crankyhedgiebutt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻 Right?! I thought the one safe place on the planet was gone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 03:47 AM
28	LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻 Yesss that post made me so mad	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 03:46 AM
19	Because why admit that you were wrong if you can always gaslight instead 🤷‍♀️ Omg every single comment I have heard...the audacity. They can’t even be creative??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 09:12 PM
9	He may be losing interest- how do I take back the control? Deff don’t suggest any dates. The ball is in his court now. Any hangout or date from now on should be initiated by him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 08:56 PM
1	The double standard is astounding Aww thanks!! I’m already much better off. Just realizing what things really were and won’t let it happen again. “Clean my house if you have so much free time” Hahahaha love it. Funnily enough that was my ex’s biggest (and supposedly) only gripe about me- was that I sucked at cleaning. Boy constantly threw his clothes all over the floor everywhere. Guess I was supposed to pick that up?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 12:12 AM
9	Feeling like this today 🥰 Mosquito bite sisters unite!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 11:13 PM
2	The double standard is astounding It’s so hard to remember it’s what is on the inside that counts. Of course I know it’s true and live my own life with that principle, but it seems that women especially get treated different based on appearance and it’s sickening! I can tell guys are more receptive/kind to me now that I’ve lost a ton of weight (and I was already slim before) and am now “skinny”. I remember being treated like shit by both men and women when I was actually chubby. It was awful and made me lose faith in people. Peo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 04:07 PM
1	The double standard is astounding Yup you are right. Damned if we do, damned if we don’t! It really sucks we can never win or be allowed to accept ourselves. But I’m taking steps to drown that nonsense out and only read things that are uplifting. I feel so sorry for girls these days. My little sister knows so much more about fashion and beauty than I ever did- even from when I was in my 20’s. I was just learning then really. And thank you so much 😊 I’m definitely in a much better place now.100%. Crazy how much the wrong person c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:56 PM
6	The double standard is astounding Yup that’s what triggered me. I’ve been struggling with feeling like I’ll never be “womanly” enough without lots of curves and big boobs. You’re 100% right On all fronts. Once again y’all are awesome and have nothing but gratitude towards you all. You actually are one of the people I spoke with that helped me break up with my bf (I used a throwaway account and not this one).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 12:36 PM
3	The double standard is astounding Nah I totally get what kind of men you were referring to. Ive unfortunately had the same experiences with men fetishing me for looking young. It’s quite obvious when that’s the case.I still have a baby face and am skinny so it hasn’t quite stopped. I understood your main point but I guess the subject just hits too close to home. Sorry for misdirected frustration! I’ve been working on my self-esteem issues especially after a breakup (that you ladies actually helped me do!) and I’m just extra sens…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 12:30 PM
1	Unconventional red flags Thank you for this! It helped clarify things for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 03:05 PM
2	Unconventional red flags Thank you for the response! It really resonated with me. My recent ex would only give generic responses and it never felt genuine. Now I get why.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 03:05 PM
16	Unconventional red flags Can you give us examples of how someone should describe you? I’ve never thought about this but man it makes sense	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 01:13 PM
6	Looks like Grimes is doing a lot of unpaid emotional labor for her stupid boyfriend (answering a tweet abt him donating money to BLM) Huh what??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 12:23 AM
8	[Interesting article] Sometimes, it’s better to be single. Love is political. Let’s not be blind to the way social expectations often play out in personal relationships. Never settle. Is this why my bf was illogically furious that I didn’t do any chores around the house yesterday even though I spent the day doing my office work that had to be done? He gets upset if I “take a day off” meaning I do things only for myself (like catch up on work or actually god forbid take a day off for real) Thought this might be a good example.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/20 12:23 PM
2	Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped) Fuck.that.guy. That is all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 01:31 PM
7	Nicole Scherzinger (41) & Thom Evans (34) - dating since last Fall - Reminder: HVM will put in the effort to make a LDR work. Thom: "She lives out here (L.A.) so I'm splitting myself between the two places at the moment. I live in Surrey (UK) but I visit as much as I can. I hope she’s a lot happier now. I’m pretty sure she had body dysmorphia and hated the way she looked.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 01:08 PM
17	And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers. Heck yeah! I might try to make one	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 02:37 AM
13	Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she is Hahahahaha...best idea ever	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/20 02:26 AM
6	Make Women Great Again - A Convention for Women by Red Pill Men. Just do yourselves a disservice and read good old Ken’s intro near the bottom. They literally say “for the betterment of MANkind”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 02:54 AM
2	Got called "bitter" by a family member who's a pick-me and I can't help but laugh Sounds like a good idea! I think that’d be a lot of fun. You could even possibly teach a class. Someone’s been telling me to do that. I don’t know how one begins to do that though Thank you, I hope you do too! I’m sure you won’t have trouble. I’d say let’s join a class together but I highly doubt we live in the same town!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 10:50 PM
4	Is this lovebombing and should he be tossed? Ehh he’s moving too fast. Like she said you’re arm candy! You’d be the pretty thing he brings home to show off. You essentially are serving as an extension of himself; I guess I could say when he looks at you, he thinks of how it makes him look. It’s got nada to do with you, and all with his ego. He thinks the flattery with saying you’re “good enough to meet the family” will work and make you feel all warm and fuzzy, like a ditzy schoolgirl . Also I find it to be a BIG red flag🚩🚷🙅‍♀️he sounds li…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 10:32 PM
1	What snapped you out of Pickmeisha mode? Would you have believed a resource like FDS if it had existed, or do you think hitting rock bottom is the only way for many? Thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 06:27 PM
6	Got called "bitter" by a family member who's a pick-me and I can't help but laugh Nahh I think we need to get out more. I’m planning on volunteering and taking a class! Maybe I’ll meet friends there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 06:27 PM
5	Got called "bitter" by a family member who's a pick-me and I can't help but laugh Totally in this boat myself, can’t even say I have the few female friends. Lol I have one guy friend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 06:12 PM
3	What snapped you out of Pickmeisha mode? Would you have believed a resource like FDS if it had existed, or do you think hitting rock bottom is the only way for many? Omg another great comment. I feel this entire comment so much and you make a great point about female figures having such an effect on who you become. Btw what is PPF and GC? I just found this sub a couple of days ago. Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 03:10 PM
6	Protip: Swerve any man that treats you like a porn category I might find that funny if my long-term bf said it, but not some random dude trying to get into my pants	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 07:29 PM