| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 120 | Indian/Desi Double Standards | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | crownthebrownintown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:51 PM |
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| 3 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg so true!! I used to ask way too many questions to a pandit when I was a kid about stuff like this and he was so done with me. 😂 Made me realize I wasn't that religious anyways loolll And definitely agree. But I guess that's the end point of all of this hopefully, a society that doesn't selectively value one phenotype over another. In the meantime, I think this stuff can act like corrective promotion; it's something the YouTuber Chrissie talks a lot about 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsYaaaas love it sis, just can we have Fawad Khan back? 😉 (But sorry for our fuckall government banning Pakistani actors, like it's the most idiotic and pathetic thing in the world honestly. Hope India gets a PM as cool as Imran Khan! 😊) And omg this made my night!!! Tbh I love making silly usernames that I find funny when I say out loud 😂🙈 Love your username as well, I loooove onomatopoeia and particularly "nom nom nom" Take care in all of this craziness, stay safe ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 04:22 AM |
| 61 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN."Don't enforce criminal punishment on male depravity" Indian government in a nutshell, god how my Indus Valley Civilization ancestors must be rolling in their graves. 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:38 PM |
| 23 | Thoughts?PRI👏🏾OR👏🏾IT👏🏾IES👏🏾 👌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts?It made me tear up in a good way, thank you so much for posting this! ❤️🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 219 | The only time men wouldn’t follow us.Though I know this is kinda joking, be careful guys. There's probably a good overlap between sexual assaulters and Corona deniers 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg really 😂 I told my Muslim friend about how much of a philanderer Krishnaji was, and she said it isn't halal 😂😂😂 That's why I'm like Durga Mata alllll the way 👏🏾👸🏾 And that's so true! Those songs are soooo damaging, never thought of it tbh since they're so catchy 🙈 Do you like Badshah tho? He has some nice lyrics that promote brown skin, like "tera rang sawla, hua bawla" 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsThat's totally fair, it's defo gotten better in the last decade, esp with the new crop of lads 😉 And yeah, that's such an interesting point, never realized that the gender gap leads to more sexual competition. I'm Western tho, so I think the boys here are often really nice to get along with. But tbh I haven't dated anybody yet, so what do I know lolll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsYeah I defo see what you're saying! The guys who are in their early twenties like me seem to be really great though, so I think things r getting betterrrrr! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg I need to see it then, gonna save that for the weekend 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsGlad I could help! Maybe the website einthusan can be of use? They often do have subtitles 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsThis is AWESOME! I'm so glad you've had that experience!! And definitely agree with your last paragraph, India is progressing really well I'd say 👏🏾 In my own personal experience, as another Western NRI, my parents are asking me to keep an open mind in terms of looks, but then be equally or better qualified. So not tooo bad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOhhhhhh I loved that movie as a kid. I really liked Hasee toh Phasee, if you need another recc 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsReally sorry to hear about those two cases. And yeah agreed, Desi culture is so obviously sexist that women and even a lot of nice men become feminist. Good on you girl, get itttttttt! 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsDefo not derailing, if anything it adds to the stack of evidence we have! 💪🏾❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:37 AM |
| 9 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsWhoa that's wild, I legit never noticed!! Glad Imma have a fun activity next wedding I go to 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsThanks so much and you toooo!! 👏🏾🌿🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:12 AM |
| 17 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsSaaaaaame to same beta, hum kya kare?? 😂🤦🏾♀️ Literally entering my mid twenties soon, and my mom's like (1) get a boy soon, (2) don't be too picky, (3) stay outta the sun. I'm like YYYYYYYYY 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 14 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOMG NOOOO! All these female Indian actors have nooooo standards. Just look at Priyanka Chopra's dating history before Nick 🤦🏾♀️ And I was thinking of the average Desi uncle, but since he's supposed to be playing the part of a strapping young man in those movies, you're so totally right! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsFreaking yessss, or have Siddharth Malhotra brood at me the way he does at Pari in Hasee Toh Phasee 😅😍 We are nooot asking for too much, it's our ancestral birthright 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg yessssssss!!! Indus Valley Civilization is where I would time travel to if I could! I love your analysis on this, bc I never thought about it in this way but it makes SO much sense. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 6 | How Hollywood portrays non-white womenAlso Asian, like Indian, communities unfortunately as well. It even manifests as anti-Blackness, and I'm sick of it. In fact, I called out my mom the other day for insulting Michelle Obama's appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 29 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg exactlyyyy! Literally Ms Universe next to average Joe who dances too much to act 😭😭😭 Desi gurlz represeeeeent! ❤️👏🏾👗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsOmg this made my day, tysm!! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I know we need a little positivity. Can you post examples of how a man is behaving in an HV way during this global crisis?This is wonderful ❣️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Holistic health guru killed inside Manhattan wine shop by her fiancee after dumping him (trigger warning ⚠️)That's incredible to hear, good on you!! And same, it's so bad to hear they don't support Rihanna's generosity and they turn a blind eye to women's suffering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Holistic health guru killed inside Manhattan wine shop by her fiancee after dumping him (trigger warning ⚠️)Yes definitely agree with you, women are disproportionately affected while many men ignore this fact, and god bless RiRi ❤️🙏 Just that I don't wanna ignore a small minority stuck in the middle, i.e. men abused by women, because I really feel their pain too just like I feel for my fellow women. Like in my household, my dad gets yelled at a lot by my mom, so I would like for it to be societally okay for him to be able to ask for more help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:03 PM |
| -2 | Holistic health guru killed inside Manhattan wine shop by her fiancee after dumping him (trigger warning ⚠️)Not trying to be an apologist at all as a woman who's been assaulted repeatedly myself. But some men do in fact get abused. For example, I follow a YouTuber called Ollie from a channel called Philosophy Tube. He was unfortunately domestically abused by his female partner for a long period of time. He said in one video that part of the reason why he hesitated in acknowledging this to even himself is that he thought that as a man, he couldn't be abused, and he can only be an abuser, or something l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 04:10 AM |
| 33 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointEverything you have shared here is so insightful ❤️ Thank you so much, and I wish you the best! You're a very kind person for sharing all of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 07:33 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with Pickmeisha ways and scarcity mindset when HVM are actually scarce?Total newb here, but maybe consider different kinds of men rather than lowering your standards? Like if there's an ethnicity you even subconsciously try to avoid, maybe next time you see a profile of a man of that group, give it a second look? It's great that you're posting here, though, because it shows how dedicated you are towards your own heart and wellbeing, and what's better than that?! 😊❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Billie EilishIf you all are interested in South Asian inspired music, or wanna try something new, give Raja Kumari a shot! She has lots of songs up on YouTube and they're so feminist and fresh. 🙏🔮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Double Standard: Men ALWAYS ask women for nudes and to take on the brunt of the risks to their career and reputation. But they NEVER offer to send any backThis is awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:05 AM |
| 21 | Double Standard: Men ALWAYS ask women for nudes and to take on the brunt of the risks to their career and reputation. But they NEVER offer to send any backSee even cutting your face out of the pic isn't enough. A few years ago I read a story about how a dude in Toronto leaked photos of women who had sent him their nudes, and he took the extra step to attach their names, profile pics, etc with each of the photos. Then he came on national Canadian TV to apologize. It was shocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Times Up Joe BidenMakes me sick, it's absolutely rancid. Just a few days back a top popular post on Reddit was one where he pinched a little girl's nipples; I couldn't even watch past the first few seconds of the video where he tries to distract everyone by saying that they should look into the camera. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:16 AM |
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