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cpotter23/r/RPChristians05/01/22 03:27 PM
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Really? Never heard of that. I’ll have to dive into that deeper
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 11:25 PM
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Okay I think things are totally getting confused here. I will respond soon. My answers you are correlating with the wrong points of the conversation. That is my fault. The expect something in return is the wanting to please my wife sexually i feel like she should want to do the same that’s what I meant sorry. I need to specify my answers more
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 11:12 PM
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I will respond to all of this when I am free. Heading to the gym, then church at 7. Appreciate the input, and I think we are getting somewhere with this. Thank you for your patience on my answering
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 10:01 PM
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Okay I get what you are saying. I guess it is a fault of my that I take the assumption I am ultimately doing something wrong to her, as to why it might not be reciprocated. No she doesn't have my balls in a vice grip. I want to do my part around the house, because I want to. That is where I feel I can help and help her. I did not voice this correctly, but it was just my way of saying, I am doing all of these things right what am I doing wrong if that makes sense. I 100% expect something in retur…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 09:58 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I will look that up. I appreciate it
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 09:48 PM
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I will definitely observe for sure
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 09:46 PM
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Okay makes sense. I have done research on that as well. Figured this could be a reason, and I am just in over my head with my T levels and expectations. Just seems odd sometimes when there are days or weeks that go by and its not even a thought. So it must be a norm thing then? ​ I appreciate the effort in trying to assist in my thought process
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 08:11 PM
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Understand where you are coming from. We have had many conversations. I work in many ways to build sexual attraction. Her main answer is just "women and men are built different". I get where you all are coming from and can make that assumption, but there are many conversations that are being had, and I have approached there different angles of masculinity dynamics, leadership, and attraction. ​ Trust me I make sure I show confidence. I am assertive for sure and she knows it. I just feel like she…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 08:06 PM
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Gonna be honest here. The higher levels of dread do not follow biblical standards of any kind. I get the beginning stages of improving yourself in many ways, and I already have a life outside of my wife. Is that what you meant by use discernment through that thread? Divorce is not an option in the Bible
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 07:59 PM
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I understand your sentiments here. I just posted those stats because my post got locked. I appreciate you taking the approach of you do not know me outside of this post. Which I apologize if I came off the wrong way. Being straight up here I understand what you are saying from the masculinity stand point. The women I dated before my wife always were heavily into the physical attraction. Always brought it up of how tough it was to not do sexual acts. I am really not trying to toot any horns here …
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 07:18 PM
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I understand your sentiments here. I just posted those stats because my post got locked. I appreciate you taking the approach of you do not know me outside of this post. Which I apologize if I came off the wrong way. Being straight up here I understand what you are saying from the masculinity stand point. The women I dated before my wife always were heavily into the physical attraction. Always brought it up of how tough it was to not do sexual acts. I am really not trying to toot any horns here …
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 07:07 PM
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Did you talk about Biblical marital roles and responsibilities? Did you talk about Biblical marital roles and responsibility in regard to sex (e.g. 1 Corinthians 7) Did you talk about what sex would look like in marriage? Ask her about libido? State some potential sex expectations frequency? Did you talk about Biblical marital roles and responsibilities? Yes we did this in our marriage counseling Did you talk about Biblical marital roles and responsibility in regard to sex (e.g. 1 Corinthians 7)…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 06:17 PM
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Yes she knows the Lord. She got saved 3 years ago. So she’s a newer believer
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 05:27 PM
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Yeah for sure I won’t do anything rash. That is why I’m posting this. To help gage in how to approach this as a biblical leader in the home and a loving husband. I just don’t get the mindset at all. I feel like she just thinks it’s normal when it isn’t. So just kinda at a loss here and just looking for help
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 05:23 PM
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Lol all im saying is I actively make sure she is good on her end. Through communication I make sure as well, and do more. But I will make sure even more that she is good. Right. That’s my thought process on it. I am really trying to approach this as a Christian leader, and lover. To me it seems selfish, I just want to make sure I’m doing everything I can. I would never deny her anything either. That’s what really confuses me. Like I would do anything for her and I don’t feel that reciprocated. Y…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 05:09 PM
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I will respond to the rest soon, but I added my mission after you posted this. I accidentally missed it in my copy and paste of the format.
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 04:48 PM
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Haha yeah not sure why. Her stance is if I am not in the mood why would I force myself pretty much. Where as for me, I do stuff with her or for her all the time that I do not necessarily want to, but I want to enjoy it cause she does. She is not on BC. We agreed for her to go off of it about 2 months in because her drive was very bad and she noticed. She did it for acne. It improved, but it is still a struggle. I would go into more detail with our sexual details but I do not want to get kicked o…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 04:47 PM
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Okay I can do that. I can see how it goes with that. What if she is just like "I just am not in the mood"
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 04:30 PM
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I reposted my stats and additional information....Maybe that will help you understand a little more. Leadership is not an issue, but I am open to hearing more.
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 04:30 PM
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