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It's complicated, but the short answer is that an attractive man with status and stability will have better success with women.
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:52 AM
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Go hang out with her and fuck her. "We're not going to have sex." "It just happened." 'happens all of the time.
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:51 AM
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"The Game."
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:34 AM
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I doubt it Man. Good luck to you though.
/r/seduction27/07/25 02:21 AM
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I think that what one can learn from Tyler is becoming more good at being social; that seems to be his main takeaway message. I remember a couple of field report type of videos of Tyler where he talks to a girl endlessly and is very charming but in the end, doesn't get her. Now, Tyler is rocking that huge beard and fat gut, seemingly trying to prove that one doesn't have to be good looking. Looks certainly matter in my opinion. But, who am I? I am someone who has been average looking....later lo…
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:56 AM
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I haven’t been yet; I live in Pattaya. But all have told me that dating there is on “easy mode!”
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:13 AM
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Way to go Man!
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:57 AM
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...when I was young, yes. Now, I like the young ones.
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:37 PM
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PUA stuff really works well. I was 50 in NYC and did well. Read everything that you can get your hands on and tailor it to match your individual style; sort of crafting an avatar. Have an absolutely delusional level of confidence and you're all set.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:08 PM
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At 50, I did pretty well in NYC. I'm 64 now; I prefer girls in their 30's; they seem to like me too. Have fun.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:01 PM
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False time constraint: "Sorry, I must run; but can we keep talking?
/r/seduction23/04/25 04:46 PM
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Yes, it's preselection.
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:49 PM
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Don't overdo it. I have a big cross that I sometimes wear or a jade necklace. Remember that the purpose is to give the girl a chance to talk; she can tell you that she likes it; thinks it's cool or whatever. Good luck.
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:07 AM
-4

Good question Man! Thanks!
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:47 AM
-7

Perhaps you are not the right person to give advise on this. Thanks though.
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:19 AM
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Maybe.....
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:11 AM
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'did my best to help the young man. Take care and thank you.
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:50 AM
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I actually think that experimenting with nonsexual touching would be good for this guy. Sorry that you don’t agree. But please be well.
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:29 PM
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CK1
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:30 AM
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I’m pretty good at doing nonsexual touching that isn’t creepy. But I don’t know how to explain it to you. Experiment with it.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:12 AM
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You must talk to her in a way that makes her feel like she’d be lucky to be with you.
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:03 AM
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This year and forward.
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:51 AM
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Pattaya
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:48 PM
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I really appreciate your knowledgeable reply. I will continue to put myself first to continue to attract her.
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:21 PM
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Thank you for your time in writing this thoughtful reply. I appreciate it!
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:18 PM
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You are the prize Man! Not her! Chin up...
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:10 PM
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I have three degrees in music so I feel compelled to say that you will get a lot of action within the department if you are considered a great player/composer. Lots of social proof will be gained by women seeing your fellow students ask you for advice or want to go to one of your concerts or performances that you participate in. I had very little trouble with women while studying; it was later out in the real world that I felt the need to learn game and be able to pick up non musical women. I re…
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:08 PM
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Headphones are a deterrent everywhere. They make it more difficult to chat someone up. Try to get some eye contact, they start a convo.
/r/seduction14/11/13 03:18 PM
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It's very funny; the protagonist is the co-creator of "The Office."
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 05:39 PM
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http://www.imdb.com/news/ni20665867/
/r/seduction08/01/12 06:23 PM
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Also, I do have friends w benefits currently so it is not a matter of neediness.
/r/seduction12/06/11 11:24 PM
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I recently picked up a beautiful tourist in a bar in Manhattan. I used all of my best PU material and it all worked like charms. During pillowtalk I asked her when she realized that she was attracted to me and she replied that it was immediate and that I didn't need to say anything. I think her reply was BS (she backward rationalized) and that she didn't realize the PU stuff had worked on her.
/r/seduction12/06/11 01:48 PM
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Cory Skye has some 10 and 20 minute affirmations that build a person up etc. The content is mostly geared toward making the listener feel like "the prize."
/r/seduction12/06/11 01:05 PM
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Charlie Harper
/r/seduction23/04/11 03:59 PM
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Sounds like a proximity approach invitation. What does everyone else think?
/r/seduction30/03/11 07:33 PM
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Sounds like a proximity approach invitation. What does everyone else think?
/r/seduction30/03/11 07:29 PM
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http://www.scribd.com/search?query=nlp
/r/seduction01/03/11 01:32 AM
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In my opinion, the problem with this FR is that she is picking apart his game as if he was a potential suitor. Wasn't he a nice guy friend? That's why the FR is not so interesting; he perhaps is not "trying" to game her. I'd certainly be interested in hearing this intelligent woman's opinion on a guy's game who was indeed trying to get in her panties. By her own admission, she didn't feel hot for him. He knows that. He can feel it. Even your dog knows if you like him or not. I don't condone this…
/r/seduction28/02/11 12:46 PM
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Amen Dog!
/r/seduction24/02/11 05:18 AM
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Beta!
/r/seduction12/02/11 10:22 PM
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did I mention that she was wearing a raspberry beret?
/r/seduction02/02/11 05:20 AM
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but you missed the point of the post. Take care!
/r/seduction01/02/11 10:33 PM
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I dig you guys! :)
/r/seduction01/02/11 10:29 PM
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You gotta be very playful. The negs that I use do not put the girl down but just show that I am not going to put her on a pedestal. e.g. (after shaking hands hello) "Oh, your hands are cold!" "or wet" "Hey, you've got something on your _____." Once at a strip club, I told the girl that she had something on her tit. 'just show that you are not that impressed to meet her.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:10 AM
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'look forward to reading more of your posts. Best of luck! Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 01:13 PM
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I also hate it when the chick offers to pay. To me, it means that she didn't like me. But I don't think it actually always means that. That could be one of my own sticking points..... hummm
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:38 AM
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Shitty date? No big deal. Did you fail? Only you can decide that and you know that there are no failures but only learning experiences. Take what you learned and move forward. Next her!
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:37 AM
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This has worked for me as a way of not looking needy. It works well via email: Offer a date: She: When is good for you? Me: Let's go have drinks on Wednesday. If that doesn't work for you, let me know when does and I'll check my schedule to see if I can do it. Of course, presto! I'll be free to meet her! But this way I don't say that I'm free for you any night this week.
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:33 AM
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I was listening to pick up podcast one day and one of the guys told of a Tony Robbins tape that he had heard where Tony told of a "cape walk." That is: Walk as if you are wearing a cape. (like superman) I do it and have had girlfriends tell me they like my body language. Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:27 AM
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Yes, but him using his own material is a lot different than me using it. My point is that he can get away with so much with his idol good looking face and accent. (I'm 15 years older and more average)
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:24 AM
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Style says that whatever physical thing you can't fix, you feature. I don't know how that applies to you but I've know men who were not perfect physically who do very well with women. Cover the other bases. These people who I know are very accomplished; they deserve the women who admire them. Other men look up to them. Even though they are shorter or whatnot. Best of luck, Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:19 AM
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Style says that whatever physical thing you can't fix, you feature. I don't know how that applies to you but I've known men who were not perfect physically who do very well with women. Cover the other bases. These people who I know are very accomplished; they deserve the women who admire them. Other men look up to them. Even though they are shorter or whatnot. Best of luck, Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:19 AM
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Stlye says that whatever physical thing you can't fix, you feature. I don't know how that applies to you but I've know men who were not perfect physically who do very well with women. Cover the other bases. These people who I know are very accomplished; they deserve the women who admire them. Other men look up to them. Even though they are shorter or whatnot. Best of luck, Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:18 AM
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No offense but if you are not trying to game the woman....What's the point? well, I can only give you advice that will help your game. Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:13 AM
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Would be hard to calibrate.
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:10 AM
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Tonight I met a Broadway dancer on the A train heading downtown from 181st street. I saw her on the platform but didn't speak to her or give her any attention. She on the same train as me and sat by me. (she had various choices) After a couple of minutes, I turned only slightly and asked, "Say, if you were going to the east side in the 50's, how would you try to get there?" She agreed that getting to the east side was a pain in the ass and was forthcoming in continuing the conversation. That is …
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:05 AM
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normally action would begin after the 3way scene.
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:54 AM
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'haven't tried it for a while, but I used to get laid while showing the movie, "Wild Things" at my apartment in Manhattan.
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:54 AM
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Thou shalt not take dating advice from women!
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:52 AM
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I live in Manhattan. Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:45 AM
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I dig it narett. I'm in a similar position. I'm getting a lot of numbers and meeting women around town. I end up hanging with some cute girls who I don't care for that much romantically. I have cut a couple loose but kept a Brazilian who loves to fuck a lot. Strange thing: Because I often can get numbers, I fucked it up last week with a girl who I met on the subway platform who I really felt I could have something serious with. I failed to deploy and didn't even get her digits. Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:42 AM
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The game at the gym can work but it has to be done differently. Imagine this: Before a class you are stretching next to your target. If she will make eye contact, say something like, "Wow, I'm a little tired today." Judge her interest level. She might reply that she's tired too or if her interest level is high, she might ask why you are tired. If she says that she's tired too, ask her why she's so tired. "Heavy date last night?" (maybe not - calibrate; discern) etc.... Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:28 AM
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Great post but you are not a natural. You learned how to play the game. It is my understanding that naturals do it without having to learn it. That is why we call them naturals. I've heard Style incorrectly described as a natural. By his own admission, he was not and had to study diligently as you did to improve your game with women. Please don't take this as a put down. Exactly the opposite: Kudos to you, Drew! Dupree
/r/seduction29/01/11 05:17 AM
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I've seen a lot of his vids. He's one of the best. But one thing that makes him less impressive is that he is rockstar handsome. e.g. Neil is impressive and you can be certain that his techniques work because he isn't particularly good looking in a traditional sense.
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:09 AM
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She's not interested. Girls don't like to directly tell you that they are not interested. You made some sort of mistake. You turned her off. I've done similar crap myself. What they do is just not return your calls or not answer their phone. I've had girls give me their number; act interested....but just never return calls or not answer their phone.
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:52 PM
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Feelings of friendship? -can relate and bond intellectually? Feelings of romance? - can relate and bond emotionally? Great sex? Explore but try to be very clear and honest with each other. I like that you didn't cheat and have sex with him when you had the chance.
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:31 PM
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You have a great job/career with fantastic potential for professional growth. No further explanation needed to a woman. If she doesn't get it, that's a good screen.
/r/seduction25/01/11 08:39 PM
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Perhaps she saved you a lot of time and heartache.
/r/seduction21/01/11 07:44 AM
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let her see you talking to the prettiest girl at the party.
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:22 PM
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Don't make it seem that you are ignoring her. e.g. Say hello but don't linger. Act unaffected by seeing her. But do try to avoid contact with her in the future.
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:21 PM
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Don't make it seem that you are ignoring her. e.g. Say hello but don't linger. Act unaffected by seeing her. But do try to avoid contact with her in the future.
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:20 PM
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sometimes her very presence speaking with you when she could have moved on and/or left. Take it as an indicator of interest. IOI Does she ask for your name? Does she ask you questions? Does she respond to your open ended questions? Will she respond to your compliance tests? e.g. move to another part of the bar? or to another venue?
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:27 AM
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Pop into some venues where they all know your name.
/r/seduction20/01/11 01:04 AM
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I got some info that can be helpful. Email me. Remember that the game is played in field and not on the computer. It is won (of course never really won) using a combination of abundance and scarcity. Fake abundance as if you have a lot of dates and as for scarcity, don't allow yourself to be too available. That's enough for now. I was in Shanghai a couple of years ago; great time! Cousindupree1 at g mail dot com
/r/seduction20/01/11 01:03 AM
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Only once in the last three years did I get accused of using a pu line. I was likely in-congruent.
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:31 PM
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'just a guess.
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:24 PM
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Hard to say.... Maybe should have called her the next day. I had a girl get really bugged once when I didn't.
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:23 PM
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Only lukewarm? Why settle? Go for what you truely want! You are the man!
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:20 PM
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Good idea. Actually lately I've been using my camera as a transitional subject. (I just got a really nice camera) After I open I transition to, "So, do you know anything about photography?" Whether she does or not, it make for some pretty good conversation.
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:14 PM
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High risk but high reward. Love it! Takes balls!
/r/seduction19/01/11 02:32 AM
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You could perhaps work on developing a more commanding voice; launch into a story (w an authoritative tone) about something that happened recently. Expect your friends to take notice and listen and they will. Lead people and they will follow. Best of luck!
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:49 PM
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'just to add to the good comments you have already received: Make an attempt to discern between the Asian countries. Japanese are quite different from the other Asian races. Some research can help with this. Koreans do have a reputation for staying with their own race because of pressure from their families. This of course, is not always true. American born Chinese (ABC) are great because the speak perfect English but have their country's beautiful physical characteristics.
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:44 PM
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come back with a clever humorous response or don't react at all. I know how you feel. Good friends sometimes give each other shit all of time. That's actually how you know you are quite good friends. The problem is that with the ladies present, it make a person feel less alpha.
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:34 PM
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I went thru an asian phase too. Hint: Don't ever let them know that you are looking for an asian girlfriend as it'll seem creepy.
/r/seduction17/01/11 07:13 PM
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Charlie Harper
/r/seduction17/01/11 07:09 PM
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Wild Things - got me action more than once...
/r/seduction17/01/11 07:06 PM
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I don't like the online thing. IMO, only in person, can one discern how much chemistry there is with another person. I tried it an wasted a lot of time with going nowhere dates. On the other hand, I could be wrong :)
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:25 PM
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I get what you're saying. "closing anxiety" describes it very well. Thanks!
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:21 PM
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I was pretty good with women when I was younger but only had social circle game. After getting divorced, I wanted to learn how to meet girls and improve my social life in general so I turned to the community. It's been amazing for me. -Dr. Dupree
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:20 PM
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Yes. I met a girl last week and when she offered me her hand, I held it instead of just shaking it; she did not pull her hand back. Within 15 minutes, we were enjoying happy hour together at my favorite bar in the Village.
/r/seduction14/01/11 05:09 PM
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I was a cute guy when I was younger but had no game at all. I got laid via having social proof in my social circle but if I went out and no one knew me I couldn't pull anything. Now I'm 50 and a lot less cute. (smile!) I am able to attract a lot more women than when I was 20 years younger; because of these techniques. Dr. Dupree
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:50 AM
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Meet new girls.
/r/seduction13/01/11 12:44 PM
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Forget about her and move on.
/r/seduction13/01/11 12:41 PM
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There is definitely something to this.... It's a conundrum. I've been blown off and ignored by women who I thought should have felt lucky to get me. That attitude could be the answer to the problem. Hummm....
/r/seduction12/01/11 03:05 PM
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<<<are just horny and want to be fucked>>> A man will fuck a chick purely because she is good looking but when ig.n the reverse situation, a women will not entirely base her decision based on looks. e.g. If a smoking hot chick came up to me and asked me to take her home immediately and fuck her, I of course would do it. Even a good looking guy has to have somewhat of a game plan.
/r/seduction12/01/11 02:59 PM
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Ha! I used to teach at a small college but at the time was married. I understand. Thanks for your post.
/r/seduction12/01/11 04:27 AM
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"meeting some friends at ______; join?
/r/seduction10/01/11 01:45 PM
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No offense, but it does sound a little like one-itis. I get that too and always have to check myself for it. Best, Dr. Dupree
/r/seduction10/01/11 01:42 PM
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I never do well sober. But a lot of uncalibrated behavior happens when I get too drunk. Grey area.... Some Mpua's say that one should not drink.
/r/seduction10/01/11 05:23 AM
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Good work! Good FR except for bringing up the BF of course. Never ever comment when a girl brings up a BF. Never!
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:10 PM
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Take it easy now. He is just trying to express that one must be willing to walk away.
/r/seduction07/01/11 09:54 PM
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I'm 50 and back in the dating scene in Manhattan. My situation might be a little different; although probably only slightly. Being only 36...unless you look a lot older than 36 then roughly 10 years is the perfect difference for a man and woman. When I was in my thirties, I was with a dancer who was 10 years younger. It was never awkwark. What I am saying is that I believe it a mistake to ever address any age difference. Being 50 now, I don't go for girls who are in their early 20's but women in…
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:45 AM
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I recently met a girl in a jazz bar in Manhattan and had attraction. She took out her lip pencil and started to apply it; I took it from her and started doing it for her while holding the back of her neck and making eye contact. (eyes going back and forth between her lips and her eyes) I told her that she was thinking about kissing me. Stop it. This led to kissing a few minutes later.....
/r/seduction04/01/11 02:08 PM
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Thanks Wreckit! Be well, Dr. Dupree
/r/seduction03/01/11 06:40 AM
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I know a few short men who women love. They are very accomplished people in their chosen professions. When they walk into a room, you feel a very big presence. I actually don't view them as being short after getting to know them. I feel they are as tall as me or better. (I'm 6') I hope this helps the author of that thread. Dr. Dupree
/r/seduction30/12/10 01:06 PM
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It was not intended to be a field report on how I picked up a girl. I have used this as a way to extend a conversation.
/r/seduction28/11/10 05:22 AM
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Great post! Way to "man up!"
/r/seduction27/11/10 06:17 PM
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Have more scripted material in case the conversation doesn't flow well. Always be the one to take the lead in a conversation. Search this site: www.tsbmag.com/
/r/seduction27/11/10 05:59 PM
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When a girl tells me that she has a boyfriend, I always consider that a signal that she is interested in me. I know that it sounds counterintuitive. If she were talking to a homeless person, she would not throw that in; right? It's like if you get her to your apartment and she says, "We aren't going to have sex!" It means that the possibility is on the table.
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:32 PM
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