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Sure. These are all things within your control. You can make sure you have a good skin care regimen and educate yourself about it. Botox and fillers are options too, and they aren't necessarily "bad" like some people label them as. My personal opinion is they are okay for self improvement. But, you have to also know when things are going a bit too far as well with botox, fillers, laser and also your own level of preoccupation with your skincare routine. I think it is a fine line. But definitely …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 09:55 PM
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How much time do you spend thinking about your appearance? Does anything help these thoughts? Does anything make them worse?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 10:00 PM
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Thank you for your suggestions, they are really helpful xx
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 12:28 PM
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Hey, thanks for the answer. You gave some really great suggestions. Him being overweight is definitely making him feel less confident, he's told me a number of times that he's not happy when he looks in the mirror. Although today he put on a new outfit we bought and said he was happy with how he looked, and to be honest I agreed...he looked great! So maybe we are making progress afterall :) which makes me happy. I've got problems with my own confidence too but this is mostly a recent problem. Ma…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 09:40 PM
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Wow, what an amazing answer. Thank you for your insight! I think your and your husbands story does mirror mine. My boyfriend is just a baby in his career but he has SO much potential. I've seen it just over the last 4 months that he's making big progress and in that regard he is becoming more sure of himself with every day that passes with the tasks he does at work. Plus also, learning to live out on his own, he is becoming more confident day by day too. Maybe to help him I need to remind him of…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/23 12:37 PM
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Yes, myself and my partner. I am Christian, he is Jewish. We are from countries on the opposite site of the world to each other (literally, 12 hour time difference). He is from a big city, I am from the country. He is upper class, I am middle class. We are chalk and cheese! I don't give up my beliefs to follow his. We each maintain our own cultural and religious identities. However, over time we are absorbing some of each others identities which honestly I think is beautiful :) For example on pa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 01:40 PM
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Hi, sorry to hear you're going through this tough time. These are all valid concerns. When a family member goes through chemo is is really hard for their loved ones in so many ways. I think over time your mum will adjust. It is the first day and things are scary. To have life saving but very dangerous substances injected into your body is a very scary thing. On my first day of chemo (I've been there done that) I basically had a panic attack because I was so worried about the toxic chemicals. May…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 02:55 AM
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Thank you for both this post and also part 1. It has actually helped me to understand the problems I've been having in my own relationship. It's interesting learning about how different dominance levels of the man and woman, as well as the woman's dominance threshold effect on the overall outcome of the relationship. I think the womans dominance threshold is really the key piece I was missing in my understanding of things which I need to improve in my own relationship. For example I'm married - …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 03:12 PM
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I think it depends where you are in Australia though. I think the smaller cities or large towns (probably not the capitals) even people who are born there are keen to make friends. Because every one we know leaves for better oppourtunities in the capital cities so our friendship circles shrink too!
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:00 PM
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True facts there. And yep, this is exactly what I am going to do. It has been a few days and I'm still going. No more mothering from me. Lets hope I can keep going. This is a good reminder to me. He'll probably get defensive if he feels you are contemptous of his parents' marriage dynamic (even if you don't express it out loud). I have said it out loud. That was probably wrong of me. They both just grind my gears, one's bossy, the other lazy. Maybe that's judgemental but I just can't stand it. I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:23 AM
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We already had many many talks about him not doing his fair share around the house. Thankfully that got better and now he's in charge of cleaning. Although I still do the lions share simply because I've got good cooking skills and domestic skills. It's hard for him too because he never lived anywhere other than his parents house, then us together and they had a maid (normal in their country for upper class) so he never had to do much and never learnt the skills. Not like me, grew up lower class …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:18 AM
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100%. Like she says, the transition is the tough bit. Hopefully after that it is better. Lets see about the intamacy, maybe it will get even better....maybe I'll feel like I want to be more intimate with him rather than the other way round haha. Or maybe both! Fingers crossed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:11 AM
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Totally! I think this will be the tough time, the letting go part, like you said. I just have to grit my teeth and get through it but hopefully then the going gets a bit easier. But it makes so much sense, thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:09 AM
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Hey, thanks for your reply. Yes, I have communicated with him before that I don't like to be driving things always (edited post). We've had a few discussions about it. In my own mind I didn't previously connect that the reason I was being so bossy was because I feel like I want to be in control of everything....maybe that was an oversight. But I understand it better now. But yes, I have mentioned to him a few times that it ruins out relationship dynamic when I feel like I'm not in my feminine en…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 07:23 AM
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Thank you for your reply. Maybe I do need to start looking at things like a team because you are right, its more like a me vs. him mentality. We are a team, within the team I can't control how he does things but I do have to accept them and my feelings along with that. Definitely a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 05:27 AM
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Thanks so much for this. It helps me to think about in in a different way and it makes so much sense! I think partly you are right, it is totally a personal issue for me about control. I do think I have problems letting go of control, that's just how I am. I will need to work on it. Ideally, I like life to be orderly and predictable because life has been unpredictable for me in the past and I have not felt safe due to circumstances outside my control. So now I hate it when things are unpredictab…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 03:54 AM
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Is he still doing the things that put him in these situations? Or is he at least attempting to improve his ability to avoid these situations? Good point. He's definitely trying to not make the same mistakes again. That's important for me to remember.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:59 AM
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Hey, thanks for your reply. It's a valid point but no I don't think he has adhd. My ex did though (with for 5+ years) so I know alot about the condition and what it's like to live with someone that has it...I think I'd be able to pick it up in my husband but you never know. Its funny, my ex was always on time for everything but he struggled alot with impulsivity which was super hard...hubby is the opposite, never on time / disorganized but takes a long time to reach a well-thought out decision (…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:57 AM
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I've only intervened with the first one because I guess if I didn't he may have got very injured or worse 😭 The career one, no intervention from me. But when he told me about it I was so upset. And I can't get past that enough to be able to talk through it with him without feeling resentment and anger. Plus, we've talked about his organisation skills a million times. And it effects me so much when he messes up. It's effected my own career/business because he is not organised enough. How do you b…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 12:12 AM
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