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Thats actually harder to answer than i thought. Guys here have a way to very precisely point out weaknesses and bullshit, and that has helped me tremendously. I think that is still true in my case, and I am sure there are plenty of layers to peel.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 09:30 PM
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Yes, apathetic is the word. Almost as if my mind don’t know what to do if there is not an obvious issue that needs fixing. I think you are spot on, i need to learn how to enjoy the good stuff. Very appreciated, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 09:24 PM
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If you can’t stop eating and shave on time, why would you have success with anything else? Some very low hanging fruit with no reason to not do.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 03:07 PM
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Because at the beginning of the year my wife wouldnt fuck me, i was miserable and pathetic. My life has made a 180 since discovering this place.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 12:41 PM
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It certainly is mental masturbation. Yes I am fucking, which is probably why i mentally masturbate. Fucking my wife is fun and all but not the purpouse of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 12:29 PM
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OYS #14 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 84kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 110 kg x 5, Bench: 72,5 kg x 5, DL: 152,5 kg x5, OHP: 47,5kg x 5 Vision: Be a man who lives authentically, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who doesn’t give a fuck about norms and expectations Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Overcome fear. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method.…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 11:03 AM
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Pretty much, said i lost inspiration and its not really clicking. Resumed shortly after with a completely different energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 07:59 PM
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Fair point on not shitting where you eat. Weird thing is i didn’t really care although i by all means should. Yes sex improved without any blow back. Could very well be oneitis dying of, with a lingering feeling of emptyness in its place.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 02:05 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 84kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 110 kg x 5, Bench: 72,5 kg x 5, DL: 152,5 kg x5, OHP: 47,5kg x 5 Vision: Be a man who lives authentically, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who doesn’t give a fuck about norms and expectations Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Overcome fear. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method.…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 08:57 AM
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Made me laugh. Language of the opressor innit?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 05:43 AM
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To be honest i haven’t checked out any youtube content. Will do. As you and previous comment pointed out, it’s supposed to be fun and i forgot that part. Cheers bro
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 05:41 AM
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Another blind spot revealed. Thanks, will give that a read.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 05:33 AM
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OYS #12 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 83,5kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 107,5 kg x 5, Bench: 69,5 kg x 5, DL: 147,5 kg x5, OHP: 47kg x 5 Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Overcome fear. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method. …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 03:06 PM
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Sounds very familiar. Will give Horns posts a re-read, i wasn’t really there yet when i read them last time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 05:25 AM
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OYS #11 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 83,5kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 107,5 kg x 5, Bench: 68,5 kg x 5, DL: 145 kg x5, OHP: 46,5kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: No relevant max test 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Overcome fear. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 02:14 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. After all i go out of my way to expose myself to risk taking (extreme sports) in order to feel that rush, and really enjoy it. Should be applicable here aswell.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 05:42 AM
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OYS #10 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 82kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 105 kg x 5, Bench: 68 kg x 5, DL: 145 kg x5, OHP: 46,5kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: No relevant max test 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Overcome fear. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paus…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 11:37 AM
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I used to have a drinking problem before i found MRP. I now drink on occasion and 1-3 drinks on those occasions. What worked for me was to first take a month with no drinking at all, zilch, and then schedule gym sessions in the mornings so there is no room for being hungover. Learn to value the benefits of being sober and the choice not to drink becomes easy. If you can’t do the above, then professional help. You won’t make any progress if you don’t sort this out.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/24 04:58 AM
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Yup realized that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:55 AM
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Would disagree on the belt. If that made him add 5kgs to the bar who cares if he looks like a knobhead? I don’t think belt, chalk etc is something you have to earn. Take lifting seriously as a beginner and its going to be more fun and therefore get done.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 06:09 AM
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April
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 07:03 PM
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Can’t argue with that. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 06:23 PM
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-Today is your lucky day Haha, I think we both know that as for now it's a me problem not a wife problem. I am going to learn how to not suck before i swap wife or go solo. -Poor wife, got blueballed. Obvious now that you point that out innit?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:38 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 82kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 105 kg x 5, Bench: 67,5kg x 5, DL: 142,5 kg x5, OHP: 46kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: No relevant max test 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 10:14 AM
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Full speed ahead then, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 09:17 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 83kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 105 kg x 5, Bench: 67,5kg x 5, DL: 142,5 kg x5, OHP: 45,5kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: No relevant max test 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 09:18 AM
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Wasn’t exactly consious but suppose i thought of it as a very minor alteration to our schedules.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 07:38 PM
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Good rule of thumb, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 04:10 AM
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Were I to have been upfront about it i think it would have gone down differently.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 04:09 AM
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No doubt i deserved it. Normally i would have caved since logically shes right. Its refreshing not feeling the need to make sense all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 03:41 PM
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How hard do you climb? From your stats i would say you could probably even improve your climbing by liftning more and packing on muscle and gaining general strength and explosiveness. There is a weight trade off, but you are very small and i don’t think another 5kgs would hurt your climbing unless you are elite. If you are worried about weight shoot for a lower bodyfat instead. Climbing is dope but besides killer forearms it won’t get you a more fuckable physique.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 01:47 PM
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Way less with my close friends, but even then to some extent. I attribute it to me being comfortable being silent in company of good friends, but not so with newer aquintances.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 11:05 AM
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OYS #7 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 83kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 102,5 kg x 5, Bench: 66,5kg x 5, DL: 140 kg x5, OHP: 45kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: 70kg 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaions. Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 09:11 AM
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Appreciate the links. Yes you are right, suppose that it is an either or scenario. Ill focus on 80kg bench and then decide if to cut or push for a higher total.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/24 11:41 AM
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Fair point, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 04:15 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 83kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 102,5 kg x 5, Bench: 66kg x 5, DL: 140 kg x5, OHP: 45kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: 70kg 1 RM DL: 160kg Vision: Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaions. Mission: Create a physique that I am proud of, learn game and cultivate my passions. Start preparing for exit out of the hamster wheel. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 09:19 AM
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Ha, so i unknowingly actually played some good game? I have a lot to learn. Last paragraph, that would be the oak i see mentioned a lot in old posts?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 06:15 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. I am in no rush to be honest, and working on myself is so rewarding in itself that lately I am not that bothered if we fuck or not. It is kind of cute aswell to see her bothered by her own rejections.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 06:09 AM
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OYS #5 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 82kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 102,5 kg x 5, Bench: 65kg x 5, DL: 137,5 kg x5, OHP: 43,5kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: 70kg 1 RM DL: 160kg Mission: Taking my summer vacations to do som introspection and hammer this out. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method. Pook. Reading: How to be a stoic Lifting: Tested out 1RM Deadlift and pulled 160kgs. Very happy with that. Body st…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 10:52 AM
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I agree, and I am in search of a mission that is not women or their approval. I have a vague picture of where i would like my life to be in a couple of years, but it's not really a mission. For instance i wan't to escape the hamster wheel of working 9-5 (doable in a couple of years), spend a greater part of the year abroad and have enough time on my hands to really push my hobbies (outdoor activities, for now mostly climbing). All this in motion to materialize in a couple of years, but not reall…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 08:39 AM
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I do enjoy platonic relationships with women as well but you might be right, no escaping intersexual dynamics. Yes mission is very lacking. The main reason why i started OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 08:33 AM
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Yes i found it very helpful to brace correctly and translating that into maximum power.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 02:15 PM
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Well you are quite tall as well. Can be an akward movement for us lanky blokes. I really benefited from alternating front and back squats and using a belt. Leg press might be a good supplement aswell to really push it. I am no lifting expert though so other people might have better advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 11:52 AM
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Well you are quite tall as well. Can be an akward movement for us lanky blokes. I really benefited from alternating front and back squats and using a belt. Leg press might be a good supplement aswell to really push it. I am no lifting expert though so other people might have better advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 11:40 AM
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I don't want to be a dick but i can't really make sense of your physical stats. You are 90kgs, 15% bf and cant't squat more than 60 kgs?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 11:25 AM
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Yup, it's defenitely a mental model i wan't to escape. Quiting porn certanly helped but still quite a way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 11:22 AM
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Around 4 seconds. Nil if i am past a certain point of arousal.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 09:53 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 82kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 100 kg x 5, Bench: 64kg x 5, DL: 137,5 kg x5, OHP: 43kg x 5 1 RM SQ: 120kg 1 RM BP: 70kg 1 RM DL: ? Mission: Work in progress. Be physically and mentally strong and have fun along the way. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method. Pook. Reading: How to be a stoic Lifting: Lifting is going great. Tested 1 RM on Squat and Bench. Bench is weak bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 09:08 AM
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Yes, as Dr Glover put it, an attractive man is someone who is comfortable in his own skin and knows where he is going. It resonates a lot with me and i defenitely look beyond the sidebar aswell in terms of self improvement and philosophy. I can se the place for canned materials, especially for a newb as myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 04:03 PM
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Because i find it helpful with internalising OI and other concepts. As for approaches Mystery Method enfatisize getting over approach anxiety basically by just doing a lot and also how you can use canned material as a crutch. I agree with the former doubtful about the latter.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 02:17 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 82kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 100 kg x 5, Bench: 63,5kg x 5, DL: 137,5 kg x5, OHP: 43kg x 5 Mission: Work in progress. Be physically and mentally strong and have fun along the way. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method. Pook. Reading: How to be a stoic Lifting: Two ordinary sessions at the gym and one improvised kettlebell session since i was on the road for a couple of…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 09:32 AM
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Solid, and no way around being uncomfortable. By plausible deniability i meant in respect to my wife. Sounds ridiculous and ungrounded typing it out, i mean what are the odds really to be hitting on someone that knows my wife or that we would run into again as a couple?. Also no risk, no reward.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 08:33 AM
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Sounds so simple put like that. Ill stop making excuses.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:48 AM
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Less thinking more doing. Stick to basics, got it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:47 AM
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Fuck, you are right.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:45 AM
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I agree and that i don’t mind at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 11:25 AM
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OYS #2 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 81kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 97,5kg x 5, Bench: 63kg x 5, DL: 137,5 kg x5, OHP: 43kg x 5 Mission: Work in progress. Be physically and mentally strong and have fun along the way. Read: NMMNG x 2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM (30% paused), Subtle art of not giving a fuck, Mystery Method. Reading: How to be a stoic Lifting: Lifted three times last week which is according to my routine. Increased in deadlift. Did not manage to increase bench…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 09:07 AM
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Similar to my experience, Ill keep in mind to control my breathing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 04:21 AM
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Thats a lot of wanking. Worth giving a go, thanks! I might actually struggle more with logistics for this practice than to bang my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 04:20 AM
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Much appreciated advice. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 04:22 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 30, 5 Year LTR (Married), No kids, 187 cm, 81kg, BF 15% (strongur) Lifts: Squat: 97,5kg x 5, Bench: 63kg x 5, DL: 135 kg x5, OHP: 43kg x 5 Background: 5 year LTR living in Europe. First 3 – 4 years we had a great sexlife and had a lot of fun together. About a year ago started to transition into a dead bedroom. Spent a couple of months in dispair and stumbled across MRP. Spent the past 6 months lifting and reading with a lot of progress. Bulked up 10 KGs, quit porn and tobacco, cut …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 08:57 AM
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