| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Husband: spiritually compatible, masculine, reliable, funny, faithful, loving, able and willing to be emotionally intimate, intelligent, passionate, having solid communication and leadership skills, motivated, venereal, chivalrous, and adventurous... in no particular order. Lover: the same because for some people sexuality is related to spirituality, a man who can make me genuinely laugh is sexy, I wouldn't want a feminine lover, I don't keep unreliable people in my life so he wouldn't be my lov… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/17 09:39 PM |
| 4 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?So true! I very rarely hear anyone speak of joy. When I do, I don't think people understand the difference between joy and happiness. I listened to an interesting TED Talk about what happiness is and the speaker said that a large portion of it is really residue of good memories. Another large portion is anticipating activities during which you'll be happy and create more happy memories for later. So happiness is actually mostly in our minds. It's anticipation of memories and reliving memories as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Standing ovation, sir! I am NOT by any recognizable feature a Feminist. I believe in equal rights for all. I believe in treating my fellow humans with kindness and respect, as you said, not to win a prize but because that's the bare minimum one does as a productive member of society. I do not subscribe to this "toxic masculinity" BS and I absolutely agree that the war on patriarchy is creating an atmosphere perfectly suited for anarchy and all forms of destruction. I support the rightful model o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?It does sound harsh. I agree that no-games people pair up and that's ideal. Which makes it a real shame that more people don't become no-games people and pair off with each other also. Lol I always think that more people should elevate themselves to be better and join the few at the top who are successful, rather than trying to convince themselves and others that it's a good idea to engage in destructive behaviour. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 07:59 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Whatever you chase in life, runs away! Men like the chase, they need a challenge. They don't want to be chased. They think they do because what they really want is for us to do some chasing... thinking that we think like they do. We like to be pursued. We like to feel valued and wanted. If a guy makes me feel like I have to chase him, yuck, I'm out. I'm worth more than chasing a man. Chasing is the male (masculine) role, being pursued is the female (feminine) role. It's natural and I prefer it t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 05:00 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?It's funny that you keep your niceness on the DL lol. Also, what kind of offensive things do you say? The guy I liked is getting a divorce from his cheating, narcissist wife (horrible woman) and needed time before entering into any kind of relationship. I'd already liked him for years before that as we work together, but had never done anything about it obviously because I'm not a home wrecker. The attraction was already built. You're right that stereotypes come from people and situations repeat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 04:51 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Nope, I didn't drop the conversation. My family has two birthdays in one week and we do birthdays in a big way so I was busy :) u/lawyerinthemaking is interesting. He does come across as humble, realistic, and insightful. I'm enjoying our conversation. It's refreshing actually, because I find that most men here act touchy and bitter. They don't seem interested in open dialogue, instead they act like they have something to prove. We don't know each other, though, so no one needs to prove anything… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?I'm imagining myself meeting a new man and if he did the things which I originally listed in my first comment, I wouldn't give him a chance. My attraction level would be 0. Good looking? Doesn't matter, he's an immature jerk. Money? Who cares, I make my own money and it's not worth putting up with that crap for even if I were a gold-digger. Popular? With whom... other assholes like him who will treat me and my friends like that? No thank you. Yuck. When men go hunting, they study the prey and ad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 02:04 AM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Oh boy. Where do I start? I will never, and I think most high value women can agree, date a man (date or LTR) who treats me like a dude. We're not dudes! It's not classy. High quality women aren't into games when dating early on or in LTRs and ARE behaving decently, looking for decent men. Valuable women are not looking for a challenge, MEN are! Women like stability, sanity, and respect! Men project their relationship desires onto women, thinking that we want to chase you and need a challenge...… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?This is really great! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 12:28 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Snowflake? Let's not throw insults lol. What exactly do you think I've said men should do? Treat us with respect, be sensitive to our feelings, and be chivalrous? Don't you want respect in return? Don't you want to have us appreciate you? Don't you want to avoid crying when our feelings are hurt because you were incentive? I think I said more about what not to do... which, honestly, is more common sense and pretty easy to do. Don't be gross and treat us like dudes, don't be jerks and treat us li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?I agree whole heartedly! People do need attention but I feel that the more mature we become, the more we realize that it's not attention that we need but rather, connection. Meaningful, lasting connections are what people crave deep down and immaturity causes people to chase shallow things like one night stands and followers on Instagram. Instagram is sad. I use it as an album for photos of my dogs :) and I'm not in any of the photos. Being happy with ourselves is the first step to understanding… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 12:01 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Lol, the question here was asked to women. The OP wanted to know what the worst advice given to men was. Women are saying that this advice doesn't work and we hate it. I guess the difference will be what the men are looking for and if they respect women. Are they looking for a high value woman for a meaningful connection and possible LTR? Listen to women. We're flat out telling you how to win our hearts, minds, and bodies. If men are just looking for sex with girls whom they don't respect, no re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Lol, thanks for explaining :P I know what game is. I meant what does your particular brand look like. Though, you kind of answered my question at the end. You act like you don't care about us in an effort to make us desire your attention. This could work on women who need attention from the men they feel that can't control. I find that a lot of men on Reddit see women as attention whores. Do you think we're that way? Or are you just playing that angle with that particular group of women because … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 12:25 PM |
| 5 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Your explanation does make sense and I'm very glad to hear that you didn't become a jerk. :) I hope that you're right about the man I mentioned because he really is/was someone unique and I considered him very special. He actually did approach me and tell me that he wanted to get to know me with the intension of possibly dating in the future. I was delighted and found his honesty incredibly refreshing. Taking things slowly was going well until he switched gears and I guess we no longer see eye t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 09:11 AM |
| 4 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?If by "early dating situations" you mean that a man shouldn't come on too strong too soon, then I agree with that. But continually keeping a women guessing about whether or not you like her or care about her is not wise or decent. A valuable woman will get tired of the games and emotional drain and check out sooner rather than later labelling you either a player or indecisive. "If she sees other women chasing you without any provocation or encouragement on your side." I can agree slightly. It ca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 08:53 AM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Totally. If a man casually calls me "dude" or "man", I playfully remind him that I'm a "chick"... It's important to let men know how you like to be treated and for them to let us know how they'd like us to treat them. If a man treats me like one of the guys, he'll be friend-zoned. Not out of spite but because I won't see him as a romantic partner when he acts unromantically toward me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 07:46 AM |
| 6 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?That's really too bad. None of these things are true for any of the high value women I know. I personally hate being made to feel like one of the guys. I'm not, I'm a woman and I appreciate being treated like one. I treat men like men, not like one of my girlfriends and I think that they appreciate that as well. If a guy isn't chivalrous, it's a deal breaker for me. Romance, chivalry, and manners are what sets a quality, high value man apart from the dime-a-dozen bros with one hand down their sw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 01:36 AM |
| 4 | LTR Relationship Standard: VirginityTwo thumbs WAY up. You live in reality. 👍🏻 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?So true. I dated a very cheap man so I know that I don't want that again and I do believe in chivalry but I'm self sufficient, I don't need a sugar daddy. I'd feel awkward about that. I hate this image men have in their minds of gold-diggers and women only caring about money and status. It's so cringeworthy and not worth getting into a relationship for, that's for sure lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:35 PM |
| 5 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Great question. People shouldn't pretend anything., having options or not. Making a woman feel like she's just one of many and that you plan to continue playing the field will get you one of two things: a girl with low self esteem sticking around to lap up the crumbs, or dumped. A high value woman will see that you're not ready to commit and move on with one of her other options. It's not bad to show that you have options but if you carry on too long or show too many, you'll look like a player a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:31 PM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Are you saying that you think women give bad advice? Or that "women give bad advice" is the bad advice... meaning women actually give good advice? Because you're walking a thin line here, pal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:20 PM |
| 2 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Seriously horrible advice hahaha. Ain't nobody got time fo dat | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:18 PM |
| 7 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Ugh, that's terrible. I recently fell for a guy who is a "beta" and was crushed by his now ex wife cheating on him. He's doing this switch to an asshole alpha nonsense bit and what it did was change him into a selfish prick. Hot and cold, take charge, telling me that he's "not going to put up with any shit"... um, I understand that and there wasn't any shit until he started acting like this. We don't need warnings, let's just be kind to one another and drop the act. Good women don't need these a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:12 PM |
| 53 | LTR Relationship Standard: VirginityFirst, this bloke isn't married. Second, red pill? This guy has his head so far up his own ass, he thinks a woman who's saved herself for marriage would give him the time of day... what I gave him was a red pill. Third, this loser isn't trying to better himself. He's looking for validation as a disturbed creep with a sick double standard. He's hoping some bros will pat him on the back and give him the balls he needs to fully realize his potential as women's worst nightmare. This isn't about my m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/17 10:57 AM |
| 40 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?-Be aloof. Women love it when they're not sure if you like them or not. -Make sure she knows that she's not your only interest/option. You'll be more attractive to her if other women are chasing after you or you're pursuing them. -Women don't care about chivalry anymore, they want to be treated like one of the guys. -She's just looking for a man to support her lifestyle, not for true love so make sure you watch out for yourself and keep her at arm's length. -She's trying to control you, be aware… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 08:43 AM |
| 32 | "Yes, I know.""I remember, babe. You also like sweet pickles, right?" ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 08:35 AM |
| 117 | LTR Relationship Standard: Virginity"I simply can't respect a woman that doesn't hold out for a mans full commitment before having sex. I don't want to end up with the town bicycle. No matter how into me she is - I don't want to think about past partners, etc... I want a woman who knows only me who I can mold into what I want with no prior knowledge of men. Also - am religious to an extent. Edit: Most importantly - I want to know that I'm the only man my LTR or wife has known. No other man can say he has had her." And YOU think th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/17 01:42 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter