
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I'm sure plenty of guys wanted to have sex with you back then, but virgin at 24 is a gigantic red flag for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:10 PM
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Like as not the same people. RN is a top retirement choice for sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:41 AM
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What do you think sex workers do when they approach 30? Medical field is full of former sex workers. Married nurse I know who was enough of a porn star that punching her real name into imdb brings up a bunch of porn. Current emt partner is a former stripper working on her RN. And I know many others. Both fields require tolerance for disgusting human stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:39 AM
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Second this. Left out of my post how much better every part of life gets after getting in shape. Even without including any other people's treatment of me. Everything is easier. I'm more comfortable all the time. And the treatment. Sure. Women like it. But I get so much more respect from everyone. Other guys just assume I've got my shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:57 AM
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Eh. Went from 300 to 180 in two years. Back at 200 now, but nearly all of that is muscle. Hottest girl ever happened when I was 230. But I've never been single. Who you are does matter. That said, while I was always doing okay, since I got in shape, women look at me the way I look at women. Certainly different. I'm an arrogant asshole. Matters more than looks, but looks matter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:35 AM
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All those delusional mainstream journalists, just yelling about random shit. Totes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:01 AM
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Exactly. No one has ever claimed lack of women in any particular field was due to oppression. There certainly isn't any significant movement pushing that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:31 PM
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Oh no! Someone who's missed 2 decades of news about the changing job market thinks I'm delusional!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:28 PM
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20-23 percent of new medics are women. And they remain in the job for less years. (Average medic career is only 2 years anyway) RN and medic have near complete overlap on the actual procedures they can perform. The job is quite different, but medics can work in an er and do essentially the same job as an rn. In hospital, both can administer any drug the doc orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:05 PM
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Women faced active overt discrimination in education and the job market, the latter making education less worthwhile. That is most of what changed. Women have always been better suited for studying. This is exacerbated by the increase in overall education. Men did better when the men who weren't suited for school self selected out of being educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:54 PM
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Correlation. One that is steadily becoming weaker. It used to be strong when only wealthy people got degrees. If you remove the technical degrees like engineering and nursing, it gets even weaker. There's still a strong effect from the connecting with being a try hard and getting a degree, but the degree is effect, not cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:01 PM
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There is the fact that we have 2 whole generations that bought into the lie of education. I don't personally know anyone who got a decent job from their degree that isn't a nurse or lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:53 PM
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Just compare paramedic school with nursing school. Of note is that nurses get a month of class for the same skill medics learn in a day. Then it's straight to live patients to sink or swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:36 PM
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I love how when women do better, it's because they're just better, but when men do better it's oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:06 PM
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Holy shit. Talk about umc bubble. No, most people don't have tailored clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:58 PM
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Way to move those goalposts. Caring what job someone has is totally different from caring about what they're doing at that job. It's utterly insane that you think no one in our society cares about how much money people make. That's flat earth level denial of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:09 PM
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I'm kinda doubting you've been in a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:58 AM
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Masculine men don't say that. Masculine means being proud of taking risks, that's literally in the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:56 AM
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Social skills isn't the same as a good personality, lots of terrible people have great social skills. Being interesting and fun can happen without social skills. Plenty of long term friendships start with dungeons and dragons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:45 AM
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Dan savage said it first. He's a gay man fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:28 AM
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Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:24 AM
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That's not remotely true. Outside of hippies and weirdos that's the biggest thing people care about. In the umc world it's all they care about. I'm not endorsing it. I abandoned that world for the weirdo hippy world. But I grew up in the burbs and those people do give a fuck about status symbols. You don't get hoa rules about the color of your curtains from people that care about who you are as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:50 AM
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Where do you live? 6 combo meals at McDonald's costs more than 45 dollars...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:43 AM
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You can work more... Not saying you should, but personal time is something you choose to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:36 AM
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This. If I wanted to put 120 hours on the clock every week I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:35 AM
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You're exactly the sort of clueless hot dude rp types always talk about. Sure. I don't pay on dates. Girls buy me dinner. But I'm not so clueless as to think that's normal. The same girls that buy me dinner explicitly expect dinner from guys they meet on tinder. You're wrong. Most guys put a bunch of money into dating. Women mostly expect it. Just the way of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:24 AM
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You clearly have no idea what a escort costs. In California it's only about 100. Can be less. I have friends that are escorts. 500 would be someone special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:05 AM
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So the holocaust is nbd if jews don't want to be nazis? Or even make that non nazi polish Christians. Not being willing to give up who you are to gain advantages (safety?) doesn't make genocide insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:57 PM
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In most cases the advantages are predicated on being terrible. Slaves might very well not want to be slaveowners, that doesn't means slaves aren't oppressed. I don't want to be a capitalist. This question only really applies to biological advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:24 PM
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This is just flat out wrong. For nearly all of history, you were married if you said you were, or it was controlled entirely by the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:01 PM
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You can do this now... But the government gives benefits to married couples. I'm down to get rid of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:59 PM
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That's just adjusting current laws. Which I'm for, but that's still marriage. The latter part is a complete remake of our legal system. Which is something to think about, but easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:55 PM
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Post just the end result on fds and see if they think she failed or succeeded by their standards. She's married to a rich guy. Nothing else really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:24 PM
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If they were that great, why did you bail? No one is forcing you to play the field, there must be some reason you aren't settled down. If a relationship is your priority, why not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:12 PM
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It claims to be an instruction manual for changing from being unsuccessful with women to successful with women. That's not representing anyone, and it's only applicable to men who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:05 PM
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You're basically saying a princess charming fantasy is more appealing than realities of dating. Duh. That's the point to fantasy. I've done both. Both are fine. I'm happy either way. Hell. Doing both right now. If you've had 8 relationships and are currently on the market, chances are you have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:33 PM
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8 relationships and 2 long term for someone just out of high school isn't that impressive. And length is clearly one measure of success. Obviously not the only one. Miserably people starting together due to being tradcons isn't success. Over 3 years significantly entangled is the minimum for being experienced in long term relationships. Which is near impossible given your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:26 PM
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I don't get how people can think subsistence farmers could have women not working. In farm life even small children work their assess off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:28 PM
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Panhandlers is the best analogy I've seen here. Your disgust at being accosted by them combined with lack of empathy lines up perfectly with women complaining about having to turn guys down. Sure it sucks. But my life is so much better than any panhandler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:02 AM
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I'm picturing a certain family member, poor, fat, bad personality, always has a boyfriend. Her boyfriends suck, but she's not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:40 PM
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Plenty just don't want their problems dismissed. Just acknowledged that shit sucks. That's part of why I'm here. Some guys need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:32 PM
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Some people suck. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:28 PM
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I go to gay bars. It's awesome. I know several strait men that have the same experience. Not everyone has the same personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:23 PM
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For various partners: living with family, part time work, disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:15 PM
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Ideal relationship? Huh? Do you think formative years are pointless? I think it's obvious that being locked in a room with a bunch of textbooks will yield different results than high school even if you learn the same lessons. I've known a few homeschool kids at that went to college, and they were unprepared to be people. Social 4th graders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:53 AM
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Yes. Didn't miss out, so couldn't miss it. Pretty everyone I knew in high school, male and female, dated. So I question how common it is to not date in high school. Not that I have any stats, and I'm old so times may have changed. 42 M
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:34 PM
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How can people be this disingenuous? The OP is right there and includes both high school and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:23 PM
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That age would imply choosing front runners halfway through the race, not sticking with someone from the beginning. I'm the only person I know that stuck with a high school sweetheart, but when we were struggling with money in our late 20s she ditched me for an older guy with a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:21 PM
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Gay men don't find it hard(they do but not how you meant it). Sure, they're more likely to be in shape than straight guys, but as a chubby dude I had plenty of hot dudes hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:12 PM
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I don't think anyone who enjoys working out is going to be in the dad bod category. There's a lot of space between bodybuilder and dad bod. I'd assume able to complete a 5k without having to walk would be the sort of fit you'd need, and that guy in the Wikipedia entry isn't doing that. But that's just speculation... For some people dad bod is hugh jackman in a sweater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:48 PM
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While I don't disagree with your conclusion, that's terrible evidence. That's like a guy saying he got rich and also started showering claiming women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:36 PM
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The old days being 1950 to 1970.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:29 PM
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It was the norm for everyone who mattered for basically all of history. Jobs are essentially a brand new thing that didn't exist until recently. Nearly everyone was a farmer, and that was their work. The non farmers were the people that mattered, and among them the men killed people and the women managed households. The rp fantasy is they'd be lords, but nearly everyone would have been farmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:28 PM
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I have. I don't care one way or the other. If can pay my bills, I don't need more money. I have three partners right now, and only one works full time. People have value beyond money. From each according to their means....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:19 PM
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Maybe you don't like kids that much. When I had 2 toddlers in diapers I was sole caregiver every hour I wasn't at work. Wasn't hard, didn't mind it at all. I have a job I like now, but I'd choose full time childcare for my own kids over every other job I've had. Working sucks. Most jobs are terrible soul destroying hell. SAHP is the best job out there, but I needed money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:13 PM
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For most guys there's no appeal. Hand and porn works fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:34 AM
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But he wouldn't stand a chance against a locally competitive heavyweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:50 AM
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Undetectable, but I already pointed it out well before I saw this post. They can't name it, but it's that vibe. You telling people about the hair thing is odd. Who cares? You knew you were attractive with the color. Might want to ask yourself why you bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:57 AM
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Ah... So not the ones you dated. Vibe is prickly... Hard to be specific. But it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:24 AM
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You're pretty much describing the RP take right there... Pretty much just sexual strategy, I'd say overly focused on not caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:16 AM
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So I actually looked, like you suggested. You're solid in the category I'd describe as being made entirely of red flags. Unlikely to find an ltr unless you're nonmonogamous or the dude just plain sucks. You sound fun, but in a roller coaster sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:58 AM
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So you're saying they did confess feelings, but they didn't stick around permanently, so that means it was just a trick? Might be just a bad match, but you're letting a certain vibe through....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:33 AM
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Dated for years but didn't work out sounds like you're getting success. Functional long term relationships are a step beyond what anyone here is talking about. That's not getting rejected, that's getting a yes. A lifetime relationship is hard for anyone to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:24 AM
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The whiny rp types typically have the same problem you seem to have: way too complicated requirements. You're pretty enough that you could be entirely red flags and there will be plenty of guys ready to sign on. Not like that means you'd find the right guy, but at least the right now guy that would be happy to call you a girlfriend. You seem focused on specific guys. Which is fine, but that's of course going to be harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:15 AM
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But you'd get plenty of yes answers too. A guy would have a much worse ratio. It's not as ridiculous as RP guys make it out to be, but if you just wanted a hook up with a guy comparable to you, that is something you can find in a day. Even an attractive guy is going to have a harder time. ...but this is just hookups, not relationships. There are just more men up for casual sex. I could have sex with a fairly attractive guy tonight if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:57 AM
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So many new gun owners, particularly among non conservatives. I'm betting on the splintering of the US happening in my lifetime. Despite the costs and restrictions, CA still sees more sales than any other state. Roughly in line with its population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:39 AM
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3 of the last 5 presidents almost certainly did. Which is that Apex fallacy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:27 AM
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I rather like it, but to be fair I mostly like being strong specifically because it makes me more attractive. But also more respect from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:19 AM
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They're only sort of wrong. There's an obese young woman I am close to. She has told me about the confidence boost she gets from her tinder matches, even though she knows they just want an easy lay. Not the attention she wants, but she gets something out of it. Though she's acutely aware of how ridiculously easy life is for attractive young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:07 AM
1

Apex fallacy is so tiresome. I've personally experienced rich assholes trying to literally work my and my coworkers to death. "We expect you to be driving for at least 23 hours of your 24 hour shift." Direct quote from my boss. They'd kill any number of working men and not give a fuck, just to make a dollar. They're not on our side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:58 AM
1

Or even by county! Family courts in many states have policies that vary wildly within the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:25 AM
1

If a man asks for custody he'll get as much as he asks? That's blatantly not even close to true. Not even in line with the misleading stats your type usually posts that conflates shared custody with equal custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:22 AM
2

Hopefully you're starting by shaving your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:51 AM
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The example you picked is exactly the sort of thing men are allowed to be emotional about. And I've never seen women complain about men being emotional about unmanly stuff either. Because it's not presented that way. Either they're supportive, but turned off, or a man being emotional in unmanly ways is characterized as him being a loser. Men can't get away with being weak. Grief is fine. Righteous anger? Frustration? No problem. But neurotic, indecisive, intimidated? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:43 AM
1

Plenty of traits exist purely as side effects, and will persist so long as they aren't detrimental. But most traits do have some benefit, or did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:44 PM
2

That's tough. Sometimes there's no easy to spot solution...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:10 PM
1

I can't get over how many people act like nevada doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:24 PM
1

You don't even need a passport to go to Nevada....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:23 PM
1

It's legal in the US, yet somehow most people act like it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:21 PM
1

Practical choices are pretty much the opposite of attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:54 PM
5

Very few people say women's money isn't useful. Most say it isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:44 PM
2

Given that worldwide essentially removes western nations from the average, you're right. But for the sub group that includes everyone here, not so much. India and china alone are pretty much the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:33 PM
1

That would be negative usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:19 PM
2

It's where awkward peeps go to find love. Nerds need a reason to hang out, they can't just party. Also try pagan gatherings, bdsm meetups, vampire games.... Trick is geeky stuff that isn't just dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:49 AM
1

Not sure if he did. A few riding the same train did, at least. I feel for those dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:44 AM
1

No one genuinely loves anyone. It's always conditional. My main girl loves the fuck out of me, but when I had a few off weeks and was moping she started being less attracted. That sort of cost/benefit analysis you're doing isn't how being social works. Join every club in school, practice having fun. Get a bunch of male friends. Eventually some of them can probably help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:43 AM
1

I've know a bunch of equally out of touch attractive young men and women. The men were the non angry sad boy sort of incels. They're attractive enough that women talk to them, but they don't have the personality to close the deal. The women got tons of positive male attention. But they didn't handle it well. So they frequently got played or raped, which is probably why you see these sort settled down with unattractive guys, they eventually seek out that power imbalance to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:48 PM
0

That's kinda weird, since traditional players are not good guys. When someone says they got played, that doesn't mean the player was up front, honest and fun. When women say a guy is a player, it's a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:28 PM
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Most guys can. But it will likely take effort and low standards. My poor, fat, babyfaced, friend was a player. He put in a lot of time, and banged a bunch of women that were both fat and annoying. But he typically had 2 or 3 on the hook at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:26 PM
2

Go to a renfaire. Visit each guild camp, ask if they're looking for new people. If no one invites you to join their guild, you now know that you give off heavy serial killer vibes. So long as you can clear that bar, you can at least find a chubby girl that doesn't shower within your first year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:17 PM
1

Most of the guys in this thread that don't get it are autistic. That's why. (I'm not assuming, they said they were.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:07 PM
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There's plenty of male social groups. Not gonna find a date there, but it's at least practice at human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:05 PM
1

Socially adept people aren't nice. The fact that you seem to think so is part of what's wrong. Objectively terrible people are often very popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:59 PM
1

You're pretty much right. You have to learn that manually. Which is hard. I'd advise getting over being risk adverse, getting a good income, and hiring sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:56 PM
0

You join clubs. Display social skills. Then get invited into social groups of people in those clubs. I think the problem here is step 2. Hard to just get social skills of you don't have them. Only solution is drugs or sports. If you can't do either of those, probably just stuck for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:51 PM
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No. If you don't have friends, you're not actually good at conversation. Plenty of things to join that give you the chance to start conversations. If no one invites you to join them outside the activity, there's a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:42 PM
1

I want porn that gives me what I don't get irl. Naked girls and fucking... Meh. But that shit worked when I was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:15 AM
1

500k? I'm going to go with a big "results not typical". Making money as an author is incredibly hard. My sister is a successful author in the actual books on shelves sort of way and doesn't make anything like that kind of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:10 AM
3

Any change less than 100 percent is exactly the same as zero percent. That's reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:02 AM
1

You can choose what work you do, which is a big change from having no choice other than picking cotton. Slaves could literally be killed just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:00 AM
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I'm a pretty hard core anarchist, so I'm all for free access to food. ...but even as someone that thinks landlords should be outlawed there is obviously a difference between being human property and needing to find some sort of work in order to survive. Wage slave is metaphor, they aren't literally slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:54 AM
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Also counts combined income prior. Her income pre divorce was actually his. This data is just earnings gap plus age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:39 AM
1

It really isn't. The person paying support is typically still paying nearly the same as the one receiving support, before including the support. The only costs difference is a little more on food. But the payer still has to maintain a space for the kids for their time, and also has to cover half of all expenses other than food. Health insurance, child care, clothing, school stuff, activities. All half for typical family court case rulings. The person collecting support only has the additional ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:36 AM
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Money paid to women by their ex isn't counted as her income and is counted as his. VS total income during marriage being counted as theirs. So if a the dude was making 60k and his wife making 40k, this is counted as them both making 50k. They split, he pays her 15k, but that isn't counted so she lives on 55k and he lives on 45k, but on paper they each are still earning the same as before. Even if she gets no money, she's still earning as much as before. She just lost his income. Same for the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:24 AM
1

Gay man is best of both worlds so long as you stay out of flyover country. That said, the purely physical advantages of a male body are awesome. Would not trade for female social advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:53 PM
3

Odds favor the bad partner diagnosis. Early 20s there are are more other reasons to be single. More likely to have practical reasons not to settle down. The people that just had good relationships end will get right back in, but those that suck at it will keep going back on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:47 PM
3

FOMO is a waste of time. Do what you want. No reason not to party now if you want. If you didn't want to, you didn't miss anything. The script is bullshit. I never settled down. I never will. Just do what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:38 PM
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Classic monogamous hetero society rules forbid close opposite sex friendships when in a relationship. Pop over to relationshipadvice and it's everywhere. As someone who isn't straight or monogamous, that seems stupid. Gay guys obviously have male friends. But it's certainly a thing. And based on ra threads, it's just as much women ans men enforcing that rule. Plenty of modern socially liberal het mono folk think it's a stupid rule too, but that isn't everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:30 PM
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This starts with a question, and then goes on to talk a bunch about what actually happens. But those are two totally different things. Men are obviously most attracted to younger women. That infographic from okc is pretty good evidence. But that's just a attraction. But who they choose for relationships. And really not who they can get. That said, for relationships, mid 20s would be my choice. That's where maturity maxes out. People gain knowledge throughout life, but not more maturity. Knowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:09 PM
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Your metaphor is backwards. Silver bullets kill the thing you're applying them to. And that was tinder. But to answer your actual question, the old okc worked great. It was actually designed to, before it was bought by its competition. The technology works, but the dating success isn't the goal of sites trying to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:23 AM
1

Can I do your thing? Explain why tankies are so damn annoying and then I'll take your question seriously. What's a leftist... PPD is so fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:10 AM
1

Yes. The phrase sounds insulting. You've been told this. Over and over. Regardless of what it does not mean, when you use it, knowing the feelings it causes, you are choosing to be insulting. It's like deadnaming a transperson, and defending that by pointing out it's still their legal name.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:35 AM
1

But there's nothing wrong with toxic, right? There's some obviously toxic elements in black culture, and since there is nothing wrong or offensive about toxic, no one would be upset if you put it next to black. You're helping them, right? It's a positive phrase that is making the world a better place. How could black people object to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:31 AM
1

So why cling to the phrase? Even if the only problem is stupid men that can't understand it, why not use a phrase that doesn't give them something to complain about? It would mean the same thing. Where's the harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:22 AM
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And when magas talk about thugs, they just mean criminals, not black people. Pull the other one, it's got bells on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:17 AM
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Pretty much everything in fds comes to mind. Also. Does it damage you in some way to use a different phrase? Even people that believe sex and gender are the same thing can still use someone's chosen pronouns when talking about them. You don't have to change your beliefs, just don't treat people poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:56 AM
2

Using the phrase toxic masculinity is a mirror image of the inflammatory language red pillers. Up to and including claiming they're just accurately describing the world. "Cock carousel isn't an insult, it's just the most accurate way to describe behavior." Obviously bullshit. It's intentionally dehumanizing, and they're being deliberately disingenuous. Just like toxic masculinity is intentionally connecting masculine and toxic. Or the way vegans exploit most people not knowing sentient doesn't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:48 AM
1

I just watched the motley crue movie, where they explicitly said they wrote their song intending to piss off jesus cultists but claimed at the time that they totally didn't mean it that way. So you kinda picked the perfect example. They deliberately made themselves appear to be satanic to sell records while publicly claiming otherwise. Which is the perfect analogy for the whole toxic masculinity situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:35 AM
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Naw. They're achieving exactly what they intend. The phrase is deliberately designed to sound offensive so they can claim anyone offended is just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:28 AM
2

So this is essentially: "The definition of n-word is just black person, so it's pretty dumb for you to be upset about it." I certainly get that the shit black people have gone through is worse, not saying it's equally bad. Just pointing out that directing a phrase at another group that doesn't like it is generally shitty. And then there's the phrase itself. Toxic is pretty damn loaded. The people using it are the same ones that say the feelings evoked by language matter. If it's really just a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:20 AM
1

Even split between women and toys, toys being weapons and motorcycles. No interest in improving my career, I get paid to work out and wait for people to call 911. I'll do this until I die. Zero interest in being a supervisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:57 PM
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Since rp is supposed to be an accurate model of reality, everything should make sense. So for someone invested in the idea, this should be expected. Also fuck bezos and his ex. I work for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:47 PM
4

Women are more socially perceptive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:40 PM
3

The 90s were a different time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:33 PM
1

Apparently an awful lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:30 PM
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But that's just like the dudes that say whatever will get them laid. They're scuzzy too. Changing what you say you are to whatever works best is solid bait and switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:29 PM
3

Literally every day I see someone call someone else a loser for arguing on a literal debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:22 PM
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Society is the sum of its parts. A couple dudes with nazi flags at a protest with a thousand people will steal all the media attention. And it should, because tolerating something is akin to endorsing it. So you saying only that she can do what she likes moves that shitty behavior towards acceptable. It's notable your first response wasn't, "shitty, but some people just suck and it's a free country". Sure, your said that later, but the first comment stands, and overall contributes to how our soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:19 PM
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But the point is that every successful relationship means 2 customers gone forever. Is it really a conspiracy when it's that obvious where the incentive is? I wouldn't call used car dealers paying bottom dollar and charging top dollar a conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:59 PM
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Just not fat makes you a 6 at the very least... That detail seems lost on so many here. But yeah. Good clothing, hair, and a well composed photo do wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:48 PM
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6 foot. Picture in which you look very good, at least an 8. In a location that is shows you get out and do things. Bio that's high on generic broad appeal. Plus Latino, and tall for a Latino. That's a top ten percent broad appeal profile. Really the only issue is the overly broad appeal, but being more focused doesn't get more total matches. More attention getting stuff will get intense interest, but also turn some people away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:43 PM
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Something shows up in the try hard category because it works. The trick is doing that thing while giving the impression that it isn't a big deal. Easier said than done, but there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:35 PM
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OLD is literally designed to not work. It's a business, and your success hurts their bottom line. The og version of okc wasn't like that. Dude didn't care about making money by running the site. But he made money by selling it, so now it sucks. Back in the day, there was a great science and infographic blog from okc, and one article was all about exactly how and why OLD fucked you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:30 PM
1

Satire in a sub full of extremist weirdos is doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:57 AM
1

My morning commute is more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:44 AM
1

I suppose that's true, delusional isn't lying...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:36 AM
2

...but that's way more than none....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:32 AM
2

There's some weird irony that those have sex with a bunch of women end up knowing more about how sex works for women in general than any specific straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:30 AM
1

Kinda weird how technology just misses whole swaths of people. I'm significantly older, and there was in fact online dating when I was in high school. Hilariously primitive, but it existed. But I don't think his shtick works in online dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:13 AM
1

Maybe consider replacing have to with should. Because you can date someone just because you like fucking them. Doesn't have to be anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:44 AM
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Naw. There's a big market for "straight" dudes in gay porn. But you do need to be way more attractive than a woman who's making the same money. Hot dudes can get paid to jerk it on camera. Don't need to act gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:34 AM
1

Been keeping up with the news? We just lost a war, and the Taliban won.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:03 AM
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So I agree with the insecurity from the OP. But. Insecure tends to imply that it isn't a valid concern, and I've had plenty of women explicitly tell me that they would not find me attractive anymore if I wasn't impressive. Only slightly related to my plan to never grow old and just go out like James Dean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:39 AM
1

Facebook is more popular with boomers than gen z. Thinking facebook is the place makes me suspect you're not a merry can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:03 PM
1

Of course, the famous marxist love for products and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:53 PM
3

But you said no one would date them. Clearly not true. So you just pack up your goal post and move it to a whole new playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:51 PM
1

Yes. Are you seriously saying something that nearly everyone does is impossible for most people? I spend half my nights sleeping in rooms with random coworkers. Like everyone else in my industry. Like everyone in the military as well. Essentially all of humanity prior to the last hundred or so years shared rooms with their entire family or even entire tribe. Often including livestock. Most people can deal with sharing rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:39 AM
1

I honestly can't believe this. If you don't live under a rock, maybe you you are just assuming ages... Or don't know anyone over 25. 5 years is nothing when you're 40. Plus or minus 5 years is basically same age by that point. My umc parents are 10 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:31 AM
1

What's silly is bringing up an uncommon medical condition when the topic obviously isn't about that. Obviously you can't do things that you physically can't do. Obviously love can sometimes find a way, look at all those prisoners getting married. They certainly can't co sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:33 PM
1

I'd believe you if you said it was rare, but never? Not even once? Not a single casual acquaintance that dated someone 10 years older? That's hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:38 PM
1

I think you missed the point. Red pill is an instruction manual on how to simulate being an abuse oriented psycho. Actual psychos don't need it, they naturally don't give any fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:27 PM
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Those guys are scumbags, but this is pretty much the definition of stupid. Basic con artist crap only works on naive people. Like getting a call from some dude with a thick accent saying he needs all your tax information and passwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:29 AM
1

About the same percentage that make the transition from waitress to actress. Hollywood is full of wannabe talent. Most don't make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:13 AM
1

Huh? Punch someone, once. That can end your life. Or any number of other minor crimes. That's how men fuck their lives when young. Three guys I've worked with have had this sort of thing happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:05 AM
1

First world countries with great welfare have low birthrates. 3rd world countries where poor people struggle to simply live have high birth rates. The US has the least robust welfare system in the first world, and a high birth rate. Obvious flaw in your theory there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:51 AM
1

Looks like I have better friends then you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:05 PM
2

Mostly guys don't get that skeeved out feeling. Even from actually dangerous women. I've been stabbed by someone I was with, and I still don't. This is one of the ways men and women are fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:04 AM
1

I mean, I haven't alienated everyone in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:55 AM
1

If you are always alone with your kids, you are a terrible parent. Helicopter parenting is incredibly bad for kids. So you're right, I don't know what it's like to be a terrible parent. I have a good support network of friends and family. If my kids need help there is a least a dozen people that would show up. Kind of ironic that being a good parent is actually much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:33 AM
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Easy work. 2 toddlers in diapers took about half my attention, so a task like a motorcycle tune up took about twice as long when I was also alone with my two kids. And why would it be alone? Why is that the standard? I'm not some hermit. As far as I'm concerned, inability to find some time away from your kids is as bad as ignoring them. No reason they can't spend the occasional night with a grandparent. My sister thinks kids are hard, her's are the same age as mine. When we meet up, I take all f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:51 AM
1

I have. It's super easy. My girlfriend was raised by drunks and 2 out of 3 came out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:32 AM
1

I wanted to be a father, I am one, and I'm good at it. I'm one of those that think kids are easy. TRP is just a strategy for getting laid and has nothing to say on this subject. Also not TRP. I had two kids in my early twenties with the girl I had a crush on in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:01 AM
1

Like of fear leads to early death. I ride a sportbike to a dangerous job due to my underdeveloped sense of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:17 PM
1

For a fuck buddy I don't care at all. For a girlfriend, I want smart, but don't care about her job. I've provided room and board in exchange for sex and babysitting. Good deal all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:59 AM
1

I didn't create an alt to post here...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:23 AM
1

Data from every dating site disagrees. As does my personal experience, and that of every one I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:24 AM
1

Why? Men keep telling you they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:13 AM
1

As a man, age alone is a element of attraction to me. An obese twenty something is equal to a fit thirty something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:11 AM
1

Except it's obviously not most women. Particularly not women past their early twenties. Success is very important for men past 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:04 AM
1

It's not the era of school shootings... Shootings peaked in the early nineties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:22 AM
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My kids are both in high school. Son couldn't stand being in school, and has escaped to online school. Out of the school environment, he's doing decent academically. Daughter still doing great in school. My son is a lot like me, and I'm like my dad. All of us are smart and all struggled in school. And by smart, I mean in the way it's measured at school, on standardised tests. I was a c student with nearly perfect sats. I don't know about discrimination per se, but the school environment as it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:02 AM
1

First, their kids. So cut that number in half. Then subtract what they did get. Typically greater than equal use of the family income. If they're middle class, they're likely to owe rather a lot. And no. That's not just childcare. That's what you get paid to do all the work. It's a real job. With real pay. That people actually do. They watch the kids, cook, clean, run errands. Everything. All for way less than what a middle class housewife gets. And that's only of they're legal. Plenty of folk i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:59 AM
2

What do people that do all the sahp work for other people's families get? Because that's a job. Are they owed a pension? They certainly don't get one. They get 25k a year, and then kicked to the curb when they aren't needed anymore. The same is true of most jobs. Why is sahp the only job that deserves permanent security? I went from 65k to living in a van when my industry collapsed. We're all at risk of sudden poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:18 AM
6

The news doesn't report on poor losers killing themselves, but their suicide rate is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:15 PM
1

I'd suspect that this is another example of men being less average. We don't notice the men that aren't funny. We do notice that the funniest people are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:53 PM
3

Not exactly true. Men succeed in killing their partners more often, but women try more often. It just isn't reported as often. Or punished. Among people I know, 4 attempts at murdering a partner. 3 perps were women, 1 man. Only the man went to prison. 2 of women were arrested with no time, and in one case the male victim was arrested. Though your take on women getting other men to do violence for them is absolutely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:01 PM
1

I suppose even 2 people is some sort of movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:08 PM
1

R/pornfree? Really? Did you know all meat eaters are sociopaths? Visit r/vegan for proof. After that visit r/carnivore to learn about how eating vegetables will kill you. Or just camp out a r/confirmationbias... Edit: of course that's a real sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:00 PM
1

The wall is a sharp decline from peak attractiveness. Men don't have that peak. So no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:22 AM
1

You have a spectacularly idealized idea of what porn women watch. Seemingly based on insisting every person who says otherwise is just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:08 AM
1

You clearly have never met a woman that watches porn who would tell you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:01 AM
1

If these weren't voluntary relationships, you might have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:58 AM
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Twilight gets more negative attention because it had more total attention. Plus it got negative attention from more sides than stuff that just sucked. Bible thumpers hated the supernatural stuff, feminists hated the creepy stalker love story. An so on. The standard crappy teen drama that no one remembers gets less hate. Because it's normal, and no on cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:31 AM
1

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:42 AM
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The irs knows. But That's just the total earnings of all full time employed women. The equal work side is missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:27 AM
1

That's a bingo. Echo chamber subs are boring. I also hang out in r/nutrition. It's pretty good. Pretty much this sub but it's vegans vs carnivores.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:20 AM
1

As I understand the pickme definition, if they needed rewarding, they would not be a pickme. The only possible reward would be attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:31 AM
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That sounds all nice and inspirational, but pcp works way better. Hard work isn't enough when it's you vs 6 cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:13 AM
1

Elegant writing like that would get handed back for you to rewrite by some college professors I had. That's not elegant. That's pseudo baroque. Baroque writing is tedious, but this is the cargo cult version.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:56 AM
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Certainly helps, but Norwegian oil costs 3-4 times as much to extract as Saudi oil. Yet Norway could stop oil production and still be rich due to how they've managed their oil money. Saudi Arabia, not so much. And there are plenty of examples where oil resources haven't helped in non European countries. Europeans, including the US and others like us, are incredibly successful. There isn't any decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:24 PM
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Non religious college educated over thirty is a significantly different population than what you're looking at. I'd buy a number under 20, but it's certainly more than four.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:34 PM
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Because women get help from both men and women when they need it. Women have twice as many sources of pure charity, plus the non charity option of low key sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:34 PM
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They're risk averse. Same dudes that think prostitutes are too risky. Any place like that and just living is more dangerous than hiring a pro in the US. And no those places aren't terrible. SE Asia is nice enough. But they aren't US nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:10 AM
1

What would describe it as?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:04 AM
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Anything shy of returning a good morning with "go fuck yourself" is just a good guy being himself when you're determined to maintain that you don't like assholes. Though I've actually done that, and all my partners still think I'm awesome even long after I'm gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:00 AM
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Arrogant dudes that ignore girls and put their needs and desires first. Sounds like assholes. Guys who are assholes and describe the results they get pop up here all the time. Like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:25 AM
1

Veins are one of those things that are actually are genetic. I had spectacular arm veins at over 20 percent body fat. Goes over well in my field.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:29 AM
2

More/also a virtue signal. Had dad bod, now I don't, used to have to try, now I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:19 AM
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Top level bodybuilders all have bodies that can't happen without drugs. To me that makes them not worth thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:40 AM
1

Almost like there is no real connection between lib and con social vs economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:51 AM
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This. The op seems to have no idea what tradcons consider degeneracy. But also gays, furries, trans, anything weird. Also art.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:47 AM
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The med countries are the most traditional in Europe. The least are the nordic, and they're doing great. Great meaning rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:37 AM
1

That's quite the text wall to just agree with low value men losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:39 AM
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Depends. A hardcore beta would understand. Chad don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:37 AM
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He's basically a pimp. But incels think pimps are cucks. It's a cope they use with dudes that fuck a lot while not giving a shit about what their girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:32 AM
1

We're currently at war right now. Where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:29 AM
1

Black guys were red pilled before it was uncool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:21 AM
1

That sounds like a stupid statistic. The youngest 23 percent goes up to what age? 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:13 AM
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Cuckoldry is explicitly raising another man's children. Marrying a single mom is closer to the classic definition than open relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:09 AM
1

Atheist Europe could conquer the Muslim world in months. All the trouble we had in Iraq? Entirely due to our restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:06 AM
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I have friends that escaped the ussr back in the day. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:27 AM
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I feel it's the same reason people watch live broadcasts, go to concerts etc. I can't really explain those things intellectually, but I know they're awesome. So long as I avoid spoilers, a pre recorded mma fight should be the same experience as a live broadcast. But it's not. I'm not interested in the recorded version.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:33 AM
2

Social security is the one tax that is literally the opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:49 AM
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They want the treatment given to sex objects without being one. Being treated like people means being treated like an expendable tool, and they don't want to face that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:54 PM
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Do you think gay men don't think men are people? Because gay men have exactly the same thing going on in their heads when interacting with men. I think this is one of the greatest fundamental differences between the sexes. You obviously view male sexuality are as bad. But men don't. Men don't care when unattractive women are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:46 PM
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There was makeup in medieval times. Ancient Egyptians wore makeup. Just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:26 PM
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So some do, but they don't count because you don't want them to count? Of course they are looking for authority figures. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:25 AM
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They do all the time. My mom did in her 50s. Retirement communities are like high school. Over 65 is the fastest growing demographic for STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:22 AM
0

This does not work. If anything, the opposite is true. Personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:10 AM
0

This is weird. I'm over 40 and one of my friends is balding. Statistically speaking, most mid 30s guys are not balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:56 AM
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But it will move you up a point. Just having a cool job does that. Beyond that, there's a bunch of behavioral traits that are attractive, and also lead men to choose jobs like this. To a degree, they're required. Awkward dude in my class failed to become a medic, specifically because he was awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:53 AM
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I've heard this a bunch of times, but I can't imagine a serious relationship where you never talk about your life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:42 AM
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Massive and tiny aren't the same thing. I've actually done it. Very little money, much less than being an uber driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:36 AM
1

Sweet spot is 130. Past that average success doesn't increase, but also didn't decrease. But! Past 130 there are more extremes of success and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:14 AM
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Don't know many working class people, do ya? Lots of long settled boring middle aged women with dirty houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:56 AM
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UMC houses look like museums. Mostly. It's a status thing. Not remotely true in lower status homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:53 AM
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Have you? For nearly all of human history, hardly anyone had rights. Freedom was for kings, and only for kings. When lesser men had rights, they were very limited. Only some Romans, and even upper class Romans were utterly at the mercy of the head of their family. The time in which men had rights and women didn't was an eyeblink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:28 PM
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It's on the list of stuff I need to be happy. Along with at least an upper working class lifestyle. Two partners and at least one potential. When I have that, the effort I put into finding new partners falls off dramatically. Isn't this just the first question restated? How do quantify this? Sex and relationships are important. Would not give them up to achieve success elsewhere. It's certainly a notable component. I spend a lot of time at the gym, and it certainly helps. But there are other rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:45 AM
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Average us woman is 5'3".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:20 AM
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Two dudes I know irl: both short, ripped, and black. Both had big insecurity issues and thought women didn't want them. One got over it in his late twenties, and now he has a collection of girls. The other still insists no girl wants him. Posts incel whines on Facebook. Hot girls throw themselves at him, and he refuses too see it. Insecurity can be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:17 AM
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Massive text wall with no useful information. Good soldiers sometimes get killed in their first encounter, incompetent soldiers sometimes survive. Doesn't mean you shouldn't take cover when being shot at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:05 AM
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Possible didn't mean likely. I don't live in fear of being struck by a meteorite and killed, but it is possible. Do you constantly worry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:00 AM
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This. This is cowardice. You stand a way lower risk of arrest when hiring a pro than I do of dying at work. I risk my life to save lives. It's not surprising that I don't need to pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:52 AM
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It is cowardice. If you said it was morally wrong, that would be different. Breaking laws that are wrong is the right thing to do. I live in a nation founded by law breakers. Those men were heroes. You'd have been a tory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:47 AM
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Explain to me why being alive is a need. Seriously. Needs only exist for specific goals. Reproduction is the most fundamental goal of life. So remaining alive isn't needed unless you can reproduce. Anything other than reproduction is just hedonism. Entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:41 AM
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But not the dude you're responding to. Which is the key to his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:34 AM
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The ironic part of this is that if you weren't such coward you wouldn't need a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:33 AM
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As if not being an escort rules out ulterior motives. If you're rich enough to afford a high class escort you'll never know if anyone in your life is authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:29 AM
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I have them. Five of them came to my graduation last fall. I don't really get why I should care about this being cucked thing that dudes who obviously don't get laid that often go on about. I don't buy them things. They pay my bills. Or at least their share. Many of them nominally can't say no to sex. This cuck fear seems to be based on what I originally replied to: the idea that women won't want or respect you. But if you don't have an insecurity problem, and if you do have an abundance mentali…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:06 AM
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So for you, the only value a relationship has is exclusivity? Some of us like companions. They also pay bills, drive my kids places, cook, clean, keep me warm at night... And sex. Sex with lots of women equals cucked.... K... So pimps are the ultimate cucks in your world?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:22 PM
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So you actually care about this nonsense you're debating here? That is either sad or a lie. Do you think you're changing the world by hanging out on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:42 AM
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Yet another why are people debating on a debate sub post. It's not about caring. It's about enjoying arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:25 AM
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Are you using the incel definition of HVM? Meaning people like you? Because I prefer the TRP definition, meaning gets lots of girls. Obviously some guys in open relationships meet the TRP definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:33 AM
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There's a bunch of legal benefits. That's the only reason I've done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:26 AM
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No woman wants them, but they're fucking a bunch of women? I know lots of these guys... If you're a dude that can easily get women, normalizing open relationships just makes life easy. No need to sneak around. Don't have to play games. If you're really good, your girls will find other girls for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:23 AM
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You're supposed to have less self control when you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:40 AM
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That's exactly the story of a life gone off the rails. Doesn't have to be his fault. He still lost. He doesn't have the status or money he once had. And that will hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:10 AM
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If it comes naturally you don't need the red pill. So this is just who I am. I like me. I also like my subbies. My primary is smart, and is way more responsible than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:41 PM
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Sure. I haven't, and won't pretend it's not a negative, but it's all about total value. Just don't be stupid. She should be better than what you'd otherwise get from a child free girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:29 PM
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But it doesn't. You could do that. Or not. Particularly if she doesn't work and gets child support from a middle class or better baby daddy. Then you can take the tax deductions for her kids and not contribute any money. And you don't need to do child care our parenting. Yeah, kinda assholy, but it happens. I've seen it plenty of times. Plenty of dads never do any dadding, even for their bio kids while married to mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:56 PM
2

There is a bunch of this in the documentary "this is what winning looks like". It's on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:22 AM
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Dudes in cultures that are rabidly anti gay snuggle. Which is kinda the point to the op. That sort of behaviour seems gay in cultures that permit homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:10 AM
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Even having a girlfriend and just being flexible, plenty of gay guys are all over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:06 AM
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Animals only have sex for pleasure. Not always mutual, but you can't have sex for procreation without conscious decision making. Only humans do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:50 AM
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It's just a prettier way of saying don't act desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:41 AM
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Famously relaxed culture vs japan with its notoriously uptight culture. Probably something to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:41 AM
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Japan had more power in 1930 than it does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:17 AM
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This post is peak unmasculine. This kind of thinking shows in your body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:42 AM
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And it's the social conservatives that will fix those things? Despite the fact that they explicitly say none of those are actual problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:28 AM
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By becoming less repressive. When China was run the way you advocate, millions starved to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:53 AM
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Free cover before 11 has been a thing. Still is a thing. Personally witnessed by me since 97. 9pm as a going out time is for children and the elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:07 AM
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They don't. Easy answer. Guys are either trying to become more attractive or change the smp/rmp so that what they are is more attractive. Or just bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:37 PM
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This. Socially awkward women get positive attention from men. Men in the same position end up friendless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:06 PM
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What? This is obviously wrong. There are a bunch of highly technical hobbies that are highly gendered and only done by smart people. If anything, smart correlates with boring. My dad's girlfriend is heckin smart, has advanced degrees, and is the most boring person I know. Dumb interests have broader appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:03 PM
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Most men don't want kids at all. The ones that do have plenty of choices. I'm 41 and 2 women want to have kids with me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:21 AM
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In a single post you're mocking the generations before and after you. At least I now have a great post to link when I want to explain how solipsism works irl. Fwiw, the most recent time I've heard ok boomer irl the target was your age. So it's a phrase teens use when taking about peeps in your bracket. At least to my ancient ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:40 AM
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As people age the overlap of the age ranges men and women are open to dating contains less men and more women. Senior communities are full of single women. Men die at a higher rate in every age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:33 AM
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Fuckboy peaked when you were 12. How do not know that you're not a millennial?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:20 AM
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Okay boomer. It's a phrase that was popularized by people who are now over 30. Or are you not actually over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:07 AM
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Player.... As in you got played, as in, he tricked you. Literally the definition of player. If they aren't playing games, they're not a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:03 AM
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The missing info is that he's hitting on 19 year olds. He could hit on 30-50 year olds and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:55 AM
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About a month. Really, as soon as I had some FWB situations going, I stopped actively looking. But it was nice knowing I can set up multiple new dates in month.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:45 AM
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The complaints about porn realism are basically the same as the the complaints about the news media only running stories when something bad happens. No one wants to watch boring shit where nothing happens. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:18 AM
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In shape over 30 and childless puts her in the top ten percent in her age bracket. "Things are great for women my age" is actually "things are great for me" she just sees the attention. But she doesn't see all the other fat, divorced women with kids. Those are the norm for over thirty singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:46 PM
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The idea is she doesn't want the guys that make less, and marriage is a bad deal for the guys who make more. "Wouldn't join any club that would have me as a member."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:37 PM
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The regional style of a thing is always just called that thing within the region. But outside where a particular dish is from it needs to be identified. So, the sign won't say Mexican restaurant in Mexico.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:30 PM
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There's value in having a household. And you can still have variety. Mistresses, sex workers, etc. I've known lots of guys that are in ltrs and do those sorts of things. In general, they aren't looking for a new parter. They're happy with their girl, plan to keep her, but still want to go play with new toys. They keep it on the down low. Or not. I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:07 PM
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Steroids are easy to get... Just sayin...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:27 PM
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Do you have any evidence at all that they don't? And your other premise is wrong as well. There are very few infants up for adoption. Even less white infants. I have plenty of distain for tradcons, but people like you are worse. Dishonest liberals make me look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:16 PM
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My friend's dad spent a few years in prison for domestic abuse. Moved right in with the new girlfriend when he got parole. The world is full of people making bad choices. Trust me, all those porn stars have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:00 PM
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I know lots of those girls, not one had any trouble getting commitment. Legit porn star? Married. (3 among irl friends) Cam girl? Just got engaged. Escort? Just dumped her ltr, he's letting her keep living with him a bit anyway. These are women that are attractive enough that men are willing to pay.... That is enough explanation right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:48 AM
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I'm only moderately good looking. But behavior wise I'm a natural. Which is to say, high functioning sociopath. Girls seek me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:56 AM
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There's obviously something else going on. Because being rich has never been a thing that generally stops a dude from getting laid. I've known plenty of dudes with money who flaunt it and get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:08 AM
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I know a lot of normal working class guys with girlfriends that occasionally pay for sex. They don't tell their girlfriends. They're open about it in all male groups, but hide it when there are women around. In the US, fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:47 PM
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Nearly every man already knows this. You just want to think they refuse to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:08 AM
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But you can't change your face, hence the RP just lift broseph meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:55 AM
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Poor people have more kids. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:30 AM
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You put average women and bbw in separate categories. Average women are fat. Is bbw limited to full on obese in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:52 AM
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Super easy. Raised two by myself for a few years before I met my third wife. And not a job. Just like cooking my food isn't a job. Doing stuff for other people is a job. Why would anyone expect to get paid taking care of their own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:07 AM
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It's really strange how this is still so hard to understand. Germany is just one of several large western nations where it's legal. We don't have to speculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 06:34 AM
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Ever notice how all male groups that appear to be having a boisterous conversation suddenly become quiet when you get within earshot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:56 AM
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Islam. Apparently not a major religion. TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:02 AM
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What you think good catholic girl means and what he thinks it means aren't likely the same thing. He's planting the seed, so when you decide to try being a party girl, or just get drunk and slip up, it will be with him. Not saying you would... But that's what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:36 AM
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I'd say by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:29 AM
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Porn? I've seen that much exposed skin at a water park.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:52 AM
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Which is betting against yourself. Not saying it isn't the right choice, but it takes a bunch of time. Time that could have been spent finding a new job. If you do find a new job in a couple weeks, time spent at the courthouse was a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:26 AM
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Crazy is not necessarily the same thing as manipulative. You're describing classic relationship game playing, which correlates with crazy, but is not the same. In addition, fun and exciting also tend to come with crazy, but don't have to. And of course, if a girl is hot, guys will put up with all sorts of nonsense. Many of those girls will take advantage. Just because they can. Much like Leo with his string of early twenties girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:33 AM
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Yes, given the definition of blue pill as mainstream. Reddit is careful of anything that might upset peeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:15 AM
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To be a competitive bodybuilder, yes. But that's the point. OP says 200 pounds isn't even enough to count as normal muscular. 200 at average height while being not fat means having 20-30 pounds more muscle than a standard healthy weight man. 200 lbs is borderline obese by BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:53 AM
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That's not how laws work at all. There's tons of exceptions. Our legal code, counting by words, is mostly exceptions. It's illegal to carry a gun in my state. But there's page after page of exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:41 AM
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Kids are spending the night with grandma, or we'd get sitter. Or host and do the party after bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:29 AM
0

Not eating takes less time than eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:14 AM
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Eating food that tastes good is cheap fun. So people are fat for the same reason they are drunks, do drugs, etc. It's really that simple. Being fit is a hobby I enjoy. If it wasn't, I'd be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:09 AM
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Just like every time, the person pushing this idea that attractive dudes aren't that strong is wildly out of touch with reality. These "not that strong" actors are only 200 to 220 pounds? Tiny! DYEL! In the real world those guys are jacked as guys not on gear can get. Just three examples: Jeff Nippard, and the guys from barbell medicine. The latter 2 weigh 200 pounds. Nippard weighs 160. All three literally dedicate their lives, and pay their bills, by being buff. Those guys are stronger than an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:58 AM
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You sound like a sovereign citizen. Check out what happens to them in court. Court proceedings do not chuck all common sense as a matter of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:46 AM
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You're describing the process of how nearly every crime is handled, and calling it untenable. Have you not ever followed a trial?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:42 AM
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Obviously 3, but I have options. That said, I was dating both 1 and 2 at the same time last year. I didn't exactly choose 1, but I wasn't putting up with nonsense from 2 so she left and my 1 is still here working her ass off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:26 AM
2

Costco and trader Joes both follow that strategy to great success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:13 AM
1

20 on woman is roughly the same as 10 on a man. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:59 AM
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Everyone who isn't hardcore religious does. So you aren't comparing similar groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:39 AM
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No shit. Got any more worthless nonsense that has nothing to do with what's being discussed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:02 PM
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Child free reddit has a list of doctors to go to. But I'm sure you can't afford them, or live to far away, or are just really busy being tragic. You're one woman with rare medical problems. Lottery implies you're unlikely to succeed. It's more like an atm. Usually no problem, but occasionally doesn't work. Nearly all first world women have easy access to easy contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:27 PM
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If you can't drive a bit you can't afford a one anyway. Requiring a 30 minute drive isn't exactly unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:08 PM
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But you do? And you can. Your arguments are based on a reality that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:00 PM
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No woman young enough to physically have a child has a mother old enough to remember those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:58 PM
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And you thing women forced into prostitution should locked up in prison and legally forbidden from ever having any other job after they're out? That's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:29 PM
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Bullshit. Most women that do it make the choice because it's better paid than fast food. It's no more slavery than anything else that desperate poor people do. I actually know sex workers, including escorts. They're normal girls from lower middle class families that need rent money. Lots of jobs are only done because people need money. No one wants to clean shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:38 AM
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It is legal in the US. Only outlawed by states.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:07 AM
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Anton lavey would agree with you. This is a repackaging of the idea that all good acts are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:27 PM
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Are the volumes full of "women enjoy being victims"? That seems to be the driving factor here. If having a baby is so terrible, and it's a choice, and men don't choose it, and women do.... Well... That implies women are choosing to inflict something terrible on themselves. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:29 PM
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To bad its true. You might not want the side effects, but the drugs exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:29 PM
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This is demonstrably not true. Most men are fine hooking up with whoever is available. Gay men show you what men do when both sides have male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:26 PM
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You're literally responding to a man that is doing exactly things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:22 PM
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Huh? More difficult, but nothing lottery like about it. And women have non permanent options that men lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:19 PM
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Pregnancy is voluntary these days... I'm in constant pain. Moving hurts. Has my entire life. I do things anyway. Run, lift, fight. Zero sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:07 PM
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You have no idea how this works. You get served papers. You don't need to sign anything. If you refuse to cooperate, you'll just get the worst possible result from the judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:20 AM
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I could see having one kid, but after that, shouldn't you know better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:53 PM
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The only dudes not on the internet are amish. You seem disconnected from reality. The idea that only nerds do this stuff is straight out of the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:11 PM
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No one is naturally lean and fit. That's a myth created by those unwilling to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:57 PM
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Who is you? Incels? TRP is explicitly a guide to route A sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:55 PM
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Bloopers here do all the time. Lots of threads pushing the idea that women don't like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:48 PM
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You seem to think you can't have bad experiences with women when you're attractive. I've certainly had some bad experiences, and I'm attractive. Not mgtow, since I'm persistent, but I have 3 ex wives and working on the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:04 PM
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Missed something important there. For men, ascending order: Fat and weak Thin Fat and strong Strong without fat In a society where most are fat, fat and strong is easier than thin. Being a thin guy is only barely better than fat and weak. It's a sign you put a lot of effort into being unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:03 AM
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Dafuc? It's explicitly legal in germany, Denmark, and nevada. Try Google. But I could find one in an hour in any major us city. Last year one of my roommates was an escort. It's not exactly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:43 AM
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This sounds like the idea that bullies are cowards. Comforting just world nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:00 AM
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Traditional society actually looked like modern polyamory, just presented differently. One official(primary) partner, other side partners that don't get official status, but aren't really that secret. This was traditional for men nearly everywhere, but true to an admittedly lesser extent for women in societies that allowed women more freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:32 AM
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Worthless study. 15 and 24 are not remotely in the same cohort. Those numbers leave room for everyone who isn't a teen to have had sex. Plenty of people with successful dating lives don't have sex in high school. Often the same people that are high n before they finish college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:25 AM
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For some people, $50 lunch is like dollar menu to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:29 PM
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This varies wildly. Been doing part time uber and my girlfriend pays the bills. When I had a decent job and a wife that didn't work, she only cost me a few hundred a month, and she took care of my kids. OTOH, my best friend is married with no kids, and has no money anymore, despite his wife having a good job. She spends all her money, plus drives up their shared expenses with expensive tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:23 PM
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I suspect it's a bad measure for success. Like the guy trying to make the case that social circle game doesn't work. He thought you'd have several partners a year of it was working. Vs normal people having a relationship that lasts for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:00 PM
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Porn is literally still illegal. Tolerated in many places, but there are still places in the US where you'd be arrested for making porn. Some porn might pass as free speech, but a lot of what's on major porn sites is illegal. They get away with it by being a video hosting site that doesn't claim ownership. Directly paid for porn has lots of restrictions. (I make porn, as do many of my friends.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:20 PM
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The same way you explain women wearing the hijab in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:12 PM
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3 months? Dafuc. Even just 1 every 3 months would have me close to a triple digit count. So far I've had one partner that wasn't from my social circle. I'm 41, in California. 9 or so new partners in the last 3 years. 8 social circle, 1 OLD. Circle is primarily friends and friends of friends. I do swordfighting, renfair, bdsm community. Sure I meet people at events, but nearly every partner was a friend of a friend. And it's not a strategy. It's my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:58 PM
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Because they're people that don't have social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:36 PM
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Guys can fall asleep during sex as well... Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:22 AM
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Most nurses I know have middle to working class backgrounds. Most doctors have umc backgrounds. The education expense means a young person can finance nursing school, but med school is nigh impossible without help from family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:39 PM
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And now nurses have to marry emts....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:36 PM
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I think this shows what I've observed in my day to day life: men care more about having someone, women care more about having the right one. I have no idea if this is the cause or effect of the marketplace. It makes sense either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:22 PM
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This idea that women don't enforce gender roles because they don't bully is clueless. Carrot, not stick. Same sex enforcement is stick, opposite is carrot. For both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:48 PM
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Did you even read what you quoted? You're saying he's an opportunist. A sellout.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:08 AM
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Words don't have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:13 AM
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That's not true at all. Bio parents have rights and obligations regardless of marriage. Step parents have none despite legal marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:29 AM
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Yes. That's the point. Men will try and date from their age on down. The older a woman gets, the smaller the pool becomes. A 20 year old dude is competing against all men. A 35 year old looking to date women his age is only competing against men 35 and up. The wall is there in the demographics of who men and women want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:17 AM
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All those comments from 30 to 40 something women about how they're totally doing great. But what am not seeing? Not seeing any women that struggled to get a guys in their twenties, but are doing much better at 35. But tons of guys say exactly that. Like the slightly short but otherwise attractive black dude I worked with. Struggled until he approached 30, now he's crashing at 3 different girls places instead of his mom's. Dude is pretty much homeless and has three girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:48 AM
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It's explicitly designed to not be a dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:24 AM
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Evidently not. I love people that think they're the best at "thing" and yet have no success at "thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:18 AM
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My friend made two OKC profiles, both with the same picture that didn't really show what she looked like. One listed her age as 20, the other listed it as 30. Nothing in the text portion of the profile. Now, her point wasn't about the wall. It was something about how thirsty dudes are for young women. But the 20 year old had more than twice as many messages. I'm not really certain why she did this given she was 22 and dating a 38 year old. But the results speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:10 PM
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You're either tripping some alarm that you aren't aware of, or those guys are lying. 9 out of 10 guys keep dating exactly the same sort of crazy. I know I do. If this keeps happening, you're doing something that chases guys away. Any particular event that happens each time? Other option is dudes giving an excuse, and they're players. Are they cool? Hot? Successful with dating? Btw, your income isn't that important except as it applies to social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:19 AM
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You're either inexperienced or being deliberately obtuse. Women, and men as well, often make wordless vocalizations as a form of communication. Often referred to as moans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:39 AM
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So poppy doesn't know what orgasms look like and doesn't understand how scripted entertainment made by discount talent works. Here's a shocker. Gunshots don't sound like they do on TV either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:36 AM
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A guy that marries a younger woman dates just that one, a guy that doesn't dates several. Even if most men are the former, you would encounter the latter far more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:08 AM
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I have to say I'm shocked. I'd have assumed they'd be way cheaper in Brazil. In California they're 200 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:54 AM
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If they're that common, why don't you have one? Is something wrong with you? Because it's either your value or your requirements that are preventing success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:57 AM
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Who people actually choose, not who they say they would choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:35 AM
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Boundaries are typically related to values, and as such are value judgements. People get upset when they are judged. For a non sexually charged example, take vegans. Not eating animal producer products doesn't harm other people. But it does absolutely say you're better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:13 AM
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You put 20 to 30 I the same sentence like they're the same group. They're not. I'm 41. California. First. 70 percent of the country is overweight. Tons of people don't have decent jobs. Particularly young people. And then the smoking. You're adding a bunch of different things together, living in the burbs, and have an ass backwards approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:21 AM
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Most 30 something women have kids, or are determined to never have kids, or have some giant red flags. Younger women will have much less money than you. That's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:07 AM
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Support them or deal with the kids they already had. Any other plan is unrealistic at your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:29 PM
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My best friend does little else. Very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:25 PM
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Burbs are where you go after you get married. That's just demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:24 PM
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I have tons of women in my social circle. Not one meets your criteria. Each point is reasonable on own, but when you put them all together you're looking for unicorn. Younger would help, but that just cranks up the competition. And young women dating older guys for relationships typically want someone who can help them get their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:18 PM
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How often is 2 actually turning me down? If she's into sex nearly all the time, great. If she's rarely into sex, not so great. Great enthusiastic sex that only happens when the stars align is decidedly worse than lame maintenance sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:52 PM
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Yes really. Big weddings are super common. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.businessinsider.com/average-wedding-cost-in-america-most-expensive-2018-3 Average wedding is half of the yearly average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:25 PM
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It's a combination of lying and studies ignoring outliers. 2 women with triple digit counts that were excluded account for 200 guys that have 2 more partners each than 200 women that were included. I know a girl that went to a swingers club an fucked everyone. 20 new partners in one night. Only one count added too each of those tenet guys. But there are 19 other girls that didn't add anything to their count that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:14 PM
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I'm super impressed with the edit saying that you didn't mean what you said, and that addressing your actual words is somehow related to insecurity. Extra weird that you compare casual sex, which is kinda difficult to make happen, to that dream wedding that nearly every woman gets. At least nearly every woman with the necessary funds available. I know so many families that spent completely idiotic amounts on weddings. Finding casual sex is like losing weight.... Simple, but a lot of the people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:11 AM
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I'd think reverse causation is just as reasonable. Happy people get married, unhappy people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:33 AM
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I got to and from kindergarten on my own. Then I was pretty much free to travel about town on my own from about second grade on up. Taught wilderness survival, how to shoot, cook, clean, and repair. Dad was a medic, told me all the stories. Mom a realtor, didn't hide her cutthroat business from me at all. I actually helped her sabotage competitors on occasion. There's no cognitive dissonance. I learned that people are complex and imperfect. I've never been without a partner. I do have casual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:17 AM
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Literally the most neutral I've seen on reddit. Any other sub I've seen has an official position on any controversial topic and removes any dissenting post. Plenty of opinion downvoting going on, but at least posts aren't being removed. And I'm not sure if this place is useful. Entertaining, and occasionally interesting, but lots of crap flinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:52 AM
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This is a statement of what you want with no reason given for why anyone else should agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:37 AM
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So why are you saying your girlfriend doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:55 AM
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They exist at about a 2 to 1 ratio. Pretty much all of them date nerdy guys. But they get the best of the nerds. So not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:57 AM
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Are you sure you're not a young umc white girl? I'd expect someone with your backstory to know plenty of people with histories. I'm over forty upper working class in the medical field and know lots of former dealers and junkies that straightened out and got on with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:24 AM
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Gamer fitness will kill you. Number one killer. We're talking about the dudes that never get off the couch, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:10 AM
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Moderate drug use and minor troublemaking all the way. Straight edged people are just as bad as addicts. Likewise, those who never break any rules are as bad as criminals. Everything in moderation, particularly moderation. At least from a personal point of view. Pathetic risk adverse types aren't that bad for society, but they aren't really living. I wouldn't wish that on my son. And I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:05 AM
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Would I rather be shot 8 times with a 45 or 15 times with a 9? I feel pity for reds. As much as they're asshats, that comes from a place of pain. Blues are just plain mean. They have it all and get their kicks picking those that are less successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:57 AM
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My Minecraft server begs to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:31 AM
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If you want child soldiers, you don't need a nurturing personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:52 AM
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Average is: 38k debt. 31k income. Fat but not obese. Has a minor psych diagnosis like depression or anxiety. By definition, average means normal social life. So if average is a shut in, that's normal. So you're a 4 looking for a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:57 PM
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Miserable, sick, slowly went insane. The work he's remembered for he did when young. He's important for humanity, but did not enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:59 PM
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Those guys are the male version of anorexic girls. Those girls think a bmi of 21 is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:00 AM
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Less than ten percent of U.S. men lift at all. Fight Club Pitt is at least average among dudes I see at the gym. That puts him well into the top 5 percent of men. I do recreational sport stuff with other adults. I'm faster than everyone who's stronger than me, stronger than anyone that can catch me. I'm nothing compared to the op, nothing like any pro athlete, but I am still so much better than the typical active adult. I can pass the firefighter test. Most guys can't. I'd love to have body as P…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:57 AM
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She's not supposed to eat carbs, she gets a pile of meat and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:11 AM
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But isn't it? Maybe if the UK stayed in the EU and the EU became more centrally controlled, the US would have a competitor, but that hasn't happened yet. Awalt and the West is the us are about equally real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:46 PM
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70 percent in the US. I don't know what you think the word most means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:40 PM
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Ignore what I said before, you're looking for a top ten percent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:34 PM
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Not fat is a 7. So not most women. Most women are fat. At least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:31 PM
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Thin alone is a seven. You want at least an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:29 PM
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None of what you think is required when in a relationship is actually required.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:52 AM
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The sheer number of dudes getting out of prison and immediately moving in with their new girl argues against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:39 AM
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Lookists think that. But they're loonies that deny the obvious truth that behavior is a huge part of what makes men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:36 AM
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Having so many tokens that you can spend them readily is more masculine than hoarding said tokens. Look up costly signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:29 PM
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The biggest is location and career. Quite common for prioritizing those to make otherwise good relationships non viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:21 PM
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Funny. Usually that scene includes lots of sex. Obviously there's exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:12 PM
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Haven't you seen that ad with the abused dogs and the sad music? Did you feel sad? People get sad about stuff that isn't about them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:43 PM
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Who is we? Guys doing everything for hot women is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:08 AM
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Over and over, I've had girls say, in group settings, that they always use condoms. But then when we're alone, suddenly they don't need them. Or they tell me they never do what they're doing with me with other guys. I obviously don't know if it's true, but even if it's not, that still explains where this idea comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:47 AM
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Gay men are actually much less into kids than het men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:36 AM
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Given the anger you're displaying here, it seems likely you'd be down for some divorce rape if you find your hubby cheating on you. And with your attitude about sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:35 AM
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Cheating clauses? Certainly not in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:12 AM
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They're the ones who like sex. Try it yourself. Make a fake tinder with a 20 something fat girl picture. You'll get plenty of offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:56 AM
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Pam!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:46 AM
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Nah. Nothing rates like the grizzled warrior king holding his infant son.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:23 AM
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These are, unfortunately, real poly people. https://m.imdb.com/title/tt2227610/ The main woman on that show used to host a poly meet up group in my town. Reality tv is terrible, but there is a real life example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:58 AM
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I'm not sure if this is where you're going, but being poly in major city is like being rural. If I filter for poly on OKC everyone is at least a friend of a friend. Despite being one of the largest west coast cities. Anyone I hook up with almost certainly has a partner in common with someone else I hooked up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:50 AM
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Dipshits on here say their minimum standard for attractive is not fat. Given the statistics in modern America, not fat means 8s, 9s, and 10s. So you should expect to see exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:33 AM
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Poly is less than one percent of the population. Do these people think the rest of the ugly people just stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:29 AM
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Most people are unattractive. 70 percent of my country is overweight. It gets even worse if you include the Hollywood effect. PPD people are constantly saying they don't think this actor or that actress is attractive. Despite it being impossible to get any speaking role unless you're in the top ten percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:26 AM
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Additionally poly and sex positive overlap, and sex positive means unattractive people showing themselves off in a way that doesn't happen normally. In modern fat America most people are unattractive. But they don't show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:19 AM
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She's unattractive and so are her partners. On average everyone ends up with their looksmatch. As someone who's world is filled with poly peeps, I'd say they're less likely to be matched than the general population. But that isn't a gendered phenomenon. It's an artifact of being a small community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:10 AM
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According to recent experience, what forty somethings do is send the kids to grandma, take some molly, and fuck all night. Which I suppose is the upside of dating chics my age instead of twenty somethings. Of course, grandma's boyfriend grows weed for personal use, so maybe my peeps are just less boring than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:59 AM
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Funny. I'm over forty and you sound naive in a way that makes me expect you to be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:48 AM
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I don't think you understand what dudes hitting on girls young enough to be their children are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:46 AM
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And this matters why? This seems to be yet another attack on men that date of want to date younger women. And it seems to assume that only well adjusted women have value as partners. But I for one adore my poorly adjusted partners. Sure they have issues, but they're stable enough to hold down a job. And they're fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:39 AM
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I'd say that the common language tricks people into thinking that the US is way more homogenous than it actually is. In actuality, the various parts of the US are more different than the various parts of Europe. We're an empire, not a nation. Social issues, welfare state, etc... Germany France and England are much closer on those issues than California Michigan and Alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:29 AM
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If everyone gives the same answer, and it's that anal doesn't matter, and you can't accept that answer, then yes. You sound obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:16 AM
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I'm flexible. I've had anal sex, both as top and bottom. Mostly with women. Frankly, I'm the guy they're upset about, that was getting anal from their girls before it was their turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:13 AM
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I'm thinking op is just pure troll. It's not at all hard to understand that sex with an attractive person is better than with an unattractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:08 AM
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Even outside of divorce, a contract that violates the law isn't legal. There are all sorts of laws that effect what is considered allowable. Roughly speaking, if you should be entitled to something, you can't sign a contract that gives you less. For example, you can't work for less than minimum wage, even if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:59 AM
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I recently heard a fifteen year old call a 23 year old a boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:32 AM
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Bay area metro area has a population over 7 million. That's enough people to be noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:34 PM
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I came to the automod to write exactly this. But I can add on: Value is defined by what the buyer is willing to pay. That is the literal definition of the word. The op doesn't seem to agree. I have no idea what they think value means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:54 PM
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I looked, it was published in 96. Which seems insane. I started college in 97 and I've never met anyone irl that waited 9 dates for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:03 PM
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Nearly every serious answer is some variant of: It's not really about anal. OP responds to that by repeating, over and over: But anal!!!!!! Butts!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:45 PM
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You have an awful lot to day about anal for someone not obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:17 PM
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I gave the quite clear answer that it's not about anal. Explained what trp thinks and why. It's not even really about sex. Her cooking dinner every night for a previous partner would have the same effect. Everyone wants to be special to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:16 PM
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Fun? Not at all a big deal? And why are you so obsessed with it? No one said you have to like it. I don't like ranch dressing, but I don't go around complaining about people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:00 PM
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You seem really obsessed with anal. That is all you. Trp guys use it as just one example of a sex act done for one partner but not the other. They often mention oral, threesomes etc. The point is people do more for those that they find more attractive. Btw, I'm not straight. Anal isn't what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:20 AM
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Not a healthy relationship, but I don't really do those. I get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:48 AM
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Not exactly rp, but I'm certainly seasoned and understand their point. I'm actively into going down on women that are more attractive, but I'm still down to fuck, and even claim, women that I'm not into going down on. Some have noticed, and they certainly didn't like it. Rp guys want to be the hot one. Not the good enough one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:43 AM
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But men react to other men the way they react to you. Worse really. Across the board, men are even worse to other men then the are to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:14 AM
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Oh dear. You would be shocked by laws in my state. My parents have been separated but not divorced for more than a decade. They want an amicable divorce, but the state won't allow it. You're not allowed to settle for less than the law allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:01 AM
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No. But. I've definitely put up with morr nonsense, bullshit, bad behavior, etc from really hot girls. And younger correlates with hotter. I've ltred two that were young enough to be my children. The six foot anorexic one.... Just Google BPD. The five two chubby girl is devoted to me in a way that isn't borderline creepy. It's definitely over that line. But it's the same with girls my age. Being pretty is definitely added value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:11 AM
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I'm a guy. They usually ask for pictures. Of my girls if they're straight dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:06 AM
1

Warren Buffett is dumb. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:53 AM
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Leaning towards not. But open to changing my mind depending on circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:43 AM
1

I last heard ok boomer when my teenage son said it to some twenty something who was acting like the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:18 AM
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If it takes more than 3 dates, that means we aren't compatible. I'm not interested in women with that approach to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:44 AM
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All three wives were just happy that I was willing to marry them. Not one engagement ring in my history. And we had reasonable wedding rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:29 AM
1

Surprise proposals are hollywood nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:24 AM
1

Within disadvantaged groups men and women are more equal than within the upper classes. (Equal in outcome)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:15 AM
2

Nearly any man can be overpowered by any two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:00 AM
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Few weeks ago, last time I went out. Girl made entirely out of red flags. Happens maybe 4 times a year. Depends on how social I'm being. If I hit up every social event available, it happens once a month. But that means going out 3 nights a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:28 AM
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That's the thing. Girl I was dating a while back complained about a dude not taking the hint to bugger off. Showed me her message. Pretty much word for word the same as one she sent me prior to our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:20 AM
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Side pieces. Not wives. One wife, a series of side pieces. For pretty much all guys above the bottom rungs. So not the serfs, slaves, etc. Which at many points meant the the majority of men didn't have side pieces. But all of the men who mattered did. Pretty much all of western civ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:08 AM
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Once a week is normal. The last time it took more than three dates I was in high school. Why would I wait of I don't need to? In my world, sex just isn't a big deal. Why the fuck would you wait? All of us have already fucked lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:58 AM
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Her hubby knows. Dude. There's a whole side of society that has all the sex, does all the partying, drugs, etc. They marry each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:35 AM
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So? You just supported my point that strip clubs are not solely patronized by dudes that can't get women. Plenty of dudes have chics, but still like looking at naked girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:22 AM
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You're a fool. I'm pretty confident guys like bezos and buffet know better how to run a business. Both of whom are quite open about how they pay nearly no taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:15 AM
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If it's proper production house porn the stage name and real name are on imdb. This is a real person. She was my boss. You can feel whatever you want, but the reality is what it is. Millions of women have done porn of some sort. Nearly all go on to have normal jobs later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:08 AM
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Who doesn't notice they're not having sex? If it's not happening by date three that's a friend, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:06 AM
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Entrepreneurs don't pay income tax. High income tax specifically causes people to choose business ownership over working for wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:54 AM
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The men having lots of women thing has been done by damn near every civilization. Segments of the female population have done the other thing in many civilisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:50 AM
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I've done this, lots of girls I know have done it. It's a great alternative to a fast food job, but not comparable to a real job unless you're very hot, and good at selling yourself. Even then, you can only do it so long. As a way of working through college, its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:42 AM
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2pm on Tuesday... Yeah. But Saturday night you'll see plenty of conventionally attractive dudebros. Or at least I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:37 AM
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That's not true. Standards are way higher and they make much less money. I've done it, btw. Camming made me about a quarter of what a fat girl I knew got.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:31 AM
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Decimate? Worked with a former porn star. EMT was her first non sex work job. She got promoted to supervisor after a couple years. Then got married. Now she's an RN with a near 6 figure income. She has a very distinctive name. Googling it will bring up her imdb page with her porn history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:26 AM
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Heckin cynical. Much more practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:57 AM
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I'd keep a good partner regardless. But I don't do monogamy, so I'd still be having sex. I had this going on a year or so back, the most girlfriendy partner I had wasn't fucking me, the least girlfriendy was. Weird, but each girl filled some needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:27 AM
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This is a debate sub. They're here to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:12 AM
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That's the way friendship works for dudes. If you're attracted to a friend fucking is an option. That's the way it works with gay guys. That's the way it works in some het circles as well. I've slept with most of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:58 AM
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I've known a bunch of these girls. Attractive autistic girls get raped a lot. Misreading situations can lead to way worse things than being made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:23 AM
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Hilarious. You only make troll posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:54 AM
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In the US you can fire people without cause at will. It's nearly impossible to sue for this sort of discrimination unless the guy has a problem with running his mouth when witnesses are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:59 AM
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So? Literally everything enjoyable is addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:31 AM
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Once again. Just like alcohol. Some peeps can't handle their shit. Others can. It's pretty clear to me that those who can partake of such vices appropriately are mentally stronger than those who cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:09 AM
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There's an entire thread where claim everyone but you is wrong about what an asshole is. So I'm pretty sure you married an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:47 AM
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Hot in the right context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:42 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:32 PM
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But most people that actually work out are thin. Staying thin and fit takes a lifetime of constant work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:17 PM
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You seem to think kids can't be ugly. Attractive people are treated better by everyone, even as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:19 AM
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That's just straight up not true. They get shared custody. Which is not fifty fifty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:36 AM
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Goat specifically referenced things that happened 30 years ago as if they were relevant today. I don't think you can fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:33 AM
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Based on your other post they bailed on their wives that stopped being partners when they became mom's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:31 AM
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If you leave out felons and drug dealers the picture is wildly different than when you include them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:28 AM
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If any of them dated as adults in the 70s they're lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:30 AM
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Do you just plain hate getting laid? What are you preserving yourself for? I think I live more life in a week than you do in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:24 AM
1

What do you think hung up means?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:21 AM
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In his opinion, you're childish. Does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:20 AM
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Ofmg with the being a risk adverse. A donut is a worse health risk than fucking a Tijuana prostitute. This attitude is the antithesis of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:17 AM
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Do you think prison causes people to become psychopaths? Because the rate for that is way higher in prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:54 AM
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You clearly didn't read what you posted. At least not past the sensationalistic title.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:44 AM
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That's literally what it means. The hi larious second point is that you'll end up with some hot ones as well if you ditch those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:35 AM
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Living with your parents makes it harder to find a partner. Helps if you put a spin on it. After marriage 2 I sharing a place with my elderly father because I'm a great son.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:29 AM
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The women likely aren't that hot. Incel dudes only want hot girls. Any dude that can aim for his actual match can get laid, or get an ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:22 AM
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This is what I've always seen in middle of the road households. But women are cleaner in traditionalist homes, as well as the top and bottom of the socioeconomic spectrum. So if you're in lower middle class and liberal....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:13 AM
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I have those. They're where women overestimate their work the most. Kids are easy af if you're a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:04 AM
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Worked on my prius today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:59 AM
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Hey, did you know jet fuel can't melt steel beams? Because your food beliefs are exactly as reasonable as truthers. Unprepared meats and vegetables are nutritionally the same at walmart, as much as I despise them for their business practices. Wal-Mart sells four ingredient bread for $1 a loaf. Water flour yeast salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:52 AM
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Maybe buy ingredients and not processed crap? Spending hours analysing processed crap trying to find the least bad version obliterates the only benefit to buying pre made foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:39 AM
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Only women are complaining about the status quo. Men are are just objecting to being expected to do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:35 AM
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At least you have that key nagging and begging part of a successful relationship nailed. And I'm fine working harder and not doing any cleaning. Don't see any indication that the op is any different. You're the one demanding equal effort in one area without matching effort in the other. Of course, unlike your awesome dude, when I'm left alone the house is cleaner. It's only her work when we're both there. And not by covert contract. It's an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:28 AM
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Roughly analogous to what "nice" guys do. Covert contracts are bad coming and going.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:12 AM
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Speak for yourself. I only date nymphos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:05 AM
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Yes. One repeatedly rammed my friend's car, then stalked him. I've been stabbed. But usually the problems are just erratic behavior. Creating social problems. Actual psych disorders, bipolar, bpd, addiction issues. Note, there are exceptions. But tendencies...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:33 AM
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30 years ago we got porn from direct dial bulletin boards. Stills and text. I actually ran across a lot super fucked stuff. Illegal stuff. That was the wild west of eporn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:27 AM
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My roommate is a furry and is currently fucking four women that I'm aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:18 AM
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So I'm not going to see multiple people in this thread thread that are completely against porn? At the same time, can you point out anyone that insists anyone should binge on porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:15 AM
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That puts you firmly in the realm of pearl clutcher. Of course you're bothered by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:50 AM
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I only stick my dick in crazy. Way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:10 PM
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I've dated tons of those. My social circle is full of them. The only stable girls with weird hair are lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:03 PM
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Massively harder to live in a car, boat, or rv. Even in just the last decade I've witnessed it getting much harder to exist on the edges of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:44 AM
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Not a sure fire thing? So? Take a risk. This risk adverse attitude is a big part of the problem. It is an obstacle to accomplishing anything, and it's directly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:27 AM
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The std rates in retirement communities say you're wrong. My obese loser sister and her obese loser boyfriend also seem to be making it work. Most people are actually okay fucking their match. Incels are incels because they aren't. Which is weird. Because they're weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:21 AM
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I still think it's strange how focused on this some people here are. Can't date that older guy because forty years from now you'll be a young fresh 65 and he'll be eighty and about to die. While I just met a twenty something dude who's planning and spending his life with a twenty something woman that's not going to make it to forty. Because he loves her, and that's what you do. Cold hearted af to have potential health problems forty years down the line be your overriding concern. I'm likely goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:09 AM
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This. I'm not sweating her using sex as a handshake when our first date started with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:22 AM
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Obese twenty something is approximately as attractive as a fit 40 something. Just in the last year or so I've dated women ranging from 8 years older to sixteen years younger. I do like women my age. I can get younger. I'll take what I can get. This isn't rocket surgery. I can have both. So I do. Guys that only pursue young girls, or really, guys that limit themselves any which way: they're dumb. Sex is awesome. Get as much as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:06 AM
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Obviously not the same people. My son isn't being raised that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:54 AM
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What does AARP believe? The idea that feminism is a political advocacy movement and not a belief system is a complete answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:08 AM
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Sales tax isn't even something that exists in every state, nevermind the world. Not everyone lives where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:25 AM
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Visit a poor area and check out how they lock up all the shit you need to take care of babies. Because formula and diapers are a need, and aren't considered such by the government, so poor steal that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:21 AM
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Super obviously the latter. I'm not that hot, but getting enough women is a zero effort thing for me. So I do in fact focus on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:47 AM
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You don't know what you're talking about. I can eat my 200 grams of daily protein in 20 minutes including cooking time. And 4-6 hours a week is plenty if you don't care about cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:32 AM
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I only do open. But. 9 out of ten times anyone asking for this while in a monogamous relationship already has someone in mind and will probably still fuck them if you say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:09 AM
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If you look good enough to make good money selling sexiness to women, nothing else matters. You can just get the various women you're hooking up with to pay your bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:59 PM
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This goes right to the point that tech jobs are boring. Girlfriend and I are both medical, and we talk about work all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:38 PM
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Notallwomen... But the I've met plenty like that. And they tend to be highly visible. Water park story: local small park, kids up to high schoolers, and parents. Prepubescent kids did the same activities, regardless of gender. The older the teens, the more it was just the boys doing stuff. Lots of dads on rides. Not one mom. All the moms just sat around. I've witnessed women undergo this transformation over and over. Women seem to age out of doing fun. An activity with 30 percent women in the ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:33 AM
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Seems obvious that she shouldn't trust you. Which is kind of the point. If you think the only thing preventing cheating is lack of opportunity, you aren't loyal. Also. Any girl can go out and get laid tonight. Literally the only thing preventing your girlfriend from fucking other guys is her loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:14 AM
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But I didn't have to figure out out myself. My parents taught me how handle money, cook, clean, repair my house and car, handle my personal safety, survive in the wilderness or during disasters, and how to take care of my body. I think making any of those things a priority for young people to learn is becoming more and more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:22 AM
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They could have spent 3 less years in school and started at 10-20k higher salary in lots of other careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:14 AM
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Debate is fun. I kinda like to think I could help some of the dudes who struggle... But people here are alien AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:54 AM
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I've been on forums longer than websites have existed. Getting to 1000 isn't much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:16 AM
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You can even do both at the same time! What a world!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:10 AM
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Do I really need to dig up countless examples of 30 plus edward cullen fans? Because there tons of them. Apparently op wasn't 30 when then movie came out. I was. Plenty of women my age were into that shit. The op is just one of those people that feels a need to reject young people's things in order to feel adult. Which makes me doubt the entire thing. I think this is more about denigrating young people. The actual reality is that all people's attraction drifts only a little over time. This of ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:35 AM
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I find it incredibly hard to believe that arresting sex workers helps them. Overall, the trafficking argument seems highly suspicious. How hard would it be to send some social workers to legal brothels and check on the workers? And note that actual trafficking is nearly always illegal immigrants that are being threatened, not with violence, but rather with exposure to law enforcement and thus deportation. Which is actually legal to do if you want to hire computer programmers from India.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:42 AM
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This. I work in a career with strict background checks. Two speeding tickets and you'd lose your job. Or a misdemeanor arrest. Not conviction. Arrest. And these guys go out, in groups, after work, to buy sex at "massage" parlors. The key being they're not a bunch of whiney losers. (They all have girlfriends too.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:25 AM
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Interesting correlates strongly with all sorts of negative things. Playing it safe is boring. The opposite of safe is dangerous. Anyone comfortable with risk is gonna piss people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:18 AM
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It seems like the real answer needed is: Yes. Gigantic glaring personality problems can stop relationships from happening even if you're attractive. Be social. Allow the knowledge that you would like a relationship to spread. As you get older, more men with the skills to handle difficult people will enter your age range. Particularly after 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:08 AM
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Choose a example pic, put it on tinder with a near blank profile. Will get tons of matches. Friend of mine even tried this with a no picture blank OKC profile. Just female and 21. Tons of messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:56 AM
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So I personally know a girl that is well over 300 and had hundreds of tinder matches, and the dudes are real. They show up, buy her dinner, pay for hotel rooms. So... Yeah. That's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:52 AM
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Wen you ignore what people say. K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:21 AM
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Responding to every post with the same response definitely counts. K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:11 AM
1

Just tell me what you do. I'll write that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:07 AM
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Her "I would like it if you did (thing)" Me "That's not happening" Her "(reasons why I should do the thing)" Me "you already got my answer, I'm not clear what you think you'll accomplish by continuing to talk about this."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:55 AM
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I'm the only person in my house that can sew. The sewing kit is mine. Though I did teach my daughter to do buttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:43 AM
1

So am I a super Chad or is it actually fairly easy to hook up with women young enough that people need to ask if she's with me or my kids? Because that happened last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:30 AM
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Which would matter of he's looking for a wife. I'm fine being the older guy she's fucking this month. And well aware it will be some other guy next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:17 AM
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Age gaps are rare because those relationships don't last. If you were looking at stats for had sex with instead of in relationship with you'd get a different number. Realistic older guys are hunting for high count young women. It only takes a small number of girls with daddy issues to allow a rather large number of guys to check that box.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:10 AM
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Do you have a link? Because I have never seen that advice given to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:39 AM
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Commitment is entirely internal these days. It's more likely the more entangled you are, but nothing stops anyone from just walking away at any point. So you can be entirely committed without any trappings. Or you can have legal marriage, kids, a house, all that, and gone the next day. I've seen both. Experienced both. I'm a dude, over forty, been married. Have kids. Currently have several partners, girlfriends, subbies. Have had one collared to me for more than a decade. Not gonna marry or have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:47 AM
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It's the opposite. It's male sexuality turned up to eleven.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:28 AM
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Lesbians do that all the time. Evidence is fairly good for it only being men that are born that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:25 AM
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The difference is that they could go on grinder or out to a gay bar and get laid tonight. A hetero guy can't. I'd know, I've worked both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:22 AM
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People can feel about marriage however they like, the fact remains that your spouse can leave at any moment if they so choose. If you're willing abandon joint assets, there aren't any other legal commitments. An out of wedlock child is way more commitment. So is joining the army. So this is just feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:12 PM
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You didn't even read what you responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:52 PM
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This is true of anything that is fun, anything that makes life easier or more enjoyable. Such things reduce the motivation to go put and make shitty situations better. Like religion. Opiate of the masses. Or opiates. For example, life for sailors I the 1800s was hellish. But they they were continuously drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:26 PM
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Once again, you can have both. And how old are you? I'm over forty, plenty of porn when I was young. And sports, porn, and sex with actual women go well together. Definitely a strong correlation between between high school sports and sex. And if model building is on your list that's a good hint as to what your problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:10 PM
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How hard is it to understand that most women only want relationships? Hook up apps are for hot dudes. But every guy I know in real life has a girlfriend. Don't use hookup apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:39 AM
1

Have you ever been to a club?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:09 AM
1

Calling controlling someone else a boundary completely removes the meaning of the word. Nothing wrong with telling others what to do. Just own it. Plenty of controlling behaviors are reasonable. This particular one is weird and stodgy. I can't imagine anyone demanding such a limit as being at all fun. But if you need to be a couple where you basically just homebodies, that's fine if you both agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:06 AM
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In many states they can own guns with parental approval. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 03:43 AM
1

Have done, am doing. Value, even rmv, is based on what you could get, not what you choose. So if you could get a spouse, but choose permanent casual, either because that's what you just want, or because the specific person you want is only offering that, your value remains the same. I personally don't offer monogamy. Regardless of how much value she brings to the table. Even 9-10 doesn't change that. But their value is still based on what they could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:55 PM
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This bull again. Still only true if you count his income as her money during marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:12 AM
1

Why do this? You know you're a exception, right? You being special isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:39 AM
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But with goods, you can increase the supply. More houses means they get easier to buy. But there are equal numbers of men and women... I kinda wonder if all the 50s middle class exceptionalism is due to ww2 casualties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:58 PM
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Except it's the opposite. Teens treat sex as a big deal, and are way more likely to wait. Adults don't bother waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 07:36 PM
3

By thirty its pretty obvious who has their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 12:24 AM
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It doesn't matter what you think. 2.5 million people prove it's worth discussion. I don't watch football. But I'm not going to deny that it's a big fucking deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:59 AM
2

Mostly the government pays for it. After the inheritance has been drained.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:37 AM
1

Every guy like that that I've known had a wife who either didn't work or just kinda worked. Every pair where both really worked were umc or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:14 AM
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Is there some overly specific date definition I'm unaware of? If you're starting a relationship whatever you two go and do together without other people is a date. So I don't understand how it's possible to not go on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:34 AM
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Dark skinned foreign dude in the Confederacy. There's a simple explanation. True story: Florida girl I met told me she'd never talked to an Asian guy prior to moving to California.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:42 AM
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Ghosting is the natural response to his serial killer vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:12 AM
1

Literally made of red flags. The porn thing: porn is like alcohol. Most use it. Some have problems. Some abstain completely. Nutty extremes are bad. When people are way outside the norm, trouble often follows. And that's speaking as someone way outside the norm surrounded by like. Tracking! And not just sharing location in Google maps, because that's not reliable enough? Have you checked his freezer for severed heads?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:09 AM
1

Of particular note is that pretty much every dating and sex related complaint from bloops is presented as men disrespecting women. Yet gay men exhibit all those same behaviors, only turned up to eleven.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:26 PM
2

Every seth Rogan character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:35 AM
4

Costly signalling is the phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:31 AM
1

Those MBA types run all the tech companies. Gates made his fortune by selling a product he didn't even have. IBM wanted an os, Gates struck a deal with them, then went and bought dos from the guy that wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:28 AM
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Career success is all about playing bullshit games. Competent workers get all the work dumped on them and game players get promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:23 AM
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Japan. Which is also an example of the fact that birthrate is related to income and medical care, and pretty much ignores societal tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:21 AM
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Are you actually trying to assert that wildfires are a result of recent liberal policies in California? Thank you for confirming my long held beliefs about people who rant about government debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:08 AM
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Good job proving you don't understand how debt works. Can't really teach you the entire subject, but the short version is that having a lot of debt means that people with lots of money think you're a good investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:03 AM
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It's like you keep having to climbing that mountain. Over and over. Really hard work, and you only sometimes get laid. But for me, I'm thinking fuck yeah, I love climbing mountains. And then I also get sex. But sex or no sex, I'd still climb that mountain. PS I actually like climbing mountains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:16 AM
1

Have you ever had sex? It's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:17 AM
1

I'm blue collar. All the dudes I work with have girlfriends or wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:13 AM
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Are you sure? Are incels as big of a thing over there? Because I didn't get the impression they were. But I'm in the US, and i can only speak to what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:11 AM
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What studies? Those women could have gotten jobs flipping burgers. But the people that sew your sneakers would literally starve if they refused to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:32 PM
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You presented something inherent in all work as a problem with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:22 PM
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Do you think the guys pumping out porta potties enjoy their work? What about the woman that left her bank job in manila to change adult diapers in a south L.A. board and care? Making more right out of high school than most college grads comes at a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:19 PM
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They don't. Many famous rich people are publically liberal, but they have am image to worry about. And politically, both sides are run by rich people. It's mostly old money vs new money. Rust belt vs silicon valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:17 AM
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Age isn't the problem. You giving a fuck is. The only thing that matters is legal and wants to date you. What is creepy is hitting on girls that aren't interested. Hitting on every 18 year old you see will be creepy even at your age. But simply talking to girls like you're a normal human and responding when they express interest is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:01 AM
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But perhaps not a representative man. A unicorn man more like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:04 AM
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You have a low bar for intimacy. Paying to watch a girl stuff herself is definitely less intimate then irl sex and plenty of people manage that without emotional intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 11:59 PM
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Public acknowledgement. FWB is treated like just a friend in public. Temp girlfriend gets girlfriend treatment in public. Little things like getting the front seat when you drive a group of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:46 PM
2

The big modern economic lie is treating jobs as a resource. Workers are the resource. More workers devalued labor. More college devalued education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:37 PM
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Statements along the lines of x never happens except when it does are weird. I don't understand why people do this. Able child free people don't get welfare. Disabled people do. Seems pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:20 PM
1

The only times I've used less porn is when my sex drive has been overwhelmed by actual fucking. And it didn't change anything. When my partners are less available I use more porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:02 PM
1

That's still porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:53 PM
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Causes seeking of physical comfort or pleaser. Wanking, eating, sleeping all day. Immersive video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:45 PM
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Nothing quite like a walk in the part for a first date. Every time I've fed a girl on a first in the last decade that meant cooking at my house and we had sex first. But I am aware of how the normal hookup culture works. And that means the dude buys dinner and first date sex is likely. But that's not out of the blue. That's assuming pre date conversation makes this out to be a hookup. Relationship dates don't go like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:07 AM
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The wall is not the same thing as a slow steady decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:25 AM
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Only if they're too dumb to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:19 AM
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That's what the research says.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:13 AM
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You're really working hard to convince us all that you're naive. Don't try so hard. All you needed to do was tell us you're a teenager. I said the exact same thing about the virgin 18 year old I was with when I was your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:51 AM
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I'm having a hard time understanding why you'd go on a second date with anyone not meeting your first date sex criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:42 AM
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The problem here is that near all guys want sex as soon as possible. You may a well say guys who have testicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:14 AM
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Check the post history. Dude isn't having a hard time. And why would he? Third date is normal. Last time it took longer than that for me I was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:05 PM
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It definitely means she's not particularly into having sex with you. She might want a relationship, but not one that includes much sex. And it's only a good strategy for women looking for desperate guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:57 PM
1

Moving the goalposts much? This is like starting with playing video games and somehow arriving at inventing the PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 02:23 PM
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So... Are you claiming daily milking isn't a kid's chore? That it hasn't been for literally thousands of years? Because I have news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:26 AM
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I work out nearly twenty hours a week. Does that count? Video games are more likely to lead to some sort of income than my exercise...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:23 AM
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Since I was replying to a post where you made it completely clear you aren't interested in logic, it seemed appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:19 AM
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I milked a cow when I was five. So she's accomplished what a five year old can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:33 PM
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Is doing anything for six hours teenager ish? Or just videogames? Because unless it's everything, the point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:08 PM
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It seems like a lot of people here are missing two important facts: tinder is a hookup app, not a wifeup app. And. Most women don't want hookups. And when women are looking for hookups, the ego boost is part of the deal. So of course they want the dude to pay. Since the whole point is convincing themselves that they're valuable. Literally the same girl: paying my rent while in a relationship with me. Expecting the guy to buy a nice dinner and pay for a hotel when she's doing tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:03 PM
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As if you'd ever get that far from the basement. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:03 PM
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If they're passing you wouldn't know. There's plenty that can pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:42 AM
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It's mostly after work.... Except for emergency jobs. Fire station hijinks are legendary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:13 PM
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Doctors aren't even on the same map as accountants. Lawyer is okay. Investment banker isn't great, but it's better than engineer or accountant. If you're talking about a company that makes a thing, office people rank in sexiness, from top to bottom: executives, marketing, engineer, accountant. Note the strong correlation with how important social skills are to the job. And white collar isn't great. Mechanic is pretty good. Fireman, cop, soldier, even better. I know a bunch of EMT's that are marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:04 PM
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I did that every time. I have three ex wives. Make of that what you will. I also have moved in with several other women that I didn't marry, and that usually happened in less than three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 09:11 PM
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Europe didn't have a Roman grade road network until the 20th century. That is 1300 years to get back to where they were before. So a thousand year recovery period has precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:58 PM
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Never seen a workplace that didn't have some co-workers fucking each other. Because fucking is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:06 PM
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American men are slightly fatter on average than American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:05 PM
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I've dated a bunch of sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:49 AM
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Not if you include non explicit sex work. 30-40 something women will definitely pay your way. But you need a non paying or low paying occupation, you can't just sit on your ass. Artistic guys, EMT's, athletes in sports that don't pay.... That sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:45 AM
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Exactly. The ultimate test of your qualifications is whether or not you get hired. If you can't get any job you aren't trying. Jobcels are just like incels. They think they're pretty good, but they actually kinda suck and both could get the thing if they'd settle. Fuck fat girls. Work shitty jobs. Most jobs are shit, and most girls are fat. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:32 AM
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Those guys have other traits that make up for their boring job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:25 AM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:23 AM
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You being different doesn't change the way most men behave. Most men are shallow. Not something to be proud of, but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:16 AM
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I think it's more that positive traits from prehistory are negative traits in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:10 AM
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Boring AF. Boring jobs are just a paycheck. And there's a word for women that care about your paycheck. What you value isn't what women value. This whole thread is just a monument to your cluelessness. A poor musician will get laid even if he's ugly. An accountant gets laid despite being an accountant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:54 AM
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Because looks don't mean shit. Money only means a little. To overcome being a whiney introvert you'll need 9.99/10 looks. But poor fat dudes with game are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:23 AM
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6/10 looks. 3/10 job. 1/10 personality. That adds up to 2-3/10. Because what you do is more important than looks. And personality is more important than what you do. OP is describing a woefully unattractive man. And he doesn't even get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:02 AM
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You clearly haven't read any trp stuff. It's not about finding virgins. And the only way to get religious girls is being part of that religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:45 PM
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I don't disagree with your main point, but once again: It's literally impossible for men to average more partners than women. Unless you count homosexual pairing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:17 PM
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Easiest? Subbies with issues. And I must be their type because they find me. I plan on keeping it up until I die. I take a lot of risks, so I'll likely die while still healthy. I have no issue with getting sex in exchange for providing, but not currently doing that. Have in the past. It was a good relationship while it lasted. Often do free dates, like hiking. When dates include spending money, it's typically just food, rarely more than $40, and I only pay about a quarter of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:25 PM
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So if everyone started having sex at 18 the number would be 30 percent. I don't see an issue. Numbers for 21-30 would be more meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:47 PM
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So there's all these threads about how women don't like assholes, and here is a woman saying than men opting not to literally enslave women makes those men pussies. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:51 AM
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You're probably not aware of this, but tv news used to be a public service that stations did only because the government required it. There is precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:49 AM
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That's not true. As has been explained several times in this thread. Common carrier is the key term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:45 AM
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Personal liberty is orthogonal to economic policy. Both parties are all over the place on the subject. The Puritans were the economic liberals of their time. (1500s)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:39 AM
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I'm all for a much more aggressive interpretation of what a common carrier is. Which is to say, a phone company can't refuse to serve customers it doesn't like, and large web based complication mediums are important. Large companies are really no different than small governments. YouTube, for example, has more influence on world events than the government of pretty much any third world nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:29 AM
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Combine both. Once again, I'm going to bring up Jax Teller. Outlaw biker that loves his son. I know tons of women that love that character.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:10 AM
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Not for the kid, but the kid signals safety for her to talk to him. Icebreaker. Still have to close the deal, but that foot in the door helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:07 AM
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Hilarious. So many women have done exactly that. And are you saying puppies don't work? Because I have news for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:03 AM
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But they do sleep with you... Meaning me. Certainly not all of them, but being a good dad is one of the most notable positive attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:56 AM
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Mostly not. Unless you formally adopt them. Step parents have little in the way of rights or responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:41 AM
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But having been a single thirty year old with young children, they're right up there with puppies when you want to pick up twenty something's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:37 AM
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This right here. A woman not being logical. If what you want to look at naked women, a strip club makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:14 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:10 AM
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Highwayman is a classic. And no shit, my sister writes those books, in the very real books on the shelves at stores sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:00 AM
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No one is claiming otherwise. But here is a thread here every few days claiming that women really actually like the nice dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:46 AM
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A huge chunk of women do okay as single moms while working full time. You really do have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:54 AM
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If 80 percent of Americans were failing I think someone would have noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:50 AM
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Done that. He's right. I dealt with working and kids. So did my mom. So did my sister. It's not that hard. And in most cases, both parents work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:49 AM
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Full time immigrant nanny is 20-30 k.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:55 PM
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Kinda strange how the nearly everyone that works and had kids manages to survive working twenty for hour days. Because that's what you're claiming. 14 plus nine hours at work plus and hour commute, that's all the hours in a day. Or maybe kids aren't actually that much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:28 PM
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Competent and reasonable HR people don't create an impression. Just someone that handled some paperwork when you got your job. But bad hr people make in impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:56 AM
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What's different is the relative profit from doing dangerous stuff. Four hundred years ago being a privateer was a decent way to make a living. Only the most desperate dregs of society do that sort of thing today. Likewise, the lifestyle granted from working a regular job is pretty good these days vs back in the day. Sure you can risk your life, but you're doing it for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:53 AM
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I know you said perception, but I hope you're aware the world is much safer now than back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:42 AM
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Are you saying getting sick and or dying are unlikely? Because those are going to happen. It's like life insurance, 100% going to pay out, eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:35 AM
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I don't think you need anything beyond the demographics to explain it. To be an MLM victim/mark/whatever you need to have money, not have a good career, and have free time. That's housewives. Unemployed men don't have money to get scammed out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 12:07 AM
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Probably a sociopath. It's really not a problem. Surrounded by people who love and adore me, relationships and sex are easy. I'm pretty happy, and key to that was finding a career that didn't leave me so bored as to make being a bum seem like a decent alternative choice. So I assume other people might consider being a bad person to be a flaw, but I don't see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:35 AM
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I know that. But the people the op is referring to don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:07 AM
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Because that's not what men do. There's no team men. I can't tell you why, but that is the state of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:57 AM
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The solution is you using the tool instead of letting the tool use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:53 AM
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A fear being justified doesn't make it not a fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:51 AM
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A bunch of times, women in my extended social circle have been bailed out by their peers when they couldn't make their rent. For dudes, the only people that give that sort of help are parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:40 AM
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Women don't have to realize that, because people do care. And lots of guys die. All those on the job deaths? That's guys dying while trying to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:37 AM
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You're a bad parent if you don't. "Welcome to the real world kid." I've certainly known college kids that were useless jellyfish, couldn't do laundry or feed themselves. But my kids have been taking their turn at coming the family dinner since middle School. And they do their own laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:32 AM
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It's 5'11" these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:09 AM
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Back when OKC was an independent, completely free app run by a science nerd, they had a blog article explaining why paid OLD is terrible. The gist being that business success for the site has an inverse relationship with the dating success of its subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:03 AM
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That was such a great movie. And very original book ending clockwork orange. I always felt it got sold short as just a movie about Asian kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:39 AM
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The op isn't really talking about smart in the intelligence sense, but smart as in "makes smart choices", meaning safe choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:22 AM
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A society composed entirely of inhibited types would be conquered or destroyed in short order.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:16 AM
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It's pretty clear that in this context smart doesn't mean intelligent, it means cowardly. Or to more completely translate, the op is referring to guys that are: Cowardly, killjoys, cowardly some more, lacking personality, follow all the rules and insist everyone else do so as well. This is the description of a guy that if you remember him at all, it's a memory of mild annoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:07 AM
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So this is what the female equivalent of a mgtow sounds like? I'm getting that vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:41 AM
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This is the gayest thing I've ever heard. Kinda like how anti male extremist feminists and whacko religious conservatives meet up somewhere on the opposite side of the circle from reasonable centrists. Super gay and super macho have more in common with each other than regular dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:30 AM
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I didn't say that. What do you think hetero means?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:08 AM
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I don't get it either. Common feminist trope that caring about your partner and putting effort into making them happy is wrong when it's the woman effecting the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:28 AM
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I think it's important to note that the total number of orgasms is highest among gay men and lowest among lesbians. Getting that O is much less important when your have all the sex the could possibly desire. Which offers an alternative explanation for the hetero stats: men get off every time because sex is something special, women don't because they are offered way more sex than they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:22 AM
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Shared finances? Children? Literally all the things in a relationship other than living under the same roof? Or are you weirdly close to your roommates? For me a roommate is someone that won't even know my schedule for the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:57 AM
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Can you try reading the exact same CMV from a couple days ago? No one whining about not getting laid on the internet is going to accept this solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:48 AM
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I don't get you. No one is claiming league is universal and immutable. It's just on average, mostly, in general, etc. I'm sure someone thinks Steve buscemi is more attractive than Jason Momoa, but not most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:43 AM
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Average guy isn't a guy that takes care of himself. That's above average fitness. Same is true for women. But fitness doesn't mean the same thing for women and men. Face matters more for men. Muscle matters. Status matters. And strongfat is better than just plain skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:35 AM
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OMFG the average woman is fat. Seventy percent. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:25 AM
1

And? I responded to the claim that's it's illegal in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:22 AM
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Not according to the dictionary, or common use. I'm almost certainly smarter than you. Makes me confident I'm right. That's an arrogant statement. The fact that I got only two answers wrong on my SATs doesn't make it not arrogant. Only an arrogant dick would say something like that, regardless of how smart they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:18 AM
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They do pair up with each other. You're just blind. And you claimed 3s aren't fat. You live in an imaginary world if you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:07 AM
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And? Your whole deal on this thread seems seems to be nitpicking little details. No one is saying there is any immutable status rating branded on anyone's forehead. But you can still figure out more or less how attractive someone is. Sure it can change. Sure, different people are into different things. But that doesn't change anything. Not being able to differentiate a five from a six doesn't mean you can't tell a 2 from a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:03 AM
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Lower tier women are on dating apps. If you think they aren't, you're not looking. Now, it's true that when it comes to casual sex women can easily get much more attractive men. So I'm not saying they're available to lower tier men, but they're certainly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:31 AM
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5/10 women are typically fat, but not obese. Statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:15 AM
1

What do think this discussion is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:21 AM
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It means not boring. It is very hard to quantify, but it's important. Fun people are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:14 AM
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Describing how you increase your attractiveness, by exhibiting behaviors that make you more attractive, doesn't mean leagues don't exist. That's just you describing how to improve your standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:15 AM
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Naw. 3/10 guys are holding out for girls who aren't fat, and literally every 3/10 girl is obese. ...but as a dude, you can be 3/10 without being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:10 AM
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Are you seriously pushing the idea that there there aren't more attractive people and less attractive people? What can I say to such a ridiculous idea? It's not about being socially demoted. Attractiveness is a thing. Most people, most of the time, end up with someone that is of similar attractiveness. I have two sisters. One is a fat loser, the other has her shit together and is fairly attractive. Which do you think is partnered with the fat jackass, and which is with the hard working in shape …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:02 AM
1

If you act arrogant, actually being better than other people doesn't make you not arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:18 AM
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confused
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:14 AM
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Trafficking, in the US, is way more common in the elder care industry. Yet no is trying to outlaw assisted living facilities. And trafficking isn't what the scaremonger types make it out to be. They're in the same situation as computer programmers from India. They're not slaves, not held captive, just coerced to work via threat of deportation. Sure, some kidnapping, sex slavery, etc also happens. And some trafficking includes those crimes as well, but the vast majority are victims of the immigra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:13 AM
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You're more likely to die in a car crash on the way to your hooker. If you're not an idiot chances of getting caught in a sting are incredibly low. Everyone I knew growing up smoked pot, it was way more illegal than hookers, and I don't know anyone with a pot arrest. Though I assume you would use pot either. But among normal working class dudes, pot was universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:01 AM
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Involuntary celibacy means they can't get sex, from a hot girl, that isn't a slut, who is really into them, not just their money, with near zero effort. And probably needs to like the same movies and video games. She definitely needs to be a cool girl that treats him with respect and deference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:37 PM
1

German and dutch prices that I've seen in documentaries are about the same as the prices I see in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:17 PM
3

I'm pretty sure that's cheaper per instance than the an average middle class marriage. A couple hundred every two weeks isn't that hard to find, particularly if you don't have a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:15 PM
2

Just going to point out that every guy I know who admits to paying also has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:12 PM
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Incel types have impossible standards and are giant pussies. So not going to help. Hookers are great as a solution to exactly the sort of sexless man that won't whine on the internet. Every time this comes up, legality is a big issue. Yet prostitution is legal in a lot of places, and even when it's not, getting in trouble for it is super rare. I know a bunch of low key kinda prostitute women, and a bunch of dudes that how such. Amongst my friends and colleagues, every single one that hires pros …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:07 PM
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No. Federally legal, and legal at the state level in Nevada. About a third of the US population is close enough to Nevada for this to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 11:00 PM
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They're pursuing 20 year olds, but not getting them. Messaging data from OKC says that nearly all men, regardless of age, message women from their age all the way down to 18. Women message men close in age. So those guys are sending messages to young women, and those women are not replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:54 PM
1

You didn't. More than one definition. In the dictionary. Can be exaggerated or not. Displayed or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:03 AM
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Or actually be tough, mentally speaking. Then it's not faking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:58 AM
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I'm not monogamous, and one of my collared submissives explicitly told me that her feelings towards me were contingent on me being strong and capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:56 AM
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Overall, every society has had a big surge in population after infant mortality dropped from traditional historic levels. Then a couple generations later the birthrate plummeted. This second part is already starting to happen in the third world. So it looks like this is a problem that's correcting itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:21 AM
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That's a magnificent text wall straw man. No one said men don't age. Youth is simply a larger factor in women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:50 AM
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Legal age of consent up to about sixty. I've recently dated women ranging from 23 to 49. I'm 40. And I don't have an ideal age. I care who people are, not how old or what they look like. Also. I've noticed age only has a loose correlation with maturity. The least mature partner I ever had was 41, when I was 29. The most mature was 25 when we met. Also my only partner that has a graduate degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:46 AM
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Of course not. My lifestyle is already weirder than that. And I'm out. And my coworkers have met my multiple partners. But I'm blue collar, so I don't need to give any fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:36 AM
1

Or just working man type jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:32 AM
1

I have tons of high quality conversations with my children. My fifteen year old son and I have more media and games in common than I have with any of my girlfriends. My kids also come to events
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:15 AM
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Read a history book. You're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:25 AM
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Fiction. Made up. Not based in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:22 AM
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No. Look it up. Or take a theology class. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:21 AM
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I didn't say it did. I just said Maslow is outdated nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:20 AM
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You're ignoring married with a mistress, which has been the norm throughout the rise of Western Civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:14 AM
1

This only exists in your head. Not of these things are happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:10 AM
1

So when was the last time you saw a bunch of Christians proclaiming the vileness of a wife sucking off her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:06 AM
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I'm going to bet every actual king has at some point mentioned being king. Folksy sayings are pretty much always bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:23 AM
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Maslow is right up there with Freud. Outdated, and with only a loose connection with what actual science tells us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:16 AM
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Assholes don't give any fucks about her. Creeps care. That's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:44 AM
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