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would you pay 10% of your income? 20%? Well the actual number is roughly 50%. I talked to a lawyer friend who specializes in family law. Based on my income there is a table that states how much per month I'd have to pay for child support which is until they finish university. Add on an approximate amount for spousal support (This number can vary based on the judge as can the duration). Then there's other costs like music lessons and school trips that are added on and not included. but i also kno…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 02:27 PM
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Well that's where I choose to put effort into making THIS marriage work. I have a couple of different buddies who divorced and remarried and we've discussed this type of thing. The thing that is overlooked is they are married to new women, but still paying 1/2 their income to the old wife and kids and dealing with a whole different pile of shit around shared custody. All the bullshit and arguments that their ex-wives end up causing in their new marriages. Ultimately I don't think you're really a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 12:59 PM
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Well currently, she's not terrible to life with over all. Sure we have lots of issues but overall our marriage is OK. It's not "great" but it's OK.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 11:54 PM
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You actually are paying these things by virtue of having her and your children live with you. You're just in more control over where that money goes. But you're still paying for them. Except that I'm not paying for TWO households. he longer you wait, the longer you'll have to pay, and sometimes the more you'll have to pay. Not sure how you figure that. She's not a SAHM. She has a job, all be it's less than mine. Secondly, once the kids are gone she could try and get spousal support from me but I…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 11:54 PM
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you'll be in an even worse spot. No I wont. First off, here in Ontario assets are always split 50/50. Secondly, every day that goes by is a day I don't pay child support or alimony AND I get to keep living in my own home, eating my own food and watching my own TV and having money to go out and do the things I enjoy. There is ZERO validity to your statement that I'll be worse off in the future. In the future I won't have child support payments. IF I was ordered to pay spousal support it wouldn't …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:48 PM
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It's a good read, but I went to a family lawyer and my best case scenario is trying to live off half my pay due to child support. This is a shared custody scenario by the way. I wouldn't have enough money to be able to run a full second household so the kids would be with my wife and visiting me, probably in a really shitty basement apartment. At the end of the day I would suffer mentally due to the financial "rape" as you put it for probably another 5-10 years. All the while she can run around …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:17 PM
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Then my guess would be the female friend and her spent a lot of time bitching and moaning about the husband(s) and she came back thinking about all the shitty stuff in the marriage. My experience is that woman who hang with cheaters or divorced women or angry bitches usually have that shit rub off on them. (Same goes for us guys... you want a happy and successful life don't hang around with people who drag you down.)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 07:11 PM
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OK, your wife was away by herself, came home and didn't talk to you, then had sex with you for first time in a long time etc? Dude, I think she's cheating on you. Either way, she sounds like an abusive bitch and you should just GTFO.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 04:01 PM
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My own understanding of anger is it's a flight or fight response, aka "what are you afraid of?" In some of your examples I feel that you could go a bit deeper in the analysis and find out the angry person is afraid of something.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 05:38 PM
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They're in competition and when a woman has the highest value man she thinks she can get, then she will express it to her friends verbally (and to the man himself while she's on her knees with a load half swallowed and the rest on her face.) I've been watching a lot of Jordan Peterson on youtube lately and he seems to pull all human behavior back into our trying to gain position in the dominance hierarchy in order to mate effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 05:51 PM
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Pretty much. That said, we are all human. Sometimes people cheat because they are broken and not evil. That was why I cheated years ago. I didn't look for it or plan it though, I just got too close to a coworker at a point in my marriage that was really shitty. I wasn't mature/smart enough to realize what was going on and when it finally came time to cross line it was just too easy to stop thinking about the reality of my life and lose myself in the fantasy of the affair. I make no excuses for m…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 06:52 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:24 PM
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English yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:05 PM
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if he's laying the dick properly, and percieved as her best choice, she won't be doing this shit. I wouldn't agree. this reads like those idiots coming in here, wondering why their wife won't fuck them, I just think it's shocking for a red pill group to be so blind the the science of biology and so ignorant as to make broad stroke statements about people they don't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 12:38 PM
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Fucking spectators. Actually, the main reason I'm in this sub is because I've been learning about taking control of my marriage and my situation. But that's for the warm welcome assholes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 12:36 PM
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You're right it's not your fault your wife cheated on you Of course it's not. Just like it's not my wife's fault that I cheated. Like I said, we also don't go around murdering our enemies. It's one thing to understand the underlying biological drives, it's another to be a slave to them. She just wants cum. I realize you're trying to be an asshole, but this doesn't bother me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 12:22 PM
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if you are a fucking loser like her husband apparently is, Be careful with this sort of thinking. Everyone wants to bang everyone else. Her husband could be the official "Husband of the Year" champion 20 years running and she STILL might want to jump on some strange. I've seen both men and women with amazing spouses in otherwise happy marriages step out. There fact remains that humans are driven toward genetic diversity. Men want to spread their seed as far and wide as they can and woman want to…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 07:04 PM
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Funny story... I could go down on my ex-wife for hours and not get her off but she'd cum like crazy from intercourse. More often than not we'd cum together. It bothered me so much about not being able to make her cum by going down on her that after her I went down on a couple of women just to see if it was me and my technique. Nope! I've not had any complaints since then either!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 07:33 PM
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Yea, that sounds fair.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 07:28 PM
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If it wasn't for sex, my wife and I wouldn't be married. Why would I subject myself to that? We'd just be friends or room mates.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 05:56 PM
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Keep in mind certain positions are going to give her much more pleasure than others. My wife can only orgasm in a couple of positions. What you need to do is grab a copy of the Kamasutra and show her a few interesting ones to try. Just remember they might be fun, but you may need to go back to the basics that work for her at the end of the session so she can orgasm!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 05:55 PM
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I look at it this way. My fidelity is a gift. If I didn't want to fuck other women than NOT fucking them and being faithful to my wife would be hollow. I've also become much more open and honest with my wife since she had an affair. If I see a woman I want to fuck I tell my wife how I feel. It's really amazing being able to share your sexual desires and not be shut down for it!!! I have told my wife flat out, I'd like to fuck other women, but I would only do it if we are having a threesome or sw…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 07:26 PM
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and tag in!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 07:22 PM
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D You fuck other women WITH her (threesome, swinging etc)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 07:21 PM
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Some days I just have this huge urge to fuck other women. Hell, we all do! First off, let me be crass for a second and say "pussy is pussy". I look at it this way, my fidelity to my wife is a gift. It would be worthless if I didn't get the urge to fuck other women from time to time! One other thing... a long time ago I dated a woman who would point other women out to me. This was amazing because I could be myself and not pretend I didn't have a libido. It also was awesome because it killed the e…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 07:20 PM
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A friend of mine broke up with his wife and facebook was a HUGE part of it. The irony is that now he is an admin for a 10,000 strong group and is always posting shit about his life and how awesome he is on facebook.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 12:30 PM
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She would rather sit on the couch and read a book, finger fuck her phone or watch a show about someone else living their life, than live a life with me. My wife finger fucks her phone on facebook all the fucking time. :-(
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 06:08 PM
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FWIW, in many locations the court doesn't care who did what to whom.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/17 01:21 AM
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Where I live they won't care. They won't even look at it. Everything is split 50/50 as far as property then they take your pay and her pay and add them together and divide by 2. Then you have to pay some amount to bring her up to your level or visa versa. As for the kids, they have a table and look at how much you each make and tell you how much you have to pay.. UNLESS you and the wife come up with your own reasonable plan.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/17 01:20 AM
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