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"Feature what you cannot fix. Fix what you cannot feature." I'm bald too. So is Style. It really shouldn't slow you down. As far as ugly goes, believe it or not, women care a lot more about how your personality is. Aziz Ansari is short and hideous, but plenty of women would drop their panties for him because he's charismatic and hilarious. Get to the gym and hire a personal trainer. Go to a local community theater or improv class and work on your speech. Take a community college class on how to …
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:13 AM
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I definitely agree with Caffeine, Sorg and Nib, and want to add something important: Cultivate a lifestyle where you are fulfilled outside of your love life. You'll feel a lot less ashamed when you're doing a lot of other stuff. Then, you can genuinely take an interest in what she's been up to lately, and maybe she'll realize she was being dumb when you tell her about the 99 things you've been up to without her that were WAY more fun. Either way, you win, and it will expose you to other new peop…
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:09 AM
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This. Push/pull, transition and escalation, rinse and repeat. If you can't sell a trip back to your place, sell her on going outside. Then on a walk. Then to that little cafe on the cross street to your house. Then you just HAVE to show her your Take Off Your Pants and Jacket vinyl LP. Whammy.
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:03 AM
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No problem bro! Just realized I left out the most important ingredient to not coming off as creepy or weird: a winning smile! Practice in the mirror until you get it right, and always open with it. Don't wear it all the time -- it should be treated like a reward for good behavior (whereas kino is more of an anchor to statements associated with positive feedback / desired state; similar, but slightly different). Have fun when you're out there and believe me, she'll notice.
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:00 AM
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It's awesome. I found some dance classes on there with an endless supply of hotties. There should be something just about anywhere in the US on there.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:55 AM
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MeetUp. =)
/r/seduction04/10/15 12:33 AM
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Can't even tell you how much I relate to this as someone who wasn't very touchy-feely growing up and who has been four and a half years without alcohol. I've had to LEARN how to be comfortable in my own skin without an uninhibitor working for me, and how to touch someone in a way that feels natural. You aren't that much older than me, by the way... I'll be 31 soon. Age is just a number... it's all about how you act and project yourself. I have friends who are in their 50s and can easily hang wit…
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:32 PM
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Compliments are great... so long as you remember to use them as a psychological anchor that rewards her for something she did that is congruent with your frame of being a dominant, sexual creature who is the "prize" in the interaction. I rarely ever open with a genuine compliment anymore... but she'll usually get one in the first 5 minutes or so, AFTER we've flirted a bit and she has flirted back well enough to deserve the positive attention.
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:13 AM
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I have the hard copy. It's incredibly dense, alarmingly urbane and pithy, and essentially a weapon of mass seduction (especially in the hands of a sociopath). 5/5 stars... easily the most effective book on the subject I've found to-date (and I have hundreds).
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:10 AM
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GFTOW, brother. Stick to malls, supermarkets, libraries, dance classes, whatever... until you get past your AFC-ness, you won't have much better luck with online dating. Might just get you stuck in an LTR, instead (booooooooo).
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:04 AM
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Actually, you just answered your own question. "I don't kino or escalate before getting the #." This is akin to training to be a master chef while only ever using spoons. It's totally doable... but hardly advisable. You're unintentionally relegating yourself to the friend zone by not projecting yourself as a sexual creature with no intimacy issues. The cool guys who always get laid are always acting comfortable around women, allowing themselves to get a little physical, and maintaining a frame o…
/r/seduction24/09/15 03:59 AM
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Here are some great boyfriend destroyers as well, since I've seen the whole "fake boyfriend" thing used as a shit-test or qualifier more times than I can count... https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/20/i-have-a-boyfriend-responses/
/r/seduction24/09/15 03:45 AM
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Probably not PRECISELY what he was asking for, but quality resources nonetheless.
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:07 AM
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http://www.puatraining.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-shit-tests https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/10/04/brushing-off-common-shit-tests-from-girls/ http://www.realnaturalseduction.com/how-to-never-fail-a-shit-test-again/
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:06 AM
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I prefer this one: "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." -- Michael Jordan
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:39 AM
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Pure inner game. Woot.
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:36 AM
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I'll pass along some advice from one of my favorite authors, Olivia Fox Cabane, taken from her book "The Charisma Myth" (which I highly recommend you read, if you're so inclined as to consume paper media): 1) Destigmatize and depersonalize. Recognize that these things happen to everyone, that this person is a petty tyrant, and that you aren't necessarily responsible for her actions. 2) Engage yourself in the way that would make you feel validated and respected, because you cannot expect these be…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:02 PM
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