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Being in a relationship or marriage doesn't necessarily mean they are found attractive, especially not if the people are older. And we can see how much looks plays a part in younger peopl(< 30), considering ~30 of women and ~60% of men are single in that age group. Also it's not just about OP being a hetero man and so obviously not feeling attracted to men. Women tend to like only above average men as well Source: https://bonytobeastly.com/most-attractive-male-body-survey-results/ https://bonyto…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 PM
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I only really sit on public transportation if it going to be a long journey or if I am exhausted, most other time I actually like standing more than sitting. When I am exhausted I don't really give a shit about anyone, but other times I give anyone that seems to be having a hard time standing, that includes pregnant women. It's the Keanu Reeves thing to do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:03 PM
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I know it's not the point of the comment but: “I’d never dare a man under 5’8” (I don’t have a height preference but I’m super tall; those men wouldn’t date me and they don’t find me attractive) You'd be surprised how many men are ok with taller women. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0192513X13519256 Shows ~14% men would only date shorter women and ~49% of women would only date taller men. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886907002814 Shows 23% of men and 4% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:10 PM
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Saying “Most women prefer taller, stronger, masculine men who make more money they do” isn’t the correct read on how things are. It doesn’t matter what most women prefer since most men are all those things. Except women prefer above average men in all those categories. "Taller, stronger, more masculine" means being more of that than the average man. Edit: Source: https://bonytobeastly.com/most-attractive-male-body-survey-results/ https://bonytobombshell.com/most-attractive-female-body-survey-res…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:53 PM
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Sure thing man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:50 PM
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I'd rather not sound like I'm worshipping other dudes and have got an inferiority complex Sucks that you care so much about what you sound like to people who can't understand higher order terms. Regardless to each their own my man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:44 PM
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I aint gonna name 6-7 traits every single time for both men and women. Better to say it in terms of leagues. A lot of people understand it, only a few seem to have thick skulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:08 PM
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It's not an inferiority complex to say certain traits are better liked in certain genders. And people with those traits are more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:32 AM
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Honestly if a woman that was out of my league liked me, I'd be suspicious cause that doesn't happen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:30 AM
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I can never understand how people can even imagine being with people above their league. If I try it, it just makes cringe because of how unrealistic it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:14 AM
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And most men want women shorter than them Didn't say that men don't like that, it's just that the height difference preferred by men is shown to be more varied. And on average is around 5 inches which is the average height difference between men and women. Also, the height gao which women prefer is 6-7 inches in most other surveys I've seen, not 7 inches Source? Also that's still 2 inches above average These are not reliable sources. Do you have a reliable source that I can base my views on? Cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:14 AM
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https://bonytobeastly.com/most-attractive-male-body-survey-results/ https://bonytobombshell.com/most-attractive-female-body-survey-results/ Compare the percentages shown in these two surveys. You would notice many of women's body types are attractive to a high percentage of men but only a few male body types are attractive to a high percentage of women. And their conclusions: Women tend to prefer men with fit, athletic bodies. They prefer men who are in much better shape than average though most…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 AM
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I don't 100% know what's attractive to women, cause I am not a woman. Most surveys, papers etc I have read seem to point to women liking mostly above average men in terms of a number of factors like above average physique, above average height, wealth etc. But that's just data, it could be false. What I do know for sure is that being in a relationship does not necessarily mean the woman finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:25 AM
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So ladies if you want a provider and are getting met by salty men you just have to go for the well off men So if you want a provider, you have to go to someone with enough resources to provide? Wow what insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:23 AM
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Being in a relationship is not equal to being found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:16 AM
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Seen plenty of women mention him when talking about how ugly celebrities date a lot too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:57 AM
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Can't attach a number but she's definitely not attractive to me. But then again I generally don't like the e-girl look and her being a sex worker doesn't help in making her appealing all that much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:25 PM
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Aww isn't that sweet, what a just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:20 PM
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Same man same. But girls don't really have to think deeply about what makes men attractive, cause the unattractive ones don't even come to their minds mostly cause they have an abundance of options. While men don't usually have an abundance of options and so actually have to think what makes a woman attractive to me, and what do I not really care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:17 PM
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It's more a "not really tackling the question properly" problem. Which is understandable, I wouldn't think too much about a random person's question either if I am trying to get somewhere. So what they answer is more what would make the guys they are attracted to, more attractive cause those are the guys they mostly care about, the unattractive guys, the short, skinny/fat or bald guys are mostly invisible to them. So men being attractive is just a "duh" thing. If they thought a bit more about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:47 PM
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Then what do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:53 PM
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Well shit, guess I'll stop going to the gym and go break some of my leg bones ans face bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:52 PM
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Women in general have no idea what normal looks like on men. Pete Davidson's face being considered average or below, Jason Mamoa's body being considered dad bod, or even how below 6'0 are considered short now. Just like the OkCupid study showed 80% of men are below average for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:35 PM
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As expected from femdom spaces. From what I have read femdom women have really high standards cause they are dominant and so want an even more dominant man but since they supposedly like dominating men, they want the man to be submissive mentally(ie simp) but dominant physically. Therefore, tall, really muscular, good looking etc. You can't really expect spaces like that to have women that are empathetic or men that are not simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:33 PM
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Because of how wide spread feminism is, it is easier to find men are understanding of women than women that are understanding of men, and also women are more open about themselves than mem causing being open and vulnerable isn't manly. Especially among redpill men who really wanna appear manly, so don't really try to help women understand them. Blackpill men likely don't even have partner cause they have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:24 PM
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Not surprising considering women rate most men as below average lol and how anyone below 6'0 is considered short
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:22 AM
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An analogy usually used is that dating for women is liking finding water in a swamp, for men it's like finding water in a desert. Except with proper filtering the swamp water can be purified, and also there's medicine if you do ingest some swamp water. But you can't really make water from sand, you just gotta get lucky. So women's is largely dependent on luck with a little bit of luck, for men it's both luck and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:09 AM
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All of which can be prevented with proper vetting and arming yourself with some defensive tools. A lot of attractive women's issues can be prevented. Not to mention women's issues garner sympathy from most of society, just about every one wants sexual abuse and exploitation to end. Compare that to men's issues, which are largely not talked about and very few people care. Especially the dating issues which if you talk about you'll just be labeled an incel or called a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:02 AM
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From easiest to hardest 1 - Attractive Men 2 - Attractive Women 3 - Unattractive Men 4 - Unattractive Women Just keep in mind that few women are unattractive enough to be deemed unattractive, and be invisible to men like unattractive men are to women. While 80% of men are rated as below average ie unattractive, only less than 20% are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:40 AM
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You can have all of that with really good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:05 PM
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https://youtu.be/LKc_8fT6pGc Look at Part 3 forward of this video. Despite what the video says I agree that aybe there are psychological differences in men and women but it's very hard to differentiate that from a boatload of other external, social differences. So it's good to have nuanced view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:14 AM
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maybe such a man has more mental and emotional bandwidth to carry another's pain than one that works 60 hours a week at a demanding job They bring up a good point there though. The salary may or may not matter but how much time they spend at the job probably does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:28 AM
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It tells when women have the means and the options, they'll all mostly choose the same men. That's why feminism and sexual liberation spells dating doom for most me. Also for your second point, if it is narcissistic to want your own flesh and blood child, then most people narcissistic I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:13 AM
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I don't even dislike that advice all that much, I just really don't want women saying that to men. It's like a rich person telling a poor person it's ok to be poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:07 AM
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I can relate. Though my blaze of glory doesn't have any violence to it. It's more experiencing something very adrenaline fueled and profound before I kick the bucket. Don't really know what that'll be(best I have come up with is jumping off a very high cliff, gets the blood pumping and you'll be able to really feel the force of gravity, but it doesn't feel quite enough), but I really cant imagine being in 40s or 50s without a partner either so I'll have to figure something out by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:53 AM
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True height doesn't help much in keeping a relationship, personality matter most at that point. But to get your foot in the door, to get a woman to agree to go on a date with you to show your personality, you need to be attractive. That's where height matters a lot for man, cause tallness is liked and shortness is disliked by most women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:38 AM
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A lot of non-trad womem also want trad men. Videos of non-trad womenI think it was a lib woman saying they want trad men go viral all the time. There was one posted on this sub recently as well, I think it was a lib women. Besides a lot of alt girls generally have high n-counts and that doesn't appeal to a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:19 AM
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Except end up in relationships does not necessarily entail that they are found attractive. Especially when it happens after you are 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:04 PM
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There's an equal amount of single men and women Not really, there's more single men. Some sources show twice as many single men as single women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:54 PM
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You didn't answer the question what are you basing your claim "women have diverse tastes" on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:44 PM
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You have been claiming women have diverse tastes, do you have any proof of that? Or is that just from anecdotal evidence? It's pretty easy to prove men have diverse taste, but it's very hard to prove that for women considering that in most media that is liked by mostly women the men are rich, tall, muscular and handsome. Just look at the r\ladyboners sub, books made for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:15 PM
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I sure do feel seen and heard. It's a good article, almost brought a tear to my eye with how much the dude understood. But it doesn't matter how many articles are churned out, things are only going to get worse for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:56 AM
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Eh it doesn't matter what insecurities or complaints men have about high count women, they'll have to be with them if they don't wanna be single. Seeing how most young men are single and most young women are not, those guys will have to learn to cope with the fact most women will have a high n-count or atleast higher than theirs. That's just how the market works now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:45 AM
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