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| 3 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglHow many times a week do I see a rage post from a man complaining about their dating life and then in the exact same post they say they never approach…. If I had a dollar. Yes. As a man. You are expected to approach first. The balls are between your legs. Period. You want a gym woman? Approach in the gym. Why even spend all that time in the gym building muscle if you’re gonna just be a scardy cat in the end. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 09:13 PM |
| 2 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amYou didn’t even message me. But no worries. No longer interested. Again, I can already see that you being still single in your mid 40s is clearly not bc of your fitness standards but other indications of your personality already lightly exhibited enough here.. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:30 PM |
| 7 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amUm ok lol . Ur issue might be more than your standards. Pics are no prob for me. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:59 AM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI’m the same way. Incredibly fit 27F. Will not date anyone unless they’re stacked like me. Feel free to DM only if you have Abs . I honestly Rather be single and sexy and die alone than settle | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:26 AM |
| 2 | What do I even make of her texting habits?You’re overthinking it Also “you down for drinks?” Will get shot down. Try - “ i’m free Thursday night at seven and was thinking about picking you up and taking you out to this place I like” There’s a lot of reasons why the second one is going to work and the first one isn’t. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 02:17 PM |
| 5 | What do I even make of her texting habits?As a woman, it pains and annoys me endlessly when men constantly text me just for checking in or making useless conversation. I am busy, I work. I have friends, family, home life to attend to as far as chores and personal admin tasks and hobbies. If you wanna see me and talk to me then text me to make those plans and I’ll happily respond and give you all of my time and attention when we’re together. Men who text without plans are just like an annoying fly whizzing by your head every few hours. E… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sa grown man relying on pay to play, greedy apps that have openly admitted to getting as much money out of desperate men as possible, and then complaining about how you’re unsuccessful in dating …. Have you tried- going outside? | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 10:13 PM |
| -6 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.this is dumb. As a woman, it doesn’t matter what you say - I’m not coming over until numerous dates have passed and I’ve made up in my head that I’m pursuing you as a long term partner. I can see this working for casual dating with floosys though | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 12:48 PM |
| 0 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?As a woman, for me, I won’t even flirt with a guy unless he’s clearly huge & muscular. I also swipe left on all profiles unless there’s a shirtless pic. I will even go as far as to say everything else (personality, skills etc) don’t matter at all compared to career + huge muscles. But I also pretty much live in the gym and diet and have abs myself. But I know plenty of girls who like lean guys skinny guys and even dad bod and what they describe as “meaty men” … Hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 09:44 AM |
| -2 | It’s Actually Pretty Easy To Get GirlsWhat effort? Working out, having a car, and having a job . Sheesh . The bar is in hell. | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 6 | It’s Actually Pretty Easy To Get GirlsAs a woman, I absolutely will not date you unless you have muscles , can come pick me up for the date in your car, and you have a stable career where I can envision building a family with you sorry but I really could care less about your “emotional engagement” or your personality. The ability to lead def “keeps” the relationship but as far as initial check box to get the engine going - that’s not it. Don’t know if I’m an outlier on that but I do go to the gym six days a week and have spent most … | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?You’re dumb if you think women have it easier. I can get all dolled up and go out 5 nights of the week spending hundreds on make up outfits skincare and fitness routines and countless hours getting ready and getting there and the scardey cat men hide in their groups of friends with their fruity cocktails and don’t approach 4/5 times. And the ones who do approach 1/5 times typically aren’t attractive, aren’t working, don’t have a car, aren’t physically fit, or live with their parents or all of th… | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundDon’t know what to tell you, good luck | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundWell, you just said in your other comments that women have asked you out before so I don’t even know why you feel the need to tell me about all the dates you wanna go on but can’t afford. Hun, if you can’t afford $100 date, you should not be trying to have a woman in your life. You should be trying to build yourself up so you can have and provide for a family. I’m also really not sure what the weather has anything to do with it . if that’s the climate that you live in then I would hope at your g… | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundI don’t decide that. A man asks for that | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundI consider it dating until he specifically asks me to be his girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundI just googled it and found a ton to do. Either make it work and move or stay miserable in your town. Good luck | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundYou’re reading it out of context. It appears this guy has never done anything but invite her over. No one said constant or forever. initially in the dating stage you should absolutely have a plan other than come over. That’s just decency | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundYou’d hopefully have hobbies, studies, & your own interesting life that you can introduce her to. If not, you shouldn’t be dating. You should be building yourself up, AND your own sake not just to woo a girl. Also There’s plenty to do. Everyone’s got the internet don’t know why a simple google search for ideas wouldn’t help you. A man who can lead somehow manages to know that. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundDating isn’t a relationship. If we’re dating then no I’m not coming over, we’re going on dates. If we’re in a relationship, it’s whatever from there. Also He’s not dating her. He’s begging her to come over to fuck. & She’s not sticking around to know him, obviously. Read. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundIt’s not a stable relationship. CLEARLY they’re not even in a relationship. He’s still in the courting phase, if that. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundWho said anything about fancy shit? It’s not about “where” he takes me it’s about the fact that he has the ability to be thoughtful and lead in general . He can take me to an ice cream shop for all I care. But have a plan and be able to lead. Show me you can be a life partner. Clearly- This guy just wants her to come over and fuck. He even said they did it a few times already. That’s boring, that gets old, she can get that anywhere. That demonstrates to a woman that you aren’t even serious. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundWhy would u suggest he go onto unknowingly continue to be a bad lover .. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around“Can u be honest with me: what do you think about our sex? I just wanna know for myself, and if I need to improve on anything in my future, or if i need an extender.. Thanks for any insight you can give me.” | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundIt could also be that the sex was bad or your dick was small and she doesn’t wanna tell you so she rather tell you she’s always busy until you give up & get the hint . I’ve done this with guys before because I would hate to crush their spirit. You may want to ask . Tell her you HONESTLY need to know so you can know if you need to improve. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundThe fact that you had to ask what’s a fun activity is definitely why she’s not interested anymore. Just saying… Indoor mini golf Gaming arcade Paint and sip Cigar Lounge DIY studios/ pottery types Dave & Busters Hot yoga + bubble tea Shooting darts at a bar Bike riding (day or night) Escape the room live Theatre or a movie Spa day , couples massages Trivia night at a brewery Roller skating Burlesque shows Board game cafes Shooting range Museums if you’re into that kind of thing Opera show Ballet… | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:14 AM |
| 7 | Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way aroundAs a woman, a man telling me to come over is gonna be a no every time. How about you invite her out on a nice date doing something actually fun (not dinner) and pick her up in your car and show her a good time? Why would she come over, Come over for what? She probably has her own couch. Of course she’s gonna have way more fun going out and doing her hobbies than sitting in a room with you. She doesn’t actually have no free time at alll and all those plans. You’re just not offering her anything w… | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Real talk… what actually makes you stop on someone's profile ? (especially want to hear from girls)26 F NYC here Clear direct shot of a smiling face. So many profiles where the dude is turned to the side in all the photos or wearing hat or sunglasses and sometimes even a mask in 2025 (really, your best picture of you is with your face mostly or partially covered ?) the smile is also important; mean mugging in every single picture comes off a little lame. muscles. For me No muscles - no entry. Even better if it’s a Shirtless shot and he’s loaded with muscles. This always gets an auto swipe rig… | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a dateThey don’t wanna hear the truth. They wanna hear that mommy is gonna hold their hand. I’m getting down voted because I’m a woman who wants to be treated like a woman but the moment a woman starts being independent and taking the lead suddenly she’s a lonely cat lady and this and that. I’m really convinced in this society that men don’t like women just wanna be with men. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 05:44 PM |
| 5 | It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a dateDoesn’t matter what they’re called, guaranteed they’re getting the girls. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 01:53 PM |
| -16 | It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a dateThis . So much this. As a woman. I completely agree with this. The moment he asks me what I wanna do, huge turn off. You, as a man, should be a leader. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 01:07 PM |
| 3 | How often do bar hookups happens?This thread is so odd. As a woman, my friends and I are getting laid every time.. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 03:30 PM |
| 5 | lol I asked ChatGPT to give a plan on meeting women. It gave me this...It Literally just suggested that you live a regular life. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Approaching at the gymI’m really not even mad at you about that. It’s across the street from my apartment so it’s just a no brainer for me but I’m totally aware of the implication | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Approaching at the gymMy video on how to approach women at the gym https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFrZnFyRLTX/?igsh=MTFxNmU4bHFxbXBuaw== | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:23 AM |
| 8 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?If I wanted a man to approach me at a bar, I would hope that he would walk up to me and ask me if I wanted a drink. Proceed to buy me the drink and let the bartender hand it to me directly. You now have the entire time while I’m drinking this drink to charm me. If I think he’s ugly, I might say straight up that I’ve already had too much to drink or that I’m not interested. ( I would be cautious with this though, because there are some terrible women out there who aren’t interested but still will… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 07:44 PM |
| 11 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?As a woman in NYC. I actually rarely go with a group. I go to clubs, lounges, bars, out of country trips, and festivals alone. You gotta probably force me to go with a group. I always have way more fun alone and in my limited experience going with a group, you’re always having to look out for the other girls or follow them to the bathroom and stay out or go home when they elect to. Also My friends all like video games or anime and laying around on the couch so getting them to go out is annoying.… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:55 PM |
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