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| 2 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?If you are escalating with intention of sex you shouldn’t give them more than 3 dates. What I’m assuming is that you aren’t escalating much. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Grocery store, target | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?It will become a problem and your instincts will kick in. In order to crack one off you need to do it with a female. You will get really crafty. | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | She said "I've never done this before"... Do they usually say that?Yes | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?Socializing is a skill, you have to work at it. Although it does come natural to others. I can’t think of a better way to achieve success than being a charismatic communicator. But it just takes work, study books and videos on the subject. Anyone can do it if you try. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedIt’s almost like you are doing these things in spite of the advice people are giving you. Are you a salsa dancing type guy? Play to your strengths. Nothing will be given to you, you have to make it happen and really believe that you deserve the things you want. Inside game is probably your problem. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Farrrr farrr easier | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getGreat contribution | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 10:56 AM |
| 1 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getIt’s not, you just have to be bigger stronger and in better shape. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym is a game-changerDuh, haven’t we all been saying this since the beginning? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?The guys who have game, connections, money, live in big city, have great logistics. stacking 5-20 plates at a time and the patience to deal with multiple women and the absolute bull shit drama that they bring. It’s like a second career. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is game so difficult?Unless you have severe autism, it really isn’t that hard with a little practice. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?That’s exactly what I’m saying | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?She wants you to turn sexual, if you want to have sex with her she needs to feel it. Otherwise you just wasting your time and money to hang out with a stranger. Need to make a move on first date. Jerking off and staying in is incel and lame. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:37 AM |
| 5 | She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approachBring another hot chick around with you and make sure she sees it. She’s making it hard for you because it’s evolutionary beneficial to do so. She is probably physically attracted to you but that’s only one of many pieces to the puzzle. She could just be curious what you are about. She could have been standoffish because you messed something up when you walked over and started talking, these hoes have an incredible sensitivity to whether a dude is legit or faking. If she is even remotely attract… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Go out and meet women in person, dating apps are cess pools imo. Go up to women and try to pick them up when you are out and about, it will do wonders for your social skills and you will get better with women, I guarantee it. Also I believe it’s an easier game, hardly any guys do this anymore, it shows you are aggressive /bold/confident and shows that you go out and get what you want. Those four characteristics in a man make chicks wet, they can’t control it. It’s like lizard brain shit. If you … | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:13 AM |
| 11 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Yes, unfortunately, your young years should be spent building and exploring. Young guys don’t have the clout and money it takes to make women attracted to them for long term relationships. Also, when you do build yourself into a rich powerful pussy destroyer do not give these old bored out hoes that rejected you any of your time. Go out with the young hot ones. That’s the honest truth, men are made, we aren’t really born with any value, we have to build ourselves. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Girl always expects me to pay for her in datesShe thinks you are her girlfriend, you gotta make a move. she’s probably got you saved in her phone as “free food”. Nothing wrong with paying for dates, I mean what’s $50-100 to go out with a beautiful woman and have a good time, not a big deal. But I’d say if you haven’t gotten some action after 2-3 dates you wasting your time and money, and that is after making a move, if you haven’t made a move you are most definitely wasting your time and money | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?If your status changes you could become more attractive to her ex. Get a gf, job promotion, travel somewhere cool, she sees you out and about with someone who is a over her status level, shit like that | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Yeah, I got blown out last night by a 6 lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 7 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Now you getting it | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Just 7? I know dudes who who go out to purposely get 10 rejections per weekend just to make it not matter, and that’s really the key, you can’t worry about rejections, period. 4billion women, 4billion women on this planet, 1-10% of them want to fuck you depending on your level of attractiveness. If I gave you 100 envelopes and told you 1 of those envelopes had $10k in it, you stopping after opening 7? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance?You have to go up and talk to women. To get good at that you have to go up and talk to women, if you want experience with women, you have to go up and talk to women. Talk to your mom, your aunty, you neighbor, cousin, classmate, talk to a cute girl in the street. Approaching strangers is terrifying, everyone in here will tell you that. Get off the apps and meet them in real life, I would argue it’s easier. Seduction and socializing is a skill and just like any other skill you have to practice an… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Having self esteem is what helps this options become real, the guy you are arguing with is giving you real actionable advice. You just sound like you wanna bitch and moan. “If you want change, you have to change” | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?I dunno how Friendly this sub is to PUA, but google search text game pua, lots of YouTube videos, entrepreneurs in cars, apex mindset, rian stone. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?Prolly don’t have to take that long. I’d hit her up in next couple weeks if you gonna be close to her. “Hey, I’ll be in your area, come get a drink with me at x to catch up” you could also call her and say something like that. text game is something you should research, it makes a huge difference. Then if you can get her out gotta make a move, don’t tell her your intentions, show her | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?Well ya, not hitting her up after the fact is the right move. But she was probably hoping you would try to take her home, not making a move cost you the whole thing, blowing you up all week then you don’t close. You gotta make a move if you want her. I wouldn’t worry about it now, go meet another girl or three. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?I feel ya dude, we all do, everyone goes through this same exact scenario. Did you escalate throughout the night? Did she know what your intentions were? If you never make a move you gonna get friendzone. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?Probably because you give her attention and she likes talking to you, unfortunately that doesn’t necessarily mean that she wants sex or relationship. She probably was keeping you around as an orbiter. If you really want this chick, go get other girls, trust me, don’t respond to her texts as often, don’t take any of her calls. Seem busy if you do talk to her. You were too easy for her. The truth as to why she ghosted is probably closer to her seeing someone else. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?Well, you tell me, maybe it wasn’t a text you sent, but she ghosted you… In my experience women don’t ghost the guys they are into for a week and imo the excuse that they don’t wanna get attached is just an easy way to reject. Happens to the best of us bro, go get a couple more gf’s, throw up some pics on social media with them and see how fast your phone lights up | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Did this women ghost me because she was scared of getting attached?Doubt it, if she was into you, you two would have went home together that night, but she left with her friends, then you texted her the same night? I’d say that text blew it up | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you go from joking abt sex to actually fucking?Gotta make a move bro | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What kind of volume and time investment do you need to get any results?Hmm, those stats very impressive, it’s probably your inner game at this point. Do you think you are good enough? I’ve went through some epic fuck benders and I’ve went through some epic dry patches. When I think back on both scenarios, I can see the difference in confidence and vibes I’m putting out into the world. Do you pay attention to the pua redpoll stuff? Especially the stuff about inner game? Please read about body language as well, on those epic fuck benders, the women I would pick up wo… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | What kind of volume and time investment do you need to get any results?Bro, it’s more than just approaching constantly. And there is no stigma with cold approach, you need to cold approach. You gonna run out of options if you stick inside extended social circle. The main thing is are you attractive? What do you bring to the table? Are you learning new skills and building value? Are you in shape? Do you lift? How much money you make? Are you on an upward trajectory in regards to value? 40 approaches per month and you only got one # from a multi level marketer? Somet… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Love and hate are the same thing for all intents and purposes. If she really hates you you still good fam. One thing tho, stop texting her sister to get back with her, not a good look | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 11:30 PM |
| 12 | Can you hit on waitress, cashier etc.I wasn’t trying to be mean but that’s how you have to think about it, women are dying for attention from high value males especially while they are working their boring jobs, if you come at them right, confidently, they will enjoy the interaction. I’ve picked up several chicks who were my waitress, cashier, whatever. Don’t give yourself a reason not to approach, and honestly what do you have to lose? | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:52 AM |
| -9 | Can you hit on waitress, cashier etc.Fucking do it pussy, you can hit on women anywhere, what’s the worst that could happen | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I think if they are an 8+ they probably don’t get approached that often | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How should I proceed?First of all, she too old unless you just tryna smash, if you just trying to smash, go find another chick, she’s not into you. If she was, there would be no excuses, if she wanted to fuck you nothing would stop her from doing it. You are wasting your time, you just a beta orbiter right now. Go out and find someone else, ghost her a little and she will come back. And if not... so fucking what! There are millions of hot women out there. Keep shooting bro. You got this, don’t waste tour time on wom… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to attract girls/a girlfriend as a 21 year old virgin dude with ZERO friends/hobbies?Make friends at the gym. I move around the county a lot and as soon as I join a local gym I try to start up a convo with someone who looks interesting or who I think I might like, guy or girl. Might take you a few tries to get to know the right way to go about it but gym people are usually cool, quality people. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 08:26 AM |
| 8 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtThis story should be a pinned case study in all of red pill | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/20 06:36 PM |
| 20 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtIt's not so much what she brings to the table as much as her taking the fucking table and the house and kids and getting divorce raped. I've been through a similar situation. After being married to a woman for so long, no amount of spice will ever make her desirable or even palatable at some point. You might respect your wife for making a home and having your kids but I would assume most men still lust after other attractive women. Women will share a high value man is understated. It's likely hi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/20 06:34 PM |
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