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Question For Mencreativecreatureoff/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:17 PM
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Yes, the child free choice will limit her dating pool. I do think that she still has good options given the state of the world. There are a lot more people choosing to not have kids. As for the other specifications I could not say. I can tell you that women don’t go around measuring penis size, as long as it can get the job done the size can vary. It’s really about skill and willingness to explore other avenues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:07 PM
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I agree about the status of the world. Honestly we have fought to be where we are in life with everything going on. You brought a good point about kids living at home longer. We are preparing for this now and our son is only 1! We are striving to set him up with a solid foundation. The road is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:09 AM
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Honestly with what we have been dealing with my younger brother and the crazy ex I can see why your mom would say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:01 AM
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I want to know what you said. Anyway you can accommodate to the rules but convey the gist of the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:51 AM
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The US is prosperous and the same was done with the children. Other countries around the world have young people buying homes before 25. I don’t know when it happened in the US but people stopped teaching the children practical skills like: homesteads, personal finance, problem solving, and adaptability. It really is a disservice. There is a lot of immaturity that is also being cultivated now. There are too many distractions that just leads to depression and a form of paralysis from anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:49 AM
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I understand what you are saying about brain development. I have to point out that historically children in the past were able to take responsibility at 14 years old. Assuming that no extraordinary evolution happened in the last 150 years our brains are the same. Modern Western society delays childhood and responsibility so that 25 is seen as young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:38 AM
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Sadly there is no “appropriate” time because we as humans are always changing. The point is to find someone to grow with. If the person is mature the age does not matter. Also look at the statistics of once divorced people. Second marriages have a 67% likelihood of divorce and third marriages have a 74% chance. These people are obviously aging. So the correlation seems to be the individual and not strictly their age. Source https://www.survivedivorce.com/second-marriage-divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:12 AM
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To OP it doesn’t matter because she is not going to have children. She has all the time in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:04 AM
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I agree with you 100% it does not to be either or. Also OP mentioned that she does not want children so her timeline is pretty wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:02 AM
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I watched the clip that you linked and I was not expecting that. That woman was insane and it saddens me that so many people can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:22 PM
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You can reverse the vasectomy but it protects you from baby trapping
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:41 PM
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Hi! I just realized I did not put a source. These are from 2020 https://dqydj.com/household-income-percentile-calculator/#What_was_the_top_10_household_income_percentile_in_2020 “about 10.3% of the population earn over $200,000.” “According to a research study released in 2018, about 52% of US adults have middle-class income. This income ranges from around $48,500 to $145,500.” https://policyadvice.net/insurance/insights/average-american-income/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:11 PM
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Thank you for your reply sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:25 AM
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It’s good that you recognize this. So many people come from either broken homes or lack good examples from their parents. We too are doing our best to break the cycles with our little family. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:24 AM
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If you get along with your sisters we’ll have them meet your partners and then see what they say. Hopefully they feel comfortable telling you exactly what they thought. I can say I failed my younger brother in that I was not more persistent when I finally met the last girl. He knows now that if he ever gets a girlfriend and I sense trouble I will tell him bluntly until he tells me to leave him alone. Me trying not to hurt his feelings ended up in a lot more than hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:17 AM
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Your parents sound so cute. I agree that the dating scene is a mess. I hear my single friends talk and honestly if I was in the dating pool I would just bow out. Too many games, no respect, or common courtesy on all sides. It’s a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:07 AM
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OMG! It’s completely understandable why you feel like this. Terrible luck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:57 AM
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Congratulations on your marriage! Thank you for your reply. I actually just started watching videos on growing food. Its a lot of work but it seems very rewarding. Good luck I hope you have a productive farm!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:46 AM
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Thank you for your explanation. It was hard to gauge what the community really stood for from all the post that I read. Great response!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:36 AM
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You missed my preface on the top where I explain that I have brothers and a son. I am not a lesbian ( I don’t have an issue if anyone is) The crazy ex girlfriend comment is because my younger brother has had a terrible time with dating and the girls are absolutely crazy and taking advantage. I replied to a user somewhere in here about the last ex-girlfriend. She has been a thorn in his side and he had to leave his apartment to get away from her, she would not leave his place and started doing cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:17 AM
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Thank you for your candor. So sorry about your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:41 PM
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I get it about your height limiting things in the case of online dating. Honestly I thing all those apps are just hurting things more than helping. It has aided in this crazy culture where people don’t even know how to behave anymore. People are missing out on great partners because of some stupid thing. You will have better luck where your personality gets to shine. Good luck in your dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:10 PM
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Yes I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:04 PM
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It’s true. My husband is 10 years my senior. I looked at my friends and all the men are older too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:58 PM
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That’s amazing! Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:52 PM
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Panama we are a small country but it’s nice and easy going.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:51 PM
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Thank you for your thoughts. Chinese culture does have a “success” expectation. They are generally very hard working people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:50 PM
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Your comment made me chuckle. I am glad your are in a secure relationship. I’m in a similar boat. My husband asked me to stay home with the baby it’s been a year and he is not too excited about me wanting to work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:44 PM
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The comment you made about a man finally becoming attractive after a certain age is eye opening. I never realized this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:35 PM
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Thank you for sharing about your sister. I can say that the boyfriends height had nothing to do with the relationship. I hope you can find a partner as essential as your mother is to your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:31 PM
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I think it’s a western first world issue. Where I come from women are not domineering and aggressive. We are in general very affectionate and jovial people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:06 PM
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I agree! I have seen this many times. I have a guy friend (gay) and he didn’t see how he was getting abused by his mom. When I finally said something to him it was like if I was telling him unicorns are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:03 PM
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I have to agree with this. If I look at my male family members they are more likely to not “notice” things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:59 PM
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Thank you for your response. My son is only 1 but I am fighting tooth and nail to protect my little brother (24) The women in the US are very different and he is getting killed out here. Honestly he is the reason why I started looking into this whole community. We basically rescued him a few weeks ago from a crazy ex-girlfriend! She would not leave his apartment, she was trying to baby trap him, her mother was trying to guilt him to stay with her….. My husband had to get involved! Long story sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:55 PM
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I agree. I was just using the scale that have seen used in the “pill” community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:24 PM

Because it brings a higher income which is seen as a barrier and undesirable for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:18 PM

I actually never even heard of “high value” until 2 months ago. I’ve been married for well over a decade so I never was in the dating game. So to be honest if I look at what the standards in this community for when I was single (married at 20) I guess I would have been considered mid value. Fit ( 3 varsity sports) size 6, hourglass figure, DDD, young, no health issues, and have strong gender roles, virgin at that time. But my negatives, I was working on university degree (finished), big butt, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:33 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:10 AM
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I agree! It seems like women are born with a certain value (looks) and there is not much mobility really in that, looks decline. There is also fertility, that also declines much faster for women. Then according to many men they don’t want too much education or income from a woman to be perceived as not a challenge. Men have more mobility in the scales. They have more areas to pull from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:32 PM
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Yup! I know so many couples married super fast and the youngest marriage is 13 years! I’m not sure why people date for years and years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:05 AM
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Thankfully I’m happily married for well over a decade. Maybe I’m just old school but I’m not going to go around sleeping with guys to appease them. Only for guys to latter turn around and call people sluts. It’s a no for me. If you had a daughter is this the advice you would give her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:40 PM
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Absolutely not!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:36 PM
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Fatherhood is extremely important in my opinion. I know this put more importance on father than mothers for the very reason you stated. Many have never had fathers and it’s a serious problem. I think that a father should be physically and emotionally involved with his children. Attentive and assertive not just let the mom make decisions. Approachable and easy to talk to even though respect is there. Affectionate and emotionally available. I want my kids to know it’s ok to feel things and how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:02 AM
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Two things: either she is an absolute asshole or maybe she got robbed or something. It’s super weird that she offered a drink and a ride. That sounds like she was into you. If nothing happened to her then she is a fucking coward!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:11 AM
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Lol I suppose dentist would get around with my analogy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:13 PM

Exactly! It’s good logic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:10 PM

Exactly! Sex is so intimate. Would people be ok with a stranger digging in their mouth? Why would we want some random person inside our body!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:09 PM

I don’t care who the hell you are there is no way I would become a cum dumpster on a whim. Having a random person inside of you is just sooooo “shudder” 🤢. I think it’s great that you dump the women because you weed each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:07 PM
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Yeah you pretty much have to get the women young because it’s a freaking battle from what I see. It sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:03 PM
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Some of us waited till marriage. I don’t know how feasible this is for dating in the 20s and so on. Also loooooong dating relationships could not do this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:01 PM
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That is very low. Mind your hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:53 PM
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I did not get that from the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:47 PM
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I didn’t have crazy requirements but I feel lucky that my husband is exactly who I pictured I would marry. The “deal breaker” he had was he occasionally smoked cigarettes ( I am allergic and asthmatic). Big no no for me! Honestly I was very iffy about him and went on a casual date with him. The third date I had a terrible reaction to the smell of the smoke. He didn’t know how sensitive some people were even after him bathing after the smoking. He quit smoking that very day! It definitely pushed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:13 PM
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I was too worried about catching something but I have a friend that hooks up a lot and it’s all depending on her state of mind. No one has anything in common at least from pictures. Maybe how they come off like personality. She also likes colognes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:17 AM
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You were saying that moms would be hideous to look at. I am simply letting you know where there are plenty of good looking people. You don’t have to visit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:18 AM
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I’m pretty sure these people ( men and women) don’t see it that way. They live pretty good fulfilling lives. Having kids is not for everyone. It’s a lot of work and responsibility. There is a difference in the words. 😂 if someone tells me they are money free i asume they don’t care about money or the rat race. Broke means you are trying and not succeeding. I know a money free type guy he lives in his car or his tent and travels a lot. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:16 AM
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R/childfree people should come and comment in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:00 AM
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Childless sounds like they are lacking children. Childfree is people that actively dont want children. People with fertility problems that don’t have kids are childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:59 AM
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Have you been to miami, LA, Colombia, Venezuela …. Anywhere where people vais looking good? Plenty oh hot moms out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:56 AM
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Have you seen drug addicts? They have great bounce back!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:49 AM
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Some women do not want children because of their mental health. It’s sound logic to be childfree. If we imposed children on them they would be terrible and hate the kids. Let them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:48 AM
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There are plenty of infertile married people. Marriage is not just to have babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:45 AM
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Being a single mom is not ideal. Glad you didn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:42 AM
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Some people just don’t want kids ever and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:42 AM
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Don’t worry! Some of us support the childfree movement. Do you !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:40 AM
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I have never been “commanded “ that would dry me up like the Sahara. I could not be with someone like this just thinking about it gave me a stomach ache. I only decline if something is happening that makes it unsafe or very inconvenient. Usually we check to see if things are good to go for that day.
/r/RedPillWives18/07/21 07:19 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:53 AM
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I have never asked for dating info of previous relationships and my husband is 10 years my senior. It doesn’t matter what he did before me, I was not around. The virgins: many do not disclose their status because they don’t want to feel inadequate or targeted. Some men don’t want the inexperience or attachment that comes with dating a virgin others see it as a sport to “pop the cherry”. This is the case for me and 3 of my friends all of us married now for well over a decade. At present time I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:09 AM
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This whole thing is so convoluted. What I am getting from all this is: women should not make wait for sex. Women should not have a high body count. How does this work? Honestly I can’t imagine having a bunch of people diddling inside my body. Focusing so much on how long the woman waited with a previous partner is also bizarre. You were not around, does the woman get to have the same concern? Assuming that the women are “whores” is also crazy. There are plenty of virgins and very monogamous wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:16 PM

I don’t think most women are meaning that they feel unsafe most of the times. They may be looking for a “protector” personality. They want backup if shit hits the fan. Not only physically but emotionally too. In our case my husband ALWAYS makes sure that he is the first in line for physical things and he is the backup for social issues. Maybe we just have very cemented gender roles. We are a team but he’s the leader and I’m fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:29 PM

This made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:53 PM
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It depends on body composition. My whole family is tall including the women average 6’, the shortest adult guy is 6’4. No one is a noodle. We are big people so we marry big people 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:52 PM
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I meant it a separate things as in gen Z has the high cost of living and that’s why many do not want kids. Also fertility issues are on the rise and that also costs money. The child free movement is on the rise regardless of which generation people are. Being conservative has not faired well in the past few years. Maybe a different party will be prominent with mixed views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:28 PM
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Many gen Z don’t want kids. The child free community is growing. It doesn’t seem like there will be many conservatives left in 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:20 PM
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For me personality plays a big role. I have been attracted to lanky guys, short guys, chubby guys, and guys from different races.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:24 PM
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That’s exactly right!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:05 AM
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I have never heard any of my girlfriends complain about a guy being a virgin. Women don’t normally complain of a low body count. On the other hand I have had experience with men complaining about a virgin girlfriend. How they have to teach the women everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah they are mostly letting of steam and some are really funny.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/21 11:21 PM
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Regular nurses can make $100k if they are specialized and pick up a per diem. Of course in Cali they all make that with just the one job. Your wife chose a good specialty. Malpractice insurance should not be crazy, I don’t see many pulmonologist being sued. Hopefully she graduated with no debt to to use her earnings well. Unfortunately many residents don’t realize how much their overhead will be and how much money they would make, especially in lesser specialties. Not only that but the quality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:46 AM
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Bueno. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:03 PM
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I know! I’m an RN and I make more than the residents! They tell me all the time. These poor new doctors are very upset😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:54 PM
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Listen, especially now that things have gotten hard there are plenty of homeless people and I am sure that they are still dating. Look at how many are living in their cars! If you have the right disposition you can date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:52 PM
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Good lord. I was just showing you how women are not always picky. I know some women that have married “interesting” men but I have no way for you to see and verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:50 PM
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I see nothing wrong with this logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:43 PM
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It’s not that common to find so many men shorter than 5’4. It’s like finding a woman who is 6’0. They are out there but it’s not the average. Another point in height for men. Have you seen the guys in the Latin community? The men are not giraffes and they are getting laid plenty. They have a lot of charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:40 PM
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I’m not sure what movies you are watching but the new ones the male protagonists is not as tall,or muscular, or even as aggressive looking. Also the newer generations the men are much subdued because of the whole toxic masculinity and feminism thing. Hell even commercials are being pulled for being “ to manly” or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:35 PM
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It has happened! https://youtu.be/bEYuNKVW0Ns This woman married a guy living under a bush!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:28 PM
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I read an article that this working woman married a homeless drunk that lived in a bush! I kid you not it’s freaking real. Now they are married with twins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:25 PM
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I don’t think there could be a relationship completely equal in power. There is always give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:19 PM
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I dunno about investment bankers but I work in healthcare and 56K is more than what the residents get paid. Don’t forget the insane amount non dischargeable debt they carry plus malpractice insurance cost. 56K is pretty good for a trade job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:14 PM
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I was just going to write this!!! There are plenty of trade jobs that make six figures!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:10 PM
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There are a few things that I have questions about. How serious is the relationship? Is he on board with having a baby? Do you live together? Do you have a job? I will write as if you are a married couple living together with a planned pregnancy. So we went through something very similar. My pregnancy was very rough and I’m not going to lie it sucked being apart. Having medical emergencies alone on top of the state of the world was not ideal. That being said at the end we just moved to the new p…
/r/RedPillWives05/07/21 07:47 PM
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I have a very high standard of what I consider clean bordering on OCD. I absolutely hate dirty feet and I have a 11 month old who drools like a faucet! Plus we have pets! I clean everyday sometimes twice a day. I have wood and tile My tips Have house shoes/ no outside shoes in the house Clean all top surfaces first! Tables, countertops, couches (lint roller), anything that can hold or carry stuff. Vacuum and mop a room at a time. As in vacuum the kitchen and then mop. Mop 2 times! I use a swifte…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/21 05:36 AM
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I worked 2 jobs before having a kid (1 for bills and one for savings) now that I have experienced both worlds. Staying home sucks!! I rather work because at least I worked my 3 shifts and it was over. Can’t wait to go back. Being home is isolating, yes it’s important to raise kids but also I miss my hectic job, I miss seeing friends, I miss the using of my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:21 AM
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