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Dating apps: - Is all about telling a story, make sure you have good quality photos with nice backdrops and you dressed nicely - like for me I am into surfing, bouldering and travelling, so my photos are all of that and I tend to match with girls that have similar interests; - Make sure your profile shows your interests too - someone with common interests is more likely to match you; - Is arguably the most superficial form of dating, your photos get you the match and initial interest. This is pr…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 05:39 PM
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Anyone can make themselves more attractive though: eat better; dress well; groom yourself; study and read; exercise etc. Red pill does not have a monopoly on self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 06:49 PM
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Being non red-pill doesn’t mean you get to become a slob. You still need to be attractive
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 05:47 PM
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Key to being good in bed is to not be selfish
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 07:31 AM
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She’s human mate, she’ll want you to have some feelings and interest in her as a person even if it is just a fling. Sounds like you just want a sex doll
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 07:28 AM
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Even if I am hooking up with someone I still make an effort. Though personally I can't really have a fling for more than a few dates if I don't see it going anywhere, would rather focus on my passions and myself rather than lead someone on.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 06:51 PM
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Yea ignore all this red pill shit and just message after the date “I had a grand time, hope you get home safe”. Then if she’s keen she will say she had a good time too and that’s your invitation to ask her out, rather than ghosting her for 4 days.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 03:00 PM
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I think it’s disrespectful to do so and I’d talk to her about this. That said there are multiple factors to consider here, are you holding up your end of the relationship? This includes taking care of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/25 04:33 PM
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Yea, so I think your approach is to acknowledge the good advice and provide alternative answers and perspective to the shit advice.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 02:25 PM
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The reason men fall for redpill is it mixes good advice in with extremely shit advice. You read stuff like “be physically fit and healthy” or “have your own hobbies and interests” and it makes sense, it’s obvious. Then they weave in other dumb shit like “all women cheat” and for some guys this is their experience so they take it as fact rather than having a more honest reflection on their relationships with women - perhaps they had poor taste, or perhaps they neglected their partners.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 07:05 AM
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Being blind is not the same as being completely paralysed, I was providing an extreme scenario. If you are blind you should still have a lot to give to the world, you can be physically strong, you can use aids to allow you to use a computer (it can read to you), etc. There are many athletes who have overcome their disabilities and are still in happy relationships, because they have soo much to give - their disability does not stop them.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 09:09 PM
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How disabled are you talking? If I am completely paralysed and unable to do anything for the rest of my life (I'm late 20s) then I would tell my partner to find someone else. The kind of person that I will be with is going to be extremely sporty and adventurous, so it would be selfish for me to want someone that I truly loved to sacrifice everything for me. I think your problem is that you are approaching relationships from a selfish transactional point of view. Every relationship you have shoul…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 07:48 PM
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It works both ways, its not toxic to expect your partner to take care of themselves, be in good health, be able to provide for themselves and your potential offspring etc. If you can't do this then you are asking them to make sacrifices in their life which is selfish. You should approach relationships from the view of "what can I give to this person" rather than what can I take from them, but it seems like you just want to take and are upset because you have nothing to give.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 01:17 PM
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Its the opposite of red pill rhetoric. Red pill rhetoric encourages emotional neglect of your partner and is why the majority of red pill men get cheated on and then come to the conclusion that all women cheat. I was providing the framework to evaluate why one is cheated on and learn from it - I am not saying that it can be completely avoided, but you should take ownership for your own misfortune even when its not your fault. I think my perspective is empowering vs the perspective that you are d…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:51 PM
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I wasn’t victim blaming, I was saying there can be scenarios when less selfish partners cheat. I’m not justifying these partners cheating I am just presenting a rounded view that is broader than toxic stuff like “all women cheat”. If he reflects and concludes he did 1 and 2 then he knows he needs to be better at partner selection in the future. I’m not saying partner selection is easy either, hard to find someone you like that likes you and isn’t a tool
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 11:23 PM
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Sorry to hear that, hopefully you avoid someone like this next time
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 11:19 PM
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I don’t think that takes enough ownership. If a woman meets a man who is sporty, outgoing, intellectually curious, social, loving, and attentive—then watches him become addicted to computer games and neglect himself for years while she feels too attached to walk away—it’s not surprising that, when someone who treats her well finally comes along, she might be tempted to cheat. I'm not absolving the cheater of their behaviour here, its cowardly and selfish, but the victim should also take ownershi…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 05:36 PM
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I think affairs are driven by one or a combination of three factors: i) Neglecting yourself (becoming unattractive); ii) Neglecting your partner (not meeting their love language needs); iii) Poor partner selection (some people are just cheats and this occurs across both genders). I'd take this time to reflect on all three of the above so that you can take care of yourself, be a better partner and select a better partner in the future. It's hard, I get it.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 10:42 AM
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I think the problem with red pill content is that it provides answers to problems that are often unanswered for men, and mixed in with all the toxicity is also some sensible stuff. The good stuff: Take care of yourself (home, diet, dress sense), learn more skills, have hobbies and a fulfilling life etc. The bad stuff: Extremely toxic and negative views of women, the belief that all women cheat and are disloyal etc. To reach him you need to acknowledge the good stuff and provide answers for the b…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/25 10:33 PM
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woow thank you, now I just need to find out how to get invited to a party.
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