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Normal things that make me feel an unreasonable sense of dread, like that feeling when you're a kid and you want your mom to come pick you up from somewhere shady: - People sloppily making out in a club while drunk or high. You've dulled your senses and barely know each other :( - Being with an ingroup who are talking shit about their outgroup (any context, politics, sports, work, music, culture etc). I thought you were cool and nice, yet you have all these hateful thoughts about X outgroup. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:17 PM
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When I was younger I would've said yes. But when you actually find yourself in that situation, the novelty of her attractiveness wears off over time. You get used to it, she just looks normal. If then, you don't actually like who she is as a person, you'll grow to resent her over time. Through no fault of her own either, just an incompatibility oversight due to you committing based on attractiveness alone and the blinding excitement that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:30 PM
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Kinda I find some aspects of buddhism (detachment) and christianity (sermon on the mount) deeply moving and wise, but I don't actually believe in divine stuff like karma/reincarnation/god/souls/kingdom of heaven etc. My instinct is the universe is cold and uncaring and there's no purpose or reason for us being here. The universe is just a big chemical reaction and we're one of its byproducts. But I could be wrong, people have yet to undeniably prove or disprove the existence of spiritual stuff. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:12 AM
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I thought I hated vegetables, but in my early 20s I started baking instead of boiling them and now I love them. Put oil and seasoning on them and it gives them extra flavor + stops them drying out, they come out tasty and a lil crispy on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:45 AM
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Take your parents/grandparents back to their first house (assuming they don't still live there), and show them how much it would cost today. Show them how much a mortgage deposit would cost. Show them how much of today's salaries are eaten up by living expenses. They will see that a person from their exact same socioeconomic background - today - is unable to afford the same standard of living they could at that age. Ask your father/grandfather to imagine himself at 20 in today's world, using tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:18 PM
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Your great grandparents, and great great grandparents lived in poverty. Today, you don't have to endure the same kind of poverty they lived in, even the poorest, because those generations fought for it. They saw the needless destruction of the two world wars, and in the aftermath they demanded from their governments: food, housing, education, healthcare. And they got it. How? By taxing the rich. They understood that the way to protect regular average people is to tax work less, and tax wealth mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:52 AM
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Hearing these kinds of things is like 50% the reason I went down the red pill path when I was younger lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:52 PM
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This is exactly why I do those low effort dates (the red pill back in the day even suggested it) because it filters for these girls who actually value the person, not just the idea of a man. Fast food, coffee, aimless walk around the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:36 PM
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In the coming decade, I have a genuine concern the general public all over the western world will be seduced by fascism. Actual real fascism, not just someone you don't like doing a racist or homophobic tweet. People are ever frustrated with the state of the economy, the last 20-30 years has seen the average person getting relatively poorer. They're currently drawn to the right, who offer a 'positive' vision for the future, using populists to appeal to anti-immigration and anti-woke sentiment. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:37 AM
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It's me, I'm that guy. That looks so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM
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The very first version of Monopoly was called the Landlord's Game, and it originally came with two sets of rules. The monopolist rules (the game we know today, source of many hilarious family arguments), and the anti-monopolist rules. In the anti-monopolist rules, when players owned a space, they'd have to pay tax (based on the value of the land) into a public treasury. The total would then be equally distributed to all players in equal amounts. This meant that players lagging behind were given …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:17 PM
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It would be so fucking legendary if your BMI was +30 all this time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 AM
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A group of random guys from all dif backgrounds always has such chill vibe, but as soon as there's women in the group half of them start acting up. The jokes turn into a lame safe 'corporate company doing a memey tweet' vibe, the ribbing stops, some dudes get shy, others get overly boisterous, some will even put down others thinking the girls find it impressive. I think we all need those same gender only social events sometimes, just because so many men and women change their whole personalities…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:54 AM
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I feel like half of people cheat. Around half of everyone I've known has either done it themselves or been a victim of it. But at the same time, I'd like to think surely it can't be that many and it's just the kinds of crowds I've been exposed to. It's one of those things where everyone says it's wrong, yet everyone who does it rationalizes why it was okay and different in their case. She rejected my advances for years, made me feel unloved and undesirable. He stopped being attentive, treated me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:32 PM
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The best way is to pretend you don't care, even if you really do, and just act like someone who's open and accepting and non-judgemental. Pretend it's not important and it doesn't mean anything to you. People open up to you about all sorts of things if you make them feel listened to and not judged. Because when a woman really likes you, and she feels like that's something you'd judge her on, she'll downplay her number through telling half-truths, which makes it harder to figure out what the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:24 PM
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At cafe this morning, I slid her a scruffy piece of paper with a crudely written "will u be my valentine? circle yes or no" and she drew a big heart around the yes then handed it back to me, giggling and acting all cute like we're back at school. We're both in our late 20s. I will guide her loved up energy into the most sloppiest disgusting blowjob of all time tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:29 PM
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I don't understand why governments bailing out the banks in the aftermath of 2008 didn't sow the seeds for more class consciousness worldwide. That was an enormous betrayal to absolutely everyone, other than the extremely wealthy (+$10M earners), whether you earn -$20k or +$150k. The banks neglectfully and needlessly caused a crash, and western governments just rewarded them for it. (Shout out to Iceland though, who let their 3 biggest banks fail, arrested people involved, and forced them to for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:20 AM
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Bro is a real life modern folk hero
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:58 PM
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If that woman got her totally devoted chad, she would lose respect for him because he's acting simpy and pedestalizing and 'beneath' her. And if that man got his harem of stacies, he would quickly grow bored of them and yearn for some other woman he meets who's not as easily accessible as his stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:31 PM
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Men claim men are the more romantic gender, while women claim that women are. What do you think the reason for this discrepancy is? (assuming in good faith that both genuinely believe it) I am a man who thinks men are more romantic. Most of the women I've known had this attitude of viewing men as accessories. Growing up, my mom and aunts would constantly talk "men aint shit" rhetoric, be disgusted with them for minor things like fashion blunders, not making a lot of money, viewing them as kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:42 PM
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Based. If I was drafted, I'd be more likely to kill my own officer than the enemy. The ruling class attitude towards the working class is always the same no matter who's in charge. Even if my country got conquered in a war, and the dust settled, and enough time passed for the new regime to be stable, and the next generation knows nothing of war. The working class would still be treated poorly, as human history consistently shows. Our countries offer us stagnant wages, inflation, unaffordable hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:10 PM
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At that point, the relationship is already over. She snooped because she didn't trust, and when she snooped she found enough evidence to know why she didn't trust, so she'd probably want to breakup anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:54 PM
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I think it's bad. It displays a fundamental lack of trust, and if I've been trusting someone all this time who doesn't trust me, it puts the whole relationship into question. It isn't so much the action itself, but what it represents. If she believes those closest to her are untrustworthy, does that also mean she's untrustworthy? Could she be hiding something? Why is she with me if she doesn't trust me? It creates so many questions and drives an unnecessary wedge between us, when she could've ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:44 PM
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Georgists believe in taxing the unimproved value of the land (how that is determined is up for debate). The idea is that the land itself is taxed, but the improvements made to it should remain pure profit for the developer. It's only fair they should profit from their labor and investment. This creates two incentives for landowners: The more they improve their land, the more profit they stand to make from it. The distance between the improved and unimproved value is pure profit potential. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:44 PM
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Ideal solution: Single tax vision (Land Value Tax) a la Henry George. Practical: Government needs to compete with private enterprise and build a fuck load of housing themselves. Over time this would make housing cheaper, as they'd now be treated like any other consumer good (instead of an asset for investors) in the same way most products are. Competitive producers produce as much as possible at the lowest possible price for the consumer. Realistically, I don't see this happening any time soon. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:11 PM
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Culture war breaks my heart daily. Big business and lawmakers love to see us fight each other over gender/race/identity, or whether certain words/jokes are ok. Shit is so divisive and tears families and friends apart, and we all repeatedly fall for it again and again because our social media algorithms are designed to enrage us and turn us against each other. Meanwhile wages remain stagnant, inflation goes up, rents/mortgages go up, public services cut. And we're all just crawling over each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:26 PM
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Lmao the "entitled straight white men" comments always come outta nowhere too, like how is that even relevant to the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:31 PM
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Their general mood/vibe changes week to week, so they always feel like a teenager going through phases. It can be hard to know when they're actually being serious, when they're feeling something big and important to them in the moment, or just being silly. You could call that seeing them as dumb but imo it's to do with their hormone cycle. A self-aware woman definitely mitigates the worst of those mood swings and exaggerates the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:46 PM
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Going over to friends houses and just seeing they had better stuff. Seeing them get new clothes when they tore holes in the old ones, while I was taught how to sew mine back up. Seeing McDonalds as rare treat and big deal (I still prefer shitty junk food + cheap stores to this day even after experiencing the finer things). Going through a couple of winters where my parents had to decide between hot water or food + and then seeing the shame on their faces when they told me we'd have to wash with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:31 PM
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The window of opportunity is closing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:43 PM
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Should send her a DM bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:40 PM
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I feel neutral when I look at myself because it's 50/50 features I like and don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:34 PM
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It's inflationary if you use newly printed money to fund it, which I agree would be ridiculous. But heavy taxation on the highest earners (+$10m a year), then reinvesting that money into public services, housing, a citizen's dividend, etc, makes the flow of money in the economy more circular. It keeps everything running, and a decent base of consumers, while only marginally eating into the profits of big business. See Alaska's permanent fund, Singapore's land value taxes, and Helsinki's solution…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:31 PM
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You should man, I do, these guys are so unappreciated for what they do, but the economy would be in severe trouble without them. Just a simple hello is as good as a thank you, you're acknowledging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:13 PM
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Taxing the rich to fund a welfare state is a reasonable solution to keep money flowing through the economy, and to reduce the burden of cost of living. People will spend their stimmy money stimming the economy. Poor people especially, with bad spending habits and addictions, would be even more of an asset to big business than they already are - with their extra disposable income. Also, historically when there are worker shortages (black death in Europe, post-war anywhere), supply and demand mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:49 PM
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I consider the republican party part of that neoliberal establishment. The only reason why Trump represents change in people's minds is because he's a wildcard populist who doesn't behave like a typical politician. He comes across as different, good or bad, and that's his appeal. People are sick of the status quo, they want change. For the past 20-30 years everyone's felt like no matter what they vote for, everything stays the same. Wages remain stagnant, more public services are cut, and the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:07 PM
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I don't get why they were so surprised, it's like they genuinely believed it was inconceivable. I'm a left wing guy and I was 100% confident Trump would win, my other lefty friends called me crazy for it. But these past few years, I thought it was fairly obvious mainstream normie types were getting sick of progressive talking points while not much was being doing to improve wages, inflation, or rent/mortgage prices. The lurch towards the right is happening across Europe too, and imo it's because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:26 PM
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Glad he recorded it because people would blindly believe her otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:39 PM
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I do too. If big business has access to all kinds of loopholes to reduce their tax burden, then it's only fair the little guys do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:35 AM
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Girl came home from work emotional and crying so I held her, cuddled her, carried her, and we had sex. In the old days I would have been all "what's wrong baby? do you want to talk about it? if there's anything you need I'm always here!" like the kind considerate gentleman I was raised to be. But my evening would have then been spent listening to her venting about work, not having sex. Heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:10 PM
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You should just tell her how much she means to you when you get a moment alone and the vibe is chill, even if it seems random, out of place, and weird. Extroverts love that shit, they love when life feels like a narrative or story. She would 100% appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:42 PM
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I used to believe I was introverted but later discovered I was an extrovert with social anxiety (brutal curse). I found this out by realizing I always came home from outings feeling more recharged and refreshed than ever, excited about all random other things in life completely unrelated to the event. I have since cured the social anxiety. But in order to have this realization, it took an extrovert social initiator friend to pull me into those initial outings, even when I was being reluctant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:32 PM
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I'd be wearing sandals while my tall queen wears 20 inch heels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:44 AM
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Don't worry bro once you've seen enough of that, it stops working on you. Sometimes when they see their crocodile tears aren't working, they immediately snap and start being angry instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:42 AM
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I lowkey enjoy it too, but the negatives outweigh the positives. I love watching my friends' drama from the sidelines, but only because my life/family/home/job isn't involved. A cute schizo bpd unknowingly abusive gf would have to know where you live, maybe even live with you, and that just means you don't have a stable drama free sanctuary to return to anymore. She'd invite random other crazy people over, pull knives in arguments, threaten suicide, or tell everyone you know you're abusing her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:34 AM
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They see their LTR as "one of the good ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:09 PM
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Imo it's because a lot of reddit women just don't like men, and they see PPD dudes as fair game. Especially the bitter ones who seemingly hate women. Here, these people get to fling shit at each other without feeling bad about it because they believe the other is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:06 PM
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Pro-choice but I agree with pro-lifers that it's killing an innocent life. I get sad when other pro-choicers flippantly dismiss it as just a clump of cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:38 AM
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They're just having their fun on the cock carousel before finding someone to settle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:09 PM
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I have multiple severe mental health conditions due to a traumatic upbringing, and whenever I feel like someone truly understands me... I get scared and start acting weird. Because I know this person has the ability to permanently psychologically harm my delicate sentimental romantic mind. So I get scared and push people away who genuinely love me. Despite knowing this about myself, and trying my best to not let it get to me... I still do it. I don't know why. I know it's self sabotage, but I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:57 PM
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Yes. One girl I've been seeing recently has me absolutely enamoured head over heels with her but she's not doing much really. All she does is repeatedly compliment me unprompted. Tell me I'm special and 'important' in her life. Tell me I'm complex and different and unique. Comes over when I ask her too, has sex whenever I want. Cooks for me, cleans for me. Tells me I'm the only one who makes her feel safe when she's feeling fragile. Nothing about this women is different or unique. Physically she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:28 PM
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There was a weird demographic shift in reddit at some point because subs like fatpeoplehate and jailbait were mostly seen as fine by the whole site. Then at some point in the mid 2010s that kind of thing was stamped out because looking back, those subs feel more aligned with 4chan than reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:15 PM
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I liked conker's bad fur day too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:57 PM
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Bro I fuckin loved that game as a kid. I found it weirdly scary but that kept me hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
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She'd be an honest one at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:18 PM
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If she gives you her IG it's a sign she's not that into you and just trying to politely exit the conversation, or a sign she just wants another follower. Number is more direct and personal, so if she gives you that it's a better sign likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:49 PM
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Left: 9 Right: 7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:41 PM
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It really is unnecessarily bitchy. People support each other in relationships, that's why we have them. Even with daily chores that are bare minimum and expected, I think praise and gratitude is important. It costs nothing and it's a small show of appreciation for being there for each other in life. I thought this was normal because all of my relationships have had this. When people make comments like that it makes me think they don't even like their relationships, in which case why are they eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:38 PM
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I love windmill_flowers and lilithofbabylon posts. Windmill is wonderfully good at baiting and trolling while feigning ignorance the whole time, masterfully done. And lilith posts the most ragebait insane takes, while not engaging anyone's arguments in good faith at all. I think windmill knows exactly what she's doing, but I can't tell with lilith, she might actually be like that. But they are both hilarious agents of chaos and the commenters fall for them every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:19 PM
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Kony 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:21 AM
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Both are reasonably attractive young academics, fairly evenly matched imo. Passport bros are usually fat/old/ugly dudes who are low status in their home country but have economic leverage in SEA. For a woman equivalent, look at female sex/romance tourism around africa/caribbean/southern europe. Fat/old/ugly western women being romanced by young handsome tall fit local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:06 PM
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People who claim they love unconditionally are dangerous because they lack the self awareness to understand that love, especially romantic love, is conditional. If you fall in love with a man or woman who genuinely believes in it, their belief will end up making you believe too. But in the event of a breakup, you will understand exactly what the conditions were.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:54 PM
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People act like the only reason grandma/grandma couples lasted as long as they did was because there was too much shame around divorce, or the wife didn't have the financial means to leave an abusive or neglectful husband. But when you talk to couples who are still in love well into their 60s-70s-80s, they will mention each other's flaws, shortcomings, annoying habits that drive them crazy, poke and prod at each other's most embarrassing traits. Yet he still looks at her like she's an angel, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:34 PM
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I do this when bikes go by and I just make a joke about being a baby who can't handle noise, lots of women will find it endearing if you play it off as funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:28 PM
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I've heard that line many times from women who then proceed to hook up with me. Sometimes it really means "don't talk to me" but others it means "you're still a stranger and I just need more time to feel comfortable around you first" Either way you should back off initially, respect boundaries. But when this happens in clubs/bars you run into each other throughout the night. And if you're both being friendly and vibing, you often later learn the boyfriend was either fictional or she just doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:25 PM
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I would have said no in the past because I thought they all had a flat affect, but the last autistic girl I dated was bubbly and expressive and smiley and that shit's like crack to me. So now I'm neutral / case by case on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:09 PM
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May we live in interesting times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:36 PM
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I wish I was a short dude with a tall gf. Not in a soy reddit mommy milkers death by snu snu submissive kinda way, but because I want to be a devious little imp with a pretty princess at my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:03 PM
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I am, she sounds fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:48 PM
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I love this shit, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:47 PM
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Strawberry fields forever 🍓
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:09 PM
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Solid observation. What makes it even more sad is the right doesn't actually want to offer anything to help men, but are very good at making them feel understood. And the left continues to actively demonize men at worst, while considering them the lowest priority on the rungs of identity politics at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:38 PM
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In my country in the '50s, the average man spent more of his weekly wages at the local bar than he did on his rent/mortgage. And he could still provide for a family + vacations, on a single income in unskilled work. Think of the dumbest guy you know from high school, this would have been him had he been born in this era. Housing was like any other commodity and consumer good, the manufacturer produces as much as they can at the cheapest possible price for the consumer. This was possible because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:32 AM
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Not you though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:48 AM
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Intense headache around your temples and behind your eyes + feeling like throwing up just from looking at light
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:36 AM
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At best, she means well and is trying to reassure male insecurities, saying they don't need to be perfect to be attractive. At worst, she's trying to avoid being seen as shallow, while at the same time implying men are for noticing the tall, dark, and handsome fantasy. Either way, inauthentic and unhelpful. But if she's the first example she's chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:44 PM
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Aint got anything to add just wanted to say you seem chill af bro lol I too always felt the whining about women and trad nonsense from other red pill bros was totally missing the point of TRP. Got my own heavy distaste of capitalism too but don't wanna completely dismantle it like BP social media activist types. Respect bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:56 PM
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I had a similar background growing up, the red pill did the same for me. When I first found it, I didn't believe it would work since it's so anti-women-are-wonderful, and seemed mean lol But literally within a month or two of internalizing it, women started liking me for the first time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:49 PM
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I have explicitly set reddit not to notify me when there's a new subreddit post, update, announcement from the mods, announcements from the admins, some random dude starts streaming, stop autoplaying videos, stop telling me about awards/achievements, etc. And yet it still does. Even after I triple check and disable absolutely all notifications. I want to rip that fucking little reddit alien's head off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:54 PM
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Cute sentiment but obviously delusional. I wouldn't think she actually believes it though. She just doesn't want to concede that men are physically stronger, in whatever discussion that is. At worst, she's lived a very fortunate life in that she's never had to deal with violent dudes, which is a great for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:45 PM
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Astrology girls tell me being an aquarius makes me dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:09 PM
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Absolutely heartbreaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:56 PM
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It was his attitude towards covid lockdowns that turned the reddit hivemind against him, but more recently it's the nazi salute. I don't like him either, but I don't think he's actually a fascist. He just understands that anti-immigration sentiment is a big winner with the electorate at the moment and will be for the next 5-10 years at least. If he and his pals continually appeal to that sentiment, then voters aren't focused on the actual source of their day to day problems, which is wealth ineq…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:41 PM
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That she's just venting about her experiences with men not doing chores. She doesn't actually find it hot, she just wants men to do chores in a way she deems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:49 PM
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My left wing friends think I'm right wing and are constantly on my case about it, but look: I think there should be a massive wealth tax to fund public services, a comfortable welfare state, and keep money circling around the economy instead of coalescing at the top. But we shouldn't dismantle capitalism. Communism and fascism are both absolutely abhorrent alternatives. I'm pro-choice, but I agree with pro-lifers that abortion is killing an innocent life. I don't like the flippant "it's just a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:48 PM
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7/10. Amazing length, below average girth. I don't make them moan, I make them hiccup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:51 PM
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A lot of dudes agree with the RP analysis of male/female attraction, but are resentful of it because it's a bleak outlook. Especially if you believe it's true and you're far from what they'd call a natural alpha. RP pretty much solved all the dating troubles I was having 6-7 years ago. I didn't expect it to work, but it did, so I still use it today. The loudest RP voices online are the dudes who believe in it, but resent it. They refuse, or have tried and failed, to integrate it into their lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:31 PM
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Q4RP: What do you think is the true reason that TRP was seen as so controversial? Imo I think the harsh language and evo psych plays only a small part of it, which is understandable why blue pillers would be offended/disgusted by that because no one wants to believe they're not above their basic instincts, and harsh language is just unpleasant. But the bigger reason is that a subsection of men who identified with it got perpetually stuck in the anger phase. Hating sluts for riding the cock carou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:47 PM
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Sorry, nobody on Reddit goes by that name.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:10 PM
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Sad to see because if he has a general hatred of men the same way misandrist women do, he hates himself on some level. And if he's trying to be one of the good ones as his getting laid strat, the most he'll get is kudos while all the women he wants to fuck continue fucking the types of men they claim to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:03 PM
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When you get everything you ever wanted and realize it wasn't as fulfilling as you thought it would be, so you refocus to finding joy in the little things and just being with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:59 PM
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It really is spoiled brat behavior isn't it? Modern conveniences have negated so much of the effort required for chores that being overwhelmed by them seems childish. I've had stints of unemployment where I'm at home all day, getting all the chores done takes like 2-3hrs max, and that's if you live with multiple people and you're doing a deep clean. Daily stuff like laundry/dishes/vacuuming takes even less time. The only time I find the complaints valid are when both people in the couple are wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:45 PM
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It doesn't provide actionable solutions to problems. A therapist will help you articulate your feelings + challenge your warped perceptions, then just tell you it's ok to feel that way. I already know my feelings are valid. I already know my perceptions are not necessarily reality. It doesn't help to be heard and understood, I already know these things. If I'm wrestling with depression, poverty, lack of social skills, low positions in social pecking orders, zero love life, I need solutions to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:35 PM
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Girl I'm talking to thanked me for not making her feel guilty for having feelings (she was being reactive and snippy due to PMS and apologized for it), I thanked her on a different day for being reassuring when I was anxious about something. Both times the things we were being thanked for didn't seem like a big deal to either of us, we didn't even think about it. Yet both times, we were also surprised by the other showing some basic kindness and consideration. Like it's some big, unexpected thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:07 AM
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I feel for artists who worry their jobs will be replaced by AI, but what annoys me about them is their attitude that art is some exceptional field that AI shouldn't be allowed to touch. For nonsensical ideological reasons too. They're pretending to care about artistic integrity, instead of admitting it's an economic fear, which would be more sympathetic because this problem has affected more than just artists. Advances in technology have been making jobs obsolete since the dawn of man. Huge swat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:05 AM
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You look like you would tell me my horoscope and give me crystals if you liked me, as well as try to convert me to veganism. You also look like we'd have fun taking mushrooms together. All jokes aside, a face reveal in a sub like this is a ballsy move, mad respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:28 PM
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I grew up poor and there were a lot of black moms in my low income housing unit that made me feel warm and welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:25 PM
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I want a big black lady 10-15yrs older than me to be a surrogate auntie in my life and invite me over to feed me delicious meals while I listen to her gossip about her job/family/whatever and we watch movies. Strictly no sex or romance, just aunt vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:00 PM
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The thing that made me stop listening to the power dynamics argument was when the women pushing it would say there's a coercive element in instances where there really wasn't one. They'll just describe a man who has his shit together: good career, emotionally stable, attractive to other women, slightly older, in a 'different life stage' to her, etc. This dude is just existing yet some woman will say there's a power dynamic making her feel pressured to act 'right' when really they're just putting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:59 AM
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My metric for success on dating apps is actual dates materialized. I like to get around 1 date a week when I'm using them to feel they're worthwhile. I've used tinder and bumble the most. Tinder because it's the OG and bumble because I find there's a lot of quirky arty girls on there and I like that. Bumble's whole shtick is that the girls are supposed to message you first, but they only say "hi" and still want you to carry the conversation. That's just how women behave online though so you stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:05 AM
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I took a bag of pickled onion flavor potato chips and added black pepper, garlic granules, paprika, chilli powder, and extra salt. My breath smells garlicy and oniony as fuck rn just foul, rancid shit. A new terrible habit has formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:23 PM
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Someone out there is gonna read your daily reminder on just the right day at just the right time and it's gonna save them from staying settled for 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:39 PM
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Diet and exercise is the definitive prescription for fatties to cure their fatness, yet they refuse the medication. Ask any doctor, who regularly sees fatty patients for fatty ailments, what percentage of the fatties accept this medicine. It would be really low. To me this suggests fatties being fat is no longer a matter of personal responsibility and moral failing on the fatties' part. Especially in a high stress society where the most convenient food is yummy fatty food, wages are stagnant, jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:39 PM
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In PPD first date hookup arguments, where do women get the idea men feel entitled to sex from? I understand the male perspective of if she hooks up with other guys fast but not you, that's gonna make you feel insecure and unattractive. But I don't see dudes saying those women should hookup with them on the first date when they don't want to, just that they're disappointed she doesn't see him in the same light as those other men, so it's best not to have a second date since she doesn't seem like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:09 PM
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doing the lord's work brother keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:41 PM
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I'm always hesitant when that happens because to me it feels like they've intellectualized themselves into being into me, as opposed to it being an initial wow feeling that hits them and makes them all giggly and blushy and shy. When I was younger, girls were never all that excited about my looks but they loved and were attracted to my personality. I never felt lusted after and always had to do a whole lot more than hot tall guys just to be seen in that same way. This made me feel insecure about…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:50 PM
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Focus only on the ones who are hot for me right from the start, not just warm or only kinda into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:33 PM
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Date said she "wasn't attracted to me at first" in front of her friends a couple weeks ago. It hurt my feelings but I thought whatever it's not that serious and never mentioned it. Then yesterday I said the same thing about her in front of my friends (was feeling petty and spiteful), and now she's all fragile and in her feelings about it. This shows she knew it was a hurtful thing to say, yet chose to say it about me anyway. And on top of that, she didn't offer me the same grace I showed her by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:06 PM
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https://i.redd.it/0lypwlsgx6ee1.gif I wonder how she/they/them/xe/xer is feeling this time around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:18 PM
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This is the death of the honeymoon phase, she's so comfortable and secure in your relationship she feels she doesn't have to try to impress you anymore through being the pretty princess she was until this point because she thinks you wont leave if her effort wanes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:14 PM
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I like this question because I've never been afraid of it and it makes me feel like a freak because everyone else I know is. I don't know what it's like to wrestle with that fear. Even when I was thinking about it for the first time at a young age, I guessed it would just be like all the time that passed in the world before I was born - pure nothingness, not even suffering since there's no concept of self. I knew about religion and various heaven/hell ideas, but my thought was that since all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:52 PM
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Every woman at all times is just 1 breakdown away from dying her hair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:39 PM
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If those were my only choices I'd reject them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:34 PM
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If someone found a way to make something like that, you know all those senators would crack down on them for it. Rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:32 PM
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Social media obsession, materialism, desires looks/glances/male attention wherever we go, is suddenly way more into me after hearing about my job (I run my own business and make good money), acts differently with people she deems beneath or above her, gossipy and judgy. I don't think these traits make them bad people since they're all normal things to care about, I just think we're too different. I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman like that, but I'm still friends or ons/fwb with them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:27 PM
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The red pill is logical and rules based and it works, it's seduction for autistic men. It's just that the logic and the rules are something we didn't pick up on intuitively, or wasn't explained to us growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:07 AM
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Whether someone thanks ChatGPT or not is a great test of moral character lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:20 AM
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Time to sales funnel them >:)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:51 PM
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Dude looks cool af, I love the santacore drip the man's vibe is immaculate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:25 PM
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People who are seemingly all about ✨body positivity✨ are always so quick to start making fun of the way others look, especially if they believe that person is bad. I think they do it because being attracted to the body positivity movement in the first place means they're especially sensitive to attacks on appearance, so helping foster a body positive society would insulate them from the pain of those insecurities. Having insecurities is fine and normal, but if people are ideologically inconsiste…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:21 PM
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It's essentially the red pill without all the terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:07 PM
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27M People always tell me they love my cooking but I just copy recipes from the internet, and don't make any substitutions, so they can't go wrong. I am a big fat phony and living a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:56 AM
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Look at others' apps that are already doing well and then just steal their idea. Can make better quality app and charge slightly lower price, or create basically the same quality and then just market it to a dif audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:43 PM
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You're real as fuck for this. Living together has always been the worst part about relationships for me because not having my own space means I can never truly relax. The compromises make me feel suffocated in my own home. Separate beds with the occasional sleepover is sooo much better. I never got those people who want to do everything together in relationships. I like carving out blocks of time for 'relationship time' and all the dates and romance and connection happens in those, otherwise it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:09 AM
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Unemployeds living on welfare are true champions, real lord and ladies. They understand working is slavery so they let the taxpayer fund their lifestyles instead. My unemployed friends are always doing random hobbies or hanging out at 2pm on weekdays. If you're not materialistic, it's a dream. The only reason I haven't joined them yet is because not being able to have an emergency savings fund for when something comes up would give me crazy anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:28 AM
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Become comfortable in your own skin without relying on anything external. Learn to love yourself, warts and all. Find inner peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:06 PM
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Those crazy bpd girls are beings of pure light and magic, as long as you don't expect too much from them emotionally and only engage with them when they're in a happy manic phase. Perfect for a fwb or fling. Disastrous and destructive for a relationship. I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:02 PM
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Back when I was in peak red pill mode I used to love it when these girls from the past suddenly started showing interest because I knew I could never get attached knowing they passed me up before. It was a like getting a free plate that would spin itself. Nowadays though I'd say just let them down gently and move on, it's not good for peace of mind having people you resent around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:06 PM
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This has always been my experience. I've had a few girls where things got platonic after a few dates because our vibes just didn't mesh, and then they felt like I got distant all of a sudden. I just started treating them more as friends instead of dates. We'd chill and shoot the shit and run into each other at events but I wasn't doing as many favors or listening to them vent every day because to me that's girlfriend stuff. A lot of of women are so used to special treatment being their norm that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:04 PM
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Now show it in winter :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:08 PM
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It's weird too because it's not even an offensive thing to point out. The only reason to get upset about it is the virtue signalling point you made, or because they believe noticing it is just a tactic to try and get them to sleep with men sooner than they'd like. Brothers if she's not jumping on you, when she has a history of jumping on men she's excited about, she's not as attracted to you as she was them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:05 PM
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Seeing your pic after seeing lily's for weeks now made me fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:56 PM
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I think this shit is funny af. Sometimes my bros show me a pic of a girl, I'll say she's hot, then they later reveal she's trans and everybody laughs. They know I'm straight and I'd never date a trans girl, that's why it's a funny. I never understood the dudes who get mad about it. Some dudes are so paranoid, they'll refuse to comment if she's hot or not unless they know for sure she's not trans. It's like they're so worried about being seen as gay, it ends up making them actually look gay lmfao…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:54 PM
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Learning about hedonic adaptation fucked me up this year. On one hand, it makes you realize how utterly regarded it is to have vices, so I was able to quit them all cold turkey relatively easily. On the other, it also applies to achieving goals, even productive ones like fitness and finances. No matter what you do, good or bad, your overall mood ultimately snaps back to its baseline. Now I see little point in doing anything, knowing overall lifetime happiness and fulfilment is largely unaffected…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:02 PM
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No. She can just go lollipop mode, and I kinda like teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:28 AM
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I agree with you some people are just wired differently. I have lots of early memories of not bothering with status games at school. It wasn't out of some sense of superiority or adherence to logic though, it was more that it didn't seem worth it to me to do a lot of stuff I wasn't interested in, or didn't agree with, just to fit in. Not fitting in didn't seem like a bad thing in my mind because I'd rather do the things I wanted to do, even if it was at the expense of status. I had to learn from…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:07 AM
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When dudes ask if they're the best it's usually insecurity masked as a question and women feel like there's no correct answer that won't satisfy the insecurity, it's like a trap question. It's normal to be insecure but women are absolutely revolted by male insecurity. Even if you 100% were her best, the fact you had to ask for clarification will read to her like you're not confident in your own abilities. Because she'll think why are you worrying about that if you didn't just innately know you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:11 AM
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Green one at the top, to match my eyes. If I'm feeling extra flamboyant I'd wear the orange one on the right too and prance about like a christingle 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:56 AM
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Do you believe drunk words are sober thoughts? A lot of people say alcohol makes them act crazy but in my experience it just lowers my inhibitions and neuroticism. But weirdly all my resentments and bitterness just disappear and I have endless forgiveness and sympathy towards everyone and myself as well. I've never been angry or sad when drunk. Imo I think the people who say it makes them act crazy actually want to act like that all the time. Because we know alcohol objectively lowers inhibition…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:01 PM
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It is insane. I think people can see the hypocrisy of it though, they just don't care. Imo most people don't actually care about being principled and virtuous to whatever set of morals they believe in. They're more concerned with the tribalism and making sure they're part of the ingroup, not the outgroup. The fear of social ostracization is very real, and so is the opportunity to secure a higher spot on the hierarchy. You can tell who these people are when they criticize one group for behaving a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:20 AM
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In the future, AI gfs will be made to shit test and start unnecessary drama. Because if they're too perfect, dudes will always feel like they're talking to a robot. They might not think they want a gf who causes them slight annoying problems, but psychologically that's what they'll respond to because it feels more authentic. If she's too perfect then hedonic adaptation will make you bored with her. So all the same relationship problems will remain with AI gfs, except maybe paying the subscriptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:08 AM
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In order to be ideologically consistent and actually principled the answer should be yes, but they'll say no because they want the child support and they want to protect their interests. I'm personally a fan of the welfare state though, and I think if the social safety nets provided more than bare minimum, more people would be on board with paper abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:49 AM
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My first gf would do this all the time, and randomly show up with delicious food too. Now I can't settle for anything less, she really alpha widowed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:38 AM
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Yeah they tell you to write longwinded bios and avoid shirtless pics, but in reality you get better results with short witty bios and shirtless pics (if you're on top of your fitness) I have no idea where reddit gets its profile advice from considering it doesn't work. Do they just dispense that kind of advice because they ideologically believe it should work, despite reality saying otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:13 PM
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I identified as a feminist in my teens because I believe in equality and less strict gender roles, which is what I thought it was all about. But then I noticed that all the girls were going for the same types of guys, the one they always complained about - the ones who adhered to masculine gender roles, and when I started acting like those guys despite being encouraged not to, suddenly they saw me as attractive. The hypocrisy made me realize it wasn't about egalitarian ideals at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:48 PM
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I like women who simply don't want kids, because I don't want them either, but the ones who are so viscerally disgusted by kids and pregnancy always come with the most wildly misandrist hot takes as well, in my experience. I always wonder why they're even dating men if they don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:38 PM
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You get used to it and your brain just drowns those noises out, or finds them safe and comforting. I've been an urban dweller all my life, whenever I stay somewhere rural I find the quiet weirdly noisy and unsettling, especially at night. It's the same effect, just the other way around. Distant traffic, muffled chatter, and shuffling around upstairs are like soothing lullabies to me when I'm falling asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:27 PM
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I've been seeing a lot of 'juice isn't worth the squeeze' and 'bar is on the floor' sentiment from both genders around dating. Most common complaints are about lack of effort, lack of reciprocity, nexting over minor red flags. But surely if everyone feels this way, that must also mean the ones who complain aren't putting in much effort or reciprocating either. Are they hypocrites, or just naively pursuing people above their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:52 PM
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Her closest male relative/friend for not warning her of the potential danger (even though they probably did)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:02 PM
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It's the most irritating thing about internet platforms. Can't have safe spaces because they make polarizing echo chambers that further radicalize people, can't have free and unrestricted posting because edgelords would just ruin things, and the only compromise is a moderation team, but they always end up banning stuff they personally don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:47 PM
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I think so. It's how people behave when they have an abundance of choice, even outside of dating, they treat the choices more flippantly. It happened with me. I used to think all I'm looking for is one person to love and I will do whatever it takes to make it work, through tough times and endless self-sacrifice and total commitment. I really believed it too, because getting interest from women was so rare for me. But after I went through a red pill phase, and got results from it, I found myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:19 AM
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I think so. It's how people behave when they have an abundance of choice, even outside of dating, they treat the choices more flippantly. It happened with me. I used to think all I'm looking for is one person to love and I will do whatever it takes to make it work, through tough times and endless self-sacrifice and total commitment. I really believed it too, because getting interest from women was so rare for me. But after I went through a red pill phase, and got results from it, I found myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:19 AM
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Imo I think she's willing to endure because that kind of money never comes easy, and if she can make the most of this era she'll be set for life. Would you trade 40+ years of rat race career stress for a shorter stint to earn the same if not more, if it meant you got to coast for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:16 PM
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Love the slight leftward lean on your pointer bro, my dick got a similar arrangement goin on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:05 PM
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She's a genius, took the art of whoremanship to a new level. Acting all wounded afterwards is genius too because it's making some people say "grrrr but that's exactly what you signed up for slut!" and others say "awh poor baby men are so evil!" all to get more eyes on her and her OF. Smart businesswoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:30 PM
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The most interesting thing about Luigi is how there's a mixed bag of both lefties and righties sympathizing with him. It's not often you see people step out of the play pen of culture war distractions and focus on how our corpos and governments view us as contemptuous little peasants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:45 PM
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It's more common than you think tbh. I've had a few programming jobs and honestly. I never felt like I knew what I was doing. Just logic'd through the problems and copy pasted code I got from googling. I was working with dudes who got into debt to go to school to learn this stuff, meanwhile I was just looking at stackoverflow and indian programmer tutorials on youtube. At first it felt like imposter syndrome but I never got fired, it just became funny at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:10 PM
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Lmfao it really does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:32 PM
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I can see what women mean when they say men don't pull their weight in relationships, tbh it's not even a uniquely gendered experience. Everyone's trying their best in the early dating phase, especially if they really like the other person and want to be really liked back. There's so much attention to detail in all the little things that make it feel magical, and you don't see each other as often as you'd like to so absence makes the heart grow fonder. But as soon as people feel like they 'got' …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:05 PM
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Passport bros and the women who date them know they're signing up for transactional relationships. I can see the point of "he's just exploiting her for sex" but there's also the point of "she's just exploiting him for money." Imo neither involved are being exploited, they're just making a deal. If a thai girl isn't happy with her passport bro, there's enough of them there to just find another one. Same goes for the passport bro who isn't happy with his current thai gf. Both have options and both…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:56 PM
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means I'm a mischievous lil man who likes to snuggle under my blankie >:3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:46 PM
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I encounter so many dudes who are actually pretty progressive at heart, but they just don't fuck with all the race/gender/oppression stuff from the left because it alienates and scapegoats them when they're struggling under the rigged game just as much as anyone. If you describe left wing policies to them without using any culture war buzzwords or implied party affiliations, so many MAGA bros actually end up agreeing. Most decent people think inequality is unfair, and with the amount of wealth a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:38 PM
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In my experience the ones who want to date you tend to hover around you more, laugh at your unfunniest jokes like they're as good as your funniest, find excuses to be physically closer, make more of an effort to pretend to like your hobbies and your opinions, eager to do small favors for you. You feel like they're just sort of appearing near you and making themselves helpful. Ones who don't want to date you kind of treat you like their friends or a gay best friend, you can tell they don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:28 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:23 AM
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Balkans people just look like bickering caveman to the rest of the world. You're all basically the same yet constantly fighting and setting each other back while the global superpowers flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:06 PM
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I don't think they would tbh, younger women love older men, especially when they have their shit together. The only ones you see get vitriolically mad about it are women who got fucked over in some way by an older man in a relationship when they were younger, which just shows she was naturally attracted to older too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:36 PM
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I think progressives like the idea of it on paper, but not in practice. The real tragedy of that isn't that it's not ok for men to cry, it's the confusing mixed messages young men get. I would advise boys that it is okay to cry, but if you do it in front of others you'll be harshly judged for it, and while it's not fair and shouldn't be that way, it is that way regardless. Find somewhere safe to cry it out alone and work through those emotions, then when it's all out of your system and you've sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:28 PM
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It's a tricky thing to grasp because a lot of shit tests aren't even conscious actions by the tester, and I don't think the red pill emphasizes this enough, so dudes expect it to be this obvious act of manipulation when they encounter it. But a lot of times it's just down to the girl's socialization and neuroticism making her annoyingly indirect. It's really good you're starting to see them, because handling them feels like literal cheat codes once you understand what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:17 PM
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I was brought up the same way bro, I love checking in and being self-sacrificing and accommodating because I always thought it just made sense to treat your relationships like that when you care about people. It feels good to push my own desires to 'impose my will' aside because it feels purposeful, and it feels good to have others do the same for you as well because it feels like we all have each others' backs. Now I'm just pissed off at why I was raised to basically enjoy being a workhorse, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:00 PM
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I had a similar experience before and after learning about the red pill. I didn't even work on my looks at first, just acting red pilled made women suddenly start liking me, and I had real trouble reconciling that with how dismissive of me they were before. It even made it hard for me to empathize with their own struggles with men, especially when they complained about players stringing them along, Because I would always explicitly say I'm not interested in relationships at all and strictly look…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:08 PM
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It's therapyspeak and it's so exhausting, there's something so clinical and depersonalized about it that lacks any soul or spirit. Imo it just encourages us to treat each other algorithmically and it disguises itself as empathy, understanding, and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:52 PM
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Both atheists and theists place the burden of proof on the other, yet neither has any proof to support their own arguments. The only reasonable stance is agnostic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:38 PM
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They would just lie about their BMI like dudes lie about their height and olds lie about their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:42 PM
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That he's handsome and got a good vibe but also has some emotional problems that make him seem immature or not comforting enough for a girl, or he has no future prospects. I had the opposite problem as a young man. I just wanted hookups but only ever got relationships, even from the girls I knew who usually hooked up. I think it's because I had good relationship qualities (very safe, comforting, communicative, 'emotionally intelligent') but I wasn't handsome enough to be noticed and jumped on, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:55 PM
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If you want to be petty you can tell her new 'one' about how you two have been fooling around (with screenshots n shit to back it up), acting like you're a bro just watching out for a fellow bro. I used to do this all the time when I was younger due to the "are we dating the same guy?" groups from women. But I stopped when I started feeling childish about it. Still, it's a good way to sabotage her new shit because most dudes don't like hearing that stuff about a girl they've been seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:58 PM
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Please :( I don't want to choke you, spank you, tie you up, call you names. I just want to love, hold, and tell you how pretty you are; to cherish you and tell you how much better my life is with you in it. I don't want playful banter or friendly competitions, I just want us to be emotionally soft and gentle with each other. Stop calling me daddy, we're the same age. Stop acting bratty and princessy when you want something, or pouty when you're upset, just communicate because I'm on your side. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:08 AM
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It's a green flag. I find people who identify with their politics to be too caught up in culture war bs for my liking, regardless if they're left or right leaning. They also treat the 'other side' with such contempt that it becomes hard to see them as a kind and caring person when empathy only extends to those with the 'correct' opinions. I even prefer the ignorance and apathy of apolitical people than someone with too much fervor. My favorite people though, are the ones who care about politics,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:01 PM
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I would love to quit my job, get all the mental health diagnoses I've been neglecting to get for years, and just depend on the welfare state to fund my existence: NEETmaxxing. My dream lifestyle is more than achievable with government assistance. This has been on my mind for 2+ years now. The only reasons I haven't committed to it are: 1. The social stigma of being a leech. & 2. the ability to maintain a little pot of savings for emergencies (what if I need a new computer?). I often ask myself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:27 AM
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Based and taxation-is-theft-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:46 AM
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Starting early
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:20 PM
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Could be a couple things. Mirror shows you a flipped image of yourself and you get used to it, so in unflipped photos you feel like you look weird and uncanny valley. In this case it's all in your head so nothing to worry about. If you're using a short focal length on the camera and it's too physically close to you, it makes you look like you've got a long head and a bulging face. Use a wider focal length. You can simulate this a bit with phone cameras by having the phone far away from you, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:18 PM
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Looking good bro, good on you for posting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
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They'd just be looked at like some novelty nostalgia doo wop act, although it's hard to imagine how the music industry would've evolved without their influence. the Beatles was a perfect storm of talent, skill, and luck, all in the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:27 AM
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Best so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:57 AM
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We need to divorce property from the land it's built on, so that good ordinary folk are no longer ensnared by the extortionate rent prices of lazy landowners. If you could pick up your house and put it down somewhere else on a whim, landlords would be forced to offer competitive rent prices to increasingly pickier renters, while those renters get to keep their homes and everything in them just the way they like it, no matter who's parcel of land they put it on. The humble trailer park is the ult…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:28 AM
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I've followed the UFO and aliens conspiracy rabbit hole as my nighttime reading for years now. It's just entertainment for me so I don't have any opinions on how much of it's real or not, need more compelling evidence. But that stuff is fun af to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:52 PM
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I've rarely encountered people who are actually about open communication. I really like it on principle, and initially try my best to lead with it, but I always feel such a fool when I'm being open and communicative, while the other person isn't. With most people, it feels like you have to play toxic games just to prompt the right behavior out of them. Nobody's willing to just sit down and talk about things because to them it's too boring or cringe. Worse still, you have a big conversation and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:42 PM
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Ugly but seems fun and not bound by convention so would make an interesting friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:33 PM
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You're right, and political parties love that debate for this reason because it's an easy way for them to rabble rouse and stir up a load of passion and polarization, which conveniently deflects conversation away from things they'd rather not talk about. It's a card they can play endlessly, whatever their stance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:27 PM
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Niche af reference but my dream life is The Darling Buds of May, I want to be Pop Larkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:45 AM
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Lmfao the fact he thought it was normal makes this funny as fuck. I lived the furthest from my school, and I used to dread my meagre 5km walk both ways. It would drag on for what felt like forever, and I'd be spending that time either dreading morning classes, or wishing I could just get home quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:07 AM
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Idk where you live but if you look at crime stats across european countries you will understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:22 AM
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Damn, that's awful. Life can be brutally uncaring like that. Some people smoke and drink all their lives and end up living well into their 90s, others eat right and exercise all their lives and still die early. What a sadistic little petri dish the universe is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:56 AM
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Could work tbh, some girls will see the humor in it. My best performing line lately is "You're making me feel wiggly af in that 3rd pic" Dating apps should offer performance metrics on opening lines for men: time she spent reading it, reply ratio, number of messages in the conversation it sparked, etc. Would be kinda cool to track engagement like that. Because some lines absolutely perform better than others, and you can't always tell why, and it's not the same lines that work for every dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:49 AM
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It could be that she feels the people in her life don't understand who she really is deep down inside, or value her for it. Because she feels she can't express herself or she doesn't even have a solid grip of her own sense of identity. She's surrounded by people but she still feels isolated and alone because they don't really know her. Or it could be standard boredom and attention seeking for sympathy points, hard to know so you gotta treat it case by case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:17 PM
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Most of the men I know who struggle with dating don't really have anything wrong with them. They're not offputting, they're not bad people, they're kind and considerate and socially calibrated. But they're not amazing or exciting either. Just sort of regular everyday dudes you don't think twice about. They're okay but unremarkable, like most people in general. Their worst traits are being cautious and passive when it comes to flirting and expressing desire, or being too 'open communication' abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:08 PM
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It didn't feel manipulative because I wasn't trying to hurt feelings or take out any resentment towards women, I was just trying to learn how to be the kind of guy they actually wanted. In my younger years I was quite timid and anxious, like piglet from winnie the pooh. I knew that women liked the opposite of that, I just didn't know how to be that. The red pill gave me a framework for being that. It felt unnatural at first, and there was some awkwardness and cringe in the early stages when I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:01 PM
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Agree & amplify, keeping a strong inner frame, amused mastery, passive dread game, abundance mentality, handling shit tests and comfort tests, lifting. Cringe terminology but that's what they used in red pill spaces. Getting natural with those things suddenly made women attracted to me when I was young and maidenless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:52 PM
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Tbh it never hit me because I refused to accept it. I was always the kind of guy who'd rather be single than in a subpar relationship. Not because I was stubborn or fussy or moral, but because jerking off to porn felt better to me than sex with girls I wasn't that into, or who weren't giving me what I wanted. And relationships always felt like too much heavy lifting, compromise, and initiative on my part to justify the treatment I got as an average man who was just sort of ok in the eyes of most…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:44 PM
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Sounds like a good date, fuck her then have her clean your place up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:34 PM
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These manosphere podcasters are monetizing red pill rage and inceldom by keeping that audience angry af because it drives engagement like nothing else. Those dudes eat it up like crack addicts. They invite airhead bimbo OF models to come get verbally degraded on air, then try to fuck them in the afterparty, right after spouting some nonsense about traditional values and 'degeneracy' ruining society. The hypocrisy isn't lost on them and they know exactly what they're doing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:27 AM
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I like libs mostly, but one of the most frustrating things about them is how they view everything through a lens of power/oppression. It's a surprisingly stupid way of viewing the world because it always frames the perceived underdog as the good guy, regardless of context. You'd expect brainy academic types to have better judgement than that. Israel/Palestine situation is fucked because neither of them wants to stop treating the other horrifically, both factions are completely abhorrent. Yet her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:21 AM
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I think the ideology as a whole encourages guys to be kind of passive helpful entities with no sexuality, probably because it makes it easier for women to separate the wheat from the chaff, and makes the world less threatening for them. I considered myself a feminist as a teenager, and I tried my best to be all accommodating and gentlemanly and curb my attraction and forwardness just because that's how I was raised. But it made girls see me like a harmless gay best friend, so I knew I had to cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:57 AM
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I love bitches with bad posture. Legalize anterior pelvic tilt, embrace lumbar lordosis, I want to wander and awe at why you have permanently arched back for no reason. Sacrifices must be made in the pursuit of beauty. Why have a strong and functional core when you can be a shining star for the world to cherish? Noble and selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:46 AM
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This is why tone absolutely matters. You'll find most blue pillers absolutely agree with red pill concepts when you frame it in their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:22 AM
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Community-focussed work is one of the best things someone can do on an individual level, given the circumstances. You're noble and saintly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:33 PM
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You are a wise man, and you're doing what the red pill calls 'enjoying the decline.'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:30 PM
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What keeps you actively wanting to contribute to society? Wages are stagnant, the cost of living is constantly rising, asset prices are ever-skyrocketing. In the western world, all of our governments are actively in favor of economic policies that keep normal people poor. Our economies' wealth gets trickled up into assets owned by less than 1% of us, and simply held there indefinitely to grow and grow as asset prices continue to rise. Only the people who own them actually accumulate wealth. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:18 PM
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Wagies have a certain degree of independence because they can choose their employer, but their employer still ultimately profits more from their labor than they do. Still, there is some power in being a chooser, especially if they have a desirable skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:16 PM
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Look at different male archetypes women are most attracted to (there's only a handful) and figure out which one would be easiest for you to emulate. The right look can be bought for all of them, but imo it's best to max the one who's personality is closest to yours, it's way easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:11 PM
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Deliciousness, wanna put allat on a fat juicy breast of the chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:08 PM
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My favorite genre of social media thot is a fat girl, who's gotten all that fat lipo'd out of all the unflattering places, and pumped right back into her already fat hips, thighs, and butt. Looking like a cartoonishly exaggerated fertility godess in the most beautifully fucked up way. Sometimes I toy with the idea of finding a chubby gf who wants this, and paying for it for her. But in the event of a breakup, it would've been a wasted investment, as she could just waltz away with the sweet modif…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:37 PM
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My favorite haircut is a buzzcut, but whenever I buzz it down I feel like I have to nichemaxx a bad boy vibe in order to have the easiest time dating. It works well, there's a certain type of girl who loves that archetype. However, the prince/poet archetype is easier for me to do naturally, and I prefer the types of girls I get when I'm doing that. But it works best when my hair is longer. I don't want it longer, I prefer it buzzed. How can I have my cake and eat it too? Any examples you know of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:15 PM
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Women who can't cum from PIV are in the exact same category as porn addicted men who've numbed themselves with masturbatory death grip. These girls rub their clits like they're trying to start a fire, shove objects as thick as arms inside themselves. You don't have to care about their orgasm gap complaints in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:45 PM
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ENTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:41 PM
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If you're making an average wage and you're not part of a dual income household, you're spending more for less overall. You're putting more into society than you're getting out of it, and getting relatively poorer in real time (unless you're on a good career path with a high income ceiling). At the moment, most dual income households are formed by couples. In the not so far future, I think we'll start to see friends build their lives together in the same way, just without the romance and relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:42 PM
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Doing it right brother, hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:35 PM
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I don't think cheating can be prevented, the types of people who cheat will always cheat no matter what you do. That's one of the risks you take when you decide to try love/relationships. Solutions like this may feel good on paper but they don't accept the reality that cheating is a very real possibility. A better solution would be to develop a psychological framework that can handle that kind of betrayal, a support network of friends, and the assuredness you'll be able to find someone else if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:54 AM
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This movie is great, it always reminds me of my NEETmaxxed friend. He lives exactly like the dude (right down to the bowling) and it makes me wonder what's the point in even working when you can just chill like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 AM
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That is a useful lesson to learn, you can worm your way through any system or institution from the bottom up with relative ease with that skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:49 PM
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Ouch, that's definitely a dagger to the heart. These childhood stories are funny because the stuff that happens in them are objectively not a big deal. But when you're a kid, with limited experience of the world and endless curiosity about it, these are your first impressions of what it's like. These seemingly trivial and inconsequential moments when we're small still inform our opinions about life when we're big, and we don't even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:38 PM
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That is simultaneously sad but also kind of based, since it means your own interests are more important to you than the social pressure of 'fitting in' and being noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:25 PM
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When I was like 5 or 6, I got yelled at in kindergarten because I hit a kid who was putting my hot wheels in his mouth, getting food, crumbs, sticky fingers all over them, and launching them across the room carelessly. I only brought my hot wheels in that day for my friends and I to play with, but this kid made a fuss about it and the teacher forced me to share with him too or she'd confiscate them. I hit him after he launched one so hard it dented. He cried, so did I (because it was all overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:15 PM
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I don't think most of them are even aware they're shit testing. I too thought they were needlessly cruel when I first learned about them. But then when I could handle them properly, they made me excited because I knew I was getting laid tonight if she was poking like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:33 PM
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Social media just gives me goals and ambitions that aren't even mine, and don't even make me happy when I achieve them. It's doing it to you too. I didn't even want to be a hustler entrepreneur online business sextillionaire, I just wanted to not work a 9-5. As soon as I started making a modest living working a couple hours a day, I was done watching business content. I didn't even want to travel or go to crazy events, I just felt this is what girls wanted and I had to give it to them just to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:11 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:35 PM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:50 PM
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Every specific detail on your lists are just symbols of more abstract qualities you like. Is it that you want a man who's taller than you specifically, or is that you want to feel safe and protected if needed when the world is scary and uncertain? Is it that you specifically want a man who earns more than you, or is it you want one who's good at what he does and a valued member of his community? Do you specifically want a submissive agreeable housewife, or is it that you want to feel respected a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:54 PM
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Sorry to break it to you bro but they still do it in the colder months, a hoe never gets cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:55 AM
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I went to a roaring 20s themed event once and it was basically just a club but everyone was doing the charleston and pretending it was prohibition times being all sneaky about the drinks, with a lot of slapstick chaplin-esque shenanigans going on too. It was the most fun clubbing experience I've ever had and I'd do it more often if it was like that every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:06 AM
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A little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:39 AM
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Your comment format always pisses me off, but you have displayed an enormous amount of wisdom here. These are powerful lessons you've learned and they will serve you for the rest of your life. Love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:52 PM
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It's crazy how that topic has dominated the sub for weeks. Tbh I would just get one in secret if I had my concerns because a woman will always take it as an accusation of infidelity. That's the most logical way to go about it. It's such a non-issue that it just seems like an excuse for the men and women of this sub who hate the other sex to screech at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:47 PM
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This is actually a sign of progress because it means you got over the stage of initial nervousness just doing simple low-stakes interactions. It's like going from level 1 to level 2. I went through this stage too at some point and my strat for overcoming it was to force myself to act the same as I did during level 1, despite knowing I was in level 2. Initially it was a fake it til you make it situation, but after receiving enough positive feedback you don't have to fake it anymore since you've m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:44 PM
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Makes me wish I was short so I could flex with a tall gf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:24 PM
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Very true, you can get around it though by arranging the meetup fairly early on. That way you weed out the girls who are just there for validation. Lots of guys make the mistake of being a penpal, texting for days/weeks before even meeting up, because they think it'll increase their odds of a date. But it's a losing strat because there are so many timewasters on there who just use it for a validating confidence boost. Best move is to have a brief fun flirty convo to get her all giggly, then arra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:46 AM
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Take her bowling, buy her a coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:21 AM
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People are very bad at asking questions that aren't obviously leading. Expecting anyone to answer honestly isn't reliable at all and this is something everyone should be aware of when they're looking for raw unfiltered feedback. You have to come at it like a marketing team dealing with a focus group. Design some really clever questions where people don't feel judged or uncomfortable or even aware of what their answers may implicate. Or you have to rely on behavioral observation under different e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:14 AM
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I'm the same, I find it so fun and cathartic but I also don't care to get better at it, I just enjoy doing it. Drunken karaoke nights are a godsend for this. Nobody cares if anybody sucks, and in some cases it can even be an asset to be bad and clowny with it, because it removes the pressure from everyone else to be good, which makes them more willing to get involved and have fun with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:27 PM
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It's not even remotely in the realm of dealbreakers. As long as she's willing and excited to learn, it's only a good thing. It's a beautiful trait for someone to have,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:29 PM
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Just use your words. Explain how you love romantic gestures, then light-heartedly joke about how this one sabotages your efforts so don't do it again. Then you can pivot to a fun conversation about romantic gestures and displays of affection in general, and talk about the ones you both like or like the idea of. That way, he doesn't feel rejected or discouraged, so he'll still want to do things like that for you in future, and you'll also learn more about each other from it, so it's a bonding thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:17 AM
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I think there's a difference between a combative attitude and expecting showmanship, vs just wanting to take things slow. What you're talking about is fine because people like things to progress at different paces, feeling rushed is no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:54 PM
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I always say I'm open to casual, but something more developing from that would be far better, which is the truth. This conversation obviously happens before sex. I make that absolutely clear, because I believe in being honest, I think lying and misleading people is wrong, and like my comment suggests, I don't want a potential relationship to begin on adversarial footing. If that's what I'm annoyed about, why would I then do it myself? That makes no sense. I want to love someone, not fight them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:35 PM
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Many women are highly suspicious of men due to bad past experiences. When I'm on dates with them, it's like they subtly take it out on me from the get-go. This is really irritating and ugly. Acting guarded, slow to warm up, expecting higher levels of investment and initiative from me without offering the same themselves, making presumptuous comments about how I must say that to all the girls, etc. Where is the benefit of the doubt? I have my own qualms with women too, but I try my best to put th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:05 PM
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Lol I went through that heartbreak for a solid year, after seeing how doing red pill tactics got me more attraction from women than I ever had in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:42 PM
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Tbh most of the time when women complain about porn it just seems it's because they're insecure about being compared to porn stars by the men they like, which is more of a them problem. A valid complaint though, is if their men are so addicted to porn they can't get off without it, or have desensitized themselves with a death grip so they can't fuck properly. These dudes are always just looking at it randomly throughout the day too and they're straight up crackheads for porn. The most BS complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:15 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:52 AM
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Why do so many zoomer and millennial women want to be choked, spat on, tied up, and consensually non-consented? I have never had an innate desire to do these things, but it's desired of me so predictably by most women, that slow, sensual, tender, romantic sex is starting to look like a taboo kink by comparison. They're just as pornsick as they men they complain about, if not worse. Women's search histories are dark as fuck scenes where the girl basically acts like she doesn't want wants happenin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:55 PM
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I agree with him but he's a dumbass for not being gracious about it. Even if you get some useless dishevelled homemade trinket, the sentiment behind it is what matters, not the thing itself. Being appreciative of gestures like that makes the relationship as a whole better in the long run. But I avoid his disappointment by buying birthday presents for myself (the things I actually want lol), then it doesn't matter if what I get from others is hit or miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 PM
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She sent me a suggestive can I come over wink wink text, then showed up with stubbly legs, baggy fit, complaints about cramps, and pleas for cuddles. Crunching on a big bag of the stinkiest chips as she walked up. I shaved my face and my balls for this? I put on some nice clothes for this? Went on a snack run for this? Got a bottle of wine for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:43 PM
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I did have an insecurity about it when I was younger. I had nothing to offer, but I knew women liked confidence so if I wanted to approach I knew I had to act like that, otherwise it wouldn't work. Eventually you get comfortable with it and the results encourage you to keep doing it because it works often enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:55 AM
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It's actually insane how much leverage simply not being fat gets you. It almost makes me glad most people let themselves go because they make me look better by comparison. Also I'm into chubby bitches, and they're very appreciative to be with a guy who's in shape, which makes them do less shit testing so relationships are smoother. Count your blessings boys. If you love something everyone else doesn't, you're spoiled for choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:55 PM
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If you live in a western country you can always leech off the state through whatever welfare programs they have to offer. It's easy enough to fabricate claims for mental health grants, which will support a decent enough lifestyle without having to slave away at a job. If that doesn't appeal, you can always try to accel at your career just for the sake of getting the number in your bank account up, make it your new game and find the joy in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:49 PM
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I should take a leaf out of your book and be more conscious about it, I always see you talking about your escapades on the daily threads. I've never tried going places alone before, but I think that's the best way to get the most things happening. I've always invited friends to stuff or been invited, but that's at the mercy of everyone's schedules lining up. I need to meet more people who can do stuff at 2pm on a random wednesday, and the only way to find them is to go where they go at 2pm on ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:04 AM
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It never occurs to me to just go do things. Cafes, restaurants, galleries, museums, aquariums, nature walks, bars, beer gardens, concerts, some creative class, a goofy photoshoot with friends, themed parties and events. Regular-ass normal things that everybody I know loves to do, but for some reason I just don't think to do them. I've always enjoyed these things whenever I went, I'm extroverted and social, so I can't figure out why I just don't do them. It sounds really stupid but it's like I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:39 AM
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Videoclub - Amour Plastique
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:10 AM
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"We're not having sex tonight." She said, stern as fuck and out of nowhere. Okay, I didn't think we were but now I know we definitely are. I told her good, I don't like to do that on the first date, but all flirty with a suggestive grin. The date got more fun after that because she started doing more of the chasing, and as soon as we got back to mine we did the thing we were definitely not doing tonight. Women get frustrated with us for not taking them seriously and not respecting them as commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:39 PM
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What do you think happens when a FDS woman and a TRP man are running their respective games on each other, without knowing the other is aware of these concepts, and thus never talking about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:29 PM
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Meditations was such a stabling read for me when I was younger. Stoicism is what finally allowed me to make peace with life's injustices and miseries, while embellishing its triumphs and joys with total gratitude. It stopped me from being a total nihilist. There was a pragmatism about it that actually worked, a total mind-hack and mood stabilizer that worked in every situation. Other religions always felt like a means of control, or required too much suspension of belief when it came to things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:09 AM
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You're right. Here's the problem though, the original red pill always warned against this, they'd even criticize Rollo all the time. The sentiment was always to not be an ideologue, and to not forge a sense of identity out of it, but to see it as a social toolbox when it comes to dating. But people, despite this, still latched onto the clowns. In a community that explicitly advised people to not be followers, people still wanted someone to follow. I think this is something that's fundamental to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:40 AM
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You will never achieve your pump because gainz are so gradual and your pump gradually increases at the same speed. Even when you achieve what today is your pump, say 6-12months from now, you'll still feel like you haven't made it because your pump then will be bigger. Just keep doing what you're doing and it will take care of itself, good effort bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:42 PM
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Forgiveness is very Christlike. You are more like him than your Christian brothers who wouldn't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:25 PM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:13 PM
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Women. It seems like 90% want to at least be choked, and if you indulge them on that and give them a non-judgemental space to talk about sex afterwards, the rough stuff they're into are basically rape fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:23 PM
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Some girls just use the apps for attention and validation and were never actually interested in meeting up. Others are talking to lots of guys and only want to line up dates with who they see are the best ones. And some just get cold feet when the idea of meeting up becomes real. This is why it's best to set a date up fairly early on after a bit of chat, that way you can weed out the time wasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:06 PM
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I can see some women being into it, especially if he's confident and it's no big deal to him. Think the type of girl who likes a gentle giant kind of vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:19 AM
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Nothing, I have always been the type of guy who likes to be pampered with princess treatment and I joke about it on dates all the time. Lots of girls love to do that for their men, so I just focus on those ones. You have to make it known that's what you want early on when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 AM
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Very effective approach, will get your feet in many more doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:58 AM
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Lmfao dude made a fool of himself, it's like the opposite of those fresh & fit clips of OF hoes being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:41 AM
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We sound really similar, I could've said all this myself, even your flair lol For me I think I attract them because I'm as open and non-judgemental as they are about degenerate shit, at least outwardly, but I lead with my brain and not my heart so I seem emotionally stable and regulated, maybe even distant, which feeds into their daddy issues lmfao I'm still trying to figure out how to do better with the type of women I actually like, they're hard to meet in the first place since they prefer to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:29 AM
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My type is introverted and serene homebodies, but extroverted and passionate art hoes come to me like moths to a flame. The hot ones I will fwb, but they're not what I want for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:57 AM
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Some weeks ago I went on a few dates with this girl and it was fun n flirty but I was getting mixed signals, so I spoke to her about it for clarity and she basically rejected me, saying she doesn't know what she wants. I took it on the chin and she was all "does this mean you won't talk to me anymore ? :(" and I just said I'm sure we'll see each other around, but I just soft ghosted, and kept it minimal and friendly whenever we ran into each other lol We don't speak for a few more weeks, then al…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:44 PM
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Whenever I let women see the deepest innermost workings of my soul, where we have introspective conversations about how we became the people we are today, the ways in which we get in our own way, the pivotal emotional experiences that shaped us, our quirky little likes and dislikes, our hopes and dreams... the vibe dissipates from flirty and interested to platonic and friend-y as fuck. Whenever I act red pilled, I get passion, infatuation, and wild kinky sex. But the conversations are boring and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:48 AM
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Most have posted their face at some point if you wanna go sniffing all creep mode. They're usually kinda fat with glasses, basically the female equivalent of soyjak. The pretty ones usually don't face reveal because they want to avoid creepy DMs, unless they're OF girls tryna promote. PPD girls look like regular everyday mids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:14 PM
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I keep them around to eat all the other critters lurking in the shadows. I love spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:50 PM
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Poor dude, AF/BB stories are always so heartbreaking. The comments are lighting him up for having feelings about it too lmfao Before I knew about the red pill I was very much a BB type of dude. Those relationships always had a way shittier feeling than being the 'toxic' fwb she claims to hate yet keeps coming back for more crazy sex. Reading stories like that dude's gives me awful emotional flashbacks to how it used to feel to be the safe stable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:24 PM
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That would be so much worse imo. Before I was red pill aware I didn't understand why women found me so bland. It used to depress tf out of me. After I saw what's on the other side, the practical advice it gives started working pretty much as soon as I implemented it. Had this not happened I would've been stuck as a nice gu le chivalrous gentleman pedestalizing doormat for mlady for god knows how long, getting absolutely nowhere and not understanding why. The other side helped me finally access w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:12 PM
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I think online women call online men entitled because they feel like the dudes are trying to pressure them into changing, even though the dude is just venting. This makes them mad and think "why should I have to change?" and then they call the dude entitled for demanding change, even though he wasn't. Women are sensitive to feeling socially pressured and reading between the lines of what's actually being said, even when there's nothing to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:20 AM
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You ever show someone a song that's full of meaning to you, and they just look like :| Your whole life, this song has given you an emotional experience only it can access. A bittersweet sense of sadness, depression, longing, hope, euphoria, sentimentality, optimism, vulnerability. It all blends into one important and confusing feeling, and it has deeply moved you throughout your life. You feel compelled to share it with the people you love, so that you may be understood. Then this person you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:14 AM
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I feel you on this bro. Being content with being alone makes you as picky as a 5/10 mid woman on tinder. It's even worse when you know how to fuccboi too, since having a few fwbs means life never gives you the opportunity to feel too lonely to the point of despair. A lot of the girls we pass on would probably turn out to be just fine matches as well, if we weren't so unwilling to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:07 PM
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Women initially think I'm an ambitious go-getter because I'm self-employed. The only reason I'm self-employed is so I can live comfortably and save for the future while only working 3 hours a day. I don't want to slave away working 8+ hours, that's a waste of time, I just want to chill. I'm not even interested in scaling the business, it already does what it needs to do. I don't want to travel, I don't want fancy restaurants, I just want to chill out with everyone I love and enjoy the cozy littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:10 PM
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Sun is down but it's still early in the evening, air is cold and crisp, got that night time smell walking between places, maybe it was raining earlier and now the streets are all shiny and reflective, everybody's wearing layers all stylish, smell of hot food trucks everywhere. Can't wait for these vibey autumnal evenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:29 PM
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His name is Semi, and he consistently remains automatic. Amassing quite the fortune, he's always looking to acquire additional currency, with the end goal of multiplying that sum and ultimately increasing his riches many times over. He's coined this process mathemathematics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:48 PM
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That's when you give it a hug and say it's ok buddy I'm on your side let's work together :3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:57 AM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:56 AM
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The gym is for homosexual men. Gymbros will loudly throw out a bunch of bros, brahs, and warrior grunts with the boys, then get all quiet and sheepish when it's time to talk to girls. You have to drive there, work out with a bunch of distractions (and sharing equipment if it's busy), shower, then drive back. Waste of time. Bodybuilding as a sport demands you get a spray tan, get oiled up, then bend over on stage to show your ass to a panel of (male) judges. Only other dudes compliment size and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:38 PM
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I'd rather stay single, but single to me is still going on dates and hooking up. I mention this because my answer would be different if I didn't have the ability to do that. When I was younger I got 0 interest from women. The lack of options affected my mindset, which affected my behavior. I often settled for low enthusiasm and bare minimum efforts from women, because I never knew how long it'd take to find someone again if we broke up, which created a power imbalance in favor of the girl I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:39 PM
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When her friends are like this it actually pushes her closer to you, especially if you're anything but the monster they think you are. Your girl can feel the discrepancy between how her friends make you out to be, VS her own experiences with you. At worst, she'll feel confused. The worst it gets is she starts acting different in the relationship based on some shit her friends said, but you can always correct that with a conversation and some reassurance. People get mad at you when you start doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:48 PM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:06 PM
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She's saying that because she wants marriage at some point. If you really view her as contemptuously as your comment suggests, then you'd use marriage as a carrot to dangle in front of her for a whole fwb situation or whatever it is you want from her. Popping off at her like that will get you nada.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:00 PM
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I'm talking about communicating your wants and needs with clarity. Punishing the poor girl for being in love and wanting to marry you is a little harsh lmao The guy is complaining about women not proposing, dropping hints, creating a miasma of indirectness, when it doesn't need to be that way if he just makes it clear at some point in the relationship that he would like to be proposed to. How is she supposed to know that? She's not a mind reader, or "should she just know!?" The indirectness is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:47 PM
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If she does that annoying hint dropping and gauging interest shit, just tell her you expect her to be the one who proposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:31 PM
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Ignore what they say, watch what they do. Women reveal their true preferences and desires through their behavior, not words. They say they hate shirtless pics on dating profiles, yet when you use a shirtless pic, you get far more swipes. Words are like spells and they can influence you. Be mindful of who is casting healing spells and who is casting poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:27 PM
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No, because this is true for undamaged women as well. My point yesterday was related to my CPTSD, and how I more easily connect with people who also have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:12 PM
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No, because this is true for undamaged women as well. My point yesterday was related to my CPTSD, and how I more easily connect with people who also have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:12 PM
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Yeah sometimes the pheromones hit nicely, other times you think wtf is this rancid ass cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:20 PM
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One of my favorite things about women is that it doesn't matter if they actually like you or not, as long as they respect you. It saves so much time and energy. She'll fuck you, and then she'll complain to one of the guys in her friendzone about how you mistreat her (aka not indulge her every emotional whim) and how awful you are, then come back the next day for more fuck. I used to try very hard to be liked in the dating process, and because women communicate indirectly it used to feel like a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:17 PM
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There are enough dudes who are willing to do it for these women. It's a pretty sweet deal for her, she gets to enjoy her 20s, work and earn her own money, and then save parenting decisions for when she's older, wiser, more informed. The average 35 year old man is not that appealing to young women. Ideally he wants to be with them because they're just better, but realistically he can't. So he adjusts his expectations and directs his seed to the 35yr old eggs. If you've built a rock solid life by …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:49 PM
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If you're a 5/10 guy, which most of you are, the 3/10 women will treat you like a king. No one is excited about 3s, but for those of you who really are as touch-starved and lonely as you make out, and you want some companionship and someone to enjoy life with, the 3s will be grateful and appreciative of you. If she believes she's bagged someone above her level, she's going to behave herself. It's not even a conscious thought process on her part. Men do this too, that's why they get so simpy arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:21 PM
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What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:23 AM
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Lmfao what possesses us when we are in these moments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:38 AM
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Do you ever cringe at your own dirty talk during sex when you look back on it later? Here are some of my worst offenders: "You spankable little fairy." "Make my balls your deities, your yin and your yang." "Physically you need brutality, spiritually you need gentleness." They're not particularly egregious or graphic examples, but they sound like gay attempts at poetry. Thankfully my cringe has always been received positively in the heat of the moment, but sometimes I look back later and ask myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:07 AM
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Imagine she's some random 5/10 who's alright but you could take or leave her, and proceed with that perspective in mind. It will maximize your chances because I'm sure if you look back, the girls who were the most excited about you in the past were the ones you weren't really trying that hard with. This will stop you from acting too pedestalizing and simpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:30 AM
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I broadly believe in equality, but I think women are absolutely regarded when making rational decisions about anything in life, just beyond dumb. Because generally speaking, they're far more susceptible to groupthink (easily influenced, prioritizing 'fitting in' over what's right), far more risk-averse, and easily scared. They're also incredibly emotionally indulgent in a way I can only describe as whimsical and flitty. So do I really broadly believe in equality if I have this opinion about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:47 PM
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You should keep the stache and when it's long enough go full Hercule Poirot (Kenneth Branagh version). I've wanted to do that for years but have never got round to it. It'd suit your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:04 PM
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That's why if you're a 7 you shouldn't feel bad about stringing along a 5 in a situationship, even if her struggle with online dating is sympathetic. It's what she secretly wants anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:07 PM
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I always chance it, it doesn't cost anything. Often the hot sexy cute hot hotties (who you feel are out of your league) are easier than mids. They're used to dudes being kind of nervous and simpy around them so if you keep your cool, they think you're refreshing. I'm a pretty generic looking guy though, so I made my profile funny and silly so it would stand out against a sea of other generic looking dude profiles, where it's just pics of them in bars, BBQing, or travelling. I think less hotties …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:44 PM
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When you go on a lot of dates from the apps, the dismal state of online dating frequently comes up in conversation. It commodifies people, the abundance of options makes us treat each other flakily and throwaway, etc. The overwhelming majority of dates I meet complain about the state of online dating, yet that state still perpetuates itself. That means that all these people are contributing to it too, otherwise it wouldn't be so. Their complaints are stupid, because they secretly like it, like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:25 PM
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I have a mental health condition called CPTSD. I am only interested in dating women who also have it. My most loving relationships have been with women who have it, my closest friends have it, and my sister, who's my best best friend, has it as well. People who have any kind of mental health condition have a unique perspective and experience of life. I find myself only being able to relate to, and feel understood by, people like me. I am sick of leaving it up to chance and magnetism. I need to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:12 PM
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Your attitude is what taught me to never tell a girl how truly beautiful I think she is, because I learned it inspires contempt. I never tell her how much I adore her, the way she moves when no one's watching, the sway of her hips, the way her eyebrows slope when she's sad, her laugh, her giggles, the way she remembered that dress I loved and bought several more just like it, the way she gasps when she's shocked, the way she does little jumps up and down and squeals when she's excited, the way s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:43 PM
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Yeah, you're right. They're too focussed on the exact words of the last couple of messages before the ghosting, instead of the overall feelings and emotions of the girl. They may be stupid and irrational, but that's ultimately what she bases her decisions on, whether we like it or not, so it's crucial to understand. You have to try to imagine her interpretation of you, plus her interpretation of your interpretation of yourself. If you can't do this and you're semi-autistic, you need a good group…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:18 PM
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This is a good wisdom for the shallow club party girls kind of group, you're right about that. It pays to treat the ugly one well, especially if the whole group is insecure and vanity-centric, it forces them to compete for your attention. However, there are also groups of girls who have a friend they genuinely love, she just happens to be ugly/fat. If you're too nice to this one, she imprints on you, and the other girls make space for that because they know their friend rarely gets some and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:06 PM
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They're safety tips, the women who call it victim blaming actually know this deep down. When they complain about it, they're not actually believing it's victim blaming. They're expressing frustration at the fact that there are psycho men in the world who will put them in danger when they just want to enjoy a leisurely stroll. It's a woeful lament about one of the world's many evils. Realistically they understand these kinds of awful people will never disappear, so they're grieving about one of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:01 PM
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When a group of guys and a group of girls run into each other on a night out and mix. From a guy's point of view, if you're too warm with the fat/ugly one, she'll latch onto you like a bird imprinting on its mother, which makes it harder to talk to the one you actually want. It's better to be bare minimum polite, in the same way women are cold and standoffish around guys they don't know yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:08 PM
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<image> we are all silly foolish fools in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:23 PM
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It's an insidious and infantilizing form of racism in disguise, implying minorities need a booster seat, as if they're less than. If average white people start losing economic opportunities due to DEI hires, who do you think they're going to blame? If a DEI hire fucks up at their job, as everyone does occasionally, how is that going to reflect on DEI? What conclusions will people draw? A lot of these 'equitable' policies are just kicking the can down the road instead of actually trying to solve …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:16 PM
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I have found so much joy in the low blow lately. When a woman is being uppity and arrogant about her "worth" and "men aint shit" I love implying she's a fat (especially if she's skinny, it hits harder) insecure bimbo who says that type of thing right before she sucks dick because she's a silly slut with something to prove. When a man is trying to be a tough guy with a bunch of alpha posturing, I love finding ways to poke at all the delicate metrics of 'masculinity' he cares about. He's broke, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:54 AM
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When a girl claims to value equality, but deeply desires the most degrading sex, you can ignore her political opinions. She doesn't actually believe in them. When a guy emphasizes the importance of traditional gender dynamics and strong masculine leadership, but wants women to cuck him, peg him, pee and poo on him, you can ignore his political opinions. He doesn't actually believe them. They will try to tell you there's no hypocrisy there, that sexual preferences are separate from core values, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:46 AM
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Old zoomer, young millennial here. In my experience, you don't have to pretend to be a full lib. When women talk about politics, they're rarely talking about actual beliefs and principles. They're either parroting talking points that make them look good to their friends, or talking about some underlying feeling or experience and using political rhetoric as an emotional outlet for it. Identify the emotion behind what she's saying, then make her feel seen and validated. You can be a nazi or a comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:47 AM
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