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What incentive do young women have to advocate for it? I'll say though, I'm surprised at how many are willing to entertain it. Maybe because I'm not a bald fatfuck who can't dress himself like a lot of 30 year old dudes are, but I don't talk about my age with them, so by the time they ever find out the actualnumber, we've spent a lot of time together talking and all that, so they don't care at that point. I think most people just assume they'll end up with someone their own age early on so why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:52 PM
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Do share your wisdom because all I've seen is terrible advice time and again, mostly slop that makes them feel better about themselves. Like reading some of these comments from them is hilarious. The amount of times I've heard the same story from women about how they failed to recognize toxic men despite they, themselves, recognizing toxic behavior, tells me they have horrific intuition when it comes to men and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:29 AM
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In 2025, women that are skinny and agreeable are already in the top quartile of women you want to be with. Like men at this point have to put up with basically every shitty lifestyle choice a woman makes, too, along with things like political alignment and such. Men are just that willing to put up with a lot to keep a partner, sadly, so the expectations of women are extremely low. And naturally, if you're not insane, you'd realize why women would have higher standards than men, its just nature a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:30 PM
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Women aren't gonna tell you the whole truth either way. It's why you don't take dating advice from women or your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:24 PM
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No, I agree that men need to stop simping and chasing so much. Too many guys are so desperate for sex or have never felt true attraction from a woman. No wonder so many relationships are shit, nobody is marrying and there's divorces left and right. RPers got that right at least: don't castrate yourself, move on. Never been truer words dating in my 30s. I never thought I'd choose younger women, but if they're more open in affection and less guarded, then I'll take them every time over continue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:52 AM
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I'm sorry, but this is why these topics are so embarrassing. Please tell you're not saying RPers and tradcons are one and the same. They regularly go at it online because they disagree on so many fundamental ideas surrounding women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:32 AM
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You got it backwards, men are just reacting to women's changing standards. Even if men did nothing, fat land whales would still overrate themselves due to societal push for acceptance the past decades. Some men have checked out, some realized it's better to just treat them with minimal effort to filter out the shit quicker. Probably a terrible place to say this, but if you've dated girls that truly desire you, truly, how do you justify castrating yourself and bending over backwards to keep a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:17 AM
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No, you misunderstand. The contempt for women by men around here is often rooted in their misogyny. They don't envy women, they simply think women are lower lifeforms to begin with. As it pertains to women, they still are punching up at men to this day for one reason or another. This naturally will breed things like envy and resentment as negative experiences with men stack up in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:06 PM
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The women in this place alone display this behavior fairly often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:38 AM
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You could think that, but I think a small piece of them genuinely believes it, hence them all saying it. Can't be a coincidence. My mother doesn't even know how to browse the internet, so it's not like she's getting those thoughts from social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:40 AM
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You women tell me. You're the ones that keep bringing it up all the time. Like I'm tired of hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:12 AM
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That they're not men. I see this part in them online, in real life, even in my own mother on occasions. There's a sliver in women that seem genuinely envious of men just for their existence. How many more times is it gonna be? "If I were a man..."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:04 AM
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Oh absolutely they do, whether they're self aware enough of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:03 PM
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I always wonder about this. I'm the same age and women our age say the same thing a lot to me. It was only recently I realized, actually I want to be a serious man and leave a legacy. Before that I just had fun in my 20s and I think the COVID stuff just burned me down mentally. I don't think I ever recovered until recently. I have so much more clarity now though. I definitely want to have kids before I turn 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:33 PM
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They wont respect a modest woman sexual boundaries because they ll be constantly pressuring her to sleep with them and wont give her any security whatsoever, they ll get mad that she refuses to put out after 3 months or a year or as long as it takes, they dont value women beyond the sexual favours they can get from them. What does this have to do with porn? I think men should watch less porn for other reasons, but I reckon it has to do more with the nature of modern dating, dating apps and maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:29 AM
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So where does this thing that men go bald at 30 come from? It's just women just being angry at The Wall concept. Same reason they act like every dude in his 30s is a fatass that doesn't work out regularly. Many men do start receding though. I don't think too many are actually bald around me. You can also get on Fin to stop it these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:38 AM
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I just took the OP as saying guys are free to lie to get into a relationship and then after he gets sex, he bails or says "it isn't working" or whatever. Not like a web of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:15 AM
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OP's entire point was that it doesn't matter to begin with. Lying to women is like a feature in the game, in a game that women largely helped to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:13 AM
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As nasty as it is, it’s essentially fair game because you can’t prove whether they were dishonest, changed their minds or what have you. Like if you listen to some women they say you gotta fuck right away to find out how good he is, his cock size or it’s not working. For some people, mind blowing sex is a massive part of the relationship, for others they pick someone they love first and then the sex they’ll hammer out together later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:37 PM
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I've never seen women give any real shits about this. I do it because I like new experiences and spending time out interacting with people. I've met women during that time, but they don't actually seem to care that I'm doing this outside of "at least it's not video games."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:42 PM
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my honesty, integrity, dedication, honor, etc has never meant anything. Putting a ring on a woman's finger doesn't magically turn her into a woman of virtue. She has to hold such values to her heart to begin with, to practice them through the trials and tribulations along her journey. You should never be ashamed of being a good person. If you think the problem is that men just want sex from you and you're broken by this, then as the woman, you need to remove it from the playing field for a time …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:32 AM
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When I was a bit younger, I had this problem twice. I honestly try not to regret it. I can't speak for older guys with commitment problems, but as a man in his early and mid 20s, the idea of marrying was very difficult to swallow. It's an old movie, but there's scene in The Bachelor, and you know he wants to commit to her and does care for her, but she can see it in his eyes, he's just not mature enough yet for this. His mind is still as a bachelor having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:50 PM
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I didn't mean you were problematic or question if you were a good woman. There's shitty men and women on the market. You need to be aware of your apparent attractiveness brings to your relationships. I'm sure you're tired of it, but if you don't at least consider changing something, then your dating life will continue to be the same until your looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:36 PM
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This is a "you" problem, you gotta look in the mirror at some point if it keeps happening to you. If you're hot, you need to learn how to filter. I bet most guys that actually pursue you, probably just do so because you're hot so you're screwed even if men pursue you. Like my sister's dude is a hotshot surgeon, he's really sweet though. He's the same age as you and me. Apparently those guys are just sitting out there still. If you're willing to approach men, why not approach some high caliber on…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:18 PM
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This is genuinely hilarious to read. If I could ask a woman one thing and have her be 100% honest to me, I'm definitely not asking stuff like "do you like me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:23 PM
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I don't think people should be forced to date people they are unattracted to. But there's something to be said about expectations due to social media. But from my experience, there is something about being able to grow to love someone over time that you probably didn't expect you would. Like nobody is gonna perfect, but I think some people still really think they're getting someone perfect. So what if he's not great in bed at first? Tell him how you want it. Women will say talk about it, but man…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:51 PM
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It's hard to unsee certain things, trends, statistics, etc. presented you in life. Why ignore what your eyes are seeing? Because life isn't as beautiful? Life is still beautiful, just be mindful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:54 PM
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without needing to verbalize it. Majority of guys don't do this even the ones that have taken the pills. It's like fight club, you don't talk about it; hide your powerlevels. Stories you hear about guys that do, it's usually some idiot that can't help himself while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:48 PM
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Making the move is tough unless she sends a signal. It feels like it'll be a waste of time for an average man. For example, my sisters graduated and became career women. The got like real degrees here so they're smart women, and are pretty and monogamous. They have the highest caliber of men on their knees begging for their hand in marriage. One is literally pissing around in Europe right now with her guy. We're not talking Chad here, we're talking like Christian Grey types here that are extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:58 PM
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I don't agree, there would still be crime, but there's also a reason I don't talk about certain topics with women. I think they have too much of this Kumbaya, just come together stuff going on in their heads. They've been rolling back some policies up in these parts to help put the fear into criminals again. Who pushed back? Woman. When you talk about that nurse girl that got her head caved in by some illegal, the first reaction for many women was, it's not about the elephant in the room, it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:34 PM
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Bigger muscles are overrated as fuck when it comes to women, especially as they age. Though I see plenty of comments around these parts from 30s hags about men their age not hitting the gym enough anymore. It's all about face and height anyways at the end of the day. Muscles impressed younger women, from my experience. These girls had real hoe vibes though. If you're hoping to up your chances to get pussy, yeah maybe go lift some weights. There's also like fat chicks at the gym, so maybe try to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:06 PM
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Oh it's like indifferent to dislike for me. Once upon a time as a boy I did things to impress girls, now I do things as a man simply so I can die a better man someday. I'm self aware enough to know a part of me is deeply misogynistic when it comes to women. I don't treat them poorly, or disrespect them on purpose. I give them a fair shot. I just treat them as I would men because they wanted equality. Want my respect? Earn it like a man. I won't ever simp for a woman because she's pretty. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:17 AM
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I genuinely think men would sooner cry in the arms of an AI woman than he would a real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:26 PM
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Nothing has changed. Women encourage TRP to this very day by throwing themselves at men that embody it. If you hate TRP, don't blame men for pointing out observations, blame your fellow woman for encouraging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:01 PM
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Just close your legs then, it's really that simple. If he is serious about you, he will have no issues waiting on you as long as you do the other stuff like being affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:26 PM
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who feels like he deserves “raw animal attraction”. This is where you lost me. They don't think they deserve anything, they're just recognizing the game. People called them crazy, but were they really? This is just another point of women not understanding men. They think because men acknowledge superior men, it means they're all just jealous. No, when young dudes saw Zyzz, they wanted to emulate his attitude towards life. For women, they see like a Caitlin Clark who men were fascinated by and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:06 PM
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How are we supposed to take this? You might be like many of the women who go after shitty men that turn you on just so you can go bitch about it afterward, or you might have a shit personality to them so they bailed. I mean you clearly think highly of yourself so... So, after all the heartache and pain, I have come to the conclusion that the reason why men are having such a hard time with women being interested in them, is because of how much pressure (which is unfortunately accurately true) is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:42 PM
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Once upon a time, some people thought electing a Black president would end racism. The world is deeply divided and there's no light to be seen at the end of this tunnel. Gender, race, religion, you name it. 1-2 years is nothing, but one way or another, the patriarchy will come out on top in the long run. It's just a matter of what form this takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:20 AM
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I think a lot of how the independent, career woman feels is echoed in that Beyonce song where she's beautiful, successful and can have another man anytime, so men are just replaceable as toilet rolls in some place of her mind. It really begs the question how passionate many of these women actually are in these relationships when the guy doesn't look like prime Leo Dicaprio. If a woman is truly loving as you say these women are, I feel like a man would get it and men love feling like a woman is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:43 PM
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Chickens have come home to roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:24 AM
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I know many women who are low maintenance, happy go lucky, kind, considerate... but they happen to be financially successful… That last part is a buzzkill for many men. A man can tell when a woman thinks he's special to her. These women likely just have the attitude like some women these days "take it or leave it bub, I know my worth, yadayada." They won't bother making a man feel special if he's feeling a little unsure of himself when another one will line up to take his place overnight. The be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:00 AM
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Some may have had abusive relationships, but sometimes this place reads like those femcel or dating aka hookup subs when it comes to relationships. The reality is they felt comfortable enough to pop out 2 kids together. She shouldn't have have said that, but these two are hardly like honeymoon stage anymore. They're almost like deep into marriage and the wife sounds stressed. Good time to have a chat with her, which it doesn't really sound like is happening. Even after reading his comments, I ca…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:54 PM
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That's something you need to talk about then. She sounds tired. Does she want to try and get a better job? Does she feel comfortable about going back to school or something in your situation? What if she does? I've had some female friends that ended up doing that to help their family. Even went back to live with the girl's parents for a time. I mean this is probably something you talk about before popping not just one, but two kids together. Like you two have already experienced more of marriage…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:53 PM
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I don't know what your financial situation is, what neighborhood you live in, what your plans are for the future and with your kids, or even if you want more kids. This stuff you gotta talk about with your partner, well she's basically your wife already. Before you listen to some super bitter dudes telling you to destroy your family over this, maybe try to see it from her POV. Or maybe you want that and that's why you came here. Her husband is not earning 140k a year, he's earning 70k, which can…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 02:35 AM
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But guys that get laid also do it. Some of the guys I've met, you'd think they'd have an easy time just marrying an American, but they did not. Maybe they just don't like American women. Those guys have been happy from what I can tell. They all have good jobs, children now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:22 AM
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>How do the late 20s - 30s+ men even hold conversations with much younger women? It's literally in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:11 PM
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Why do women always do this? They immediately jump to like 50 years old guys about to retire in some years when OP is talking about a late 20s/30 year old man dating some 21 year old or something. Some dudes go back to college and you're basically surrounded by woman of varying ages. This is exactly what I did and some of the 20 year olds do approach you if you're willing to make yourself known.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:06 PM
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One could answer, it always was. But I would say it's as intense as it is right now with the culture war because of the rise of social media and what happened in the 2010s (metoo, Trump, etc). The most extreme feminists are the ones being heard now and those are the people spearheading the movement. It's probably why you had those polls that said Gen Z boys were more likely to find feminism harmful and wouldn't identify as feminist as much as Millennials.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:40 PM
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Women see men enjoying themselves and lifting each other up and they are drawn to it like moths to a flame. I shouldn't have to tell you what happens after that.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 11:35 PM
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Nobody said it was preferred or that 30 year olds are scouting 20 year olds with frequency. Did you even read the damn comment? Many people prefer to marry someone the same age as them, but men are much more open to marrying down in age than they are to marry up in age. This is why the comment I responded to about older woman/younger man makes little sense. It's not the same, there's a much bigger barrier to overcome because of what men and women generally ask from their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:07 PM
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Manosphere messaging is usually just women are hoes and go hit the gym to work on yourselves. Not like this is lies to be censored. You don't want to start blaming video games while you're at it? These men would become violent at some point anyways. Manosphere at least lets them go somewhere to talk about their guy problems with other guys like them. Without it, they'd just be alone and probably kill all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:48 AM
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Women are playing the game on easy mode already and they're all on meds and emotionally damaged in their 20s. Imagine these women switching places with some average bloke. It'd be some dark shit going through their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:43 AM
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Why do you think you should? Age gaps of 10+ years have never been the norm, we're not at that stage where it's completely normalized, but they're happening. But it's more likely to older men/younger women, not the other way around from what I remember seeing. A man that's ready to settle down at 30, he will look for someone his age or younger almost every single time. It's exactly what I see in real life with these men too. I believe on an instinctual level, men just know older woman are less f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:22 PM
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Women struggle to find good men. More like women are struggling to find 6ft+ men, sensitive men with 400k annual salaries like my surgeon bro. Finding a loving sensitive man should be the easiest shit for Millenials and Gen Z. We were basically raised to hate masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:31 AM
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No, it goes against many men's interest of what they're after in marriage. This is why a 30 year old man ready to settle down generally prefer younger, more youthful and fertile women than a 35 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:09 AM
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Yeah, and? That's a separate issue from her salary then since both poor and rich girl are presenting the exact same dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:05 PM
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This isn’t putting value on her salary tho. Thats what women demand with men. A man would love you all the same even if worked at Wendy’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:18 PM
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We can solve this problem There isn't a problem to solve here. All this is just having dudes lie to themselves and what they see firsthand, so that women can feel a little better about getting old and losing their beauty. It's only a problem because many here probably realize there's actually a bit of a female disadvantage to the aging process. Naturally as a society, we need to start tearing down some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:39 AM
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It's just a dominant man with a submissive woman. It's not that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:09 PM
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