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"F#$^ you" money had better be a whole lot more than six months if you're going to develop a "#$%^ you" attitude to go along with it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 02:32 PM
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Not everyone is gregarious. If you're not gregarious by nature, it's going to be very hard to pull this off. Having raised three sons (now in their early 30s), I've seen that personalities rarely change. I have one gregarious son, one very shy (who fights through it for his work but then is exhausted from the effort) and one who's in the middle. Me? I talk to everyone. Bussers. Cashiers. People in elevators. People standing in line to buy coffee. Anywhere; everywhere. And though today married (s…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:40 PM
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Sorry...frugality is highly complementary to wealth building. What typically happens when you're not frugal? You make more money because you're working hard, but then you inflate your standard of living along the way. So...interesting attempt, op, but for most people, flat out wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:51 AM
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It would take volumes to describe this woman... ...but my own stupidity is also in play. Yes, there were signs, but young and dumb me was brought up to believe in this mystical thing called love and I figured love conquers all. It doesn't. Read the Red Pill! Live it!!!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 12:54 PM
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The courts favor women...it's horrible.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 02:44 AM
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I was ordered to pay my wife $2,000 per month for life maintenance starting in 1999. But another story first. At that time, my sons had had enough of their mother and petitioned the courts to live with me (they had their own representation). So I had full physical custody of two of my sons, ages 13 and 11, and HALF physical custody of the third, age 8. And YET, the courts were still forcing ME to pay, in addition to maintenance, FULL CHILD SUPPORT! $1,400 per month! In spite of me having 5/6ths …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 07:21 PM
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Great definition. Even though I'm a leader in several fields of endeavor, work AND hobbies, the fact that I still make mistakes proves I still have more to learn! (And the fields themselves continually advance and change -- so there's that to keep up with too!)
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 03:02 PM
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Ski instructor for four years in the 70's/early 80's at major destination resorts. Lost track at 100. (Probably 150?)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:44 PM
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I'm a swimmer...since age 4. No problems.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:06 AM
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Exactly. Talk! With everyone.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 02:37 PM
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Eyes? They have their own cleaning system. You may have heard of tears (not to mention, swim goggles -- though I don't bother with them unless it's half-mile 'lap' day). Hair? Women love my hair -- it's long these days and I get compliments nearly daily. At the festivals we attend regularly, where we hang out all day, women are often fondling my hair and saying 'wow, I wish mine was this thick/silky.' Skin? Not a blemish. Just the occasional cut or bruise from sports or woodworking. So many know…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:44 PM
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Nope, I frequently don't. After a workout I sit in the hot tub/spa to stretch for 10 minutes then I leap in the pool for 8-10 laps and then I go home (I'm 3 minutes from the gym). It's usually a midday workout so time is a factor -- I try to be done in 90 minutes or less, door to door. So when I leap out of the pool, I towel off and head home, usually getting home to a handful of 'urgent' emails or calls... So an hour later I'm dry as can be... And unless we're going out to dinner or something, …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 02:59 PM
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I guess I'm winning. I'm none of those things -- save for the last (I don't shower daily -- non workout days never plus, workout days, I often finish off with a few laps in the pool and call that clean.)
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 01:44 PM
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Truth be told, I am not attracted, other than sexually, to women significantly younger than I am. The thing is, unless it's wham/bam/thank ya maam and goodbye, you're going to have to talk with them. And 15-20 years age difference doesn't make for much of a connection (unless you're 'in' to being the daddy figure to a little girl).
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:47 PM
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Julie from NY? I was with her 8 years. BPD is so awful, it's almost impossible to explain to others.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:19 AM
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Nice guys tend to go for nice girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/18 11:43 PM
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Could care less...but it would be hard to do. (Almost zero care already.)
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:40 PM
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I can assure you, raising your own kids is a joy that is by no means obsolete. Got any kids?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:12 PM
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I've had a great life -- done lots of fun/exciting/rewarding things. Have plenty of life ahead of me! But raising three sons definitely tops the list! They're in their late 20's/early 30's and continue to be a great source of joy in my life (and I in theirs). My life would not be empty without them...but just think about your own life and remove what you consider by far your most rewarding endeavor? (And if nothing stands head and shoulders above the others, then wipe out your top three efforts!…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:52 PM
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Divorce rolls are full of men who got married too early...stayed with the women to raise kids...then part ways in their 40's. Better formula? Wait until your 30's to marry -- when you're "who you are" not "who you are becoming".
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 09:26 PM
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Wow, evil personified.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/17 03:51 PM
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Women are everywhere. And if you know how to charm them...you can charm them! You also cannot be afraid to strike out. As I used to tell my friends back in my single 70's and early 80's...he who hesitates, masturbates.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:24 PM
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Just visiting this subreddit...so bear with me? So reading this, it's pretty clear that fundamentally, I've pretty much been an alpha my whole life. . . but a slightly more cunning one than what's described above. I always KNOW when I'm hungry. And when I'm hungry, I plan to eat. So yes, I have "plans" when I'm in the supermarket, but I'm also there to hunt. And if that means another traverse or two across the aisles to spot potential prey, so be it. And while I also tend to maintain eye contact…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:15 PM
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Wish I had some advice for ya'... Some friends of mine here in Houston tried to flip and after six months of hard work and headaches barely broke even. I know the friend mentioned in my comment had a very effective approach which was to LIVE in the home he was restoring/flipping. That way, his monthly mortgage, was just a cost of living rather than an incremental investment (which is what you incur when you live one place while working to flip another).
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:47 PM
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One of my friends, newly single back in the 90s, made it a point to never share how well off he was. He made a ton of money flipping houses...he would buy one, move in, fix it up, sell it then move on. So he was often in a banged up house PLUS he drove a pickup truck. Gals assumed he was poor. He did not dismiss them of the notion. THAT is the right strategy!!!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:19 PM
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That's funny, when I'm hit in the abs, not expecting it, it hurts less than when I am expecting it. I sort of "go with it"... Am I not remembering my life right? (LOL)
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:23 AM
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Thanks for that. And while I don't know your father -- there is one thing that I know happens... And that is, when you realize, as a father, that the courts are going to relegate you to every other weekend, you basically become an "Uncle", sometimes the reaction is to pull away. (We pull away from what hurts us.) Is that possible? Something else that often happens, the parent who has custody begins feeding bad thoughts in the child about the other parent. Sometimes overt; sometimes subtle. Now t…
/r/MensRights16/12/16 01:13 PM
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I'm a lucky man... ...in NY State, back in 1997, I got half custody, immediately, so that my sons, ages 11, 9 and 6 at the time, would spend one week at my house then one week at hers. Eventually I got full custody of all three: the oldest first when he was 12, and the others came when they hit 13. In a way I feel bad for their mother... But then, when I think through all the Hell that she put us all through, for no other reason than selfishness, I guess you reap what you sow. (Sometimes. I know…
/r/MensRights03/12/16 04:33 PM
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LOL I'm a very strong sort... Like I say, I think the main reason I stayed with her that long is that I was trying -- very hard -- to help her. There were times when it was working well... Our counselors (while we were in the clinical trial) taught us all sorts of means for improving communication and keeping things in perspective. For a long while, we found a great rhythm. And then? She wanted to move to Texas -- to get away from her parents (she fought with her mother constantly) and be closer…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:04 PM
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LOL The latter, I think. I always think I can "save" someone -- at least I used to think that way. After "Julie", never again!!! Know that book "Walking on Eggshells" about life with a BPD? When I finally figured out that's what she had, I went through that book and highlighted nearly every page as a "yeah, been there, seen that, still am incredulous...". One thing that kept us together for a long while was that we got her into a clinical trial that included a wide range of individual, couple an…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:23 PM
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LOL Short answer: she was drop dead gorgeous and great in bed...
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:19 PM
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Dated/lived with a BPD for 8 years...can confirm it's an agonizing, psychotic thrill ride...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:24 PM
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Yes, we're a threat... At any moment we might stop working to feed, clothe and house them, plus pay for their smartphones, net access and other entertainment desires, thus bursting their little homemaker bubbles.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 03:18 PM
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Wife is a foodie... I'm delighted about it! She makes amazing meals! As for getting fat? Everything in moderation. We're in great shape! (Tend to party Thursday-Sun; diet Monday/Wednesday and we're always incredibly active.)
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:38 PM
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Notes referencing your material is one thing... ...but reading it? Good joke writing; just so=so standup.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/16 10:28 PM
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Down votes are the tool of choice for the slow witted and lazy. I rarely down vote. Your post has to be horrendous for me to give you a down vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:32 AM
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Avoid being male, especially if you're white. Both are crimes in the new Ameritopia.
/r/MensRights22/07/15 01:50 PM
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BS. I had kidney stones for two weeks ending just a few days ago. If you've ever experienced those, you know it's like having a knife in your back, repeatedly, over and over, wave after wave of pain. Any sense of fear or anguish? That was forgotten the same moment it STOPPED.
/r/MensRights21/04/15 02:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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