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I either have to deal with their ego, them trying to scam me into some bs, insecurities translating into defensiveness, if they like me it's typically because they just want to look cool and not actually interested in me as a friend. Have found very few tolerable guy friends. Most of them are good but it takes a lot of effort to maintain friendship with a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:31 PM
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Women approaching men is not that uncommon. Not to mention women make it very easy for men to talk to them if they are interested. It's almost ridiculously easy. The least thing they would do is they will stand next to you and keep doing that until something happens that you end up talking to each other. That only actual issue is that female standards have skyrocketed due to social media and overall competition. Tbh I get it. I'm a dude and I honestly find the average guy extremely intolerable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:33 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:24 PM
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Yup. Life is pain so just get used to it so at least you enjoy it and get what you want. Once you are numb to the pain of rejection all you'll notice is success.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:51 AM
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Don't worry you'll get plenty of both lol.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:00 AM
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A female trainer incentivized to flirt with clients is different from a female stranger flirting. Sorry but you and OP are not on equal chad level rn.
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:46 PM
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I'll just keep delaying it and they'll keep getting pushed down my messages until I'm like "I should prolly send them something." I've had a girl I forgot to message for a year, sent something like wow so sorry I was busy with crazy covid stuff and she followed up still super receptive (not getting the hint). She was cool although not attractive so we just ended up hanging out with a bunch of people so that I get caught up with a bunch of semi-okay connections in one go.
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:40 PM
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Oooo damn her initiating touch and doing all the work. You are gonna be eating good bro and Im not talking about seafood
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:31 PM
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I mean she's low priority if you end up ghosting that should send a message albeit distasteful. Even if I end up sending way later I would always go like "so sorry for replying late this week/months been crazy. Yeah let's do whenever I'm down. I'm up for it my schedule is kinda hectic rn tho just a headsup." If she still pushes after that then you'll roll out the "oh man my gramma got sick I might be gone for a few months."
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:13 PM
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See, the implication was that whoever was reading my comment should take my advice. So what did you end up doing?
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:00 AM
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Dressing like a hobo when everyone else dresses like one and then talking to people you have rapport with is not the same as being unattractive and approaching strangers. I've been approaching all my life. Gained weight, stopped grooming and people treated me like shit. Got back to being attractive and realized the difference was night and day. You don't realize it because you've only been yourself. Unattractive people deal with real shit. You are misconstruing social vibing with physical attrac…
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:20 AM
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Lol nope. Every attractive person thinks this until they lose their looks. Try going out looking like shit, dress like shit and make your face look like shit and put on some weight. People will not treat you the same no matter how confident you are. If you are attractive you are lucky since it's definitely not your intellect they're attracted to.
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:05 AM
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Just keep giving excuses as to why you can't accept their invitation. They'll get the hint. Use what attractive women use on you: reply short, reply late and give excuses.
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:01 AM
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"I'm not sure I can stay the night." Then she'll want you to stay the night. Reverse psychology is a thing.
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:33 PM
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Literally you can just talk to talk and be like "Yeah don't worry about it" and she'll be over it since she doesn't want to go through the trouble of losing a friend which is a useful resource for her. Your friendship will be fine.
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:55 PM
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I probably get more than you lmao.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:31 PM
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Lmao you tryna gatekeep shit that don't belong you. Are you the r/seduction security guard? They pay you in karma to do this shit?
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:30 PM
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Again, most of the "ugly" dudes you see met their hot gf when they were more attractive. Dudes go through more stress and less rewarded to stay attractive so their looks plummet quickly after they get a hot girl.
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:07 AM
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Those the exceptions most won't be and a lot of "odd guys" you see used to be attractive. I was like that when I was dating my gf at the time and I gained a ton of weight lost all my looks for that period of time. People would just look at me and go "how?"
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:28 AM
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Who decided that you aren't allowed to date that cute girl you're eyeing up? Either the girl or the guy's genetics or just how he functions. Not everyone can get a cute girl. ​ Who decided that you aren't allowed to go out and live your passion? I dunno personal limitations, money, planning, logic, etc. If some dudes passion is to become a lamp, then he won't have much in the way of making that work and still live. ​ Who decided that you aren't allowed to make all of your goals a reality? Wait a…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:53 PM
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She's asking if you'd either like to spend money to go to her city or if you'd like to spend money to buy her a ticket.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:11 PM
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The way looks plays a role in getting women is almost like how money plays a role in a betting game. You need a certain amount of it to play, but once you are playing it doesn't really matter because it's a requirement not a luxury. You can't depend on it to do the work for you, but you also can't be under the threshold. This is when social skills matter. Women are just used to being with attractive above average guys. It's just how they exist. Being somewhat attractive is just a requirement for…
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:53 PM
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Here, no. Most common advice here is pretty bad and people over simplify shit that worked for them and generalize it to other people. They then write some 10 page essay about why this thing that worked for them will work for everyone. Then all the comments go "omg so true." I improved just by forgetting general advice and approaching. Then I created my own general advice. You will discover what works for you through trial and error. Your success just becomes more likely if you have better looks …
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:30 PM
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One big difference. Men who get girls step up to the competition. Men who don't, feel bad and get discouraged by competition. From an evolutionary stand point procreation weeds out both with weak genes and weak willed because game theory dictates that it will always be difficult to date. You will always be competing for women no matter what era you are in. The difference is your raw genetics which is luck of the draw, and if you are within average, then your will to out compete other males.
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:22 PM
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Be more attractive. Be more fun. Take all openings. Sometimes it just doesn't align. I've had several girls where I can tell it was simply because the initial attraction waned and it was difficult to escalate without throwing myself at her. So I just let it fade. I care more about having self-respect than min-maxing a hook up with a hot girl who's probably going to expect me to do all the work in bed anyways. TLDR: Me before stacy.
/r/seduction21/09/22 06:24 PM
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They just like a different sort of dude, but even if a girl is into a certain type of "busted" dude you'll still compete with them. She'll have to find you attractive or she'll feel like she's getting a cop out. As long as she finds you attractive you are good, but a dude should never stay with a girl if she's not attracted to you physically. For example, Seal and Jay Z look busted af but their overall stature are quite masculine and attractive. Some women are attracted to the "whole" package in…
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:14 AM
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There are literally two types of relationships you can be with a "hot girl." First is she sees your value because you are attractive enough for her. The second is you basically try your best to appeal to her to make up for her lack of attraction. If you are okay with being a "hot girl's" little bitch. These are the types of relationships you see where the dude is way less attractive/less dominant than the girl and he pretty much caters to her like a whipped dog. How far would you stoop down to h…
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:05 AM
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I guess OP's mom and gramma get no more calls after this.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:16 PM
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Lol dude probably knows a lot of people at the club. Can imagine clueless kids being cringe showing up like this without any prior set up thinking he'll get the same results just because he wore a santa suit lmao.
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:12 AM
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depending on how much your not eating your body may start preserving body fat which makes you lose weight even slower. Lol now it all makes sense.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:08 PM
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How does it work then?
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:56 PM
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Every guy will have different sticking points and they'll have to smart enough to realize it and then put in a lot of work to fix it. That's the one missing or SECRET ingredient no one wants to admit. It's the only thing. But noone wants to get it because it's hard so you keep looking for tricks. Same way fat people keep looking for a trick on how to lose weight when it's literally eat less food.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:22 PM
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For learning, yes. Anything other than that? No thanks. I'd rather not put all that stress on me and get to leave on time every day while having a life out of work. Also what you learn will not necessary translate to getting girls. I got laid way more when I wasn't in management just fucking around with co-workers. Once there is a leadership positions, you better be sure you don't fuck your subordinates or you are saying goodbye to your career or any kind of career. This seems like good advice b…
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:59 AM
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I'd just pull the plug and move on but I'd double check to make sure she's not talking about her wifi.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:24 PM
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...overweight guy looking to impress hot girls. I am disgusting and ugly, don't look good, I am going to gym 4 days a week and trying to improve my body. ...I am working a minimum wage job and also have a debt which my father took. I can't afford a car. I have been trying to get girls since I was young but all I got is rejection. I can't afford fashionable clothes, shoes, hairstyle, tattoo, any car etc. This makes me want to take a bunch of THE MOST douchebag, hyper-attractive, try-hard photos I…
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:41 AM
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Willing to bet at least 2 of the girls he dated were hoping she'd get married to him and get free Indian food for life. Would have been worth it for that Tikka Masala on demand.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:35 AM
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An Indian guy makes a post on r/seduction and of course he reserves one quarter of his post talking about Indian food.
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:11 PM
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There's a correlation for sure. But it's not a sure thing. Drugs like alcohol do inhibit the prefrontal cortex which is what used for decision making. If you regularly take a drug that inhibits your decision making center, you are more likely to make a bad decision such as cheating.
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:29 PM
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In this example both are pretty much an example of the popularly known "nice guy." Since a "nice guy" is a guy who says what he THINKS the girl wants to hear in order to get into her pants. A nice guy can both be passive or active. Its just the fact that he's being "nice" to get what he wants which is what makes him a "nice guy." I think what you are trying to ask is what's the difference between a manipulator and a nice guy. The manipulator lies and uses backdoor psychological tactics to get a …
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:03 PM
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If this sub has oneitis it's for Mark Manson. Dude is so overrated. This shit is made to sound so scientific yet it mostly crap: Doesn't consider culture Doesn't consider age range Doesn't consider context Doesn't consider how physically attracted she is to you to begin with Seduction gurus love to make people think there is a button you can press to get women to just go "hrrrd duurrr fuck everything he was so manlyyy spread pussy." Dude is way more overrated if he can't even tell between a soft…
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:33 AM
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Collect incriminating chats, emails, documents, videos, and have him fucked up legally. That way he has not other option but to go for you to save face then fuck him up physically, in the ass. I mean in dat ass...Pause.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:19 AM
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If you have 1000 ugly dudes and 1000 good looking dudes. Who do you think will have more hot GFs? With this thought experiment, what would you conclude?
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:50 PM
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So you are saying that even though there are BILLIONS of ugly guys struggling to get laid, because you have this ONE ugly friend who gets laid a lot, you make the conclusion that looks doesn't matter. Have you ever taken a statistics class?
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:38 AM
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As someone who has been relatively lucky in the genetic lottery. I do not blame you at all. I have gotten a taste of what it's like to be not so lucky when I slipped a little bit in the looks department and got injured/got fat/stopped grooming. As a 6'1 dude with a decent face, good body proportions, and pretty well-off socially and socioeconomically, the difference was night & day. And I was JUST fat. I can only imagine what it's like to have other disadvantages. Not only that, I've known so ma…
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:42 AM
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Lmao. Well this retarded shit is normal so best to just include it in your overall gameplan. I've met some gorgeous women who don't do this vetting process and it's great but they are the minority.
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:00 PM
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It’s very important to meet the looks threshold. You sound unattractive in the face which is what most women care about. Do everything you can to fix that. Nothing else matters. If you have an ugly face, your muscles wont matter, your social skills won’t matter because they wont even give you a chance. That being said, guys look better overall when they have high muscle mass. Going to the gym will help improve your face or make it less of a focus. Got for looks archetypes that focus less in the …
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:06 PM
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Seems good on paper but doesn’t work in reality. I’ve done this several times where I try to keep my schedule when the girl is the one initiating and it will always end in them losing interest or their situation suddenly changing. It usually has something to do with their aggression tendencies. Women who are this forward will most likely find other men if you wait too long.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:55 AM
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A girl pickup will never just be her. Even if you get her number, everything you do will be filtered through her friends and you will be evaluated by their standards. She is not in the way because she is part of who she is as a person. Women are different from men. You are missing the point since you are ignoring her friend as if she is simply something to be pushed aside. She’s part of the girl. Some women treat their bffs like family. The reason she’s antagonistic is probably because you didn’…
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:47 AM
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Learn how to properly talk to groups of women. It’s disrespectful to a “pretty” girl’s friend to be ignored. The friend will let her know she’s not being a respected through tonality and body language and if she’s a smart friend she’ll choose her friend over you since guys like you will be dime a dozen. That reflects poorly on you since that means you don’t really know how to properly handle yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:07 AM
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This is like the dude version of that post by the girl who gave dating advice based on her specific personal preferences.
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:50 AM
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HOW MUCH DO YOU WEIGH?! ...respectfully :)
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:46 AM
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Wait will she's 90 tryna date 110 year olds as her target.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:28 PM
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The text is an extension of what your existing impression. You don't need to try too hard, if she wants to continue she will reply. "Girl of any value" already you are putting yourself beneath her. If she can't banter and joke around, she already thinks too highly of herself. I won't invest time into making her feel like a some royalty that you can't joke around with.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:00 AM
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I literally put very minimal effort for first text: "lol dis you?" "Ummm who dis?" "Sup" "Brooo" "Hey its ____" You mostly need to send a message so you can work off of your previous convo. Most guys think too much and wait too long when the important thing is that you message her when she still remembers how you made her feel. Sure you can do a call back humor or you can just text her right away.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:34 PM
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Yup a lot of reasons: It just feels weird for me to be going out with an unattractive girl. Not to seem arrogant, but it would just look too out of place. Like I'd get so many stares whenever I tried to talk to a girl who's mid. It's unfair to the girl you aren't really attracted to. It just destroys your morale. Not worth the effort. Won't get much self-improvement from it. Less attractive girls are just so much more effort in my experience. They seem easier at first but they just end up harder…
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:28 PM
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What's your type?
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:22 AM
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You are definitely over-idealizing this. It's literally just talking to girls aka people. As someone who has done A LOT of cold approach, the more you think more about the approach the less you actually approach. Again, me talking to a girl is like breathing. I don't write an essay whenever I take breathe in and out. That being said, talking is easy. Getting results is another. Most guys who try out cold approach won't get much results from it because from the woman's perspective the risk of giv…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:56 PM
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Easiest are in classes and clubs. But the majority of my lays are from cold approaching. Aim for the most attractive ones. Cheerleader, sorority, or model types tend to be better for cold approach since they don't get approached much. Average women get way too many guys after them so you'll just end up having to do the same amount of work. If you are not even the least bit nervous then you are not approaching hot enough girls. Then again this is just my personal experience, if I were too approac…
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:08 AM
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If you natural game is already good the PU stuff will just fuck up your mojo. The most important part of PU is the strategic application for favorable logistics such as allowing yourself consistent access and exposure to the women you want and socializing with them daily. For example, me being in college meeting women on campus and approach daily allowed me to get laid regularly with college-age women. If you find a place that would have women who are ready to date 50-year old men and find a way…
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:45 AM
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Who are you after. What age. What is attractiveness level preference? How good is your natural game and just how social are you? If you are 50 and still suck as socialization and cant pick up basic body language you are in an uphill battle.
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:54 AM
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There is a difference when you are evaluating people from a societal and existential level as opposed a personal level. You are thinking this way because you are high off your balls rn and looking at everyone while you are high up the mountains. If you back to your own body and look through your eyes, you'll see why a sober person will FEEL they are better than everyone else.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:32 AM
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Lmao there is difference between addressing people as your equals but deep inside I know I'm way better than any of you mofos. Mindset is different. It's like in going into a fight no actual competent fighter will say "Oh yeah we're about equal." This shit is primal, most confident guys will think they are better than their competition. That's fine as long as you show respect when it's due.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:41 PM
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If a girl wants to make things platonic then I just let her. If she actually wants to be friends, I'd welcome that with open arms. If she wants to play the long teasing game then I'm also game. As long as it stays exciting and reveals to me who she is, I don't care about the goal. Some of you are too afraid to "lose her." She's not yours. What you have is the present. Just enjoy it and see what takes place. You'll enjoy your dating life way more.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:17 AM
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Yes especially since I'm a man.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:26 AM
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Ask the why, ask the how. That's it. Occasionally ask the who, what, where, when so you can go back to another why and how. She has a piano. You: Howd you get into playing paino? Her: Bla bla bla You: Oh wow, why is that? Her: Bla bla bla You: How did it feel when you finally saw yourself being really good at it. That must have been an amazing feeling. (How) I'm fleshing it out artificially but you should eventually learn how to naturally ask questions out of genuine curiosity. They often revolv…
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:17 AM
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Do you even actually like hockey? How about you try to connect with people because you are genuinely interested in them rather than what they can give you. Learning to connect with people on a deeper, more genuine level is what gets you laid not this kind of manipulative bs.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:58 AM
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Meh go for it. I've had girls I've met 6 months before contact me out of nowhere simply because their situation changed. What I'd do is contact her and gather some info as to what her "new situation" is. I'd filter out women are simply aiming to waste my time or if her new situation doesn't really align with my my personal situation.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:33 AM
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I think you are just looking for a reason to make her out to be villain so that you can move on feeling like she the a weirdo for rejecting you. You already blocked her for no reason despite the fact that she simply decided to not move forward with the relationship. She simply didn't want to be connect to you in any way. Refusing to accept gifts is a great way to remain distant from someone. How about you take it as a it is and move on. You already blocked her, you already made a reddit post abo…
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:22 AM
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It's obvious you have BPD since you found a way to emotionally blow up and make this about you. OP now needs to go to therapy because of the trauma of dealing with you.
/r/seduction26/08/22 10:00 PM
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Damn this some juicy drama. I'm gonna have to follow up on this.
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:17 AM
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I feel like this is a common characteristic of analytical people who are more into things rather than into people. Lol not really. My work is incredibly technical, data-oriented, I analyze everything and a lot of my hobbies are incredibly technical but I've learned that trying to appeal to an emotional creature is illogical. Your logic just failed you. You just need to achieve the next tier of logic which is learning when to turn off your brain so you can do the logical approach. Conversations w…
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:06 AM
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I mean technically the gym is a hobby store.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:58 AM
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Damn. Thats university seems like the dream place to approach. I usually have to bounce from one campus to another.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:08 PM
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You can ask which college she goes to. Lol what. You're in the college.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:58 PM
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Make sure that you place the camera in a walkway and the get mad when people walk in front of it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:09 AM
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Can someone buy whatever this dude is selling so he can stop spamming this shit.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:58 PM
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Well you don't take dating advice from the person you are trying to date either. That's like asking a pig how it wants to be roasted.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:58 PM
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Bring it up yourself: No Answer briefly how it ended if they ask: Yes
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:09 AM
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Really good looking guy based on what info? Analyzing your height, weight, facial structure, hair line, etc can help you evaluate yourself a little bit but really the true measure of your attractiveness is the attractiveness of girls that tend to be attracted to you.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:34 PM
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It's honestly pretty easy if you talk to them. If they are in college they are already pretty much 17+ I've approached a lot of women in college and I've only encountered a 1 or 2 who are under 18 and a few that just turned 18. Most are over 19. If they are young, they tend to be pretty high key about it. Most guys who end dating younger women are just purposely being dense to hide the fact that they are actually aiming for underage girls.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:28 PM
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"Because if you don't imma post about it on r/seduction and you will be so missing out on dating a redddit superstar."
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:15 PM
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Lol you and every dude in college wants this.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:27 AM
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Wow are you serious? You sure you are 30? C'mon, everybody knows that you got to cut a hole through the middle of the pizza then you put your dick through it and then when she opens it she thinks it's a hotdog then you tell her to eat the hotdog. Simple maths geez. Did you ever do PE class dear lord. Your English teacher will be disappointed.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:17 AM
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Because nothing is simple. People just want to oversimplify everything. It's never as simple as being genuine or nice or being an asshole. For ever situation it depends is the most accurate answer. People just prefer to think there is a secret "simple" strategy as opposed to having to learn how to think for themselves and do their own studies to figure out their own problems.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:21 AM
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Dude is specifically talking about women who'd be good fwbs without the drama.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:27 PM
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It's often due to past trauma. Some run away at the first sign of commitment and they freak out because they associate the pattern of getting closer with a very traumatizing experience in their past, so they decide to never really open themselves up to being vulnerable. Some women with this issue, like to be able to express it, so they get the benefit of being love-dovey without triggering their commitment fears. Once the guy shows it too, it becomes too much and their guards go up.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:38 AM
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This particular way of thinking is so stupid lmao. It applies to everything and it makes you think it will work. "I've been catching fish with my barehands and yeah it's harder and you are probably better off using a fishing rod but there are plenty of fish that can be caught with your barehands!"
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:19 PM
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Yup. It's so easy if you make the social skills and looks cut-off. That being said, I get how it is for other guys. When I was not paying attention to myself at all. I had to fight tooth and nail for every escalation point. And was not fun at all. Now it's more like. You show up. Look good, be cool. Don't fuck up, don't be a weirdo, talk to people like an actual person and someone will want to fuck you.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:07 PM
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There is more of a flow chart Does she feel great? -> Yes or No. No -> Don't pass go Yes -> Is it because you are her little bitch or is it because she feels like you are a catch? Little bitch -> You are just her dancing monkey. Don't pass go, learn to respect yourself. You are a catch -> Did yo escalate yet? etc etc bla bla bla
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:56 PM
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So you hate that you're options got older and uglier. What about you, did you stay as attractive as you were in your 20s? Which boxes are checked - balding, overweight, wrinkled face, and never cared to buy a new wardrobe since you were in your 20s?
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:21 AM
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No horrible advice. The best way to react when someone says no is to put both hands on your head and then scream at that top of your lungs until your lung nearly collapses from the reverse vacuum you generate from being a bitchy little shit. Then you wait 1 hour then you send a dick pic. Everyone knows this secret method, cmon now.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:07 PM
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Boomer bait then blogspam
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:20 AM
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This is studied extensively in sociology and is very broad. Western culture are less likely to compartmentalize their personality depending on the environment because it's seen as inauthentic while eastern culture sees it as a necessity. Social-wise, yes this can be a tool to navigate efficiently through different social circles. If it works then do it. No need to overthink.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:55 PM
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You will be creepy for a split second but if you know how to ready body language you can just bail quickly and they'll forget about you very easily.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:24 PM
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Vibe is way too serious. If she said "I'm not that kind of girl" I would have been like "Excuuuuse me, I'm not that kind of guy. You haven't even bought me steak dinner" or some shit like that. It's weird when you take women too seriously. It's kinda like the same thing as "I wouldn't like any company who would take me as an employee." If you take a girl's word way too seriously and don't give her shit for obvious bullshit then you just look desperate and naive. If she shows no enthusiasm then d…
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:48 AM
1

This is why reading body language is crucial when approaching. I do a lot of approaches and I can tell right away if something's up and I just bail no questions asked. Waste of time and not worth the risk to try and convince a girl who's even a little bit bothered. Just move on to the next.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:50 AM
6

Meh you're just infatuated. You'll get over it. Just find out what type of girl she is and try to meet more women like her so that your hook ups feel more meaningful. Based on how I'm seeing it, you just like how she paced the sex. You said nothing who she is and just talked about the excitement of the chase. You think you want her, but you just liked the thrill. I'm the same too me a while to realize I like the challenge of a girl because the moment I know I got them is the moment I don't want …
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:28 AM
1

It means they don't want to talk to you or they are just not that attracted to you that they don't find any excitement in interacting with you.
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:28 AM
1

Meh you are overthinking it. If someone is attractive enough then they are attractive enough. If they worked hard to get to that point then good on them. Who cares where they started. They are all pretty much the same attractiveness level aka 8+. Approaching them and picking them up, assuming they were an everyday girl, would be just about the same effort and difficulty, so OP would not be aiming low at all. I find it funny you think people who make a living out of being attractive are "not attr…
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:04 AM
0

Summer Glau Those are literally around the same attractiveness level as Madison Beers and Addison Rae, they are just older. Really the only thing that matters is that the girl is above an 8 and they can be an 8 or a 9 depending on how dolled up or how fit they are at the moment. Arguing whether someone is an 8 or a 9 pretty much pointless.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:34 AM
1

To develop a _____ mindset, just actually be ______ To develop an abundant mindset, just actually be abundant. The effort it takes to feel abundant would almost be the same effort it takes to actually be somewhat abundant so you won't need to lie to yourself. This usually applies to a lot of realistic goal. If you want to have a confident mindset then just be someone that you will have confidence in. A lot of these things are proving to yourself what you are.
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:03 PM
2

I'm not classifying myself as a whole. I'm more classifying my look and how I come off to new people I meet since first impression is what I'm trying to influence here. I don't worry too much with how I behave or my impression with people I already know for an extended period of time since that would just be annoying.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:02 PM
1

Give me an example of a 7 and an 8 and a 9.
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:59 PM
65

Madison Beers and Addison Rea, just in terms of looks and not fame, are right around an 8 or high 8s or even 9s. I used to have trouble finding these girls until I found my own "brand." You just need to find your brand of attractiveness and take it to level 10. Like for example if your vibe is the smart guy then aim to look like the most attractive smart guy. If you look like a surfer dude then aim to look like the most attractive surfer dude. Once you do you will find that certain types of girl…
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:07 AM
1

Wear more mature clothes or lose fat. Your body signature looks younger if you wear what younger kids wear. You face looks younger when you have a lot of face fat.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:43 PM
2

Noone said it's a guarantee, I said it plays a huge role. Those are two different things. I never said any of the things you are talking about. Some dude you argued with is living so rent free in your head you're still arguing with him.
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:43 PM
6

Race plays a huge role in dating. There's a reason why most couples are the same race. Certain races also prefer other races. Asian women would more likely prefer while males over black males. I don't get how it's supposed to be an exclusive only phenomena.
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:37 AM
6

Could due to a few reasons. First the girls just aren't hot enough. If it's not satisfying then go for hotter girls. Once you get comfortable approaching the easy ones of course it becomes unfulfilling. You have to up the weights. Second you are not showing your true self. You just feel like a husk trying to go for a number of lays. Of course it will feel weird since you feel like a passenger in the experience rather than the driver. Lastly, maybe you just suck as sex. Sex is pretty damn good if…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:29 PM
1

I get what you mean. It's doesn't require much for people to really go to know you, but first impressions always last. Of all the women you try to convince probably a tiny percentage of them will actually change their mind. Even then it won't be fun. You'd be spending an entire year betting on the low probability of her eventually liking you. By that time I've already laid 12-20 women and had way more fun than you just by going for women who show interest.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:16 PM
12

I was one of those noobs and chugged that fucking koolaid lmao. After years if someone is actually approaching and getting enough success to draw accurate conclusion, they will realize the same thing. You are the treasure, seduction is the map. If they already see the treasure but don't want it, no map will make them want it.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:10 PM
50

You don't seduce women. You simply help them along. You simply get better at detecting who likes you. It's like getting closer to that "reading minds so you can see who likes you." If you can read body languages and know how to ping, you get pretty close. It's just a matter of knowing how to make women at ease and not trigger guards while you go through the escalation points. If you can't attract anyone your skills won't go anywhere. It's like multiplying by 0 or 1. If you have nothing attractiv…
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:39 PM
1

So you are just talking to talk? Why not talk to a grandma?
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:58 PM
7

If she doesn't respond you move on. Some of you really are trying to do things the hard way trying to argue with people who don't like you.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:57 PM
1

How many women have you approached?
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:02 PM
1

So all women are racist? And the only reason you've gotten rejected is because the woman you were trying to hit on is racist? Am I getting this right?
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:50 PM
2

Okay so all women are racist and the only reason you get rejected is because you are black not because you are personally too ugly for them.
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:05 PM
1

All girls have racial preference whether they tell your or not. It's subconscious. You have a racial preference whether you admit it or not. It's not racist to have a preference.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:40 PM
2

You are reading way into this. The race part is just one part of my comment. Girl's have racial preference, if she likes your race good. If not then next. You all can figure out the reason why, by that time I'm already talking to a new girl.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:38 PM
1

Girls have racial preference.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:17 PM
1

Well now you can be the ex she talks to behind her bfs back. The cycle continues.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:16 PM
3

Base level club game is talk to someone, really anyone for a few minutes. Get warmed up. Look like you know someone and not there just to hit on girl. Then go approach. Go approach a few, then hang out again for a bit. It's like going to the gym you switch between intense sets and warm up/cooldown sets. Then when you are in the zone that's when you go balls to the wall til you get something going. Certain days will be bad, some will be great. Worst thing about club game this the pageantry. Every…
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:02 AM
4

That script is crap. Just wing it. The only thing you plan is whether you move forward or not. Everything else has to be natural you'll just come off weird. You think rehearsing you reply is your ally. You merely adapted the reply, I was born in it. Molded by it. I didn't see the reply until I was already talking to her. By then to me it meant nothing.
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:49 AM
7

"And don't forget to bow and say M'lady"
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:14 AM
64

I'm also a skinny brown South Asian guy in a gym filled with jacked blonde and Italian looking dudes so I'm already at a disadvantage to stand out. Additionally I am really bad at talking to girls. I don't know how to start convos or hold them. Any advice? So you have no redeeming quality basically? And no confidence? You can always get lucky that she's into skinny asian dudes. Shoot your shot and be done with it. If you don't have anything at least have some courage, that will be your advantage…
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:09 AM
1

So you were talking to you ex about how talking to her ex is not a good thing?
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:16 AM
1

Did you eat her ass with your armpit? Someone had to ask.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:08 AM
1

Ask her if she's the person who write all those annoying porn ads
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:23 PM
1

Lol this is why I don't believe it when people say they do daygame. These are warm up sets at most.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:33 PM
10

Thing always not written in these things. White male going for primarily Latina population in Miami who are mostly into white dudes.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:30 AM
2

Most 10's online aren't actually 10s and they know it, so they squeeze the most out of it.
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:33 AM
1

Well at least you're honest.
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:57 AM
2

If she hasn't messaged you at all, it's 99% a flake.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:15 AM
1

Lmao it's a trap then she'll tell her sister you've been perving on her once you start obsessing over her. It will only break your family not hers.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:14 AM
1

When was the last time you cold approached?
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:57 AM
1

People just say they do cold approach, they don't actually do it.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:44 PM
4

Just add "bet" to anything and it becomes 1000% more persuasive.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:42 PM
0

First one is eating, then next is putting on a pony tail, third one is going *lip smack* and then las one is hueuehuehue
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:40 AM
2

Lol the funny thing is no matter how much people preach cold approach I never see people actually do it. I've been cold approaching for a while and I rarely see guys do it. Maybe I see one once in a while but it's not the norm. Most of the people on her to who say they cold approach probably approached a girl once or twice in a year and then they brag about that one time. Trust me noone is ditching OLD. It's like people saying yeah never put up with bad bitches, but guess what that's what everyo…
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:31 AM
2

Didn't go to too many wild parties, and didn't do any threesomes or gangbangs. I personally just talked to a lot of girls and fucked a lot in my car, bathrooms, tents and shit like that. Fucked girls from different campuses, in dorms, and I'd pick them up wherever. The process is not what they show you in movies. It's more like running a business than anything. Keep your pipeline full and the sex will come. Parties seem like too much work just to get laid. I go to parties to hang out with people…
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:39 PM
2

Did you charge anyone for your sessions? Are you planning to? That's as straight-forward of a questions as you can get.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:22 AM
4

It's not weird to say hello to a neighbor or any other human respectfully and then see if they shows signs of interest. You can literally do this any modern country unless the culture does not permit it for whatever reason. It's weird if you try to start trying to pick her up like some fuckboi and then not getting the clue once she shows you she's not interested. Or if you make it a big deal and get all nervous and shit because you are overly valuing the interaction.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:44 PM
-12

I honestly keep trying to hit up some milfs with some nice apartments so I can just visit different states and chill while being spoiled but I just keep getting young broke (but really hot) college girls who want to fuck in a car or by some river bank.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:07 PM
9

Oof she went for the throat for that one. That's like trying to fish with a nuke, a bit too over the top. She's most likely going through something. This is why you want to see if people are vibing or not. Being able to read body language is very useful in seduction in so many stages of escalation.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:44 AM
2

Yes most 9s and 10s are too good for you unless you are a 9 or a 10 in some way shape or form. There is no such as thing as "game." It's literally just talking to women and seeing if they like you or not and escalating if they do like you. Moving on if they don't. You are way overthinking this and putting too much of your self-worth on approaching women.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:21 AM
6

Women won't talk to you as much because they think you are hitting on them. You are trying to blame it on age because you want it to be about age. Old women know a young guy is most likely not hitting on so they respond more, if they were younger, they'd ignore you just as much if they think you are creepin.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:58 AM
2

How do you differentiate a basic girl from a non-basic girl?
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:53 PM
6

After 2 hours of talking\* So anyways that will be about $200, at my current rate. This shit won't teach you anything other than keep having arranged conversations. Learning the skill of managing anxiety and conversation skills while diving into non-transactional spontaneous reciprocal verbal exchange is what you need. Not some other coaching session.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:30 PM
1

It already burned you. That's proof they don't need you to reply immediately so it obvious they won't feel bad. If you keep doing this thinking you are saving them from the heartache of thinking you don't like them then you are either really dumb or lying/unaware about the real reason you do this. It's just a text so reply when you have time, you are making this a bigger deal than it should be.
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:04 AM
4

I love rejections because it keeps me from wasting time. My biggest problem is I don't get rejected enough even though the women are i.e. not single, only slightly interested, only likes attentions, only wants a relationship, etc. So it makes sense to be somewhat polarizing to trigger rejections early otherwise you'd be wasting your time going on dates with women who are not who you want.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:49 PM
1

Oh shit you replied, does this mean you want my dic?
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:08 AM
3

"She ordered coffee, she must want my dick."
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:07 AM
1

Lmao you were annoying but now you are hilariously clueless. Also, you using cringe for everything is the cringiest thing I've ever seen tbh.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:37 PM
1

Lol you must really have not tasted any kind of dating success if you are this clueless. It's okay I get it. Fake it til you make it right?
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:29 PM
2

There was never a PUA community. It was just an industry full of coaches who tried to scam lonely young men into spending 5k on a pointless bootcamp. Now that they've scammed most of everyone, there's no more money in it since the majority of the market has been saturated and cooled down, so less scammer are keeping it active. You'll still see some blog spammers and coaches on here who are too dumb to realize that the money has moved on.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:05 PM
1

Lol did you actually read the post?
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:01 PM
0

If you are not good in anything then you are not meant to really do anything. Without success you won't get confidence. It's that simple. It's like telling a fat person to lose weight, they have to stop eating. To be confident you need to know why you are someone to have confidence in. You can call it cringe all you want while you sit in your little loser corner. I get it, it sucks to be a loser, but maybe just accept it and then stfu instead of being annoying.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:03 AM
1

I'm also open to correlation not being causation. Maybe the women in the ambivalent group are more "in my league" and thus I'm more likely to do better with them no matter what. And the other women are more "out of my league" and have more value and options than me. Third option. They both have an effect. Your attitude and relative attractiveness determine how they behave. You can be unattractive and ignore them and they still won't go for you. It's past a certain threshold, your attractiveness …
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:02 PM
3

Maybe she's just being nice. I brief thanks and small chat wouldn't be a problem. You can use it to get more info or she wants further engagement. You don't need to make it a big deal like wants to suck your dick right there.
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:15 AM
3

One thing that helped me in seduction was that I was teasing since I was a young kid so I had lots of practice. I remember my family members started telling me to stop teasing other girls at work, school, or anywhere really since I was so good at it. It's hard to explain since it's like a vibe and you need to establish some rapport and get a feel for the girls kind of humor. Once I have her figured out I then methodically find a way to keep her guessing and we both have more fun in the process b…
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:23 AM
2

Then problem solved. Now time to enjoy your life and focus on leveling up or maybe find a purpose and maybe choose better women in the future. Don't be in a hurry to get a new girl. Participate in society by contributing and you'll increase your exposure to better quality potential partners.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:26 AM
1

Block her or you'll be forever in pain.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:22 AM
1

Biggest mistake is you are even keeping up with your ex. You are pretty much punching yourself in the face and complaining that your are so beat up.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:15 AM
8

Its why god made watermelons and low wattage microwaves.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:56 PM
20

Or maybe just cut them off and enjoy his life whether that includes a lot of girls or not? There is no point in significantly altering your lifestyle and using other women just to impress two people you shouldn't even be caring about anymore.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:46 PM
1

Too late you're shadow banned here too hah.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:08 AM
1

I don't think you can get banned for being average, otherwise they'll block 90% of their potential income.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:59 AM
-2

How do you get shadow banned from a dating app?
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:10 AM
4

That's great if he actually likes talking to people constantly, tragic if he secretly hates it and thinks he has to constantly make new friend to feel valuable.
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:37 AM
10

Oh man and when you find a girl who knows how to dance and vibe, that some good times. So many girls I've brought to club think literally just humping you is dancing. I was dating this grade a Russian slut who was hot but was literally a flirt to everyone and had a lot of attitude but I put up with her because she knew how to move on the dance floor. It's a different form of expression and finding someone who knows how to express through dance is a vibe.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:51 PM
5

Whatever dumbass bitch slut imma be offensive cuz it's attractive. Oh shit I can feel my dick getting bigger. I meant to say coooock. I need to talk like I'm an island boy.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:53 PM
36

Being offensive to be attractive is the stupidest thing I've read today. Be offensive because you have a point that will better communicated by being blunt, but lmao being offensive to be attractive is the most try-hard shit I've ever read on this sub. Good communicators are attractive, so they don't hesitate to be blunt when communicating. SOMETIMES good communication requires being blunt. Dumbass thinks being blunt is attractive. Having your own mind and being your own person is attractive. SO…
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:49 PM
3

Can guarantee OP is not over 22
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:19 AM
5

Once she's legal the only thing that matters is how much older you look compared to her. That being said I've personally passed up on 18 year olds wanting to do it in their dorm or at a house party just because it's too much drama for a shitty lay since younger women tend to expect you to do everything and then have so much emotional bs if they are inexperienced.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:53 AM
8

Being self-deprecative as a joke is different from actually being self-deprecative. He said he thought about it and gave the most honest answer he could "Umm... probably a three." Apparently, she started scolding him for it, telling him "I'm a girl who is trying to come on to you, and you tell me you're a three? Do you know how stupid that is?" This for example is not even funny. It's just sad if you mean this seriously. Self-deprecative humor does not equal the typical boring, sad humor that is…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:10 AM
1

Only when I wear my Borat leotard.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:19 AM
2

Just text a place and time. If she says, yes then it's on. If not then that's two strikes she's not interested and you can't blame it on the situation.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:16 AM
14

No, your intent changed from you hitting on her to you having fun. The first carried too much risk for her since that means she's stuck with you if she accepted the invite while the second is low risk since you are just having fun and she's not stuck with you since you have another friend with you. You value didn't change. It just helped you be in a position to take advantage of your existing value. I cold approach solo and I make for this "disadvantage" by just having a conversational framework…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:13 PM
2

I would just say what's on my mind. Trying to prep an answer for these types of conversations is a bad crutch and makes you horrible at high pressure situations.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:51 PM
1

This is way more common than you think, especially at work. But if you can't figure out how on your own, you will not be able to handle the mental games you'll need to play once you are actually cheating with him. You'll end up fucking your life up and his.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:38 PM
0

Pick up is just a tool. If you end up alone, its because of you not due to pick up.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:14 PM
1

How you sleep with 70 girls without approaching?
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:09 PM
6

I thought maybe to go 100 percent into a youtube\twitch career but it won't be possible if I live on my own since I will have to work full time just to maintain living...I could teach guitar, I could be a videographer, I could be a sound engineer. No wonder you're broke. Those are all careers that don't bring any money. Twitch is oversaturated, music coaching is not a necessity and requires a lot of branding, videography is oversaturated, and being a sound engineer is more of a hobby type of wor…
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:48 PM
12

Since when can you only get laid through alcohol? No wonder there are so many alcohol goblins everywhere they think they can only get laid by accelerating liver cirrhosis. Vibe, get physically close, stay there while being in place where you have reasonable privacy and biology jesus will take wheel.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:48 PM
7

People just put effort in the wrong thing. When I increase my effort by increasing my volume of quality approaches, I get laid more. When I increase my effort in escalating with women who are showing signs of interest and reducing my time investment in women who don't I get laid more.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:25 AM
1

My version makes more sense so me, but yeah whatever it's not exact science anyways lol. Noone really cares. It's an internal thing.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:19 AM
1

I would consider myself an alpha because I will attempt to stand up to someone if they cross a boundary. Have done so in the past, broke a rib but I didn't regret it. If someone whoops my ass for standing up for what I believe in, I won't consider myself beta. I'd consider myself beta if I didn't do anything and even if didn't get whooped.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:17 AM
1

There's no need to be alpha all the time if noone is violating your boundaries. Alpha is only relevant when someone crosses your boundaries. For us, it's important to state your boundaries as a person so that people don't violate them. But if they do despite a lot of warning, you will need to step up and protect what is valuable to you or you are beta. You can also feel who is alpha, aka can feel people who won't take bullshit. If a dude protects his family, maybe he cares more about his family …
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:41 PM
1

Lol about what. You need to be specific.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:36 PM
1

I just use alpha in terms of territorial/boundary disputes. If you are putting someone down seem like an odd territorial thing for someone to have. Maybe they feel like everyone should lower themselves in his presence. In which case noone is dominant enough to really maintain that territorial requirement or they would have to be surrounded by some lame people to allow them that. Using the term asshole is more appropriate in that context rather than alpha/beta.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:34 PM
1

The reason people get confused about alpha on this sub is because it's mostly an ecological term adapted into humans. It does apply. Alphas have territories in the animal kingdom. Among humans, alphas have boundaries. For most people something like physically hurting the people they love is boundary/territory. If you someone hurts someone you care about and you don't step up, you are a fucking beta. There is no getting around that. The whole alpha/beta being about impressing girls is bullshit.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:31 PM
-2

Alpha beta is a real thing. It's just not used correctly colloquially.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:12 PM
3

You will care about it when it become relevant. Posturing or whatever like drinking beer isn't really what define someone as alpha. If someone was to hurt your family and you don't stand up for them then you are beta. Alpha people have a drive to fight back when their boundaries are violated. Those guys who try to look manly may be alpha, they may not. It's only when their boundaries are violated which determine if they are.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:11 PM
0

No there are alpha people. But you'll feel it/know it. They don't need to announce it. There are is no such as thing as alpha/beta behaviors. People just have different boundaries they don't allow others to cross before they have to have do something aka display alpha behaviors.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:08 PM
-12

then trying to be alpha when you aren't. Lmao make sure you are actually alpha before you try to be alpha. Do that shit around the wrong people and you'll realize quickly you are someone's beta bitch.
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:42 PM
2

They cancel. I just stay very polite and considerate with they "say" they are going through, but inside I know I don't intend to see her again. Women who care will be very apologetic, those who don't care will not make an effort. That's it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:20 AM
14

I personally don't want wait for sex. Mostly because I don't get the point of waiting for something that should be spontaneous. That being said, I've met girls who have legitimate insecurities about their body or their safety with sex and that is totally fine. At that point that's not waiting for sex, you are trying to communicate with another human being with real emotions. I've had a girl literally have problems with being too tight and she mentioned how guys would be so angry that she stopped…
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:59 PM
25

As someone who always seem to end up with the typical skinny tall attractive blonde/redhead white chick, the trick is to not chase after them. White girls tends to be overrated and over-chased. The more you seem like the typical thirsty guy with a fetish towards white women, the more they'll just lose interest. Latina's I've laid but I think they want me to be way more aggressive and less sensitive to potential rejections which is not really how I roll. If they play hard to get I just move on.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:18 PM
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Vibe and Listen. Vibe Talk about the place, emotions, situation, people, things, stuff Appreciate the place, emotions, situation, people, things, stuff Enjoy the place, emotions, situation, people, things, stuff ​ Listen Actually reply to what she's saying Understand the who what why where and people do things Don't talk just to try to get here to like you, or to get her to do something, just talk to actually communicate. Nothing is more boring than talking to an NPC (90% of people).
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:38 PM
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Damn I must be the only one who doesn't care if they have sex on the first or fifth whatever date. If they manage to keep me interested without sex, then they are pretty good at being interesting. From my experience, women usually want to have sex ASAP or if they delay it's because they have some insecurity which is also fine. If they NEED to use sex as a lure to keep me around instead of just having an interesting personality then I'll just move on. Manipulation is one thing I don't tolerate. S…
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:43 PM
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I get why some people just seem to lose all hope when it comes to dating and life, especially if it feels like you have no way out. I gained like 60+ pounds and became really unhealthy. My fat pretty much hid my facial features and made me look like I'm some slob lol. It was a nightmare when I experienced it. I felt invisible and women treated me like shit. People treated me like shit. When I got back to my usually looks and weight, it felt like night and day. Absolutely astounding, the differen…
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:53 AM
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Your area should have it's own mixers. They tend to not be called "mixers" but the good ones would have their own branding like "professionals after work" or something like that. Just make sure to not go to free mixers. They would tend to be around $30 to $50 for an entrance so it's good to be there for both business and meeting new people so it's worth the cost.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:47 PM
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False dichotomy. You don't have to do the overthink your approach and you don't have to just do the dumb approach. There is a spectrum by which a deliberate and "dumb" style can be applied and to each person it will be different. OP just laid one basic bitch and he thinks he figured everything out.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:40 PM
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Fundamentally, there is really no "fake behaviors." Some behavior feel fake because they are not rewarded. You just need to do some of these extroverted behaviors and be rewarded for it by changing your perspective. Like for example, an introvert goes into a room and feels weird if they say something to the people inside because they think talking to people is unnatural. So you get rewarded for not talking and punished for talking. In the extrovert world, going into a room and not say something …
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:46 PM
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In American culture, you can't be too silent. You need some form verbalizing your presence or you'll just seem too passive. Also it's not very realistic to expect to communicate without using the most efficient medium of communication. This coming from a dude who is naturally introverted. You need to have some ability to utilize your extroverted side or you won't get anything done dating-wise or career-wise. It's the same thing for extroverts. They can't just talk mindlessly and expect people to…
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:09 PM
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You should have some paid professional networking mixers in your area. The important part is that it's PAID. And did I say PAID? Don't go to free meet ups, it's where are all the weird social goblins hang out. I've gone to a few hoping to score old rich men to I convince them to give me their money and I keep meeting women lol which is kind of hilarious. I almost dated a milf who was a director at a bank and slept with one aggressive but absolutely gorgeous newly graduate mechanical engineer loo…
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:10 AM
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Because Trader Joe's is a chain store and its target market include young women, specifically zoomers and millennials. They are everywhere and so are young women. As a guy, it's the same reason you proudly proclaim your adoration for some other bullshit mass marketed product or media because you think it makes you look cool or "in the know" of what's actually good. Seduction-wise, it's the same reason everyone here keeps recommending mark manson or some other mass marketed bullshit. Because just…
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:56 PM
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Men are working too hard on getting shitty women then they end up in some mediocre relationship. That's for a fact. Work hard to get quality women and next the ones who are just wasting your time and don't respect you.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:15 AM
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Magic phrase is when you don't want to do something that you need to do just tell yourself, "don't be a pussy" and boom, your dick gets hard you impregnate all women within a 10 mile radius and you grow a Chad Moses beard instantly."
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:06 AM
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I've noticed this trend. But it's basically one way to find girls who make bad life decisions since they are easier to lay. It's the same idea behind finding girls who are alcoholics and into the party scene. It's a bad crutch tbh but whatever, it's not like those girls are not being passed around already. They are good lays tho ngl.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:56 PM
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It's mostly based on the area and the social dynamic of the situation. You should stop thinking women or "hot girls" are a monolith. They behavior differently in different situations. For example in a situation where there is a lot of social risk, if you don't have the status/look cut off they will be way ruder to a stranger talking to them. If they are just walking around in public shopping for example and you approach them properly, they tend to be very easy to talk to. It all depends guys. Li…
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:40 PM
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On the contrary serial killers are wimps. Their confidence is made up. That's why they hide behind a mask of "confidence" so that their real self can remain unseen. They perform their sexual acts in front of someone they can kill because they are so afraid of who they truly are that they can only show themselves to someone who is about to die. The fact that you want to be like a serial killer shows that you are a wimp who wants to hide behind a mask because you don't think your actual self can b…
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:18 AM
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If you are traveling, it's good to have a few meet up groups lined up and you can easily cancel or choose different ones depending on how your other dates turn out. Sometimes I make friends and they help me get the around the city. You don't go to meet up groups to meet girls. You go to meetups to meet people and vibe and then do daygame to actually meet attractive women. You can use meetup to quickly establish a pseudo-social circle almost like base of operation in a new area. Furthermore, it a…
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:04 AM
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What makes you think you will attract women by acting like serial killers?
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:45 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:41 AM
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If a guy is extremely good looking they would most likely have that effect. You have to realize just how rare actual good looking guys are among the general population. Even more irresistible if he is tall, built and know how to dress seductively. It would be comparable to seeing your favorite pornstar sitting alone in form-fitting clothes with an excited look on her face. They'd hang around him waiting for something to happen so that they'd get a chance.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:39 AM
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Fuuuck you're so right. Why didn't I think of that. *Drake computer gif*
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:23 AM
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Moments like this is when I think it's okay to go Connor McGregor mode. Just waltz out of there telling everyone to shut their fooking mouth. The situation sucks because her friends will automatically side with her. You'll end up the asshole in their circle no matter way so just go out blasting.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:16 AM
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You are absolutely the asshole. Of course you should have just sat there and made her look good in front of her friends. She needed you there so that she could show how dudes are so attracted to her that they wont leave her alone even when she's busy going out with friends. You totally ruined her perfect night. You should have just taken it and kissed her ass like a lapdog in front of her friends.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:11 AM
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It depends. If the girl has rapport with me and "needs" me or feel somewhat left out I just stay with her until she builds some rapport with someone at the party then I'd excuse my self and check on her occasionally to see if she's okay. If we barely know each other and she seem pretty socially cool with it than I just jump around chatting and fuck with her once in a while.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:32 PM
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Women want good looking guys but they also don't want risk. A decent looking guy in the hand is more attractive than an out of reach good looking guy. You approach to lower that risk benefit-ratio for them. You'll still have to compete with the current guys going for her and fight against any rapport she built with the guy who approacher her before you. That being said in my experience, the benefit doesn't really justify the risk if the guy is not good looking enough so there is definitely a loo…
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:26 PM
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Update: so a lot of you say this would be creepy if the woman wasn’t at all attracted to him. OFCOURSE it would. Who in his right mind would continue being flirty when she isn’t responsive and seem bothered? You see most guys miss that part so it's important to emphasize. A lot of guys do keep pursuing because CONFIDENCE IS SO HOT. It's important to make sure that guys get that you try once and then you stop if she doesn't respond positively otherwise you'd be posting on r/xchromosome and saying…
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:51 PM
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Depending on your library layout, you can approach in hallways, the larger common area, or in between the book shelves, by the escalator, right outside, and even by the elevator lol. It's really dependent on how creative you are at using your surroundings to come up with a natural situational approach. Aside from approach, I've escalated in libraries and even went as far as fingering a girl in a library corner. Never figured out if I could get a lay in there though. Not enough privacy.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:48 AM
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Lol that comment must have stung if you're going for the incel comeback right off the bat.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:39 PM
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OP: Tinder I would like to report something Tinder: What is it? OP: I would like to report myself for being so god damn awesome, but I feel so bad. Like damn why am I so awesome. Like I got laid and stuff. How awesome is that. I better post about this on reddit too. Tinder: -.-
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:27 PM
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I always said always try to hit deep.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:38 AM
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Lol I'd be happy to disappoint you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:31 AM
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Just put a few slices of cucumber under your sole. Also make sure you are sitting whenever she's standing up, almost like an impromptu musical chairs. If you are forced to stand up at the same time, try to walk like gangster so you have an excuse and never straighten your back, so you have an excuse when she asks for the discrepancy.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:15 AM
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Looks like bot profiles. It's possible Hinge keeps those around for "stickiness" which is essentially how they get users to keep checking for updates. If a girl were to just keep matching with typical average men she will lose interest and use the app less which gives the male users (the biggest source of revenue) less reason to get on the app and pay for premium. This is interesting. I didn't know that bots were used on females as well, but it totally makes more sense now how hinge has been rep…
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:58 AM
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all I’ve found are some pretty shallow guys who think women are as shallow as they are. It’s incredibly interesting to see how many guys think about hook-ups and dating culture. Both men and women are very shallow. There is this notion that people aren't or shouldn't be shallow. It's all based on their culture. The current culture of the entire world is shallow so yes people are shallow. ​ Are women just a number out of ten? I think as a woman, that the problem with this idea of hook-up culture …
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:51 AM
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Imo, you don't need consent to TRY to kiss someone, while trying to kiss IS how you get consent to actually kiss. That's a great detail to point out, actually. This is actually a very common issue when advanced people try to communicate with starters and they end up feeling dumb when people say "Just kiss her," Or "just be confident," etc. This actually could help me be better at communicating since I teach people non-seduction stuff on a regular basis and I often times get frustrated when they …
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:38 PM
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This is mostly cope. If you just kinda want something you give it a chance but don't care that much if you don't get it. If you really want something then you make sure you get it. She just wasn't that into you. The biggest issue is you invest this much into someone who is not that invested in you. You need to realize getting with a girl is never worth this much trouble since it will never really amount into an actual relationship. It's more transactional where you have to prove your devotion to…
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:02 PM
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You don't need consent for a kiss. You just move forward and they'll know what you are trying to do if they don't want it, they'll say something or move out of the way. If I sense any hesitation I just act as if it's nothing because it's literally nothing. It's only naturally to try to kiss someone when you are getting intimate, it's not some big deal like everyone makes it out to be. Similar to how you try to half hug a girl. I just put my arm up and they will instinctively move under it. It's …
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:28 PM
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Yes we've all been part of loser social circles. The difference is those who have the self-respect to leave.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:24 PM
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f I just wanted to fuck a lot, I'd move to a country with the sluttiest women. America and the UK might count among them, but so would Brazil and the Philippines. I'm not in any of those places. Dude you are in Vietnam, lol. I would believe this if you went to Hong Kong, Japan, Singapore or South Korea. I get but it. But I really think you are downplaying the role of how much your western roots and perceive affluence helps you get laid. How would you define a high status girl in that country?
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:49 AM
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I live in a city of nearly a million and being close to a college town is a great place to be at. Same age range and everyone is attractive, fit and active. It's way better than having to move to an entirely new country. So you think the women there just think you are absolutely handsome and amazing and that it has nothing to do with the fact that you are western and higher socioeconomic status than them?
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:22 AM
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You can do the same thing by moving to a college town in the U.S. Why haven't you? Or are you not going to acknowledge the biggest reason for your success?
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:00 AM
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Most of the people on here are either really young or socially challenged due to some developmental issue and it's just natural for people who are inexperienced in sex to gravitate towards a sub that will help them achieve that. Also some people are just vibing, which is cool. Some people just want to vent and are frustrated.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:48 AM
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It’s actually quite common for very attractive women to do this hook up and then disappear. I’ve experienced this many times and the girl always tends to be on break with their bf and wanted to fuck around a bit. It’s extremely common if you are attractive which seems like you are. It’s the cost of beauty on the guy’s side. Sure you can fuck hot girls but a lot of those girls will mostly want you for a short time or just like you for your looks and the excitement. You have more chances to fuck a…
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:00 AM
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Also stop thinking every girl is the same. Sure there will be similarities but you will always know how to communicate properly. Being attractive with no social sense is akin to being in a fast car but you have no GPS. Know how to communicate with people through body language and know how you can detect and or get people to be more communicative of what they want.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:27 PM
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Because it's completely normal except in some loser incel circle jerks who demand women hold their hand as they get rejected.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:54 PM
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Everyone wants to be charismatic but no one wants to go through the trouble of actually building the foundation of confidence. You build confidence by succeeding. You succeed by using your talents in solving problems and moving forward. You build your talents by putting in 10,000 hours of trial and failure in becoming a master at something. Everyone comes here asking for a one time solution. Just like a lot of things worth getting in life, the shit worth having take years to build. Then some los…
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:04 PM
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Reciprocate effort then if you have gathered enough info to determine whether they are just shy or really uninterested/neutral, you can decide whether you want to keep pursuing or not. If they are not even the least bit excited, I move on. If they excited but shy, it would show through their body language. I've encountered a few girls like that and it does happen, but more often than not they are just not that interested so move on.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:48 AM
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It's usually something very obvious that you are missing. Try shooting a video of yourself. I did this and I realized my posture was whack and I was mumbling a lot. Most people you know won't tell you if you are ugly or doing something weird.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:28 PM
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You are probably not attractive enough. I experienced this when I gained a ton of weight and stopped caring about my looks. It's the same symptoms: People don't notice you or glance over you Approaches feel like you are bothering people People have zero energy interacting with you You can also improve your overall vibe. You can be kinda attractive but if your presence is just weak, you'll also just fade into the background. Improve the following: Posture Health Eye Projection Vocal Tonality and …
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:47 PM
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It's not a marketing problem since dudes already market themselves too much during dates and on apps. It's a leads acquisition and sales cycle problem. Men don't know how to properly push the leads along their sales funnel and most pursue dead leads.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:35 PM
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Trying to do the same and so far my solution is just approaching in college towns near campuses lol.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:21 AM
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Anyone who says day do street daygame is either lying, they didn’t tell you whole story or they are straight up insane. Street daygame success vary wildly on what that street is surrounded by. If you are doing that street daygame near a festival and everyone is having fun, then that’s easy. If you are doing street daygame in a business district then you’ll be wasting your time.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:16 AM
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When I was in my boobs phase, I didn’t like any girl who had smaller than Cs. Some guys have varying degrees of preferences towards ass or boobs.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:07 AM
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Many options: Gain A LOT of muscle Gain A LOT of money Gain A LOT of fame Gain A LOT of talent Plastic surgery Approach A LOT of women. You’ll need to use probability on your side.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:41 AM
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Easiest for me was in college. I would approach about 10-15 new girls a week several new dates a week and lay a new girl every month or so. It wasn’t too bad but it was somewhat time consuming having to walk around all day and you need to be able to figure out your logistics (gas and shit). I had to switch between two campuses and get laid in my car or motels. Had several same day lays through this and some lays came from girls I met in class but the most efficient way was approaching random gir…
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:06 AM
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Nowadays most women want to keep armies of back up guys. It kinda makes sense when they are really hot, but it’s actually funny when average girl tries to do it. And even funnier when desperate dudes fall for it lmao. Imagine being an orbiter for some mediocre girl. Best thing to do is humor them but just stay “friends” while lowkey cutting them off. If they try to interact i just comment and send a meme of some sort then go back into not wasting my energy on them.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:51 PM
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Get better everyday physically and mentally Be respectful to everyone not just women. Don’t let people walk over you. This includes cutting off people who waste your time. It’s not send to a message. It’s so you can do better things with your time and not be gaslit into becoming someone’s on demand emotional support. Don’t be afraid to have the freedom to say what’s on your mind while keeping #2 in mind. You can't change weird people. Just walk away from them. There will always be outliers who e…
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:02 PM
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1-2 coffee dates are reasonable. I like hanging out with people. Being respectful is how someone should be normally. Being authentic for me would be not putting up with women who just want to objectify you and keep you as an orbiter. The other things that OP mentioned are just things women want you to do because it takes resources from you to them. I have female friends that I keep up with and put in minimal effort to stay in contact. Some of them would call out of nowhere and expect me to stay …
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:41 PM
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I ignore it. I treat them nicely and then just start talking to someone else who doesn’t bullshit around.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:23 PM
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I always thought a baddie was a girl who looks so good she a baddie lol. What you described sounds more like a "chola."
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:18 PM
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Oh I've had this problem. If you have iphone just download the app called "recent contacts" and it will show the most recent numbers you added. I've solved this by doing the following: Either text yourself their number and text their name is the first message Or have them text their name to your number to exchange numbers Put detailed notes in your address book so you can tell who is who. I like to put the most memorable thing about them so that it jogs my memory.
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:00 PM
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Looking for signals before approach is pointless. She could be looking at you, the guy behind you, or whatever else. Not to mention your approach determines everything anyways. Some women have an rbf, I’ve laid some pretty hot women with rbf who look like they hate everything and some have done botox so they can express even if their life depended on it. Approach and then see if they let you move forward and escalate. Those are the only real signals you should be paying attention to everything e…
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:46 AM
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Very strong “if you’re homeless why not just buy a house energy.”
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:19 PM
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And everyone on reddit is so much deeper because this social media platform uses text instead of dance videos. It’s the same shit different pile. Also using the terms “brainless,” “deep as a puddle pile,” are all equally condescending. Trying so hard to differentiate the two simply through surface-level semantics is pointless. He says social media people bad even though we on social media just one with bla bla instead of click click. This is some self-masturbatory bullshit that get promoted on s…
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:03 AM
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All the times I’ve fucked an unattractive girl are painful memories. I felt like a loser after doing it. It’s like the moment I nut, I feel a deep sense of shame.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:05 AM
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She likes him more than you, so move on. That’s it. Do it if you enjoy the challenge and competition.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:58 AM
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So you are typical “I am too smart to enjoy the company of a non-conventionally smart person.” Get over yourself. People can seem dumb or smart at face value but how someone socially present oneself is up to random chance. Who your parents are, who your friends are growing up, what media do you get exposed to and what other major variables become huge determinants in your development. I’ve met many people who seem “dumb” but their intelligence is manifested in different ways, 7 ways at least. Ju…
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:54 AM
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If you are able to score 7s pretty regularly, that means you are an 8 as a dude. If you are able to regularly pick up 8+ like your typical cheerleader, attractive girl in college or just your typical hot girl, that means you are a 9+. Most dudes Are sub-7 which is why most guys struggle getting an average girl or would have to settle for someone who’s meh if they have no game. The dating market is the like the stock value of attractiveness. You can only know your value based on who’s willing to …
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:11 AM
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Ignore everything as if it never happened. Engage her in a positive way them bring it up and say what happened, ask more out of concern. Say you’ve had friends who did something similar because they are going through things and let her know that you are here if she needs anyone. Don’t be fake. Don’t be typical. This seems like her way of reaching out for something, albeit dysfunctional. Some girls just never learned how to get emotional support without sex because they were sexually abused growi…
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:10 AM
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As someone who went from being boy attractive to being unattractive due to being unhealthy back to being manly attractive, I took women's attention and "niceness" as a normal thing initially. When I gained a lot of weight I was wondering why I suddenly became invisible and none of my approaches were hitting. I would walk in a room no one would acknowledge or look at me. When I talked to women they looked at me as if I was a bother. It was a weird experience. Then after I realized I was destroyin…
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:32 AM
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It mostly sounds like you don’t want to grow as a person. You want to remain insecure because you don’t want to take the emotional risk of trusting someone enough to ignore your insecurities. You are too afraid to get hurt and so you stick your old ways out of selfishness not out of authenticity. You are basically an overgrown baby and you want to coddled. You are looking for a second mother. Some women are into that shit, so you may find someone but you’ll need to increase you attractiveness an…
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:18 AM
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Meh depends. I’m a bit tired of young girls. They look attractive but they tend to have some anxiety issues around sex unless they were a grade A slut in high school. 25+ Are so much better lays if you get to actually find one who maintained their looks.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:29 AM
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Gae
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:20 AM
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No it’s for the most attractive men. If you are at the top, it just expands your reach. Mathematically, it benefits attractive men since their probabilities of success have a multiplier as opposed to average dudes. So they don’t need to out in much effort for success. If you are not getting results through dating apps, you are just not attractive enough to be at the top of your competition. This is why tinder is highly location dependent. If you are in a city with a lot of attractive males, try …
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:16 AM
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Dating has many different phases. You need to determine where your problem lies before you can address it. Meet up (Do you have enough candidates to pick from. If you don't meet enough men then you will naturally be inclined to settle) Connection (Are you able to detect early signs of bad dates. Let's say you have 100 men after you yet you spend your time on 1 guy that turned out to be a bad date. It means you need to weed them out early so you can focus more of your time on men that a more prob…
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:51 PM
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Keep it simple. If you can't do cold approach just do social circle game. It's boring but it tends to work for people who like the typical dating life. It's super slow. Like if you get dumped, you'll probably need to build or join a whole new social circle just so you can find a new girl if the previous social circle is connected to your ex.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:26 PM
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Right, so you’ve never had the rug ripped out from underneath you? You’ve never been taken by surprise and hurt by a woman you chose to love and trust before? Everybody plays the fool sometimes, just like the song goes. Lol yes I did. It hurts but it's really not that much of an issue if you know how to distract yourself You’re not gonna evade that unless you decide to vehemently refuse to date altogether, Yes you can. Dating is the process. You need to improve your dating skills. If you got hur…
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:22 PM
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Game theory works like that. In any thing that involves other people improving their tactics in order to achieve success you will have continually learn and grow as a person. That is life. Blaming your failure on "shit luck" is just as bad as the incels who blame their "shit luck" on women because they refuse to improve and evolve. There will always be shit men and shit women, it's your job as a person who wants better things to learn from your mistakes. ​ People can put on a damn good act in th…
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:29 PM
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Lol well there’s a reason they keep having “shit luck” with men because they think dating is up to luck. Who you choose to be with is your choice. If you choose the wrong men then improve your choosing skills.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:13 AM
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Well those are signs of trauma from abandonment which tends to be symptoms of borderline personality disorder. Certainly not something all women do. Maybe a good portion of women who get dumped over and over again. OP’s flings mostly show signs of narcissism than BPD, which is more prevalent in very attractive people.
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:28 PM
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You have it mixed up. Approaching girls when you want someone is comparable to hunting for a highly nutritious prey if you are hungry. It’s much better for you in the long run. Being desperate for a girl would be like eating shit just so you can eat something because you are too much of a pussy to hunt properly. You just end up sick, fucked up and worse off than where you were before.
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:21 AM
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So women with less options find you more attractive? That’s expected. Older women don’t have as much opportunities to socialize so any guy who is not old like their husbands and husband’s friends. Anyone who isn’t old and overweight would be a catch to them. Girls your age have a lot of options and opportunities to meet attractive guys so you are nothing special to them. People saying it’s because “older women are confident” as a reason are just coping real hard for not getting any interest from…
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:12 AM
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Did you guys hook up, made out, had sex but after that she started being distant and the vibe fell off? She's just not that interested. After a girl has sex with you, she's pretty damn interested. Just saying. She probably has different priorities in life and you shouldn't pursue, but getting laid is a damn good indicator a girl likes you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:23 AM
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"Cocky funny" has been overdone to the point that it's literally the "live laugh love" of dudes. Everyone tries to be cocky without realizing that it only works if you maintain composure while being self-aware and then trying to be funny without understanding the intricacies of social interaction just result in some cringe attempts at humor. It's been synonymous with being arrogant, annoying and try-hard because so many newbies have severely misinterpreted this personality-archetype.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:36 AM
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I've just in a bad mental headspace due to all of this and feel like I'll never be good enough. Not to mention I've managed to catch some of these girls go and laugh about me with their friends after I leave and get weird stares from people around me, honestly making me depressed. Unless their friends know your friends, it doesn't really matter. Also I personally do indirect which requires more subtextual communication and understanding how to read body language as opposed to the dumbass direct …
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:20 PM
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I am 5’10, 22 years old and 250lbs 250 lbs? Unless you are a linebacker you better lose some weight.
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:01 AM
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People think it's cute to make a huge deal out of nothing.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:55 AM
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Lol read his netflix actress with her “super cool” mom field report that’s written like a low budget movie where the people do random things out of character to move the plot along.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:15 AM
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Same, when I go to any of these salsa or whatever classes, they are always either old or just sub 7s. I just feel bad whenever I go to these meetups or group classes trying to meet people. I once went to one and literally was the center of attention for all the women there since every other dude was either old or just plain haggard looking. I could tell all the dudes pretty much hated my guts like why the fuck am I even there. Got two numbers from 40 year old blondes and went on a date with both…
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:57 AM
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You just need to wear clothes that makes you look like you belong where you are. If you were in some retail or customer service job and went to school of course the people around you won't have a need to wear anything casual.
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:36 AM
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No that's called emotional attachment. You have allowed yourself to be attached to someone so you start to consider them as part of you because you don't feel good without them. Your dependence to them is still conditional on the fact that you feel good while you are with them. You like them to be there still for your own selfish reason. "You'd do anything for them" because you are scared of losing this positive source of daily feeling good. It's pretty obvious by your post that you are neither …
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:19 AM
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Someone who is full themselves does not equal someone "who isn't afraid to walk away from the relationship, one who doesn't care about her more than he cares about himself." If you are too afraid too walk away you are just a pussy. If say you care more about her than yourself you are just a liar or so desperate you are willing to lie to yourself so you can stay with someone. Some guys are just too socially inept to make a distinction between the two and try to be some badass and end up being cri…
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:08 AM
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Depends on their high school experience. I've dated some girls who hung out with the drinking and partying crowd and they are seasoned by the time they are 19. There are a lot of them but they tend to be cliquey and sleep around with the same dudes in within their larger group.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:09 AM
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I don't think you get what I'm saying and I'm too lazy to expand any further. Do what works for you.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:03 PM
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Yes niche dating make IRL dating even better which is actually how most guys get really consistent results and live like porn stars, which show just how shitty OLD is that it needs to be niche in order for it to even compete with broad IRL dating. The cons of IRL is you need to have physical access to the niche. In OLD it's also pretty difficult to get access to a niche since most widely used dating apps are broad, so IRL beats OLD in every aspect. These guys just have unique situations where it…
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:11 PM
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If I were to try and meet the women I laid in person I would have to be some billionaire playboy philanthropist. OLD has too many steps, too long of a cycle and you are competing with everyone. Also women online just tend to look way worse than when you meet them. There are niche situations where it works like for your case, you are zeroing in on a niche of Black women. Another guy who posted on here made it work by being in NYC while being a six-figure-earner. For the typical person, in a gener…
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:56 AM
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Been to the gym but can’t do anything there, I get tired fast. How many times did you go? Don't fucking tell me you tried it once and just went "well fuck this is hard, alright I give up."
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:38 AM
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That seems like a scam from a dude trying to pose as a girl online. If you agree to get fucked by the dude, the girl will never come in because the girl and the dude are the same person. You just seem clueless on how to filter people tbh.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:35 AM
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It depends on the location. He's probably doing street approaches with complete strangers or women way above his league while not having ironed out the flow from approach to isolation. On campus it's so easy to get a lay pretty regularly since I just do my f-closes in my car or in a dorm. This is why logistics is crucial as well as approaching. Work hard, keep approaching, but also work smart, figure out the best logistics to make approach to lay more efficient.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:17 PM
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It's like mining bitcoin except you don't get anything.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:08 AM
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Sounds like you are just need to be more attractive or go for less attractive women. If you don't want to play with the game theory of seduction then go to the basic straight-forward aspect of it which is physical attraction.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:58 AM
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Sure whatever.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:12 AM
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If your only method of disagreement is to insult someone, you most likely lack the mental capacity to respond in any other way. I can already guess what you'll reply next.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:02 AM
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Just watch how guys on this sub act whenever a girl comments or posts about some obvious seduction advice. "Omg such a great post." "Wow this!" Some guys are just hard-wired to simp and probably need a lot of therapy or painful lessons to snap out of it. Some are just too dumb to realize it doesn't work.
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:18 AM
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They were very close and had a great relationship from what I could tell. Great relationship how? Also what were they celebrating? Are they celebrating her landing a netflix role? Are they tourists to Vegas or locals? A lot of these descriptions are really ambiguous and don't really teach people how to understand how what happened here. They are all drawn in really broad strokes as in the "hot popular girl is hot and popular and the cool mom is cool so yeah I got laid."
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:11 PM
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You have to make moves while the iron is hot because if you wait too long, the iron cools off and her attraction plummet's Her attraction to you will remain the same. Your rapport will plummet, which affects what she does for her attraction to you. Also so what if it disappears, just talk to her again. Or just find a new girl. Make moves when you want and if you want. If you actually you want something and you are confident in who you are and how you get what you want, then the timing will take …
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:22 PM
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Ashely and I walked back to my car and we went to my apartment. Yall know what happens from here ;) Okay, so what happened? You fingered her on the dancefloor with her mom around and then her mom just let her go and then she just went to your apartment with no LMR whatsoever. What are they? Why is the mom so lax? The mom seems to passive yet she’s close enough to go clubbing with her daughter? I’ve known some mom-daughter relationships like this and the personality doesn’t click with me. Mom tha…
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:57 PM
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This post is so well-written and articulated with so much confidence that I am inclined to agree. Unfortunately, I think it's actually bullshit. It reminds of all those very well-written articles on New York times that basically tell you the most basic tip. And then everyone acts like "OMG SOOOO TRUEEE." This shit is actually annoying whenever a girl does it. I'm just like "are you listening?" It doesn't do much so just do what you actually want to do while in a date. What happens when there is …
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:40 AM
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100% depends on how she says it.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:22 AM
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Depends on the area. Coffee shops I go to, the majority are business people who talk loudly and mind their own business. It’s background noise. Who cares. Unless they are literally screaming, it’s just how some people talk, especially boomers.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:19 AM
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Lol would you like to play texas holdem?
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:14 AM
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You stop wasting time which works in getting more girls that are actually interested. Going after women who are not interested or just trying to keep you as an orbiter has a huge opportunity cost.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:12 AM
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Depends on your vibe. I’ve been out on dates where they would rather talk to me and been on dates where the girl gets all the attention. I think it’s that wide eyed kid in a candy store look. I tend to have that when I’m having fun and it just gets people engaging. I’ve been with ice queen women who are absolutely gorgeous, I’d go to the restroom thinking “I wonder who tries to hit on her while I’m gone” I got out after 10 minutes and no one even tried to talk to them. Been on dates with bubbly …
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:23 AM
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Fuck that I'd be out for blood. I'd sue the shit out of her to get her for all that she's worth even if I end up broke. I'd make sure everyone from her mother to her nephews knows the bullshit she has done. I'd reach out to all sorts of TV shows and talk shows so they can interview me and let them know what she has done. I'd hire a black market SEO and make sure anyone who searches for her name or any of her family will or anything remotely related to her will pull up the videos that talk about …
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:02 AM
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Step 1, stop calling her the love of your life. There's a reason why you broke up.
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:35 AM
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Boomer tries to blogspam on reddit but can't even link properly
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:35 AM
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I personally don't know. I think a girl should be able to support you if you are the type to be depressed all the time. I'm just never depressed which works out for me. I can't stand being helpless nor can I stand being around people who are always depressed. If you have a problem, implement a solution. There is no point in moping around and over-thinking. Be your own hero. You need that fire that burns within to fuck over anyone or anything that gets in your happiness. So be highly methodical a…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:32 AM
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Literally anywhere on campus. I laid a girl that I picked up in the freaking registration center while she was having a break up phone call lmao. Picked up a girl in the library lobby, waiting in line at the coffee shop. That being said, the intersections near quads are the best. Colleges campuses are literally hook up cities. A huge majority of women are single and ready to mingle. Approach anywhere.
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:28 AM
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I usually am a huge proponent against OLD but this.. I would rank this as one of the best posts about OLD on this sub. OLD is a tool that sucks in general, except in niche situations and you found a way to control for the inefficient variables associated with OLD. I can say that you have found that niche situation where it works efficiently. And I can already tell why you are earning six figures. You are methodical af. Great execution. I have been high successful at cold approach but I am pretty…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:22 AM
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Yes BUT I've never turned any girl who is not interested or little interested into a yes. My lays are always with women who are showing clear signs of interest from the start. If a girl is being a dick, drop them. It will never amount to anything.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:32 PM
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Damn. If you are not trolling that means you really drank the PUA koolaid, which has already disproven to be bullshit for a decade now. Improve on actual social skills instead of weird routines. Some of them will be transferable such as having the ability to take rejection. Just focus on being an actual normal person this time. EDIT: I think it's good you are trying to be more real now. It will be kinda bumpy kinda like right now since you've suspended your social sense for a while by depending …
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:01 PM
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Biggest confidence boost would be being the best at a lot of things. Don't be a one dimensional person. Be good at a lot of things. Don't be typical. Then you'll know you really are one of a kind. Success is the biggest contributor to confidence. Best way to be a success is find the things you are good at and dominate it. Be the best at it. Don't settle for second best. Aim to be the absolute top tier at what you dedicate your effort to.
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:51 AM
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Can't tell if this was written satirically.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:36 AM
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Whenever I run iinto someone I know I like to fuck around and just say random shit like "Oh hey I remember you... sex change clinic right? No? I remember I was thinking about becoming a girl but I changed my mind. Is this your final form? It's pretty convincing." Whatever you do don't do the boring, "Oh hey how've you been, what have you been up to! Let me just be weirdly nice to you for no reason until we get bored and never talk again."
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:33 AM
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From all my experience in picking up women and I've picked up a lot of women. Never have I once actually laid a non-interested or semi-interested girl. If they show the least bit of disinterest it's 99.9% never going anywhere. You are just feeding their ego at the point. The issue is 90% of guys will still pursue despite being disrespected like that. Some girls will even try to keep you in that limbo because they like having an orbiter who caters to their whims. TLDR: sign of disinterest or lack…
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:27 AM
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The most applicable thing in sales that I learned is transferable to seduction is ​ "Do not go for the sale before qualifying the prospect." So many guys profess their love for the girl so early and so desperately. They also spend so much time convincing a girl to like them when in reality it's all about determining whether a girl wants someone like you, is willing to close the deal soon, or if she's even remotely interested in your product (sex with you). There she passes none of these qualific…
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:06 PM
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Damn bruh, I have no dating problems but I'm trying to build a business because I'm tired of feeling like a typical fuck boy with no direction in life other than doing fun shit but I keep getting sidetracked by friends and the girls I'm dating. I think the key is having a balance. Too much of one thing is bad. I personally just need to get a business going so I can travel around meeting people while getting rich in the process.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:48 AM
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Certain types of girls you'll need it for social proof. My take on it is if you have a passion for something such as skateboarding, travel, coffee, or whatever it doesn't hurt to use social media (insta) to tap into a community online. If it enriches your life while serving as social proof it kills two birds with one stone. If you despise it, don't do. That being said, it doesn't hurt to have a SC since it's basically a new messaging app.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:03 AM
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It's not their responsibility to let you know how to fix your problems. Chances are they don't really know the complete truth of why they don't like you. Attraction is primal and emotional. The only information you need is that they don't like you. Most men are horrible at taking rejection so they don't need to risk their safety at the chance you are not one of violent/weird ones. Get the fuck over it. Stop thinking about something that is not your concern. Move on.
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:57 AM
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If you actually hooked up, you are most likely good looking and simply haven't gotten out of your shell. Meet more people, focus on building your social skills, hit the gym and don't get too attached to this girl.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:35 PM
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Noone really wants that many message unless it scratches some itch. It probably makes her feel popular. You can't even have an actual convo if so many people are contacting you at once. If she doesn't make time for you, you are not her priority. That's it.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:53 AM
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She's undecided. Don't commit. Invest into someone else. That simple.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:46 AM
0

You remind of the women at Walmart who keep saying men are all horrible while being 100 lbs. overweight and trying to return a 10 cent button.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:44 AM
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Your vibe was off most likely. I specialized in picking up girls on campus. Most important thing is you don't approach without giving the girl an out. If you are walking with her, she is trapped since the only thing she can do is reverse direction. That's why I always approach opposite and then talk. That way if they are not feeling it they just keep going their way and I go my way. Most guys on youtube are mostly using their looks and edit in their best approaches. Their game is usually shit. Y…
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:02 PM
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I've had friends that were lame in grade school I didn't see for a decade and became fully grown adults. I've address them as a fully grown adult acquaintance. I would have to be an idiot to assume they will remain the same physically and psychologically. If they expect you to be the same person you were years ago, they are dumb. You don't need to explain yourself. You give you respect and they give respect. If they disrespect you then you give them a bit of a nudge at first and then if they sti…
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:40 PM
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“Wow” give her a puzzled look then wait for her to ask why. “That’s funny, your mom said the same thing” then quickly change subject or leave.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:45 AM
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The more attractive you are the less social norms apply to you. For example, if you are in a hurry to catch the train and some 40 year old lady was trying to get attention, you are more likely to ignore her than if she was a 20 year old hottie. Secondly, the more socially adapted you are the more you are able to get what you want regardless of the social situation because you know how to micro-calibrate, hence social norms also don’t apply to you. For example, if some guy was trying to pick up a…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:40 AM
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Just take rejection as a data point. It’s just information. People’s tastes are out of their control. If they don’t like you, it’s just a fact that you don’t do it for them. Just move on and find those that like you. From a strategic standpoint, it’s a bad move to try and impress people who don’t like you since they might be completely into different type and you are just trying to move towards a goal that doesn’t lead to realistic success. As an extreme example, if a girl was into black guys an…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:06 AM
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Meh your friend sounds like he’s trying too hard to prove to you what a player he is. Willing to bet most of those lays are not as frequent as he’s making them out to be, hence he disappears for months.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:00 AM
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Just put a toy king kong at the tip and take a pic. That will make it look humongous. Extra points if you manage to add helicopters circling around.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:35 PM
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For me martial arts does the trick. Whenever I have intense sessions during the week, my libido is through the roof and for some reason the women I'm seeing just become more sexually aggressive. I feel like physical aggression triggers some sort of pheromone response in men. I have no data to back this up so take this with a HUGE grain of salt. I hate when people state completely made up bs as if it's true. When you don't jack off to the point that you just become passive then I would guess the …
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:19 AM
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Lol they know I’m dating other women.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:14 AM
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I'm always discreet when dating anyone. I'm not the PDA type and I don't flaunt the fact that I date multiple women. People don't want and don't really care about what you have going on in your dating life so discreet dating should be default.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:37 AM
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She tried setting me up with her friend but I told her she was too old (35) for me It's not that it's wrong, it's that you have no tact, which probably doesn't help making you look good. I'm in my mid twenties and dated 18-19 year olds with no problem because I know how to be discreet, know when to walk away and know when to shut up. If you are already being seen as a cradle snatcher you don't go saying other women your own age are "too old" you just seem like a complete douchebag.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:52 PM
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People have so many opinions on this with zero facts Will Smith is one the highest paid actors last year Hollywood is dying and so are award shows Will Smith gets the Oscar He is in an open relationship (they both sleep around). He doesn't care what his kids do as long as they are happy. Why would he need to do this for anything regarding his wife? New celebrities are made on the internet through controversy Chris Rock didn't charge Will Smith. Why? Last year Golden Globe did a similar "controve…
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:41 PM
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I’ve laid some girls through work but it’s a loooong process. Like she was working there for a year before I even got the opportunity to go out with her. Also you’ll need to do a lot of push pull and subtextual flirting. You can’t be explicit. At least that’s my style. I’ve seen some dudes who are absolutely blatant at it and don’t get fucked over, as far I know. Easiest way I’ve been laid at work is picking up women in the same industry during business trips. There’s a reason CEOs put a lot of …
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:54 PM
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Thanks I'm trying to create some sort of model to determine someone's value in the dating market using those 4 variables. This is super preliminary and rough version, but thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:10 PM
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a little better looking than me got with 2 different girls tonight Good for him. You should be happy for your friend. If anything you should be asking him for tips not some randos on the internet.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:34 AM
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Don't give her what she wants. Say no thanks to her "suggestions." Don't pursue her when she give you the cold shoulder. Ask "why" at the right moment. Understand her at a deeper level and see why she does what she does and you'll find out her basic drive in live. Take note of her history. Why did she break up with her past relationships. How she talks about them. Does she take any responsibility for her mistakes? Does she have inconsistent temperament? Are there times when she just suddenly doe…
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:30 AM
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You are overthinking this. Just say something like.. "Why make it difficult for yourself? You shouldn't have to use your imagination that hard." Just make sure to wrap it up.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:46 PM
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Stop trying to date but start expressing your personality in a variety of situations and seek to learn and grow from them, which should include situations where attractive single women are involved. Actively avoiding attractive women would be pretty pathetic. Live life how you want whether there are attractive women involved or not . Problem is most guys who struggle either avoid them or completely simp for them. Just treat them like the flawed human that they are just like everyone else.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:39 PM
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Stop giving them free attention. Most girls see male attention as real estate to capitalize on and turn into social media followers, engagers and other perks. This is why they keep you around but will never invest in you. If a girl doesn’t show interest immediately move on. This is the new dating rulebook in the age of social media. Ignore it and you become someone’s simp and paycheck.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:30 AM
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Interesting. Is if for depression or you are just experimenting with dopamine-enhancers for quality of life improvement? Also can you feel a difference?
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:38 PM
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Building muscle while maintaining abs. It's a slow process but I'd rather do that than do the cut bulk cycle and feel like shit/look like shit half of the year. Practicing martial arts and familiarizing myself with all sorts of weapons helps me know I don't have to take shit from anyone, which makes me more attractive imo just from the overwhelming confidence it brings. Staying financially flexible, investing in appreciating assets and not wasting my money on stupid shit while actively trying to…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:20 AM
2

What you're microdosing is what determines if it will help.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:14 AM
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I just have prospects do something that proves to me she actually, first, remembers what we talk about, and two, I am not too far down her priority list. For example, if you talked about her cat, ask her to send a picture of her cat later. If she can't remember something so recent and/or can't be bothered to follow up with something so simple, that means she has me so far down her priority list she can't even bother to do one simple task. This can be either due to her not being interested enough…
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:58 PM
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She's doing a lot of bs. Saying she will do something and then not doing it. See if you can get her to do a mini-compliance test. Ask her to text you something, or just have her do something very easy. If she still doesn't do it, it's a sign you won't get anywhere. Just ignore and try maybe in a year or so. Seems like you already made enough impression that she remembers you for a longer period anyways. You are bleeding value in her eyes letting her fuck with you like this. Play the long con. Mo…
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:23 PM
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Probably makes things way easier. I'm not very good looking just decently good looking, tall, athletic, and I emanate an aura of confidence in person. With my whole package I get my fair share of compliments/flirtations. You sometimes get approached by women, just recently some tourist girl just number closed me at Starbucks after opening with a "is that my home states jersey?" pick up line. It makes approaching way less daunting as well since I can just walk up to number of women and I can depe…
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:01 AM
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So you're saying OP is stoic AND boring lol.
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:19 AM
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She was working for a media company and I worked on a project for them as an independent contractor. I had some disagreement with the manager because he kept moving the goal post for the project. And guess what, she sided with the manager so I was like fuck this. Didn’t get paid in full but I just got annoyed by the whole thing so I left and didn’t talk to her again after that.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:49 AM
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I dated a girl who was exactly like this. We dry humped in the back of my car for so long that my dick started to hurt lmao. She was wearing jeans too oof. She was asian and religious so it must be some cultural thing. I didn't actually stick around to find out since something she did kinda turned me off. I'd imagine you'd need to address the root of her not wanting to have sex, hence just ask her. Otherwise you won't be able to ease her anxiety.
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:00 PM
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Internally speaking, sure always know your value and gain confidence from your accomplishment. But at the same time it's important to be realistic, externally speaking, because your value to the dating market will change and you need to be honest with yourself. At some point the value of your past success will expire in actual usefulness. Your dating knowledge will be outdated. You don't want to be some of the dudes here giving 18th century dating advice because they haven't realized their past …
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:49 PM
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Lol that's the most boomer dating take I've heard. Never felt the need to kiss up to people just so I can make a better impression on other people. It's just a first date, chill out.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:29 PM
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Just send her a text to go out with low commitment such as a coffee meet up. Feel out her initial response and step back/step forward depending on her temperature. Crucial part of game is calibration mid-escalation by retreating or accelerating according to how she responds to you.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:07 AM
1

Lol im curious though what he said this was “ 💦💦💦.” Did he say he tweeted about watering plants at 4AM?
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:25 AM
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Bro he tweeted “goddamn she thicc.” Do you think he was talking about the crust on the dominos pizza he ate, c’mon shit’s obvious.
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:54 AM
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Everyone has an accent. Even if you are from the same country, your will have a local accent. People don’t care unless they can’t understand what you are saying or if the accent is too thick and fobby.
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:49 AM
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Unless I was on some 007 mission to seduce a girl for the sake of the world, I wouldn’t go through so much set up or some greetings. What kind of insecure girl would care that much if a guy is greeted by servers who’s job is to give customer service. Lmao she probably just thinks “hmm this place has really good customer service, i should recommend it to my crush.”
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:46 AM
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Other dudes of female friends are always so weirdly defensive and competitive with any new guys that comes into the picture. That was my experience meeting guy friends of the girls I meet. It’s like an impromptu dick measuring contest I didn’t sign up for nor do I care to win.
/r/seduction22/03/22 05:53 AM
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Real question is what gen
/r/seduction22/03/22 05:47 AM
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I'm always amazed by the amount of bullshit people put up with when it comes to online dating.
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:52 AM
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You have the scale and experience so your intuition is telling you that you can do better since you haven't even gotten to the point where you start doubting yourself. 7 is a good enough number to feel confident in your skills. Your potential to get a hot girl really can be judge on your past interactions with them. Have you ever had a thing with the prettiest girls in your class? Like me in classrooms and social situations, I'm always the most comfortable around 8+ since I feel like they are my…
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:52 PM
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So you text her about bad news and then she tells you to come over as friends since she already rejected you so she thinks it's okay since, again, she already state you're just friends and now you think she wants to fuck. This is how girls talk to each other when they are feeling bad. Also she already made it clear she doesn't want to date. You are deep in the friend zone.
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:32 AM
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5 not attractive 6 almost attractive (most average women) 7 relatively attractive (pokimane, kinda cute girl, 8 typical attractive (i.e. Jennifer Lawrence, ariana grande typical hot girl in college 9 really attractive + (anyone who is almost flawless i.e. margot robbie, bella hadid, gemma chan, kendra sunderland, megan fox etc. 10 Someone who is a 9 but your type or just anyone who is just unbelievably attractive i.e. margot robbie, bella hadid, gemma chan, kendra sunderland, megan fox etc. Tbh …
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:12 AM
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Your "hey" line is actually the best imo. I have a similar style except I keep it more lowkey improvised quick approaches while reading their body language to decide whether I stay or not.
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:40 AM
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You need both looks and not being socially weird. This is nothing new. Additionally, it's not about safe vs exciting topics, it's about escalation. Escalation by itself is exciting. If you don't escalate, it's boring no matter what you talk about it. You'll just be someone trying to entertain her. You need to be a guy who make things happen. Also why are you talking about safe topics at a club? It's a fucking club you just bullshit around, get drunk and wild out. You probably lack the social sen…
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:33 AM
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Yikes
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:23 AM
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Your goal is not to compliment but to either get their contacts or go to different location (instadate). You don't actually need to compliment unless there is actually something to compliment her on and would feel natural to say during the conversation. Your only issues would be transitioning from asking directions to an actual open ended conversation. Most guys over-depend on using compliments. Sure you can use that to do the transition, but you can actually just change subjects. If she looks u…
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:46 AM
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When you say vibing with her, what made you think she's actually vibing? Was she having fun, laughing, ask you questions, did she say something before leaving etc?
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:39 AM
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It's not hard to get laid if: You don't go after girls that are not interested and go after those that are Escalate with girls that are interested You meet new girls regularly That's what most guys problems are on this sub tbh. It's up to you to believe there is some secret sexual line you can say to instantly make them wet but in my years of experience, it all comes down to not wasting time on those not interested and putting your time into those that are while being as normal, non-needy but re…
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:34 AM
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A good portion of the 9s and 10s you see, in the US at least, are mostly 8s who got plastic surgery. It's way more common than you think. A lot of the 9s you see have had something done, that's why plastic surgery surgeons make so much bank.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:50 PM
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Btw, she wants a Long Term Relationship. I would like that as well, but I’m confused. Just gf her and then break up with her if it doesn't feel right anymore. No biggie.
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:24 PM
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I thought kids just send each other 👉👈 and then go uwu
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:22 PM
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Stop the hamster
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:14 PM
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Sex-change operation. Extremely painful from what I heard. I do not recommend.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:59 AM
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I don't really think of it as trying to pass a shit test. I think of it as conflict-assessment. Some people, especially ones who think too highly of themselves, try to give you shit for no reason. They try to intimidate you so you either overreact and look foolish, or you under-react or look weak. Don't try to pass shit tests. Just learn to handle difficult social situations. If someone gives you shit and it's somewhat vague whether they are being a dick, ignore it and give them a chance to not …
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:49 AM
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That's why you go indirect and don't over approach girls from one campus. I visited sister campuses I haven't visited for a while and go crazy the first few days (got a one day lay doing this) approaching any hot girl within my vicinity and then be a bit more lowkey the rest of the time. Having friends kinda feel nice, but it's not needed. I like walking around campus with friends and chatting and the only thing that happens is some the girls I previously approached keep staring at me when they …
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:28 AM
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Just talk fast enough or slow enough that you can enunciate the words you are saying while being able to just relax and enjoy the conversation. If you are not breathing in between sentences you are talking too fast. If lose track of what you are even saying you are trying to hard to be mr. smooth talker. Just talk how you talk.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:07 AM
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Nice cap, but I'm not gonna bite.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:05 AM
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People can tell whether you are a virgin whether you admit it or not so just stop stressing about it. I've done it many times where whenever someone asks me about my body count I just say I'm a virgin being completely serious. And guess what they don't give a fuck I still have a great night. No one cares. People know when you are lying about your body count because it's written in how you talk and how you carry yourself. Just say "I am sexually unadulterated because my body is for Jesus" or some…
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:58 AM
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Tell her "Omg natalie, I have a problem to tell you but can you keep a secret?" "Okay cool, my dick is too big, all my ex girlfriends orgasm too much during sex and I'm afraid it will happen again with my next girl. What do I do? Oh yeah also I have too much money. How can I spend it? Yeah make sure to keep this a secret just between us okay?"
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:47 AM
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Please ffs, acknowledge their experiences and give them actual meaningful advice instead of empty useless platitudes. Yup. AEF. "Always Emphatize First." Then you can be like "haha if all else fails fuck midgets" or something like that.
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:12 AM
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Went out with a girl like that. She would keep flaking and sometimes respond last minute and make me wait 2 hours after the scheduled meet time. We did end up going on a few dates but she would just keep intermittently be really bad at scheduling. She also apologized profusely and then scheduled the next date just like the girl you are seeing. I stopped seeing her just due to getting annoyed af. Not sure if she was just prioritizing someone else, but I personally can't put up with someone who is…
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:14 PM
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Firstly, lift some weights and get huge. This will take time but I remember the first few times I've had sex just from raw animalistic desire and it was amazing. She was into tall buff guys and I was into petite asian girls with big tits and we fucked each other in the back of her car until there was a film of sweat and moisture on every single square inch. You'll have to find a way to show it off "naturally" though. Every crazy sex I've had was after I coincidentally showed her my body. Having …
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:31 PM
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Lol 3 days. I don't even remember what I ate for breakfast 3 days ago. The whole 3 day rule was back when dinosaurs roamed the earth. It's a fast-paced world out there.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:18 AM
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It's really not a big deal. Just say you don't feel like drinking today and change subject. My guess is that this is just a symptom of a deeper issue that is actually the one that keeps you from succeeding. There are many different ways of bonding with people. Alcohol is just one way of bonding there are a million other ways to find commonalities. I don't drink when I'm out with strangers OR do any kind of recreational drugs and it has never kept me from getting laid. Even though I don't drink, …
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:06 AM
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Paying money for sex in Vegas is legal. The guy just uses his company as a front for laundering and uses the models he hires for the promotion as social proof.
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:55 AM
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She probably forgot you and doesn't even know she ghosted you. Most women ghosting is just lack of interest and getting distracted by relatively more attractive people, they don't do it out of malice. Just act as if you don't even recognize her, I mean how do you even know it's actually her. You only went on one date. Acting all butt hurt if she says hi is just childish. Just do your thing, don't stress about it, and if she says hi just be normal but don't invest.
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:52 AM
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Translation: "I did this for 3 days and it kinda seemed to work for me so it's going to work for you. Dude just trust me."
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:24 AM
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I wouldn't stress about losing either. A good friend will communicate and will always look out for your best interest. If it's easy to lose them they are not that good of a friend anyways. You are doing fine and you just gained a ton of real-world dating experience. Just keep doing what you are doing and next time just remember to strike while the iron's hot.
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:22 AM
1

Right in the meow meow
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:16 AM
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C'mon it's very easy. Just open any porn site and they have tons of singles in your area looking for casual sex. All you need is to give them the 10 funky digits in your wallet.
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:54 PM
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This is why you strike while the iron is hot. I've learned this the hard way. If a girl wants to sleep with you now, the actual question is "Would prefer to fuck me now or never have a chance again?" It does something when they are convinced to fuck you and you say delay. They probably direct that overwhelming sexual energy towards someone else (or just masturbate) and all your momentum is lost. This is also the reason that if you want to go steady with a girl, you should try to extend your sexu…
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:47 PM
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What you need to say so you don't feel old I guess.
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:28 PM
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You are never supposed to say or imply you are a player in the first place. Trying to make yourself seem like a fuckboi is tacky af. You are a person who has quality people as friends whether they are men or women. What you do with them is your business. She is not your priority if you just met the girl. Has she proven herself. If they expect you to be loyal for no fucking reason then you are simply overvaluing her if you believe that.
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:01 AM
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General population of 25 year olds will be softer and rounder than the typical 22 year old because people gain more weight as they get older. You may be talking about facial features. Facial features associated with youth are also perceived as more attractive since older people’s faces have more droop and deformation. Also a 17 and a 22 year old are vastly different anatomy-wise and legality wise. 17 is basically a child.
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:52 AM
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A lot of the “virgin” people back then were just gay and couldn’t come out so they had to pretend to be straight but chose not to participate. He also had a male “best friend” whom he was particularly close to.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:45 PM
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Prime looks is early 20s which is pretty much all you need for early dating and you can cruise off that for a while. Prime attractiveness may be at 30 which includes your looks, status, confidence, etc. and some guys function better when using all of their characteristics to leverage for dating.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:37 PM
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Lol that’s actually hilarious.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:24 PM
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General kino advice is so bad. Touching doesn't maker her excited. It's a force multiplier. It increases whatever you are feeling for that person. Kino will not all of a sudden make a girl like you. If the girl is not feeling you and you touch her, her feeling of dislike will be multiplied. All the horror stories of women feeling very uncomfortable are from men who think simply "kinoing" will seduce a girl. It won't. You touch a girl when the moment feels right and she looks like she is vibing w…
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:12 AM
2

Devils tango and dance practice? Are you sure you're not actually 60+?
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:05 AM
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For example, I was talking with this prospective FWB. She started talking about her exes and she showed me how infatuated they were with her doing all kinds of desperate shit on her photo album. I responded with "Yeah I don't really get being so attached to one girl, if someone shows me the least bit of disinterest I just leave and never show my face again. I'm not really the type to chase." That's when I start implying I'm not the relationship type. I make several statements like this being a b…
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:28 AM
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Eventually all my girls say something like "wow you have a lot of female friends" Yup exactly this statement. That's when I know they know.
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:17 AM
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You leave hints bit by bit that suggest to her that you are not looking for a relationship. I always talk about my other female "friends" and they always catch on because I have so many female friends. When you talk about relationships, state your opinion in a way that shows you don't do committed relationships. Eventually you will have a conversation that explicitly states each other's stance. A good amount of the time they get it, and they limit their emotions accordingly. This makes them less…
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:56 AM
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IF you have a prestigious job and IF you get to party like a fart boy, so basically you are day dreaming. Make shit happen first then figure it out. You are looking for solutions to far away problems while ignoring the ones that are more urgent right in front of you.
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:19 AM
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But a lot of the times when I approach or flirt with a girl they just automatically assume I just want sex. It's not true. 99% of the time when I approach a girl it is because I think she is pretty and would like to get to know her. I never talk sexually when I approach. Oof you are so clueless. So you approach girl and immediately they think of sex and you think this is a bad thing. Just learn to banter and give less fucks. Joke around and be playful, if they give you this "you just want sex sh…
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:50 AM
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She does nothing besides doing college stuff and hanging out with friends. No future visions, plans, hobbies, ambitions, original opinions about whatever, nothing that I could pull a longer conversation out of. That's on purpose. It's the most common way to reject guys aside from "I have a bf." They look super low energy and looked bored because they want you to get the hint and lose interest. They are not excited by you. Watch how they talk to people they like and you'll see the difference is n…
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:41 AM
1

"Dating coaches hate him for this one secret seduction technique."
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:24 AM
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It's a class issue. It's not how much you spend it's what your social status is. What some people don't get is they could spend all the money in the world trying to impress a girl with money, but if everything about them signals low class then they just look try hard. If you signal high status/high class then you are just a down-to-earth dude eating a McDonalds. If you are eating at a classy restraurant then that's just what you are used to so it makes no difference. Your clothes, your car, your…
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:22 AM
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I personally would bring up the fact that she stood you up for a date. That's a way bigger deal than ghosting you tbh since she essentially had you move your schedule and did not care to cancel. That's a pretty big disrespect for me since she thought you time was worthless. I wouldn't care if she's dtf. When you brought it up, she showed an attitude. I would make things clear first that I don't like it when someone expect me to commit my time but doesn't commit their or have the decency to cance…
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:12 AM
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The location change is what triggers the recalculation not the time an account is created. Since it’s determining your ELO from a collection of profile swipes/unswipes within an area, you will have big swipe history in London and a very small swipe history in Warsaw. Thus the lack of warsaw swipe history triggers a learning phase. Tinder has to do this or attractive women will just get bored and uninstall if they keep getting men that are way below their lookmatch. It’s not random.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:19 PM
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If all you are seeing on tinder are unattractive women, I’ll have to inform you that the algorithm shows you those that are the same ELO level as you based on your swipe percentage. This means high ELO people aka the attractive women aren’t swiping on you in those areas so the systems stops matching you with them. The unattractive women are the only ones giving you a chance hence they shown more. A new area essentially means the algorithm has to recalculate some part of your ELO so you get to se…
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:08 PM
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Says the dude who cant get laid on his own lmao.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:44 PM
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Oof called out. I see so many frat guys hanging out in their groups while I’m out with girls 100% of the time I’m on campus. And I don’t even have to pay $5k per semester to have fake friends or attend cringe initiations lmao. I see so many snaps from frat dudes who tried to recruit me and it’s always 10 dudes for every chick in parties.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:11 AM
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You don't ask out a girl you've only known for a few minutes unless they are showing very strong signs of interest or it just feels natural in the situation. None of those were in this scenario.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:01 AM
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This reminds of computer tech manuals for boomers. "To browse the internet, rest the palm of your hand until you can feel the coldness of the device deep into your skin... *10000 steps later*, and now you contract the muscle on your point finger to generate force that will cause the device to make an arrow on the screen interact with the object it is hovering on."
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:52 AM
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If you've known them before this, it didn't take 4 weeks. Definitely seems like you are newly single, let people know you are dating, and then your social circle helped you get laid. For however long you've known them that's how long it took you to get laid.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:46 AM
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Frats are way too much work and way too much prep just to lay one mildly attractive girl during a semester. By the time it took you to lay one girl you've been working one through all your social events, I've already met and fucked several girls across campus. And I don't even have to fake friends with people I don't like. I grew up getting laid through social circle and this is exactly why I got into cold approach because it's too much work, you become dependent on your friends so you become th…
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:02 PM
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I would never admit to knowing game or doing pick up IRL. Just makes the whole thing feel weird.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:37 AM
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This actually works except I do this picking up girls in person. I can just tell through body language when a girl is 99% not worth the effort of warming up. But even if just 1% of that converts it's no extra effort so it's actually an amazing strategy in conjunction to investing energy into women who are currently interested. This is not my last resort but actually my typical response because I personally despise interacting with low-effort people. I don't give a fuck who anyone is, I won't pro…
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:23 AM
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Same thing happened to me in the same situation except I ended up laying her. Girl stood me up the night of the date. I acted like it never happened. I was joking around with her the next day BUT I already signed her off in my mind. We work in the same group so I just started becoming more distant. Stopped initiating hanging on campus. The key is to not over-commit and to not react emotionally. Just move on like a thief in the night. I moved on but kept on interacting on the surface and making s…
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:02 AM
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Men who get laid: Anything like my situation leads you to getting laid. Men who don't get laid: Anything like my situation keep you from getting laid.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:53 AM
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I think women will like whatever you like as long as it's not murdering babies. It's misattribution. People think it's WHAT you are into when it's in fact HOW you are into whatever you are into. In essence, just forget about what people think. Just do what you want and be fucking good at it. Enjoy life. Live by your principles. Respect those you deem respectable. Find purpose. Women will be a small part of your life because in retrospect pussy is easy to come by. A truly interesting life led by …
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:48 PM
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That's also what I've learned after nearly hundreds of approaches. All my lays were literally from women who showed interest from the first time we've met. I've never even been with a girl who was lukewarm at first. A girl can be excited to meet and talk with you and show "token resistance" but will keep reaching out without any input from your end. That being said, I've seen guys end up with girls who didn't like them at first and they look absolutely unhappy. The girl is always naggy and compl…
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:10 AM
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That’s because most “attractive” women on instagram are not that attractive IRL. You should visit r/instagramreality. Also a girl has their own type of guy. Certain girls go for toptier looks, toptier personality, toptier status but they have baseline requirements for everything. The more attractive they are the more likely their baseline requirement for attraction and other things are higher just because it’s very natural to want to be with someone attractive even if you care a lot about other …
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:51 AM
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The default know escalation ladder is Approach > Date > Physical Escalation > Isolate > Sex. I personally break it down further and mix things up a bit based on my style, but that's my personal formula. The key is you keep moving forward towards those big isolation points. If they don't let you then they are not interested no matter what they say. If they do let you, they can pretend to be good for you but their response to escalation reveals what they really think.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:28 PM
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Some girls are insecure and that's how they cope with it. When they feel like the guy they are dating above them or if they just generally insecure they will keep "DHVing" for no apparent reason. Just imagine all the dudes on here who keep telling everyone that you need to always talk about fake stories of how you were on a yatch fucking goddesses as they descend from heaven while wiping their tears with billion dollar wads. She's the female version of those insecure fuckers. I've had an fwb lik…
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:29 AM
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So you are independent person who has his shit together and you want a girl who is exactly the same as you. You see the problem there? Anyone who is like you wouldn't want to stick around to be in a relationship since they are the independent type. It seems you want the perks of having a relationship but don't want the responsibility of having someone who depends on you. There figured out your problem, where's my $200/hr?
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:22 AM
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If they are actual good friends then just keep it that way and look elsewhere. If they are shitty friends then just ask them who cares if you lose them.
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:10 AM
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Damn so melodramatic.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:44 AM
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I don't know tbh I can't blame you. I've fucked a good number of girls and a good chunk of those lays were kinda meh. Some of them will be mind blowing like when I fucked this tiny asian girl with big natural tits in the back of her car. Damn that was good. Or that time when this Latina chick just casually jumped my dick while we were hanging out in the back of my car and she had the tightest smoothest pussy oh my gah. But then there are lot of ones where their pussy just felt kinda meh and the …
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:42 AM
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Highly dependent on the place. Random city street where people are jumpy due to homeless people harassing everyone I'd go an entire day without any numbers even after approaching 20 people. I'd be able to get a convo going but then women are too fickle to stay put. If a place reminds women of bad experiences, they will associated those to anyone who approaches them no matter how attractive you are. On campus due to my familiarity and comfort to this type of area, I'd get a solid number every 2 o…
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:17 PM
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As someone who’s been approaching for a long time and done many approaches, yes you can if you are skilled enough BUT. Some places are not worth the effort. For example approaching on the street in a business district where it’s mostly overworked and annoyed people who are mostly married? You won’t get much results. If it’s on the street near a festival near a vacation spot? Yes that would be more worth your time. Once you are experienced enough you’ll realize it’s not really the skills that mak…
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:58 PM
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I’m glad she’s happy, though. Very proud she’s able to come out of her shell of the trauma of a toxic relationship. Good on you being positive but she totally made that shit up lol. She just didn’t like you bro and didn’t want to be a victim of homicide. Everyone’s saying it because it’s obvious.
/r/seduction15/02/22 03:46 PM
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Biggest thing I've learned when dealing with girls. The smallest amount of hesitation 99% means they are not interested and there is nothing you can do to change that, so stop simping in hope you'll "seduce" her.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:23 AM
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This. Whenever a girl’s friend/family is adamant about checking up on her, not in a controlling way, I just say she’a got good people. I tend to even ask about the friend just out of curiosity. Sometimes if it’s a girl, they friend just doesn’t want to feel left out so engaging with them is a win win for everybody. The more the merrier. You are there to have fun anyways. Even if they do cockblock you who cares, you just met the girl. It’s more important to be socially adept than insecurely try a…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:52 AM
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Well my point is don’t put anyone on a pedestal. Men who put women on a pedestal tend to put other people on a pedestal as well and have a fragmented view of the world. One thing that helped me in seduction is seeing people for who they are no matter how rich/attractive they are. Set yourself free from manipulation. Be your own person. That’s the real reward of mastering this imo.
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:34 AM
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It's some kind of a compliance test using body language. If you lock eyes with a girl and you give off a sexual energy, she either retracts because she's not interested or she holds because she is. It's not what you say, it's what you "say" and how she "replies." The most crucial conversation are the ones that happens underneath the surface. You are not actually seducing them with your eyes, if that's what you thought you were doing lol.
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:06 AM
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Depends on what you are used to. I'm personally used to the college town pick up. The vibe is different. I've tried to pick up girls in the city and you can't just roll up in your jammies and expect to get some respect. You'll need to have a more solid lifestyle, brand yourself more deliberately, and have something going for yourself professional-wise. In college, you just have to be attractive and vibe well. I'm personally trying to transition from college town vibe into a more professional cit…
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:40 AM
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I mean the majority of this should be applied to how you approach all people not just girls. People who tend to fall hard and trust a girl right away are the same types that get scammed by dudes, and give too much too quickly in their business, life, family, and dating relationships.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:29 AM
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A lifetime of doing everything that I can with my mouth instead of my hands has honed my neck, jaw, lips and tongue with a finesse, grace and strength like few others. Every female I've gone down on has told me that I am the best oral pleasurer they've ever been with. Sure, they could have been saying that to prevent an ugly truth from hurting me, but like everything else I can't help, I don't give a fuck. I know what I'm about. Lmao best part
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:48 PM
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Everyone pay condolences for the brother who actually bought into the valentines day bullshit.
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:44 PM
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Study shows women actually feel angry and annoyed by confident ugly guys. Source? Cuz this would be hilarious if true.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:25 AM
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I mean sure he's doing fine. More likely is that he's overrating the attractiveness of the women he's with. 9s and 10s are so rare you'd have to be at the top of your game to regularly get them if you even know how to find them on the regular. The most attractive girls at your local night clubs are high 8s at most. I personally have only approached one girl I'd consider a 10 in my life in person and I was speechless because I was new to seduction. If you are in a good campus, you'd see a lot of …
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:14 AM
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I will occasionally drop to an 8/8.5 but that is usually only when out and it’s pretty much at least a solid ONS guarantee. Normally I don’t ever drop below a 9. So you hooking up with super models on the regular?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:54 AM
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but online dating should just be thought of as a way to practice and sharpen your skills What's skills?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:50 AM
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she would love nothing more than to get pregnant to tie a guy down, and then she pressured me into takeoff the condom off. Lol so she told what she's going to do and you let her do it.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:54 AM
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Lots of pornhub couples actually do porn without showing their face. The only issue tbh is the taxation. I actually have looked into the sex industry lol.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:49 AM
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Obviously I'm just guessing. I never search that sort of blasphemous content on an already blasphemous website.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:26 AM
2

She's a tease. It's the same pattern for women who like the attention in order to keep you as an orbiter. Sends you a catchy low effort text. You give her attention. She gets it and you invite her out. Then one of three happens as for the date: She says next time or she "might" consider it if things align. She "entertains it" and makes you think she will do it before she backs out last minute due to "unforeseen" circumstances. You go through all the hoops, her main plan doesn't go as planned and…
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:25 AM
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Make a pornhub account and you'll make a killing.
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:53 AM
5

A lot of guys get stuck in a bizarre 18th century mentality with their approach to sex and women whom they have feelings for. They believe that they are somehow being respectful or are demonstrating to her that they are relationship material by not pursuing sex or being sexual. Legitimately never met a dude like this by choice. Even religious dudes are pretty aggressive at sealing the deal tbh they are just more lowkey with it. The reason guys "wait for sex" is because they girl is not letting t…
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:45 AM
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It makes sense tactically but I disgust and confuse myself whenever I do, because there's a huge question of which of these two people I really am. Well I think you shouldn't do so to the point that you are acting in a way that is against your principles. Varying your lingo and communication style does not equal changing your personality. For example, talking to my hood friends with using SOME slang and being primed to think like someone who is from the hood is fine, but completely acting hood i…
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:20 AM
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I approach on campus where it's super common and it's really not that big of a deal. Just pretend like it's not there. People also always take the masks off every now and then so you'll know what they actually look like.
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:00 AM
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Adapting your conversion styles based on who you are talking makes you more socially versatile. Trying too hard to be "educated" can come off as standoffish to some people. Obviously you don't want to completely have no personality of your own, but being aware of what lingo to use depending on the situation and audience can come a long way.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:50 AM
2

Wuuut. That's kinda interesting.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:56 AM
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Sorry you sound needy af. 3 days no talking and you think it's the end of the world? She probably needed to breathe. 1-2 hours to respond is how long a normal adult with a life takes to respond.
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:12 PM
2

The mods on this sub don't really care. I subbed. Need to make a new seduction sub that's actually moderated.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:35 AM
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Lmao best comment.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:33 AM
1

I guess I was talking about clubbing. Bars are still meh for me.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:08 AM
3

Standard? What market? I've never heard of this lol
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:01 AM
1

Do this instead. Hire some dude, or better yet, a girl (with a dick) from thailand. Have her (him?) call you everyday and ask you if you approached any girl today. Tell her to call you a “small-dicked donkey” or something like that whenever you answer no. Pay him/her like $10/hr or something. It will be a better investment and it will motivate you. Source dude just trust me
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:39 AM
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I had the same problem when i got out of relationship. Friend vibe comes from you getting used to not taking risks when talking to any girl other than your gf. You lose it by taking risks. You are way too friendly, your jokes have no edge, way too nice and you probably have buried your sexual energy behind your normie facade. Your goal is not to get to know the girl. Your goal is to fuck. You just have to internalize that mindset and you’ll be back.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:32 AM
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My biggest issue with bars is they cost so much money and you need to get all dolled up and shit. If none of those work for you, do social circle game.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:24 AM
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Lmao $4 for a number and $10 for a date? Calm down Jeff Bezzos. Upvoting because I want to see who bites.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:20 AM
1

She’s most likely going to flake. This is why I rarely set dates that far into the future especially if she has no history of being reliable. Canceling would actually be the good move here imo.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:16 AM
1

If this is on social media she’s just trying to keep you as an engaged follower.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:12 AM
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If they don’t want to have sex/have a date with you there’s nothing you can do about that. Sex is a consensual activity. That being said, they can’t stop you from walking away and finding a different girl who actually wants to have sex with you.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:02 AM
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Lol had the exact same thing happen to me before several times. Women don’t like being rejected so they lure you in so they can reject you.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:57 AM
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Better to be rejected and spend your time elsewhere than waste it inflating some girl’s ego who will never put out. I’d rather die a virgin with self-respect than get laid being someone’s little bitch.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:33 AM
0

Get anxiety therapy or a prescription.
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:15 AM
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Literally every guy I meet talk about how they used to be a big time player then I see the their oompa-loompa looking gf/wife.
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:13 AM
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It's not the word it's the vibe and non verbals. Your looks, posture, facial expression, how you move, your clothes, etc. all speak louder than any of the words you say. Imagine being approached by a dude who doesn't swing his arms when walking, has a shitty hair cut and doesn't look you in the eye when conversing. He already said "I'm a loser who desperately needs someone in my life," way before even uttering a single word.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:16 AM
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This is the most "rent free" post I've read today.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:06 AM
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Smooth
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:04 AM
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It's a bot who only likes your shirtless photos because they have the same #ilikeitinthebutt tag
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:03 AM
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Could be anything no point in trying to figure out something you can't control. You escalated and she didn't move forward. Work on other girl. Following up is another option, but from my experience if there is no excited they will flake. I'd personally just ignore girls who don't show much effort. Enthusiasm need to be mutual.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:56 AM
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That's still cold approach but with extra steps.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:52 AM
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It's probably because you are paranoid of men being into you that you stare at other guys too much. You have ASD so it's likely you can't measure the correct amount of eye contact before someone considers it as interest. Hence, you end up staring at other dudes and they think you are giving them IOIs.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:57 AM
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When a large group of people show up people look because it's a big group. You notice bigger things. Girls also check out other girls to scope out for competition, men also check out other girls. They are mostly likely looking at the women and then you as an after thought. I don't over-think too much about what people think of me when I'm there to hang out with friends. I also don't put my worth in who I'm with I am good with or without someone. Sure enjoy the attention in the moment, but don't …
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:54 AM
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You asked, she indirectly said no. Learn from it then move on to the next.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:48 AM
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Should have done a power move and started hitting on the dude instead.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:33 AM
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Holy shit an actual good post on this sub wtf. A woman's interest can be raised as long as its better than neutral. But once below neutral its game over. Women are highly obstinate. Absolutely. This has been my theory and experience, but I'm not sure if this was just me. I'm glad this is confirmed by an actual reputable source. ​ Shoot your shot before it turns into a crush! If it does happen to be a crush, shoot your shot anyway, if it doesn't pan out, it forces you to move on sooner than later…
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:18 AM
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Depends. The truth is that past a certain point most pretty girls get treated the same so it doesn't affect their behavior more than other pretty girls. Most very attractive women who put average amounts of effort into looking pretty are normal. And you'd think they are only 8s or 9s. 10s are basically 8s or 9s who put A LOT of effort and money into their looks, which is why most 10s are pretty insane because 99.9% of women are not really THAT attractive naturally. It's like seeing a girl with p…
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:53 AM
1

You can only really be sure that he likes you when a dick pic ends up in your inbox.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:25 AM
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Approaching to convince a girl to like you never works, so it doesn’t matter what you really say. You are either attractive to her or not. Her job is to tell me right away through her body language which one is which so I can spend my time elsewhere or give her a chance. Direct openers just makes a girl explicitly state whether they like you or not which works for most guys who can’t read female body language if their life depended on it.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:24 AM
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Schrodinger's virgin. You are a virgin and a chad at the same time. Only when you post on r/seduction saying you've slept with 1000 girls in a year and create some shitty youtube channel teaching guys how to approach girls and try to sell pick up course do you truly become a perma-virgin.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:19 AM
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8 feet and up.
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:02 AM
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for crying out loud im not trying to date her but meet up again for a chat and networking. im jot gina ask her to a bar and shit i asked colleagues and people i networked with my age or younger to grab lunch. if i ask my manager for lunch an i dating him? i don’t know me personally if it’s strictly business and i didn’t really vibe with the person it’s social media or email only. if i give out my number i vibed and wouldn’t mind seeing the person again Yet here you are on r/seduction instead of …
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:37 AM
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my iq is too high for my workload and honestly healthcare. Holy shit we got a Mensa prodigy here. How high is your IQ? Let me guess you used an app? ​ if you never tried pure cocaine or took a responsible small dose then STFU. y ou think i was taking lines snorting so coked out everyone would notice ? Lol based on your responses in this thread. Whatever you took is an irresponsible dose. ​ also you def lack the eq as i said it depends on the situation. during that situation it’s all timing and r…
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:25 AM
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Well, seems like the job shortage really allowed the quality of health professionals to plummet. Lol why do you even need to network in the health industry, they accept any application from anyone at this point lmao. All your other collegues, risking their life trying to keep the system from breaking down and here you are high af and checking out a patients boobs when she's redlining at 200+ heart rate. EDIT: Lmao also I'm just imagining your patient is bleeding out and I see you roll in and go …
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:04 AM
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Pussy? No. Good pussy? Yes. Any girl who is 8+ will have a good amount of good looking dudes going for them. Also you are correct in that it really depends. I've gone to campuses where it's easy to get laid just because there aren't that many cute guys around and some campuses where there are just too many top tier guys competing for the hottest chicks. From my experience, it's harder to get a hot girl as a plate nowadays. You pretty have to either be the top 1% in looks and social proof or you …
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:47 AM
2

Having a group of friends that like to give each other shit for the fun of it. If you see comebacks as a positive thing, you will see it as another way of connecting with people. If you try to incorporate comebacks because you want to seem clever or just want to insult, you will crash and burn. Sure, maybe 1% of the time you'll use it to put someone in their place. However, you build the skillset by just hanging out with people and being witty as a way to have more fun rather than to one up othe…
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:25 AM
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Not during a medical procedure. man maybe posting here was a mistake. after all it’s a majority of kissless spineless virgins with no life experience talking about theory and picking up the most women possible. Sure argue about something different. You don't take advantage of patients. That's part of the ethics code among health professionals. Something's wrong with you. I'd rather be a virgin with some principles tbh.
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:10 AM
1

Sounds super fucking creepy to be doing this to someone who is going through a medical procedure.
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:00 AM
1

Move out of LA is one option.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:57 AM
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Holy shit a lot of bad advice on here. At work, I've seen women who are just friendly. And you might be misinterpreting it through your biased perspective. Equally, it's also possible she's into you. The best thing to do, especially in work situations, would be to escalate discreetly with some implied romantic interest. Ask her out. However, be sure that it's clear you mean it to be a romantic date, but give her an easy out so that she could appropriately readjust your work relationship if she r…
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:55 PM
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I'll go out with my buds and just come say hi to her. We're talking over IG, I suggested a coffee, we'll see. That's much better.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:14 PM
1

White and latina girls are all I meet. Maybe move to California.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:29 AM
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One very cute girl comes up to me, she asks if we know each other (obviously using an excuse to open). This has never happened to me before, we chat, I take her IG and she suggest I come again on Thursday to celebrate her birthday I wouldn’t go. That’s a bait. Makes her seem more popular on her “special day” and you’ll go by yourself into a whole new social circle for some chick you barely met. When I go on hangouts I expect similar commitment not something ambiguous.
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:23 AM
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Getting 9s and above are completely luck-based. Well at least based on my experience. 8s I can predictably get because they are still someone rooted in reality but once a girl essentially has a perfect face and body, she has the world at her finger tips and she becomes really annoying to date as a normal person who isn't a celeb or a millionaire. You can be a really good looking guy and you will simply be typical to her since there are all these millionaires and good looking guys with no game th…
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:22 PM
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Well, take care fellas. I'll probably be trying to get multiple friends with benefits. Having one at least takes a lot of the pressure off. Unless you get your pipeline going you might just end up in a relationship since you mentioned your previous were all 5s and you already went on 4 days.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:13 PM
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Just forget about the whole kiss-close step. 90% of the women I've laid I never k-closed before sex. It's just a type of escalation that shows you she's getting more comfortable, but it can easily be replaced. To some women a full hug is a big step, to some it's holding hands. It can also just be putting your hand around her arm. slight shoulder touch if it was a joke that was unbelievable, complimenting her earrings by touching her ears This is really good. Just keep doing what you are doing an…
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:16 PM
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Glad to know it helped. Additionally, touching should work hand in hand with the vibe. You might feel it's natural to touch someone when you are having fun. She then associates your touch with good things. For example, you guys are talking and then someone makes a really funny joke, you incidentally lean into her little bit as you are all laughing. It makes the interaction so much better and meaningful. You do this a few times and you both feel comfortable being close and touching each other to …
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:57 PM
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Well looks like they do care. Some women do, some women don't. What is best practice in a club/party situation is to engage as many women as you can and then at the end of the night you do the kissy stuff with the girl that is most likely to go home with you. Being overly touchy with all the girl is doing too much and won't really help you get laid. If you really enjoy being kissy and touch with every girl so then fuck em, you do you.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:42 PM
1

Join a frat or a social club of some sort. It gives you some social proof to be part of something.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:37 PM
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You are better off joining one of the teams. I've dealt with this picking up girls in college. I could still manage to get lays, but there are certain ones who only go for guys within their social groups, and they tend to be the really attractive ones. So the best thing to do in college is to really just join as many clubs as you can and develop as much as you can socially within those social circles. Otherwise you'll need to really up your looks game and overall vibe to really make them want yo…
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:29 PM
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But women who see that from the outside what do they think of it? You should be able to judge that for yourself based on your interactions later on. After doing this, were the women who previously were receptive still receptive when you go back and try to talk to them after you've kissed and touched other women?
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:23 PM
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I actually have. I had to because I had very narrow tastes when I was younger. I had a phase where I was only attracted to girls with DD boobs and up. A girl could be really pretty but I was not interested if she had no boobs. Then I started dating more athletic and slim girls. I had a white girl phase, an asian girl phase, a latina girl phase. Then it eventually evened out and now think I'm in a phase where I don't really like going after women that are not at least 8+ in terms of looks since I…
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:58 AM
1

Talking to different women and being social does not equal creeping up on women and being a dog, which I think your friend is talking about avoiding being the latter.
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:47 AM
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Do not do Kino and never call it Kino. Just do gradual physical escalation. Start out with incidental, fun and short touch. Then when you feel more comfortable and she seems to initiate some touching herself, it can be longer and more intimate. Don't overthink it. Just feel it out.
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:43 AM
1

Try XL condoms and it will be like night and day. Ever since I switched, my lays have been way better because regular size condoms end up suffocating the shit out of the tip. All XL condoms essentially leave more room towards the head as if it's flaring out.
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:40 AM
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If you are alone, just approach. As for getting approached, you should hang out with a male friend. Whenever I hangout with a girl, women women seem to just ogle or they wait until I'm alone. Totally different story when I'm with male friend. When you are with a guy friend and just out to vibe, it's like women sense you are available and sociable.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:51 AM
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I really can't see it being a viable dating app unless you are meeting them off of Tinder and just using Snapchat as a messaging app. That or you connect with random people off of your contact list. That's not really dating since dating apps let you connect with cold leads from the more that more like reconnecting where you work off warm leads.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:41 AM
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I literally only use the app with people I know in real life. That's literally what it's for. It's not meant to be a dating app.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:34 PM
2

Well, you'll realize it eventually.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:02 PM
1

Talking to 5 different women does not equal dating 5 different women. Talking to women is literally being their emotional janitor if it's mostly you trying to keep them entertained, making them feel good and treating them everywhere. If you get nothing for that you are not dating.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:57 PM
1

Honestly, you are either the type of dude women like or you are not. There is a lot of genetics associated with it that people won't admit in terms of your looks genetics (assymmetry), but also your behavioral genetics (i.e. aspergers, ASD). Some people may look normal but they behaviorally can't connect with people. If you are having so much trouble with women that it reduces your quality of life then just move on. I've had success with women even before I got into seduction but it my success w…
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:56 PM
3

Yeah but you don’t get to talk shit in the comment sections about what a tough guy you are.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:55 PM
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Their struggle is due to self-imposed restrictions and shorter men feeling intimidated. As a tall guy I try to go for attractive tall women because I have a better shot since there is less competition. Shorter women have all sorts of men trying to get with them.
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:11 AM
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She sounds like she just wants the attention, but doesn't intend to actually follow through. I've seen this pattern so many times and it always ends up the same. I tend to not take it personally but I do gradually lose interest and text less until I am not texting them anymore. If I didn't do this I would have too many fucking female friends and have no time to myself. Women love the attention and the safety of having someone continuously trying to gain their favor. They will keep trying to lure…
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:05 AM
8

Talk about "friends" and brad pit.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:45 AM
1

Overthinking this a bit too much. I would personally just joke about it and reply with something like “of course not, i would never! Btw new phone who dis?”
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:10 PM
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Written like the perfect post to get noobies to message you and be like “how did you do it?” Of course you’ll be glad to guide them for a price amirite. I don’t really get why you need to prove it, but more importantly, you think some ambiguous goodbye text prove anything. Again, this seems so targeted toward impressionable young newbies. EDIT: Also there seems to be a lot of posts just targeted toward asian Americans who are 5’7-5’8 some reason. I guess that’s where the money in pick up is righ…
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:55 PM
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You need to be attractive enough for this to work. Let’s say being social is your reach. Attractiveness is your conversion. If your conversion is so low, even if you have a lot of reach, it takes too much effort for them to get even one good lead because they are not attractive enough. They are better off working on their attractiveness before going out of their way to be social. Attractive guys love going out because it rewarding to them. Unattractive guys don't get enough rewards often enough …
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:41 PM
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More importantly, correlation does not mean causation. A kiss and a second date occurring together show relationship, but does not mean the kiss causes the second date. It's most likely, I dunno, her liking the person is what created an environment that enables a kiss and a second date occurring.
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:03 AM
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Have an actual life plan. What do you want to experience? What do you need to get those experiences. Are you goal realistic. You have the resources, but do you have the behavioral aptitude to do what it takes to get there. What you do can vary wildly depending on where you want to be. If you want a typical social life then start building a lifestyle locally. Have some friends locally and get to know people. If you want the life of an adventurer you start building your lifestyle around traveling …
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:35 PM
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Lmao all the answers about having a clean apartment is hilarious. Having a clean apartment won't get you laid. The logistics and the optics of your apartment will get you laid. Logistics would be how close it is to where you meet women. You can have the cleanest goddamn apartment but the dude who has a messy flat right next to the bar who will get laid more. Optics is basically the amenities that make it easier to make your apartment seem exciting to hang out at i.e. having a balcony, a bar, you…
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:02 PM
2

Yes it's very important otherwise they'll think you are geh.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:53 PM
1

I honestly didn’t think this was possible. I saw guys go up to girls in high school and they would say ew and I never thought something similar would ever happen to me. This is why judging other people is a double-edged sword. You feel superior to them, but it traps you from doing anything because you never want to be them. What happens is the person just stays on their self-forged tower of superiority holding on to their ego. This is why cold approach is superior. It makes you check your ego. N…
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:46 PM
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Some things noone suggest, but is key to being attractive imo. Know your brand - What kind of a hot guy do you aim to be? Me personally I'm tall, have good proportions and muscular, so I aim to be the tall athletic physically intimidating dude that would make panties wet so I put a lot of resource into building muscle, maintaining a fairly dominant posture and focus on athletic fashion. I don't have the face genetics to try and make myself look like the dreamy guy who makes women melt, or the cu…
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:40 AM
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This is a great subject and one that is has huge implications but not often talked about. It really depends on the area and the type of culture the person is subscribed to. I personally struggle picking up Fobby asian girls because they seem way too reserved and are kind of annoying to talk to since I can't understand what the hell they are saying. Americanized Asian girls are awesome and super fun though. Latinas are the best imo because they really go for it if you vibe well with them. They ar…
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:30 AM
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I think a lot of people could use that (cold approaching, or rather talking to people) just to ease off anxiety from living on Reddit, not necessarily to get laid at first. Lmao I feel this. Campus has been on break and I haven't approached since Xmas vacation and I feel like I'm missing on my therapy sessions.
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:17 AM
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Majority of my lays are from cold approach. That being said I do not recommend it for the average guy. You need to be somewhat above average to actually get any results from it and be highly socially calibrated. It is also possible for average guys if they start with relatively lower standards.
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:03 AM
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Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels I mean logically speaking, labels can be good. If you are labeled the most attractive man in the world just like how Henry Cavil is labeled the sexiest man alive then you'd care about labels. It's almost like your branding as a person. High value men think logical and act to what would be to their advantage to their unique situation whether that includes caring about labels or not. It's just that the whole alpha/beta label is the st…
/r/seduction30/12/21 07:51 AM
1

Reduce social anxiety and find tools to augment your hearing. I things those two things will make a lot of positive changes.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:36 AM
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I don't quite remember since that was pre-COVID, but I think he just started asking about her plans. It was nothing out of the ordinary. His vibe and vocal tonality was just on point. He could have said anything and it would have worked. Also he was attractive too, which was probably a huge part of it.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:52 AM
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Once saw a dude pick up a chick at a coffee shop. The girl was hot af too. We were all in the same public table and he asked her for the wifi password and the conversation went on from there. I was lowkey taking notes lmao. This dude was smooth af. It's amazing when you witness it because most common attempts at pick you see are usually by weird social rejects.
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:19 AM
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The top 25 percent of guys have a lot of dating experience, and most women have a lot of dating experience from dating those guys. So if you're dating a cute girl, as an average guy, she simply knows a lot more than you do. She's been in these woods 20 times already whereas you're trying not to get lost. It's crazy how true this is. I had an fwb that I would rate 7 on a typical day and an 8 on a good day. She's above average but not crazy hot. The pictures she showed me of all the dudes she date…
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:12 AM
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"Someone sends me memes on social media. Does that mean she wants to fuck?????" Biggest problem with most men is they think an open door means an invitation. An opening is merely an opening. That's it. A girl sending memes doesn't mean anything but it allows you to escalate. Escalation is always the key. For example: Sending me memes then I asked her out and she said no = not interested so stop Sending me memes then I asked her out and she said yes = potential interest so keep going people keep …
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:38 AM
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Props to you OP. I think this opens up one of the biggest issues with most men's sexuality where they either have zero sexual vibe or they go the other end of the scale and have too much sexual vibe where they look like a creep. I tried experimenting with the being very sexually aggressive and I realized most of the sexualization advice out there are horrible if you don't take your personality into account. They key is having some degree of sexual vibe that fits with your personality. I was at b…
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:39 AM
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I personally experimented with this method and it "can" work if you really want to lay her. But from my experience, it's only really worth it if the girl is REALLY hot and if you are open to being in a relationship with her, otherwise it's a waste of your time and sanity. The hoops you will go through essentially makes it so that you are getting to know each other and utilizing "mere exposure" to generate attraction. It's fucking boring and just makes me feel like I might as well be your typical…
/r/seduction12/12/21 10:32 PM
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need to calm the fuck down. Lmao. True
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:16 PM
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Bro thanks for the insider info. I had a hunch. They are also tend to be the hottest chicks. They always either want to close through insta or snap. One of the girl's I picked up actually mentioned how she hates how clique the sorority girls on this campus are. The other campuses I visit have less stuck up sorority chicks.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:29 AM
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Yeah should have used that for the first girl.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:27 AM
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Lmao I'll use this for my latina fwb.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:27 AM
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Maybe it's a false alarm. The second girl just confirmed our date. Maybe for the first girl I should have been more direct so she'll be more decisive.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:26 AM
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Can you give me an example of how I can be more polarizing in a conversation?
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:19 AM
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Do you completely forget about them or do try to put them in a bigger bucket? I have a photographer/model account where I post pictures of attractive model friends and some attractive pictures of myself. It basically makes me look way more attractive and way cooler than I actually am. I was thinking I could just have them follow my instagram and see if they become more excited to interact with me after seeing a bit more or interacting more organically on the app.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:29 AM
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Not wanting to waste energy on women who don't show excitement in being with me does not equal I think I'm too good for women. If anything I don't want to spend time with women who think they are too good for me.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:50 AM
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This isn't just about being an easy lay. It's about a girls showing signs of interest immediately. There is no point in pursuing a girl that show no deliberate attempt to move things forward. I can tell based on someone's energy in interacting with me whether my presence is reinforcing for them or if they are simply bored. If it's obvious they find no pleasure in seeing me, then there is no point. If they find me fun they will naturally want to spend more time with me. It's that simple.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:43 AM
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I have a particular car set up that lets me get laid in it stress free. It's always good to lay a girl asap before trying to go for another lay at a less convenient location.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:04 AM
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I don't value lay counts unless I know what those women look like or if the guy stating the lay count has good reputation. Deliberately trying to keep your lay count low is actually better. For example, some guys simply get their lay count high enough by going to foreign country and laying any girl with a heartbeat. It's some arbitrary number that doesn't mean much.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:07 AM
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No I did do something. I went out and approached a bunch of women, I talked to them, understood how to have a proper conversation so they can have the opportunity to show their interest. If I stayed home and did nothing I would not have met them. If I did not know how to speak properly they would have just thought I was retarded and not even entertain the idea of being attracted to me. They are clearly interested and immediately flirt/make a move. Body language wise yes, I can tell they are attr…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:42 AM
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Yes. I think if a girl likes you, it becomes obvious that she wants to escalate if the opportunity presents itself. Hence, it looks like she's seducing you from that perspective. For example, if I ask a girl "So would you say you are a good texter?" If she likes me she will just go "Oh yeah, I am the best texter." If she doesn't like me she'll say "Oh I'm actually horrible at texting." Each one is a hint on who is worth my time versus one that is not.
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:35 AM
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Most likely a single mom and has baggage. Also she's older than you so she's most likely trying to get married soon.
/r/seduction13/11/21 04:54 AM
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As long as you ask for some sort of consent when it comes to any sexual activity, you should be fine. For example, don't just touch her boobs without any indication that she's okay with it. I personally just ask out right before I do anything and it has worked for me. I've hooked up 5 times this semester so far and I haven't been me tood.
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:15 AM
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Short answer: More men want to have sex than women. Long answer: According to evolutionary biology, females of a gender are the ones that contributes more of their resources to a baby. Basically the risk of pregnancy, being the weaker sex, being more susceptible to things going wrong during the act of sex, and their social status being more at risk by having sex, women have more to lose. Biologically, women also can only make one egg cell per menstrual cycle so being picky is built into their DN…
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:13 PM
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I mean whatever the situation calls for, but still, dang. I think you are probably just live chatting at the point rather than texting.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:56 AM
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Ikr. I don't think I've ever be so into a girl enough to text her 60 times a day. Hopefully it's a typo and he meant to say 5-6 times a day.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:09 AM
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