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Discussioncowpateh/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:56 PM
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What in the f u c k are you talking about? Strength is the definition of your existence? As a human being in 2020? Are you a caveman? Strength is a valuable trait to have. But it is not the only one that matters. Every aspect of who you are as a person is going to matter to another person, especially in romance. Do women go for men who are strong physically and in different areas of life? Yes. If that dude is also a douche, he will narrow his options pretty quick. And the ones that value only st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:39 PM
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Dude, you’re literally saying “you’re a woman, I’m a man, so I know better”. I’m a dude, and shitty people “shit test”. Yeah, you can say some joke in response to things someone says. But that doesn’t just get her wet automatically, or increase your chances or any of the shit TRP will tell you. Women aren’t a bunch of buttons and knobs to use in a correct sequence to turn on, and I swear that’s how every RP, PUA person thinks it is. Sure, you can learn some techniques to carry on a conversation …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:51 PM
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I will. A funny one from the past — player asked “hey coach would ya suck a dick for a million dollars?” “Yeah, who says I have to tell anyone.” It’s not an identical concept. I think where I’m coming from is that I’m never going to tell my daughter or my son that they can’t be whoever they feel like they can be. Societal roles and theoretical patterns or not.
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:03 AM
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I fail to see the “how they were built” part. To me, that’s anyone. I understand the tribal idea that women have all these values to uphold, or keep secret, for the sake of climbing a social ladder. But do you feel we are getting to a place where we are beyond that? Where I’ve gotten to a place where I can be without shame, not give a fuck — there are women I personally know that are the same. You might even say these women are “masculine” but they are straight. Where I’ve heard anyone say to ma…
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:43 AM
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Cobra, I understand your anger and pessimism. Perhaps I’m very inexperienced with dating, but my own experiences go against much of trp doctrine. The last time I went down the rabbit hole I was looking for answers. I found a “truth” that seemed to be founded on hatred alone, mostly because certain things didn’t work with certain women. It became extremely complicated into theories and examples — and I lot of it seemed to be geared towards people with cluster b disorders (black or white or whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:16 AM
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Yes I got a B in English
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:30 PM
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Yes. This evolved into something about my looks and it’s all about looks. There’s a ton of people out there that think this way, I don’t want them to fall into hatred and becoming an incel. Much more, I don’t want that rhetoric to be spread as absolute accepted truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:29 PM
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“Live”as I live with them. Verb. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:11 PM
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Isn’t most about the patterns and trends based upon theory? Where there’s theory, there’s real life examples and putting those to work in an environment. Some of these theories prove true through pattern and trend. But what you’re calling outliers seems to be very numerous experiences and examples of my first hand, in arguably one of the most socially heavy environments available in romantic interaction.
/r/seduction01/07/20 10:21 PM
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Here I have people telling me I don’t understand women, yet I live with two. Two hot ones. Two that are seeking a long term relationship. Is that all women? No. Do I think they act differently around hot men? Well, have you seen a hot woman treated differently by every man around? Thats basic human psychology, of course they do. And I don’t hate anyone for that, good for them. It’s easier. Your post feels founded on hatred and unfairness. My post was a completely internal realization of self. Th…
/r/seduction01/07/20 09:57 PM
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The way I see it, everyone has a preference. But in the moment of meeting someone, I might prefer a partner with big boobs and a small waist. But if they they don’t have large melons, but keep themselves in shape, and have a lot of other things going for them, and we click, are they ruled out? No, not at all. And I think that goes for anyone. Being short where most woman want a tall guy doesn’t mean that they’re gunna rule you out either. You can have other cards to play.
/r/seduction01/07/20 05:04 AM
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Promiscuous? I don’t think that’s a word I’d describe them. Maybe not as modest as some people, if anything I’m more promiscuous then them.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:56 AM
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Later in the night I kept catching her eyes as I was in a different area where we could see each other from afar. That kinda gave the “go ahead”. But I remember going up and talking to her friend that I knew, and asked “so who’s your friend?” And we hit it off from there. Started with me talking about how gingers are a minority that not enough people appreciate.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:32 AM
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Perhaps my original post didn’t communicate that I don’t think all game is bad. There are some good takes from methods of game in general but I believe there’s a lot of toxicity out there. I used to have long drives for work and I would listen to Todd Valentine, AMS, Corey Wayne, RSD, and any and far in between. There was a baseline requirement of conducting yourself between all of them. Confidence, humor, intelligence, and look/vibe. For those asking for my trading card stats, I’m 5”11’, 6 ft w…
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:28 AM
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That was a huge step for me, I’d always end up being friends with women. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but it was hard for me to communicate my interest. There was one friend, one day i just came out and said “Hey, you wanna go on a date?” She replied “yeah! I love friend dates!” “Nono, like I find you irresistible. And I’d like to see if we can go down that road. I wanna start with a simple date!” There were two different responses for two different friends. 1st “Yeah, um we can se…
/r/seduction01/07/20 01:09 AM
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Sometimes. There’s social cues all around, and once you learn to pick up on these, I felt so much comfort. I don’t find being very direct works unless I keep catching someone looking at me. There was once a woman I ended up sleeping with that told me she thought I was cute when she first saw me but intentionally kept her back to me because she likes a guy to approach her. I told her I took that as she was busy or just not into me. But her friend introduced and we found a Madrid of topics to conn…
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:46 AM
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Yes I’ve gone alone. But I’ve also met people that are regulars and seeing them often enough and chatting, you become drinking friends. These are mostly are bars, clubs are too loud to talk. I’ve never gone with the mindset of “pickup chicks”, only ever to try to socialize. Maybe make some new friends. If there’s someone I’m attracted to, I might approach and see how it works, but it’s isn’t always.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:39 AM
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There was 2 instances I can think of where the bartenders were around for any kind of social proof. The rest I was completely on my own or hanging out with regulars and they knew someone.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:34 AM
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Attraction is fascinating to me. I keep seeing on here “looks,looks,looks” and that makes a good first impression and can definitely go a lot way with lots of people. But then there’s getting to know someone. If there’s game to learn, it’s learning yourself and seeing if it matches with someone. That goes so much further than looks. I think confidence, humor, interests, are all baseline requirements for being with someone.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:25 AM
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I have a few friends that I’d say are players. If I understand spinning plates correctly, you spin them until someone wants commitment or they leave, and cycle in someone else. I have a negative view on this because of how it affected her. She liked him, a lot. Without the knowledge that he was constantly seeing other women, while they were spending so much time together, he was doing just enough to keep her liking him. When she would bring up the idea of commitment — “I want to be with you, I w…
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:13 AM
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I agree with this, there was a woman that friend zoned me when I was younger. I turned to pua for answers. In hindsight, there was some good that came out of it, but I also believe there’s a ton of toxic advice out there. It was hard for me to distinguish what was what. Where I should’ve just walked from romance with her, I was constantly looking for the answer of “where did I go wrong?”
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:34 PM
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I don’t know why you’re being downvoted, this is the experience I’ve have with 2 said women living with me. They’ve actively seen guys that are fat as hell and in their own words “not very attractive”, “ugly” — BUT they were fun to be around, comfortable with themselves, able to have deep conversations, and accepted their advances, I assume, because of that.
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:30 PM
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I don’t think I ever viewed women as “walking pussies”, I thought there was something I was always missing. It turned out to be a severe social, interpersonal, and internal maladjustment. — something I think many people out there, especially a ton on this sub or that lurk, have or are currently in that same place. Took me personally a long time to understand this. Something real-life interaction in this area of life helped me understand fully without the issues of the past. But thanks for the we…
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:13 PM
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It takes practice. One of the roomies told me “dude you just gotta try and put yourself out there!” Theres a silver lining for everyone. If there’s any game to play, it’s the numbers. I’ve had women tell me “you kinda look like Frankenstein”. I’ll respond “I just didn’t put my make up on today” and move on. I don’t want someone shallow and petty. Where in the same night, one of her hot friends felt bad for her friends comment and me and her got to talking and I got her number. We parted with her…
/r/seduction30/06/20 06:28 AM
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