| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 272 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder? | DISCUSSION | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 08:52 PM |
| 15 | Hits on me on my business page and then wonders why I’m upset about that.... | MALE DEPRAVITY | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 15 | So true.... | FDS TRANSLATES MEN | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I need help analyzing this guy please. | RED FLAG 🚨 | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Valuable lessons from The Crown. | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Pediatric dentist, and he won’t even buy a first date coffee or meal. Disgusting. 🤮 | SCROTATION REPORT | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Lean this young and save yourself years of pain | DISCUSSION | crapeescape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 355 | I’m so glad more women are taking back the cool aunt title!Except no one wants to sleep with my brother… 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 06:01 PM |
| 295 | Ladies, don't shave your coochie the first time he goes down on you.I like to shave it and keep a strip down the middle. I don’t like hair pulling and getting caught up on underwear elastic. I will NOT tolerate a man telling me how to have my body hair and any time a man says he likes it completely bald it’s an instant red flag 🚩 for me. It’s either bordering on pedophelia, isn’t mature enough to be having sex with adult women or has a porn addiction. Yuck I don’t care about a man’s pubic hair and it’s weird that they obsess about ours. Worry about your own damn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 05:32 PM |
| 72 | Is it generally "better" for WOC to date within or outside of their race?How about your find a guy you like and who treats you with respect regardless of color or race. Why wasn’t this an option, because that definitely seems like the most logical 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 23 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Awesome. I’m 5’11 myself. I know how that goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 13 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Wow awesome. Congrats 🎊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:39 AM |
| 22 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Oh remember the baby photo trend on OLD. When they posted pics of when they were little. That made my vagina dry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:57 AM |
| 182 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youAnd employment. Never ever ever cry at work or let them see any emotion. They will 100% use it against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 151 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youAh yes when you send them a long emotional text and they just laugh at you in reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 71 | A gentle reminder about ignoring red flags, and forgiving yourself for allowing them to use the power of your wind to fly.Or straight up ignore them because you’re bored, lonely and currently have no one else in the rotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 128 | Such simple words but definitely something I needed to see today.Thank you. It’s all good. I waited 30 minutes and then got in a taxi. He texted me 3 hours later saying he slept in and could we meet tonight. Block and delete! The audacity….Yuck. My flight came in at 10am on a Saturday. I don’t think that was inconvenient, but he obviously did. lol And these idiots wonder why they never get laid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 176 | Such simple words but definitely something I needed to see today.As someone who just got left at the airport in Athens, this rings true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 02:16 PM |
| 43 | Men on Reddit be like:lol! One of my favorite movies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 34 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.Aww. Thank you all for the wonderful support and nice comments. That’s why I love being a member here. The advice comes from a place of love, not judgement or nastiness. Xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 99 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.I’m 41 and I haven’t found the right man. I’ve given up at this point and living the single, childless life. Maybe I’ll regret it in 20 years, but what can I do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 282 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himYou don’t even have to be in a relationship. As soon as they know that sex is off the cards, they turn real mean in a hurry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 170 | I am a 40 years old and haven’t dated for 2 years and for the first time in my life, felt at peace with it.I’m in exactly the same boat as you. No dates for 2 years. I’m About to turn 41 in 2 days and I’m in Cappadocia Turkey planning my birthday hot air balloon ride with a champagne breakfast. Could I do this is I was married? Probably not. I’d be at home taking care of snot nosed kids and spending my life trying to please a man who’s spent years gaslighting and manipulating me. THERE IS NO MAN from my past that I wish was still in my life today. None. I hope this message hits home to the young ladi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 312 | Thank you thank you FDSLucky it was only a video call. Imagine stepping out of the house for this fool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 67 | This sh*t right here!!And the steps that its taken to get into that zone. I usually put them in the friend zone because of inappropriate comments, touching, or being weird and creepy. That’s on them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 124 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)It screams: on the hunt for ‘young impressionable women who will think I’m cool’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 138 | The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last TimeAlso a reason I never disclose anything. I’m not giving away my power so some loser can use it against me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:27 PM |
| 134 | Adding on to the funny post earlier about hobosexuals. Men using women to have a roof over their head is common this time of year. Here is a very helpful video I watch every now and then that I believe will be helpful to you ladies in weeding out men who just want to use you to have a place to stayCouple years ago in Los Angeles I dated a very cute immigrant guy who had no visa, no money and no job. Within 1 week he was coming over to my house at least 5 days a week for free food, sex and a place to sleep. He was fun to be around so I tolerated it, but I would never agree to do that again. Dude would literally ask me when breakfast was ready 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 109 | I don't think there can ever be too many reminders that: if he wanted to, he would.The number 1 rule of ‘Signs he’s just not into you’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:00 AM |
| 574 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everHe would have sex with her first, and then ghost 👻 her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:06 PM |
| 353 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.And that’s the point. Most women don’t go around negging men, so they are quite free to walk around thinking they are better than us and we should be lucky to have them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 10 | This just happened to me. I don’t know why I’m surprised!!I know right. How sad. I’ve had a stalker, another guy saying ‘I was asking for it by having a profile picture. Lately I’ve been getting scam game requests from random profiles only on level one. It’s so annoying and you have to go to the website to report, so I just keep declining. I hope they address these issues soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 20 | This just happened to me. I don’t know why I’m surprised!!‘The chat feature is there for a reason’ Fuck off prick! This reply would have pissed me right off! I play this game every day and I only do matches against other women. I learned this lesson a long time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:38 AM |
| 7 | “Never tell men about your trauma”I wasn’t trying to promote anything, I was answering a question in regards to my experience and mental health after working in that industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 265 | “Never tell men about your trauma”I worked in the sex industry for 10 years while I did my college degrees. Would I ever tell a man that? HELL NO! You’re just asking to be treated like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 244 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Yup. That’s a good reason to make them wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 147 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.This happened to me in the worst way. I was talking to a guy in Dubai. We would chat for hours every day and talk about getting married and how wonderful it would be to have children. After 1 year of chatting I decided to surprise him and use my entire life saving to book a vacation in Dubai. He seemed to be very excited about meeting me and when I arrived at the Dubai airport he was nowhere to be seen. I called and called. No answer. I had to get a taxi and ask the driver to find me a cheap hot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 13 | Help me figure out my strategy...And to add to other replies, start making a list of everything you think he has, in what businesses and what countries. Also take pictures of Everything! The house, furniture, cars, everything. Good luck and keep yourself safe during the divorce proceedings. Women have gotten attacked and killed for far less. Take care and take care of you. All the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 135 | Why Being Called "Wife Material" or "Girlfriend Material" Isn't Always a Compliment, Especially If It's Said To You By An LVM - A lot of the times, they are projecting qualities like unwarranted excessive deference, humility, obedience, bangmaid duties onto their "ideal" wife or girlfriendThey all say that about me until I open my mouth and have have opposing opinions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 325 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?At least I would get an orgasm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 146 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.And it’s not just men here in America that do it. I’ve dated Arabic, Indian and Asian guys that do it also! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 39 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeMy father is like this. He’s a fat old disgusting troll but he expects women to be perfect and look perfect at all times and he loves a good opportunity to insult women. It was very toxic growing up in that environment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 22 | So many layers 😂Yea therapy sessions more like. I’m so sick of meeting broken men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 202 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itAnd if you asked men they would be like ‘wow I wish my wife had sex with me in the middle of the night!’ They have such a distorted view of consent and can’t understand why that would cross personal boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:52 PM |
| 104 | It’s easy to be generous with people you love.I just got matched on bumble with a guy who’s idea of a perfect first date is ‘going Dutch’ Can’t believe he actually put that on his profile. Good luck never getting laid again loser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Positive benefits to block and delete! Preserve your mental health, ladies! ✨Good one!!! 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 41 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.I still get hate mail from comments I made MONTHS ago! What they hell are they doing? Going through the damn FDS database??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 30 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Yea what about the myriad of names women get called on a daily basis? Look at Reddit for constant reminders… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 120 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.That’s why I’m happy I never had a super long term relationship. I hate the thought of women giving up 10-20 years of their life trying to please a man while forgetting about their own happiness and life goals. Put yourself first always ladies, nobody else will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:54 AM |
| 69 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.He told you that? My exes just dip out and ghost, and then try and come back a few months later. NOPE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:50 AM |
| 35 | Never enter the dating scene or be in a relationship between jobsThat’s how I lost my virginity. Went to a beach party with my friends. Talked to a guy there. My friends went off with different guys, I couldn’t find them when it was time to go home. It was 1am. The guy said he would only drive me home if we had sex first. I was only 15… Definitely wasn’t the last. Went on a few dates in college with the same experiences as you, plus guys getting extremely angry when I refuse sex on the first date. At 23 I got my own car so I could at least drive myself home! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 241 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?People are so selfish and self-absorbed. Just because it didn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen to others through no fault of their own! And talking about selfish, men are perfectly willing to destroy a child/woman’s life, just get off. Sick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 432 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂Ahh yes, women using female issues to deny men sex. When I was married 10 years ago I was diagnosed with mid stage cervical cancer and had to have a painful and traumatic procedure to remove the top layer of skin from my cervix. The only thing my ex husband said was ‘so when can we have sex again?’ Right then and there I decided to divorce him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 25 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.Cool. I’d make him a curry that blew his ass out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 77 | 5 tips on how to spot a pick up artistMine don’t start doing this until I’m already in a relationship with them…🙄 Dating they are usually on their best behavior to lure me in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:36 AM |
| 204 | if he wanted to he wouldThat’s the number one rule, if they want to they will move mountains to be with you. Take their lack of effort for what it really is and don’t allow them to waste anymore time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 57 | How to deal with the fear of rejection when flirting with men?That’s very good advice. So many times I’ve already built up a fantasy of being with this guy, and of course when they open their mouth, the fairytale ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 46 | “Build with him”The Betty Broderick movie is great viewing for a rainy weekend. Dan was such a selfish PoS! https://youtu.be/s24VPdeSPIY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 80 | This should be engraved in the stone‘Im just joking! Why do you take everything so seriously?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 37 | 9/10 girls experience sexual harassment and sexism at school, but it’s not all men, right? 🤡We were all friends at school and never had any sexual harassment issues. I experienced A LOT in the workplace. It was bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 1457 | OopsThe fact that somebody would make a meme out of this and make fun of her, makes me really angry! Do men really think we all just sit around the house every day dolled up to the nines?!? Get real! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 243 | This is straight up abuse. If you don’t like that she’s a makeup artist on TikTok, you can just break up with her, you don’t have to call her ugly and attention seeking in the process. Guys can never just leave with dignity, they have to make a whole ass mess out of itI’ve had men call me ugly and nitpick about everything from eyebrows to weight to the shape of my breasts. I would NEVER make a nasty remark about anybody’s appearance ever. That’s none of my business. What the fuck is wrong with men that they feel they have the right to do that?!?! 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 103 | I hate how women have been brainwashed by libfem. No, you're not a bad girlfriend for wanting to be monogamous. It's NOT a dealbreaker!Hey that’s a good one. ‘Yea If you can find a guy with a bigger dick, I might be interested in a threesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 429 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.Or when you ask them to be gentle. ‘Well I don’t even want to touch you now because you are so sensitive’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 28 | Oldie but a goodie!Ooo the Beta Fem non-uprising! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 262 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜That’s when she proposes and gets to be his maid and cook for the rest of her life. Bless 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:20 AM |
| 21 | Never feel guilty for putting yourself first! 👸Men value themselves a lot more than women do. It’s time for us to change that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Too far or just far enough?I’m a former all of that and playboy playmate. Don’t ever cry about it babe. It served it’s purpose during that time and now it’s time to look forward to the future. Men are the dumb ones that pay for this shit, not you. You got one up on them, just leave it at that. Xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 13 | This is such a great argument for why “don’t bring up what happened in the past” is such bull. Men just wait for you to calm down so they can brush everything under the rug, and then do the exact same thing again. LVM truly do not care about their partners.Love this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:56 AM |
| 76 | This is such a great argument for why “don’t bring up what happened in the past” is such bull. Men just wait for you to calm down so they can brush everything under the rug, and then do the exact same thing again. LVM truly do not care about their partners.My father left my mother for another woman when I was 2 years old. Never bothered to call or visit me. I arranged a meeting with him when I was 18. He told me not to bring up the past or he will walk out and cut me off forever. I asked him why he never cared about me and he walked out and cut me off. So yes, I’m very familiar with that tactic and it’s so hurtful not to receive an apology or an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 35 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaahThanks to tinder I’ve been on a date with a convicted murderer who just finished a 20 year jail sentence, a drunk with 3 DUi’s and a registered sexy offender. Ladies please do a thorough background check on all of your potential dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 18 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Men think time is forever! Like we all have months and years to waste on games! This ain’t kindergarten | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 91 | Women have every right to be skeptical and NOT trust men, especially around children. PERIODT.When my step dad died they found his computer full of child pornography. He was good to me and never touched me inappropriately, but who knows what he did to anybody else. You just never know with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:42 AM |
| 94 | If men are "biologically" attracted to teens, they need to stop being teachersI don’t have any teacher stories, I was an overweight awkward teen, but I dated a pediatrician for a few months in my early 20’s. He told me to shave all my pubic hair off, that’s the only way he could get off. I instantly felt disgusted. Men argue that preferring no pubes is not pedophilic but I think it is. And incidentally, the best sex I ever had was with men that preferred and respected a real woman’s body, hair and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 23 | For Valentine's Day, I have ordered surprise roses for 3 of my single best friends <3 Sending love to all you ladies!I bought myself a box of chocolates yesterday and I ate them all. Didn’t even last to valentines 🤣 Will do flowers next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:46 AM |
| 30 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan TorresI didn’t realize there was so many men that hate women until I started working, and then they all came out of the woodwork. The employment setting really highlights resentful, discriminatory and domineering behavior like I’ve never seen before Now I can spot them a mile away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 39 | Being single is not an insultAh yes I love that insult. ‘Wow no wonder you are single’ Yes, I’m single because I’m not willing to put up with scrotes like you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 560 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThis was my auntie. She had breast cancer and had both breasts removed. Every day her husband would taunt and torment her. ‘Look at the news anchor woman on tv, she has great breasts, she’s a real woman.’ My auntie killed herself a year later.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 302 | The average male redditor starter packAhh yes, unpopular opinion, where every day there’s a post about ‘If a woman hits you, it’s ok to knock her ass out’. I can’t believe the mods allow the same shit posts over and over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 146 | Yep.Any man that is grossed out by body hair, periods, child birth or any of life’s natural occurrences is a low value, immature piece of shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 57 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️It’s totally rank! That would be an instant block from me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:41 PM |
| 582 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.I cringe at the thought of everything our sisters had to do back in the day. I remember reading stories of the Oregon Trail and if your husband died you just had to marry whoever to survive. There was no opportunities for women to make a living and you can just imagine how badly they were treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???Oh I’ve seen a lot worse on tinder... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 17 | Saw This On FB and Loved It, Thought You Queens Would Enjoy It.She’s a very smart lady! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 186 | I wish more men would admit this to themselves.I’ve known guys who will pay for all of their friends every time they go out. Dinner, drinks, trips away. Just like they would if they were dating a woman. It’s like they are trying to impress other men in the same way. It’s either buying friends, paying to impress or repressed homosexuality. Any way you look at it it’s weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 14 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseSorry just saw your message. This is painful to think about again but here we go. Emirati 1: came on really strong, was sending thousands of dollars of gifts to my home and work. After a few weeks I decided to give him a chance and told him I was also interested in him. He looked in my face, called me a disgusting slut for chasing men and then left. I was so confused, I had no idea just happened. Emirati 2: we went out a couple of times. Told me he wanted to take me for a nice dinner at the pala… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:44 PM |
| 74 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseI worked in UAE for 4 years and I’ve never experienced anything as bad as the local guys. Constant game playing and total mental abuse that’s so detrimental to women. I dated a couple of them when I arrived and then I refuse to even speak to any of them anymore. It’s a shame because they are really good looking, but totally not worth all the pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 37 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceIncreased mental health issues from dealing with men when we are too emotionally immature and naive to realize that men will deliberately hurt you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 38 | If only they all felt this level of shame... (also *accepting sorry I couldn't help it)I had an ex who was horrid to me. Every day he would say something nasty about my appearance, weight, personality. I was incredibly sad and berated for 6 months until I finally left and moved on. 2 years later he contacts me on Facebook and says sorry. I was disgusted he would even contact me again. I waited a few days and replied saying, I’ve been studying psychology. Thinking back to you, my professional opinion is that you are mentally ill. What you did was project your misery and illness ont… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 77 | When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments:That’s dating in Southern California. 65 year old men. Never married, no children and longest relationship 1 year. The land of Peter pans! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:01 AM |
| 17 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeHahahahaha! Viagra is a working girls worst enemy! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 45 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeHaving some fat old guy roll on top of you for an hour. If that’s not work I don’t know what is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 47 | Reminder...And stay from men who have depression. Nothing will drag you down and suck the life out of you than somebody who is clinically depressed. I know, it sounds bad to stay away from people who need help, but the alternative is to become their battering Ram and sounding board, and pretty soon everything becomes your fault. Life is too damn short to be blamed for other peoples crap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 165 | Where is the lie?Rabbit food? Ok cool. Good luck with your colon cancer. Sorry we even bother! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 37 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.The worst guys I dated where the ones who had abusive mother’s or were abandoned in childhood. Once mom crosses over into that horrible woman pile, so does every single other woman he meets in his life. There’s no turning around either without some serious counseling, and most men won’t do that.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:23 AM |
| 16 | This made me chuckleYea it’s all fun and games until it’s time to pay child support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:02 PM |
| 14 | This made me chuckleVery good advice. Thank you so much. X | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 135 | This made me chuckleHe said that he watched a lot of rape and breeder porn, and he thought that I would like it. So now porn is on my list of questions for potential dates. Like the list of requirements isn’t long enough already 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 288 | This made me chuckleFunny but doesn’t deter all men. 3 years ago I had a guy I was dating. First time having sex he took off the condom, held my arms down and said ‘I’m going to breed you’. Went back in and finished in me. I freaked out. Kicked him out, blocked him. Ran to the pharmacy for plan b. Then I had to go and get tested. Wow. Crazy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:15 AM |
| 144 | men knowIt’s disgusting how many men on here hate women. I used to report every comment with ‘bitch, thot, whore in it. I just stopped because there are far too many and nothing is being done by mods. What I hate the most is when they refer to every video of a woman with ‘this bitch ...’ they don’t do that with men’s videos. You never see ‘this prick ....’ Blatant sexism! It makes me so angry! Women don’t deserve to be referred to as bitch In every single conversation!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 113 | For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a manI’m the same, and has any man ever given up anything for me? Nope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 30 | Reminder that your boundaries are valid and you aren’t asking too much ✨🌺I have put up with a lot just to make them like me, and then when I’ve finally had enough and snap off, I’m “crazy”. I don’t even get to that point any more. Just block 🛑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Why therapy, self-care, and levelling up emotionally and mentally is so importantDating older men was the worst thing I ever did to my younger self. They have a lot more life experience and knowledge, and they use this to manipulate and abuse women inside the bedroom and out. I remember one of them used to pretend to call the police if I didn’t want to do something and we were fighting about it. He said he would make up charges against me and the police would arrest me. I had absolutely no experience with the police and it used to absolutely terrify me. Assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 11 | FDS, But Make It SpookyReminds me of that idiot from king of queens that constantly destroys his wife’s career and reputation. Not funny at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Oh, to be her...I have much better relationships with guys who can’t speak English. I don’t have to listen to any of their crap. (I work around the world doing engineering contracts if anyone is wondering where I meet these guys. 😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:34 AM |
| 94 | When a LVM sabotages the relationshipAnd beware of men who describe all their exes as ‘crazy’ and ‘psycho’. There’s a common denominator there and it ain’t the women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 65 | All men do is take, take and take! Ladies keep your peace safe.I remember when I was 18-20. I used to be such a nice happy girl with a positive outlook. Now I’m nearly 40 and the joy has completely gone thanks to these scrotes. Now my relationships consist of being constantly tense and trying to get them before they get me! FML.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 95 | You can literally be Beyonce and still be devalued by LVMI’m so sick of being picked apart constantly. It seems like no matter who I date, it doesn’t take long for them to start with the criticism. ‘You’ve put on weight, I wish you weren’t so tall, your skin looks bad, that dress doesn’t fit you, you are getting old, why are your lips and eyebrows so thin, I normally don’t date girls that look like you etc etc. I would never speak to anybody like that! I have no idea why they feel the need to destroy me. I’m sure I’m not the only one who deals with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 10 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.Wow I’m so sorry sweetie. You think you know somebody and then they do that. It’s free to communicate, I don’t know why men don’t do it. Cowards! You sound like a really nice lady, try not to think about it anymore. This was HIS problem, not yours. Xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 151 | Women in Poland are Rioting After Gov’t Bans AbortionAnd from an environmental standpoint the world is ridiculously overpopulated! Religion and politics need to stay the hell out of peoples bedrooms and focus energy on improving the environmental conditions and the lives of people already here! Makes me so angry that people could be this stupid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 20 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Wow! Reminds me of this. https://youtu.be/jHPbOGEUvZA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 57 | American Murder: 7 Relationship Lessons That Could Save Your LifeExcellent article. I agree with executing a plan and leaving without notice. If you know your partner is capable of violence, don’t give them an opportunity to show it. A lot of domestic abuse and murders happens when women try to leave a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 30 | I'm not easily accessible anymore. My energy is something not everyone gets to experience. I feel like a Queen having a say on who I even allow to enter my personal space.I remember reading this quote that’s been stuck in my head for years. Men value themselves more than women do. And this is certainly true. You don’t see men cooking 3 course meals and bending over backwards for us unless they are out to get something. (I.E getting laid). They are also a lot quicker to cut ties and walk away from relationships without looking back, leaving us to wonder if they even have feelings at all. We need to start valuing ourselves ladies, and our time and our love, just as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:22 PM |
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