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I know that having some form of distraction like netflix on is common and just a way to lighten up the atmosphere, I just want to make it clear that "watching Netflix" is not the date.
/r/seduction24/10/19 12:26 PM
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I would never assume anything is guaranteed, and I also would also be careful about chad's advice. I wouldn't put netflix on during a date--she'll probably think that's all you do. I would be careful about touching her thigh unless you are sure she is into it--and just letting you into her place isn't enough imo. By all means if you are going into her place, put your hand on the small of her back to lead her in, or find some other way to discreetly touch her and see her reaction. She should defi…
/r/seduction24/10/19 12:07 PM
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exactly, just because she likes to smoke, doesn't mean she necessarily wants to smoke on a first date with a guy she doesn't even know. I wouldn't light up the joint either, I would just wait and see how it is going, and if you are getting along well ask her if she wants to light up.
/r/seduction24/10/19 12:03 PM
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exactly! People just probably assume she hears 1000 guys a day telling her how good she looks. But she also does spend a lot of time every morning making herself look that good. She could EASILY just put her hair up in a messy bun, splash some water on her face and dry it off, and leave, and she would still look better than 95% of the girls out there. So if she spends 20 mins in front of the mirror, she probably does it because she likes to look as good as possible, so she probably doesn't mind …
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:21 AM
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This is surprising to hear--I dated a girl once who was like 99th percentile hot, really just gorgeous in every way, and she told me that she hardly ever gets complements. Staring and stuff, yes, but not actual spoken compliments.
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:27 AM
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Just wanna say the hair pulled back in a messy bun or ponytail is sexier to me than most other hairstyles. I love when a lock hangs out too, or a bit falls out and curls behind your ear.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:50 AM
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you're a tool
/r/seduction15/10/19 11:12 AM
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tbh I shake my head at a lot of the stuff I read in this sub. I just picture a bunch of eternally single dudes who are so full of themselves and waiting for the perfect goddess to fall at their feet. Not you, just in general.
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:41 PM
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Joe?
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:58 PM
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You are right I have no experience with tinder or any dating app. Fair enough. I do still believe that human emotions and attraction work the same as they did 15 years ago, and 150 years ago, and 1,500 years ago, etc but just different forms of expression and protocols. Anyway just hope I never need to worry about this—sounds all very complicated.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:21 PM
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Male, married for 10 years, am here because if you ever stop trying to seduce your partner you are a shitty partner (and have never cheated). I am not saying you should enable that behavior, but just don’t burn the bridge in case the excuse was legitimate. This is assuming you actually do want this person. If not then of course just let them drift away. If they are really uninterested they won’t answer anyway, and if they do, you know they are yours.
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:52 PM
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Again, not begging. Definitely not even asking her out again after this flake. Just letting her know you aren’t mad, you find her attractive, and if she wants to set up another date you would be willing. That’s it. But you guys go on playing your own little games and wondering why you are still single.
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:28 PM
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good luck man
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:01 PM
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I think it's fine, but I would not have said "if you are not busy". Everyone is busy. If she is interested in you, she will make time, and let you know a time to come by when she has a couple minutes. It's not like she has your car keys or something--you can wait a couple days to get your sweater, so if it were me, I would have just said "I'll just come by real quick and get that sweater if that's ok, just let me know what time is good for you. Look forward to seeing you again, you've been on my…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:55 PM
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ok, thanks for the insight on this. If you wanna talk about this again just hit me up.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:48 PM
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but you don't know if it is a blowoff excuse or if she actually meant it. If you don't respond at all, you will never see her again. But if you just let her know you would be willing to meet her again, you have a non-zero chance that she will actually want to see you and get back to you.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:43 PM
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No not automatically. Let her give you the time to come by, and she should at least have a few minutes to talk with you. I wouldn't expect her to let you in on a Tuesday afternoon or whatever necessarily. But if she is interested in seeing you again, she will probably have made herself look nice, probably smile when she sees you, and yeah, at least give you a minute of her time. If she doesn't want you to come by her place, I don't think it is a good sign. All that said, I don't get what you are…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:41 PM
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of course it is ok if she doesn't want to--but I'm sayin just let her know you are still available if she does still have any interest. I think it is better to let someone know you aren't bothered by being left alone, rather than saying well if she canceled she obviously doesn't want me.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:35 PM
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just because she wasn't in town doesn't mean you can't just text her that you were still thinking about saturday night or something, or that you are on her mind. You don't always have to play it so super cool that you hit it 3 times and then act like it was nothing.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:34 PM
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i don't get what you are saying. If a girl flakes out and gives a really stupid excuse, and you still want to see her, I don't see the issue with letting her know that you'd like to see her--it's better than not responding and letting her think you are pissed about it. If she is not interested, you'll never hear from her again. If it was an actual excuse and she is, she will know you aren't mad and can try it again.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:33 PM
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why? what do you lose?
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:28 PM
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why did you wait 3 days to text her after sleeping with her and you like her? I swear this is so stupid.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:27 PM
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I would totally ask if it is ok to just come by and get it. What is the problem? If you literally fucked her 3 times in her place, you are not really stepping over any boundries by trying to come to her place. Whether she lets you in is another story, which would totally be the clue on whether she ever wants to see you again. If she said you cannot come by, I would actually take it as a sign that either she really didn't like sleeping with you, or she has a boyfriend or something--I cannot think…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:26 PM
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I am super old fashioned, but even in that case I think I would tell her that I find her attractive and would like to get to meet her some time if she is still interested. She could let that go unanswered and then you would know that it is really a bullshit excuse, or she could reconsider and give you another chance. Who knows--maybe she has a really muddy dog and a brand new carpet or something. I certainly wouldn't beg for another date, but just letting her know you would be interested doesn't…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:22 PM
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I think you're wrong--girls absolutely will reach out to (or "chase") a guy they are attracted to. They don't just sit around thinking they want you and wish that you would call, and if you don't just say oh well and move on to the next guy. Some of the best relationships I've had, I've met a girl, talked with her, gave her a way to contact me, and said I'd like to hear from her, and sure enough, she will call.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:10 PM
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he's not saying you want to marry the flake, but you can take it to pound town and then still get out..gotta keep those doors open.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:08 PM
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exactly, it is so stupid to say it is best to just not respond to a girl you are interested in. The shit you mentioned, text bombing etc is of course not what you want to do in any situation, but I don't know of any situation where it is best to just not respond at all to a text.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:07 PM
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nope, actually I have wanted to do it for years, and like I said, totally would if someone approached me, but I actually don't find men attractive. I have tried and just don't. Think about it whatever you want, I don't give a shit, just saying, i would give it a try if I had the chance staring me in the face.
/r/seduction09/10/19 11:27 AM
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I didn't say I'm not. I'm not, but I honestly don't give a shit if you think I am. I've never done it, but would try it. If that makes you think something about me, fine.
/r/seduction09/10/19 11:26 AM
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I dunno, I’ve never done it. But I’d try it.
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:52 PM
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Oh no how will I ever recover from this ?
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:52 PM
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Does it fuckin matter?
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:52 PM
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I have been going to the gym for 15 years and never been hit on. I am 99% sure I’d suck a dude’s dick if he asked.
/r/seduction08/10/19 03:55 PM
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