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Normal things that make me feel an unreasonable sense of dread, like that feeling when you're a kid and you want your mom to come pick you up from somewhere shady: - People sloppily making out in a club while drunk or high. You've dulled your senses and barely know each other :( - Being with an ingroup who are talking shit about their outgroup (any context, politics, sports, work, music, culture etc). I thought you were cool and nice, yet you have all these hateful thoughts about X outgroup. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:17 PM
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When I was younger I would've said yes. But when you actually find yourself in that situation, the novelty of her attractiveness wears off over time. You get used to it, she just looks normal. If then, you don't actually like who she is as a person, you'll grow to resent her over time. Through no fault of her own either, just an incompatibility oversight due to you committing based on attractiveness alone and the blinding excitement that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:30 PM
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Kinda I find some aspects of buddhism (detachment) and christianity (sermon on the mount) deeply moving and wise, but I don't actually believe in divine stuff like karma/reincarnation/god/souls/kingdom of heaven etc. My instinct is the universe is cold and uncaring and there's no purpose or reason for us being here. The universe is just a big chemical reaction and we're one of its byproducts. But I could be wrong, people have yet to undeniably prove or disprove the existence of spiritual stuff. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:12 AM
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Hearing these kinds of things is like 50% the reason I went down the red pill path when I was younger lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:52 PM
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This is exactly why I do those low effort dates (the red pill back in the day even suggested it) because it filters for these girls who actually value the person, not just the idea of a man. Fast food, coffee, aimless walk around the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:36 PM
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It's me, I'm that guy. That looks so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM
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The very first version of Monopoly was called the Landlord's Game, and it originally came with two sets of rules. The monopolist rules (the game we know today, source of many hilarious family arguments), and the anti-monopolist rules. In the anti-monopolist rules, when players owned a space, they'd have to pay tax (based on the value of the land) into a public treasury. The total would then be equally distributed to all players in equal amounts. This meant that players lagging behind were given …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:17 PM
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At cafe this morning, I slid her a scruffy piece of paper with a crudely written "will u be my valentine? circle yes or no" and she drew a big heart around the yes then handed it back to me, giggling and acting all cute like we're back at school. We're both in our late 20s. I will guide her loved up energy into the most sloppiest disgusting blowjob of all time tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:29 PM
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Based. If I was drafted, I'd be more likely to kill my own officer than the enemy. The ruling class attitude towards the working class is always the same no matter who's in charge. Even if my country got conquered in a war, and the dust settled, and enough time passed for the new regime to be stable, and the next generation knows nothing of war. The working class would still be treated poorly, as human history consistently shows. Our countries offer us stagnant wages, inflation, unaffordable hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:10 PM
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At that point, the relationship is already over. She snooped because she didn't trust, and when she snooped she found enough evidence to know why she didn't trust, so she'd probably want to breakup anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:54 PM
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I think it's bad. It displays a fundamental lack of trust, and if I've been trusting someone all this time who doesn't trust me, it puts the whole relationship into question. It isn't so much the action itself, but what it represents. If she believes those closest to her are untrustworthy, does that also mean she's untrustworthy? Could she be hiding something? Why is she with me if she doesn't trust me? It creates so many questions and drives an unnecessary wedge between us, when she could've ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:44 PM
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Georgists believe in taxing the unimproved value of the land (how that is determined is up for debate). The idea is that the land itself is taxed, but the improvements made to it should remain pure profit for the developer. It's only fair they should profit from their labor and investment. This creates two incentives for landowners: The more they improve their land, the more profit they stand to make from it. The distance between the improved and unimproved value is pure profit potential. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:44 PM
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Ideal solution: Single tax vision (Land Value Tax) a la Henry George. Practical: Government needs to compete with private enterprise and build a fuck load of housing themselves. Over time this would make housing cheaper, as they'd now be treated like any other consumer good (instead of an asset for investors) in the same way most products are. Competitive producers produce as much as possible at the lowest possible price for the consumer. Realistically, I don't see this happening any time soon. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:11 PM
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Culture war breaks my heart daily. Big business and lawmakers love to see us fight each other over gender/race/identity, or whether certain words/jokes are ok. Shit is so divisive and tears families and friends apart, and we all repeatedly fall for it again and again because our social media algorithms are designed to enrage us and turn us against each other. Meanwhile wages remain stagnant, inflation goes up, rents/mortgages go up, public services cut. And we're all just crawling over each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:26 PM
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Their general mood/vibe changes week to week, so they always feel like a teenager going through phases. It can be hard to know when they're actually being serious, when they're feeling something big and important to them in the moment, or just being silly. You could call that seeing them as dumb but imo it's to do with their hormone cycle. A self-aware woman definitely mitigates the worst of those mood swings and exaggerates the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:46 PM
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Going over to friends houses and just seeing they had better stuff. Seeing them get new clothes when they tore holes in the old ones, while I was taught how to sew mine back up. Seeing McDonalds as rare treat and big deal (I still prefer shitty junk food + cheap stores to this day even after experiencing the finer things). Going through a couple of winters where my parents had to decide between hot water or food + and then seeing the shame on their faces when they told me we'd have to wash with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:31 PM
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I consider the republican party part of that neoliberal establishment. The only reason why Trump represents change in people's minds is because he's a wildcard populist who doesn't behave like a typical politician. He comes across as different, good or bad, and that's his appeal. People are sick of the status quo, they want change. For the past 20-30 years everyone's felt like no matter what they vote for, everything stays the same. Wages remain stagnant, more public services are cut, and the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:07 PM
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I don't get why they were so surprised, it's like they genuinely believed it was inconceivable. I'm a left wing guy and I was 100% confident Trump would win, my other lefty friends called me crazy for it. But these past few years, I thought it was fairly obvious mainstream normie types were getting sick of progressive talking points while not much was being doing to improve wages, inflation, or rent/mortgage prices. The lurch towards the right is happening across Europe too, and imo it's because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:26 PM
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Glad he recorded it because people would blindly believe her otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:39 PM
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I do too. If big business has access to all kinds of loopholes to reduce their tax burden, then it's only fair the little guys do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:35 AM
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You should just tell her how much she means to you when you get a moment alone and the vibe is chill, even if it seems random, out of place, and weird. Extroverts love that shit, they love when life feels like a narrative or story. She would 100% appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:42 PM
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I used to believe I was introverted but later discovered I was an extrovert with social anxiety (brutal curse). I found this out by realizing I always came home from outings feeling more recharged and refreshed than ever, excited about all random other things in life completely unrelated to the event. I have since cured the social anxiety. But in order to have this realization, it took an extrovert social initiator friend to pull me into those initial outings, even when I was being reluctant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:32 PM
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I lowkey enjoy it too, but the negatives outweigh the positives. I love watching my friends' drama from the sidelines, but only because my life/family/home/job isn't involved. A cute schizo bpd unknowingly abusive gf would have to know where you live, maybe even live with you, and that just means you don't have a stable drama free sanctuary to return to anymore. She'd invite random other crazy people over, pull knives in arguments, threaten suicide, or tell everyone you know you're abusing her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:34 AM
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They see their LTR as "one of the good ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:09 PM
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Imo it's because a lot of reddit women just don't like men, and they see PPD dudes as fair game. Especially the bitter ones who seemingly hate women. Here, these people get to fling shit at each other without feeling bad about it because they believe the other is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:06 PM
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They're just having their fun on the cock carousel before finding someone to settle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:09 PM
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I liked conker's bad fur day too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:57 PM
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Bro I fuckin loved that game as a kid. I found it weirdly scary but that kept me hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
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In my country in the '50s, the average man spent more of his weekly wages at the local bar than he did on his rent/mortgage. And he could still provide for a family + vacations, on a single income in unskilled work. Think of the dumbest guy you know from high school, this would have been him had he been born in this era. Housing was like any other commodity and consumer good, the manufacturer produces as much as they can at the cheapest possible price for the consumer. This was possible because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:32 AM
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Not you though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:48 AM
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Intense headache around your temples and behind your eyes + feeling like throwing up just from looking at light
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:36 AM
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At best, she means well and is trying to reassure male insecurities, saying they don't need to be perfect to be attractive. At worst, she's trying to avoid being seen as shallow, while at the same time implying men are for noticing the tall, dark, and handsome fantasy. Either way, inauthentic and unhelpful. But if she's the first example she's chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:44 PM
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Aint got anything to add just wanted to say you seem chill af bro lol I too always felt the whining about women and trad nonsense from other red pill bros was totally missing the point of TRP. Got my own heavy distaste of capitalism too but don't wanna completely dismantle it like BP social media activist types. Respect bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:56 PM
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I had a similar background growing up, the red pill did the same for me. When I first found it, I didn't believe it would work since it's so anti-women-are-wonderful, and seemed mean lol But literally within a month or two of internalizing it, women started liking me for the first time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:49 PM
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Cute sentiment but obviously delusional. I wouldn't think she actually believes it though. She just doesn't want to concede that men are physically stronger, in whatever discussion that is. At worst, she's lived a very fortunate life in that she's never had to deal with violent dudes, which is a great for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:45 PM
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Astrology girls tell me being an aquarius makes me dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:09 PM
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Absolutely heartbreaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:56 PM
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It was his attitude towards covid lockdowns that turned the reddit hivemind against him, but more recently it's the nazi salute. I don't like him either, but I don't think he's actually a fascist. He just understands that anti-immigration sentiment is a big winner with the electorate at the moment and will be for the next 5-10 years at least. If he and his pals continually appeal to that sentiment, then voters aren't focused on the actual source of their day to day problems, which is wealth ineq…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:41 PM
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I feel for artists who worry their jobs will be replaced by AI, but what annoys me about them is their attitude that art is some exceptional field that AI shouldn't be allowed to touch. For nonsensical ideological reasons too. They're pretending to care about artistic integrity, instead of admitting it's an economic fear, which would be more sympathetic because this problem has affected more than just artists. Advances in technology have been making jobs obsolete since the dawn of man. Huge swat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:05 AM
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My metric for success on dating apps is actual dates materialized. I like to get around 1 date a week when I'm using them to feel they're worthwhile. I've used tinder and bumble the most. Tinder because it's the OG and bumble because I find there's a lot of quirky arty girls on there and I like that. Bumble's whole shtick is that the girls are supposed to message you first, but they only say "hi" and still want you to carry the conversation. That's just how women behave online though so you stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:05 AM
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I took a bag of pickled onion flavor potato chips and added black pepper, garlic granules, paprika, chilli powder, and extra salt. My breath smells garlicy and oniony as fuck rn just foul, rancid shit. A new terrible habit has formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:23 PM
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I'm always hesitant when that happens because to me it feels like they've intellectualized themselves into being into me, as opposed to it being an initial wow feeling that hits them and makes them all giggly and blushy and shy. When I was younger, girls were never all that excited about my looks but they loved and were attracted to my personality. I never felt lusted after and always had to do a whole lot more than hot tall guys just to be seen in that same way. This made me feel insecure about…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:50 PM
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Focus only on the ones who are hot for me right from the start, not just warm or only kinda into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:33 PM
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Date said she "wasn't attracted to me at first" in front of her friends a couple weeks ago. It hurt my feelings but I thought whatever it's not that serious and never mentioned it. Then yesterday I said the same thing about her in front of my friends (was feeling petty and spiteful), and now she's all fragile and in her feelings about it. This shows she knew it was a hurtful thing to say, yet chose to say it about me anyway. And on top of that, she didn't offer me the same grace I showed her by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:43 PM
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Become comfortable in your own skin without relying on anything external. Learn to love yourself, warts and all. Find inner peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:06 PM
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Those crazy bpd girls are beings of pure light and magic, as long as you don't expect too much from them emotionally and only engage with them when they're in a happy manic phase. Perfect for a fwb or fling. Disastrous and destructive for a relationship. I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:02 PM
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It is insane. I think people can see the hypocrisy of it though, they just don't care. Imo most people don't actually care about being principled and virtuous to whatever set of morals they believe in. They're more concerned with the tribalism and making sure they're part of the ingroup, not the outgroup. The fear of social ostracization is very real, and so is the opportunity to secure a higher spot on the hierarchy. You can tell who these people are when they criticize one group for behaving a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:20 AM
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In the future, AI gfs will be made to shit test and start unnecessary drama. Because if they're too perfect, dudes will always feel like they're talking to a robot. They might not think they want a gf who causes them slight annoying problems, but psychologically that's what they'll respond to because it feels more authentic. If she's too perfect then hedonic adaptation will make you bored with her. So all the same relationship problems will remain with AI gfs, except maybe paying the subscriptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:08 AM
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In order to be ideologically consistent and actually principled the answer should be yes, but they'll say no because they want the child support and they want to protect their interests. I'm personally a fan of the welfare state though, and I think if the social safety nets provided more than bare minimum, more people would be on board with paper abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:49 AM
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Yeah they tell you to write longwinded bios and avoid shirtless pics, but in reality you get better results with short witty bios and shirtless pics (if you're on top of your fitness) I have no idea where reddit gets its profile advice from considering it doesn't work. Do they just dispense that kind of advice because they ideologically believe it should work, despite reality saying otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:13 PM
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Lmfao it really does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:32 PM
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In my experience the ones who want to date you tend to hover around you more, laugh at your unfunniest jokes like they're as good as your funniest, find excuses to be physically closer, make more of an effort to pretend to like your hobbies and your opinions, eager to do small favors for you. You feel like they're just sort of appearing near you and making themselves helpful. Ones who don't want to date you kind of treat you like their friends or a gay best friend, you can tell they don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:28 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:23 AM
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Please :( I don't want to choke you, spank you, tie you up, call you names. I just want to love, hold, and tell you how pretty you are; to cherish you and tell you how much better my life is with you in it. I don't want playful banter or friendly competitions, I just want us to be emotionally soft and gentle with each other. Stop calling me daddy, we're the same age. Stop acting bratty and princessy when you want something, or pouty when you're upset, just communicate because I'm on your side. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:08 AM
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I would love to quit my job, get all the mental health diagnoses I've been neglecting to get for years, and just depend on the welfare state to fund my existence: NEETmaxxing. My dream lifestyle is more than achievable with government assistance. This has been on my mind for 2+ years now. The only reasons I haven't committed to it are: 1. The social stigma of being a leech. & 2. the ability to maintain a little pot of savings for emergencies (what if I need a new computer?). I often ask myself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:27 AM
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Based and taxation-is-theft-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:46 AM
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Looking good bro, good on you for posting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
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They'd just be looked at like some novelty nostalgia doo wop act, although it's hard to imagine how the music industry would've evolved without their influence. the Beatles was a perfect storm of talent, skill, and luck, all in the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:27 AM
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Best so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:57 AM
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We need to divorce property from the land it's built on, so that good ordinary folk are no longer ensnared by the extortionate rent prices of lazy landowners. If you could pick up your house and put it down somewhere else on a whim, landlords would be forced to offer competitive rent prices to increasingly pickier renters, while those renters get to keep their homes and everything in them just the way they like it, no matter who's parcel of land they put it on. The humble trailer park is the ult…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:28 AM
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It didn't feel manipulative because I wasn't trying to hurt feelings or take out any resentment towards women, I was just trying to learn how to be the kind of guy they actually wanted. In my younger years I was quite timid and anxious, like piglet from winnie the pooh. I knew that women liked the opposite of that, I just didn't know how to be that. The red pill gave me a framework for being that. It felt unnatural at first, and there was some awkwardness and cringe in the early stages when I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:01 PM
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Agree & amplify, keeping a strong inner frame, amused mastery, passive dread game, abundance mentality, handling shit tests and comfort tests, lifting. Cringe terminology but that's what they used in red pill spaces. Getting natural with those things suddenly made women attracted to me when I was young and maidenless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:52 PM
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Tbh it never hit me because I refused to accept it. I was always the kind of guy who'd rather be single than in a subpar relationship. Not because I was stubborn or fussy or moral, but because jerking off to porn felt better to me than sex with girls I wasn't that into, or who weren't giving me what I wanted. And relationships always felt like too much heavy lifting, compromise, and initiative on my part to justify the treatment I got as an average man who was just sort of ok in the eyes of most…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:44 PM
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Sounds like a good date, fuck her then have her clean your place up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:34 PM
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I don't think cheating can be prevented, the types of people who cheat will always cheat no matter what you do. That's one of the risks you take when you decide to try love/relationships. Solutions like this may feel good on paper but they don't accept the reality that cheating is a very real possibility. A better solution would be to develop a psychological framework that can handle that kind of betrayal, a support network of friends, and the assuredness you'll be able to find someone else if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:54 AM
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This movie is great, it always reminds me of my NEETmaxxed friend. He lives exactly like the dude (right down to the bowling) and it makes me wonder what's the point in even working when you can just chill like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 AM
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That is a useful lesson to learn, you can worm your way through any system or institution from the bottom up with relative ease with that skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:49 PM
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Ouch, that's definitely a dagger to the heart. These childhood stories are funny because the stuff that happens in them are objectively not a big deal. But when you're a kid, with limited experience of the world and endless curiosity about it, these are your first impressions of what it's like. These seemingly trivial and inconsequential moments when we're small still inform our opinions about life when we're big, and we don't even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:38 PM
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That is simultaneously sad but also kind of based, since it means your own interests are more important to you than the social pressure of 'fitting in' and being noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:25 PM
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When I was like 5 or 6, I got yelled at in kindergarten because I hit a kid who was putting my hot wheels in his mouth, getting food, crumbs, sticky fingers all over them, and launching them across the room carelessly. I only brought my hot wheels in that day for my friends and I to play with, but this kid made a fuss about it and the teacher forced me to share with him too or she'd confiscate them. I hit him after he launched one so hard it dented. He cried, so did I (because it was all overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:15 PM
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I went to a roaring 20s themed event once and it was basically just a club but everyone was doing the charleston and pretending it was prohibition times being all sneaky about the drinks, with a lot of slapstick chaplin-esque shenanigans going on too. It was the most fun clubbing experience I've ever had and I'd do it more often if it was like that every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:06 AM
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A little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:39 AM
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Very true, you can get around it though by arranging the meetup fairly early on. That way you weed out the girls who are just there for validation. Lots of guys make the mistake of being a penpal, texting for days/weeks before even meeting up, because they think it'll increase their odds of a date. But it's a losing strat because there are so many timewasters on there who just use it for a validating confidence boost. Best move is to have a brief fun flirty convo to get her all giggly, then arra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:46 AM
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Take her bowling, buy her a coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:21 AM
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People are very bad at asking questions that aren't obviously leading. Expecting anyone to answer honestly isn't reliable at all and this is something everyone should be aware of when they're looking for raw unfiltered feedback. You have to come at it like a marketing team dealing with a focus group. Design some really clever questions where people don't feel judged or uncomfortable or even aware of what their answers may implicate. Or you have to rely on behavioral observation under different e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:14 AM
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Just use your words. Explain how you love romantic gestures, then light-heartedly joke about how this one sabotages your efforts so don't do it again. Then you can pivot to a fun conversation about romantic gestures and displays of affection in general, and talk about the ones you both like or like the idea of. That way, he doesn't feel rejected or discouraged, so he'll still want to do things like that for you in future, and you'll also learn more about each other from it, so it's a bonding thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:17 AM
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Tbh most of the time when women complain about porn it just seems it's because they're insecure about being compared to porn stars by the men they like, which is more of a them problem. A valid complaint though, is if their men are so addicted to porn they can't get off without it, or have desensitized themselves with a death grip so they can't fuck properly. These dudes are always just looking at it randomly throughout the day too and they're straight up crackheads for porn. The most BS complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:15 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:52 AM
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"We're not having sex tonight." She said, stern as fuck and out of nowhere. Okay, I didn't think we were but now I know we definitely are. I told her good, I don't like to do that on the first date, but all flirty with a suggestive grin. The date got more fun after that because she started doing more of the chasing, and as soon as we got back to mine we did the thing we were definitely not doing tonight. Women get frustrated with us for not taking them seriously and not respecting them as commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:39 PM
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Nothing, I have always been the type of guy who likes to be pampered with princess treatment and I joke about it on dates all the time. Lots of girls love to do that for their men, so I just focus on those ones. You have to make it known that's what you want early on when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 AM
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Very effective approach, will get your feet in many more doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:58 AM
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Lmfao dude made a fool of himself, it's like the opposite of those fresh & fit clips of OF hoes being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:41 AM
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We sound really similar, I could've said all this myself, even your flair lol For me I think I attract them because I'm as open and non-judgemental as they are about degenerate shit, at least outwardly, but I lead with my brain and not my heart so I seem emotionally stable and regulated, maybe even distant, which feeds into their daddy issues lmfao I'm still trying to figure out how to do better with the type of women I actually like, they're hard to meet in the first place since they prefer to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:29 AM
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My type is introverted and serene homebodies, but extroverted and passionate art hoes come to me like moths to a flame. The hot ones I will fwb, but they're not what I want for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:57 AM
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I feel you on this bro. Being content with being alone makes you as picky as a 5/10 mid woman on tinder. It's even worse when you know how to fuccboi too, since having a few fwbs means life never gives you the opportunity to feel too lonely to the point of despair. A lot of the girls we pass on would probably turn out to be just fine matches as well, if we weren't so unwilling to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:07 PM
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Women initially think I'm an ambitious go-getter because I'm self-employed. The only reason I'm self-employed is so I can live comfortably and save for the future while only working 3 hours a day. I don't want to slave away working 8+ hours, that's a waste of time, I just want to chill. I'm not even interested in scaling the business, it already does what it needs to do. I don't want to travel, I don't want fancy restaurants, I just want to chill out with everyone I love and enjoy the cozy littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:10 PM
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She's saying that because she wants marriage at some point. If you really view her as contemptuously as your comment suggests, then you'd use marriage as a carrot to dangle in front of her for a whole fwb situation or whatever it is you want from her. Popping off at her like that will get you nada.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:00 PM
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I'm talking about communicating your wants and needs with clarity. Punishing the poor girl for being in love and wanting to marry you is a little harsh lmao The guy is complaining about women not proposing, dropping hints, creating a miasma of indirectness, when it doesn't need to be that way if he just makes it clear at some point in the relationship that he would like to be proposed to. How is she supposed to know that? She's not a mind reader, or "should she just know!?" The indirectness is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:47 PM
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If she does that annoying hint dropping and gauging interest shit, just tell her you expect her to be the one who proposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:31 PM
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I have a mental health condition called CPTSD. I am only interested in dating women who also have it. My most loving relationships have been with women who have it, my closest friends have it, and my sister, who's my best best friend, has it as well. People who have any kind of mental health condition have a unique perspective and experience of life. I find myself only being able to relate to, and feel understood by, people like me. I am sick of leaving it up to chance and magnetism. I need to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:12 PM
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Old zoomer, young millennial here. In my experience, you don't have to pretend to be a full lib. When women talk about politics, they're rarely talking about actual beliefs and principles. They're either parroting talking points that make them look good to their friends, or talking about some underlying feeling or experience and using political rhetoric as an emotional outlet for it. Identify the emotion behind what she's saying, then make her feel seen and validated. You can be a nazi or a comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:47 AM
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