criticalnotcompliant Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
78	TIL that r/relationships sides with the man almost 2/3rds of the time I saw a post yesterday where a man asked what he should do in a pretty awful situation with his son and daughter-in-law. I'll summarise quickly: the DIL turned up at his house with the kids after a fight with his son. She said he raped her. Son calls later crying saying she cheated and he almost hit her. Most people thought she was more likely to be lying and then got into that classic discussion where most women lie about rape to ruin men's lives. Some seemed to think cheating was just as bad a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 04:56 PM
98	This pickmeisha (who is probably a man) is so pathetic This person is actually equating a husband doing simple tasks around the house like picking up toys to giving his wife a fairytale marriage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 02:02 PM
8	Comedy hour... What's the longest time period a man has reached out to you after? 6 years and counting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/20 12:49 AM
4	Why men don't delete your contact after a few dates? Even when you told them you're not longer interested in seeing them again ? They do it so they can ask you for a shag later. I've started blocking before deleting now because a few guys messaged me on a semi-regular basis asking to hook up. One even found my IG after I blocked him (I now use pseudonyms for all my social media accounts. Would recommend). They don't have to be incels to be creeps.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/20 08:13 PM
6	Be a lady, they said I loved this video. I was reading something from second wave's women lib and it was talking about how we as women have all be 'male-identified' - not to be understood in the same way gender identity is understood now. The culture is male and a woman and femininity is defined by the male. If we behave accordingly, a man will legitimise us as women. We can never be free if we do not psychologically cut the cords that connect us to what men want from us. If we do not do this, we will never discover…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 10:52 AM
21	SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality Yes definitely. There was no spontaneity because I wasn't allowed to do anything. I wasn't allowed to initiate, touch him, kiss him, anything without his permission. He'd slap me repeatedly across the face if I even grazed his chest during sex without asking first. I'm still a bit awkward in the bedroom because of this and find it difficult to initiate anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 12:44 PM
6	SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality Thank you. I'm OK now thankfully. We broke up almost 5 years ago but it's only in the last year that I've felt truly moved on. It also shows how much I've moved on in that I'm willing to let go of the BDSM stuff. When we first broke up, I was desperately trying to replicate that relationship and replicate him. Likewise if you want to chat, my DMs are also open x	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 12:41 PM
28	SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality That's great that you stood up to him. Mine once tried to anally fuck me with no lube whilst I was tied up. The only reason he stopped is because I was crying loudly and he said, and I quote, 'my housemates will think I'm abusing you'. They'd think right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 12:39 PM
11	SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality Gosh it's sad that this is striking a chord with so many people. Yes mine did the same thing. Make me do the most humiliating things and then shame me for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 12:36 PM
92	SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality As someone who is/was into BDSM, I agree with this. I'd had fantasies about BDSM before I even knew what it was called or had seen a porno. I rationalised it with the 'choice' argument. After all, I was in control of my fantasy despite my fantasy was to be not in control. The reality of BDSM, however, is very different. I found this out the hard way. A man who fantasises about dominating women will not rationalise it as merely a fantasy, as I did. They want to ACTUALLY dominate and control you a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/20 09:28 PM