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| 0 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.What people think and what they actually do are not the same. If you poll people asking if they should text and drive and you poll people asking if they have texted and driven anywhere. Those are 2 completely different questions. And you cannot (inherently) use one in substitute of the other. None of the data speaks on true willingness (or even if they have done it), just their opinions on what people should do. If everyone thinks you should study before a test that doesn’t necessarily correlate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreWho is this the “they” here? You’re presenting this with an already assumed undefined group. Like there is homogenous group of bigger woman or there is a homogeneous group of men. For the people with complaints of “the people I want aren’t choosing me in the ways I want to be chosen” yea they may benefit from a self evaluation of their expectations. But if they are content with waiting it out I don’t see why they should change anything, if you know you won’t be satisfied with “less” and don’t mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreIm also in better shape than 99% of people here. I don’t understand this lol. Like why does it matter if someone is seeking things out of their “budget”. Unless they’re constantly complaining about fit muscular men not liking them back I feel like it’s no big deal tbh. You can like what you want and deal with singleness until you get it if that’s what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreIm also in better shape than 99% of people here. I don’t understand this lol. Like why does it matter if someone is seeking things out of their “budget”. Unless they’re constantly complaining about fit muscular men not liking them back I feel like it’s no big deal tbh. You can like what you want and deal with singleness until you get it if that’s what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingBelieving 10% of 18-24 year old American woman have only fans account is silly. Google isn’t a source. There are only about 11-12 million women that age range total There isn’t official data regarding only fans true user count as it’s a private entity and it’s parent company only has to disclose financials not user counts to my knowledge. There’s so much misinformation people literally just make up numbers to fuel gender wars. The Washington Examiner assumed 2 million and assumed 70% of those 2 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.I guess that’s how you feel idk why you’re so fixated on dinner but have a nice day lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 01:23 AM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.I’m not saying that’s inherently gold digging, I never even implied that. But if you have sex with men just because they buy you dinners, dinners could be “gold” to you. I don’t think women expecting dinner dates is gold digging, I don’t even think women expecting houses or cars is inherently gold digging. What does gold digging mean to you? And what did you think you I think gold digging is? To me it’s engaging in sexual or romantic activity, to achieve some resource (whatever you consider a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Some of them would 🤷🏿♂️. There are tens of millions of poor women in the US. I’m sure a few hundred thousand of them have probably done questionable sexual acts for very little money and stuff as simple as dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Yes they will? People steal items that cost a few dollars. People will risk going to jail or public embarrassment for less than 15 mins the average American’s wage. There are millions of poor women in the US for whom 80k is more than anyone in their proximity makes and that’s “gold” to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:13 PM |
| 5 | It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers.That’s so silly lol. Just because someone is voicing an opinion doesn’t mean they’re speaking for you on a forum? How does that even make sense? And the ones who aren’t commenting aren’t the ones complaining obviously. There is a very clear level of hypocrisy then, if there’s an expectation of others to do what you won’t 🤷🏿♂️. In your eyes do you feel like you’re accomplishing what you want to accomplish on here? And do you think men who are speaking out against women don’t feel the same way? T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 07:11 PM |
| 7 | It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers.I mean that’s human nature. Like most probably people aren’t going out of there way to defend groups that aren’t them. And being real with karma being hidden until much later it’s hard to know how popular opinions are on here unless you’re coming back to old threads which I’m not sure how common that is. You post quite a bit and I’ve never seen you post in the defense of heuristics men use when making dating decisions. Only in the context in which those heuristics are “invalid” or why a woman wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers.There definitely are different opinions on a spectrum especially from spectators. I rarely agree with top voted comments here especially from men. And I think you raise interesting points at times even if I don’t necessarily degree with the conclusions drawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:22 PM |
| 9 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)I don’t get how that’s relevant to what she’s saying. Most cheaters aren’t sociopaths. Most bad men who are also bad partners also aren’t sociopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 05:09 AM |
| 0 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.I put all of the graphs that talk about sex together Can you show me where they talk about what they actually do, not what they would do? Explicitly where they say they “don’t do it” in none of these do they actually say they don’t do it. They just say they don’t think it’s acceptable. People do things they themselves consider unacceptable all of the time. You’re saying most people don’t have sexual relations outside relationships the majority of the time and none of the data shown here says tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:27 PM |
| 0 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.Can you show me the bar graph sorry I missed it, which one was it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:14 PM |
| 2 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.I don’t know if either of those documents said that unless I was missing something. Saying something is unacceptable and not engaging in that behavior aren’t at all the same thing. Did I miss a part where individuals said they didn’t it or just that it’s not “good”. Like texting and driving polls very very poorly but that’s not directly correlated with people not engaging in that behavior. Is there a portion of the document that says most people don’t have sex before relationships or just that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.How do you know it’s not the majority. I’m not saying it is, or isn’t. I’m just curious how you definitively know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.Maybe maybe not. But it’s also not fair to dismiss them as clickbait 🤷🏿♂️. A lot of racist in the world and a lot like to voice their true opinions. Dismissing them as clickbait even if they’re not necessarily representative of the “majority thought” of a specific group is a little silly imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategySome men can if they got it like that, the vast majority can’t 🤷🏿♂️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps?Hinge in the US is designed for you to send messages to anyone you want to match with and Bumble you kinda can too (to a lesser extent last I checked). And those are 2 of the biggest apps in the US outside of Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:49 AM |
| 6 | The arguments on here are so circularHmm maybe not with the specific terminology, but people definitely have conversations similar to those here in real life especially young adults, at least in America. Are they common or dominate conversations, probably not but a substantial portion of young adults discuss similar things on occasion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?On this subreddit , I’m sure most women won’t care. In America, I think a very large portion if not the majority of women care. I think a lot of people here are in very queer circles, and that may skew their opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | There is no dating app dataSure, but I think there’s a disconnect with some of talking points here. I think there is an idea that a lot of people are settling to be in relationships which can be true depending on how you think about. I do think a lot of men here believe women are only with the men they with because the men they truly want didn’t want to be in a relationship with them. Like if you had complete access to all of the people you find attractive in a vacuum would you have picked your current partner out of that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 01:07 PM |
| 3 | In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct category[If you assume it’s true] I mean in the literal key example the guy was someone who a woman thought husband material and he was pretty mad about being referred as such🤷🏿♂️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:18 PM |
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