couldnotd3cide Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting? She ghosts you then suggests dinner at a pricey location. Bruh you, yourself already know what she’s after and that her primary fell off. Settle for being her plan C or keep it moving for girls that won’t flake when they see someone else they want.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 12:46 AM
35	Should I leave it alone with her having the last text here, or reaffirm that my position won't be moving and she can come to me? I really do think she genuinely wanted to hang with me What is your question? You already told her you were only interested in dating. She acknowledged and isn’t interested. Why do you feel the need to state the same thing again after she said no? Just comes off as desperate. Don’t do it, it ended well with two people not interested in the same thing, let it be.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 07:40 PM
1	Coworker trying to steal girl that likes me, and how to deal with it? Why do you give a damn all of a sudden? Put that ego down boy. She clearly doesn’t like you if she treats you like you’re pestering her. Also, he’s not stealing a thing if you and her had nothing to begin with, which it seems like you didn’t.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:57 PM
1	'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not. Why are you asking someone else to tell you what YOU should be okay with? It’s pretty obvious that you’re not okay with it. You’re either going to tolerate it or not.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:29 PM
2	This girl I'm dating asked me about how my last long term relationship ended. How do I respond? You should be more concerned with your desire to lie over such meager things. That’s going to get you left and called a loser far more often than being honest. Also, should you get into a long term relationship with her. What exactly is your plan going to be when she realizes you have 0 dating experience? Don’t dig yourself a hole man. She’s banging you, she doesn’t think you’re a loser nor will she over your past.	/r/seduction	29/07/22 10:05 PM
0	What does it mean when a girl says she likes men with an attitude? A better question is: Why are you looking to act like someone you clearly aren’t all for one girl? It’s coming off as cringe and desperate. What makes her so important that you are willing to try to fake being a totally different guy just to get her attention? Also, if she knows you and sees you’re just acting differently after she told you what she likes…how do you think she’ll view that?	/r/seduction	28/07/22 09:30 AM
1	I labeled someone as a sexual abuser when it wasn’t the case Just because there’s a culture of pushy guys doesn’t change the fact that a lot of it teeters on sexual harassment. Did you tell this man “no” at any point while moving his hands away? Before by chance? No excuse for a dude to keep going like that.	/r/MensRights	27/07/22 05:04 PM
2	She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?” Ask her what time it’s taking place so that you can know	/r/seduction	25/07/22 06:29 PM
1	Have any of you ever had strong feelings for a fat girl(not curvy fat just plain)? What would you tell a guy who caught feelings for one? If she doesn’t meet the required criteria….suck it down and keep going. If her looks are something you can get passed, ask her out.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 05:20 PM
1	pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety? Take cold showers, get comfortable being uncomfortable. Girls are nothing special, just people. You need to experience rejection, dozens of times if necessary to learn that it ultimately doesn’t change or affect you in any significant way.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 09:14 PM
1	Does it mean anything if a girl asks you why you get nervous and if you have a gf? Bro you’re her girl now 😂 she just letting you know that it’s not your personal “bubble” anymore, when she pulled in closer again she said “this our space now”.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 03:59 PM
3	How conventionally attractive are you? I appreciate the advice man. Started with “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and have been steadily running down books regarding socialization, boundaries, dealing with emotional hurdles. You have any recommendations?	/r/seduction	21/07/22 09:07 PM
1	I need some DM/Conversation advice. 1.5 hours if you both plan a halfway point weekend. You can go on a few dates in a new area and plow her into next year for a few nights.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 06:22 PM
9	How conventionally attractive are you? I’m handsome to many I know that. People flock to me when I open up socially and the few times I’ve gone to bars I’ve definitely matched stares with good looking girls. But there are also girls who don’t look twice my way and I’m terrible at game so rarely do I make a move to secure women.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 06:04 PM
1	I don't know if this girl likes me? Girl that walks by my desk taps it twice always to get my attention because she’s secretly wants my babies. You and I have a special eye for hidden signals. Do you want to decipher Morse code together? OR….you could ask her out and stop trying to find signals…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 09:43 PM