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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Seeking advice after falling out of love with my wife | cowabunga_dude_man | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 12:40 PM | |
| 6 | On the brink of divorce but feeling stuck | cowabunga_dude_man | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 09:16 PM | |
| 2 | Processing marriage incompatibilities and impending separation (with young kids involved) | Need Support | cowabunga_dude_man | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 03:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Seeking advice after falling out of love with my wifeCan you highlight the tropes and “fairytale nonsense”? I also mention guilt trips and character attacks hurled at me. I feel like I’ve shrunk in this relationship in a number of ways and have repeatedly rejected my own instincts in the name of “work”. I know relationships take work. It was work just to get married. Is it work forever in perpetuity? Is some semblance of natural flow and alignment really a far fetched idea? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | It’s doneIf you’re willing, care to share any details on why it should be “illegal” when young kids are involved? It seems to me that in some regards younger ages are “better” for divorce if there’s 50% custody since the kids will still have regular time with each parent and also will have normalized the arrangement earlier in life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Processing marriage incompatibilities and impending separation (with young kids involved)Thanks for this reply. I hear you on the "honeymoon phase" of marriages, though I don't even know if that existed for us. We got married 1.5 years after I nearly ended the engagement, and we jumped right into trying to have kids. It was year one of the pandemic, and there was no honeymoon; it was about kids and building a home pretty much from the get go. That was one of many moments of me not actually being confident and strong in my view on things; I tried to push back on trying for kids to gi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Processing marriage incompatibilities and impending separation (with young kids involved)I appreciate you sharing this, and sorry to hear you're in a similar situation. May I ask, what is your current living situation? Did you move out? How do you manage interaction with your wife? Also curious to hear what your regrets are, if you're willing to share. Regardless, good luck and power to you. I hope you're able to navigate your way to a place of peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 04:05 PM |
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