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Main thing is your perspective on cold approach. Imo, you should build a habit of talking to everybody. Not just women. Kickstart a convo with thoughts that fill your inner monologue when you meet them. Lightweight topics of course. Go from there and don’t overthink seduction tips when you are talking to women. Situations will occur everywhere and you won’t need to stop people when they are clearly busy. Also, you can gradually build up courage to project an intent. No pressure on your side. It …
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:49 PM
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Well you’ll need to cold approach either way. If you really are talkative guy then you’ll enjoy talking to strangers. Point is to talk to everybody.
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:56 PM
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I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately and I’m still not sure how to calibrate on that. It seems that sometimes I go too much into prize mode or maybe my mind just plays tricks on me. One line stood up with me though - “You’re the boss and let your girl be your secretary.”
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:06 PM
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It's crazy what hip hop culture has done to some women's mind. They are trying to project that macho character to world while still wanting to settle down. Results are obviously bad, because you attract what you portray and deep down a lot of them don't want that. That's why you see Cardi changing her POV so much - once she's like all men cheat and next second she's like how dare you cheat on me. Considering hip hop is THE genre of younger generations a lot of women will inherit that behavior.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:00 AM
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That's going through my mind for some time now. I know a lot of couples (40-60 years old) who are still together but I know that A LOT of them have affairs down the relationship road. But then again, am I capable of spending my life with one women if the opportunity arise ? Yes. Am I capable of having sex with only one women until this day on ? 20 years old version of me while in relationship with first gf, would say yes. Now after spending aprox. 5 years single and spinning plates I see no way …
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:13 PM
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Agree. Almost all my lays come from Instagram, it's actually the only reason I'm still using it lol.
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:04 AM
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Keep in mind though; there's a small amount of satisfaction in doing only ONS. You should still keep plates around yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 08:48 PM
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A few months later I learned the secrets of Hinge and began slaying pussy like it was my job. I felt good about myself. I became addicted to closing on girls and going on dates. If I didn't have any hinge matches, I felt like a loser. If I didn't have a plate or 2, I felt like I wasn't worthy anymore. My validation methods were still broken. I'm stuck in this phase for one year now and I don't like it. What the hell can I do ? It feels like I want to have plates all the time and can't bring my s…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 11:22 AM
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Thank you very much for that. Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:36 PM
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It's weird how it works, you need to put the energy and traits out there that you want to attract. That's was on my mind too. Maybe my mysterious way of presenting myself is blocking me from making deeper connections to people.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:43 AM
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My goal was never a wife/marriage, but I do strive for balanced relationship in the future because spinning plates is not a long term goal for me. Not the ulitmate goal in life, but regarding women yes. The "problem" for me is that none so far has gave me the pleasure to stay in touch with them for longer period of time, because I recognize negative sides of their character maybe to much which pushes my desire away quickly.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:16 AM
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no one woman will ever check all the boxes you are looking for--she would be a unicorn if she did Yeah that could very well be my problem - looking for that women too much, instead of enjoying and exploring positive sides of ones that are part of my life right now.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:39 AM
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People will ghost, I do too (M). It's much easier to bounce back to ghosted person when u don't end anything officially. It's pattern of life, not only in seduction. Embrace it and play along.
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:38 AM
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It's proven that you can manipulate your subconsciousness with conscious actions. Few tricks you can do; smile for 1 minute straight, stand in winner pose for 1 minute and tell yourself that you are good enough. You don't need to understand all the logic behind it, it'll translate in mental masturbation, which you are already doing with reading all the articles possible without taking actions. It seems that you make negative first impressions of people that you hardly speak to. Stop focusing on …
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:00 AM
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My man, don't take dramatization of OP seriously, it's never too late. What's your story with inner game? You should spend at least 10 minutes a day saying good stuff about yourself - preferably stand infront of your mirror while doing it. Tell yourself that you are THE man and that you can contribute some value to anybody. You don't need to say exactly the same words, find the ones that make you feel special or confident. There surely are some. Then practice "Fuck It" exercise too, you can find…
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:29 PM
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That's only temporary solution, until you switch to LTR.
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:18 PM
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Actually, I had all these dates on monday and wanted to set another one for the weekend. I guess I'll just wait more from now on, to make less pressure on her
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:50 PM
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Never thought about that, thank you. So when should I contact them about next date? Also, I'm really leaning toward option that I don't present my life well enough to them. Should I tell them about my successful time in job and sport or wait with that for later dates?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:00 PM
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I'm aware of IDGAF attitude and trying to implement it. I was raised in a small town and taught to say 'Hi' to people. I do that, but after that, my mind goes blind and I can't come up with things to say. I'm coming up with the idea, that my problem is not living in the present moment. So far I haven't been able to find a solution for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 02:54 PM
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Til the age of 16 I couldn't even get into a supermarket alone, because I didn't know what to say to the cashier. How did you overcome this "what to say" problem? I think I'm in a very similar situation right now, as I was always a more quiet guy. ​
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 08:58 AM
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