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I hate how this is a "trend" and people just wave it off as....a joke!? Like idk I don't find it funny and also jokes still require thought, time, and effort. I don't go around making violent scenarios in my head for a joke!??? Why do they think that's normal? Oh yeah, because they're violent and misogynistic. Ugh and ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:05 PM
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This was also my first thought*. The fact that it also seems like he gets women drinking, lowered boundaries/inhibitions, and he clearly knows how to manipulate people. This is another great reason to reinforce NO DRINK DATES! Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:15 PM
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Whenever I play TSwift, she has a song called "The Man" and blatantly calls out Leo. I find it absolutely disgusting that everyone in Hollywood knows Leo goes for young women (25 being his limit in age 🤢) and yet....no one shames him? Absolutely disillusioned when I found out what her lyric had meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:07 PM
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A dude I went on like 4 dates would Google every fact someone brought up. When he did it to others, I thought it was funny, but kinda rude? When he did it to me (twice only), I was shocked. It wouldn't even be like "This is a fun fact", I was just mentioning something stupid in passing and he had to look it up to make sure I was actually right. He only did it twice before I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:23 PM
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Oh wow, I am definitely guilty of doing this and it's landed me in more than one bad relationship. This is such a good reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:13 PM
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Omg you just described the exact type of "affection" I HATE! My worst ex was such a sweet guy when it was just the two of us but around others would crack ball-and-chain jokes about me (we dated less than a year lol!), downplay his affection (would roll his eyes and make a huff when we'd hold hands in public or when I asked for his jacket or anything but when it was just us, he was so sweet to me!), and pretend my interests were "stupid woman" (I love Taylor Swift and he'd crack dumb jokes but i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:48 AM
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God I love being a bitch! I've mentioned this dude before (he can't cook lol), but I saw him 2 weekends ago at Oktoberfest because he hangs out with some dudes my friends are dating. He came up and asked where I've been. I was so confused!! He said I don't invite him anywhere anymore and that he was HURT! I laughed in his face, I honestly thought he was joking!! He asked why I was laughing and I told him he makes no effort to plan or invite anyone out, why should I do the same for him? I laughed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:33 AM
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Im still in my 20s but my youngest sister is 11, which is how old I was when I was first SA. I had to sit her down and try to talk about not trusting boys or older men. It was a sister talk and, I'll be honest, I was not prepared for it. I should have prepared what I was going to say and how. I think it got through to her anyway but its also a continuing conversation between us. Especially bc our mom is a huge pick me, I feel even more responsible to be there for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:42 PM
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WOW! I know its a low bar to have your partner stand up for you, but dang... that must be nice lol! But yeah this experience definitely damaged my self esteem as a teen but I've grown past it and I know there was nothing wrong with me. He was the problem lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:07 PM
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Oh, girl same! Although I didn't realize it until the above happened and then I realized how much I had been used til then. But as a chubby Mexican girl with divorced parents, I did take ANY attention given. I also wish I could go back and hug myself and just warn myself. I have had already sat down with my 11 yo sister to tell her my experiences. She's a little chubby, but no where near what I was at her age. Im glad to read your experience 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:04 PM
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THIS!!! Honestly, before I found FDS I found myself to be a real doormat. Not just in love, but with friends and family too! FDS gave me the confidence to set boundaries and not feel guilty enforcing them!!! Ex: my best friend is kinda flaky but our group would just make fun of this trait. Then one day, she left me hanging for almost 2 hours bc she got caught up in conversation with someone she ran into. No texts or anything. That's when I finally put my foot down, thanks to yall giving me the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:21 PM
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This happened in my friend group, but the gal really was a pick me. She split up our old group bc she was insecure. Unfortunately this was in my early 20s and I definitely didn't handle it well lol! She accused friend P of flirting w/her bf and exchanging nudes w him. Friend P showed her the messages, clearly showing he asked for nudes and when she declined (bc she was friends w his gf), he immediately went to the GF to lie. Even w the proof in her face, she said Friend P obviously seduced him a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:24 PM
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Im plus size but I was much fatter when I was younger. I dated a guy once but he originally wanted to keep it a secret. I was about 15 and thats when I learned what a "chubby chaser" was and that he was going around telling his friends he only dated me out of pity. (One of his friends told me this bc he felt bad for me, since he'd known me for a few years and didn't want me to be hurt) When I confronted him to break up, he said something like: "I truly love you but people make fun of me when the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:11 PM
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I legitimately only have 3 male friends bc I dont like most men's energy around me. I've cut a lot of men out of my life the second they slip up (using any misogynistic language is a low bar to start cutting men out!) or if they tell me anything gross about their past. I agree, most men are bad. And that includes being passive when they could speak up, stand up for the women around them, literally anything. It's sad to say but men don't listen to us. They'd only listen to another man unfortunate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:53 PM
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I hate the way he speaks about the women in his life (and his DAUGHTER!) and just how....casually he uses those words. I've heard males talk about women that way for too long that now they're all red flags. I wish Gigi and her daughter luck. This is a shitty situation but at least she's got the money to (hopefully) keep him away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:38 PM
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Wish I had a mother like this (or any woman role model 😭) but she is a huge pick me, as are most of my aunts. This is such good advice and im gonna start telling this to my friends too!! Ty!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:56 PM
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I only have one pickmeisha as a Friend and thats bc I met her through my friend group. Im not friends w her NVbf bc of what she's told me how he is. And then she doesn't understand why I dont like him or why I get mad when she bends over backwards for him, but will cancel on me last minute lol This last weekend we all had plans to go to Oktoberfest! She didn't go bc she said her finances are tight rn (some medical bills came up) bc she's going camping with his family next weekend for Halloween. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:53 PM
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