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cream_tangerine/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:17 PM
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My advice would be to continue focusing on improving yourself. Trying to win someone back puts you at risk of looking desperate, which is unattractive. If you can buckle down and become the best version of yourself, then you'll be in the right position to create a strong relationship with a good man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 01:24 PM
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I think she has a great chance at finding a woodsy, outdoorsy man to spend her time with. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 01:18 PM
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I don't know if it's fair to speak for men like that. From my experience, having personal interests makes a woman better wife material. Having no hobbies or passions makes for weak character and causes neediness.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 01:17 PM
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Seconding what others have said, I think the best you can do is let your husband know that you are there to support him in whatever way you can. Everyone grieves differently, so just listen to him and do things to make his life as easy as possible. As far as how to behave around the widow, I suppose it would depend on how well acquainted you are with her. Be sincere and polite. Offer your sympathies.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 04:57 PM
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I'm still confused as to how encouraging a woman to embrace her true self and reach her full potential doesn't do that. Being passionate is very attractive. Having thoughts and interests is attractive. Cultivating these things as soon as possible optimises desirability and value for a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 04:46 PM
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Being a woman does not mean being a blank automaton. Having individuality and direction raises personal value. Furthermore, finding a partner with whom you share common interests boosts the endurance potential of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 10:22 PM
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Your passion is awesome! I'm sure there are lots of men who would be delighted by your love for science and the outdoors.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:01 PM
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Being totally comfortable and trusting with your SO is wonderful and I don't think you should worry about creating unnatural boundaries between the two of you. Like the others have said, looking after your health and doing the best you can to support your SO's life decisions are great RPW goals.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 09:27 AM
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Agree 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 09:22 AM
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That's great! It sounds like you've found a solid lady. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 09:35 AM
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You're preaching to the choir here. I got married in my early 20s. I'm in my late 20s now and am very happy because I know I made the right choice.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 06:44 PM
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If I were in her shoes I would end my sexual relationship with him and look for serious prospects elsewhere. I don't see how circumstances could change to make happy monogamy possible. But she says she's satisfied and it sounds like she wants to try to make it work. If that's the case, then there probably isn't much motivation to stop while she's ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 03:08 PM
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I'm glad you're content. That's what matters. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 11:59 AM
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This sounds like a tough situation. His career and lifestyle are always going to be an issue. It takes a really strong, mature musician to maintain fidelity. This obviously isn't a reflection on you. You sound lovely and very caring. I've also actually been with a successful musician. We were in a serious LTR for 3.5 years, living together and everything. He cheated on my constantly and always felt horrible about it after because he did love me. However, touring and the high-octane social atmosp…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 10:37 AM
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That's cool. I'm sure the ladies who don't like to shave would really appreciate men with your preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 10:25 AM
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You're still young and, despite what the guys on TRP say, 25 really is not old. You say you're 22 now. 3 years is a drop in the bucket in the grand scheme of things. Timeline wise, it sounds like you've put your career prospects first. That's awesome and you should do what you feel is best for you. But do realise that this decision is what's going to make it less likely for you to find the right man before you reach your mid-twenties. Personally, I don't think anything magical happens at 25 that…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:58 PM
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It sounds like you have a pretty good idea of what you need to do to improve. For exercise, if you find it hard to motivate yourself to go to the gym more than twice a week, find a dance class or something else different and fun to add to your regime. In terms of sex, one of the best pieces of relationship advice I was ever given is that 'quantity' time is just as important as 'quality' time. Use it or lose it, basically. To battle jealousy, you need to build your sense of self-worth. Find thing…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:44 AM
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It makes sense that you'd want your partner to have similar self-maintenance standards. All that shaving must be lots of work! Kudos to you!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:36 AM
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Gotcha. Any personal preference is valid.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:32 AM
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I don't think so. Feeling disgust is subjective and I wouldn't criticise someone or try to reason them away from instinct. Whether something is actually dirty or not isn't subjective, though.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:30 AM
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I don't really mind either way. I'm all for whatever makes you feel best. A billiard-ball-naked package can look a bit porn-y, but being clean and happy is what matters. If the pubic hair situation is really, um, BOUNTIFUL, then some pruning could make oral sex less hairball-inducing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 09:58 PM
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That's heartening. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 09:50 PM
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I get what you're saying. In the context of the post on TRP though, this lady was described as well put-together and attractive. That's what puzzled me: If a lady is otherwise of good quality, why would armpit hair be a deal-breaker? I thought 'because it's dirty' was a silly answer.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:23 PM
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Haha! It would be interesting to hear what competitive male swimmers have to say on the subject.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:20 PM
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I love, love, love Pinupgirl Clothing! Their pieces are pricey, but the craftsmanship is superb. Totally worth it. For more budget-friendly clothing, I'm a fan of ASOS. They're great for basics.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:19 PM
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Totally. It feels so much better when there's no hair.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:17 PM
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I'm married and I shave. I think it looks and feels nicer. It was just that I was a bit baffled by the idea that it was unhygienic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:16 PM
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That's wonderful and sounds so yummy! It's a great feeling when people appreciate your cooking and baking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:27 PM
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I'm with you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:26 PM
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Sure. It's important to look good for prospective mates. I just don't get the 'dirty' thing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:23 PM
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The only real sexism I've faced is being catcalled or sexually harassed, like being groped on public transportation. I've never been made to feel like I was less capable or worthy because I'm female. But I've most definitely come across men who think they are entitled to my body, which is scary and horrible.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 02:10 PM
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I cannot stress enough how important it has been to learn how to HAPPILY give a man as much alone time as he needs. Whether it's for the gym, hobbies, or time with his friends, men need this so much to be content. Wigging out every time your guy goes off to do his own thing is unattractive and disrespectful. Once I learned how to keep my cool and be truly supportive of independence, relationship prospects got much better for me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 01:48 PM
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As a married gal, I totally get the desire for the romance and social recognition that comes with the titles of Mr. and Mrs. However, marriage won't have any affect on your man's capacity for loyalty. It sounds like he loves you and is in it for the long haul. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 01:45 PM
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I think it's an important time to get reacquainted with yourself. Take the time to take care of yourself by getting healthy and spending time doing things you love. Everyone feels ready to start dating again at different times. In any case, it definitely shouldn't be rushed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:57 PM
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Like everyone else said: Yes! Being an honourable, supportive woman gives men the opportunity to grow and thrive.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:44 PM
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Yes. My husband and I will have been married for 6 years this summer.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:38 PM
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My husband is also like a human furnace who needs a large amount of food, whereas I'm petite and really don't need much. We eat the same evening meal, but I just make my portions smaller. Anything left over gets packed up for my lunch the next day. As far as my beauty regimen goes, my husband is pleased when he sees me applying night cream to my face before bed, because he finds it endearing and likes that I take care of myself. We both go to the gym at the same time when we have days off togeth…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:35 PM
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Absolutely. We must learn how to keep our cool at all times, how to pick our battles and not take any bait.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:23 PM
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Those are so lovely! Great choice! I really want a pair of the Cinderella heels in clear.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 05:57 PM
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Aside from being implausible, I - speaking as an RN - think getting rid of birth control would be unwise for several reasons: Hormonal birth control is the only effective treatment for conditions like endometriosis and PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome). The latter is extremely painful for women and requires repeated surgical intervention if it's left uncontrolled. Birth control significantly improves general well-being for women suffering with it. Some women, for whatever reason, dislike childr…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:21 PM
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I do a 60 minute work out 3-4 days a week depending on my rota (I work long shifts at the hospital). 30 minutes on the elliptical, 25 minutes weights, 5 minutes stretching.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 09:17 AM
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My mother gave me some really good advice: buy less, buy better. I stopping buying cheap clothes and makeup just for the heck of it, and started saving up money, shopping less often, but spending the saved money on a few high-quality items that I truly enjoy and will last a long time. As a result, I feel much classier and my closet and dressing table are less cluttered; win-win! I'm a nurse, so I definitely relate to having to look modest but well put together. For makeup, when I'm on a day off,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:47 PM
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It's a harsh way of looking at things, but I think there's some truth to the saying. Milk is milk. The milk produced by the cow that gets bought isn't necessarily any different than the cow that gets milked for free. It's the cow herself that's different. Be the cow worth buying, I suppose!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:36 PM
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Sorry if it's been mentioned previously, but Miss L Fire make fantastic vintage-inspired shoes! They're very high quality and comfortable, too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:30 PM
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Hi, ladies! I'm a newbie and thought I'd offer a quick hello. I'm a young mum, wife, and nurse. I often get labeled as 'old fashioned' (like it's an insult!), so it will be nice to be amongst like-minded people. xx
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:29 PM
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Healthy, mutually beneficial relationships can exist. It happens when both people involved are able to be straight forward about their wants and needs. If either person is being disingenuous about their intentions or requirements, then the relationship will eventually break down. This obviously happens most of the time because if people aren't intentionally being disingenuous, then they are often not mature enough to be self-aware and know what will make them fulfilled. However, there definitely…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:28 PM
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Booming birthrates exist in many developing countries because of a lack of education regarding reproductive self determination. Most of those regions you mentioned are also plagued by arse-backwards practices like stoning, FGM, and honour killings. I don't know if it's sensible to look up to those societies.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:18 PM
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Anyone who thinks any of their friends (male or female) has no choice but to remain friends with them is delusional and on a power trip. If someone is using you and makes you feel terrible about yourself, they don't deserve you and you need to get the hell out of dodge. I think that applies to all relationships, sexual or platonic.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 07:19 PM
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