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| 5 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.Are you looking for long term relationship? Then tinder is a bad place for it. The fact that you got laid by tinder means you're already successful in using tinder. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 08:41 AM |
| 5 | How to Find the Woman You Most Want: A 10-Step ProcessYeah? Instead of pitying me, you could explain. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How can you prevent flakes when you ask girls to hangout?Doubt even Moses can prevent flakes | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 09:48 AM |
| 2 | How to Find the Woman You Most Want: A 10-Step ProcessI have trouble understanding point 4 | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 09:43 AM |
| -2 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.Yes, because I'm rich | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Girl kissed me when drunk and then rejects meHe is probably a starting PUA | /r/seduction | 14/05/17 07:32 AM |
| 44 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.I don't think there's harm there | /r/seduction | 22/04/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | My imaginary thoughts preventing me to approach girls.Some people gonna think youre a jerk, some other gonna think youre awesome, its just how life is. No need to think about it, just be what you want. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] So I did my first real cold approach and kinda froze.Keep on improving buddy | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 12:10 PM |
| 1 | You didn't get lucky with her.Wasn't that the same as luck? | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How to know if my face is Francisco Lachwoski level to the majority of women?I think it is.Where's the punchline? | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 09:56 AM |
| 2 | The quick guide on how to naturally attract women you want to date with the correct mindsets and understandings (Some of what you read near the end may surprise you)This is a sidebar material. Excellent! | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out alone first time, didnt get anywhereIt seems you had no problems at all, just a regular dry spell. We all live through it | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | ODE TO THE SEDDIT ARCHIVESBeautiful | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Shy Guys: Why Your Quietness Turns Her Sopping WetBeing quiet does not equal being unconfident, remember that. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it to meet or run into tons of single and physically women once you've graduated college?You can always go back to the hunting (campus) ground | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Should you let her know via text before calling her?depends on the kind of rapport that youve built when approaching. If its good, go with surprise | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone tell me a better reply to this shit test? Thank youWhy youre so sure she rejected him? | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?Adjust your technique with the girl's personality. Some loved to tease and im sure they dont mind to be teased back. Others dont, so adapt | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why a girl would give you their number but not message back.Asking for number and leaving it at that is for training, its probably what we all do when we started out gaming. Seeing that you could easily score n close, you might want to shift your focus elsewhere now, probably rapport building and kinos. Level up bro! | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why a girl would give you their number but not message back.Lol, wouldn't even try mate | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why a girl would give you their number but not message back.This is the answer. It's just you havent done enough rapport building OP | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with having a baby faceCute is one step closer to sexy | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Should young men (23) worry about passing time in a small place, when they'll be in a big city in a few years. In other words, should young men worry about becoming slightly less young men? When does age begin to matter?Only when you think it starts to matter. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Gaming should be supplemental, not coreYes, and it shows how desperate you are. and the idea shift of getting laid for the sake of getting laid would bring no good eventually | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What is Vulnerability and Why it WorksThanks for the great post | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 02:42 AM |
| 8 | [FR]0 to 100... back to 0. Biggest learning experience I've had so far.Its a lesson for us all. Thanks for sharing bro | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | An idea of throwing a party that includes my friends inviting all of their Tinder matches, could it work?Really interesting. Do it! | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 06:46 AM |
| 1 | What to say after being rejected?If youre inner game is strong, it wont matter | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Frequent lurker, seeing a lot of posts asking about escalation. Link inside to the Dicarlo Escalation Ladder. Used this method to lose my virginity.Nice share, thank you | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [Theory] It doesn't matter how Cool you are if you don't create new Memories in her Mind.Good one bruh | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?If youre already in a relationship, your girl will bound to have more tolerance of your insecurities, a good girl will even encourage you to overcome it. As long as you make the effort to change you not need to worry about your girl, cause guess what? girls have insecurities too. but if youre gaming and brought those insecurities with you, don't even think hitching 9's, you won't even make it to 6's | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid saying stupid things to girls (you like)? *social circleYeah, you don't realize it because it's subconscious. I've been there so I'm probably right. Now practice treating girls equally, try throwing some game occasionally to girls you're not interested, by doing that you planted game mentality to every girl. Then it's just switching them on and off and direct it to girls you actually attracted to | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How to converse with women who are obviously sexually attracted to you?OP you think too much. Just follow this advice | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Attractive wing woman is shyWhat a peculiar situation, lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 03:21 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid saying stupid things to girls (you like)? *social circleIts probably because youre trying too hard to be funny, charismatic, etc to that particular girl. Try to control your emotions. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 03:19 AM |
| 4 | How to seduce/attract shy girls?Extra patience on your part | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 03:15 AM |
| 7 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?Its not only a huge turn off. Its probably a transcendental turn off | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Here's a good re-frame: Behind every guy you see with a hot girl, is 100 girls who rejected him or who didn't work out before her.Basically if you learn from mistakes you wont be rejected constantly. Rejection indicate that some things in your game is probably wrong, you must do introspection constatntly and develop yourself through this. If u dont do this and keep making the same mistakes over and over but expecting different results then you down to self hurting path, probably a literal insanity. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Here's a good re-frame: Behind every guy you see with a hot girl, is 100 girls who rejected him or who didn't work out before her.If you dont take physicalities into account, then being good with women is a numbers game. Being handsome does not neccessarily mean you're good with women, plenty of examples. It takes time and experience to engage your charisma to a level where you are incredibly charming to women or people in general, its a skill, a soft one, that still need tempering | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Today is my birthday and no one cared.You can start by asking yourself why are you depressed? And happy birthday! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Become the best possible version of yourself. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, making mistakes is part of the process, learn from them, embra..Still accepting? I offer advice now and then in seddit but tend to wanna learn from this group. Good idea brw | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:23 AM |
| 1 | I act different around girlsSimply this | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | i'm an average looking guy currenlty flirting with a very beautiful girl , need advicesThats a whole different game. Just focus on attraction now and relationship dynamics later | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:01 AM |
| 1 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeIf its the first time, its too early to determine. Personally I would go with "assume attraction until proven otherwise" and just go with it. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibePeople need to hear this. Basically ask the girl out to where you can both initiate conversations, a lot. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 01:54 PM |
| 1 | How to accept that I've stunted my height and I will never be attractive and have as big dating pool as I was supposed to be and have if I didn't fail to reach my maximum potential height?Regardless of the type of relationship youre looking for, your insecurities will prevent you from getting it. It will affect your behavior, and eventually affect how you approach a girl and play the game, say, if youre out going to a club looking for a one night stand. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:30 PM |
| 2 | How to accept that I've stunted my height and I will never be attractive and have as big dating pool as I was supposed to be and have if I didn't fail to reach my maximum potential height?Your height won't be a problem. Your insecurity about it, is. You're in denial right now and haven't gone in a slightest bit to accept it, youre probably still really young. Believe me when I said every girl you want to get in a pretty serious relationship with will smell that insecurities. Plenty of people here already said the same thing, they cant be all wrong. Now the rest is up to you to change. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How To Get A Girlfriend, The Obvious Reality That People Often Avoid And Wish For a Magic Pill InsteadLorde's boyfriend too | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 11:29 AM |
| 2 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedOP. Please nail the word, "show them through action" and ,dont compliment them" in your head | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I've been in the game for 3 years and have had massive success. Now I'm dating a beautiful, awesome girl and am constantly paranoid that she will cheat on me. Why?I always believed that everybody has some thought on cheating on their partner, the thing that prevents them from doing just that is what I like to call a good 'relationship dynamics,' in other words it's simply making yourself not worth losing. It's based on relationship satisfaction. Your SO will think "yeah this new guy is interesting/handsome/whatever but I have an amazing SO back home waiting for me, why would I trade my SO for this new guy? " thus cheating is prevented. Now what to do to h… | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I am quitting Reddit. I don't think this is a course of action for everyone, but I think my reason why is relevant to other people who visit this sub.Forgive me, I don't think reddit is the problem, the problem is within you, you're just blaming reddit. You're probably going through a phase right now where your life isn't in balance, yes maybe you spent too much time here, but the question is why you spent so much time here in the first place? There's probably something going on in your life that made you always want to retreat to the reddit hive. That said, it's probably the reason why you can't filter the negatives from the positives of red… | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 04:05 PM |
| 2 | [Request] good first date ideas.Listen to him | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Got invited to crush's birthday partyFHRITP | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Why social media is killing masculinityIf only we realize this, seddit wouldn't be needed. Bu then again, it's one of those place that can make us realize. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Screw unjustified confidence. *Accept* the suckage. Build up from that.You spoke the truth, buddy. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How can i get a flirtatious mind?Inability to being in a state of flirtatiousness, in my experience, stems from a lack of confidence. You still afraid to speak up your mind. in the beginning, you still have to force to speak up your mind, it might come out as awkward at first, but persist, and the confidence will come naturally over time, not just when facing girls but virtually anyone. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 04:02 AM |
| 2 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Being in the friend zone in this context doesn't necessarily means you're trusted. In my experience, it's more like you're tolerated. Never let a girl put you in a 'tolerated' box. Like the old saying goes, "go where you are celebrated, not tolerated." It's not a problem that you want to befriend a girl. I agree with the previous poster, you just have to make sure it's not a 'just friends' thingy. You have to make it a 'friendship' as opposed to 'just friend=friendzone' if you want to reap the b… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 01:39 AM |
| 5 | The subtle art of pausingYou can tell it's a great advice because it can be used not only in seduction, but life in general. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 01:43 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..You already did a great job conquering your inner demon, I applaud you. Note this, don't listen to the girl on the top comment, you won't go anywhere bending over an advice like that. Every girl is different, maybe she don't like being approached at a gym, but maybe other girls do. My rule of thumb is, don't listen to advice from girls when it come to things like seduction and relationship. You can give it a thought, sure, but if you feel the slightest doubt, ditch it, The majority of their idea… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys deal with acne problems?I do, but not anymore. If you've already tried eating healthy, getting less stress, more workouts, washing your face regularly to no avail, I suggest you start taking drugs like accutane. The problems of acne is unique in my exp. Is kinda unique to every individual sometimes just by eating right it disappears from one person but not the other, sometimes the problem comes from the glands itself and taking accutane is a sure way to solve the problem. But I generally dont recommend drugs until you … | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 03:01 AM |
| 13 | How To Naturally Ask Women OutGreat advice. But, like everything else, it takes time to master these. It sounds simple and easy, but try to hold on to it in front of an actual girl, and we will found the difficulty just spiked. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of DanceI agree that dancing is a great way to build attraction. You could consider dancing a human mating call. But, it's not the easiest nor the quickest, it takes some time to learn and do it confidently, otherwise it will make you like a goof and probably lowered your own self esteem further. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm broken, because of my physical appearance. How do I break through this to approach?You looked like that 'Simple Pickup' guy | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenNo, you're supposed to left her after you said that. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With Women"Really? I have a girlfriend too." | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How do People see your skill with girlsIs there any list of useful books such as this book, on seddit? | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Cheer me up, first pickup attempt bombed royallyCongrats, you already deemed braver than 'most guys' | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:20 AM |
| 3 | At 51 am I too old to try and meet 36 year old women?Dude, George Clooney. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | At 30 years of age, I feel past my prime. Therefore I have a constant sense of urgency, leaving me completely outcome dependent.Bro, look at George Clooney, he's 52. His fiancee? A very high quality woman 20 years younger than him. I agree that men, unlike women, tend to age with quality, that is of course if you do yourself some favours. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 02:06 PM |
| -1 | How To Seduce The Hottest Girl In The RoomWhat do you mean I'm not paying attention to reality. I have seen first hand, my friend with your criteria of fitness got shot down on approach, while a tubby wearing-a-cap-indoor friend of mine had a success, in terms of getting a girl's number, granted it's a different situation and different girls, but with the same lvl of hotness, at least that is the reality looked like to me. What i'm trying to convey is, yes looks matter, it does make this easier, but it does not determine your overall su… | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 06:48 AM |
| 0 | How To Seduce The Hottest Girl In The RoomI'm not saying looks don't matter, but what you say is not what seduction is about. The thing is looks isn't everything for women, for first impression? sure everybody, men and women alike does judge. It is maybe harder for the average chumps to seduce extremely hot women but it doesn't mean they can't, if their seduction skills are enough they can still hook those women. What you said about physicalities can even be developed by grooming and exercises. Good looks isn't an absolute pre requisite… | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 05:24 AM |
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