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| 19 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie? | OFF TOPIC | covfefeismydrug | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 11:44 PM |
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| 12 | I'm dealing with a Drunk Captain - ventI just want to say that I am a woman who reads a lot of MRP and have found your posts very helpful. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/20 04:11 PM |
| 7 | I think he's more attracted to 2d girls and naked twitter models than meTake it from a 35-year-old—I can promise you even without knowing you that this is a recipe for a lot of disappointment. I was totally in love with a guy who spent his time watching Girls Gone Wild (early 2000s, you had to still buy it unless you were tech-savvy). He was sorry, he was going to change, etc. I finally left him at 22, and found my future husband a year later. As for the ex, he dated another woman (who we both knew from high school) for years and years, never married her, and I foun… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | High Maintenance, but on a budgetI used dish soap at a particularly low point for my acne. It was so bad. I recommend that you stop using it right away; you’re stripping your skin and it’s producing oil in overdrive, which is why you’re breaking out again and again. If you’re in the US, get some differin gel asap. I can recommend products based on budget, but for me the ZO Skin Health products work the best for me. They’re expensive but they last forever. I use the cleanser, exfoliating scrub (only once a week) and their acne p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 9 | Happy Update on trying again with exhusbandI was wondering about you! I’ll keep rooting for you-it sounds like you’re making amazing changes in your life. I’m inspired!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 15 | Why would my boyfriend cheat on me with a much older woman?Also sounds like there may have been extremely differing religious beliefs to the point where she argued with his family, which can definitely cause problems. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Can marriage be saved after an abortion or am I foolish for sticking around?Totally normal! I’ve had mine for just over 2 years. The first three months were rough. I had the stabby pain and continual bleeding...then spotting during ovulation, which was new for me. After that, my period has continued to be heavier than normal...like, pretty dang heavy as in, bleeding through pants a couple of times before I was used to the volume, and cramps that were worse than I had before. It sounds like it’s all bad, but it’s totally doable. Make sure you have extra pads/tampons when… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/20 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Can marriage be saved after an abortion or am I foolish for sticking around?Get an iud. Go with copper if you don’t want hormones. I have it and the side effects are real (cramps/heave period) but worth it to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/20 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Should I accept?Is your Insta private? Or is your handle similar to your real name? I might consider locking it down for a few weeks just to be safe. If she’s the type to reach out on Insta even though you don’t have a large following/blog, she might be the type to search you on Facebook, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 46 | Should I accept?I have worked in media. DO NOT do this. She’s really reaching by even contacting you since you’re not hustling a blog. That is not how real journalists behave. Doing the interview would almost guarantee you online harassment, if not in person as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 5 | How has “the wall” impacted your life/dating life?My sentiment remains. It’s not attractive guy behavior either and it takes unnecessary mental energy that you could use for good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How has “the wall” impacted your life/dating life?I totally get where you’re coming from here and have felt this kind of anger before, but I advise you to let go of that bad will toward others. My theory is attitude has a lot to do with hitting the “wall.” I mean this as respectfully as possible...Women who hold a grudge are not attractive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 12:14 AM |
| 26 | How has “the wall” impacted your life/dating life?The wall as it’s discussed among the younger women on this sub is a myth...or at the minimum extremely exaggerated. I am 35. I keep a healthy weight, wear stylish clothes, have a cheerful (mostly) attitude, and I still get a few glances from college students I work with. I don’t get approached like I did when I was 20, but I’m totally ok with that. Now, I get approached by 30-45 year-olds. That’s also ok. With age comes wisdom, (oftentimes) a more comfortable lifestyle/disposable income, and old… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 18 | Would it be poor etiquette to give the same gift to two people?Not at all. Your gifts sound thoughtful and if you think they’ll both enjoy the book, go for it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 05:18 AM |
| 3 | How a cleaning app made my husband feel more loved and less anxious.I downloaded the app. So good!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Where to buy quality lingerie?I was just looking at journelle for the first time yesterday. They have some beautiful bra/panty sets! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Where to buy quality lingerie?I’d love to have to AP....a girl can dream! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Where to buy quality lingerie?Do you do the VIP AdoreMe subscription? I love the AdoreMe stuff (and prices), but the company makes me nervous. I’ve heard a lot of horror stories on Reddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 42 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?I live in the rural midwest and felt self conscious about wearing a flannel skirt on Saturday. I did it though, because I wanted to and I like looking dressed up. Everyone around here is very casual, which is fine, too. I actually got two compliments out and about, though, and it encouraged me to be my own “trendsetter.” You do you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 12:31 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffIt’s not the same, but to give you a perspective I have a secret celebrity crush on a man who is the polar opposite of my husband. The celeb is blonde, small statured...my husband is the dark, mysterious type. I’m still attracted to my husband and I love him. I enjoy watching the shows with my celeb crush, but in real life I would never go for a guy like him. I prefer my husband any day of the week. I still wouldn’t like the Insta situation either (who would?), so I get it, but try not to let it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Book Series Recommendation: The Amy Vanderbilt Success Program for WomenThis is fantastic! I’m saving this post. Thank you! ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Picking up a new skill: CookingNot the op, but my faves right now are firecracker salmon, chicken pierre, and chicken cordon bleu. Those all seem complicated but they’re actually pretty easy! I also follow some dude named Chef John on there. He has a lot of good stuff. The reviews section is super helpful. Always check out the top positive and negative reviews. I have learned a ton from them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?I think of it as self-improvement. My husband doesn’t need my help, but I wanted an old-fashioned take on what that kind of support looks like. In my situation it’s not about pushing him. About a year ago he got a high-level job, so for me the curiosity about book is about me trying being the most supportive “soft place” for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you’re young and ugly?How long have you had the loose skin? Although it may not go away completely on its own you may see improvement as your body adjusts to your new weight. And, are you absolutely sure you’re not being too critical of yourself? I recommend checking out r/progresspics for some inspiration. There’s some posts from many people who have dealt with lose skin. I’ve read a lot of success stories from people incorporating weight training. It really depends on how much excess you’re working with. And, pleas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?That’s lucky! I’d love to know your thoughts on it! Would you mind to post something when you’ve had a chance to read it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?Maybe so. I am in an area with one, so I think I’ll give them a call tomorrow. Fingers crossed!! I live in a liberal area, so we’ll see-maybe it’s more likely someone didn’t want it! 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?Awesome resource! I didn’t know about it before. Unfortunately it looks like they don’t have it, but they have lots of other stuff. Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?I hadn’t considered ILL. I sent my library a request. I’ll let you know how it goes. Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Anyone know where to find “How to Help Your Husband Get Ahead” by Dorothy Carnegie?I’m shocked! This is a great start, thank you!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 03:23 AM |
| 7 | Homemaking on a BudgetI love this quiz! Thanks for sharing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Advice on relocating for a better family enviornmentKnoxville or Tri-Cities, Tennessee. I’m from the wear, and I think it checks off most of your boxes. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.This is all well and fine, but his loyalty and sentimentality for his “ex” may prevent him from moving on in a new relationship. We may not know what it’s like to be in his position. Maybe he’s trying to make an honorable choice, but not divorcing an ex is not an honorable choice toward a current girlfriend. That’s all I’m saying. Either he files for divorce and moves on, or maintains loyalty to the ex. It’s pretty clear cut from my perspective. Of course, I’m not the one dating him. You know be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.Thanks for the additional context. I think he’s probably a good guy, but he may be a doormat. I agree with the others who say he’s a classic Nice Guy. Walk away before you become more invested! I don’t advise this lightly. He has to want to be more assertive and cut ties. Don’t try to “fix” him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.I know a couple like this. The reason they’re not divorced is purely financial. Are you positive he’s as financially secure as he seems? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?Thank you so much! This was very encouraging to me. Fortunately, he deals with my not-so-great side, too. 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/19 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?No. I’m saying a lot of reddit would say to immediately torch the marriage and could influence your decision. Other reddit relationship subs are a lot more fickle than RPW/RPWi. There are a slew of very young redditors with idealist ideas of what relationships are supposed to be and I don’t think it would be helpful to you in your current state. Of course, my opinion is predicated on the idea that you WANT to stay in your marriage. 2./3. Then, where do you get the overwhelming idea that a marria… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/19 01:11 PM |
| 58 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I agree with this. To add to your point, education is important, regardless. What if the man is laid off or, God forbid, passes away unexpectedly. Women need to have a resource, whether it’s education or some other failsafe, that allows them to take care of themselves if necessary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 04:25 PM |
| 129 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?I have been in your same spot. I could have written this myself, albeit dialed down a bit. Here’s some advice if you want to try to save your marriage. Take a long, long, long break from social media (or delete it altogether...this includes reddit relationship subs). Stop reading fiction books. No romance movies or TV with “triggers.” Occupy your mind with meditation/prayer/exercise or whatever self-improvement you want to focus on for the next few months. Don’t leave your home. You don’t need o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/19 11:24 AM |
| 19 | Who are your favorite fictional RPW?Daphne from the show Frasier. She took care of the men in the show, and I love her style. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | August Relationship ChallengeI’m going to do the same. I do this, too, with the added bonus of giving him advice about his job. I really am trying to be helpful but I’m afraid I’m inadvertently lessening his confidence in his leadership skills. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/19 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Is He Lying?Have you done any social media “stalking?” Do his profiles match up? Does Google turn up anything on him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/19 02:00 PM |
| 7 | I really wish I could meet like minded women.Off topic, but I love Appalachia. I am from the central Appalachia area but had to move because my husband got a job away. There’s no place like the mountains! I found the same thing. I was in a college town so there was a “progressive” pocket which made it hard to find like-minded people. I had friends but not ones that I could talk about RPW ideas without them thinking I was off my rocker! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/19 11:21 AM |
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