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| 1 | Desperate for help with an unfaithful partnerI don't act the same way in person as I do online. We're two brains speaking across the ether. There is no reason for me to be sweet to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Desperate for help with an unfaithful partnerI was under the impression that saying people are responsible for their own lives and their own success was a red pill attitude. I was under the impression that saying people are special snowflake victims of society was a blue pill attitude. Apparently I was wrong. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/17 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Desperate for help with an unfaithful partnerThis is RPW, not TRP. It is a different forum with a different demographic, different values and different goals. You seem to have forgotten that. I believe there is a sidebar guide for male posters which spells it out. No, you are wrong. The guy just loves to fuck and be adored by women. That is not morally wrong or evil, his problem is that he is trying to live a double life and have it both ways In civilised societies, infidelity is considered morally wrong and cruel. So is lying. It takes a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/17 01:00 AM |
| 12 | Desperate for help with an unfaithful partnerSorry, but this is a load of shit. This guy isn't a liar and a cheat because he's so attractive. He's a liar and a cheat because he's a liar and a cheat. The only reason he can't stop himself is because he has no backbone, conscience, empathy or personal responsibility. It's an impulse control and morality issue, not an attractiveness issue. By saying "oh this is just what sexy men are like", you are doing OP a massive disservice. It's not a risk that comes with dating hot guys, it's a risk that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/17 12:15 AM |
| 10 | Desperate for help with an unfaithful partnerWe have a pretty darn traditional dynamic, and that's what really works for both of us. For the first 3-4 months we were together, he reserved the right to sleep with other women. He never did, but that issue was still there, and he certainly talked with other women. It made me feel awful, but I never put my foot down because I was afraid of losing him and I thought I could handle it. He told me he loved me after being together for 3 months, and he STILL reserved this right. PARDON? What traditi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/17 12:11 AM |
| 0 | EntitlementIs this concept actually new or surprising to any women on this forum? Genuine question, asking out of curiousity. To me this is a very long post about something very obvious and common sense, but I see it has been popular here. So I'm curious what sort of viewpoint women are arriving with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | EntitlementWhat i want to know, if theres some reading material out there, is A) what kind of things should i reasonably expect in return for caring and tending to my man and ensuring his health and comfort? can i have some examples? And B) How do i negotiate this stuff with a new partner? If you dont ask, you dont get, right? I recommend you read the website Baggage Reclaim. It's like a female version of TRP - blunt, straight talking, no sugar coating. It subscribes to the idea that your love life is your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/17 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Sexual Market Value Scale (For Women)I think vulnerability is vital when it comes to finding love. We fall in love when people reveal their real, imperfect selves to us. We don't fall in love with people who seem perfect all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?except redpill men don't care what women say. we pay attention to what women actually do. the two are usually very different. women view promiscuous men as high value because (1) it's difficult to be a promiscuous man without being very high value, and (2) women value social proof above all else... promiscuous men bleed social proof. If you don't care about what women say, why are you in a women's subreddit? It's not difficult to be a promiscuous man in the age of online dating, heavy drinking a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?the data says the opposite of this... male promiscuity is statistically irrelevant. the feminists on the UVA team specifically wanted to prove that either the CDC data about female promiscuity = high divorce rates is wrong, or at least males are subject to the same. they were shocked, and published anyways because it's a public university so it was coming out no matter what. you're projecting how males value women, and assuming the same factors apply for women valuing men. they don't. Can you ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?Well, that depends. Many people have an STD without showing symptoms, and many routine STD tests don't include herpes. Human relationships don't just run on statistics. Male promiscuity isn't neutral. It strongly suggests traits which run opposite to a good husband, as said in my prior comment. They're the opposite of the type of man family-oriented women look for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 01:26 AM |
| 0 | For the kinkier RPW, when did you show/tell your SO?I have had men try and outright bully me or try to blackmail me into things that I didn't want to do. Kinky sex actually seems to be the new normal. I agree with this. A lot of men seem to downright expect by default now that all women will enjoy being physically hurt, called derogatory names, sexually humiliated, choking and anal sex. Noooo thank you. BDSM is totally mainstream now. A lot of men seem to struggle with the idea that 'no I don't like that' doesn't mean 'persuade me'. I had an ex l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?Can't have your cake and eat it too. Can't have your plates and get them washed too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?I absolutely love /u/cynicalhousewife 's comments, they are a breath of fresh air. She's so straight talking and honest. Her comments add a lot to threads here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?What sensible woman wants to marry a man who can't keep it in his pants? Such a high risk of getting cheated on. He clearly has a wandering eye, too strong a need for variety/novelty-seeking, and problems with intimacy and commitment. Seems to me like a massive red flag for very negative personality traits. Like narcissism, manipulation, insecurity, being reliant on external validation of looks or status. There are certain men who are obsessive compulsive about getting hookups through Tinder - a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?It depends on the terms of the prenup. If it clearly puts the woman at an unwarranted disadvantage, obviously she is right to be skeptical. Personally I would want a prenup myself because I want to protect my own assets. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?To be fair someone who needs a lot of intellectual stimulation would be having just as hard of a time trapped working shitty unskilled/low-skilled jobs. Absolutely. I'd be much unhappier working in those jobs than being a housewife. Neither are ideal, but the latter is definitely better than the former. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Whats the next step after feeling like you're a quality RPW looking for a committed RPM?Honestly? I think women who are roughly in the middle to upper middle of the attractiveness scale have an advantage over beautiful women when it comes to finding a serious relationship. Beautiful women have to fend off a lot of insincere attention and filter a lot more. Upper-average women are more approachable and nobody thinks they're out of their league, and they're not pretty enough to draw attention from shallow men. I wouldn't be surprised if your looks are working against you in a funny w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 09:40 AM |
| 5 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?If it was Walmart, though, I assume she hated it and it was just for money? That sort of work is boring, stressful and definitely not the kind people do because they really want to. I can easily see how that would lead to more unhappiness and bringing her stress home. It's a tricky one. Children don't need much care as they get older but they still need support. In a sense, teenagers need their parents as much as younger kids do, because it's such a confusing time. But I don't like the idea of c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?To be honest, from my perspective I think that's a very good thing. I think people should be seen as innocent til proven guilty. Obviously people need to protect themselves financially (both genders; many women go into marriage with some form of wealth) and I think pre-nups should be default in countries where they're legal. But beginning a relationship or marriage on a basis of underlying distrust and suspicion is a cracked foundation that will doom it to fail. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 09:05 AM |
| 13 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?i just don't want her to be a fucking cunt who is going to divorce me and take my kids away. If you're thinking of it like this, don't get married. I don't mean "if you're worried about divorce don't get married". Get a pre-nup, pick a well chosen partner, do what you can to protect yourself financially and then be a good husband. But if you're going to have such obvious distrust and anger to women in general that you refer to your hypothetical wife as a "fucking cunt", don't get married. Maybe … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI have googled it. I posted something about that in reply to the-capitan. The thing is I don't need to rely on statistics alone to form my opinions, because I can also just look around at what I see in daily life, in reality around me. The people I know with divorced parents are not any more fucked up than the rest of us. Frankly if the worst thing they've gone through is parental divorce then they're much luckier than many of us. Every one of us has to carry some sort of burden through our live… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 08:39 AM |
| 2 | A Modern Feminist MarriageGiven the post is written by a third party who knows both of them, I doubt it is too biased. OP describes Barry very kindly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Sadie's Budgeting 101 ClassIf you say to yourself, "I'm 19, I don't have anything I need to be saving for," save anyway Quite the opposite, a 19 year old has everything to be saving for. To pay for their education, a car, saving for a house deposit, hell even their future wedding, whatever. And for fun, life enriching things in the short term like travelling. And everyone should always have an emergency fund, no matter their age. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 09:04 PM |
| 15 | Interesting Article: Do Millennial Men Want Stay-at-Home Wives?Well, it's not financially viable for most couples/families to survive on a single income, so I would imagine not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI already have, in reply to one of your comments: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/62ligq/comment/dfns5fo So has the OP, several times. Go read her comments through the thread, in reply to you and other people. One of the important details she mentions in a reply or two is that Lucy makes her own money. She isn't a financial freeloader on her husband who doesn't know how good she has it. It seems to me like you are nitpicking and twisting details in this in order to paint Lucy as a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI think you forgot to put your glasses on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 04:57 PM |
| 3 | SOS- Help with my LTRlmao this is what I was thinking. There is a whole lot of "suuuuure that happened" with the sexual stories this type of man tells. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | A Modern Feminist MarriageWhat are these crazy comments? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 02:58 PM |
| 1 | A Modern Feminist MarriageSorry, but if divorce is the worst thing that ever happened to anybody in childhood, they have led an unbelievably privileged life. If someone is married to somebody with an addiction, a gambling problem, is abusive or unfaithful, then no, of course they shouldn't stay and make it work. if you're getting married for any other reason other than raising an atomic family, you're either a female looking to lock down a beta provider, or you're doing it wrong. Some people are capable of love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 07:56 AM |
| 2 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI just don't believe that at all, sorry. I don't see crowds of walking (mentally) wounded in the streets who are the products of divorce. People who cannot function and are all messed up and miserable because their parents split up. Yes, it is an unhappy thing to go through, but in the grand scheme of things it is one of the mildest unhappinesses that can happen. Abuse or bereavement in childhood are much worse for example, and those aren't rare. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 07:48 AM |
| 11 | SOS- Help with my LTRI don’t think I can get over his desire for threesomes. He has had them in the past and he says that he is fulfilling a primal instinct- he 'prefers to have 5 women at once, but he would be happy with just me and occasionally bringing in a woman he is not emotionally attached to'. But I can’t seem to get on board with this. It’s preventing me from being completely vulnerable with him- and he said he obviously wants my vulnerability. Oh, gross. He says he wants to have threesomes, even though he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 12:31 AM |
| 5 | A Modern Feminist Marriagegiving up on marriage measurably and irreparably destroys your childrens' lives. suck it up and work it out. anyone who doesn't is giving their kids a shitty example of how when shit gets tough, they walk the fuck away -- that's a solid recipe for failure and underachievement in life. What a bizarre statement. I'm sorry, but if someone is so traumatised by their parents divorcing that they fail in life, they were a very weak person to begin with. Many of us go through far worse things than that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | A Few Things I'm PonderingWomen are encouraged to experiment and find themselves through sex. I think volunteering and being a service to others is a much better way, but that's just me I guess. Agreed! I think this world would be a better place if people saw it as what they could give rather than what they could get. Incidentally, do you know any men who do volunteer work? I'm curious. I know a lot of women who do it as a hobby (while working full time), but the only men I know who do it are those who are unemployed or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | A Few Things I'm PonderingAnyway does anyone else get people encouraging them to nag? I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and I try incredibly hard not to nag. I don't want to say I NEVER have but I can't think of an instance where I have. Why is it a popular, accepted thing for a woman to nag? I definitely haven't been myself, but have seen this implied to other people. I've been repeatedly advised not to nag by older women, completely unprompted, and without any reason to think this advice was relevant (na… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 07:41 PM |
| 13 | RPW approach to drug abuseHowever, his drug use (aka addiction to heroin) prevented him from living a "normal" lifestyle and when he is not clean, I can't help but think I deserve better. When he is using and in withdrawal, he is not the high-value man I want to marry and procreate with. The contrast between him being sober and in active addiction is very bold and unhealthy for the both of us. Yikes yikes yikes yikes. Don't ever get into a relationship with an addict. This never ends well. If you want to be with him, lea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 07:22 PM |
| 4 | A Modern Feminist MarriageThe next day we did the workshop for the all boys class - excitement was running rampant, fidgeting, calling out, touching things without asking. The boys had absolutely no boundaries. The difference was insane. Both groups were of ages 6-9. Maybe this is controversial, but I blame the parents for this. As a child, my parents would never have stood for that nonsense. (My parents only had daughters, so I can't compare across genders). I'm not a parent yet myself so perhaps I'm speaking out of tur… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 07:03 PM |
| 3 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI think the therapy has worked, to be honest. It taught her how to solve the problem... leave. Therapy for depression only really works if the depression is internal, but her depression is a very natural response to a very real external problem in her life. The way to change the feeling is to remove the problem. The way to remove the problem is for Barry to change. Barry won't change, because it doesn't suit him. So if she doesn't want to live in her current situation for the rest of her life, h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Both Thanks and a Question on Chattinessespecially since some of them make him feel really awkward sometimes (we have a large age gap, me 22 him 43, and so stories from when I was a kid make him feel weird). Well, frankly, if he didn't want to be with a 22 year old, he shouldn't have got into a relationship with a 22 year old. If he can't cope with the fact you were born in the 90s and him in the 70s, that's very strange. The age gap between you is old enough to legally drink, it seems like real denial of reality on his part for you t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 06:37 PM |
| 3 | A Modern Feminist MarriageWhen people talk about losing themselves in a relationship... that's what's happening to Lucy, here, and why she has such a strong need to leave. She can't both look after herself and look after Barry. Who she is as an individual, her own emotional life, etc, are all getting put to one side here, and that's no way for a human being to live. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 06:21 PM |
| 4 | A Modern Feminist MarriageI've been curious about men and responsibility lately. At my school, a lot of the men are very disorganized - forgetting meetings, waiting for the female colleagues to tell them what to do...same with my students, my girls are very organized and get their work done on time, my boy students need their mothers to tell them what to do and nag them into doing the work. I don't see too many examples of men being disciplined on their own accord instead of waiting for a woman (whether it's a mother or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 06:04 PM |
| 11 | A Modern Feminist MarriageBarry sounds like the kind of husband who really drives a woman to antidepressants. For me personally, I would rather be unmarried for the rest of my life than to be married to someone like him. Others may be different, but I sympathise with Lucy completely, because Barry would make me miserable too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Best makeup channel everI really like Patricia Bright's videos. She has a lot of lifestyle, family, relationship and career themed videos as well as makeup and style. I love her look, though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/17 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Please help. I'm not attracted to my husband anymore.I think this is above the internet's pay grade. I think you should consider finding a sympathetic/like-minded couple's counsellor. Can I ask, is your husband overweight? Has he let himself go physically? I get the feeling from your post that he has, and that's a factor in your lack of attraction too. It's very clear that BDSM is not something he wants to do. Personally, I think one person in a couple not wanting to do a particular sex act is reason enough not to do it altogether. You've seen tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Why are you RPW?I understand your point now, but why is it offensive? If someone told me I was intelligent in an American way, I would take it to mean a diligent work ethic and business prowess. If someone told me I was feminine in an Asian way, I would take it to mean a delicate grace. Why is this insulting? Why is being feminine insulting? It's another philosophy here that femininity isn't weak or inferior to masculinity. It's a complement, as you said. So why is it insulting to be "___ in a feminine way"? Yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Bruce Bryan & the "Sunken Cost" FallacyReminds me of the quote "you have to learn to get up from the table when love's no longer being served." This is a brilliant, compassionate post and so true. My current SO is wonderful but I've experienced this problem in both my two previous relationships. I was very unhappy but it never occurred to me to leave - I kept trying my best til the end, because I felt I had a responsibility to. Not sure if I regret it or not. Staying too long was a waste of my time and caused me pain, but I did it ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are you RPW?Your comments are at times contradictory - you say you want a Yin yang complement, yet when I suggest Yin yang as a feminine/masculine complement (because that's what it is, I'm of an Asian culture), it's "insulting." I have a very difficult time understanding what your points really are. I don't think we're actually disagreeing, I think this is a matter of semantics and using different wording to talk about the same ideas. I know Yin and yang is masculine and feminine and that's what I mean. Wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 12:54 AM |
| 5 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityI know in some Asian countries wearing tights with skirts and dresses is quite the norm. It's certainly the norm here. I'm meaning to differentiate between tights and leggings, though I know in some countries the terms are used interchangeably so perhaps I should clarify. I mean tights as in these and by leggings I mean these. I think young looking details can be so pretty in moderation - the time when it goes wrong is only really when it's the whole outfit. So the Audrey example you mention is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are you RPW?Why are you hell bent on constantly misinterpreting me? I am here to take part, because I am interested and curious, please stop harassing me. I just replied to your comment in another thread about Audrey Hepburn saying something positive and I genuinely hesitated to post it because I'm not sure if you're going to reply to me accusing me of something else. Again, I think you're taking all this power dynamics to an extreme and I don't quite understand why. A lot of us are independent women who wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 12:22 AM |
| 3 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityIt's so funny because in the original book she's a prostitute. Yet in the film she's a perfect example of femininity. The duality of woman! I love Audrey Hepburn. Obviously her style was beautiful, but as a person, her integrity and philanthropy are really inspirational. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are you RPW?Again, I don't know where you're getting this idea from reading this sub. Are you reading TRP? A lot of what you're saying seems more male-centric RP instead of actual RPW. I have read both, and I've read a lot of Manosphere stuff. I have an interest in it in an anthropological sense as much as a personal sense. But forgive me: isn't RPW the apple that fell from the TRP tree? The name is the same. Men who post in TRP come and post watered down versions of the same ideas here, and seem to be welc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why are you RPW?Who says our worlds are revolving around our men? Well, some women's certainly do, RPW or not. I didn't name anyone in this community, or imply it was everyone in this community. It may not be anyone in this community, for all I know; I haven't been here long enough to say either way. But certainly there are plenty of women out there in the world in that situation. I just reread my comment and realise, now, which I realise I worded badly. I meant "I don't think it's healthy [for a person to do t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Why are you RPW?Marriage is a tricky issue because now you have choices. Back then, you didn't have a choice. If you didn't get along or weren't compatible, there was nothing you could do. Doesn't mean marriages were happy back then. Absolutely! I think of this all the time when I read RP stuff. I'm close enough with enough older people - born from the 1920s to the 1950s - to hear details of these longstanding marriages, and it's made me believe that every family probably has a few skeletons in the closet. So m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Why are you RPW?I'd rather be in a relationship where both people are in charge of themselves, but we choose to take care of each other, because we care. I don't like the idea of defining relationships in terms of power dynamics or hierarchies. The idea of one partner believing they are in power over the other isn't compatible with my personal idea of love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are you RPW?I find that no matter how hard I try, I can't build my life around others the way I see some folks on RPW. I don't think it's healthy. If you build your life around pleasing and keeping your man, what will you do if he dies or he leaves you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 08:42 PM |
| 14 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityTo add on to this post, I think it's important not just to think "dress/skirt = feminine" but to actually follow current fashion. Even ostensibly feminine pieces will look very unattractive if they're dated or mismatched. Part of looking feminine is developing a sense of aesthetics and taste. You don't need to look on trend, but need to know what looks dated. For example, wearing a dress or skirt with leggings - that should be great, right? Dresses and skirts are feminine, and men looove legging… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/17 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterInteresting post, but I just don't see that around me. I see a lot of people in relationships. They are, by and large, with a partner of roughly equal attractiveness. I just don't see this "20% or go home". I don't really see average men struggling either. Again, maybe this is a cultural difference - maybe the US is much more looks focused and it's a thing there. Who knows. But I don't see it here. As for the declining marriage rate of 90s babies... People born in 1991 are 26 right now. Anyone b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterThat's not really what I'm referring to here. Let's go with this as an example: particularly this stuff about low n-count at marriage, and marrying young to an older man - I think: is this what's going to maximise the woman's lifelong happiness? Or is it actually what's going to be of most benefit for the man? This of course depends on the people involved, love knows no age, etc etc etc. But when this is given as generic advice...Well. I don't believe that significantly older men are the men you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterThis to me IS Captain/First Mate dynamic. It's not about a man always telling you what to do. Big decisions involve two people. A good captain will listen to his first mate, consider her thoughts then "take the lead" (using your language). I think we're talking about two different things. I don't want some kind of boss and secretary dynamic. "Consider my thoughts" to me does sound more like the suggestions of a secretary. I don't want to defer to anyone. Plus, with the amount of aggression and i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?What are nerdy qualities, in your eyes? I still don't know how you're defining the word. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 09:14 PM |
| 2 | What are the things your captain does to make you feel protected/safe?haha I'm not sure we can compare bereavement, like, your loved one dying, caputz, an ending of life, to a shitty day at work lol :P You see, to me, there's absolutely a comparison. Hope this sheds some light on why it's important to women. For me, trust is something that's earned over time, over gradual escalation. Watching someone's actions in various situations be consistent over time, to get a good idea of their character. If a guy isn't able to be there for me with the small things, what ev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts for the weekI started wondering, is it even possible for women to have genuine friendships where competition and one-upping isn't a problem and we can all simply support and encourage one another? I worry about this too! It's a problem because I have a real desire for female companionship and connection in my life - but sometimes it seems like a friend who genuinely wants the best for you is hard to find. Sure, they're happy if you do well, but only as long as you're doing less well than they are. Funnily e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?I'm not sure if we're defining 'nerdy' the same way. How do you define 'nerdy' or 'geeky'? I have heard a lot of people using 'nerd' to mean any intelligent person with a strong interest in something (e.g. DIY nerd). I tend to think of it in the traditional dictionary definition sense, of an awkward person with a very particular set of interests. Things like anime or superhero movies. People who really define themselves as "fans". We just don't tend to click. As friends, either. I don't tend to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 10:16 AM |
| 3 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?They could be lying about not being shoplifters either, but I tend to trust them on that. I'm sorry you have such a low opinion of your own gender. You're not going to convert me to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 02:16 AM |
| 8 | What are the things your captain does to make you feel protected/safe?Women bond through talking. It's how we bond with other women and it's how we bond with men. Sharing our experiences creates rapport. If we can't tell you about the good AND bad things that happen to us, and feel like you understand us and are supportive, we can't feel emotional intimacy with you. Likewise, we want to hear about your day too, and what you're thinking. Including the negative stuff. Otherwise how well do we even know each other? We're basically polite acquaintances. So, as a guy, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?Well, that explains David Cameron and that pig's head, then. You think what you like, if it makes you feel better. The men I choose to associate with certainly have higher standards and a sense of personal responsibility. Some people value kindness over a cheap orgasm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 01:59 AM |
| 3 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?Wow. Charming. How do you think those girls would feel if they knew you were talking about them like this? I'm sorry I sound like an asshole but I'm being as honest as I can. Im sure most men are like this, they just arent honest. I'm just being as honest as I can: that's how anyone without integrity rationalises something they know isn't right. "I'm sure most people steal, they just aren't honest about it." | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it for college girls to find serious relationships?Nerdy young guys are the best. They are not yet cynical and they are passionate, full of drive, have many hobbies. But what are those hobbies? Not all women will get along with nerdy guys. I like going out, travelling, philosophy, politics, art, music, volunteering. I don't have anything in common with someone whose interests are things like video games, collecting, or watching TV shows. We wouldn't enjoy each others' company at all. I mean, I'm totally with you that I strongly prefer men in the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/17 01:40 AM |
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