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crazy_fly/r/seduction26/05/13 12:23 AM
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Guard against over stimulation. Use discrete ear plugs. I do that, it helps.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:53 AM
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The best way to deal with AA is to use CBT along with exposure therapy. Exposure without any instruments to help you, for example alcohol. Before exposure. Adress your thoughts and expectations. For example: She'll reject me, I'll die alone and unhappy! Test your expectations through exposure. Reflect after the event. This gives you the opportunity to rearrange your expectations for the future. Even if you experience the worst possible thing, you may come to notice that you as a person is capabl…
/r/seduction20/03/14 03:27 PM
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Thanks for the course. I find it very helful. As a person who is curious about daygame it is golden. I often wonder what the hell to say and how to lead the conversation. I believe you have created a solid course.
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:00 PM
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Good thread! Thank you for sharing. It's nice how you came to a threshold where you said "fuck it" and just went out on an adventure! it seems like you stepped on yourself by not trying to take home the HB 7,5. It seems like you might have been nervous about how sleeping with someone in your social circle could affect you. I'm wondering maybe they would be easier to take home because they know you from before?? I interpret that you were thinking too much about how others will think about you and…
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:38 AM
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LolZ, I don't think it's any more common for people to acuse people of rape in Norway than other countries... Wiki leaks guy is quite a special case and can't be generalized for common people. Imagine the motivations for the people acusing wikileaks guy of rape..
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:22 AM
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This is interesting to read because I live in Norway. How is your impression of Norway compared to USA in regards of nightlife?
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:19 AM
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hehe, no! I believe it's a pretty common expression though...
/r/seduction27/07/13 03:48 AM
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Doesn't training, work, and shopping for clothes interest you? I see that work is an essential to living. Are you working with what you love? Training is an interest! What about training do you love? Find what benefits training gives you, and not just that you have muscles that impress girls... Maybe you love the pain, or the increase in energy afterwards... Do you buy clothes because you are interested in fashion? I assume that if you are constantly buying clothes you must have a certain intere…
/r/seduction26/07/13 12:14 AM
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For sure! Experience + reflection = Wisdom and the possibility for change.
/r/seduction25/07/13 11:08 PM
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Good initiative! I wish I lived in DC :-P
/r/seduction25/07/13 02:52 AM
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It's interesting how you write about how you have changed.
/r/seduction22/07/13 01:25 AM
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I find it rather fun to read about how you perceive men's behavior at clubs, and what attracts you.
/r/seduction22/07/13 01:22 AM
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Working out is great for posture. Build your core, but do exercises that build your entire body for example dead lift, squats.... Stiffness is not only a result of being to aware of your posture, but also nervousness. Yoga, mindfulness etc may let you be aware of how you are. For example, through mindfulness I found out that I automatically tense my thigh muscles. Every so often I become aware of this, then I relax them. When I am no longer conscious of this, they become tense again until I beco…
/r/seduction20/07/13 11:27 PM
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Thanks for the nice post. This is pretty much what the book "models" is about. I read it and in my opinion is the best read on this topic so far..
/r/seduction18/07/13 10:46 PM
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That's what she said. I will never find out exactly what she meant....
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:50 PM
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Thank you for such a great post. I find it very interesting how your cognition has changed from the beginning of the story to the end. In the beginning you are a real assertive and act cool, responsible and considerate for her needs, but when it comes to the future you become increasingly insecure. Remember she just got out of a two year relationship, it was your first time. I'm thinking what she said "rebound" is what she is after now. A guess would be casual sex, without emotional turmoil. I w…
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:47 PM
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Very inspiring FR.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:42 AM
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At a party in high school. The hottest girl in the school comes up to me and asks if I can take her to someplace private so I can hold her while she pee's. I say, "no, I don't want to". Never talked to her before, never talked to her again.... Another episode: Girl: Do you want to come over to ...'s house and hang out? Her friend: That just means she wants to make out with you.. Girl: laughs I get scared and reply, No, I think I will go to training instead.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:29 AM
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If you feel depressed, maybe you should seek professional help. If you don't feel you need help, then the first step in getting out of a depression is ACTIVITY. Get active, even it it means only going for a short walk every day. Find your values in life (what kind of person do you wish to be?) Values are things you find very important in life and lead you to obtain certain goals. For example, certain people have religous values that lead them to do or not do certain behaviors. Then there is acce…
/r/seduction11/07/13 06:13 PM
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I believe that there is one important aspect missing from this thread. That is the importance of your own motivation and goals when joining a social circle. If you join a social circle for the sake of meeting hot girls, then you set your success/failure on how many hot girls you get to know. If you join a group out of your own interests and motivations, something you really burn for, then you will come across as more genuine. Then it's easier to display a "I am perfectly happy without you" menta…
/r/seduction08/07/13 05:23 AM
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Being vulnerable is basically stating how you see yourself with your flaws as they are. Often one tries to mask one's fears. A fear of rejection is often masked in the form of passivity as in not engaging to meet others, or over compensating, a person who is very arrogant. Mark Manson's book named "models" has vulnerability as an essential theme. By loving yourself as you are and accepting yourself then it will be easier for you to share yourself with others. all in all, you are a person living …
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:56 PM
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I am working on this myself these days. I have problems about judging and trusting myself and others. I have problems opening myself up to and trusting others. Self-compassion written by Kristen Nuff is something I find to be helpful. Mindfulness meditation is also good. Increasing awareness about how you act and react allows for you to change your response over time. The most important thing is creating positive relationships with other people, good people. This is something I find hard. I don'…
/r/seduction02/06/13 07:21 PM
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Hey, I made a 16 dollar pledge! I am looking forward to reading your book. Just one issue though. Since I only get a digital copy, is it possible for you to scan in some of your pubes and send it along with my copy of the book? Thanks
/r/seduction29/05/13 09:52 PM
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Are you talking about portland Maine or Portland Oregon?
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:55 PM
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Thank you for the advice! I'm NOT gay, it's just that I recently became aware of a certain pattern I have. It's easier for me to bond with girls. I am more open with girls. My relationship with my father (he is slightly unstable to say the least) has influenced me in a real negative way. I have difficulty trusting and opening myself with men. This is something I want to change. I have developed a lot over the past few years and I am constantly seeking to challenge myself to become the person I w…
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:52 PM
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First, don't get a girl because you hate being lonely. That is needy and not attractive. Invest in yourself and when you are happy with what you are doing getting a girlfriend will be a really good experience. It is possible to get a girlfriend too when you are feeling lonely, but that may open the door for many problems down the road.
/r/seduction26/05/13 12:20 AM
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