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It’s really sad that there are so many women dating men who have never given them a single gift, or worse, men who only give backhanded gifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:30 AM
2

Because if his future gf has a friend who says he’s abusive, she can find solid evidence that he’s done it in the past and even if she’s a pick-me she’s more likely to leave if has multiple formal complaints against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:09 PM
2

He did it to more than one person, what if he does it to another woman. Plus your entire friend group witnessed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 04:25 AM
8

Have either of you begun the process of reporting him to the police?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:58 AM
5

Since he has stated that he will leave if she calls the cops I think it could convince him that she genuinely wants him to leave. If she does it with the expectation that it’s purely symbolic it’s worth a shot, and a lot faster than the formal eviction process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:33 AM
87

Some women aren’t ready to leave their abuser, it’s not that simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:40 AM
66

If he wants to and still doesn’t, he never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:00 AM
169

Most porn is framing a woman’s body and a man’s genitals, if you want to watch porn that includes a man who’s meant to be looked at your best bet is gay porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:07 AM
9

When I imagine what his fair share should be I think: would I build his child and push it out of my vagina in return for the amount of work he’s putting in to keep our relationship happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:55 AM
43

A lot of women don’t actually want to live up to the image of an instagram model or a porn star, their insecurities are them feeling like they won’t succeed in life and then popular media frames it as women wanting to succeed as a model when that’s not actually the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:08 PM
40

People want to pretend it could never happen to them because they’re better than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:35 AM
61

Playing dumb in this case is a smart strategy, I would probably do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:00 PM
38

I was never asked if I wanted children until I turned 29, so maybe it’s confirmation bias. When I was young and stupid all I wanted was to be barefoot with kids and a rich husband. The closer I got to 30 the more I realized how important it is to prioritize my career. The only rich men who want poor women are the ones trying to trap you in debt to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:23 AM
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When I was younger I was so afraid of blocking men because I was afraid they would show up at my apartment wanting to know why I blocked them. Now I don’t tell them where I live until after vetting them. I always drive myself to a first date or give them a fake address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:08 AM
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What helps me is watching cord cutting videos. It’s a type of magic spell to cut the cord between two people. They have two candles with a string and they say a prayer and burn the candles until the string catches and burns the “connection.” I watch them and imagine it’s being done for me and the person I can’t get over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:35 PM
31

He looks like an incel cult leader with a good skincare routine and undiagnosed mental health issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:25 PM
35

It starts out sounding like it’s going to say that low self-esteem doesn’t make women turn to casual sex, which might be true, but the assertion that there’s no correlation between women with low self-esteem and women who have been having casual sex seems far-fetched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:47 PM
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So they expect me to believe that you can interact with low value guys and it won’t negatively effect your self-esteem. Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:48 PM
24

Tell her you changed your email address and give her a new one so the messages don’t get to your inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:14 PM
2

It’s so common to think you attract more LVM than other people but there’s so many out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:05 AM
54

He doesn’t just want someone who’s already submissive, he wants to turn someone submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:56 PM
75

They want us to be so worried about finding someone “before it’s too late” that we settle for a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:54 PM
80

He’s offering ~$10k in future rent money but doesn’t want to buy her a ring. He is more concerned about having a roommate to split rent with than making this woman happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:31 AM
14

So does that mean that older siblings get post-partum depression when their siblings are born?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:39 PM
16

Almost everyone was socialized to have some sort of self-destructive habit. The difference is that self-respecting people work to end those habits, men don’t. They expect a woman to come along and fix them, for free, with no promise to stick around or do anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:27 PM
108

It’s weird to ask someone older than 6 what their favorite color crayon is, weird timing after that story too. It’s almost like he’s trying to picture her as a child..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:59 AM
93

I hate how normalized an*l is in porn and now younger people are starting to think it’s normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:33 PM
4

Tell him you’re busy tomorrow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:33 AM
14

Men say this kind of stuff all the time. And they genuinely mean it. There’s no justice for women unless women force it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:24 AM
76

Dating an ugly guy because you think he can’t leave you for someone better never works, he will take a chance on someone he thinks was flirting with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:36 PM
63

Men claim it’s because they are too stupid, and women believe them because they are very stupid, but nobody is stupid enough to not understand cleaning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:31 PM
77

Some men don’t think they are good enough, but instead of bettering themselves they just go around trying to find someone with low self-esteem, or they don’t talk to women at all and they just simmer in misogynistic rage until they commit a hate crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:08 AM
20

This is why you don’t sleep with a man before seeing his bathroom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:17 PM
1

I think on a subconscious level we make decisions based on the knowledge that men are stronger (such as not interacting with men who would hurt us, among other ‘erratic’ behaviors and coping mechanisms) but consciously we don’t think of it or want to believe it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:07 PM
3

The trick with these types of guys is to be done from the start and then let them try to buy your love until they realize that you are actually done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:33 AM
1

Because I read/listen to a different news sources than you do, so I don’t think its minor embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:31 PM
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What you wrote is based on your understanding of evolution, not on studies of how humans act. You also conveniently left out the fact that women with a high sex drive make better long-term partners so it’s advantages for both genders to have equal sex drives in civilized society.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/08/20 02:15 PM
2

It’s not her fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:58 PM
0

I think it would work better for the women who aren’t interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:34 PM
0

Maybe just be friends with the tree instead of barking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 12:43 PM
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I’ve dated guys who are taller and still felt too tall and I’ve dated guys my height and felt fine wearing heels. It’s not about height it’s about his insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:39 AM
1

Isn’t that the whole point of a dinner date? You’re not worth my time but dinner is worth my time. If she likes you enough to waste time getting to know you then you wouldn’t have to buy her dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:09 AM
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It’s a type of discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:19 AM
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Fuckboy: a guy who acts like he is looking for a relationship but then says or shows he isn’t after sex. So you’re saying it’s a woman’s fault she can’t lock a guy down and is choosing to sleep around with guys? A woman doesn’t have high standards when she’s young so she raises them and they are impossible. I know mine are probably impossible but I don’t even care after all the games I’m kind of over it. That being said I have enough self awareness to not torture a match maker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:06 PM
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When she stops being a person and becomes a body, that’s sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:46 PM
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I wasn’t lying, I was guessing. Against women’s rights is 8 years old so it seemed like a reasonable chance to take
/r/MensRights18/06/20 11:38 AM
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It was made in response to r/antiwomensrights
/r/MensRights18/06/20 10:36 AM
1

This entire post sounds like confirmation bias, both from you and the men who have chosen their own red pill partners. There’s also no comparison to women, so you saying “only men feel this way” is you pulling information out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:37 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with being cold, it makes you smarter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:42 AM
0

Because men are the ones always talking about it. They want to blame women instead of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:28 AM
1

No I don’t think you live in a world where women don’t live in fear of crime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:37 AM
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No the “natural visceral innate distrust and disinterest in men women cannot ever concieve of” is totally uncalled for, men don’t really commit crimes as often as we say they do. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:42 PM
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No it’s like saying I don’t know what to do about this problem and constantly being told to kick walls as a solution and then eventually you say fine I guess I just go to the hospital for kicking walls and the problem is replaced by something you at least have control over. Then the same people who gave you the bad advice get mad at you for being in the hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:02 PM
1

They are both wrong and correct at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:52 PM
6

Just like with any other hormone, for example adrenaline can be fear or excitement but hormones aren’t the end-all be-all, we also have our perception of the situation that determines what we feel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 09:13 PM
1

Have you ever been voluntarily celibate? Yes For how long? Almost two years the first time and now I’m going on a year almost Why? What were the circumstances? Men stopped trying to have sex with me Did it change your view at all on sex as a "need?" No but it did change my view on sex as an obligation, and I started to feel like I could make my own decisions in life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:42 PM
4

I was definitely shocked when I started dating. Men only want sex, (if they can’t get it) but nobody tells you that second part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:17 PM
157

Same! He gave me an ultimatum: do this or I’m breaking up with you, I was like “ok then,” and he was like I’ll ask you again when you’re not this mad. He asked me again and I told him to leave and stop showing up at my house, and he was still shocked. The next week he asked if we could talk and get closure and he was still in disbelief that I wouldn’t take him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:59 PM
1

I think that’s a main component in a LVM, he prefers to be in control of the relationship on a financial level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:42 PM
1

Maybe try that insult again when I gain enough weight to be considered healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:49 AM
1

That also goes for people who say healthy when then mean skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:07 PM
1

Feminism is responsible for the entire issue you just described Feminism is responsible for the issue of women being discriminated against in the hiring process? Did I read that wrong? You’re saying more women were given a chance before feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:19 PM
35

The main issue is access to birth control. When the sexes are more equal women have more access and less shame in using birth control and then they don’t end up with 7 kids and it keeps them out of poverty.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 05:46 PM
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That kind of tunnel vision for sex is not attractive, women are just people. We see that tunnel vision and think “I should turn him down now before he gets his hopes up and refuses to take no for an answer.” Most of the time you don’t even have to be a “chad,” just don’t be scary.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/20 06:30 PM
6

What’s in it for him? Nobody knows, yet men still sign up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:25 PM
6

Because he still wants a woman who is attractive enough to have a high n count, even though he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:02 PM
1

They say things like “fuck liberals” instead of focusing on their own flaws I think that’s partially just an inherent difference in men and women, we both see ourselves from the male perspective, especially when it comes to dating and sex. I’ll leave it up for speculation on why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:25 AM
2

Why be mean to someone you could just not interact with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:47 PM
1

I think I settled for being single, maybe I don’t meet great guys or don’t attract great guys or I just don’t like people in general, but it doesn’t seem worth the effort to date anyone, and that’s with me already putting in close to zero effort. Men put in so much effort to get your attention and then expect things to change, where I’m supposed to pick up his slack, that’s not what I signed up for. Save your energy for someone who actually wants to put up with having a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:22 PM
6

Why would god have a male name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:50 AM
1

People like danger, nobody knows why, there might not even be a reason, people just like danger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:37 PM
1

I don’t think you would be out of line either way, it’s your decision to make
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:48 PM
3

No? Why would you be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:42 PM
1

It sounds like the issue is that you aren’t physically attractive enough for casual sex. Now you are refusing to date women because you missed out on that. I don’t see how it’s a gendered issue? It’s an attractiveness issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:30 PM
49

Even if she actually had legitimate mental illness, they still joke and complain and exacerbate the issue rather than treating her with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:12 PM
20

I went on a first date with a similar guy, he got extremely drunk and then told me he prefers paying for dinner as a way of paying for sex rather than just paying for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:22 PM
1

I meant that if she’s only telling men half of what she thinks there are ways to solve that issue. If you think there’s no correlation then you are spending time with dishonest women or women who live under a social pretense, who do things because it’s expected by society whether they like it or not, who like certain traits in others because it means they were fed the same traditions, rather than because they are pleasurable traits. It’s a strategy meant to keep people and their children behavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:42 PM
0

Masculine men are overrated. and if you can’t communicate with your partner then you need a less scary partner and if your partner can’t communicate with you then you need to figure out how to listen better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:51 PM
1

Not expressing your true emotions sounds the same as having emotional baggage to put up with. I might regret asking but what are “a woman’s mental gymnastics”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:23 PM
0

Very true. I might steal that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:26 AM
0

Maybe I looked at a different red pill sub than you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:27 AM
2

Men are not the best at coping with how women act. The men at trp hold on to the anger they have for women, and I don’t think they deal with it amongst themselves. The strategy is based on looks, confidence, and monetary value. Get that and you can find a woman who will heal, or at least put up with, your emotional baggage. The entire philosophy is based on sexism and traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:08 AM
1

Yes, please regurgitate your red pill and get into a healthier relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:13 AM
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I was referring to where you quoted her saying she is ’cursed with heterosexuality.’ I guess both subs are aware of this, at least on occasion, but like I said, this post is pointless because you’re right, and most people will agree with you that if you hate the opposite sex you shouldn’t be dating them. Those subs themselves will probably agree with you, they just can’t help themselves but to try. ‘Survival of the fittest’ isn’t always pretty or well thought out, it just produces offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:57 PM
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People don’t always do the right thing. You’re right that they shouldn’t be dating the opposite sex, ..but hormones. At least FDS has self-awareness to go with their curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:27 AM
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The issue is that men keep finding new ways to refuse to allow women to compete in the same space, for the same prize
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:03 PM
8

On the show they said someone asked her first husband if he had any pictures and he sold them the tape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:01 AM
40

This is such a big issue for me. I keep wasting my time on guys I’m not that into. But I also don’t trust the ones I can’t wait to talk to because I feel like I’m being manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:46 AM
15

Believe him when he says he’s not in love with you. He’s lonely and he saw that and thinks he can waste your time because you miss him more than he misses you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:05 PM
2

I agree that it’s part of a scarcity mindset, but I don’t think it’s related to low morality. Relationships should be an equal amount of give and take, so if you put in more and get nothing back, the other person who isn’t putting in their fair share is the one with low morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:47 AM
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I’ve never met a man who follows the 3 date rule. I’ve also heard the opposite where if she sleeps with you before the third date it’s just a hookup and not serious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:05 PM
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I used to be so clingy because of this issue and guilt around masterbation and I could never understand why it scared guys off until I realized they thought I was being emotional and I was still confused because I’m not a very emotional person so I didn’t know where they were getting that idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:46 AM
1

It’s not really a debate but it’s a good point that I wish more people would adhere to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:36 AM
1

But if a woman is in an abusive relationship the only thing that matters is getting her away, and that doesn’t happen when other people say she’s being abused, that happens when she realizes the effects of the relationship. I don’t know how to explain the psychology of it or if there’s even an explanation for it, that’s just how it works. If you tell her she’s being abused nothing will change, and it’s not because she can’t identify abuse it’s because abuse takes away your ability to see yoursel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 07:55 PM
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Not to mention that there are subs specifically for debates, this just isn’t one of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 07:33 AM
1

I prefer toxic because it shifts the perspective from their actions to the effect it has on you. So the conversation is about what is best for you rather than accusing someone of a crime, which makes it a lot easier to act on because you aren’t taking on societal problems on top of your own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 07:03 AM
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Plus, if he can’t communicate his feelings then he’s not worth it anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:13 AM
23

“Women are not rehabilitation centers for damaged men” even if he is actually suicidal, it’s not up to women to fix him, he needs to take responsibility for his own life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 06:35 PM
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Why admit that you fucked up and try to be a better person when you can just bitch about other people on social media?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:29 PM
5

I just pictured a guy furiously rubbing cocktail sauce over pieces of shrimp as his weird fetish and I can’t stop laughing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:48 AM
2

It’s bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:17 AM
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