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crash1082/r/seduction15/09/16 10:17 PM
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Not looking at this sub
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:53 PM
3

I popped in a pouch while reading this, even though my wife tells me not to.
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:28 PM
4

Be a fitness instructor, personal trainer.
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:10 PM
2

I used to respond by saying. "No, but you can buy me a drink." Sometimes it worked.
/r/seduction10/07/23 04:33 PM
1

Woah that’s a quick jump to calling someone a narcissist
/r/seduction15/10/22 03:47 PM
1

Yea unless you’re rich then you get a lot of extra pts
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:39 AM
19

Probably too many emojis but whatever dude. The texting game is dumb. If she stopped wanting to see you over a text, you don't need to waste your time on her.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:32 PM
17

Open minded…but if you’re on social media and go to clubs fuck you!
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:40 AM
1

I’m also a super attractive hot woman… just trust me
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:02 PM
5

Most overrated store
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:44 PM
6

She likes you dude. It’s simple. Not every girl is out to play games with you
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:43 PM
1

So which girls in the world aren’t walking stis? Only the churchgoers?
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:31 AM
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Basically like saying girls who go to college are walking stis
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:58 PM
6

This girl would be wise to stay the fuck away from OP.
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:57 AM
1

It doesn't even seem real.
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:57 AM
13

She shouldn't date you cause you sound like an immature little shit.
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:56 AM
23

1. Approach Her 2. Escalate on Her 3. Screen for Logistics 4. Bait Her to Invest 5. Go to a Discreet Location ​ Idk man this sounds like the beginning of a story that has you end up in jail.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:22 PM
2

This is fuckin hilarious.
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:31 PM
1

Everything anyone says in response to this is based on assumption. ​ learly there is something a little off with her This guys posts seem highly based on assumption.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:23 AM
43

I think if you have them catching feelings you need to give it time for those feelings to fade. Then you can maybe be friends with them later. There's maybe 3 girls in my friend's group that I've slept with at some point and it doesn't generally go smooth right away but can be possible after time.
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:19 AM
5

If a girl hits on a guy pretty much anywhere they're generally going to be okay with it.
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:28 PM
1

Maybe harsh, but if you feel this way about yourself you surely aren't going to attract anyone to join you in your misery.
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:24 PM
7

Yea it probably works for this dude because he isn't hoping that this one girl he texts comes through. He's just casually texting a bunch and not having much of an emotional attachment to any.
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:01 PM
9

You must be doing yoga at the wrong spot.
/r/seduction02/11/18 09:29 PM
6

Hobby of taking pictures of models sounds more like a job.
/r/seduction02/11/18 09:28 PM
2

Walk around.
/r/seduction02/11/18 12:37 AM
2

No need to feel awkward. You seem young. This is normal stuff here. If you've outlined the reason you don't want to be friends and respect her space, any level headed girl would be okay with that. Maybe at some point your crush on her will subside and you'd be in a better position to be her friend. Who knows.
/r/seduction24/10/18 01:02 AM
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You seem to be answering your own questions here. ​ If she has a boyfriend, and you aren't interested in being friends, respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and stop talking to her. ​ She will most likely respect the fact that you backed off.
/r/seduction24/10/18 12:33 AM
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They're either going to like you and respond, or they won't. This entirely depends on what your profile is like. I don't think what you say matters much. The way you look does.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:29 PM
1

Instagram's a trap.
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:09 PM
10

Yea but the thumbnail gave me a boner
/r/seduction10/02/18 11:41 PM
3

the 3rd and 4th day are prime time. Whenever I have a big event/wedding I always shave 4 days before.
/r/seduction21/09/17 05:30 PM
4

Nah, you're right. Here's an example. I was talking to a friend that I suppose the general population of males would find to be extremely attractive female. She was telling me about her first experiences with Bumble. She had recently gone on her first bumble date and said something along the lines of, "It was nice that he, without bullshit, stated a date, time, and location for the date. Not like most guys who say we should hangout some time." Essentially she just wanted someone to be straightfo…
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:06 AM
1

I've never once been asked what kind of car I drive.
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:30 PM
14

I've gone through this sort of problem for the exact same reason. Hated my ex (still kinda do.) Became really bitter and pissed off towards a lot of things, mainly women. The RP is a little intense with the whole, every woman is a cheater thing. Unfortunately, they are also right in a lot of ways as well. I'm friends with a lot of girls and being around them, hearing the things they say, watching the way they treat their bf's and whatever, it's not great. The worst part is all of them follow the…
/r/seduction23/06/17 12:59 AM
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That's now though. Nike or even under armor did not start off with going for women as their target market. This is true, but her point is that even if they tried to market to women down the line, the shirts would still say Big Baller Brand on them and that women probably won't want that on their shirt. The girl was a cunt and I bet it was the first time in her life that someone she felt who beneath her put her in her place. That's a bit excessive. Doubt she thought he was beneath her in any way …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:07 PM
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The reason she said this is because he's stated he wants to be compared to Nike and Adidas. Most of those companies sales are to women. Women buy more clothes than men. Women buy clothes for men. Look at J.Crew for example. Most likely going out of business even though their men's line is fairly popular(to some.). The reason they're hurting is because the women's line isn't doing well, and that's the bigger market.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:25 PM
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The second she questioned how many shoes he sold(doubt he's sold many) he lost frame. He even said that he was afraid of her. A few times. Wouldn't look at her and continued to act like a wounded duck. Even if I did believe someone were beneath me, I'd still look at them. That's what someone with a strong frame would do. Not hide, and show fear. This guy is a terrible example for TheRedPill.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:22 PM
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Completely agree. He acted like a child, not having the balls to even look at her. I understand holding frame, but holding frame isn't acting like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:29 AM
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I don't even like spending money on myself.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:40 AM
1

I agree with a lot of what you have said...but you could just unfollow the toxic bullshit and slutty girls? You can create a pretty entertaining feed for yourself if you follow quality accounts. I'm an artist, that only posts my art on my instagram. I only follow other artists, a friend here and there, and some clothing accounts. My instagram feed is pretty amazing and entertaining. I will say that I find it too addicting and the mindless scrolling is bad. I try to keep that to a minimum. Twitte…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:40 PM
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College
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:34 AM
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If a girl says that to you, you know you're having sex tonight.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:33 AM
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This is the only answer. Ex's are always always bad news. Idc what anyone tells you, you're better off moving on.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:02 PM
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I like the directness. Sometimes I just say "i want to fuck you right now." Usually works out.
/r/seduction24/03/17 04:15 PM
1

I like what some of TRP has to offer, but there are some seriously jaded dudes over there that have some terribly negative outlooks on life and relationships. To put it simply, everything you ever read should be taken with a grain of salt and you should pick and choose what you implement into your life.
/r/seduction22/03/17 10:29 PM
2

Creating rapport with a girl in person is far easier than doing it through bumble or sliding into a girls dms. I honestly don't approach that often (because I'm okay with not banging a new girl every night.) When I do decide to approach on a rare occurrence, that approach is going to matter. And it usually goes really well. Your charisma shows in person. She gets to see your mannerisms and how you handle a conversation. You can create a real attraction. Texting and tindering and all this social …
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:26 PM
1

This is so true. I'm talking to this girl that I can't see for two weeks due to schedule conflicts. I know she's into me as she's blatantly expressed it. The hopeless romantic in me says that I can text her throughout these two weeks because I know she's into me and it won't matter what I say at this point. But the rest tells me to not fucking dare text her for the entire two weeks so she builds up some anticipation and wonder and lust and whatever else you want to call it. It would be too easy …
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:04 PM
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You know the answer. Call her.
/r/seduction20/03/17 10:53 PM
2

I would have asked her to buy me one.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:40 PM
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Man this is so true. I was able to land a model last night because of some of what you're saying. She even admitted to me later in the night that the reason she was into me was because I was not paying attention to her(I wanted to but literally every guy at my party was all over her the second she got in the door.) You can create smv without even talking to the girl. If you're smart and show you're a capable, good guy, good values, attractive to women, women fucking notice. I've never pulled a g…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:47 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily call it playing games. I treated my interaction with her the same (minus the slight flirting) as I did with other coworkers at the event. You're supposed to mix around and talk to lots of different people. At no point did I think to myself, "This conversation has gone too long, I need to shift attention elsewhere so she she likes me." It was second nature to continue conversing with other people, which in turn, obviously showed some value to her. I wasn't there for her, I …
/r/seduction16/03/17 09:04 PM
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This exact advice worked for me in the past. Super hot girl started at work and all the guys gave her attention. I gave her literally, none. One night after work everyone went out for drinks and I talked to her a tiny bit, flirted a little, but quickly shifted attention to someone else. The next day she sent me a message asking me to go out with her after work. In situations like these, it's sometimes better to be patient and not destroy your value right away by pouncing on them as soon as they …
/r/seduction16/03/17 05:25 PM
2

Seriously. I've learned not to fully trust anyone. No loyalty in this world.
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:48 PM
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This girl sucks. I'd stop giving her attention, flip the script on her and make her chase you. My guess is that she will in fact chase you if you start ignoring her because she needs your attention. She's just as petty in my opinion.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:30 AM
2

We walk, in the garden of his turbulence!!!
/r/seduction27/02/17 04:14 AM
1

Let's fucking rave!
/r/seduction27/02/17 04:12 AM
1

Whyd you make out with her? Or fix her laptop? I would have turned around. Gross. What if she just sucked his dick? Thats something I'd definitely give a fuck about.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:48 PM
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Haha my ex found this out the hard way.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:18 AM
2

I say this all the time, but getting my haircut is a huge confidence Booster. Something about the clean cut just gives some added energy.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:54 AM
2

The "in Casey neisat style" could probably be removed. Its an edited video with some drone footage. Lots of people do this.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:42 PM
2

Patience. I definitely lost it for awhile and am finally getting back to where I was before. I'm noticing that my levels of calmness, happiness etc waiver every few months. You can't be on top of the world all the time or you'd never learn anything.
/r/seduction16/02/17 05:34 AM
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It's helped a lot because I just don't give a fuck if things don't work out how I want. My thoughts no longer define my reality
/r/seduction15/02/17 04:05 AM
7

And battlefield 1 is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:10 PM
11

I knew by the title it had to be from the same person who wrote the last "your 20s will suck post." What's your fixation on life being shitty in your twenties unless you had some magical lucky road that brought you jobs and girls. Some might be luck sure, but hard work pays off. This mindset is limited and you're starting to sound bitter as if you weren't one of the lucky guys you describe.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:13 AM
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I agree that women saying they aren't attracted to muscles are lying, but Daniel Craig is hardly someone I'd label a meat head. In my my mind, meathead is the the fake tan guys from Jersey Shore with barbwire tats.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 05:15 AM
2

Haircut
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:03 PM
1

Fuck, I pulled a beta bob yesterday. Live and you learn.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:16 PM
1

Maybe I am one of the lucky guys but I wouldn't degrade someone else's life and say it sucks because their life has had a different path. There's nothing wrong with someone serving lattes either.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 09:24 PM
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I in fact did read it up to that point. I'm 25 and my life has not sucked at all. I will not be serving you lattes. I already have a very handsome salary at a young age with a extremely fulfilling job at a good company, if that's your type of measurement. Your attitude sucks.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:53 PM
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I stopped reading when it said life sucks till you're 25 cause that's just some bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:08 AM
7

Right? Nerd, double majoring and learning a new language and going to be an investment banker. Nerds are no longer the uncool thing to be. Sounds like you are a fucking catch man. Screw the frats, I was never in a frat and got sorority girls often. They often hate the frat guys. You need to change your perspective and frame man because you have your shit together.
/r/seduction31/01/17 09:24 PM
2

Tell her you don't need a gym buddy but you DO need a fuck buddy
/r/seduction31/01/17 09:21 PM
1

Talk to your parents?
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:40 PM
1

Just started 2 weeks ago and it is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:26 PM
1

I was depressed about a month ago and feeling lazy, and 2 months prior my salary went up 3x. I'm not disagreeing with your statement...just saying that even though I'm very financially stable, it's not everything.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 01:18 AM
2

Well yea, not giving a fuck doesn't mean go be a douche bag.
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:00 AM
1

I've removed all social media....holy shit feels amazing.
/r/seduction26/01/17 01:59 AM
2

It's like there's a book about this somewhere...
/r/seduction26/01/17 01:59 AM
1

Realizing I'm basically a 6
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:07 PM
1

How are you guys rating yourselves, honestly. Are you basing this off celebrities? If Brad Pitt in his prime is a 10, who's an 8?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:52 PM
0

Flip a coin
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:10 AM
2

Can you come back to the Rangers please?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 08:20 PM
-1

And that's when you wife her up
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:55 PM
2

I can't stop laughing about inviting a girl to play Mario kart then when she gets there saying..."Shit I don't have Mario kart"
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:51 PM
1

Comfort is definitely a huge issue. Going back would get rid of my discomfort, and I'd say the only reason I think about my ex is because she gave me comfort (she's really awful honestly.) You've hit the nail on the head, I'm being a pussy. I know what I need to do to stop, I've done it before. It's the actionable change in mindset that I'm having a hard time achieving.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:54 AM
1

You're absolutely right. Although I love food and order things I've never had all the time. I see your analogy though. I'm not doing the things guy number one is doing as much as I should be. Especially in a new city.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:52 AM
57

That's a pretty loaded title.
/r/seduction17/01/17 04:46 PM
2

After reading this my question was going to be, did you even like this girl. Seems to me he wasn't even into her and that's why things didn't escalate. Edit: FR = field report
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:40 AM
2

Man I was in flow about 5 months ago and it was INCREDIBLE. I'm working on getting back there because there's no better state to be in.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:44 PM
1

I used to look at my phone right when I woke up everyday. Now that I don't I can tell my day starts off much better.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:27 AM
1

Sounds like you may need to re-evaluate your friends. Do you, don't let them influence how you choose women.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:45 AM
1

Chins up! I've had some great hookups already I'm just realizing none of them required a date.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:43 AM
1

That, and I'd say read The way of the Superior man as well.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:42 AM
1

I think there's a lot to be said about living in the moment. You're trying to get a grasp on a situation that hasn't come to fruition yet. When it happens, let it happen and decide where to go with in those moments. That's the fun part of a new relationship...You're not thinking too much into the details rather enjoying the experience. Every LTR I've had has started completely differently and progressed completely differently. There's no set road map.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:40 AM
3

This was good to read to prepare for my first date after a five year relationship. I'll kill it though, key is to be yourself.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:32 AM
1

I think that's the law of attraction being put to work.
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:58 PM
2

I always have good interactions with girls on the elevator then clam the fuck up. So good on you.
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:52 PM
2

Not sure about the "wear a chain" advice. You may be the type that wears a chain, but not everyone likes wearing a chain, and this will make no difference in a women's opinion of you.
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:51 PM
8

I'm the same way. In a way I think it makes the approaches that I rarely decide to make much more impactful. I don't make many approaches, but they rarely don't go well. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm a little picky and being lonely sometimes may be a repercussion of that.
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:44 PM
5

Buy it
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:40 PM
3

Everyone has good advice so far, and there are definitely some guys here in the same position (including me.) If you start focusing on yourself rather than getting the girl things will get better. Getting rid of that ego is important.
/r/seduction22/12/16 06:57 PM
2

Wtf does that mean then. You must need more abs in your pics
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 02:10 AM
2

Sounds like you are doing the right things. 2 Months isn't that long man, it's going to take some time to get where you want to be. I know I was putting a lot of pressure on myself to get better IMMEDIATELY and get a bunch of girls right way. That's just now how it works after a breakup, especially for us introverted guys. Confidence needs to be built. Letting go of the immense pressure to be fine as fast as possible things allowed room for my confidence to start getting better again. When I too…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:46 PM
2

I'm in a similar situation as you, also out of a LTR. What I would suggest is give yourself a little break. It sounds like your confidence is low, which in turn is not giving you the balls to approach. Right now I'm less worried about picking up girls than I am about improving myself. There's been points in my life where I was extremely confident, and my game came naturally. Picking up girls was easy when I was in this mindset. But it wasn't because I was approaching a ton of girls and getting o…
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:29 PM
1

I'm also introverted. I'm coming from Chicago where I had a large social circle so I'm pretty sure I'm just not used to the complete 180 yet. It's getting better.
/r/seduction21/12/16 06:09 PM
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Haha, I'm not from here and definitely not skater trash. Top 10% already! Although, I'd have to say I don't see many skater types in West Hollywood.
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:30 AM
1

CBD Oil? I have some, didn't realize you could vape it. My buddy actually just started a CBD company so I have access to a lot of it. He told me to put a few drops on my tongue once in awhile but I haven't done it yet and go for THC instead.
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:14 AM
5

Go on... where are you located? What do you mean by it's all how you talk?
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:13 AM
7

I doubt girls go around telling guys they are cute just to fuck with them. That's weird.
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:56 PM
20

6'2 fit, think I'm pretty attractive. Can't do shit when it comes to new girls lately. LA is weird.
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:51 PM
1

Weed helps my anxiety. Xanax would probably help my anxiety too but I'm not trying to get addicted to that.
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:38 PM
1

Do you take a cold shower daily? I'm seeing this idea thrown out a lot from various places and have been thinking about trying it.
/r/seduction19/12/16 05:22 PM
1

This is all correct. My ex was apparently devastated when I left her and after two months already found a new guy for a long term relationship. Breakups are easy for girls If they are even halfway attractive.
/r/seduction19/12/16 05:20 PM
3

Definitely disagree
/r/seduction19/12/16 06:53 AM
13

1st step: Be Ryan Gosling
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:33 AM
42

Idk I cringed 90% of the time.
/r/seduction15/12/16 12:51 AM
1

H&M is fashion forward clothing on the cheap. I would not suggest avoiding H&M and instead buying clothes at Kohls.
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:13 PM
3

Be careful with streetwear you could come out looking like a dumbass.
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:10 PM
1

You're going to have to go into more detail about instagram...
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:23 AM
1

or coke
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:19 AM
1

Fuck this is depressing.
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:18 AM
1

You haven't seen Friday Night Lights? I guess I could watch it for the fifth time.
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:15 AM
138

Last time I saw my ex she said.. "We're not having sex." You bet your ass we did. Advice, don't fuck your ex.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:47 PM
2

But this is a seduction reddit. Wouldn't you rather be playing another game than beer pong?
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:35 AM
1

Key word there is, "guys."
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:27 AM
1

I'm obviously going to be downvoted for anything I say cause it seems that you guys really love your beerpong here, but why not put on some music, drink, and actually have conversations with people? Beerpong belongs in college. I can't imagine any of my girlfriends being pumped to go to a party cause they have a beerpong table.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:17 AM
2

I still don't agree. If we are talking about hanging out with 21 and under girls then maybe. My previous apartment was the "place people wanted to hang out at," and we sure as hell didn't have a beer pong table...nor did anyone ask to play games. This is very age dependent.
/r/seduction18/11/16 11:51 PM
-5

Beer Pong if you are in college. Otherwise no.
/r/seduction18/11/16 10:22 PM
1

Is there a large difference between 3 & 12? Cause 3 definitely didn't work and they were far superior in the looks department.
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:56 PM
10

Haircuts do amazing things to my mind when it's fresh. Can't explain it
/r/seduction22/10/16 02:34 AM
24

This has been the most civil and well thought out discussion I've ever seen on the Internet.
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:08 AM
22

So I get the idea of this, but if they say oh no I can't tonight.. Do you go alone? Can't this be taken as "hey I'm going to this place with friends you should come too"?
/r/seduction12/10/16 12:23 AM
1

Hey me too, where are you in LA.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:50 AM
1

Sounds like you moved to a new place...making a new group of friends and social circle takes time. You aren't going to be "Popular" in this new place immediately. I just did the same so I'm sort of talking to myself here but, relax a bit. Take this a little less seriously and try to have fun. That's what I'm doing anyways.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:46 PM
4

That and they've been playing it on FX all day.
/r/seduction29/09/16 09:38 PM
1

The DJ's at your college are probably broke. Unless you live in a big city or something. Like others have said, work hard and be nice to everyone. You want people to acknowledge that you bring value to the table.
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:18 PM
1

I know some guys who went to Mad Decent in Chi. They literally taped joints into their boxers. Flask might be a little tougher. Security at these has been getting more lax in my opinion. If you are going with any girls in your group, just have them put things in their purse.
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:19 PM
2

Mad Decent is awesome....Have fun without focusing on girls rather enjoying the music. And if you don't meet some awesome hot girl, who gives a shit cause you still had fun at Mad Decent.
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:17 PM
1

Yea good point. Basically, I need to chill out. Ended up sending something along the lines of your suggestion. Me: What's your schedule look like? We should grab a drink some night you're free. Her: Definitely! I'm leaving this weekend for a festival but I'll text you Sunday and we can plan something??
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:36 PM
1

I'm going to try something like that but wondering if its better for me to pick a day, or let her tell me when she's free.
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:42 AM
1

I just threw in tinder for reference I'm on bumble mainly. You think there's still an opportunity to ask for a date? Or should I just move along.
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:21 PM
1

Alright that makes sense. So has that opportunity passed or could I still come out ask when she's free? I haven't said anything since.
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:19 PM
1

Just moved to West Hollywood an I don't know anyoneeeee
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:05 PM
1

I'm used to paying 25 at Floyd's but I recently moved and the Floyd's here has terrible reviews. So I found the best spot for guys and the cut is way more. Hopefully it's worth it.
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:01 PM
1

I'll let you know I'm about to pay 55 for a haircut
/r/seduction15/09/16 09:37 PM
1

Couldn't sleep without it
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:09 PM
35

~how to recover from a bad post.
/r/seduction23/08/16 04:50 PM
4

Someone said this to me in LA just yesterday. Healthy fit women go to whole foods.
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:45 AM
1

Got to the point where she wouldn't hook up with me anymore unless I said I was her "Bf." 5 years later.....
/r/seduction05/08/16 09:42 PM
5

I'm in this situation with a girl right now. If I text her she texts me back, if she texts me I text her back. It's not like we text all day just a couple things here and there. If she seems interested in texting you, you should be able to tell. Stop worrying about it and do what you want just don't be needy and send texts expecting a response.
/r/seduction05/08/16 09:10 PM
4

I've never once met a girl that says she reddits.
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:54 PM
1

This makes me think of Ryan Gossling in Crazy Stupid Love.
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:19 PM
2

Number three is one of my favorite things to talk about with my girlfriends. It is insane how many texts a guy will send to an obviously uninterested girl when she doesn't even respond to them. And they STILL don't get the point. This alone gives me confidence that I'm definitely a little smarter about this than most average dudes in my city.
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:44 PM
2

I've gone through 2 really heart wrenching break ups and I'm happier than I've ever been and attracting amazing and better quality women because of it. Things definitely seem impossible for awhile but if you put in the work you will feel better in time.
/r/seduction19/07/16 01:54 PM
1

I've learned to love being more on the introverted side and I think a lot of women like this as well. I've never found being introverted a disadvantage. There's mystery in the introverted guy, and women like some mystery.
/r/seduction18/07/16 02:41 PM
2

I'm just glad art wasnt mentioned that's my vice.
/r/seduction14/07/16 11:50 PM
2

If a girl has a dog pic on tinder, bring up the dog. I simply asked a girl on tinder what kind of dog she had, and now we are going out for drinks tonight.
/r/seduction14/07/16 09:24 PM
2

Was it a shiba?
/r/seduction14/07/16 09:21 PM
6

Will say, I feel like our relationship is really "normal". When I say things like "Let's go dancing, let's take lssons, let's go to this show" she says she's tired. This part makes me think that this may be the case. My question would be, what do you do for yourself? Do you do anything for yourself that you would say is exciting? If she is losing interest which I hope she's not, start doing more things for yourself and see what happens. If she doesn't want to go cause she's tired, go do it anywa…
/r/seduction12/07/16 09:26 PM
1

Don't worry about the 300 instagram followers thing. The girl I just met has 1500 and it's because she's hot. I'd be proud of it (as long as she's not nuts.)
/r/seduction06/07/16 07:05 PM
1

I like to think I'm somewhat attractive and the only time I've been directly approached by a girl is when it's a girl that I don't necessarily want to be approached by.
/r/seduction06/07/16 07:01 PM
1

I don't know about you, but when I take a little more time to dress well I feel a hell of a lot better. Every time I get a haircut my self-confidence goes through the roof. It's just about taking care of the way you look, it will make you feel better. Working out releases endorphins which make you feel better. You don't have to necessarily spend money on nice clothes, although expensive clothes will sometimes look better and hold up more. Girls don't usually care if your pants were 50$ or 500$ a…
/r/seduction06/07/16 04:18 PM
1

I find the awkward interactions hilarious. Go laugh about it with your buddy and try again.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:20 AM
2

So how do you dress?
/r/seduction05/07/16 07:54 PM
3

Just met a girl that lives in a different state. It's sad that I've realized this is what the best option is.
/r/seduction05/07/16 02:26 PM
1

Around 9 months, with breadcrumbs here and there.
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:47 PM
1

Surprisingly I was able to forgive her for sleeping with a guy. It was the act of breaking up with me in the first place that made it impossible to forgive her. I can't marry someone that is so easily persuaded by someone else's agenda.
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:37 AM
7

I actually feel the opposite of selfish. Relationship has a lot of back story but to keep it short, she broke up with me at one point because of her parents in which I came here and exnocontact in hopes of getting her back. Obviously I ended up getting her back but I couldn't get myself to forgive the breakup, and the things she did while we were broken up. If she let her parents control her once, what's stopping them from doing it if we were married, right? I do feel selfish and sad that I put …
/r/seduction30/06/16 01:18 AM
8

Hopefully I don't come off as a dick, but I got to the point where while sitting next to her, I'd look at her while she wasn't looking and say to myself, "I'm not attracted to this person at all anymore." This sort of thinking built up for months until I couldn't take it anymore, and also didn't want to put her through it anymore. At first, I tried to take a step back and decide if it was myself that was the problem (admittedly some of it for sure is), and that it was just a rut...but it was jus…
/r/seduction29/06/16 08:13 PM
25

Your honeymoon phase is over. Unbalance is normal and will happen for the remainer of your relationship. I just came out of a 5 year relationship and I could have stayed with her forever, we were compatible and enjoyed each other most of the time. It came down to me wanting more, and different things from a relationship. Couldn't see myself marrying her so I ended it. This is normal you just have a choice to make.
/r/seduction29/06/16 06:29 PM
4

Yes! Love how this works. My ex broke up with me at one point, and I saw the guys she dated in the year we were apart. I was always mad she was dating these guys then after we got back together she would tell me horror stories of how dumb these guys were. Now that we are broken up again, I'm not too worried about it because I know that generally most guys she's meeting at bars are huge assholes. Some day, I hope she finds a nice one but right now I hope they all suck.
/r/seduction28/06/16 01:38 PM
7

I'm going through the same thing, minus the kids. If you're living a porn movie and it isn't making you happy, maybe you should live less of the porn movie. I believe the "get under someone else" mentality only helps initially but ends up prolonging your healing in the long run.
/r/seduction28/06/16 01:35 PM
1

Honestly, you should try and make some friends! What are you interested in? Go out and find some events where you can meet people. I'm sort of like you, I like staying inside, very introverted. Luckily I have a myriad of friends that I have from college days and so on. If I didn't have any I'd be scared shitless too but you need to get out there.
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:07 PM
1

Whenever a girl has asked me to buy her a drink, I instead ask her to buy me one. This has worked every time.
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:04 PM
1

The only time this has happened to me is during, I'll boil it down to events. Whether it's St. Patricks Day in Chicago. A music festival. street Festivals. There is usually alcohol involved.
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:37 PM
4

Seriously didn't know what I was reading at "Models Art of Charm podcast crossfit jerk off."
/r/seduction10/06/16 07:41 PM
18

This just wouldn't fly with younger people.
/r/seduction03/06/16 11:13 AM
1

You can be nice, but also confident, mysterious, spontaneous. I wouldn't for a second become a non nice person just to get a girl.
/r/seduction27/04/16 08:19 PM
-7

What is she had a bad day cause her boyfriend sucks? Stepping stones for you to swoop in man.
/r/seduction03/03/16 04:33 PM
2

This is not entirely true. Although what is, "good quality" is completely subjective when it comes to torrents.
/r/seduction24/02/16 12:43 AM
20

Breakups do amazing things to the psyche. Nice work
/r/seduction30/08/15 08:01 PM
1

I'm destined for freelance
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:42 PM
1

Wouldn't you consider being more happy a big change in your personality?!
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:51 PM
1

In short, yes. I work in animation and the people I work with will not shut up about fucking comic books and comic movies and going to comic con in their comic outfits. I'm ready to explode. Unfortunately I think that it comes with my career choice.
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:48 PM
2

I don't see how the puking on your shirt part is relevant but congrats on the new found confidence!
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:37 PM
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