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croe3/r/seduction04/10/15 07:16 PM
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Imo and experience it’s not better. I get far better responses picking a specific day. Just throwing another perspective out there.
/r/seduction20/06/23 04:42 PM
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that’s your experience not everyone else’s. i never found 90% of girls at Uni attractive.
/r/seduction18/06/23 02:55 PM
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Ok of 100 women coming across my dating apps, im swiping left on most of them. Men reject women too.
/r/seduction14/06/23 08:29 PM
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Men can have high standards too. If 100 random people hit on me I wouldn’t date the vast majority of them.
/r/seduction14/06/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah yeah fair. In terms of if im truly outcome independent then a no doesn’t matter and a yes is a positive, then it’s only upside potential. Definitely not super likely to turn that type of thing into a full relationship, but there are other ways to have a good time.
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:37 PM
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I totally get where you’re coming from. And overall you’re 100% correct that the less you give them the more they’ll be into you in terms of girls don’t want what they know they can get easily. But if you’re still stuck on her my opinion is just throw a date out instead of trying to start a whole conversation up. Some of these people are like “how do i know if she’s into me or not”. Well you don’t know for sure unless you ask her out and get a yes or no (whether that’s direct or indirect).
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:13 PM
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It costs me zero self respect personally. What you’re saying is probably the case for some guys. But I date a lot so it’s the opposite of needy for me. It’s like i’m just chilling at home being like “hmmm i’m bored let me see if this girl wants to grab a drink”. And if she doesn’t respond i literally don’t care. If she says yes cool. It could be a fun fling. If you’re trying to escalate to a full relationship then yes i agree a 4 day gap between texts is not a good sign. It certainly depends on …
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:54 PM
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Fair enough. I’m definitely at the point where i don’t give a fuck if i ask her out and she continues to ignore. The reality is in a situation where she hasn’t responded in 4 days it most likely isn’t gonna be something very serious, but i’ll shoot another final shot for a potential fun fling and treat it as such. Therefore if she ignores, no worries to me whatsoever. And it’s has nothing to do with a lack of self respect at that point. Also, a girl not wanting to go on another date with you doe…
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:52 PM
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Asking a girl out is not needy. He’s NOT 100% certain she’s no longer interested. Suppose hes 80% sure but doesn’t know? Just throw out a date proposition to make it 100% sure, and on the flip side you might get a date out of it. If you’re talking to other girls and not bothered, it costs 0 to throw a date proposition out, and it’s also easy to not be bothered if/when she continues to ghost. It functionally only has upside.
/r/seduction21/10/22 08:58 PM
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Asking for insight is not really gonna get you anywhere. You probably have your answer if it’s been 4 days. All you can do is so for another date to see if she 1) continues ghosting 2) says yes to a date 3) says she isn’t interested anymore
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:53 PM
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Totally disagree. Am I dating 10s every week? Of course not. But I pretty much exclusively OLD and I often date women that myself and society would say are better looking than me.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:42 AM
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Different perspectives it seems. Have a good one!
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:21 PM
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What's not as easy for your average woman? To get an above average man? And yeah my concept wasnt ground breaking, but you would think it is with people in this thread saying things like "90% of men getting rejected is because of the woman", and basically taking 0 responsibility for what they're doing (or not doing) that's leading to rejection.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:02 PM
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Oh they definitely can. If an average guy isn't getting average women, then he is likely making many mistakes in his game. This is actually a good thing, it means there's things men can do to have better success with women "on their level".
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:55 PM
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Oh, so are we just ranting that average men can't get above average women without bringing additional value? That's really lame and obvious. My point is average men can elevate themselves and do better with women. Not sure why you're so salty.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:53 PM
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I don’t see your point. Average looking men can get above average looking women if they bring more to the table besides their looks. And I mean besides money.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:42 PM
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All dates aren’t equal. Less physically attractive women who also don’t bring non-physical attractive qualities to the table will not get any high value men either, same as men with women.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:40 PM
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Quality men can easily settle fast. And men do not have to constantly search for lower status. If you’re a high value man you can get quality women. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:47 PM
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Have you ever texted a woman “Sorry, you’re not my type”?
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:04 PM
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otter mode? is that referencing your fit style?
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:20 AM
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Ah ok. It’s too hard to say imo. Guys and girls do ghost, usually people who are bad at communicating and/or are immature in general. Unfortunately that is a lot of people and i don’t think guys or girls do it particularly more or less. But that’s just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:17 PM
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it’s not a bad comparison. at some point of talking to 3-5 women you have to cut some out and focus on 1-2, or add new girls to the rotation as you get to know them. youre not going to perpetually see the same 3-5 women. OPs point was why try with women when they have several options, which is a bad mentality when guys can have several options too. That’s just dating.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:58 PM
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I mean high value guys who go on lots of dates are taking to 3-5 women at a time, why should we expect any less of women? Everyone is pursuing their own interests. There's zero reason to blame a woman for considering multiple men at once when she hasn't settled down.
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:35 AM
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exactly but here's the catch. if you're rejected 1000 out of 1000 times, I can guarantee you there's things you're doing that are off-putting, even if you don't realize it. There is only 1 other option, which is that your standards for women may be too far above what you can pull (like if you only go for 10s but your value is a 5). Basically the higher value the woman and the bigger the gap from your own value, the higher chance of rejection, but almost never zero. Almost any guy can get to a le…
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:58 PM
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no one in the entire world is immune to getting rejected for superficial reasons. everyone is getting rejected who put themselves out there. putting effort into yourself means you'll get rejected LESS OFTEN, all else equal. There are bald <6ft men with attractive women. It's done all the time. As long as you don't think "if I can't get any given 10/10 woman to sleep with me then this OP is wrong!" You won't get every attractive woman. The guys pulling girls get rejected and keep going until one …
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:12 PM
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true of course. just found it funny to read a contradictory example right after "don't compliment looks". agree with what you're generally saying bro.
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:00 PM
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mfw rule 4 example literally contradics rule 2
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:38 PM
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yeah but the original post basically implied you need muscles to attract high quality women. that's bullshit. you need things that convey willpower/determination to achieve a not-easy goal. A built physique is ONE WAY of doing that. I'm a lanky guy with some lean muscle but I cook, rock climb, and do yoga. Those last 3 things convey determination without the need to be a beefy muscle bro. That's what people should take away, not, "you need muscles to attract women"
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:39 PM
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GENERALLY you don't meditate about something specifically. The most basic meditation is closing your eyes and breathing, focusing on your breathe and letting thoughts flow through you but letting them pass. you're not trying to be thinking during meditation you're trying to simply exist and be present. this is what clears your mind. There are guided meditationa where you might start focusing on other things but this is kind of separate. just look up Headspace for a start. I think they even just …
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:42 PM
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coffee + library first time. next time dorm. demonstrate you aren't a creep or needy, and that you won't push your luck right off the bat. respect boundaries. you can playfully flirt and maybe some light touching on the first "date" if you get good signals. but again, don't be pushy. if she gets close to you in any way (proximity), this is a good sign of interest and comfort. you will get really good results this way in my experience.
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:45 PM
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There are many examples of but one of the most important is knowing how to escalate with a woman at an appropriate pace, both emotionally and physically. Knowing when is the right time to ask for a number, not too early that you haven't build a connection, but not so late that she's going to move on to someone else who is making a move. Same applies to physical escalation. There are ways to do so that maximize attractiveness and COMFORTABILITY. Other things would be getting better knowledge abou…
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:58 PM
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There are definitely solid points that can be made from some coaches which can shift a persons paradigm into understanding why you're failing and what really drives attraction. Its absolutely not necessary to pay for coaching. However, to simply say one only needs to be natural and show intent to be successful is very disingenuous, and a reduction of a lot of concepts which many people genuinely would never otherwise understand or think about if they didn't read it/watch some youtube videos/had …
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:51 AM
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Walking up to a girl you havent met or been introduced to and starting a conversation.
/r/seduction21/07/20 10:51 PM
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Is it 100% because of men? No. But its primarily for social appearances and looking attractive to the sex one is attracted to.
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:05 PM
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Of course they want to. Point of the post is why do they want to. The answer is not "just because".
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:49 PM
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You're mistaking his point. He is simply saying that asking and being rejected is more sure than assuming she's not interested. Sometimes its very clear, and others it isnt. The upside of being wrong in your judgement of interest is that she may say yes when you thought she wouldnt, with the downside being that a girl you think might be uninterested simply says no when you ask her out. The upside outweighs the downside in this case. I dont believe hes suggesting keep berating a girl aggressively…
/r/seduction11/02/20 01:14 AM
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Think about people you know of that have what you would consider the ideal relationship in terms of compatibility/happiness/goodness of fit together. Do you consider those individuals to be people you think dont accept their true selves? When I reflect on the people I know that have relationships I would strive for, they tend to be people who are happy through self acceptance.
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:39 AM
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You're not supposed to prevent that imo. The goal is to eventually reach a state of mind called outcome independence. Meaning, you dont tie "success" or a good time to a specific outcome like getting laid. Girls can see that a mile away. The goal is to have fun, everything else will eventually fall into place. If you dont get laid you can still have fun. If one of the girls gets laid with someone else then who cares dude? If you go into the situation thinking "if I dont get laid tonight this did…
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:37 PM
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Are you asking what do you do if you just have a fun time with your best friend and 4 hot girls all night? Not exactly a losing situation.
/r/seduction30/01/19 04:21 AM
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I respectfully disagree. Tone and context matter. If you say something that's a "lie" with a shit eating grin in a tongue-in-chic manner, no ones going to turn around and give you shit for it.
/r/seduction28/05/18 08:37 PM
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Hmm we may simply disagree on the definition of a lie. Out of a curiosity, would you consider any and all statements that are an attempt to be misleading, by any amount, lies?
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:16 PM
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I'm stretching a bit here, and while it's definitely misleading, you can see its not technically a lie. If the girl was like "wait you said you were gay", the guy can say "no I said if I wasnt gay I would be into you, and I'm not gay!". Deceiving but in good fun as opposed to a devious lie.
/r/seduction28/05/18 01:12 AM
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it goes without saying you look for signals of consent. hes not saying just grab them by the pussy. hes saying some girls dont want nice slow, passionate passionate sex, but want just a raw animal instinct kind of sex. if shes being very turned off by either kind, yeah you dont just keep going lol.
/r/seduction23/02/17 05:30 PM
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As an Econ grad who looked into PhD and Masters, i would expect PhD in econ to be as hard as Law school of not harder. Can obviously vary depending on the school, and its just a hunch not certain.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:23 AM
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I would suggest keep dating until you meet a girl who makes you feel "human" again. You'll have found someone to make your girlfriend.
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:27 AM
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The whole point of this post is that it is a more accurate alternative for sensing interest and deciding if you should keep going or not vs assuming she likes you until she says no. One is more basic and a good start, and one is taking assumptions out and using body language and other behaviors to get a more realistic read on the girl.
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:09 PM
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This is amazingly effective and succinct advice. And formatted nicely?? Well done.
/r/seduction20/08/16 06:09 PM
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It sounds like you were expecting something akin to a magic weight loss pill. There is no absurd secret. The truth is simple in words, but people don't actually practice it on a daily basis. Most people act like what they think hot girls want to see. Models tells you how to be the best YOU which is unique and that is what girls will find attractive, not some special pick up line. This message resonates with a lot of people.
/r/seduction16/08/16 04:44 PM
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Number 1 is completely contrary to the general advice given. If a girl looks amazing in a dress, you do not say "that dress is pretty", you should say "you look amazing in that dress." You 100% want to compliment her, imo.
/r/seduction13/08/16 09:29 PM
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Any videos or places to start learning about meditation and the basics?
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:54 AM
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Fake it til it works then when it works you'll be confident in doing it and won't need to fake it
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:55 AM
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Read a bunch of the top rated FRs (field reports) of people's stories in real life much like this one. Some go into great detail and mention some kino techniques they use and you can see how it works in real life not just theory. It's mostly things like touching a girls thigh or elbow just to start warming her up to the idea that touching is ok and starts the escalation
/r/seduction13/06/15 06:21 PM
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Why is this the response to every post here....
/r/seduction30/07/14 01:13 AM
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Ok just replace it with rejection....
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:12 PM
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It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia. There's a scene where Charlie says basically what he just said but it's not about attraction it's about when someone tells him to just get a job.
/r/seduction08/07/14 05:58 AM
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Not sure it most people will get this reference. But just so you know I love it.
/r/seduction08/07/14 03:53 AM
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Thats alot of what seddit tells people to do. Convince people to leave their comfort zone and try.
/r/seduction28/05/14 07:23 PM
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It got him laid....
/r/seduction12/01/14 02:15 AM
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Don't listen to him. If you only said "gave the tickets to a kid" it would be irrelevant because it wouldn't have anything to do with the girl. By saying why you did it it makes it relevant to the FR.
/r/seduction12/01/14 02:14 AM
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Time usually does it for me. Not really a rationalization moment or anything. Just time.
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:28 AM
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Glad you're comfortable making that assumption over the Internet.
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:52 PM
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I probably worded that odd. Its safe to assume that it wasn't because the dude didnt text, rather, because he did not "talk" (meaning through text) to her that often as most people in college do to people they are interested in. She may have interpreted this as thinking he was no longer interested which could have turned her off.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:03 AM
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I wouldnt say "from" text game as that implies that the sex was acquired directly/solely from texting which isnt true. I was simply saying that I use text to keep flirting with a girl if I'm busy for a couple days or can't meet up with her soon after meeting her at a bar, party, etc. If you meet a girl at one of these places, are busy, and send 2-3 texts setting up a date a week later and don't talk to her until then, chances are she's gonna forget about you and move onto some other guy. So i ke…
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:59 AM
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To each their own but its incredibly unlikely she's texting any more than 3, maybe 4 other guys tops, at any given moment.
/r/seduction25/11/13 08:57 PM
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Well OP is asking about college game and i can say from experience (I'm in college) that every girl texts all the time and it can certainly be used to build attraction. You mention emoticons and maybe they arent your thing but they definitely can be used to your advantage as a flirting mechanism. Ive even had a platonic girl friend of mine mention that she liked some guy but was kind of turned off by the fact that he didnt really text at all. Obviously this wont hold true for every girl but in m…
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:16 PM
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No preference. i consider both interesting and useful
/r/seduction12/03/13 06:02 PM
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