Reminds me of Joyce Mitchell, pickmeisha of the Dannemora prison break: https://www.npr.org/2018/11/15/667890725/the-true-story-love-triangle-prison-break-drama-escape-at-dannemora
Or even if you just happened to need him as an actual friend-horrible day, needing support, traumatic event. He will not be there for you. Because he is not a friend.
What is the deal with the slight obsession with black guys and lowered opinions of women who've been with them? I've seen it around here before and don't get it.