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You're better off for knowing it's not rosy. Hopefully you won't have children until you're in the perfect position to do so. And that child will dismantle all of the perfection you had, and at the same time build up all kinds of things you didn't know you had in you. Being scared is good. Everyone suffers when children are born to people who don't understand what's involved.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/20 05:20 AM
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/r/deadbedroom posts manifest from a whole host of things not at all related to "sexual chemistry." Generally speaking, if you have a good relationship and care about your partner and are willing to put work into your relationship/yourself you'll have a good sex life. Barring any previously undisclosed trauma, nefarious motivation for starting the relationship in the first place, or medical issues it's really not a big deal to wait. I think a lot of the dead bedroom posts are from people who fel…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 04:33 AM
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I had a month off at the end of my pregnancy and felt obligated to keep the house up myself since I was home. It seemed fair - he works long hours as well and I didn't want the few hours we had together to be spent labouring (heh). I certainly wasn't a homemaking superstar. I'd guess I did 20m of work then took a 40m break. Sometimes I'd have a nap in the afternoon. I just did my best and picked away at things. That was still 2 hours of active housework each day, which was more than adequate. We…
/r/RedPillWives23/03/19 12:04 AM
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My girlfriend and I got a room at a nice hotel with a good restaurant and pool facilities this past weekend. We spent our time chatting and relaxing, away from our kids and husbands. She just finished chemo and I haven't been away from my baby since she was born 5 months ago. We both ended up sleeping 9 straight hours without interruption. It was glorious. Best girls' day ever. Typically we go out for dinner, though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 11:55 PM
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The whole thing seems like a bunch of bullshit. Who makes their partner leave work to pay for groceries? Who does homework in the morning? Is going to a convenience store to buy milk a big deal? Lunches and coffee are courteous, I guess, but none of these things are what make me tick. The post is super condescending too. Barf.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:11 AM
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200mg of caffeine a day is allowed. I miss my extra large servings but still get a cup in the morning. It hasn't been so bad.
/r/RedPillWives20/05/17 05:27 AM
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LL Bean sells my favourite everyday dresses. I buy them for work and they are downgraded to house dresses after a couple of years of wear. The summer knit dress is my favourite. I can't go wrong with an empire waist and deep V neck.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 11:39 PM
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Yesterday I posted to FB about my pickle canning and 3 of my husband's friends were begging for some. He was proudly commenting that they were all for him. It made me happy. I think laziness plays a big part in the loss of all things feminine. Edit: link format
/r/RedPillWives17/07/16 02:56 PM
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That is super exciting, congratulations! Good job on keeping your cool, and being patient. These two things will help lead to a very happy marriage! I had a 1.5 year long engagement and that seemed to be just the right amount of time. Nothing was a rush, and we could easily reserve what we wanted in terms of food, music, and venue. It also wasn't quite long enough to drive me crazy with planning (close, though!).
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 05:47 PM
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Dating at 26.. moved in together at 28.. engaged at 30.. married at 31, and I'm still 31. I'm not a SAH wife but I plan to be when the mortgage is paid. I don't talk about it to my family because it's none of their business. If they had a question about what I did all day, I have a lengthy list of domestic hobbies (gardening, canning, cooking, baking, quilting, sewing) to demonstrate that I'm not sitting around a filthy house watching soap operas all day. Though again it's really none of their b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 10:04 PM
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Butternut squash ravioli and chili are two favourites with my carnivore. Here are a few others that have gone over really well: Enchiladas with Jalapeno Sour Cream Sauce Mushroom Bourguignon Mac and Cheese, of course Spinach Stuffed Shells This freezes remarkably well. Mushroom and Lentil Shepherd's Pie I add worchestershire to the mushroom mixture even though it isn't meatless. Some of these recipes are vegan, but I don't bother. Butter and milk will be pried from my cold, dead, hands.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/15 05:34 PM
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This has worked tremendously well for us as well. Keeping my full salary (and sanity) is worth $120 a month. In addition to having more free time, I can do things like wash drapes and organize cabinets, which were previously neglected when I was spending my Saturdays scrubbing the toilet.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 06:06 PM
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It's definitely happened to me in the past before I found my SO. Doesn't it make sense to want a mate who can contribute at least the same as you do to your future household? Especially if you're going to be doing all of the homemaking. I don't understand the "superhero" women who work demanding high-level careers AND take care of the house, kids, and all of that. What's the husband left to do? That will undoubtedly breed resentment and a lack of respect.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 07:45 PM
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Sure I do the bulk of the cooking and cleaning, but when there's an especially strenuous job, or a repair or something to build, that's his territory. I feel like it is equal in that sense. I do a higher number of tasks but they are much easier than what he has to take on, and I wouldn't trade him places. Keeping an older home like ours in good working order is much more taxing than keeping it clean. Also, I'm out in the back yard chilling in a hammock enjoying a gin cocktail after my 8-4 workda…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 09:05 PM
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PMS or not, I try to think before I speak. I'm really type A to begin with so petty things annoy me a lot of the time. I just recognise that these are my problems and not anyone else's. they are also (usually) irrational and i will internally talk myself down. I'll sometimes vocalise that I'm grumpy, like "I'm feeling really ____ this afternoon, I hope I'm not being too unbearable." If it gets really bad I'll start a project to refocus/regroup and that usually helps. This doesn't just apply to m…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 08:03 PM
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Magic Erasers (melamine foam) are great for SO MANY THINGS! I've used it for water stains in the shower, stubborn burnt bits on the stovetop, shoe scuffs on the walls, nail polish that leaves scratches on my tub, textured fridge handles, patio furniture... in fact, I can't think of anything that I've used it on that it didn't clean! I think there's generics out there now for cheaper. One thing I like to do is cut the sponges. They sort of disentigrate as you use them so you don't want to waste a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 03:59 PM
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I don't work nearly as many hours as you do, but I am a law clerk at a very busy firm and often leave the office completely drained. He works 55 hours a week as a construction foreman and comes home physically and mentally exhausted. I, like you, try my best, and look forward to about a year from now when some debts are paid and I can switch to a less demanding and lower paying job. It sounds to me like you are doing all you can. I know that feeling though, like I'm not doing enough. I still tak…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 12:46 PM
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Hey ladies! I subscribed here 6 months or so ago after stumbling on TRP via /r/new. I stayed off the carousel, but was in a very unhealthy relationship with a man (my first EVERYTHING) who ended up spinning plates for 10 years, while keeping me as his #1 and being ultra jealous/crazy. I finally ended that at age 26 when he knocked one of them up. At 27 I met a good, hardworking, kind, RP-style man, and am now engaged at 30 (he's 36). I'm not sure that "the wall" is such an issue if you don't hav…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 04:10 PM
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I made a post to /r/fromscratch recently about simple homemade meals since I'm not currently able to cook like I usually do. I avoided pasta recipes since boxed pasta seemed like cheating for that sub. As a result I think a lot of the recipes are gluten free. Hope you find them useful! http://www.reddit.com/r/fromscratch/comments/21pga7/request_casserole_or_one_pot_dish_recipes_that/
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 03:11 AM
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It's a coping mechanism for dealing with regret associated with bad decision making.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 11:37 PM
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I don't belong here, and I'm not sure how I got here, but I'd just like to say that she is SO fucking LUCKY to be at home. I gained a bit after starting my first office job, and have been working really hard to get it off. This is after working a full day, tidying up, and making dinner. Why? Because me plus 40 lbs isn't what he signed up for, and he doesn't deserve that. If I had the luxury of being home all day, I can guarantee that a good portion of that time would be used for exercise and pre…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 07:29 PM
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