cponnor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	What does it mean if a girl winks at you She has a twitch.	/r/seduction	28/08/19 03:40 AM
3	How to deal with being skinny Start eating. I'm 6' and used to weigh about 135lbs. I have an insanely high metabolism. Started working myself to eating about 3k -3.5k calories a day and going to the gym on a regular basis. Find a training program that works for you. I'm almost a year in and I'm up to 160-165 and feel a lot better ability to approach different body styles. I felt the same as you do, only seeing a possibility with smaller(weight) than me.	/r/seduction	03/08/19 07:41 PM
1	cold feet? Well with the added info it may not have been the best option, but in my experiences if you plan a date, then she cancels, call her out on it. If she is skirting around even going out that's a different story, which wasnt mentioned at first	/r/seduction	23/07/19 05:23 AM
1	cold feet? Well with what you did with the different girl was basically beg her to go out. Remember she is young and might not know how to react to turning someone down such as yourself. I think you're right, make sure you dont double text, but I'd wait a few days, then text back are you alive?(had decent success with this one) when she says yes then say good, let's meet at this bar at this time and date. Or if you think you will bump into her again then in that may be best and say hey stranger, or somethi…	/r/seduction	22/07/19 04:39 PM
3	Im struggling with openings and messaging. Get off the app asap. You want to get their phone number sooner rather than later. Tell them that you want to go out at such and such time and place, do not suggest it with a question. Dont ask them the shit "get to know you" questions, rather suggest things about them. Such as you look like trouble if they have that vibe or if they have a innocent vibe tell them their smile looks cute and innocent but their eyes tell you they have a hidden wild side, or stuff like that, and then I ask what the …	/r/seduction	22/07/19 12:26 PM
3	cold feet? Call her out on it. Of the few dates I had set up prior to learning this I had all of them cancel or postpone for one reason or another. The last one I set up a date with with she "cancelled" a half hour before, I told her she wasnt doing a very good job at proving she wasnt trouble by cancelling on me(the inside joke to start the date was she said she wasnt trouble after my opener of her looking like she could get me in trouble) but she replied with her being nervous about going out in public a…	/r/seduction	22/07/19 12:16 PM
2	How do you overcome the fear of people watching you approach How many times have you been walking through the park and seen or overheard a guy trying to pick up a girl? No one is paying attention to you. They are all minding their own business, watching their kids, being engaged with whoever they are with, listening to music, running, etc. No one is going to stop and watch you talk to a girl!	/r/seduction	22/07/19 06:01 AM
2	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks I agree man, you're only helping yourself. It won't be instant, it wont easy, but I promise you if you keep at it, focus on the little things and make short and long term goals. And cross them off as you go. You got this.	/r/seduction	15/07/19 05:14 AM
2	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks And to add, I've always been super awkward around girls, all through out high school I was the kid in love with my best friend who wanted nothing to do with me, my first real relationship ended after 2 months and she got engaged 3 months after that. Shit made me depressed and awkward as fuck. It's all a mentality. Get a hair cut at a barber shop, I dont have anything fancy, I pay $15 every couple weeks and get a high fade comb over. I wear clothes that fit me not, not baggy clothes I had since h…	/r/seduction	14/07/19 11:08 AM
1	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks I do have my job listed but it's not impressive or implies that I make bank. I'm not pulling 10s right now, but decent looking, fit women. Learn how to talk to them, be interesting. My bio is (My height) \| (job) (6 bulletpoints - trait that can be perceived as dirty or clean - hobby - exaggeration - cute - adventurous - dirty trait) My weaknesses(such as long hair, cute butt, etc) (Physical, emotional, exaggerated, physical, emotional) Every girl as only referenced a bullet point or one of the w…	/r/seduction	14/07/19 10:10 AM
1	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks Oh for sure. Just taking it in steps right now, starting with online, will definitly move on to public interactions once I'm comfortable in my ability to keep up conversation. I've always been a better texter than talker, but these dates will get there.	/r/seduction	13/07/19 07:19 AM
1	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks I live in a very rural area, less than 30k people within 50 mile radius, so I'm thinking 7 isnt too bad right now compared to if I were in a big city. To get their attention you need to say something different, make them think, etc. Im not saying I'm and expert but in my limited success every one of my openers was either along the lines of "you seem interesting... you have an innocent smile, but your eyes say a hidden wild side" if she looks cute and innocent, or "you look like you would get me …	/r/seduction	13/07/19 06:45 AM
1	Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaks 25m - Getting the likes is only half the battle. I've had 7 matches which lead to 5 conversations so far this week after getting newer, better pictures and a better bio. Out of those 5 conversations so far I have 4 dates. And out of the 4 dates I got 3 of them to ask me out. Now none are 10s but 6s and 7s and one 8. And as a 6 or 7 I'm perfectly okay with that to start off. This is after 6 months of maybe 5 matches and 0 conversations. Learn how to talk, watch YouTube videos on starting conversa…	/r/seduction	13/07/19 06:23 AM