creativeoutlaw44 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read	Resources	creativeoutlaw44	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:40 AM
7	Even Clint Eastwood sunk to mega lows in his life and thought about giving up acting at one point...power through your defeats and CONSTANTLY IMPROVE YOURSELF to become the man you WANT to be and KNOW		creativeoutlaw44	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:25 AM

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2	Would it be worth it joining a church to date if you're inexperienced in dating? Even short term, for casual dating, girls that are heavily into an ideology/belief system are very polarizing. If you happen to have a particular belief system (religious or otherwise), definitely seek out these girls because you'll have an immediate common interest. Otherwise, leave them to the dudes in these communities...not worth the effort.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 10:01 PM
2	Would it be worth it joining a church to date if you're inexperienced in dating? Women that make specific ideologies/beliefs a core aspect of their identity usually won't gel well with those who aren't as adamant and are a waste of time for short-term relationships (and, obviously long-term). Especially if they're religious, they typically aren't open to fooling around/certain pleasurable activities. This is also true in the secular world, minus the sexual exclusion.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 09:01 PM
0	Am beta bucks in relationship do I just cut my losses Jesus christ man have some dignity	/r/seduction	14/03/22 04:04 PM
3	My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1….. "It makes me look bad when my GF is actin’ a fool on social media." Until you start being part of her posts/stories whatever, who the fuck cares? You can probably count on one finger the number of people that know you're together. But I wouldn't participate in it, especially at that rate. Let her be happy and make it clear that you're not into that. Bitches be crazy amiRITE?!	/r/seduction	10/03/22 09:57 PM
1	How do I take the interest out of her? She's beautiful but boring. ...or you could just move on?	/r/seduction	08/03/22 04:15 AM
1	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? High status + famous doesn't hurt either! If he did the exact same things he'd get pussy, but it would be from the girls he worked with at Target or a restaurant. He's simply on a stage, and I don't necessarily envy him.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 05:35 AM
11	TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought before Getting pussy is as easy as going to the local animal shelter! <3	/r/seduction	13/02/22 05:03 PM
1	What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub? Take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 11:42 PM
5	Just say what's on your mind Interesting. 1) When did you say it? End of the date? Over text? Phone? 2) Said with a smirk? Grin? 3) What's happening with that girl who's got a crush?	/r/seduction	28/01/22 03:14 AM
1	25 - is it too late for me? It's absolutely OK and there are many strategies for doing so, but I personally don't do it because I'm not a huge drinker. Can't help you there.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 04:56 PM
1	Would it be worth it joining a church to date if you're inexperienced in dating? "I'm still distraught because I know I won't be getting any dates for a long time." Man, you have got to QUIT this loser attitude, NOW. Not because you are a loser, but because what we think we become more often than not. Just because you've been unlucky and struck out until now does NOT mean that it is so until the end of time. You can learn, earn, and upgrade your skills EVERY SINGLE DAY if that's what you choose to do. Totally understand how you feel, and it royally sucks to be left flailing …	/r/seduction	27/01/22 05:11 AM
1	25 - is it too late for me? 1) Get good with personal finance. Save some money, establish good credit, get a Roth IRA and know the basics of stocks/crypto. Always have just a bit of money stashed away in case shit goes wrong, gives you better confidence. 2) There's probably five girls in your immediate vicinity that you'd get along with and be compatible with. Another 10 you'd be able to fuck and not have drama. Until you marry a woman and make her "the one," there's no such thing...don't waste time being hung up on one gi…	/r/seduction	27/01/22 04:59 AM
3	[deleted by user] This "girl" deleted a five-year-old Reddit account over this thread. Don't think too much into it.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:43 PM
0	[deleted by user] And you've done that. Good luck.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:39 PM
2	[deleted by user] Absolutely. Life isn't fair, and it sucks. But would you rather complain about it or do something about it? If you're not here to find a solution, you're here to vent. Remember that the vast amount of people here are guys, who are (mostly) logical and solution-oriented. Without a doubt most guys here are on your side that dudes shouldn't do this and will learn from it.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:08 PM
1	[deleted by user] Relax, I'm on your side. Unfortunately if you can't be direct with him and get rid of him, looks like the easiest solution for you is to find another gym. Why waste any more time in a bad situation?	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:03 PM
2	25 - is it too late for me? Would love for you to expand upon this more, as I'm 30 and feel down about my 30s sometimes (no reason, the number just messes with my head). Arguably I'm healthier, wealthier, and look BETTER (as in, more masculine) than I ever have!	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:01 PM
1	25 - is it too late for me? It's too late! By 25 all the good everything is GONE - tacos, SUVs, apartments, etc. Might as well just GIVE UP! Bud, of course I'm kidding. I didn't even LEARN about game, cold approaches, etc until I was 28. Keep on improving yourself, especially your social anxiety and talking to people and you will get better.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:00 PM
48	21 Rules (Principles not game) "Make seizing opportunity a religion" Amen. Great list, I always love pondering this stuff.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:57 PM
2	[deleted by user] Hovering, approaching from the back/side, being too loud, all terrible ways to kill attraction/vibe with women. But also understand that some guys are just downright deaf to social cues (bordering on autistic) and that you'll have to spell it out for them. I understand most women don't like to do this (because they don't want to seem like a bitch/make a dude angry), but it's necessary for some guys. Hopefully this dude would catch the hint if you continually "had to go somewhere" or "didn't have…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:55 PM
3	Should I give her a hearing she deserves? If it's wrong for a dude to use a girl, then it's wrong for a girl to use a dude. Don't perpetuate double standards unless you're ready for the consequences. You made the right move.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 05:35 PM
3	[deleted by user] BUT WHAT WAS THE BOOK?!	/r/seduction	25/01/22 09:32 PM
1	Willing to pay for Hot Seat at Home Mastermind. https://coursetolife.com/courses/mastermind-hotseat-at-home/ https://dlecourse.com/rsd-tyler-hot-seat-at-home-mastermind/ https://www.ourbestprogramever.com/8m	/r/seduction	24/01/22 10:02 PM
2	Got the number of a housekeeper (cleaning lady) in a hotel. Pursue it? Kind of weird because she obviously works in that hotel, idk. I'm really firm on not dating women where I'm working/staying then, even if it's temporary. I just always imagine the bad drama that might happen and ponder if it's worth it. Rent an airbnb for last night and seduce her away from where she might get in trouble/be weirded out? It's just one night.	/r/seduction	24/01/22 10:00 PM
6	Gave up trying and it worked Horny onion, you have MANY layers.	/r/seduction	24/01/22 09:56 PM
1	Girl taking days to reply and now not responding Stop being interested in girls that aren't interested in you. It sucks, but when we make our priority "gals that are interested in me" we stop wasting time pining after those who don't. Move on, there are plenty more.	/r/seduction	24/01/22 08:44 PM
1	How is sex and romance like as as a adult? Is teenage sex and romance a lot more fun and better? Lost my virginity at age 17 and had more sex between 17-21 than I did between 25-29. It's a double edged sword. Stop the FOMO, the reality is "eh." Sure your hormones are raging and it's all brand new, but you really have no idea what to do with all of the equipment and teenage girls are not really in any position to be telling you what they like/dislike...they barely know themselves sexually, just like you. I remember eating pussy for the first time and thinking "What the hell am I doing? Is it…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:37 AM
1	Women trying to change you papa is such a funny word but I also love it	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:29 AM
1	Women trying to change you "You should believe what I believe politically/socially, because my emotion/intuition is right and makes me feel good." "No thanks, but I won't stop you from believing that." "You should consider going back to school for that certificate/degree, you could probably earn more money and do better." "Perhaps you're onto to something," ponders it quietly.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:28 AM
1	Learn to be selfish Fun thing to do sometimes is just turn your phone on airplane mode and take the day off from society. You can still check shit on your computer/sites, but you don't have to deal with the bullshit of leaving people on read/wondering about notifications/etc. It's also interesting to see how long you can go before you wanna check your phone or actually NEED to. Kind of makes you reflect on whether you're a needy bitch or not.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:24 AM
2	Too afraid to do anything. Exposure therapy will be your friend. Look it up. https://www.berkeleywellbeing.com/rejection.html	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:21 AM
1	How often do women approach men? Rarely, if ever. Has happened to me twice in my life and was just pure luck/was lucky enough to see it was happening. Do not count on it or expect it, ever. Do the work instead.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:20 AM
2	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? I already visited there for a week last year. It's just a typical rural small suburb with a Texas twist. Interesting downtown built with oil money, but mostly abandoned. No different than lots of other ones across America. I'd buy property there and rent it out, but probably wouldn't live there. On the whole I enjoy Texas, but haven't nearly explored all of it.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:14 AM
2	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Yeah, I used to date this girl that had a REALLY loud laugh and didn't have a lot of girl friends (which is usually a flag, not necessarily red). She liked hanging out with nerdy guys and friend zoning them, but for some reason was going out with me. She basically didn't have a filter, would butt in with comments that were inappropriate/crude and try to give me shit. You know, stuff that you might expect to deal with when hanging out with guys, but not REALLY a woman. Trying too hard to fit in a…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:13 AM
3	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? YES. Love adventurous women, confident with speaking their mind, etc, but don't want to date a dude at all. Feminine energy, soft voice, dresses/clothes, smells good...all go a long way toward attraction.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 09:31 PM
8	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? Wow, that sounds cool as fuck. I'll have to look up more about that. El Salvador is on my list of places to visit eventually because now you can use Bitcoin there. Crazy!	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:39 PM
10	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? I certainly would! Where in Central America and what people?	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:34 PM
52	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? If you travel to weird places like Midland, TX or Taos, NM people always express interest about what small towns/places are like. If you're good at observing and like experiencing "real life" you should never run out of stories to tell from travels, no matter where you go. I've learned that even describing the ambiance of a shitty local diner or what it's like to walk through an abandoned downtown is fascinating to people, because most don't do that...ever. Every so often you'll meet people in y…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:32 PM
1	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? I did as a teenager, but you have to realize that a "wild life" as romanticized is a double edged sword and you must accept the consequences. I grew up with a guy who was no-holds barred ball-to-the-wall crazy (in a good way) and totally the life of the party. Easily got us alcohol when we were 18, hosted parties, was a natural at getting puss, etc. But the flip side of this is that he got terrible grades in school, constantly was fighting with his parents/people, multiple run ins with the law, …	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:28 PM
8	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Either super hot or incredibly annoying. There's almost no in between. It really depends on so many factors, you take it by person. There's a fine line between women exhibiting some positive masculine traits and being "one of the dudes," which I find unattractive.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 06:41 PM
2	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. The Stephen Mitchell translation is hands down the best version. https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Te-Ching-Laozi/dp/0060812451/ref=pd_bxgy_1/131-0541983-5345335?pd_rd_w=3bMDB&pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&pf_rd_r=RZ8QN8ASCCXACCTY0499&pd_rd_r=bb0a7ec2-6a63-4fce-b6e8-fe5596333379&pd_rd_wg=9lkK9&pd_rd_i=0060812451&psc=1 https://terebess.hu/english/tao/mitchell.html	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:07 PM
3	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Fascinating. I like fasting, but usually do 16/8. Not sure if I would attempt dry fasting because I enjoy being hydrated, but it's worth a shot. Stoicism and minimalism are very cool, I've gotten a bit less frugal as I've aged because a $5 cup of coffee really sometimes can make the entire day better. I never got into asceticism because of the story of the Buddha, where he rejected it because it's the other extreme of being soft/coddled and he advocated the middle way. But it seems very warrior-…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:51 PM
1	You've just cold approached someone and introduced yourself... then what? 100% agreed, but even in radical political/social groups people's first question isn't usually "so why do you want to destroy the government/patriarchy/corporate interests?" It's usually just "what's your name? how'd you come here? Oh you're interested in [common interest for group]? What part of the philosophy? You listened to the same podcasts?" I'm a VERY heady and intellectual guy, who really can just bore a rock to tears talking about the finer points of almost anything, and I have had to l…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:47 PM
5	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Happy for you, dude. Saw the pic of you for rock climbing/sports, what other interests do you have that are "not popular"? I used to feel this way about Polaroid photography and random travel (like "Hey, let's go to this random town/city today because we've never been."), but I don't think I've ever had anybody knock those. A lot of the time our worst enemy is ourselves and the shit we say in our heads.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:35 AM
2	You've just cold approached someone and introduced yourself... then what? NFTs are a fascinating, as well as the Rape of Nanking, but not conversation material. Good vibe + talking about/acknowledge immediate surroundings as mutual interest + silly genuine compliment on something she can't control (eye color, nose, ears) + segway into anything you want to talk about, as long as it isn't TOO WEIRD or something that would off put any relatively normal person. It's not so insane to think that an hour after you meet a girl, if you guys clicked and got coffee/vibed you COU…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:27 PM
1	[deleted by user] It's a trade off. I like a daily walk and body weight exercises, but then I fucked my foot up and had to take a couple weeks off. I spent it learning SEO skills and getting better with my writing and learning all sorts of stuff, which normally I wouldn't have done nearly as much. If you're going to eat chicken fingers and drink, know in the back of your mind that you have to hit it hard the next day. Otherwise it just turns into a bad habit. Greatest thing about exercise to me is that you can ca…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:02 AM
3	Is it weird that I don't feel ready or mature enough to start to date or get into a relationship at 26? Admit you're not ready, figure out why. You've already done the first part, now time to tackle the second. After that it's having your pick of the litter based on effort and personal criteria. Don't give up, get going!	/r/seduction	19/01/22 04:59 AM
2	Freaky girls aren’t that freaky Don't neglect short and unassuming girls. For some reason pale girls have always been wild to me.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 04:25 AM
5	Does going to a bar alone in 30s make me creepy? Nah. Bars aren't my jam, but I love doing stuff alone. It's honestly kind of sad to see how dead and lackluster most people become once they're married/early 30s. Seeing some of my married friends "grow up" and repeat the same routine day after day is crazy to me. But people find comfort in and security in that, so why knock 'em? Resist the trend of the majority and do your own thing. Have confidence in yourself and people won't really care.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 04:24 AM
6	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good wtf is a fake wellness check?	/r/seduction	18/01/22 09:32 PM
3	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Fascinating, thanks.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 09:06 PM
1	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Interesting	/r/seduction	18/01/22 08:35 PM
2	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Gotcha	/r/seduction	18/01/22 08:35 PM
5	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Care to share some examples? Always good to learn more.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 07:55 PM
21	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good "...the girls you like, the young hot, sexy, beautiful women you like and want to fuck, are 99.9% NOT on reddit and NOT on dating subreddits. If they are good enough, they're most likely out there dating someone, shaving their pussies, fucking someone, or out with her friends doing things that normal hot girls do, like for example, having a life." Amen. You only have to be on Reddit a month or so to realize that it does not represent the real world at all. It has a bunch of amazing information, …	/r/seduction	18/01/22 07:54 PM
3	[deleted by user] Let the freak flag fly so all the freak citizens can get their freak passports!	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:10 PM
2	[deleted by user] Move. On.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 11:28 PM
1	Stop being a secondary character in your own life, and become the hero of your life's story. Whenever I think about the role of "the hero" in life, I think about what it would be like if I starred in a Western.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 11:27 PM
1	how to be good in bed Crazy. It sounds both super hot and kind of demented, I guess it depends on the context. The knife play is a bit odd, but I actually remember someone talking about it somewhere else. I don't think I could do that, because it's easy to slip with a sharp knife and a dull knife is unbelievable.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 08:04 PM
3	I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickup Maybe "train wreck" is the wrong word - it implies so much drama and dysfunction that most people who are "train wrecks" are on the edge of homelessness and deep into addictions. I don't get the impression that most people in porn are like that. Your description is probably more apt - they're kind of like middle class craft fair artists. Except instead of painting "Live Laugh Love" on windows they fuck and suck cock. I don't blame them, it's way easier than other jobs that would pay you 12 grand…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 07:06 AM
3	how to be good in bed I made a girl cry one time cuz I was saying really bad stuff and making her look in the mirror at herself Would love for you to expand on this story, seems both hilarious and like a terrible learning moment.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 04:33 AM
19	I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickup "a lot of these hot girls/models you see on IG and pornos are a train wreck in real life" I've always kind of assumed this, which is why hot girl social media doesn't phase me. It's kind of like ice cream - looks amazing, but you know it's bad for you at the end of the day. Wouldn't mind fucking more though, as I also have a high sex drive.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 04:28 AM
19	how to be good in bed Sometimes if you get TOO intense with a woman (like fucking her too hard, rubbing her pussy too long, kissing her too much/grabbing) when she's not properly warmed up, she just gets overloaded and might wanna stop. It's smothering. In my experience women enjoy rough/intense sex, but you have to BUILD up to it properly or else it will collapse. Kind of like how you can run for longer (and at a better pace) if you start off slow and hit your stride, rather than starting off sprinting. The best exa…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 04:23 AM
101	how to be good in bed Listen to this podcast: https://www.amazon.com/Step-Take-Orgasmic-Bliss-nsfw/dp/B08KKBSN7T 1) Make her feel safe 2) Make her feel beautiful 3) Warm her up 4) Back off if things get too intense 5) Use things other than your cock to stimulate her body/mind Affirmations, simple dirty talk, smiles, eye contact and a low voice go a long way.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 08:03 PM
1	Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob? Yes. A blowjob without enthusiasm or interest is no better than a homemade Fleshlight. Show interest and at least put off a vibe that you want cock in your mouth and you'll do wonders most times.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 06:14 PM
–	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read I mean if you want to reduce it to a biological urge to procreate/be social with other monkeys, that's fine. But if you're trying to find meaning in any activity, that's really more of a discourse for philosophy and personal ethics than a pickup sub. Nobody's forcing you to find meaning in this or anything else, and to most men the meaning is self evident. I don't think it's bad to come to the conclusion that women are a lot of work, they are. It's just one of many activities I'd rather have in …	/r/seduction	15/01/22 06:13 PM
–	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read If you don't intrinsically love women (for sex, companionship, feminine side, etc) then that all makes sense. It is a lot of work, and like making new friends or getting a new job, there's bullshit that comes along with it. If you're ONLY looking for a mate to marry and stand by your side through thick and thin, then you just need to razor focus on the type of women you want to be with and cut out all the other stuff. Also understandable. Otherwise, I don't know what to tell you dude. That's kin…	/r/seduction	15/01/22 05:04 PM
1	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read Certainly a bit dated, but solid age-old advice in there.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 06:08 AM
–	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read To each their own. I've become even more interested in women since diving down the rabbit hole. If you're feeling burnt out, perhaps it's time to take up a hobby.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 06:08 AM
–	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read Wow, that fast? What do you think was the best piece of advice it gave you?	/r/seduction	14/01/22 05:05 PM
2	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read 100%	/r/seduction	14/01/22 05:04 PM
1	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read Read what you want to read and decide for yourself.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 05:03 PM
2	"The Book of Pook" is really a wonderful piece of internet writing that every dude should read Fascinating	/r/seduction	14/01/22 05:03 PM
1	Even Clint Eastwood sunk to mega lows in his life and thought about giving up acting at one point...power through your defeats and CONSTANTLY IMPROVE YOURSELF to become the man you WANT to be and KNOW Does this look like the face of a quitter? https://youtu.be/aAAkNCxKaJ8?t=66	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:44 AM
1	[deleted by user] Any threads you'd recommend that particularly helped you? I saw you listed general advice below. Since finding advice on game/pickup a couple of years ago my whole world has changed, but I'm always slow to hit my stride. It will happen eventually in time, but I always love tips/tricks that helped other dudes.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:35 AM
6	I tried shooting my shot and It didn’t work - now I feel worthless. Read "The Book of Pook" https://bookofpook.com/ Your emotions are completely valid, but they do not control you. Change your mind and shift your life accordingly. There is NO shame in failing, only in not trying.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:34 AM
1	Shifting focus to being social and having fun conversations Let go of all expectations of what will happen, and embrace where the wind will take you. As soon as you focus on a specific outcome, you become outcome DEPENDENT and modify your behavior. Instead, be outcome INDEPENDENT and focus on either learning something new about this person or having a fun conversation.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:31 AM
6	Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely know "We expect women to think like us, which is a gigantic mistake." If you learn this one concept, you'll constantly be ahead of the curve. Most people, especially women, are not logical problem solvers. Forgive them and roll with the punches. If you're good at keeping calm and composed, you can lead and guide.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:16 AM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid 100%	/r/seduction	10/01/22 06:04 PM
3	Reminder: Its normal to feel like a fraud/ imposter when you start getting, or going about getting results Feel and acknowledge the fear/anxiety, but go forward anyway. It passes.	/r/seduction	10/01/22 02:30 AM
25	Reminder: Its normal to feel like a fraud/ imposter when you start getting, or going about getting results I've learned that I "feel like a fraud" anytime I start doing something new and going out of my comfort zone. Because in a way, I am. If you're doing something out of your normal behavior/expectations, you're breaking out of your own character mold and trying to create a new one. Just like muscular growth and emotional intelligence, a little pain and some well crafted behaviors go a long way toward making a new man.	/r/seduction	09/01/22 04:59 PM
2	Men who were once horrible with women but are now good, what changed? Glad I could help. Time to go from zero to one! Then two, then three... It never stops, you just get better with time.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 03:52 AM
1	I hate Condoms - Does anyone have a Recommendation for Ones that Feel like You're Wearing Nothing At All? Nothing will feel better than raw, but you've just got to find ones that suck the least. Order a variety pack/grab bag on Amazon and plan a fun night with your gal. Keep trying new ones. All you can do! https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Condoms-Lunamax-Sampler-Condoms-24/dp/B07X6PQ1Y2/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=assorted+condoms&qid=1641588616&s=hpc&sprefix=assorted+con%2Chpc%2C110&sr=1-5	/r/seduction	07/01/22 08:50 PM
2	A good problem to have: they want me to settle, would like opinions please They'll find dudes who do want to settle with them. Let them go. Unless you think one of them is completely special and your soulmate, then it's the natural thing for them to drift away.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:45 AM
2	What else can I do to overcome my fears? You're hot, busk on the streets, and you're afraid to approach women? Usually it's the other way around. Try singing to some ladies directly if they catch your eye. If that's too much, start by asking ladies for the time and say that your phone died (obviously, don't be wearing a watch). After, you can say "Thanks, I'm trying to make sure I'm not late for [something you're going to do]." Eject!	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:43 AM
15	Achievement: I landed my first number Congrats my man. Text with the goal of meeting in person again, have fun then. Don't go crazy with texts, because they can chain you to your phone, be misinterpreted, and backfire on you. Let her get to know YOU instead of your words on a screen.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:40 AM
52	Men who were once horrible with women but are now good, what changed? In no particular order: Failing, learning how to be happy without a lot of money, losing friends, exploring alternative opinions (political, social, spiritual, etc). Going back to ex-girlfriends and letting everything blow up in my face, having crazy sex and while you're inside of her realizing "FUCK, this is a bad idea" and having to deal with the fallout after you cum. Getting anecdotal evidence and experience through podcasts (How to Talk to Girls with Tripp Kramer/Unapologetic Man with Mark …	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:36 AM
1	Best first Snapchat? Send her something on Snapchat ONLY if it's going to prompt you to actually talk to her in person. Conversation starter, not digital notes.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:30 AM
1	This conversation stuff really works! (by meathead) It's not a 100% way to meet best friends (and some people are downright annoying), but it's very endearing to people to engage them in the subjects they're interested in. Indulge them, and you might learn something.	/r/seduction	06/01/22 05:24 AM
1	Appreciation for "The book of pook". Correct link for the book? https://bookofpook.com/	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:36 AM
1	How do you make peace with your past failures? Learn from it. Read the Tao Te Ching and take an attitude of not being affected by external circumstances so much. It'll blow your gourd.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:34 AM
17	This conversation stuff really works! (by meathead) A game you can play with anyone: "What's interesting about this person and why?" Most people never get any chance to talk about themselves without seeming like a narcissist or asshole, and the fact that you'll let them or indulge them is a welcome treat. All you have to do to prove this concept is think about all the shit you're super interested in/would love to talk about and imagine someone just giving you free reign to let it all out. They'd probably be your friend in no time.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:32 AM
1	Eye contact during sex Staring is odd, but eye contact + dirty talk is hot as fuck.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:27 AM
2	Feeling not "good enough" when approaching Ha! No, but they have an entirely different set of problems and goals. Hope you get there.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:48 AM
1	Feeling not "good enough" when approaching Understood. I think cold approach still has great potential if you're in a situation/area where a woman is actively engaged in something or observing the environment, but you're correct that just hitting them up out of the blue when they're looking at their phone is low risk/reward. There is something primal about cold approach that I think will never lose appeal to both men and women because of evolutionary factors, but it's just one tool now. Not the primary one.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:44 AM
1	Feeling not "good enough" when approaching Understood and agreed, but wondering more so why you think cold approach is dead. It always seemed like an evolutionary social hack to me, which is why it's so fascinating.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:37 AM
1	Feeling not "good enough" when approaching Personally I think cold approach is dead. You can get women other ways. Would love it if you could expand more on this, seems fascinating.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:35 AM
1	Ways to Improve Social Skills🧐 Start taking a daily walk or exercising again. Nod or smile to random people. If someone tries to engage in conversation, even if it's inane bullshit, let them and continue onward. Pick up a hobby that you like and get involved in said hobby community, virtually or otherwise. Baby steps to get back to what your goal is.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:34 AM
1	Female’s social circles Sometimes a woman's friends turn out to be more trouble than even she is at dramatic moments. Kind of like when you date someone who's cool, but their family is batshit crazy. Depends on who they are and if they're also single/married/etc.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:31 AM
1	What’s the best place to physically meet girls in 2022? Activities you're interested in where single gals are present and sharing the interest in common. I keep meaning to sign up for a sushi class or something else and just see who's around. Couples can become friends, women can become lovers, guys can become buddies. Win-win-win if you keep the right attitude.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:30 AM
1	How do I stop getting cucked? Girls + drinking + party environment = anything goes Same can be true for guys, but it's more obvious with girls. Sucks, but you'll do better next time.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:27 AM
2	How should I go about giving consent as a man? Double standards suck, but you've got to deal with them. For the woman that kept riding your dick like a dildo, I think I would have physically made her stop. As in grab her by the waist or make eye contact and just stop her from moving up and down and saying "Hey, I can't do this anymore. I'm done. If you're that close then I'll make sure you get yours another way." That's a pretty fucked up move on her part, and it made me wince to read it. Her totally cold attitude is also unacceptable, and I…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 03:00 AM
2	Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skills Excellent advice, it's nice to see these confirmed after learning the hard way.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 11:18 PM
2	The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels Yeah, it made me really aware of how stupid and challenging public speaking can be at the same time. I'm a huge fan of stand-up comedy, so I've vicariously watched people (both in person and on a screen) demolish themselves in front of vicious audiences, and in a way I was somehow prepared for that. It was never going to happen, because this wasn't a wedding of sociopaths and bullies, but I guess that was the foundation. It seems silly to reflect on. What it really brought me was a clarity that …	/r/seduction	30/12/21 04:17 PM
13	The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels The single greatest thing about getting older is that you begin to care less and less about the opinions of others over time. Spot on. I'm only 30, but I was at a wedding recently and surprised that not that many people were giving toasts. I'm kind of used to like 10 toasts from friends or family and stuff like that, but all we got was the bride's parents and best man. I asked people at my table "Do you think they'll let friends do toasts? Like short ones?" and they all agreed that it was a good…	/r/seduction	29/12/21 05:02 PM
1	[deleted by user] "You already know the hole is low and the clit is located in rural Wisconsin." No fucking wonder I've continued to strike out. Tickets to fly to Wisconsin are INSANE these days! FUCK ME IN THE ASS WITH A RUBBER HOSE!	/r/seduction	21/12/21 11:22 PM
3	My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approach 1) What language are you coding in? 2) What's the project? 3) What is your background/how'd you get into it? Just genuine questions, because I've always been interested in it. Kitty cats wanna play, it's just the way it is!	/r/seduction	17/12/21 10:44 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Then don't be an asshole all the time. Learn from dudes who get a lot of women, take the elements you can use, and discard the rest.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:23 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Perhaps you do, by being too nervous or something like that. I get that it sucks and it's hard to get over, but if your focus is on finally sticking your dick into a vagina (and you don't have bad intentions, like raping someone or doing something crazy) then I would just lie about it or say something like "No, but I'm less experienced than I should be." It is not the end of the world. If you can shut the conversation around you being a virgin (which obviously makes you feel insecure), you can f…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:21 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. That's up to you. If I was trying to lose my virginity and it was mega important to me, I would. But in my experience women don't usually ask that question.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:12 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Be a bit of an asshole, study dudes in movies/history that got lots of women and determine their attitudes, and don't bring up the fact that you're a virgin. You know which hole it goes in.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:05 PM
1	Men without Women: What is your perspective? Not that black and white. Plenty of married men (the definitive end of "being with a woman") do exactly the unproductive behaviors you describe. Some are even worse, because now they're trapped. Even guys with a semi-controlling gf exhibit this. A man's attitude toward life and ambition if a product of MANY factors, and a woman being present is just one of them.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:00 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Bud, your entire post history places the power dynamics with women. Even if you're not outright "blaming" them, you're giving away all your power and just handing the ball to them for every single game. I understand that you want to be a "nice guy" and a "gentleman," but just stop it. Move forward with different tactics, take different approaches. If being a virgin is such a huge deal to you, then visit a prostitute and learn to fuck like a champ. They won't care if you're a virgin, weird, or an…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:54 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Your post history is full of blackpill nonsense, blaming women, and similar sentiments. You've gotta stop, dude. It won't get you anywhere. I get that it sucks, but you have to move forward. It is the only option. Your life isn't over yet and you need to stop acting like everything is a finality.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:35 PM
2	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Then you need to stop focusing so much on your virginity and throwing pity parties. It sucks, but life isn't fair. Lots of people don't have lots of things that would make their lives better. Stop blaming women for your problems, get off Reddit, and keep working on it. That is all you can do.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:32 PM
2	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. If there's something else that would be more valuable to you (making money, creating art, traveling, etc) then I would move on from it for now. But something like marriage, relationships, dating, etc. I wouldn't consider a "failure" in the traditional sense. You might be failing at doing your best/achieving your results, but it deals with soft skills that will evolve and change over your life time. It's OK to take a break from it and concentrate on things that move your life forward so that you …	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:23 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Then I'd consider it a hobby or a failure and move on/pivot. Don't keep subscribing to the sunken cost fallacy if you want progress and results. If something doesn't work, eventually it has to go. https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/the-sunk-cost-fallacy/	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:10 PM
1	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Then you'll continue to start/stop at various things and basically stay where you are. Start something new every day and you'll learn a lot, but you'll also be a "jack of all trades, master of none." It's perfectly fine to have lots of interests, but eventually you have to develop some of them to live a full life.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 06:48 PM
9	Most guy's success is not attributed to their application of some specific tip, trick or technique, but simply results from them consistently going out and actively interacting with many new people. Like anything else, you will get better/see results over time if you just start and keep at it. If you eat like shit and start taking a daily walk, you will become fitter. Not as fit as you could become if you took care of your diet and tailored your workout, but you'll easily go from 0 to 1 in terms of your fitness. Same with DCAing in to stocks/crypto, saving money, writing, podcasting, etc. Just start and keep at it if you find it worth your time. The latter is the hard part, since we don't h…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 05:06 PM
2	Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses. 100% There's always an excuse for everything in life. Always. But if you stop making them some crazy shit will happen. Not always good. But something out of the ordinary. Proceed with caution and try to learn from it.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 02:39 AM
2	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? Ah, gotcha. That makes sense. Thanks!	/r/seduction	09/12/21 03:43 PM
1	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? Makes sense! Thanks! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3svW8PM_jc	/r/seduction	09/12/21 04:45 AM
1	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? Fascinating. Can you expand more on this? Why do you think it's so much easier?	/r/seduction	09/12/21 04:23 AM
3	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? But does one really want to be with frantic women? Tell us more, please! Interested in hearing a 55-year-old dude's perspectives on women at this age as I just turned 30.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 04:21 AM
5	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? "I’m 21 and it seems like other guys are getting way more girls then I am." "Getting girls" can mean so many things. Making out, BJs, eating her out, sex, handjobs, etc. Just because you're intimate with a woman does not mean: 1) you or her enjoyed it 2) it was a good use of your time 3) it will add any value to your next experiences with women Keep getting better, figure out what type of girls you click best with, and go after them.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 04:19 AM
1	I did it!! NOICE slow and steady wins the race.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 05:07 PM
4	Don't try to impress but instead EXPRESS. Express your true self and let the other person get to know the real you. It's cool, you'll get there. Your content is good, now focus on presentation.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 06:05 PM
31	Don't try to impress but instead EXPRESS. Express your true self and let the other person get to know the real you. Video content is great, invest in lighting/mic that isn't clipped to your shirt for top performance long term. Audio and lighting can easily be done by you. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	07/12/21 05:39 PM
-3	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Don't hook up with her if you're not into her. There are plenty of other women in the world, and fucking isn't the goblet of fire. It really isn't, and the sex will be lousy if you don't find her attractive in some sense. Read the room, hang out for a bit, make her laugh. Have a drink if it's available. If you make eye contact for longer than a couple seconds, go in for the kiss. Should progress naturally from there. If you're a virgin, then just don't do it. It'll be way too awkward and it's no…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 02:33 AM
6	Leave girls on read It's fine, bud. Maybe chill out and take a break from Reddit. :D	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:45 PM
2	Leave girls on read Dude, relax. I'm just sharing my experience.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:36 PM
5	Leave girls on read Sometimes it's interesting to decide "I'm not going to respond to this person for a couple of hours" and see what happens. Don't be a dick about this, especially if you're in the middle of a convo and are expected to answer, but just when it seems to die out naturally. The amount of responses I've gotten out of the blue indicate levels of interest that otherwise would be hard to measure. Not exactly sure what to make of it, other than not responding all the time makes you a bit scarce in a world…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:31 PM
3	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting Vent and explode, but don't let this lava infiltrate your thoughts about women or spill over into your life. Too much negativity is a type of brain cancer that will rot you from the inside out. Texts are often read through whatever internal voice we have, giving you large amounts of error (as you said, a minefield) to mess things up because whoever you send a text to is interpreting it in their own internal voice. Since all of us have unique voices and interpret things differently depending on a…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:20 PM
3	How can I deal with half-assed texts? are they shit tests? You'll know more half assed texts when you see them, this was just an initial opener. Try to text less, and meet up more. Eventually you will only have to text what's necessary or fun in order to meet up, where the magic happens. Having full conversations over text can burn you, as people tend to read texts in their own tone of voice and may make interpretations that aren't there.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 05:58 PM
2	How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset? Don't hold people to double standards unless you're going to hold yourself to them as well. It just makes life easier.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:30 PM
1	Picking up a milf cashier Don't try to pick up women while they're working, because it's usually not welcome. Two approaches could possibly work: be straight up honest and tell her that you've always wanted to get to know her better and ask for the number. Pay cash (to buy you some time) and have a piece of paper in your pocket, ask for a pen like you need to write something down quick (or grab one), and then write your number and a short phrase: "when you get off work," "would love to take you out" or something else tha…	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:30 PM
2	How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset? Do you think that because you like sex you're a slut? If so, why? If not, why hold a double standard that you clearly don't believe in?	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:26 PM
3	what are the best affirmations to improve the internal game daily Love yourself, dude. <3 https://www.amazon.com/Love-Yourself-Like-Your-Depends/dp/0062968726	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:25 PM
2	How do you seduce a grumpy woman? Easy answer is to move on, because it's not worth your time. If you're into playing life on hard mode, then you're going to have to kill them with kindness until they either leave the physical space or are won over. Don't expect to win.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:24 PM
26	Need help with dirty talk Start the dirty talking before you're actually having sex. It will then just seem like a natural, dominant part of the encounter. If she's a truly sexually submissive gal (which it sounds like she is), there's a whole host of things you can do that allow her to be submissive and get hot and bothered before you even penetrate her. Whispering in her ear can be a great way to convey the intimacy and dominance without having to vocalize it too much and hear yourself say it, although eventually you s…	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:20 PM
1	For men Noice! It's like you've condensed 20 things I've realized separately over the years into one post. Great intro for anyone who has NOT come to these realizations or needs a kick in the pants.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 07:13 PM
3	Observing stand up comedians and some late night hosts during interviews can provide examples of charismatic behavior to emulate during conversation If you've never gone and watched stand up comedy live, I would HIGHLY recommend it. Amazing what these fuckers can do, and seeing people bomb will give you an entirely new perspective on life.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 05:05 AM
2	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. This is excellent, totally underrated, and magically delicious advice.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 05:01 AM
3	If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy. “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.” Tao Te Ching	/r/seduction	09/03/21 01:09 AM