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| 3 | [FR] #1: #Close HB7/No K-Close HB8, need pointers | coyotelime | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 07:02 PM | |
| 0 | Texting Game - Attention Whore? | coyotelime | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 01:56 AM |
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| 4 | A opener that worked at a concert, which I honestly thought was a terrible idea. What are some openers you've used w/ success that you never though would work?On a plane Friday night: I see you've been intently reading your SkyMall magazine. Im having a hard time here- what would you recommend, the Gravity Defying sneakers or the 12 in 1 Houdini dress? | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fundamentals and not giving a fuckGreat FR bro. I work out in the mornings as well and look like turd. It's awesome to be in the gym when there aren't 500 other people there (4-6PM is prime time at my school) and it energizes me for the rest of the day. Thanks for additional tips on how not to GAF. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 11:28 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of my path ?Great post. One thing - work out for yourself. The ladies will come, but try to make it a personal goal to get/stay in shape. Whether its squatting 2x your BW, getting a 6 pack, or running a 5k, make goals for yourself- not women. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I continue after getting phone number and a text message?Text 1: Make her laugh. Use something that helps her remember you - a funny inside joke, something silly that happened, tease her on an interesting/weird hobby or something. Text 2: Continue banter if needed, but arrange a meet up. Easy as that. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Give me the best pep talk you can1) Focus on inner game. Try r/nofap and r/fitness 2) Once that's done, women will become naturally attracted to you because you are awesome. 3) What are the "important" aspects of pick-up? 4) Personally, some of the tactics are great, but I've found confidence, self-esteem, and inner game to be the most critical factors in success. This community is about self-improvement. Women come second. Jesus | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Break The Foreveralone Self-Loathing Feedback Loop? (Inner Game-ish)I couldn't agree with this mentality more. I used to go to the gym always conscious of what others thought. Now I give absolutely no fucks about that but DO give many fucks about how hard I am trying - and anything less than 90% makes me reel and work that much harder. Best of luck to you man. Remember to do the best that you can do, and you'll get good (Insanity quote :)) | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Seddit......I don't know exactly has happened......but thank you, with tears in my eyes, thank you.How do I upvote more than once | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | The greatest thing about abundance mentality.Nicely said. Couldn't agree more. When you give no fucks about what others think of you, they actually check you out more often. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Great beginner conversation tips: "How to Make Small Talk"Crazy how I do that without thinking about it. Good read! | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Change your game in 3 minutes: The truth that I've just been starting to realize.I watched this guy on CBS morning or something. Amazingly charismatic, energetic, and loves what he does. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 01:14 AM |
| 1 | My game is excellent when I'm really drunk, but average otherwise. How do I unleash my inner mPUA?For me, it took bantering and being playful during the day. Not necessarily day game per se, but just interacting with everyone out there and eventually you will realize that alcohol only makes your already solid game that much better! | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Great AMOG destroyer/DHV/opener, but with ethical concerns.What happens if he agrees and amplifies, then continues to run game. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What can I do to add humor to the very beginning of an interaction?I think I'm blessed with being naturally funny when I'm confident. That being said, here are some things that may help: As putaneiro noted, irony/sarcasm works great, especially in a setting that is boring (work, waiting at a bus stop) Making funny comments regarding interesting surroundings, which can be the girl's attire, would work also. "Situational opener," if you will The keys to making people laugh are confidence, body language, and tone. These go hand in hand. Just be lighthearted and wi… | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?Went out weekend before last with two lady friends, they weren't energetic/confident so I said fuck it and solo approached at a club. 0/5, should've been successful twice but got CBed by mother hen 2/5. Not even close to being good, but that night did wonders for my AA. I had 2 drinks btw and was pretty much sober. Rejection therapy is underrated. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 06:12 PM |
| 3 | What's the best advice you've heard in overcoming fear? Doesn't have to be necessarily just for pickup, but for life...DGAF | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Question about "talking to everyone"no, you didn't feel comfortable. say it and get out of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:06 AM |
| 2 | I blame Romantic Comedies...It's called social conditioning. Look into RSD blueprint decoded. Great stuff | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 08:58 PM |
| 67 | Learning from "The Bachelorette"People who down vote this solely for the title should read the fucking post first. Nicely analyzed bro. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 06:13 PM |
| 6 | Would you like an example of text game? [NSFW]so.. let me get this straight... you are going to cheat on each other's significant others? | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 05:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lost my composure early in the night, couldn't gain it backBro I went solo at a club despite having two wingwomen with me. Best fucking experience ever. 5 approaches, 2 rejections | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for a poly guy?Hey man I don't know too much about the subject, but check out pickup podcasts. I distinctly remember a guy talking about poly dating at length. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 01:40 AM |
| 13 | Talking to older women, how do you handle the questions about being young, still in college?Make it funny... "How old are you" 1: "21. Brb, need to put on a new pair of Huggies" 2: "21. Can you introduce me to your daughter?" etc. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 06:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] So I got her number... now what?Short and to the point, I like it! Start with a text that banters while helping her remember who you are. Your goal is to make her say "haha" after the first text (unless she doesn't do hahas like 99% of women but even then don't worry about it). | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 05:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First field report not under a throwaway, ArgentinaYou did great especially with "escalating" the tension (in quotes because you typically don't associate escalation with chants of "KISS HER" and "FUCK HER" lol). | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How is my Text Game, any Advice?What I've found to be immensely successful is using something you shared the night before (a joke, commonality, etc) as your first text, this way it refreshes their memory of who you are. This may not always be possible especially in loud venues but so far I'm 3/3 (they laugh, respond positively) | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First time out in awhile, could use some feedback, still had an awesome timeApproach #1: You could've hooked her friend better initially, but from the sounds of it these two girls were too caught up in catching up with each other. Should've gone for the #C, esp at orientation when people are starting to establish new social circles/add new people to their existing ones from HS Approach #2: Should've #Ced, you did a great job keeping it light and had her laughing, untimely arrival of her/your mom was disruptive but IMO you could've asked afterwards maybe? Approach #3: No… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Womanese, womanese, womanese. Seddit: What are your favorite examples?"I don't know if I can..." = No "blah blah... but I'll keep you updated" = No | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I really need advice figuring out how to talk to a girl I really dig.Sounds like a fucking huge case of oneitis man. Get over it, there are plenty of women in this world who have a lot in common with you. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Instead of feeling rejection.Asked some chick out, rejected. Friend told me something that is pure gold: DGAF mentality + "She's missing out on a good time. Her loss, not yours." | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Being better at group game?"You are the fucking man, you slay enough vagina to get a Medal of Honor, in this world you are king" Future hall of famer in Seddit quotes. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late? Is it really worth the risk?I will read your actual content after I post this. Based off the title, I have a great tip for you. STOP FUCKING RATIONALIZING AND JUST DO IT. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 04:43 PM |
| 2 | This is the point where it always goes down for me. What should I do?Don't use smileys unless she does. Don't open with "it was great meeting you last night" over text, she probably met a shitton and is not going to remember you. Try using an inside joke or something about her only you two would know. Make it witty so she smiles and immediately remembers the good things about you. If you establish a lot of rapport or comfort over text, there is NO reason for her to see you in person. Banter or flirt lightly and briefly then set a date. If she flakes or doesn't re… | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 10:27 PM |
| 59 | Want to get better at banter and the alpha attitude? Watch Archer. Seriously.the only way she can find out is by having your cock train go steaming up her love tunnel. Choo choo motherfucker. ROFL, first time I've heard that. Upvoted. | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 06:30 AM |
| -5 | Need advice on daygame, first day on field ever.Why do you need a routine? "Nice shoes, wanna fuck" Try that one. Saves you lots of time and energy. Worse case scenario you get slapped. Best case, well.. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Cutting to the pointBe flirty and kino, see if she reciprocates. How is her body language? Are you looking for a serious relationship? In response to "I'm looking for friends..." you should've said "me neither" lol | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:56 PM |
| 9 | 'Are you guys dating ?'It's not really an insult/put down, but you can amplify all the same to show that you just DGAF. "No, we're getting married next month. Wanna come?" | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:09 AM |
| 2 | For those having a bad luck streak, hear me out for a secondI am assuming many of you who are on dry spells watch a lot of porn, and it wasn't cutting it for me lately. NoFap/Porn? | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Texting Game - Attention Whore?Agreed. Women who know how to play the game certainly don't text too much. Thanks for the advice bro. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Go to female-centric exercise classes (Spinning, Zumba, etc..)I was at an abs class on Monday bro, and there were maybe 10 guys total out of the 40-50 in the room. Not only do you get to check people out/practice making eye contact, but the girls serve as great motivation! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How have you changed? Before and after learning pickup.1) Talk to everyone with confidence. Smile, banter, kino. Tall, short, black, white, 80 YO, baby, don't give a fuck. Get used to interacting with strangers and the hot chicks will be just another one of them. 2) DGAF mentality regarding what others think. I am awesome and don't need others' approval. For me, this has been the most important lesson from seddit. 3) Reading body language. It's fucking awesome when you analyze others' just as well/if not better the female friends you're with when pe… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I need some help figuring out my problem(s). Please give me a hand.Don't give a fuck about what your friends think. If they're your real friends they will appreciate the new you. Don't overanalyze. Especially those who are currently in, will be, or have higher education. Throw all that verbal reasoning from the MCAT down the drain, because by thinking critically/rationally/logically you're already rationalizing, which means your AA is gonna kick in and it will be VERY difficult to overcome at that point. Try finding a buddy or two that approach, and make a stup… | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Just Facebook messaged a girl I had a serious crush on from about 3rd to 5th grade but never talked to. Unexpected response.Don't make it seem like you're the one who's intruding. You said you thought "DGAF," tell it like you mean it next time. Agreed with coffee comment. Good luck bro! | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I "do it for myself"?A HB9 is digging you and goes back to your place. She takes off her clothes and you become aroused. Being in great shape avoids her barfing all over your erect buddy after you remove your clothes. On a more serious note, it does feel good. Exercise releases endorphins/serotonin which make you happy. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 06:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Day game #-closeWell done! | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?When holding normal conversation, the listener tends to make eye contact more often. I find that looking for my reflection in someone else's eyes helps significantly also. You can dart from eye to eye at a slow pace, nod, say uh huh etc. To escalate look at her and pretend she's getting naked. But don't be too creepy about it - practice in the mirror! | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 02:57 PM |
| 3 | I am a fairly unattractive miserable early twenty-something, who has recently found himself with no friends, lovers or prospects, is there any hope?Get to a point where you can see the title of your post as "guy taking a break from college that needs to work out and rebuild socially" Work out 5x a week. See fitness subreddit. I also recommend p90x or insanity. Eat healthfully Talk to everyone you see. Black, white, tall, short, 100 yr olds, toddlers. A DGAF (don't give a fuck mentality) should develop as a result, along with inner game and confidence. Good luck. You really are at the end of your rope coming to the Internet for help, but it'… | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 07:49 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Sometimes, negging isn't enough. Sometimes, you have to get a little rough.Dude well done. I don't think what you did completely qualifies as a neg. maybe mind fucking would be more appropriate. Way to be the alpha, boss, and in control. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 03:37 PM |
| 2 | DesperationGo out to have fun, make friends, and enjoy yourself. You will be fun to be around and your confidence will so high that others will notice you and become attracted to you. There's a difference between talking to women with the mindset "I wanna talk to her" and "I wanna talk to her so I can get in her pants." if the conversation is going well then definitely escalate etc. but try to have fun. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 08:12 PM |
| 2 | what signs have you noticed that means someone is definitely interested ?When she lets you wear your chain and turtleneck sweater in bed. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 04:13 PM |
| 2 | So how would you teach this stuff to a friend?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ero8h/new_to_seddit_a_concise_guide_for_recovering_afcs/ | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 03:24 AM |
| 3 | MindsetRepeat the following out loud: "I am fucking awesome. I don't need others to tell me that I'm fucking awesome, but I do need to tell others about how awesome they are if they ask." Disclaimer: Avoid thinking/saying "I am better than X." That leads to wanting others' approval of how fucking awesome you are. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How much touching is too much?I would say start slow and if she's not rejecting it escalate. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Cracked article on the nice guy habits that you probably have.You can also wait until he's near orgasm, thump him on the back, and cackle "THAR SHE BLOWS!!!!" This is especially effective if your fiance died on a whaling expedition. LMFAO | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How do I use this?I understand, but I'm talking about the DGAF mentality about consequences. I think AA is difficult to overcome but if you use the "what do I have to lose" attitude it will help tremendously. It's about psyching yourself out of psyching yourself out, if that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 10:32 PM |
| 5 | How do I use this?Think about it this way - by approaching a girl at a bar/club/party/the pet store, you are already showing more confidence than all the others guys in the room who didn't have the balls to go up and talk to her, REGARDLESS of outcome. And like others have said, worse case scenario you get rejected and never see her again (granted you're not trying to ask out a good friend, in that case take special considerations). What have you got to lose? Nothing. Do remember to assume attraction until proven… | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 05:09 PM |
| 2 | As requested turned this into a post: If your starting very socially wrecked, this post is for you.Great post man. I basically quoted your first point to my friend last night before I read this (I said "I don't give a fuck, but that's not the same as I don't care"). "Only ass-rape leading to anal hemorrhage is a negative experience." Nicely phrased. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 06:06 PM |
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