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MALE DEPRAVITYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:16 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:52 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:30 AM
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FDS HUMORcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:11 PM
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STAY WOKEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:20 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:07 PM
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STRATEGYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:53 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:31 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:32 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:11 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:26 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERScremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:23 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:50 AM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:46 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:21 PM
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FDS MEMEScremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:17 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:58 PM
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LVM LOGICcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:37 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:32 PM
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FDS MEMEScremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:31 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:52 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:29 AM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:34 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:32 PM
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LVM LOGICcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:45 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:53 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:38 AM
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cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:59 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:32 PM
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FDS HUMORcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:36 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:54 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:26 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:18 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:29 PM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:36 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:22 AM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:28 PM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:15 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingscremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:24 PM
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SCROTES MADcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:10 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:43 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEScremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:48 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:42 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:45 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:21 AM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:43 PM
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Discussioncremeblushers/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:39 PM
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FDS HUMORcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:29 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:01 PM
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#JustLVMThingscremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:07 AM
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LVM LOGICcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:33 PM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:46 PM
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RANTcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:33 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEScremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:31 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?cremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:05 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEcremeblushers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:37 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
77

Did he text you this after you left? What a cowardly entitled baby, good riddance. “You don’t do that to a guy” what, decide what I want to do with my own body??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:05 AM
14

Thissss I would switch in a heartbeat if I could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:25 PM
154

Every. Single. Time. I thought something wasn’t right but pushed it to the side in case I was overreacting, I turned out to be right. Our guts never lie yet for some reason we still hold out on this little bit of hope. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:27 AM
161

Yesss omg they’re more loyal to their friends than they are their girlfriends, they may as well just date eachother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:24 AM
2

I know I’m kicking myself for thinking that I could get away with just texting him and ending it at that. I have no respect for guys that even answer texts from ex’s when they have girlfriends which is why I just wish he was upfront about it at the beginning instead of dragging it on. He’s blocked now dw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:46 PM
1

Fuck you’re right 😭I feel dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:44 PM
3

I needed this so much thank you sis, sending the tightest virtual hug lol. I know he/this kind of situation isn’t good at all, I just need to learn that I can have feelings without acting on them💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:16 AM
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I didn’t even think about that, but you’re right and am kicking myself even more for reaching out. Something felt so off about him not mentioning he had a girl until later and it’s probably not his first time doing it with how casually he said it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:20 AM
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I think I’ll do just that :) it’s weird cause I don’t dislike him since he hasn’t really hurt me but I feel guilty about wanting to be friends even though we shouldn’t be? Idk but thanks for the kind words 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:40 AM
13

Thank you girl! I’m so glad to have you guys to pick myself back up with :) x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:30 PM
3

It’s alright I’m moving past it now, and damn straight! This just goes to show that even reaching out once is too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:28 PM
13

Thanks girl. It’s not that I’m mad or anything about him having a girlfriend, I just wish he had told me from the jump instead of acting all excited and bringing stuff up from the past. I thought it seemed off since I was staying pretty neutral/emotionless in my texts and his included a bunch of emojis and exclamations and stuff. I guess that’s why I got in my feelings a bit. And don’t worry I am and am only getting better 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:52 PM
15

I know I messed up 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:46 PM
4

Nothing in the world makes me feel better about myself than being in a skirt and heels! It boosts my confidence by a thousand and I won’t let anyone shame me for “doing too much” or being girly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:23 PM
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I have to say the one good thing about men being blatant crazies and sex addicted misogynists, is that it’s blatant. Seeing their true colors and getting rid of them from the jump is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:37 PM
19

surely he didn’t think that his dust covered dick alone was enough for her to commit to only him, with nothing in return 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:15 PM
10

Baby :( I’m sorry. I hope you’re in a safe and better place now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:22 AM
58

👏👏👏 If women are sooo awful and only are good for sex, why not just fuck your homeboys and get the best of both worlds! Everyone wins that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:20 PM
19

I know. I felt so silly adding it but then again this whole sex positive woke bs is silly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:06 PM
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PREACH. They admit themselves that all they think about is sex and is the only way they can communicate, but get offended when we say they’re mindless porn addicts. Makes no sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:41 PM
52

they really want sex to be charity work i cantttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:06 PM
63

You’re not a realll feminist if you’re not paying a man’s bills while also letting him beat you up in the name of a kink sweety! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:34 PM
107

And then we’re shamed if we don’t want to have on because it’s “liberating!” No it’s only liberating and empowering for the guy when he can have sex with a girl and treat her like she doesn’t exist 5 minutes after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:36 PM
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Thank you! This is everything I believe but couldn’t put into the right words. Never be 100% loyal to one man if you’re not completely sure he’s 100% loyal to you and only you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:05 PM
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If the woman consented it wouldn’t be rape. There’s no such thing as consensual rape. What’s not clicking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:15 PM
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“Looks aren’t everything” after he just finished saying he wasn’t attracted to her enough to have anything to do with her outside of having sex 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:13 PM
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You’ve got to be fucking kidding me I found that sub yesterday..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:11 PM
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Omgg no sis 😭 it’s ok we live and we learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:44 PM
7

Perfect 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:28 PM
60

“Eat hotdogs in someone’s backyard” 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:04 PM
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I wish I could tell them to fuck off ugh, I just leave them on read then it’s “ ohhh did I say something wrong it was a joke :(“. The say something offensive but cover it up as a joke thing is so tiring they don’t even deserve my energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:44 PM
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Woww 👏 I really wish I had this energy, I love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:06 PM
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I have no words and am so sick... the world hates women saying stop abusing and mindlessly hating on us, more than they do the actual abuse and torture. I hate everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:25 PM
13

Based, I’m also jealous that you’re model height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:01 AM
111

Didn’t you know that not bowing down to a man just because he exists is hateful and degenerate? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:27 AM
44

It’s always “blah blah subtle negging blah, how about we discuss this over some wine at my place?” Umm no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:06 AM
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And as a heel lover I needdd it! Sorry but I refuse to deal with anymore average sized men who make snide comments to me when I wear heels and happen to be eye level with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:03 AM
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Thanks girl and omg I love shera! I haven’t heard of the others but I’ll check them out :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:55 AM
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Thanks I’ll check these out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:30 AM
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the fact that i cant even keep up with the amount of violent male subs still up makes me want to cry. so reddit is saying if I create a sub where men are being brutalized and tormented it's welcomed if I call it a kink? im seriously contemplating..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:13 PM
9

This, I always struggled with the hurting/lonely stages, but once i looked back and thought about all the disrespect I let slide it wasnt worth it to keep him around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:00 PM
10

Eww I hate when boys dm me in reply to things like that. I just leave them on read cause I have nothing to say to that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:33 PM
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I couldn’t even read past the first few titles of the subs I don’t even want to imagine what was on there...How do we get more subs banned? Is there more I should be doing other than reporting posts? I just feel so lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:10 PM
3

Yuck lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:27 PM
12

Lmaooo, i also noticed girls saying "guys will say girls are for the streets, but are hating from the sidewalk" lol i love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:11 PM
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Exactly, even the most beautiful female celebrities get cheated on and they can provide their man with everything they need. You cant TEACH someone to be loyal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:04 PM
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Yea these are the kind of women that get cheated on and are like “but I did everything for him I let him have anal sex with me everyday!! Wahhhhh 😭”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:41 PM
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It makes me so happy!! Even though we can’t do anything about male behaviors or actions, we can help teach eachother how to protect ourselves from them, how to avoid the crazy ones, etc 💗 I really think a good turning point in the dating world is coming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:51 PM
3

MSTOW is the only way I’m referring to them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:18 PM
5

Honestly I completely agree with women doing this and know a few who have. I think it’s way different for women and men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:15 PM
32

Omg I had the biggest crush on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:00 AM
5

I’m sorry you’re feeling that way :( Even though it might not be much, just know that you’re not even halfway through life yet and you could meet someone next week! You never know who’s around the corner. Also it may be corny but I like the saying about love comes to you when you’re not looking for it. Try not to stress and see what happens when you let go some :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:49 AM
3

Ewww glad he’s an ex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:42 AM
5

I was actually thinking that too, especially since he didn’t text me until Wednesday. If he was just around his son I doubt he would turn them off, unless the boy is like 20 and snoops around his phone thinking that dad is cheating on mom or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:41 AM
3

“I muted the notifications for this app”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:24 AM
24

Right it gave me very “I’m babysitting today” vibes when they’re spending time with their OWN kids🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:02 AM
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Yep, I don’t date them anyway but if a guy doesn’t mention he has kids until later on and it’s unintentional too, it’s an automatic good riddance. Not claiming your kid is 100000x worse than anything and if you can do that to your own flesh and blood, I know you’re not a good person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:55 AM
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That’s usually what happens, the divorce and marriage is so stressful it she’s the women and then men are like “ha see! Women age bad!! Muh wall!” when in reality they drain the life out of everyone they get involved with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:53 AM
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In the past I used to be that way, but revoking their access to you without explaining to them why is a power move and letting them know they weren’t even worth a reply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:25 AM
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Girl is the 3 minutes of jackhammering really worth it when you pair it with the disrespect, ghosting, and going dutch on a for $20 meal that may come with it? Get it together and get a toy! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:37 PM
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I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:56 PM
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Oh nooo :( I feel like they purposely hide it until later so then they can be like “ugh this is why I don’t tell women up front they’re so shallow and selfish!” if you say it’s a deal breaker and reject them, but they get a new step mom if the woman feels cornered and says that it’s cool out of fear of coming across as mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:39 PM
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For me personally, it happened in the middle of my process of bettering myself. I was so into mapping out my goals, making them a reality, creating the life that I wanted with family and friends, and being so happy with all of these things that I didn’t even have time to worry about finding someone. Would a boyfriend be nice? Sure! But once you spend time with yourself and know how precious your own life is, you start to realize that it’s enough whether you have a man or not. You can still hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:29 PM
83

LOL “yea we’ve been dating for years she just goes to school in a different town. Oh what town? it’s small you wouldn’t know it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:19 PM
50

This was my exact same thought, because funny enough he had a picture of himself holding up his name and age which I know some people do for like rating threads on here 👀👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:06 PM
185

I literally woke up one day and was like “wait, I’m hot funny and smart whether I have a boyfriend or not” and I’ve honestly never been happier. My relationships with friends have strengthened, I’m able to provide for myself and pamper myself constantly, and the world is my oyster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:25 PM
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Amen. Men will really come onto this sub and see us telling eachother “be happy first! Being in a relationship doesn’t determine your worth! You’re still a great person” then call us bitches and whores who are crazy. A man’s entire worth depends on US, and they hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:23 PM
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This is why I always get what I want out of men before they get what they want 🤷‍♀️ If their goal is to use me, they’re gonna have to go through paying for my ubers, dates, etc to do it. If you’re not playing the game as a woman, you’re already losing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:41 PM
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They were sent their own way because no one wants them, and now theyre trying to slither into all of our spaces and random women's lives because theyre so bitter. If you really hate women that much then why dont you just fuck your guys friends who also do? Happy ending for everyone involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:56 PM
1

OMGG REALLY? SHES SO FUNNY LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:54 PM
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I forget they even exist until I see them crawling their way into our subs or mentioning us. If you’ve gone you’re own way erase women from your mind in all capacities please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:42 AM
135

Omg yesss and mgtow have to let you know they’ve gone their own way every 5 minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:40 PM
14

LOL then comes the stomping and huffing 😂 I see them all the time and laugh in my head that they can’t read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:16 PM
103

Yep! Single until “do you want to be my girlfriend?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:12 PM
21

Do they know that fake profiles are spotted 99.9% of the time? 😂 Plus I can’t remember a time on a dating app where my match box wasn’t constantly (99+), I don’t even remember who I swipe on a few minutes after so we’re not missing out on anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:18 PM
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The way my stomach dropped when reading this... This is why I will NEVER say “hey atleast it’s legal” when grown men date or try to defend their right to be attracted to 18/19 year old. I don’t care that they’re technically adults, they do it because it’s the lowest age they can be with possibly and then they slowly but surely start going lower and lower. They hide their pedophilia behind a teenage preference, when we all know who they really want. I hope everything goes well for her and the dau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:41 PM
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Don’t ever say that this is your karma or think that :( You never did anything wrong, no matter how badly he or others tried to drill it into your head. I’m so sorry you had to go through that and hope he is subjected to something a thousand times worse than what he did to you. It’s not and wasn’t your fault that there are evil people in this world who take advantage of those who are unsuspecting. He’ll get what’s coming to him whether it’s tomorrow or in 10 years when he’s alone on his death ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:34 PM
3

Oh my god I'm so sorry that happened to you. Sending you lots of love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:26 PM
7

I'v learned that sometimes we have to worry about those kind of men too. What they're really saying is "those guys are the real pedos! I only jerk off to girls in highschool not elementary school there's a difference!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:25 PM
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Holy shit I've heard about men lying about their age but didn't think it was so common. They can't do and see things like this and still believe to refuse that their actions are deep rooted into pedophilia. If they think there's nothing wrong with wanting to prey on young girls, why make themelves a decade older to do it? Im so happy that you're out of that situation and found this sub :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:24 PM
5

Truth hurts lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:22 PM
1

it's okcupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:57 PM
17

It’s like they completely deny the idea that little girls are attractive to little boys and vice versa, and that they want eachother too, plus they have this weird possession over them. Like no, Billy in 8th grade is not taking your “women”, and Sara thinks his attention at lunch is cute. Neither of them are worried about the mouth breathing 39 year old on the Internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:37 PM
2

Yep pacifiers, diapers, and cribs too in the name of DDLG. They need to be castrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:33 PM
2

Not that it’s your job to or anything but is there anyway you can alert somebody, the school, anything before he does :( Chances are he probably already has or atleast has CP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:32 PM
13

The “stronger” sex lose all of their critical thinking skills over a pair of leggings so it’s funny that they still call themselves that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:31 PM
24

Just call them a diet pedophile and watch the waterworks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:04 AM
24

if a man can say "well actually since they're ages 14-16 it's called" theyre a pedophile, would make that specific distinction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:51 AM
22

#yeseveryman,thatonetoothatyouthinkisararegem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:47 AM
22

Careful they only understand biology when it pertains to them wanting to have child brides, not actual science facts about the dangers for the children and all of the mental,physical, and emotional damage it causes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:47 AM
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I just wanna say quick shout out to all the men messaging and requesting to chat me saying that I’m dumb and spreading false propaganda, now I know who to report to cybertips 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:27 AM
19

Good! Keep seething boyos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:20 AM
13

The fantasy defense is so sickening to me, because if you dream about raping and torturing kids, or adults dressed up as kids you’re sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:20 AM
13

I’ve heard about that. I feel like it should be a law everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:09 AM
16

That makes it a tiny bit better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:08 AM
42

Ew I’m sorry :( he’s a freak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:07 AM
36

God I feel like those are literally the worst of the worst. Men who strictly care about the youngest age they can go give me shivers. It’s not that they’re attracted to these girls fertility, literally hearing the age turns them on 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:06 AM
9

Oh my god I’m so sorry :( but it’s glad you found out about him before things were too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:40 PM
68

Yep as soon as they go “well actually she’s 16 so that’s ok in (random tiny town in UK)” they expose themselves. Imagine researching areas in which you can prey on the youngest girl possible legally, and thinking that you’re not a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:11 PM
55

Exactly, I say we all stop having sex when they guy is about to cum, as his orgasm isn’t necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:02 PM
42

I think they were always like this, and then porn happened and they were like aha! This must be just like real life! At this point it’s just vet all of them until you figure out they’re sane, which is so sad we have to do this for the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:54 PM
61

But they feellll 18 so it’s totally okay 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:53 PM
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The worst part is the men actually THINK that 16 yr olds want to be with them. Never mind the legal age of consent, what would they legitimately want with you? They say it’s “natural” for them to be attracted to minors, but haven’t figured out that consent means the person agrees to be sexualized by a rabid pedo and I don’t think they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:57 PM
275

It’s even worse when you realize that in places where the “aGE oF CoNSenT” is 16, they start pushing it and go after 14/15 year olds because “hey it’s close enough what’s the difference, it’s just a year!” and whatever depraved excuses they come up with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:59 PM
120

Men sexualize anything with a heart beat, so then everything connected to it turns into a “kink” too their brains are rotted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:57 PM
40

That's disgusting, it's always the teachers and men around kids yuck. You're not naive I honestly have the same question, it's weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:26 PM
300

If God didn't give you a chance by making you 5'6 and balding at 24, what makes you think I will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:24 PM
101

Honestly the teen category is more of the tame ones, which is saying something. The "painful anal", "gangrape" and ____ slave ones arent even the tip of the iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:23 PM
172

My thing is if you even know what the "right term" for being attracted to kids depending on their age is, you're a pedophile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:12 PM
57

don’t ya know they’re allowed to be pedophiles cause God forgives them, it cancels out! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:08 PM
98

Especially when literally hundreds of people have come out within the past few months saying that their rape or literal CP was posted and left up for months even when the victims asked them to take it down. The most we can do is sign the trafficking hub petition and try to get it taken down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:07 PM
7

It’s definitely a negative effect especially on underaged girls who see stuff about sexual liberation and want to partake as well, but for me it comes secondary to men needing to know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:25 PM
36

This might be a dumb question but how are they getting subs banned, and how do we do the same to theirs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:23 AM
39

They’re obsessed with us and hate us at the same time, it’s comedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:40 AM
3

If you’re a guy and think other guys who say a girl is pretty is a simp, and you call girls whores for existing, something tells me you’re not looking for a girlfriend bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:40 AM
3

Honestly starting to think that most of them are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:25 AM
7

It’s some kind of brand they’re women’s bc of the way they fit they’re kinda like shorts but not really? It’s hard to describe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:33 AM
5

Ohhh my bad 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:32 AM
10

Oh ya I highkey hate the boxers trend but yes to everything she said lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:18 AM
30

I can honestly say out of the women I’ve seen/heard in non-monogamous relationships, not one was happy. The ability to claim “atleast I have a man!” even if he’s the bottom of the barrel is so pleasing to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:24 PM
26

Lolll 😂 I didn’t even notice but it should be a given at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:57 PM
1

Oh no I totally agree too. Just a few days ago a 27 yr old man made a video pretending to j*rk off to charli damelio who everyone knows just turned 16. It blew up and now people are trying to get him off the site, but the fact that that’s just one guy out of the millions on tiktok who do stuff like that that we don’t see or make nasty comments is just sad. It’s just a glimmer of hope and a baby step in the right direction that atleast they’re becoming more aware of predator traits and can try to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:55 PM
155

And that they’re “hoping to settle down soon” lol sir you’ve passed that window by about 10 years. No one wants your cobweb sperm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:33 PM
69

It’s just mind blowing that they will try to be playboys until they’re 80, while also complaining that they can’t find a good woman cause they’re too shallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:26 PM
10

Only men have the ability to turn being out of shape into a trend and something to brag about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:12 PM
5

Omg and they loveee nature, but the only time they go outside is go to smoke weed in the woods with their friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:39 PM
5

Omg this when I say that I don’t but my brother watches it they start hounding me like why not it’s so good??! Um I don’t want to watch sexually charged 11 yr olds, can we move on please lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:36 PM
3

They call a man a simp for even saying that a girl is pretty, their hive mind and need to impress eachother is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:41 PM
6

Ive figured they only ask that so they can pretend to like whatever you like in order to get some in the quickest way possible, so I say the same things right back. It’s sad that we can predict their entire “personalities”, convos and plans before they even happen, and yet women are “all the same” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:40 PM
1

My rule of thumb too but the incel thing is the cherry on top lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:37 PM
17

“Please don’t be boring 😩” and yet all of their convos are “wyd” “I’m playing games with the bro’s” “can I see a pic”. Pornsick boring monkeys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:36 PM
6

This but apparently they don’t count since I’m not huddled over a keyboard covered in cheese dust and screaming the n word over the mic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:35 PM
7

Literally every single one of them is like “do you watch anime?? 🙈🙈🙏🏻” when trying to break the ice, or ask if you know about some stupid game that just came out. It’s like the copy and pasted the same personality from eachother, you can’t even tell the difference between them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:34 PM
3

I say this all the time. If both they are they friends hate women and can’t get sex and girlfriends why not just fuck and date eachother 🤷‍♀️ Problem instantly solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:32 PM
2

This! It’s a circle jerk of male approval for them it’s hilariously sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:31 PM
33

They really think alcoholism and eating pizza is a personality trait 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:32 AM
31

aka smoking in the park
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:23 AM
16

Their tiny brains can’t process women can do everything they do, but better in most if not all categories lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:49 AM
14

Yep anything a girl is interested in that the guy isn’t interested in as well, it automatically doesn’t count and is boring. They only know how to communicate when it’s about their dick or anime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:17 AM
62

That’s why they have the “dad bod” aka beer gut and almost obesity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:47 AM
37

I swipe left immediately if they say the corona thing I don’t even look at their pictures 😭No originality , and don’t forget that dumb Office quote about missing the shots you don’t take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:43 AM
46

“How come my friends who DONT demean and harass women every second of the day have girlfriends? They must be Chad 😡”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:52 PM
26

It’s the same with guys who call girls “thots” and scream at the tops of their lungs about how “depraved” it is that they have onlyfans and stuff, only to turn around and buy it. They’re jealous that they can’t capitalize off of the world’s view of them like girls can. No mentally stable man is crying online about what girls do with their own bodies, especially when they don’t even know that they exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:37 PM
53

The hate literally radiates off of their faces, their mannerisms, the micro aggressions that use, etc. Women aren’t avoiding you cause you’re short, they’re avoiding you because they can tell you’re one of Those guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:35 PM
52

And then they’ll turn around and complain why no girl wants to be within a 100 mile radius of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:10 PM
26

Atleast he’s spreading the good word so maybe we’ll have some more soon 🙏 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:09 PM
36

We as a society have progressed past the need for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:08 PM
6

Omg same when i saw it on my for you page I couldn’t click fast enough lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:19 PM
2

That’s disgusting I’m so sorry. I’m glad you got rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:16 PM
11

This was my entire youth and I’m still living it now. I’m older than my brother and yet my dad will still make sly comments when I’m wearing something he thinks is inappropriate and text me furiously if I’m out with my girl friends for longer than like 5 hours. However my brother for as long as I can remember will literally get up and leave the house without telling anyone and come back home at 2-3am. My parents will literally not know where he is for a day or two and not even care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:15 PM
6

Men really just use their younger “trauma” as an excuse to be pedos and are selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:11 PM
7

Aw well atleast you guys are having the conversations, that’s a major part of it and I know you’re trying your best :) It sounds like you have nothing to worry about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:09 PM
59

Because then they’ll just blame it on the evil little girl for tempting their perfect angel son who has too much going for him to have his life ruined!!1! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:10 AM
2

Aww well it doesn’t count you’re not an incel! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:11 AM
85

The thing is they’re scared because they KNOW just how cruel and evil boys can be, but then when you say yea I agree men are violent and trash they start to back track and call you a crazy for saying it. They’re so hypocritical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:17 AM
6

Yayyy ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:42 AM
20

“Woman tree” ok I’m totally calling it that from now on lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:53 AM
64

It’s kinda like you’re trouble/you’re bad for them/you can get them in trouble, etc basically you’re a temptation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:46 AM
28

That’s true. A woman being slim shouldn’t be shamed to feel less like one, but I think it’s just a problem when men will actively pursue or only think women who are super tiny and super short are attractive cause then it gets weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:03 AM
17

So since tiktok’s algorithm is really weird and all over the place, it really all depends on what kind of videos you like and then more of them will start popping up! I would suggest following and liking the ones you see on here that you like and then more will start popping up on your foryou page if that helps :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:59 AM
23

Lol it’s not dumb you’re fine! So it’s kinda hard bc even though you can follow people your timeline is pretty much a bunch of random videos about anything really, until you start liking a lot of the same kind of videos and then the algorithm starts showing them more which is why I come across them. I would say start by liking her video and kinda like go through her other ones and like good ones that you find, and then similar ones will start showing up more. If that makes sense! Sorry it’s real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:31 AM
43

Ugh this gave me flashbacks to when my boss last year would greet me every morning like this and I was too dumb to know what it meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:21 AM
18

Will do! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:41 AM
14

Oh yea I still see things like that and it makes me sad, but it’s just a glimmer of hope or seeing that things are starting to change in the right direction when I see vids like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:46 PM
78

Omg the fact that he was silent shows that’s exactly what he meant 🤮 We’re not dumb and see right through them. It’s normalized so much that one time when my ex wanted to have sex and I embarrassingly told him that I wasn’t shaved down there, I was so so shocked when he told him that he actually prefers hair down there but didn’t wanna say anything incase it upset me. It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:27 PM
53

I’m sooo ready it’s been a long time coming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:20 PM
11

This! I used to avoid it like the plague bc of all the gross “jokes” that I saw but finally young people are starting to wake up and see it isn’t ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:18 PM
8

Meee i’ve watched this like 9 times and still can’t stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:08 PM
44

Haha ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:44 PM
108

I found so many more good ones! I just don’t wanna spam the thread and be annoying haha 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:19 PM
175

Right! It’s so refreshing it makes me smile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:12 PM
4

He literally waited until she gave in to decide it “wouldn’t work”. Men literally are only capable of thinking with their penises like the monkeys they are, which is why you should NEVER change your standards for them or let them pressure you into things. They’ll shame you for doing something, and then shame you again when you won’t do it with them. And the fact that there are comments saying they felt bad because they originally sided with the husband, I hope something equally as terrible happe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:39 PM
5

Funny how he didn’t care about her promiscuity while doing the same exact acts he was sad about her doing 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:36 PM
37

The comment that called it an unpaid internship 😂😂. These are the kind of women who know their man is cheating and brush it off by saying “he knows where home is”, while his family and friends are laughing at her behind her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:12 PM
6

Men put themselves first more. It's much better to be picky in the beginning because if you're not and unfortunately your man turns out to be garbage, YOU will get the blame for not picking better. And yes it's much better to be single and happy, then unhappy in a relationship with someone you settled for and still doesn't treat you right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:07 PM
41

Ladies if you man treats you badly just cheat on him with his best friend, if he finds out and is upset he should work on his insecurities :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:01 PM
8

Then they turn around and call women shallow while they’re online calling their wife lazy after having 6 kids, and that she drove him into the arms of a 23 year old. Men are the most selfish and shallow beings on earth. They can’t handle being alone or having one women instead of a harem of them. Ladies being picky will increase your life by 1000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:56 PM
3

Yep it all comes down to them not having the pick of the women they want to choose from. Once they realize that their dream girl won’t settle for them not having a job and surviving on Cheeto dust and Mountain Dew they rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:54 PM
5

That last paragraph lol right! They all cope and say” well when I’m 45 I’m gonna marry a hot 21 yr old and you whores are gonna be mad!” Sir if no one wants you at 25 now, and girls are already starting to become more of aware of men’s manipulative tactics now, what do you think is waiting for you in twenty years 😂 May as well start saving up for the sex doll now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:29 PM
3

Sure! I think it all depends on what ages the couple are and how “large” of an age gap you consider to be big. For example hypergamy is great for women of all ages, but an 18 yr old girl having a hypergamous relationship with a 31 year old man is a no go. I think 28 is a good age because while you’re still in your 20’s, it’s not like you’re completely new to life and all of its experiences, so you can point out red flags and manipulation easier than way younger girls can. But i totally think it’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:27 PM
5

I’m saying!! What has procreating with broke men who hardly know how to shower done for everyone? Are we just going to ignore the tens of posts everyday from women talking about how badly their husbands treat them, how they take their money, don’t help with kids, etc? Keep them out of the breeding pool and everything will be solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:22 PM
42

The kicker is that men go after young women on purpose and then try to manipulate the girl into saying it’s because they’re so mature for their age, and then when they find out she’s actually smart and has opinions of her own she’s “too young/inexperienced/doesn’t know what she’s talking about”. So we’re old enough to be sexualized but not old enough to have thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:57 PM
14

I completely agree. If women started having more and more children with just anyone, not caring about their resources, if they would be in the child’s life, how healthy the husband is, etc, the world would go to crap and then we would be blamed for not picking better mates. No whiny man or pick me is gonna shame me out of wanting a great life for my children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:27 PM
3

Aw thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:23 PM
1

But that is the comparison. Being fan of pop music doesn’t have such a negative affect on a woman’s beliefs and actions, like porn does for men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:00 AM
9

oops LOL I didn’t even notice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:58 AM
2

But being a kpop stan and liking cute boys who can sing doesn’t have a direct tie to sex trafficking, the abuse of women, causing it’s hardcore fan/watchers to try to act out the violent things that they see, etc like porn does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:23 AM
42

I guarantee you if all the men complaining were 6ft tall making 6 figures and had a healthy social and love life, you wouldn’t hear a peep out of them crying about women choosing up. It kills them that they’re men and aren’t getting the life that society always taught them they would have and deserve, like saying “ugh I actually have to treat women like people and provide for the one that I want to have a life with?? I was tricked!! 😡”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:17 AM
67

They want all the parts of their original plan, just without doing anything on their end. They want the house wife that is scared of them, cooks, cleans, and is expected to put out like a prom star, without holding up their end of the bargain of being a provider. Now they’re getting nothing at all and that’s what they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:12 AM
43

This times a thousand. If they were on the same level as the guys being chosen they would have absolutely no problem with it at all! But since they’re having to reflect on how lazy they are and that we don’t want them unless they change and step up to the plate, they’re throwing temper tantrums. The thing is we’re not budging anytime soon and they can go be with the pickme’s if they want, but they’re not even satisfied with them. They want their pick of all the women that they don’t have access …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:01 AM
97

And when he turns 30 he’ll start looking at underage girls again for his fresh new victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:57 PM
1

Omg I love tiktok so I’m gonna go do that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:50 PM
10

He admitted to not wanting to see his wife birthing his child and she’s asking for help on what to do....sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:39 PM
2

Aww that’s so great :) 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:16 PM
9

There’s actually a lot of sting ops and predator catching going on now, I know of several channels on YouTube so hopefully 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:43 AM
10

The line about sending pics ugh I wish this was around for teenage me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:28 AM
84

I’d swallow the ocean before I do half of those things on the list lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:09 AM
5

Go you!! 💗 I know it may be tough now, but in a few months you’re gonna look back and be so glad that you didn’t waste another day or even hour with him. You deserve so much better and you’re gonna get it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:38 PM
9

If they did have sex they would just use the girl as a flashlight for 2 minutes then role over and fall asleep, poor girls don’t deserve that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:31 PM
76

Men are mindless monkeys who don’t have control of their bodies/NaTuREEE and yet we still let them be in charge of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:28 PM
17

Sigh they just don’t get dark humor, snowflakes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:12 PM
47

Lol they have so many things wrong with them I forgot to add lack of hygiene to the list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:26 PM
121

I really couldn’t care less about the “sexless-ness issue” for guys that men always complain about. They don’t realize that a large majority of them don’t deserve to have sex in the first place. You expect me to cry over anime fapping misogynists not getting their dick wet? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:59 PM
2

And then complains that women are boring bc they don’t want to be waterboarded in bed or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:39 PM
26

I hate it bc whenever men say that I know they mean anal orgies and whatever other kinks they think that women would enjoy with them 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:58 AM
6

Honestly I fully believe this because they’re so brave and unhinged! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:57 AM
48

It’s his fault for being in that environment, his parents should’ve raised him better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:10 AM
9

Good! One less whiny broke bitch that I have the chance of running into on tinder. I hope all of them leave the dating scene and spare us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:43 AM
49

If your first response to someone calling you a pedophile is “well ACTUALLY it’s called” you’re a pedophile. Point blank period. See if your argument will hold up in court, and then in prison when big John gets his hands on you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:41 PM
19

Let them be angry. They’re mad that the world sees beyond their bullshit and refuses to respect their “feelings”. You’re a pedo if she’s 8, you’re a pedo if she’s 16
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:39 PM
9

They’ve really convinced themselves that women aren’t visual too and like crusty men. Delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:21 PM
27

Yep and that skincare routines in general don’t work and are “snakeoil” whatever that means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:23 AM
2

👏👏 I couldn’t have described it better even if I tried lol you hit the nail on the head with both of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:30 AM
32

Omg this I mentioned men needing sunblock and stuff on the purple pill debate one time and heaps of men were calling it gay and useless. Then they’re gonna wonder why no one wants to look at their sun spotted and wrinkled face in 10 years. We’re just trying to help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:29 AM
29

They definitely are which is why the “chicks” are treating him like a fossil 😂 you’re not fooling anyone with your dirty polo tee old man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:26 AM
25

He’s definitely one of those “how do you do fellow kids” old people who try to who try to fit in with the trends by wearing stuff that was cool during their time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:24 AM
97

I hope he continues to suffer over his uselessness and she leaves him high and dry. Also it literally means nothing that he fits in his old clothes, what does that hairline and face look like 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:44 AM
30

i almost stood up and clapped when she said that! if they get mad when we talk about lvm, broke boys, etc, then obviously a nerve was struck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:23 AM
8

someone posted some kind of downloaded link in the replies so maybe try that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:43 PM
19

Usually in that order too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:39 PM
91

Men who constantly rave about how younger girls aren’t on “feminist bullshit” and are submissive lil princesses are in for a rudeee awakening when they realize they’re becoming more aware of their tricks☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:53 PM
101

EX!ACT!LY! Even if you post screenshots of what they wrote to you they think it’s “defamation of character” or “attacking” them. They’re bold enough to behave however they want to but then their brain gets all scrambled when they’re confronted about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:44 PM
149

How are you gonna be ugly and a misogynist at the same time? Pick a struggle 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:16 PM
114

She hit every base too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:55 PM
284

This is what all the “I nEeD My LegACY to CaRRy oN” guys look like 🤮what legacy, ugly?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:01 PM
21

I’m so sorry, sending you lots of love. I’m glad we’re all going to break the chain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:48 PM
16

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:45 PM
9

Right I have no idea how people hold themselves back during things like this bc I wouldn’t but I guess there’s a reason why no ones ever tried me like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:45 PM
4

Last week a guy messaged me on Instagram saying “hey I saw you on tinder, you’re probably not on there a lot so I wanted to say hi!” and then proceeded to like 6 of my pics in a row. They literally refuse to believe a girl isn’t into them and it must be some kind of mistake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 08:10 PM
66

I’m glad she emphasized she’s a minor too. Publicly shame these pedophiles and their enabling gf’s, and denormalize catcalling. The one good thing is that it has over a million views on tiktok so I hope it keeps circulating and people who know or come across these freaks don’t give them anywhere to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:09 PM
82

His face literally looks melted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:01 PM
113

You can tell its the exact same script she uses everytime he gets caught being a dick. “Oh baby she’s lying I would never do that! Protect me bangmaid mommy!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:27 PM
98

And the way the man laughed and said “she’ll hit you” in the beginning. You can tell he uses her as a scapegoat and guard dog. These type of women are just as repulsive as their men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:24 PM
59

Yep they think that the daughter “wants my man”, I’ve seen that exact scenario play out way too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:22 PM
180

That was literally my first thought when I saw this. Also the type where the man is a pedo and the girl knows but she blames it on girls these days being “fast” and “tempting”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:21 PM
83

She was literally crying at the end ugh, something tells me that it’s a regular thing for the couple to be acting like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:42 PM
149

I can tell they smell like sewage 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:37 PM
22

I stand by this 100% Why have something old and raggedy where there’s new pencils being made everyday ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:38 AM
114

If he was that happy to hit it raw then he should be just as happy to open to his wallet 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:15 PM
86

The pencil also becomes dull and a hassle to have over time, just like them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:45 PM
26

The only good thing I can say about this is that at least he’s upfront about it and won’t trick and manipulate any poor girl into it once they’re dating. Good god they’re monsters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:36 PM
3

I’ve been obsessed with Princess Polly lately! They have the cutest dresses and skirts and they’re super good quality too. It might seem a little “Instagram girl” esque but they’re super flattering, especially with all the lace and ditsy patterns they have out for summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:33 PM
5

I hate when either group tries to separate themselves when they get lumped together, like noo you guys are twins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:54 PM
3

I’m 100% behind this! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:53 PM
14

“Having money is not a personality” 👏 This is just like when guys say girls are boring/have no hobbies, but their only hobbies are playing videos and wanting a cUtE WaIFuUU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:04 AM
10

This! Of course we’re gonna choose the cute tall boys over the ones who make you physically gag if they both have an equal chance of being shitty. It’s the lesser of two evils.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:02 AM
4

Eww was this in person? What a freak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:00 AM
2

Imagine admitting this at his big age...smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:50 AM
23

“I’m worth it” whoever told men that they are the prize lied several times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:48 AM
9

To go to their basement to complain about the girls who rejected them in high school on reddit of course lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:21 PM
9

they always forget about the shutting up part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:14 PM
14

Trying to convince everyone that they CHOSE to be bitter and lonely for the rest of their lives while also complaining about women being shallow, sureeee lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:38 PM
13

If they really went their own way they wouldn’t have to announce it 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:37 PM
28

And going online everyday to make multiple accounts to leave bad reviews on the companies website, yelp page, and facebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:12 PM
34

This! If you went your own way why are you coming back to tell us everyday that you left lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:10 PM
15

Literallyyy lol it’s like of course you have to go your own way you have no other choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:01 PM
32

Like sir how can you brag about wanting to pump and dump girls when they actually have to be attracted to you and ALLOW you to pump them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:25 PM
65

yep you can't get rejected if you pretend to have no interest in women, that'll show them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:04 PM
35

it's because all the women are sooo intimidated by their masculinity!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:02 PM
36

MSTOW 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:49 PM
2

“He has more than one pillow?! 😍😍”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:32 PM
20

Funny how they never gave the actual reasons a young girl would be attracted to old farts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:43 PM
11

Sounds like he’s baiting you to prove your worth to him 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:50 PM
54

Girl first rule is neverrrrrr give ugly guys a chance because they’re the exact same as cute guys, just not nice to look at lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:50 PM
3

Omg I can relate to the stressed thing ugh and the I get mad that they’e able to make me feel that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:05 AM
13

Same here girl, same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:35 AM
44

A month ago this guy, literally EVERYDAY for two weeks, would randomly say “I want to see you” in the middle of conversations and I would always respond with “Aw haha” then go back to the conversation. The last day when he said that I said “I don’t know what you mean when you say that” and he was like “oh wow I’ve never heard that before lol” and yet he still didn’t say what he wanted or asked me on a date. I haven’t talked to him since 🤷‍♀️I guess he was used to girls planning things and asking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:11 AM
13

This isn’t even the best of his content lol he’s my favorite “tiktoker”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:26 PM
79

This and when men say “I want to see you” without offering up any suggestions as to what to do make me scream. If you want to see me, then plan a date. If you’re free...why should that matter to me? Speak up if you want to go out with me don’t beat around the bush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:26 PM
100

NOOO-UH 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:02 PM
72

Lolll please do!! Even gay guys know the drill lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:43 PM
30

Yea I wish I could’ve bleeped it but I related so hard when he said if he could be attracted to girls he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:07 PM
42

There’s a -cel for everything apparently 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:35 AM
33

No clue and the comments are reeeeeeeeing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:43 AM
85

Funny how the Russian men and women are in agreement but all bitter boys in the comments are crying about it lol. Face it no one wants a broke man no matter what side of the earth you’re on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:45 PM
5

💗 We need to make pedos scared again and show them that they have NO place in this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:33 PM
8

I know how you feel I’ve been physically sick since reading it and have just been laying down. I hate them. For your health please don’t look around a lot :( report them at report.cybertip.org if you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:28 PM
17

This is why I will never respect “kinks”. These men are now literally pimping out their daughter’s online because of it. Enough is enough and I’m not stopping until these kind of sites are down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:27 PM
8

That’s great! I don’t really know how these things work but I hope it means it will stay down or they’ll atleast investigate the people posting on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:14 PM
7

I couldn’t it it was too awful :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:04 PM
6

The site?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:56 PM
29

I reported the site on report.cybertip.org since there were literally pictures of what looked like elementary school girls with graphic sexual comments. Also those guys who are having men send nudes to their daughter’s who look underage too is literally illegal and endangering their safety by putting their face and number out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:10 PM
45

I wouldn’t suggest going on the site because I scrolled for about a minute and wanted to cry. Just look at the comments on ppf and men posting about their daughter’s/mom’s etc. Most of the girls they’re posting dont even look older than 16 and theyre writing sexually explicit messages about them. All men are pedophiles or at the very least sexual deviants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:51 PM
12

You just summed up 99% of the old guys on dating apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:21 PM
12

Outside your door? He doesn’t even want to come in to see you? Yuck kick him to the curb and wipe your hands clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:41 PM
1

And they look like twins!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:08 PM
2

Omg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:17 PM
5

Probably to trick them with the “friends spend money and time on eachother! also fuck me or you’re a bitch but we’re still friends” routine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:17 AM
29

“You have actual standards?! Oh no this isn’t gonna work sorry”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:16 AM
6

Wanna make a bet about how frequently the sheets are changed 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:15 AM
2

LOL true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:09 AM
2

The cracked out version who didn’t get past a middle school education
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:14 AM
9

!!!! All men, no matter what they say, secretly want to be taken care of and spoiled like girls are when they’re in hypergamous relationships. It kills them to see that a group of people they hate so much are being treated better than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:37 AM
4

And don’t forget their wallets too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:25 AM
15

Lmaooo my thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:03 PM
45

All the rich b*tches I guess 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:37 PM
28

All while only referring to them as a “friend” and not wanting labels 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:36 PM
1

Unfortunately once they’re stuck in their ways at a grown age there’s no changing :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:34 PM
13

Omg please tell me this is a joke this can not be real 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:33 PM
43

And want a mommy “ride or die” who lets them drive their car and funds their weed addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:30 PM
179

“Going to keep judging me” when you said one thing. Well atleast he showed his true colors before wasting your time and/or makeup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:16 PM
26

Sounds like he’s jealous she actually has people that spoil and take care of her, hope she dumps his old ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:01 PM
25

Yep I’m tired of everyone telling them too “just communicate!” Do you think a man would communicate with his girlfriend after she doesnt brush her teeth for months or leave pee on the floor and refuse to clean it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:54 PM
16

Ooh that’s a really nice strategy I need to use that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:52 PM
11

Jesus I couldn’t even read past the first few stories :( The little bit of hope I have for the world is that when this generation or girls become mother’s we know all the signs and can do our best to warn and protect our daughters early on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:29 AM
18

It literally broke my heart he deserves what is coming to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:37 AM
264

Just read the full post on twitter and EVERY single reason as to why he’s upset that she may leave is because she kisses him and comforts him and makes him tea, nothing about what she’s like as an actual person. I hope she leaves and he’s crushed for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:59 AM
4

I don't let misogyny get to me by knowing that I'm better than these men. They're sexist and rude because the only thing going for them is their dick, and they know that without it they're nothing. Look at you! You're successful smart and beautiful, and they only have sexual conquests from years ago to brag about. In ten years where will they be? Nowhere close to where you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:37 AM
3

yep play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:27 AM
25

They’re animals and people like to pretend it’s “some men” no these accounts have tens of thousands of followers. ALL of them are predators and pedophiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:21 PM
49

Just reported and blocked. While looking for them I found an account called teen_dress_18 and they’re literally posting pics of girls with 16th bday balloons in the background. Please please report them it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:32 PM
23

Yep he’ll want someone fresh who hasn’t worked themselves to the bone or tired themselves out over trying to lift him up. It’s like when guys say they hate gold diggers/high maintenance girls, but if they happen to get rich or come into a lot of money those are the first type of girls they go after
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:19 PM
6

I completely agree (minus the dating guys over 30 part) and if the guy you build up doesn’t become successful he’ll blame it all on you and think you’re holding him back, he could do better, etc. He’ll cheat either way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:05 PM
14

Omg I’m so sorry, they have no intelligence or respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:38 AM
30

Nothing because they’ll look down on us no matter what :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:37 AM
10

Definitely using this next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:53 AM
58

It’s like going up to an accountant and saying “that’s cute I thought you could count already”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:16 PM
215

Disgusting. I stopped telling guys that I majored in communications bc every. single. one. would say “oh so you learned how to talk? 😏” everything is just a big brains contest to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:05 PM
12

It’s because they’ve been coddled all their lives to think that their dumb opinions and thoughts actually matter, then can’t function when they’re confronted with the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:16 PM
9

I approve of this message 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:14 PM
27

“No one can joke anymore?” Meanwhile their jokes are about rape murder and sexism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:41 PM
7

Ugh I need to use this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:39 PM
37

That sounds so toxic and frustrating I’m sorry and hope you’re away from that person :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:41 AM
50

Mine too :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:40 AM
2

Right! Seeing how people feel about my people and their struggles is so eye opening when I never knew they were like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:27 AM
3

Exactly, it’s very telling what they choose to get angry over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:27 AM
3

Especially when it’s the same line every single one of them use 😒 at least get creative with your manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:26 AM
2

Exactly. All men are the same and they tell on themselves everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:25 AM
27

It kills me when they sprinkle in the little “take care” after gaslighting and being manipulative. They think if they show you the bare minimum of niceness you’ll come crawling back. If you really wanted me to be doing well you wouldn’t reach out with your narcissistic bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:30 PM
2

I get what you mean, and I understand when people feel that way. I’m in a position myself where I don’t have the funds to donate or go to protests, but I found even just sharing safety information to help the people that actually do go to the riots can still help :) Being an ally doesn’t mean you have to support in every single way possible, but just acknowledging the pain that people go through is still a fret thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:26 PM
3

Shaped like that and has THOSE standards..insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:49 PM
4

Same here, I’m losing my sense of attraction to men more and more by the day 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:04 PM
11

Oh yea dw it reeks of insecure predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:17 AM
5

Lmao 😂 must’ve gotten loose from his sponge bath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:12 AM
6

As always 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:59 AM
2

You took the words right out of my mouth. I felt no remorse for cutting them off with no explanation. There’s no loss for those who don’t even see humanity in others in their worst moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:35 AM
9

Yes I had to read it multiple times to make sure I wasn’t seeing things 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:08 AM
13

Girl yes! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:07 AM
1

They’re all coming out now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:47 AM
47

Loll I could hear that sound in my head 😂 And omg I literally gagged while reading those parts. Their pornsickness has made them think women want to be groped and manhandled all day long, idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:47 AM
29

It’s definitely a copy and paste which I’m guessing has worked on absolutely no one so far, shocker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:50 PM
12

Yep it is 🤢 I’m starting to agree bc at least tinder doesn’t let weirdos harass you even when you don’t like them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:49 PM
26

I have a feeling he does, that’s how they all end up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:25 PM
2

The fact that she had the nerve to say those things to you...I’m glad the trash took itself out, you deserve friends better than the ones who down play your feelings and see them as an inconvenience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:06 PM
98

An entire list of requirements while he’s fat, bald and post wall.... you literally can not make this stuff up and red pillers think we’re being dramatic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:04 PM
78

OMGGG guys it gets worse I just saw his bio and this is copied word for word: “Going to be absolutely honest here for the sake of us not wasting time. I’d prefer a woman with some shape to her body and I’m a sucker for big hips and thighs 😆.. She should be a positive woman who loves to smile and is clingy... yes I love a woman who loves to be all up on me just touching one another while we binge on some show. She should be nurturing and I have a special place in my heart for a goofy woman. She w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:50 PM
35

The old “you’re not mature but I’m just gonna say I think you are in hopes you’ll ignore I’m old and cum dust balls”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:44 PM
40

It’s so disgusting when you think about it like that and yet men think these kind of age gaps are fine just because the girl is legal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:36 PM
99

Don’t worry I’m not interested and he’s way out of my age range, OKC just allows anyone to message you 🤢. Right! It’s the same “you’re so mature for your age” line that pedo’s use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:34 PM
3

That’s literally insanity with everything going on WHAT makes him think that that’s ok, men always think about themselves first without fail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:24 PM
72

“That scared me” when his wife wasn’t moved by his crying lmao, GOOD! Male tears are fake and performative, never listen to them. I hope she milks him for all he’s worth 👏 You weren’t thinking about your marriage until you got your nut, too late buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:59 PM
3

Good on you! I also find it fishy that people who are really into black culture, music, clothing etc talk about it every day, but are silent during this time. It’s really opening my eyes to who really cares about me as a person and my rights, and not the fact that I’m just some cool points token
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:07 PM
5

I completely agree. While oppression isn’t a contest, when I post about or bring awareness to things like pedophilia, domestic abuse at the hands of men, etc on other platforms it gets absolutely no interaction. I’ve been looking for info about Breonna to spread but I feel like I haven’t even seen things about JUST her case since it has happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:12 PM
4

I get that some people may not want to be faced with the fact their hero’s aren’t actually hero’s, but I feel like it’s different when they actually see horrible things happening and call people dumb for being upset by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:06 PM
25

Not to compare the two since they’re different, but when they try to poke holes in what the victims may have done it gives me “well what was she wearing? why was she drinking” vibes when people try to debunk sexual assault cases. The thing is these people don’t actually want to know the facts, they just want to defend the other side without blatantly doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:27 PM
14

They’re so strong and confident in their racism it’s sickening. All over Twitter there are “jokes” and memes about what’s going on and when people call them out they use the dumb excuse of dark humor but they literally don’t get things have to be funny to be humorous. I’ve blocked so many people I know who interact with these accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:47 PM
7

Hit the wall and stuck! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:52 PM
19

Don’t forget they’re 29 too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:43 PM
35

You guys should watch CC Unit and Anxiety War on YouTube, they catch and publicly shame predators (there are other accs that do this but they’re the most professional and best in terms of getting to the bottom of things). The guys will literally pull up the chat logs and read them out loud, to which the pedos will actively lie and deny that it was them! While it’s in their face and they have the guys’ nudes that they sent to the decoy’s pulled up! Sometimes they ask the predators to bring someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:34 AM
33

Looks like the “smarter” sex hasn’t realized that girls don’t refer to eachother as “female” and lets us know instantly that you’re a guy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:07 AM
13

This! I don’t care how you feel younger than you are, or that you think we have so many things in common. We don’t. I’m a young girl and you like to prey on young girls, that’s the only common denominator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:12 PM
233

If I’m asked to split the bill on a date, after I’m gonna fist bump you and say nice “Nice hanging out with you bro” cause from that moment on we’re just buddies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:48 PM
17

Originally it was just a slang word to describe guys who go out of their way and bend over backwards to do the most for girls with nothing in return (Think guys who pour hundreds of dollars in twitch girls and stuff). Now if you do even the basics like open the door for a girl guys will call another guy a simp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:20 PM
68

God I literally hate the word “simp” and that culture whether it’s used for guys or girls. Stop doing nice things for guys even if they’re your boyfriend and see how quickly they switch up, and how badly they actually want one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:51 PM
67

Ugh why can’t they just admit that they’re boring, have no respect for women, broke, ugly, and go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:13 AM
19

Holy crap that sounds insane. I would never even THINK about putting my ability to breathe in a stranger’s hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:04 AM
20

Exactly, and his profile only had 2 pics which looked completely like stock photos so I hope no one took him up on the offer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:38 AM
2

You’re an amazing mom and your kids are so lucky to have someone like you as a mother :) Just by the way you talk about them I know they’re gonna be strong and a force to be reckoned with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:51 PM
80

“Oh I love my women with just a sprinkle of abuse and trauma but not too much!”.. brain dead idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:43 PM
4

The women supporting these kind of these is far too common and it makes me even more worried. The things they were saying were 1000x worse than what I talked about, and I don’t even want to mention it bc seeing the posts in my head again makes me sick. They’re literally becoming pedophiles themselves to please their porn sick boyfriends/husband, and take joy in talking about how “age play” during sex and having them call her his daughters name is hot. They act like if they call it a “kink” they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:38 PM
1

Not needed?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:27 AM
7

Your friend sounds amazing, and I’ve actually been thinking about doing all of those things too. My parents actually didn’t give me or my siblings cellphones until we were in highschool, and never allowed us to sleep over at other peoples houses until we were pretty much grown basically which is what I want to do too. The normalization of perversion is just too much and I’m not taking any chances at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:19 AM
19

It’s gotten so bad that everyone I think about it I have to actively stop or else I start tearing up and give myself a headache worrying. Even middle school boys are being sexist towards girls now and objectifying them, so what will happen 20 years from now when we have kids? People are already trying to normalize actual pedophilia and beating girls in the name of “fun” sex, I’m terrified. (TW/porn/rape/please do not read if you are sensitive to graphic things) This entire rant started because I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:49 AM
89

That comment about her “denting her boyfriends self worth”.... boo hoo he can’t stick his dirty pp in some place it’s not meant to be in the first place. What is wrong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:08 AM
1

I agree with some points, but women HAVE to worry about their looks because society, since the beginning of time, has brainwashed men into thinking that it is the most important thing a women can have. Men actively judging women based on their physical appearance alone and treat them accordingly. Why wouldn’t girls then try to appearance the best they can in hopes of not being treated like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:03 AM
1

Mmm that’s a part of it yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:01 AM
4

You’re right. I guess it’s just best to focus on things we can control over what we can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:00 AM
1

But they don’t know cause they’ve never tried! And products/grooming does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:16 AM
1

If you think using acne wash is female grooming then believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:24 AM
1

Mmm honestly mostly yea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:23 AM
3

Yuckkk they think their girlfriend’s are personal dolls they can mold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:22 AM
22

That’s the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:16 AM
16

I know but still :( Just knowing that I can’t protect them from all the evil out there and that you never really know who anyone is has me scared shitless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:16 AM
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The fact that he beat her even HARDER when she signaled to stop and she’s asking “what should I do?”... no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:36 PM
20

I can’t if this is just or bad or worse than all of the girls coming out to say their boyfriends don’t wash their asses and pee on the floor without cleaning it up 🤢 Why are they actual animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:09 PM
1

That’s great :) and nooo try almond milk instead atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:26 PM
1

Not true at all, guys my age have wrinkles when they’ve never had a real job in their life and spend 80% of their time playing video games. What’s their excuse? It just so happens that allll of these guys have shit genes? Skincare products work I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:48 PM
1

Who’s talking about fashion? We just want you guys to bathe and wash your faces
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:45 PM
1

That’s really sad to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:44 PM
14

Exactly! He kept saying “damaging” to make it seem like he actually cared about her wellbeing but everyone can see right through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:42 PM
39

Why is he sooo convinced that giving herself highlights is gonna permanently damage and destroy all of her hair for eternity! He’s definitely those men that are attracted to the way a girl dresses, then gets mad when she continues to dress like that when they’re together. If you can’t handle having a bad b as a girlfriend, leave her alone 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:18 PM
2

99% of women like well groomed men I don’t understand all the strange theories denying it. So you’re saying that women who like men with wrinkles and an excessive amount of body fat are the majority? Can you honestly convince yourself that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:56 PM
1

So they’d rather not take care of the one body that they have for the rest of their life? Just bc of a few words?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:29 PM
3

We’re ghosts then I suppose. You’ll all believe what you want to believe, and do what you want to do, even when you’re unhappy with yourselves and don’t understand why you’re not getting the girls or attention that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:28 PM
2

Thissss. Men always bitch about this concept and say “well I know fat ugly men who gets girls wahhh” well what type of girls are they getting? Would you get with them? Do they get into actual relationships or just have sex twice and that’s it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:12 PM
1

Don’t worry that’s still something that a lot of people, myself included, get confused about. To start its best to just get the basics and do a bit of research for extra stuff. Is the discoloration dark spots or all over? If it’s just spots here and then vitamin c and sunscreen will help clear them right up!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:48 PM
2

Cut out dairy from your diet! Put lemons in your water to help detox and clear out your system :) Also take some time out of your day to just meditate, or write down in a journal how you’re feeling. It really helps to clear your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:47 PM
1

True true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:45 PM
2

Having nice skin is a falsehood? Lolll. This entire comment section showed me that all incels ,guys who can’t get women, etc on here are fake and brought it upon themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:44 PM
3

Right! If you’re not doing anything to change you have no right to complain and moan
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:42 PM
1

What’s wrong with treating yourself? Even painting my toes is considering pampering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:40 PM
2

No problem at all! You brought up a lot of great points. Of course I would never go up to a man with wrinkles and acne and say “ew do something about that!” but it seems a lot of men on here constantly complain about their lack of attractiveness/low self esteem and do nothing about it. It’s pretty nonsensical and a tired cycle of not wanting help but wanting changes but being too lazy to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:19 AM
2

Trust me no woman hates a man with a clean pores and a nicely trimmed beard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:17 AM
2

Omg it’s way more common than people realize
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:23 AM
1

omg yes yes yes, like if you want to throw yourself a pity party every day and go through life hating yourself fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:08 AM
6

Pampering yourself and wanting to be clean and well groomed doesn't equal being vain, it's the very bare minimum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:07 AM
3

Yep, that’s how my brother started too! I feel like the ones who bitch about maintenance and skincare being hopeless give up bc they don’t see immediate results over night. They just need to be patient and take the proper time to see it makes a worldddd of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:52 AM
3

Try to a body wash that has salicylic acid in it :) or maybe you could be getting acne from things like your conditioner or shampoo not being properly washed off, or too much sweat build up and missing that area when bathing. Vitamin c helps with scarring really well!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:50 AM
2

No actually, there are some that lighten the dark spots you already have and reduce fine lines. It all depends on the ingredients and spf. The daily one I use is spf50 and has brightening effects
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:42 AM
3

Combats wrinkles, dark spots and aging
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:27 AM
1

That’s hypocritical if they use those same things. However if a girl wears her natural hair and never has extensions/dyes/etc I could see why she would judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:26 AM
3

aww that's so cute and what I aspire to have when I grow up! "Swamp ass situation" LOL i love it! But seriously, men, for the love of all that is good please know that 99% of the time women prefer kempt men over those that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:16 AM
1

Agreed! If something will help the lack of self esteem that you have, why won’t you even TRY?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:02 AM
3

And patchy ungroomed beards too 🤮 It’s better to be completely shaven than have random groups of hair everywhere that’s grown out and doesn’t connect - I have no idea why they think it looks good. The lack of motivation seriously disturbs me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:01 AM
1

I’m a female and it is literally the biggest turn on personally when I see men taking care of themselves. I did face masks together with the last guy I dated and I loved it. Idk the men in my age group have alotttt when I see them and are increasingly aging faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:59 AM
1

Kinda, I'm mostly referring to when men in general complain about their attractiveness and how they can't get girls because of what they look like, but when someone (girl or boy) offers tips on fixing up their appearance they call it stupid,gay, a waste, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:14 AM
2

No problem seriously :) I like to check them out to see what new things people are trying, but I wouldnt get too caught up in it especially if you are a beginner. Everyone's skin is different, and what works for someone may not work for you! In the past I had a bad habit of buying things just because I saw other people liking it on threads like those, but it irritated my skin or caused me to break out. The best is to figure out what kind of ingredients your skin likes, and then go from there :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:12 AM
1

Bravo! And the thing is doing these things makes you feel better about yourself, its not just for the approval of others. When you look good, you feel good!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:08 AM
4

Men have the same exact problems except that they don’t care or ever try to hide it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:29 PM
5

It's not that women look older than their age, just that men consume copious amount of porn and facetuned ig girls, combined with never being able to interact with girls in real life so their view point on women's looks in comparison to their age is pretty warped. Also without makeup the natural female's face looks better on average than the average male's face because of the use of a beauty regimen and paying attention to their diet. Men are all around physically awfully with or without these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:01 PM
2

No problem! So the very very basics of skincare (if you havent developed a routine before) are cleanser, moisturizer, exofoliator and sunscreen. The extra stuff you hear about comes after you figure out what your skin really needs. Although before you buy products, you have to figure out what your skin type is . - If you have dry skin, you dont want to buy a super strong cleanser because that will dry you out even more. If you have oily skin, you dont want a heavy moisturizer because you'll look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:52 PM
9

Ive never seen someone actually admit that it’s refreshing. It’s the ones that are a 4 and then spazz out anytime a 10 doesn’t want them that gets me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:28 PM
7

I agree with the laziness thing, they also use it as a scapegoat. “Meh it doesn’t work it’s bullshit!” that’s because you were only using something for 2 days and gave up. They also hate failure and would rather just not even try rather than figure out what works for them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:26 PM
3

Cut out dairy! Cheese, the whole milk in your coffee creamer, all of it. Less stomach aches and brighter sun almost immediately l. Stretch every day even if it’s only 15 minutes, you never realize how much time you spend hunched over on your phone or computer until you sit up and fix your posture. Put lemon in your water for a detox. Lots of kale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:12 PM
2

I would have to disagree. Me, my sisters and my friends gag when we see men who have stubble and wonder why they think it looks good when it makes them look dirty and unkempt. However, wrinkles, acne, dirty hair, and unhealthy weight gain look good on neither gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:07 PM
3

Fashion is extra stuff and also personal depending on height/weight/etc so it’s best to not take fashion advice from people until you figure out what works best for you. But EVERYONE looks good with clean skin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:05 PM
1

I think you have tunnel vision in regards to wanting to prove your point, so you only focus on the small amount of overweight women and ignore that the average women looks better than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:03 PM
3

This is why the majority of men are ugly now. They think putting effort into their appearance= being a girl. No hope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:02 PM
1

Yesss I love your lack of argument and logical points, go girl give us nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:00 PM
3

WHO says that lol I don't know a single women who would dislike a man not having a saggy face and acne scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:45 PM
4

But your skin being soft doesnt deter women from you, that's the thing. Sure other things are nice too, but they all balance or cancel eachother out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:44 PM
6

Omg exactly!! A guy I dated used face masks regularly and it made him 100x more attractive anytime I saw him put one on. I can’t even explain it but it’s so sexy when guys aren’t scared to show that they like to take care of themselves. I totally agree, I do my skincare routine because having fresh skin makes me feel better about myself first, and how people perceive me is second.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:25 PM
3

I’m sorry but I have to laugh whenever you guys think that girls don’t care about those things, we do!!! Are you saying that men who want women to be youthful and poreless are projecting their standards of appearance onto women too? Men don’t seem to realize that all women don’t look like facetuned girls they see on instagram, but they still project those ridiculous standards onto them. You get what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:22 PM
2

Duhh lol and no one is talking about fashion or aesthetics just clear your skin and exercise it’s not that hard!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:17 PM
5

But the thing is it doesn’t cost that much at all! If you buy a $15 retinal serum it’ll decrease winkles and any scarring/dark spots you have. Also a nice oil controlling moisturizer- which I’ve never spent over $20 on, which will keep breakouts away and your skin will look softer and smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:16 PM
4

🤮🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:06 PM
3

Yes but they’re just hurting themselves more and more. Why do they take pride in being unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:04 PM
4

Meh. How big are your biceps, how tall are you and how long can you run for? If things get really bad you don’t wanna be puny and get yourself beaten to death over resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:04 PM
2

All genders receive unsolicited advice, it’s just that men never try to atleast hear the person out or try to change when they know they should
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:02 PM
1

Because they still have at least something to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:01 PM
11

The overestimating part big time! They don’t realize that the things they think are unattractive on women, are unattractive on them too. I do think they find comfort in being mediocre, because if they don’t try then they won’t fail, and nothing lost I suppose. It’s just so sad all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:01 PM
2

Yea I just don’t understand those who complain about their appearance but do nothing to solve it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:59 PM
5

I say "Beauty" because it doesn't include makeup lol. Just putting on sunscreen can make you more beautiful, but men think even THAT is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:55 PM
2

Ew working with wood makes your hands dry and crusty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:54 PM
5

Are you saying a man without acne who is clean shaven and smells good is less attractive than one covered in pimples and sun spots?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:48 PM
3

You know they never like to take responsibility for their actions, and the evil restaurant people always force 3 burgers down their throats as soon as they walk through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:47 PM
1

Yes, but all women would rather have a hot and rich man over an ugly and rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:45 PM
2

Oooh I get waxes since razors aren't good for your skin but thanks! Well atleast you were trying to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:44 PM
2

Say if a man had severe acne before, and then got rid of it by implementing a skincare routine, it would 1000% help his chances with women. If a guy gets a fresh cut and a nice beard trim, people will 1000% notice. ALL effort has a positive outcome and it's silly to say that it doesn't get positive attention when it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:41 PM
6

Spot on! My whole thing is i'm tired of seeing men complain about "superficial" women who don't want to date them, but who wants an ugly partner who doesn't take care of themselves? Stop whining if you're not gonna do anything to actually change the reasons as to why they don't like you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:38 PM
2

The sunscreen is a good start, but I can't see your skin so I don't know if it's actually fine or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:36 PM
2

Just saying that if men want to date they should not be surprised when they are rejected because they look bad, which seems to be a crazy thought to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:35 PM
-1

Yes, because everyone is allowed to have an opinion. I am educated on the fact that strong passwords are better, I just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:34 PM
1

Yes those are good starts, but also the absolute bare minimum that most do not do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:33 PM
2

It has always been, just more solely focused on women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:32 PM
1

It's not a waste of time, these men are just impatient and think that because something doesn't magically make them hotter over night it's a waste of time. I have yet to see an attractive man who looks like crap or smells, they are attractive because they aren't those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:31 PM
2

I think so. Insecurities due to their dislike for their physical appearance can make men angry, which causes them to lash out on women whether they are dating them or not. If they start improving themselves through grooming and beauty maybe they wouldnt be so insecure, and would be less angry at those around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:29 PM
1

Yes!! All of these things are cheap and don't take forever to see results, which is one of the lamest excuses as to why they don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:26 PM
3

No one if refusing to be educated, we take in what you're saying and think about it. However, men do not like hearing that they are objectively ugly and refuse to do anything about it when faced with the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:24 PM
0

Those are vaild reasons, but just the quickest google search will show you where to start and super cheap products that actually work. Nothing ever happens magically over night, they just need to stop being lazy and realize just because something doesn't have results in a week means that it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:23 PM
9

Women are having sex with well groomed, good smelling, non fat, handsome men. If those things make them pansies, then men should start aspiring to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:20 PM
3

That's true, and I hope it does begin to put more pressure on their appearance. It does not make sense for men that are 23 to already have starter beer guts and sunken faces, it's worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:19 PM
2

If they are attractive they do not look like complete shit lol . They do create significant changes and advantages, it's just that men don't see them because they never started using the products in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:17 PM
2

But that does not mean that they treat the women well or are in a healthy/happy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:15 PM
1

Eh a password is a password. But why do men take pride in being ugly that's not a reasonable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:13 PM
8

Women have skin routines to take care of their looks, not because they’re insecure about them. The thing is that the everyday normal 40 yr old man looks 65 at best. A lack of body shape/muscle, completely receeded hairline, a plethora of cholesterol and heart problems, and sagged facial skin ruins their entire being no matter how much fasting they do. Men in general need to do more but won’t, which is why they’re starting to eat the wall straight out of grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:08 PM
3

No woman will look down on you for not having acne and sun damaged spots. No woman will look down on you for going to the gym and eating vegetables. How is it a waste of time if you only have one body and will be in it for the rest of your life, don’t you want to atleast take care of it for your sake? They may be married but that doesn’t mean that they look good or the women are attracted to them. What happens if they unfortunately divorce or breakup? Now they look like complete shit and won’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:00 PM
3

I get that there are those who think it’s stupid and won’t change in their ways, but most men KNOW that doing these things will help them look good and the roi will be worth it. If they can look in the mirror and physically see that they do not look the best or are in good shape but don’t want to do anything about it, their logic is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:56 PM
4

Simple Skincare has the best products and they’re natural too! So if you’re not used to having a skincare routine they’re a great start
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:47 PM
-1

The men who use this term are generally insecure with their lack of experience, age in comparison to the girls they like, what they have to offer, etc. If a girl has previous experience with men and can compare how they treat her to how those in the past did, it makes them even more insecure and they’ll have to put in more effort - which they don’t want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:46 PM
12

Yep, they think if they sacrifice their daughter then hopefully one day somebody will sacrifice theirs for him it’s only fair! They’re sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:31 PM
12

Ugh I hope the men in the situations suffered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:29 PM
65

Oh my god I really wish I didn’t read this before bed, men are animals and her family failed her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:02 AM
126

We’re not in middle school so we’re worthless to potbellied 30 yr olds 😭/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:01 AM
10

The upvotes 🤮🤮 now they’re gonna think this is the norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:05 AM
103

Wanting men to be held accountable for their actions = terrorism in their eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:14 AM
60

Yep I dated a really big gamer (didn’t realize how big until a while later bc he never mentioned his channel name and I didn’t wanna ask) and I feel like they’re a different breed of men. They seem really kind and caring, but the lack of communication is just wayyyyy too much to deal with. Even when we were on dates or hanging out I felt like I was a burden and he was rushing to get back to his games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:55 PM
13

I feel awful that the first thought that can into my head was “I knew it”. All the red flags were there: large age gap plus coincidentally he’s super into bdsm and took no responsibility for his actions. God I hate them. Now he’s gonna make his way back to kinky sites looking for even younger women bc “older girls are bitches who don’t understand kink”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:33 PM
28

They’re hysterical and don’t know what they want, it’s best to just let them all circle jerk so they can leave us alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:09 AM
39

I’m just programmed to only be attracted to 8+/10 men who make 6 figures sorry 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:08 AM
47

THIS!! Omg like you’re the ones who are saying to beware of guys but hate us when we avoid them like you said...make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:23 AM
113

It’s NaTuRaLLL for them to be degenerates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:48 AM
58

Especially since they called out their “hey i’m visual, but you can’t be visual whore!!” mindset lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:48 AM
67

Key word “could” they don’t WANT to, but hypothetically in their minds they could if they really really wanted lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:46 AM
4

Omggg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:22 AM
3

And I hate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:50 AM
36

Pleaseee let’s start one. I’ve seen so many where the bio is something along the lines of “looking for something low key, my wife knows about this :)” and yet all of their pictures have their face cropped out 😒 So obviously she doesn’t know, they really think we’re dumb!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:50 AM
6

Omggg that’s literally insane! They’ll do anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:10 PM
19

I thinks it’s all the binge drinking plus not being mobile bc of games and stuff honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:04 PM
3

They’re not even trying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:03 PM
107

1 and 2 are literally just looking for bangable mommy’s 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:40 PM
16

Either way it’s sad 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:12 PM
44

Men think that ANY indication of a beard is good, which is why so many walk around with random blotches of hair or poorly groomed ones 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:15 PM
122

Girl don’t ya know we’re supposed to be turned on by his beer and fake gold chain 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:32 PM
58

Don’t forget looking for someone fun! Which means a big booty babe opening to being a booty call at 2am twice a week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:31 PM
10

Lol exactly at least come up with something new!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:29 PM
5

I want to cry, and the fact that his friends and FAMILY are reassuring him that it was a “mistake” makes me sick. No one cares about little girls, they have no one to rely on because they think male depravity is normal and only care about the predator not killing himself over the girl who will be scarred for life. I’m sorry but I hope he continues to suffer for what he’s done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:40 PM
9

OMG that’s so disgusting. I’m glad people were there for her or else who knows what could’ve happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:24 AM
17

Ewww omg he essentially thought him asking you out was supposed to be a gift and flattering 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:08 AM
22

Its not you or your friend’s fault, don’t beat yourself up about it too much :( At that age we’re so young and conditioned to be wanting to be “mature and cool” by society. It’s good your sister has someone like you to help her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:06 AM
11

Eww so close 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:01 AM
15

MEN are the ones that put that pressure on themselves when they decided to be the “providers” and “man of the house 💪🏽” while lashing out on the women if they made more money or had better jobs. I don’t feel bad at all for them, they made their sexist bed now they have to lie in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:20 PM
90

I’m sorry :( I feel like most of us can relate to situations like that. When I was a dumb highschooler I can admit I had the biggest crush on my teacher and instead of my friends stopping me, they encouraged it too. At some points the teacher even flirted back, would comment on my clothing/body and would constantly ask about my love life. I didn’t realize how wrong it was until I mentioned it to my older sister and she (thankfully) freaked and told me how wrong it was. Even though people like to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:13 PM
15

Don’t forget to put it in the laundry machine after to dry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:38 PM
1

Oh the “good” men who end up beating them and then molesting their children, but think they’re good just because they have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:37 PM
1

Men are neverrrrr expected to change their urges, and are constantly egged on that they deserve someone totally out of their league lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:18 PM
1

Women did nothing wrong for not choosing you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:17 PM
1

I’m seeing red. He was mad that his live in maid wasn’t doing as much work as possible. I’m literally praying that she finds out and leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:37 AM
3

Yes they are lol or else they would be expressing their displeasure towards him and not girls who can’t help liking who they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:31 PM
3

“It’s very different to choose to not to participate than to never be given the option” spot on! Deep down they all want to be the guys that the girls are interacting with at the parties, or else they wouldn’t be lashing out about how it’s “boring” when literally NO man who actually goes to parties and gets chatted up thinks so lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:28 AM
4

Exactly lol. They don’t get that when people have the option to be social, they’ll choose it if they don’t want to just stay in bed. They hate when girls party bc it proves that people actually enjoy their presence, which is something that they don’t experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:16 AM
1

Girl they get more and more crazy each day 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:56 AM
3

Men in general are scared of other men, which is why they never fight them on anything unless it’s truly necessary. It’s like how men will harass and abuse women loudly with their chest puffed out, but when a man calls them out on it they’ll be sheepish and don’t have the same energy for him as they did the woman. Instead of risking the chance of having another man emasculate them even further, they’d rather be angry at women and attack them bc they’re more likely to win and not get any push bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:28 AM
7

This!! They think sitting in a dark room in 3 day old underwear makes them interesting and fun lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:15 AM
2

Yes but I was also still right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:02 AM
17

Yep, they tell us to just "pick better men" but dont realize that they're acknowledging that their fellow men are low value and have nothing to offer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:55 PM
1

lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:53 PM
9

Every single guy I see on dating apps has a The Office quote with “anime and chill?” in their bio. You all have a hive mind which is why you’re so angry at women. It’s exhausting to see you all pretend to be interesting lol. I’m not gonna list my own hobbies bc I don’t need to prove anything to you, I just want you to know women are multifaceted and the ONLY things men do in their spare time is jack off to anime girls and smash their keyboards from getting angry at video games. Women party bc th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:40 PM
9

Your entire comment proves my point lol. Also, the language you used in regards to women show that you’re the type of misogynistic bull who DEF quizzes, yes quizzes girls in order to twist their words and “catch them” in a lie. Again, women have several hobbies it’s just that men think that anything they’re not into is dumb and not worthy acknowledging, which is why you think women don’t have any hobbies. They do, you’re just so far up your own ass you don’t even listen to girls when they talk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:07 PM
3

You say that there's a sea of men doing the same thing, so isn't that why women are "pushed" in because seeing the same people doing the same thing is boring and non-unique? It creates excitement and buzz when you see fresh faces doing new things. You may not but it but it's happened to me and all of my friends, even my sisters. Just because you don't see something doesn't mean it's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:21 PM
17

The main reason that men think women are boring is because they most likely don’t have the exact same interests as the man calling them that does, and if she does, she is shamed and called a “fake fan” by the gate keeping mentally. When girls are active video game players, they’re called “twitch thots” and told they don’t really know how to play even if they’re better than male players. If the girl likes anime, she’s called fake and asked to name every single anime in existence and speak fluent …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:04 PM
14

I honestly thinks it bc they want to show girls “i don’t even need this app y’all are lucky that I’m here” BS. They want us to think they’re a catch that’s gracing our presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:40 PM
8

Yep, whenever guys have to emphasize how much they’re “gettin money” they’re a dropout drug dealer most of the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:38 PM
7

He was lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:37 PM
23

EXACTLY. They constantly drool over ig girls and twitch girls giving them all their money, but get mad that they’re using their looks?? They’re the same guys that shame girls for being prudes if they don’t dress “hot” or wear makeup. They’re dumb and don’t know what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:24 PM
1

EXACTLY. They constantly drool over ig girls and twitch girls giving them all their money, but get mad that they’re using their looks?? They’re the same guys that shame girls for being prudes if they don’t dress “hot” or wear makeup. They’re dumb and don’t know what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:24 PM
25

i think he's trying to say that social media has given us too much confidence and validation , what a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:48 PM
24

This!! Now the trend is kpop boys which are the exact opposite of these sloppy old pigs, which is why they’re always raging and calling Asian boys gay. They can’t handle the fact that young girls are attracted to boys that take care of themselves and are properly groomed lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:27 PM
35

Omg exactly! Like sir you're not creating a line of heirs you aren't losing anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:01 PM
37

They were having children at 15 bc they were being sold off to 40 yr old men as wives. Even though I’m sad freaks like this (and all 15 who upvoted 🤮) exist, it’s pleasing to know that these days underage girls know they don’t have to put up with them and aren’t scared to publicly act disgusted at old men who try to hit on them. They can try to act like it’s a mutual attraction, but when they go out in public with this mindset or even try to dm them on social media, they’re laughing stocks in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:51 PM
13

no need to be sorry! I actually tried to find the question in order to put in my 2 cents, is that against the rules?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:30 PM
75

Oh god I shouldn’t have opened that . “thought crimes are not crimes” “as long as you haven’t acted upon it”. But the thing is they WILL act upon it, that’s how it always starts. Just by watching CP they’re creating a demand and market for it which is why it keeps happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:22 PM
18

Wow wow wow, this is amazing and you're a great mom! He's def learning right from you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:54 AM
7

Eww I'm so sorry. Those are the same type of guys who get mad when you won't wipe their ass or spoon feed them dinner when they're sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:47 PM
19

That's so sad, and it's true we'll never really know someone or what they like until we actively search for it most of the time. It's so exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:23 PM
22

it makes me physically ill I was shaking earlier. They're just as evil as all of the people commenting those awful things, and don't want to upset their counterparts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:22 PM
17

Men blame women on their inability to express their feelings, but their idea of being open is just "uhhh I like your vibe", and then they call their girlfriend's high maintenance and bitches when they want actual confirmation that they like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:28 PM
46

Ugh I'm so sick of seeing girls at the start of their lives putting up with these old sacks of nothing. It gives them the confidence to keep doing these things and think that there's nothing wrong with it, then when they're finally ready to settle down they'll bitch and moan about how all the "good girls" are gon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:22 PM
58

He's openly asking for CP on the internet and yet twitter does absolutely nothing about these scumbags. The older I get the more I believe that MOST men are pedo's. It's not always the ones who are actively hurting the children, it's ones like these who see no harm in wanting to see it bc they think it's a victimless crime, it's the ones who defend their "right" to be attracted to underage girls bc they think it's in their nature. I want all of them to suffer and I don't feel bad about admitting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:14 PM
4

exactly, trying to convince everyone that she's crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:24 PM
9

nope that's exactly how i read it too ugh the nerve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:23 PM
225

I’m so glad you said that you dumped him because as soon as I saw the “anyways, I’m gonna try to fall back asleep” I wanted to jump through the screen. He brushed it off like it was nothing and tried to dismiss you by going to sleep before you could even get a word in. Stay strong and remember you’re worth so much more than someone who doesn’t care 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:52 PM
18

I’m sorry that you guys had to go through that, and that’s my exact experience too. Regular church goers and those that “live by that bible” are some of the rudest people I’ve ever met, and think that they can be shitty human beings all they want bc as soon as they step into church on Sunday they’re forgiven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:45 PM
61

What a loser. And he’s constantly going on and on about what a “God loving” man he is and how church has saved his life of course 😒 no surprise there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:22 PM
46

I actually watched a YouTube video the other day where the guy interviewed a few guys who were obsessed with camgirls and stuff and it was crazy. One guy even admitted to giving up on his opportunity with a girl he had a crush on for years because he was afraid she would find out how much he spent on cam girls, and would want him to give them up if they started dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:23 PM
84

I hateee when men act like putting effort into conversation is mind blowing and makes them the perfect man. It’s what everyone’s supposed to do 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:41 PM
43

Why do they allll always look like this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:32 PM
24

I’ve heard that too, but he never mentioned that part. He would just say oh I don’t mind but like I do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:27 AM
6

It’s so strange
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:26 AM
88

I learned that nothing turns off men from sex when even when I was on my period my ex would beg and beg and beg for it. When I told him my flow was heavy and I was cramping badly, he would just offer to put a few towels down. They have no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:13 AM
3

Exactly, and how much do you wanna bet they talked the girls into doing the pose or else they’re “bOrInGG” I see it all the time 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:42 PM
6

Nope, I bet it's to let all the prudesss know that he's fun and kinky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:40 PM
2

🤮They seriously can’t function without getting their dick wet for over a month can they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:57 AM
5

Lol I feel the exact same way. I need some good laughs to keep me sane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:48 AM
12

Yep they now have an excuse to do the absolute bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:30 AM
14

I can’t 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:15 AM
16

The universe is always on time :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:00 AM
2

Exactly, and that’s why they get them. They say that they won’t “talk back or bitch” like women do. What they mean is I can’t control real women like they’re puppets so they’re worthless wahhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:20 AM
7

I know and that’s where I get tripped up. Do I want the red pillers and incels to get them in hopes of shutting up about their “sexual needs”? Absolutely. Am I afraid that they’ll grow to be unsatisfied and then lash out on real women or try to create child dolls in order to recreate their sick fantasies and then the same thing happens? Absolutely as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:46 PM
7

They were doing things to it? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:35 PM
7

Agreed. I’m not calling for anything like the mass production of sex dolls or promoting it to the general public, because like you said it would just make things worse. Just that for those that preach about them being more useful than actual women, to go ahead and get them then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:10 PM
9

Yea I thought about that too. In cases of creating child or "loli" dolls - big no because it can be a gateway like you said. But for all the incels and red pillers that they think they can seriously be fulfilled with a great sex life and all their problems will be solved with a toy then go ahead I won't stop them lol. I heard about that last one and they're so sick they don't have any morals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:55 PM
13

Oh is he a celebrity? Men with money or some kind of success always think that it cancels out the fact that they're predators. News flash, it doesnt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:49 PM
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His responses are so telling, the loudest ones are always the ones in the wrong. These men are the same ones that actively seek out young girls, then get mad and call them “immature” or say “you’re too young to understand” and dump them as soon as they question the man or call him out. When they realize the girls arent moldable puppets that will bend at their will just bc they’re old hags their world flips, and it’s just a cycle of their creepy asses looking for someone young and impressionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:42 PM
34

Praying that she leaves him. Men truly don’t deserve to have girlfriends anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:07 PM
59

He didn’t even let her catch her breath and I honestly thought he was gonna break her neck at some points because he was pushing her down by her forehead at full force....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:45 PM
70

38 years past 40 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:32 PM
7

Omg that’s kinda tempting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:16 PM
155

Can we all please just start publicly shaming ugly men like they do women they’re not attracted to so their confidence can go back to where it should be pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:39 PM
11

That’s smart! I always worry about turning away too many men but that’s the point! I only need the quality ones anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:42 PM
55

I don’t feel bad for him at all 🤷‍♀️ There are so many holes in the story it doesn’t make sense. If he wasn’t planning on participating why turn on his cam? Why did he insist on standing up right in front of the laptop and not at least staying seated or moving like two feet away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:14 PM
30

Ohhh that’s a good idea. I’ll try that, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:52 PM
18

Yep, and even their age range doesn’t work🤮I don’t wanna sound like a conspiracy theorist but I feel like they do this to give men a chance even if they’re the complete opposite of what we’re looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:51 PM
51

LOL my exact thoughts. And the fact they’re so casual about asking, “you mind we hook up” like he’s asking to borrow a pencil or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:42 PM
62

We’re at the point where anything you do for/to a woman outside of degrading or abusing her makes you a simp (ugh even typing that word gives me hives). The funny thing is that when they say “hope you get picked”, they do! That’s why they’re not on the internet behaving like rapid dogs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:21 PM
35

I have yea. It’s never been my only job but I’ve been putting most of the money away in my savings, and planned to quit when I’ve reached a specific amount. I’m close to it and have started revoking people that haven’t contacted me in a while, limiting my availability, raising prices etc in hopes that people will drift away naturally and then I can just quit cold turkey without it looking sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:19 AM
48

I strictly cam and don’t offer meetups, but I get the exact same stuff. What the media doesn’t tell you is that these men become very very needy,close, and entitled quickly. It’s men asking for free services bc “we’re friends aren’t we? I’ve known you for so long and always supported you 😡”, then giving in bc you’re scared to make them more angry. I lie about every single aspect of my life from which side of the world I’m located on, what my hobbies are, etc just to be extra safe. I’ve still got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:46 AM
64

I hate hate hate that tweets like this always go viral too. Then it makes boys think it’s ok to treat girls like they really are just pockets pussies, and when they ask to be treated with decency they’re “asking for too much” and “high maintenance” bc all the other girls accept being objectified so why can’t they!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:06 PM
2

god every day I just wish I could reach through my screen and shake these girls awake. I know it's not their fault for being brainwashed by their boyfriends, but this is so sad. It's like how guys will like a bunch of girls thirst traps and booty pics on ig, but call their girlfriend a whore and tell her to take a pic down if the slightest hint that she has a figure is shown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:14 PM
6

Don’t forget they want us to be down and out for them and twiddle our thumbs while they call us “black bitches” “hoes” etc 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:46 PM
55

So so true. I’m mixed and the same black men at school and even at one of my workplaces who would grossly fetishize me for being “eXoTIC” and “not like other black girls” 🤮 turned around and gave me disgusting looks and called me the worst names when they found out I was dating none black men and preferred it that way. You would think I killed their family or something by the way they constantly called me a bedwench. I ended up quitting that job bc it was so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:36 AM
45

All the guys that look like this always have “Don’t be boring” “If you’re not ___ don’t even bother swiping” “Try to catch my attention” etc in their bios too 😩. How are you gonna be ugly and picky at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:34 AM
52

They don't want girlfriends they just want to show off to the bros that they have one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:55 AM
24

Heck even asking for accomadation for date times and stuff makes them mad, they think spending time with you is a gift in itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:43 AM
80

Stuff like this makes me so sad and sick , especially knowing that CNC and rape "play" is on the rise. We're living in a world where people defend their rights to get off to women suffering in the name of having a "kink", no low is too low for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:32 AM
3

Smh so hormonal and sensitive, this is why we can't have them in charge of things! Their emotions always get in the way of logical thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:18 AM
15

I swear they’re mentally incapable of having conversations without mentioning or alluding to something sexual. The other day I was talking to this (what I thought totally harmless) guy about how I don’t like any breakfast food and just eat fruit. His response was that he’s great at making breakfast and he would bring me fruit in bed in the mornings because “If you take care of me, I’ll take care of you 😉”... So I guess he was expecting me to bust it open for a bowl of blueberries???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:10 PM
44

To answer your question, no he’s not healthy enough to be in your life. Men love knocking down attractive and confident women because they’re neither of those things, and they want you to feel how they feel. Misery loves company. They also think if they knock you down enough you’ll start to change according to their standards, in hopes that you’ll start to turn to them for validation and want to be with them or something. Its just their twisted need for someone to be dependent on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:49 PM
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It’s funny bc that was my exact response after he said that. I go through the same process of thinking that if he doesn’t really wanna do it then there’s no point, and there’s no way I’m gonna find it enjoyable. What I’ve started to do is after they finish I’ll spread my legs and look at them so they get the hint, or move their hand down there. I still get nervous about rejection but like they say closed mouths don’t get fed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:13 PM
119

Yep! One time my ex came from a bj and sat back and breathed heavily for a few minutes, then asked “do you want me to do something to you?” 🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:38 PM
334

These are the same ones who have a heart attack and mental breakdown if you don’t give them h*ad for an hour. Ladies stop doing any kind of foreplay for them until they satisfy you first and watch them switch up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:56 PM
3

Not those either, but I’m mixed so I should expect that one soon haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:21 AM
70

Don’t forget the “I’m just in a really bad place rn so I can’t commit :( we can still fuck tho”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:40 AM
6

no it was some nobody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:00 PM
53

Lmao exactly. So you're telling me that it's just a coincidence that every guy on here ranting about how they hate women are 6'3 body builders with huge dicks? Mmmkay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:26 PM
6

Barfff I hate old hags like that who try to brainwash everyone else. They can’t accept the fact that they’re not hot to anyone past a certain age, and project their insecurities into younger men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:13 PM
58

This! They spent all this time focusing on the negative aging of women they forgot to, literally, look in the mirror. Now they're trying desperately to catch up and it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:47 PM
27

I know I usually don’t, it’s just sometimes they need a really check
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:04 PM
145

One of them apologized to me and then asked if damaged skin really makes a difference...😭.They know they look like shit they just don’t like being told it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:03 PM
8

Go girl! I’m 22 but I get hit on a lot by 18/19 year olds bc they tend to think I’m that age too. I used to think even that little difference is weird but hey, if they’re legal they’re legal right? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:22 PM
6

I die laughing everytime I see postwallers talking about their “potent sperm”. It’s weak and they can’t admit, no fertile woman wants to risk the chance with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:17 PM
7

Yep! Cumming in a few strokes and then rolling over and breathing hard like they have asthma or something, pitiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:14 PM
41

Omg I’m a camgirl( dk if I can classify as a sex worker since everyone has different viewpoints/fields and I don’t wanna step on any toes but yea) and one time I was camming with a 24 yr old and he was literally jacking off for an hour and couldn’t cum, then got upset bc I accidentally starting yawning 😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:02 AM
27

Yessss 👏We’re not settling for crusty and wrinkled old men, the nursing home is that way grandpa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:04 AM
37

Yepp plus wider hips are great for childbearing. What good is a huge gut hanging over you when trying to reproduce? We need need to stick with the prime baby makers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:09 AM
38

No one wants an old man who can’t keep it up and please them 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:26 AM
63

I don’t even wanna get into the buys you things but not allowed to be bought stuff, god they really just want a f*ckable mom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:07 AM
124

Notice how they had to throw in the “rough sex” part, bc nothing’s better than degrading a soft lil insecure shy girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:03 AM
28

Aw congrats girl!! you deserve to be loved and valued
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:31 AM
20

Lolll this! I would always complain about only having frat boys or jocks to choose from. But now that I think about it the jocks were 10x bc atleast they had things going for them and flexed their talent to get girls. The frat boys just had beer guts and patchy beards, and STILL thought women should be more than happy to get on their knees for them with nothing to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:29 PM
53

Omg this times a thousand. Guys actually brag about having a dad bod now or put it in their bios on OLD to talk about how "cuddly" they are. Yet they have a fit when curvy girls embrace their body. Also, having a beard that disconnects or is just sparse hair everywhere is worse than not having one at all. Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:28 PM
19

I’m sorry that you’re going through this, but when a man shows you who he is the first time BELIEVE HIM. He’s already shown you that he doesn’t care about your family unless they’re giving him things, and treats you like a roommate. Heck I don’t even think roommates would treat you that bad. If your sister or friend were in the exact same position as you would you let them go through that? I know it’s hard since you’ve been together for so long, but just think about 5 years down the road you’ll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:28 PM
48

That's a really good point. Like other people have mentioned I really think it's all the porn and gaming. Do young "gym bros" even exist anymore? The guys I see out running or at the gym are always older. Atleast they're staying up with up keep and trying to look nice, the young ones just make a personality out of sitting infront of a screen and not moving for hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:56 PM
66

Omg this. The rare ones that actually wash their face once in a blue moon think that they're the prize just bc they know how to use soap and a razor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:36 PM
46

Omg I thought the exact same thing. Like maybe it's a new guy code or sth to lie about their age but they really look like that :( and same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:18 PM
65

I literally SHUDDER when I see some of them I just want to dm them and ask when's the last time they had a glass of water or opened their blinds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:04 PM
43

"LIKE we were bf and gf" is the key. Did you ask her to be your girlfriend? No? Then she's single simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:10 PM
42

Yes yes yes they just want you to be understanding of their shitty qualities. A major one for me is when a guy puts so much emphasis on wanting a “genuine connection”. I mean there’s nothing wrong with that everyone does! But I noticed the ones who bring it up constantly just want a therapist that spreads their legs, while also not wanting anything in return like actual dates or a “label” on the rs bc it’s all about connectingggg and feelingssss. Bleh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:24 AM
22

Omg the spooked thing gets me everytime. If they don't want my ig or number I'm convinced that they have a gf/wife/kids they're trying to hide. A long time ago I remember this guy was so adamant about getting my snap and got nervous when I offered my number instead making a bunch of excuses and saying he doesnt have ig either. I admit I was dumb and I gave in bc he was hot as hell. I told my bestfriend a while later and she said there's no way he doesnt have one. The next day she found it and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:57 PM
7

I don't think there's any harm done,although ofc it depends on what you use it for. If I'm not posting any thirst traps/tagging locations/posting personal info etc. I still get to control what they do or don't see/know about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:11 PM
50

I've tried that once and the guy just started begging me to facetime him, then offering me MONEY everytime I said no. They're so f*cking desperate it makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:52 PM
16

The fact he said “challenge accepted” when asked for basic decency 🤢. This generation of dudes are brain dead when it comes to dating, and they’ll be the same ones in 20 years complaining about how “da evil womens” are the reason why he’s alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:51 AM
31

THIS!! I'm extremely into yoga and manifesting, and whenever I mention it to a guy I'm talking to it's suddenly "Oh I love meditating! I was actually up at 5am balancing my chakras this morning". Like it's completely ok if we don't like the same things lol, you creating a new personality is not gonna turn me on more it does the opposite especially when I can tell it's not genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:37 AM
21

This happened to me once and when I called the guy out he just sent laughing emojis 🙃🙃 Consent is literally foreign to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:35 AM
26

girl I was being generous several times I’ve only gotten 3-4 strokes, strokes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:28 AM
51

I'm 100% certain the male ego revolves around conquering. It's just like how men say they don't like high maintenance women or gold diggers, but only go after those women instead of girls who are in the same field as them. If they trick you into dating them they think "see no woman can resist me I'm the man, they do whatever I want" blah blah blah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:10 AM
49

Yeppp lol they're thoroughy convinced they can change someone's mind and morals for 3 minutes of missionary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:16 PM
80

It's okay it's not your fault that they're masters at hiding who they really are. I had a guy pretty much love bomb me, tell me I'm way too beautiful for one night stands/the perfect woman/the man before him must have been an idiot, etc. After he tried to get it in a month in and I denied it bc I told him I need to be in a relationship to have sex (which he knew bc I told him several times before), he blocked me on all social media and everything that same night lmao. The best thing is that they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:01 PM
14

I literally laughed out loud while reading his caption, and lost it at "this massive criteria that black women don't want". So not wanting a man who has 4 baby mamas and a criminal record with no job experience is asking for too much??? The bar isn't in hell, there isn't even one at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:06 AM
12

I don't know what's worse, the fact that he probably (definitely) already cheated on her, or that he thinks he can ask for permission to be a total degenerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:07 PM
6

That makes sense. I just wish they weren't so adamant on acting just like guy's in their 20's who sometimes don't want to make you projectile vomit when they say those kinds of things cause it's kind of expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:53 PM
8

The part about complaining about their crazy ex always makes me see red. It's like that saying "they never notice what they're doing to you, only how you react to it" or something along those lines. Mediocre men really have the highest self esteem and believe that they're a gift to the world - it's both interesting and nauseating. Also in the middle of Why Men Love Bitches and I feel like my third eye is being opened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:41 PM
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