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1	One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study shows Its 1 in 3 for some studies. I think the intent is more like "hey women, if you're standing in a room with 6 men - one of them thinks we should go back to a time where you couldnt own anything, and your husband could legally rape and beat you." This sub really demonstrates why men have a loneliness epidemic. Its looking pretty self-inflicted.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 10:13 AM
1	Asking all colleges: Where is our safe space? Yeah I left the sub last night after reading people in this sub talk about "women are afraid for no reason" which also degrades the experience of male survivors of male-on-male abuse (and so does the sub description!) and gaslights a maj of the earth's population for the sake of bitterness. Its a couple comments down if you feel like throwing up!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/03/24 10:19 AM
0	Asking all colleges: Where is our safe space? "Don't you think that they might be afraid for no reason?" Is the reason I'm about to leave this subreddit, because I'm sure it does not represent my values - or, under that logic, even its own.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/24 10:21 PM
1	Asking all colleges: Where is our safe space? Wow! 22 people who have never listened to another person in their life	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/24 09:47 PM
2	Do men see women as objects? Yeah I won't be responding after this. You've taken my trauma and basically asked me if I'm sure I'm not a stupid twat, and if im sure the women and queer men in my life arent all twats too. And that doesn't deserve any of my respect. I had to hash out my trauma to begin this conversation and I won't be continuing it with someone who had no intention on having baseline respect. If survivors do not speak to you, this is why. You've essentially called all of the statistics and studies on male vs f…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 09:12 AM
3	Fury over Police Scotland's 'Hate Monster' campaign: Bizarre advert supporting Humza Yousaf's new hate crime laws is slammed for suggesting offences are mainly committed by 'young white men' from deprived areas Yknow I actually thought you were someone else and was referring to your comment thinking we'd been having a similar but different conversation. It's late for me here and I don't have a whole lot of energy for this topic because it's heresay - but I don't think all of the stats, everywhere, are doctored. My personal experience in life, which I seem to share with a lot of people, is that dating men requires more safety precautions. It just does. People who date men tend not to need stats to talk …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 12:22 AM
3	Fury over Police Scotland's 'Hate Monster' campaign: Bizarre advert supporting Humza Yousaf's new hate crime laws is slammed for suggesting offences are mainly committed by 'young white men' from deprived areas Women shouldn't get offended by any of that. They're facts. I agree with everything you said. I don't assume every man I meet is dangerous, but I have to vibe check him more and take different measures to protect myself from potential harm. I do the same with women when it comes to other issues like emotional abuse, scapegoating, false allegations and financial abuse etc because those tend to happen more from women. My ex abused me and accused me of being the abuser. Believe me, I get it. The ra…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/24 11:18 PM
0	Do men see women as objects? Of course they can. But as per my own experience, as well as that of a majority of bisexual women and men I speak to, it's more often men than women who dangerously break boundaries. No condom could have given me an STD and could get a woman pregnant, no lube could destroy my inner canals with cuts, too rough can injure you, violence without warning can traumatise you. I've described what the nicest guys have done to me, not what the worst of them have. I've been assaulted by women, but in my ex…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/24 08:32 PM
2	Do men see women as objects? Mindfulness of boundaries & consent. Like they won't ask before doing something aggressive, or they'll ask again and again if they can do smth I've said I'm uncomfortable with, they'll refuse condoms because they don't feel as good, they'll refuse lube. Like their main priority is sometimes just, getting themselves off, and they treat me as a means to an end instead of considering that there's 2 parties.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/24 07:06 PM
-1	Do men see women as objects? If its true, its likely something we aren't thinking about. All you can do is put effort into humanising someone you want to have sex with, and pay attention to their comfort & needs because they aren't a tool or an object. As a bisexual man, I have to agree that the way a lot of men think about sex is kind of frightening - even really nice guys who respect me outside of a sexual situation have visibly lost some of that respect once my clothes are off and they're hard. I've been as bad myself at…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/24 11:54 AM
10	Do men see women as objects? We're all here arguing that men shouldn't be reduced to their job and their working value. So we shouldn't be doing that to others when it comes to sex. Men or women. I don't see the point in defending this - a problem has been pointed out, so those of us who feel like it applies can literally just take from it "ill try to humanise the people I want to fuck a little more actively from now on" and move on. I don't get why everyone in this thread is acting like any and all stats on men is nothing …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/24 11:50 AM
5	How do we get people to have more empathy for incel men? Can you explain that? Most people's understanding of incel is that they primarily blame women for their ailments	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/03/24 01:22 PM
-11	Fury over Police Scotland's 'Hate Monster' campaign: Bizarre advert supporting Humza Yousaf's new hate crime laws is slammed for suggesting offences are mainly committed by 'young white men' from deprived areas I'm sorry but is this not just actual statistics? There are lots of things that are misandrist and hateful, but facts aren't.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/03/24 09:46 AM
5	Is a large component of the male loneliness epidemic the general feeling of being undesirable? On a whole, women are probably less lonely. They have more of a culture of support and emotional vulnerability than we do. I find it so hard to have real talks with my male friends, like dig the deep shit up talks, like what's the worst thing that ever happened to you talks. I understand the survival instinct around avoiding men in certain scenarios, or being extra cautious of them. Its statistically supported, and for many people, knowledge of the stats aren't needed because both direct and ind…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/24 04:30 PM
1	Here are all 12 Days for women and girls. Not one for men or boys. On top of that, international men's day wouldn't be a day to bond over physical attributes. Its a day to bond over being men, in all the different ways it comes. It's a day to address men's issues, celebrate their gender expression, and be thoughtful of them. It should celebrate trans and cis men alike. You said earlier that bonding over trauma always leads to group mentalities and seemed to be against it, I'm wondering why you changed your take?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/24 10:33 AM
3	Would you consider that "Toxic Feminism" as "Feminism as Patriarchal Proxy"? I wanted to share my thoughts, why I feel it that way. With respect, I disagree with that sentiment. I could put Men's rights activism in general under the same fire for having some heavily mysogynist voices that often intentionally undermine genuine women's issues. But I don't. And that leads to my following point: The issue of picking a side, that I mentioned before, has been in relation to women's issues point blank. Not feminism. I'm telling you that some people in these subs are just as mysogynist as feminists are misandrist. I would say that t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/24 10:26 AM
1	Here are all 12 Days for women and girls. Not one for men or boys. Pride isn't a day to bond over physical attributes. What you're saying now is not what you said earlier.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/24 09:00 AM
5	No space for peaceful incels I see where you're coming from with this, but this is slightly invasive as a form of support. It may not be the time to try and dismantle his viewpoints, even if I understand the need to for his wellbeing. The mind is a powerful thing. That contributes towards your point, but also the following: OP can't immediately fix his insecurities because they are deeply rooted. I'm sure he is beautiful and hope he will see it one day, and doesn't need a woman's approval on the matter. Therapy is a great s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/24 11:30 PM
1	Here are all 12 Days for women and girls. Not one for men or boys. The alternative to banding together is suffering alone, and being unable to resolve communal, systemic problems we all face. It's okay that you don't feel a connect with other LGBT+ based on shared trauma - not everyone psychologically functions that way. But the fact that others have formed so many communities, over and over again throughout time, shows that a lionshare of us do feel connected by our experiences, views and trauma. That's also okay. The way you bond with people is perfectly fine…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/24 10:49 PM
2	Here are all 12 Days for women and girls. Not one for men or boys. Pride is a money making scheme. I worked for an LGBT+ charity and it made me uncomfortable how much money, working hours and commitment went into their annual Pride festivities rather than their services. How much mental and physical turmoil it caused the staff, and how much more could have been done for queer people all year round with that money. However, I have to say, some people get a lot out of it. People use it to come out, as an event to bring their family to, a place to feel safe - to s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/24 10:32 PM
1	Would you consider that "Toxic Feminism" as "Feminism as Patriarchal Proxy"? I wanted to share my thoughts, why I feel it that way. It takes away from really important equality issues in my opinion. I find the same issues here in these subs too. It's like the majority of folks are like "men, women. Pick one." and neither party actually deconstructing the system that oppresses everyone. Feminism that leaves men out of the conversation, or can only speak about them in terms of how it affects women, is bad feminism. Coming from Ireland where men are prioritised more than other western countries and Australia etc, I find that br…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/24 01:37 PM
1	"You should read Bell Hooks" a semi-rant about the experience of talking to feminists At this point in time, "patriarchy" is the only word people know to talk about it with, whether they believe its a system that benefits solely men or not. I've heard "oligarchy" but it doesn't account for gender issues in relation to power dynamics & systemic permissions for either gender - and seems to mostly be selected for the purpose of keeping men's advocates calm enough to talk. It's like finding better wording for "not all men" so you don't get eaten alive for expressing the sentiment. We…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/03/24 07:26 PM
1	"You should read Bell Hooks" a semi-rant about the experience of talking to feminists Can you list some examples of pseudoscience, misandry and delusion in Bell Hooks work?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/03/24 06:34 PM
3	Paternity leave: Call for more help as fathers cannot afford time off Meeting a lifetime of crappy dad's in a row does make you forget that men actually do want the option to be more hands on parents - they just lack the systemic liberty and sometimes the tools. Seeing equality as something that purely advantages women is counter-productive in so many ways. It's as if nobody can see the direct link with men's issues and women's issues, and that targeting the issue from all angles is necessary because inequality benefits no gender truly, in today's society. Abandon…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/03/24 10:05 AM
1	Paternity leave: Call for more help as fathers cannot afford time off The system is designed to take fatherhood away from us and it shows every day. We can't fully break unequal traditions without equality in the law and our benefits ffs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/03/24 09:51 AM
2	Biden Proposed the Opposite of Equality for Men's Health Support Funding women doesn't actually take away from men. But you're right in that he absolutely could have done better for men, and it's frightening to think that addressing men's issues is taboo when doing so would contribute towards a societal healing that could potentially benefit all genders. Violence stats would plummet, suicide rates would follow, male perpetrated sexual violence... It's not exactly the support of women's rights that fucks us, it's the neglect of young men's health and wellbeing…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/24 08:29 PM
3	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” This is really well articulated, thank you for your input. I can see the connotations - another user pointed out disturbing correlations between anti-male pseudoscience and anti-jewish nazi prop. I agree with you that it couldn't possibly be as simple as left or right because of that, and I do see a lot of authoritarianism in feminist spaces. I've been removed from some of them just for my opinion not aligning on one rule on their group rules list - apparently instant bans are appropriate in res…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 04:45 PM
2	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” I understand where you're coming from. I feel as though I haven't seen someone deny that abuse happens to men in so long and I'm starting to believe that rage-baiting is more wired into our online algorithms than we understand. Or maybe we've just had lucky experiences with the mentioned spaces we're defending. I wouldn't give either party more of a green card to spread bigotry or hate. I used to give it to women because men so often hurt them, especially growing up (my school experience was ver…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 03:01 PM
1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your perspective. I don't agree based on my own experience with ground level feminism local to me, but maybe you've known some real nutcrackers and performative characters in your life. I do think that there are plenty of feminists who enforce gender roles in a detrimental way on men - including indulging in the idea that no man is safe, that all of them are self centred, and just making ridiculous sweeping statements in general.That is the most prominent bigo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 02:42 PM
2	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” You're making a lot of all-encompassing statements about feminists in general. None of the feminists I know are performative supporting minorities because most of them are minorities. I can understand that being a mandatorily accepting group is beneficial for that groups growth, but it's inflammatory to say that feminists only accept minorities because they care about their own personal self image - suggesting in turn that the majority of feminists are mainly bigots under it all. That has not be…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 11:08 AM
1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” People who spearhead earth-shattering political movements tend to be extremists, and absolutely crackpots. People are better at censoring it now. Can you point me to a current day influencail figure that you consider to be pedalling misandry? I'd like to just understand the point of reference. I don't agree with it, particularly not present day, and the feminist spokespeople local to me have not been particularly anti-men. All of that seems to happen online as it's considered uncivil. Then there…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 10:29 AM
2	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” You've purposefully ignored plenty of what I said to even ask these questions or argue these points. Your points on MRA groups are false in my experience, because I had to actually run away from harrassment and bigotry I was at the receiving end of there. I witnessed opinions and behaviours I have not seen the feminist equivalent of in any groups ive been in. The only benefit of the doubt I can give here is that you've been in all the right MRA groups and all the wrong feminist groups, and vice …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 10:07 AM
-2	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” Did I say they weren't racist 200 years ago? I love the implication that all this racism is mostly pedalled by women. Feminism is bigger than a few traumatised crackpots who lived secondary lives to their male counterparts. I don't look to these voices to lead me through feminism, or specifically misandrist viewpoints spoken by them, and neither do a majority of feminists I've spoken to - the people that talk about wanting a matriarch are almost always kidding, as are a surprising number of the …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 10:01 AM
-1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” You're coming out with so much crap to unpack I'm getting overwhelmed trying to find the words to - and I'm sure that's the intention on your part. First of all - you've referred to feminism as a right wing hate group. Not just here but in another conversation I saw you in too recently. Let's start there. You have absolutely no basis to say that feminists are "right wing" just because they are feminists. Firstly, there are many many subcategories of feminism - some of which are heavily misandris…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 09:44 AM
1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” Go ahead and prove to me that female oppression was something feminism made up in the 1800s. I'll sit here and fall asleep from boredom with your predictability. Grow the fuck up.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 09:04 AM
-1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” Misandrists? They weren't allowed to vote. Men owned them to an extent. You sound like a petulant child who doesn't have the ability to see things outside the frame of their own resentment. People like you and opinions like this are the reason I've left feminist and MRA groups both.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 09:02 AM
1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” Few, though it was crucial - but mostly was overwhelming violent backlash and ridicule. We still have ridicule and cynics and sexists arguing with feminism and we always will. It will be the same for us.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/24 08:58 AM
1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” If women built feminism from the ground, women also not being a monolith, then so can men. We can just organise, spread awareness and have functional meet ups to discuss real men's issues. We can protest MGM, we can identify the men's issues locally to us. We can speak with activists and ask advice, we can hook up with the men's rights organisation closest to us. I think the issue is that we keep expecting feminism (as some monolithic idea) to spearhead this for us. They can absolutely help us, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/02/24 09:25 AM
4	How feminism makes me want to die: a detailed but relatively short explanation with an example I've yet to meet someone who told me its objectification to imagine having sex with a stranger. Staring at someone's ass is rude. Making comments on someone's ass at random is rude. Cat calling, and speaking about people purely based on their body parts or how hot you think they are - all bad, disrespectful, and objectification. Looking at someone and thinking "holy hot damn that body", sneaking a quick peak without realising, and imagining having sex with them is normal human behaviour. It migh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/12/23 12:33 PM
-2	We need to keep saying this... I am literally not an active feminist, I support feminists because i support womens rights, and because the movement isn't a monolith and some of them care about us and how the system affects us. I'm sorry if that upsets you for whatever reason	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 10:08 PM
-1	We need to keep saying this... Because they seem to be the only meaningful movement that cover women's issues. I support gender equality and this sub can feel like a pissing contest. The idea that men benefit from the patriarchy but also are hurt by it doesn't reasonably coexist in my head, but for some reason it does in the minds of feminists who I know to be supporters of mens rights. I'm defending a movement that does a lot of different things, and I have witnessed it doing good things for us. Men feel safer being vulnerab…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:58 PM
-2	We need to keep saying this... Some extremist garbage probably. Next.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:43 PM
-1	We need to keep saying this... Ask someone who buys into the idea that it does	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:43 PM
2	Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't. He's a sad little school bully. Check out his comment history. Pay him no mind.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:33 PM
-9	Researchers say women were the hunters and providers, not men. Yeah that's not the win you think it is. Shows you don't feel smart enough to fight fair. You go way below the belt so you can feel taller when they buckle. Lame as fuck. All for your hurt feelings 😂	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:27 PM
-2	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men And I'm asking you, do you think it's okay for racists to ask other races not to use the same facilities as them? Or just trans people	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:15 PM
-10	Researchers say women were the hunters and providers, not men. Wow I forgot I made that post. You're a disgusting person, and the reason men need more support.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 09:12 PM
-4	Researchers say women were the hunters and providers, not men. There are subs that focus more on spreading awareness and taking action than this one seems to - if you message me I can link you, but I'm not sure it adheres to the sub rules to post it here.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 08:44 PM
-16	Researchers say women were the hunters and providers, not men. https://allthingslists.com/sports-that-women-beat-men/ you shouldn't have given me an inch	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 08:39 PM
-4	We need to keep saying this... Wow, I'm not unpacking all of that for you, because its not my job. While a lot of what youre saying is often true, even if misunderstanding my point, some of it I'm absolutely certain you pulled out of your ass. I don't know what I love more, "men are slutshamed more" or "men do housework because they have to be told to instead of just doing his share" It's like you don't live on earth. You didnt read my comment properly and that isnt my problem. Its not about throwing rocks at each other and p…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 08:24 PM
-4	We need to keep saying this... Are men told to shoulder all the household and childcare weight? Are men slut shamed and told how much skin to show? Are men told to spend hours dressing up and changing their appearance to look good for their partner? Are men expected to take the contraceptive pill? Are men disproportionately affected by sexual violence in most countries? Are men forcibly impregnated by rapists and then denied access to an abortion? Are we disproportionately affected by sex trafficking, sexual violence, or bein…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 07:38 PM
5	We need to keep saying this... I think a lot of people who are feminist don't actually understand what they mean when they say patriarchy. They haven't been updated on the most recent facts, laws, imbalances, and they assume women are inherently still oppressed, and that men are still given the world. In reality, there's a lot about mens issues they don't know, and getting defensive is step 1 when they've experienced mysogyny all their life and the whole world has been validating it as a systemic issue. They wouldn't notice t…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 07:10 PM
-1	We need to keep saying this... Feminism isn't the reason we still mutilate our babies, or why women dont serve as much time for the same crime, or why male only shelters are shutting down. Thats gender bias, and a societal pressure to look progressive by help women - leading to an unfair distribution of government funding. The movement doesn't advocate against men, it advocates for women's rights and gender equality - but its focus tends not to be on men's issues. Gender bias has been around far longer than feminism has, alon…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 06:40 PM
-2	We need to keep saying this... For me, it depends. If you just say "help me dismantle the patriarchy" that's way too vague and you can say no for lots of different reasons, so it doesn't link right to being a mysogynist. But then some guys just outwardly think most women are crybaby liars who shouldn't be believed when they complain about sexism - or they refuse based on the fact that they don't get the same fair treatment, instead of just asking for the same fair treatment - and I think those people are dicks.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 05:45 PM
3	We need to keep saying this... A lot of my friends would be into that too. It's more cringe than clever. Whats funny to me is, at least in the west....We kind of have smashed the patriarchy. Its smashed. We can stop smashing it. It no longer exists as what it used to. The changes that need to happen are on a social level, and the ongoing hatred of men is only fuelling the hatred given back from men. And vice versa. I wish we could look at the stats without using it for a hateful personal agenda	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 05:27 PM
-19	We need to keep saying this... I was more talking about the grievance and spitting on men part. Feminists usually do believe in the patriarchy being a system that only benefits men though, you're right. Not sure about most men being responsible, I haven't heard feminists say that. Just emotionally charged women.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 05:07 PM
1	We need to keep saying this... It's a lonely place to be in 🤣 feminists don't like me anymore, men in this sub would happily see me burn to the ground, and I'm just getting a huge entertainment factor from it all because all it does is remind me that the Internet is a seamless map of echo Chambers and stupidity & nobody's opinion really matters here	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 05:02 PM
1	We need to keep saying this... Keep going, I'm almost there 😩💦	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:58 PM
-6	We need to keep saying this... I'll never get tired of reporting your comments.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:53 PM
2	We need to keep saying this... I'm literally making a point that we do all the same bullshit here that we bitch about women for doing. The original post is great. "Tearing society down" My god. The fucking drama.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:51 PM
-4	We need to keep saying this... What's worse? Trolling, or responding to a troll?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:46 PM
15	We need to keep saying this... Not all women	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:37 PM
19	We need to keep saying this... Not all feminists	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:37 PM
0	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men One can only assume a fear, that can't be backed up, is irrational. Which means it can be worked on and overcome.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:19 PM
-3	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men How does this validate being scared of a trans man in a locker room? Your links don't provide a working link of their own to the study involved, so I found more: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/cifamerica/2012/feb/21/us-more-men-raped-than-women which states that there actually isn't certainty on whether more men, or simply more prisoners, are raped. So what you linked doesn't say much about it - it also doesn't really pin trans men as the perpetrators of that, but rather other cis men…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:05 PM
-5	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men https://www.statista.com/statistics/251923/usa-reported-forcible-rape-cases-by-gender/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20about%20442%2C754%20women,compared%20to%20the%20year%20before. That's a nice opinion. But no, they aren't. Even though the ones who do should be taken equally seriously as well as female abusers locked up.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:45 PM
1	Florida Woman Rapes Husband's Autistic Younger Brother, Gives Birth to His Child. Amanda Brooks entered her brother-in-law's room on several times and raped him, something that had been going on for 10 years. Amanda Brooks Initially Told Cops that she was raped by Her Husband and his brother. Because rapist isn't enough of an insult? The sooner we dump the word whore in the gutter the better, it means nothing and benefits nobody.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:44 PM
-5	Florida Woman Rapes Husband's Autistic Younger Brother, Gives Birth to His Child. Amanda Brooks entered her brother-in-law's room on several times and raped him, something that had been going on for 10 years. Amanda Brooks Initially Told Cops that she was raped by Her Husband and his brother. This sub is a hate chamber against almost every type of person sometimes.There's an overload of homophobia, racism, mysogyny and even tonnes of misandry. Don't get it. Have not had these issues on other men's rights forums though, luckily.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:41 PM
-4	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Does that count for all minorities, in your opinion?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:33 PM
3	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men You're right in the sense that a larger study needs to be done - several, all around the world, ideally. It won't be hard to find 100 trans people to take part, it just needs funding and intention. There's a small percentage for each of those differences, and the study was only done after 2 years of HRT. I'd be interested to know how they fared after 5.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:32 PM
-3	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men There's no stats or studies to back their concerns up, so don't worry. They literally have nothing to feed the faggot troll	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:29 PM
1	The least surprising psychological study goes to…. Narcissists engage in feminist activism to satisfy their grandiose tendencies. Jimmy Saville was also an activist. Some of the worst people are. Activism makes you look like a good person, and it gives you public trust and power. They'll latch on to feminism because it pays off when people worship you for your supposed good work. Plus, a female narcissist will obviously want to cling to the idea that she's above wrongdoing because she's a woman and a feminist - they'll take anything that works.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 03:20 PM
-20	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Can you show me stats that validate that fear?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:46 PM
0	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Women aren't a unit - plenty are OK with trans women in their bathroom or locker room. Others aren't. And vice versa for trans men, some guys are fine with it. If you're uncomfortable, you should probably figure out why. If you think your safety is actually at risk, then that's something to talk about.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:46 PM
-36	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Girls are usually worried we will assault them. Are you worried about the same?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:40 PM
3	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Go ahead and do your own research - or better yet, read the study I linked for your convenience and go from there. The only difference that impacted their performance after HRT was speed - take what you want from that.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:38 PM
0	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Completely fair, but some guys in these comments care a little too much, all I'm sayin'	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:32 PM
0	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men No, it wasn't- you didn't encourage a discussion on whether trans women are women at all. You talked about the issues and hypocrisy of caring whether they're in women's sports. If you're against it too, include yourself in my comment and have an actual read on what you're talking about.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:29 PM
-24	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men Does a trans guy in your locker room make you uncomfortable? If so, why?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:23 PM
-6	Transwomen In Women's Sports Shouldn't Concern Men To everyone who agrees that trans women in sports is a problem : HRT (hormone therapy) practically melts away their muscle and bone density changes, their hormonal profile is in line with a female. In this scenario, its no different than two girls being a different size, skill, or weight class to one another. https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/11/577 so stop changing the point of the post to affirm your bias against transgender people	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 02:22 PM
1	Why isn't it deemed predatory when an older woman seduces or dates a much younger woman? I think it is tbh, but it's because we deem women as less dangerous that people don't view it the same. The stats, plus our gender bias	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 01:31 PM
1	Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it? I'm sorry, I don't understand. I said that the pills cause side effects	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 12:32 PM
2	Male Rape Victims Suffer MORE depressive Symptoms than Female Rape Victims Men suffer more depressive symptoms point blank, or at least aren't able to target their symptoms as readily as women get to. That, and the fact we have barely any support for male victims of rape or mental health issues.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 11:29 AM
3	Both Ukraine and Russia conscript only men to war. So men are conscripted and women can just voluntarily participate? For a country that considers itself forward, Ukraine rlly is a whole bag of wtf when you get down to their social and lawful equality. It has a long way to go unfortunately	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 11:19 AM
0	Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it? Who said irreversible here, other than you?	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 11:15 AM
-5	Sick of having to put up with women's "insecurities" when they don't care about mens Explain that	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 11:13 AM
-5	Sick of having to put up with women's "insecurities" when they don't care about mens I was with you until you slapped out the word "myth" at very much existing issues. Will need stats for that.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 11:11 AM
4	Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it? The pill doesn't have negligible side effects for men or women. It notoriously has really nasty ones. Does that make the pill not a win overall?	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 01:04 PM
1	Whether you are pro-life or pro-choice, you have to agree that the modern Western discourse on the subject is completely gynocentric and screwed up. This is a complicated topic because giving birth to a child is not a two person thing. It does things to a person's body and mind forever, that they can't undo. It changes your life forever in that way, just the physical aftermath. While parenthood is a choice two people need to make, you can't ask someone to make their body do something like that if they don't want that. They also shouldn't expect you to drive them to the clinic, or pay, if you're pro life and don't agree with aborting a fetus.…	/r/MensRights	17/12/23 10:46 AM
-1	A committed feminist: Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? I haven't read it, but based on some passages from it, I'm assuming the context of women having significantly fewer rights in the 1800s was pretty important in that regard. The author was quite literally describing the laws and the world around her at the time - if she worded it harshly, its because she was a second class citizen speaking about her oppressor. If all you took from it was "i hate men" then there's something you arent seeing	/r/MensRights	13/12/23 10:09 PM
-1	A committed feminist: Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? Sorry, was just in work! I understood what you meant about personally not minding hearing about your partners day, and i can relate to that bc same, for me its basic respect to hear about my partners day - but believe me, its from other men that I hear "most men don't want to hear about drama it's more draining for guys than it is for girls" which as a statement is bullshit, but it must be true for at least some guys if one guy is ballsy enough to say that's how most guys feel. Ive seen men lite…	/r/MensRights	13/12/23 06:45 PM
9	Quick debate: Why males specifically? It's a human responsibility to help someone who's being raped in front of you	/r/MensRights	13/12/23 04:28 PM
6	Men staying single, Rejecting women and why? If I went home I'd definitely have to do so much housework, my fam is messy af and I hate it I've found that my partner and I found an egalitarian approach where we both share housework and both know when it needs done. We try not nag, instead we politely ask each other for help. It's so refreshing. I hated the inequality in my last relationships - everything i did was under scrutiny because of my being the masculine figure. There's pretty much no gender roles for either of us in our relationshi…	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 11:04 PM
-1	A committed feminist: Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? Oh you're correct - women do this all the time! And what's more, a lot of women don't calculate their partners emotional capacity in general. As in, what might just feel like talking him through her friends messy break up to her, is actually a mental load for him to take on. I'll be real, a trend I'm seeing in and under a lot of these posts in this sub - I'm not saying its totally unfounded - is treating feminism and misandry like they're inherent together. They go together a lot, because femini…	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 09:54 PM
1	TIL There are different rates of suicides and suicidal behavior between males and females. While females more often have suicidal thoughts, males die by suicide more frequently. In the Western world, males die by suicide three to four times more often than do females. My comment focuses purely on productivity for the exact reasons you just mentioned. The idea that women have more suicidal thoughts is obviously false and its because men are not permitted to speak up - not because women tend to just want attention, like you said. You made a cause for progress into a needless slander and it defeats everything we're trying to fight for. Sit down and be offended.	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 02:49 PM
2	A committed feminist: Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? As someone who had a partner who dumped their crap on me, all while pretending to their friends they were fine - sometimes, because guys aren't used to sharing their emotions, they don't know when's a good time or what a person's capacity to listen at once is. It's also somewhat unhealthy to only share with your partner. Some women are coming back with stories like that, suggesting they took on a mental load because their partner couldn't share with anyone else. There's a lot of feminists - in t…	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 02:40 PM
2	Why hasn’t Men’s Rights had any significant / big wins ? Men are seen to have held most to all power in society until relatively recently in history, whereas culturally women built up to it for generations. We haven't done much because many of us aren't sure how to fight the system yet, and theres little support for the cause due to lack of awareness. We need to organise and protest, as well as spread major awareness. We could be speaking to successful activists, teaming up with them. I think it would do us favours to get feminists involved, as the po…	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 02:09 PM
8	Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen? That's the thing though, nobody should care about that. If your partner is going to cheat, it doesn't matter if they're straight or bi - they'll do it. How many options there are was never the issue. Bisexuals are no more likely to cheat than anyone else	/r/MensRights	11/12/23 01:23 PM
4	Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen? I think you're right, except I would call it a men's issue because of how it happens to affect men. Its specific to how people view masculinity, and how they feel same sex attraction affects that. I believe that, when it does happen to women, its a womens issue and a gay issue. But that doesn't make it not a men's issue - I'm inclined to believe this happens a little more to men these days than it does to women, because we've been desensitised and even fetishized gay women so men are quicker to …	/r/MensRights	11/12/23 01:11 PM
2	Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen? Trying to talk some women out of this mindset is so uncomfortable. They say they love queer people and then they can't see a man the same way once he's touched another man and suddenly the attraction isn't there	/r/MensRights	11/12/23 01:01 PM
0	Everything on 4chan can be fake of course (unlike the rest of the internet?) but if true it's a horror story of what a false accusation can do to someone's life, and also destroy a family. Be careful out there my brothers The FBI put it at 8% and other studies determine between 2-10% and some found lower - so 2-10% isn't wrong to say as it will vary by year https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-45565684.amp all links to studies and articles sourced within. That's in regard to adult people, since you mentioned feminism I figured that's what you meant	/r/MensRights	10/12/23 03:04 PM
23	Found people arguing about how it's okay to frame someone for rape even if you consented to the sex. If all sex work is rape? Well, idk. By their logic, it covers male sex workers and female clients too. They base it around consent and what motivates consent. But in practice, I don't know what the take tends to be on the scenario when the genders are reversed, there's usually a failure to mention that clients aren't limited to men.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 05:41 PM
13	How to argue for Paternity Tests? It should be mandatory, removing the factor of trust. Lots of people trust their partner, and wouldn't opt to get one unless it was just regular protocol. They're (relatively) inexpensive and easy to government subsidise, although prenatals are more costly. I also think parenting classes should be mandatory. Both parents. Fines out their ass if they don't attend, and accommodation from all work places to support it. I'm very idealistic 😂	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 05:05 PM
1	Everything on 4chan can be fake of course (unlike the rest of the internet?) but if true it's a horror story of what a false accusation can do to someone's life, and also destroy a family. Be careful out there my brothers Very true. False allegations represent between 2-10% of child molestation and even adult assailt claims. You could be right, or the post could be totally true. Very difficult to tell purely based on 4chan, youtube and reddit posts with unreliable sources. These situations do happen irl but semi-anonymous online claims are nothing to go by.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 04:56 PM
8	Videos like these prove just how accepted heightism against short men is in today’s society… Their high hopes might be founded. If enough noise is made for men's rights, there's no reason we can't create the same culture around body shaming & objectifying men as we do about women. We saw traditional feminism dismantle the societal oppression women used to face, and then denormalise a lot of social gender biases that negatively affected women. We have every right to do the same, and shed light on harmful behaviours women can subject us to. One shouldn't undermine the other, even if there…	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 04:20 PM
2	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Interesting. Its just a strange thing to conceptualise, because I've seen women literally body-slam each other in competition for a man, throw themselves at men, and essentially do mating dances by bending over backwards to try impress a man. I wonder if this relates to any discrepancies in the theory, or is it accounted for that some females just aren't naturally sexually selective?	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 02:49 PM
0	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Your link doesn't say that, plus it's talking focally about animals, can you find something that backs up the idea that men aren't sexual selectors? Or as often* if that's what you mean	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 02:00 PM
3	Women have started blaming everything on men If that's all the supply available you'll buy it, even just to use parts of the costume. Both of you are correct, one leads to the other. In general, sex always sells. But sexualising men's costumes won't work for them cause they'll think it's gay. People are out here for money, not equality -- that's why we see companies backing up feminism in areas where it isn't due, bc feminism does actually sell now, but only in some sectors.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:57 PM
3	Found people arguing about how it's okay to frame someone for rape even if you consented to the sex. That's a YouTube link did you mean to link something else?	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:53 PM
105	Found people arguing about how it's okay to frame someone for rape even if you consented to the sex. Have you heard the theory about sex work always meeting thr criteria for sexual abuse? As a sex worker, I had no idea I was raped so many times... with my consent... for a price I set... in a safe and privileged environment..	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:52 PM
0	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Even less so in humans, meaning men and women aren't human? What?	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:43 PM
2	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Men are also sexual selectors?	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:14 PM
1	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? If your goal is to find a study that disproves everything women have ever said about the health system, I'm not interested in talking with you and wasting my energy debunking all your debunks, and having my debunks debunked. You can find a study somewhere in the world to make pretty much every point. That study you linked me about gynos only talks about how many happen to be female - and actually details that there's still, somehow, a pay gap in the trade. Evidence also said that certain practic…	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 01:12 PM
-1	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Are you pulling this out of your ass? Personal experiences are perfectly fine to share but this place is mad dysfunctional when all we do is throw out ridiculous takes about how all women apparently are, no studies no context no shit.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 12:45 PM
0	Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man. Stats please.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 12:40 PM
5	TIL There are different rates of suicides and suicidal behavior between males and females. While females more often have suicidal thoughts, males die by suicide more frequently. In the Western world, males die by suicide three to four times more often than do females. It's not a pissing contest but you just kinda pissed all over it anyway. The stats are the stats, men kill themselves more and we need to focus on spreading awareness, signing petitions for male care, and creating spaces for men to hash their feelings out. Not focus on whether or not women should be believed when they say they're suicidal.	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 12:46 AM
2	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? Andrology...? Thats a whole ass sector tbf. I'm not in disagreement, the argument that women were underrepresented overall in statistics seems pretty unfounded, based on the studies you linked. Patients of endometriosis have their pain brushed off as period pain in the doctors office, and women find the same happens when discussing any kind of pelvic pain and this leads to frequently being misdiagnosed, and late diagnosises.https://scholar.google.co.uk/scholar_url?url=https://www.liebertpub.com/…	/r/MensRights	09/12/23 12:10 AM
4	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? Huh. It makes sense that the initial motion was pushed, when there were so many key studies that had excluded them before the 90s, but it's strange that the claim continues. There remains to be a massive misunderstanding for the female body in many areas of the medical field due to circulating myths and ignorance from doctors and GPs, which does lead to massive difficulties when women report pain and symptoms. But there's no point pushing a fact that isn't true - thank you for the links	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 09:52 PM
5	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? Most research was, and often still is, done on male bodies as test subjects, which can lead to misunderstandings on how meds, treatments and illnesses affect a female body on average. Women are diagnosed later than men across hundreds of diseases, despite that women visit the doctors more, and it's partially based on those misunderstandings. Because women weren't legally required to be involved in clinical research in some places until the 90s, we are still working on updating our knowledge on f…	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 07:51 PM
2	Man gets burned alive by Tinder date, internet asks what he did to deserve it You're right, and that's what lands a lot of big guys in prison for grievous body harm & manslaughter. Fights they should never have had to take part in. It pays to take care.	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 04:18 PM
-3	Man gets burned alive by Tinder date, internet asks what he did to deserve it Nuanced. A big guy and a small guy isn't an equal fight. There's still responsibility to not grievously harm the smaller person regardless of anyone's gender. But absolutely hit back	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 03:11 PM
19	Man gets burned alive by Tinder date, internet asks what he did to deserve it Jesus Fucking Christ. Talk about watching Hard Candy once and misunderstanding the moral.	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 03:04 PM
1	Help Hey man. First wanna say its good you reached out. It does no good to keep it to yourself, it only marinates. Second, would you be comfortable sharing your general location? I can find you the nearest support service, one specialised for men if I can, and send you the details. All that it means is that you never have to feel this way alone - for example, near me there's emergency talk lines, men's groups, talking sessions designed to accommodate you. Feel free to share with us, either in DM or h…	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 02:55 PM
10	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? Some studies have proven that actually.	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 02:38 PM
4	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? Pain is subjective, absolutely. But when one person deals with something "no problem" and the other person is genuinely on the brink of death, you can assume something different happened to each of them there. Especially with pregnancy, genetics and body shape really play a part in what that does to your body. Some women get their bones broken, asshole ripped to shreds, and theyre pushing for 30 hours. Others can pop it out in 30 minutes and their body pops right back into place in no time. But …	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 02:32 PM
4	What is your opinion on the gender pain gap? What irritating is that, for a lot of reasons, there are gaps in how men and women deal with pain. But it's more that each of them struggle with it very differently. Women have their pain written off by doctors, symptoms ignored, and their bodies often very misunderstood by professionals with outdated understandings of the female body. All inflammatory diseases that are understudied that affect women more often, on average, so its natural more women run into the issue. In honesty, most women I k…	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 02:17 PM
5	An essay I made about female-on-male domestic violence. Hell yeah! Power to you.	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 11:57 PM
3	Hamas raped men as well as women during October 7 attack: Investigators reveal how sex assault victims were tied up, stripped and mutilated as Israel launches its 'biggest ever criminal investigation' \| Daily Mail Online Are people actively supporting HAMAS? Most of the pro-palestine viewpoints I've seen have specified that they do not	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 11:33 PM
1	Reddit uploading comments that mock, trivialize, and victim blame male victims of domestic violence Yikes man. Thata fucked. I feel you. My ex held me up against a wall in a chokehold and passers by cheered her on, and I'll agree its not the physical contact that stays with you forever. It's how miserably small you feel	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 06:09 PM
-1	Women treat men like cops treat black people If it rings true for you, I respect that. I can't personally take it seriously due to the disproportionate police murders on black people. The authority imbalances don't line up and the post is pretty hypocritical where it discusses sweeping assumptions about men. Although some of the points do resonate, even still, I'll give it that.	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 01:08 PM
1	Women treat men like cops treat black people That's how opinions work, isn't it?	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 12:24 AM
9	Women treat men like cops treat black people That's not a good comparison at all.	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 12:05 AM
1	Success! Men Now Face More Hiring Discrimination Than Women That's what I'm getting at in the first place, yeah	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 10:31 PM
49	Reddit uploading comments that mock, trivialize, and victim blame male victims of domestic violence Idg why people assume female abusers aren't strong enough to hurt men? Maybe that has something to do with why men come out with worse injuries in cases of DV - the assumption that they can punch as hard as they want and it won't matter as much.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 09:13 PM
3	Male victims of abuse banned from support subreddits Based on the assumption that they called him creepy, predatory and abusive purely based on age and gender - that's fucked. The mods on reddit can occasionally use bias or people can catch someone breaking a mundane sub rule and report it, in order to have them removed from the sub. That's why misandry isn't reported or addressed by mods on feminist subs, and why misogyny isn't addressed in these ones. Honestly Im starting to think bots should do it. People are terrible mediators.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 07:00 PM
6	Why is the concept of men’s rights so controversial? Ignorance. Men's issues aren't spoken about enough, and can be difficult for the average feminist to hear because it can feel as though it undermines feminism. Because of the silence on men's issues, its been assumed that men's place in the patriarchy has always benefited them, and awareness on bias against men is pretty bleek. There were things I never knew before joining this subreddit. I've heard of a common argument : woman is talking about a woman's issue, man says "not all men" and chooses…	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 04:23 PM
-7	Millennial moms dread parenting "Women have an easy life" is a hilarious take away from this. We're an entitled people, these past few generations, and women have more liberty to share their experiences than men do, so they use it. Men need to be allowed the same privilege. It's said that men have an easy life due to similar misunderstandings, flipping the table is just as ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 04:01 PM
-2	Success! Men Now Face More Hiring Discrimination Than Women Equal opportunity, which I said I agree with. I've only pointed out why people don't believe that men are less favoured in the hiring process. Nobody has time to argue over nothing.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 03:58 PM
2	Millennial moms dread parenting I can't find anything particularly sexist - it talks about pregnancy affecting women more, which is obvious because it has health risks and aftermath. It talks about inequality with childcare and household burden, which is statistically a struggle for mothers. It doesn't focus on men or empathise with fathers much, doesn't shout out men's issues in parenthood, and doesn't pay a shout out to the men who break those traditions and have egalitarian relationships and coparenthoods. That might be wha…	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 03:44 PM
9	Sign the petition to appoint a Minister for Men in the UK This rings hard. The narrative that the imbalances in gender equality only affect women is such a misunderstanding for equality. The awful part is that, without opening ears to men's experiences, we don't come any closer to solving the issues that negatively affect women too. We talk about the patriarchy as something that benefits men and takes from women, but men struggle under it silently every day. Each struggle that men or women have in disproportion, represents a piece of the whole puzzle. …	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 03:32 PM
1	Can we stop calling it "circumcision" and instead call it male genital mutilation? If the issue doesn't require amputation it's completely senseless to jump to it at all. MGM is so desensitised its depressing. As far as doctors with FGM, the risks post surgery are acute and pretty much guaranteed, so it makes sense for them to shy away from operating on vulvas as a stand alone point. But there's still plenty of risks and life long side effects that affect people who've undergone MGM, it's insane that it's just skimmed over because the child may not die from it, and remove a pa…	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 03:07 PM
-13	Success! Men Now Face More Hiring Discrimination Than Women The reason people don't believe that is because plenty of sectors are still overwhelmingly male-dominant. The fact that female-dominant sectors are persisting with bias against men is incredibly unhelpful towards the fight to create equality in all of the work sectors. It creates more imbalance. This article seems to mostly angle towards the idea that women have more rights than men, and that women's rights advocacy is long since needed - which I cannot get behind, though I do believe men's issu…	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 02:39 PM
2	Society treats men like male chicks. (Why is society biased?) We also don't need to make humans, we cant even support the ones we have. That part was more of a throwaway joke because we very obviously don't have a real need to value anyone over anyone for reproduction reasons.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 10:36 AM
4	Society treats men like male chicks. (Why is society biased?) We don't really have a low population issue, we can artificially make human beings already so both sexes should be considered equally dispensable - at this point, its purely tradition. Rooted in an idea of gender roles we've largely - supposedly - shed as a society.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 12:36 AM
24	"Stalking" cannot happen to me, as a man. Get them done for negligence too, fuckers. You need a good lawyer and better support in your life - I'd be arriving to that house with 5 friends ready to stand outside her car until she drives away or tries to report it as a crime - at which point, several people have had to come to your defence and its not as easy to ignore. I'm sorry you've felt so alone in this	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 04:58 PM
1	Why are men not entitled to rest and recovery? If she's not constantly busy, why should you be? Seems like a serious lack of self awareness there, if you already help out with the house and the child. If she's the primary parent, maybe that's where its stemming from for her? Lots of couples have misunderstandings about this labour split. Full time parenting and full time jobs are difficult to compare because they are both incredibly emotionally demanding. It sounds like you've talked about it already with no prevail, but it could be worth ma…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 04:25 PM
1	A man made a post asking what he should do cause he was depressed and felt ugly. Most comments were like this one just saying it’s harder for women like that’s gonna help him This is true. I'm not arguing with the fact that fat, or extremely skinny, people are widely considered attractive on par with those of average builds. I'm saying that body positivity movements are less about attractiveness and more about self worth. Seeing plus side models isn't evidence of "body positivity gone mad" they got the job because fat people wear clothes.	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 04:08 PM
1	A man made a post asking what he should do cause he was depressed and felt ugly. Most comments were like this one just saying it’s harder for women like that’s gonna help him Some people are attracted to them, attractiveness has never been an objective topic. You remember the heroin sheek phase?	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 04:02 PM
1	A man made a post asking what he should do cause he was depressed and felt ugly. Most comments were like this one just saying it’s harder for women like that’s gonna help him I'm not arguing with you about whether fat people are attractive or not, because that isn't an objective issue. Body positivity is about having self worth, and respect for your body despite it not meeting the standard criteria for attractiveness. That can look like addressing your obesity, while not allowing yourself to feel unworthy of love or sex in the process. I don't personally agree with the idea that it's healthy to remain obese, but I'm not triggered by a fat person in a bathing suit eit…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 02:38 PM
1	A man made a post asking what he should do cause he was depressed and felt ugly. Most comments were like this one just saying it’s harder for women like that’s gonna help him There's a lot of myths regarding weight and what contributes towards it, to be fair. And it's an important issue for both men and women, because both your physical and mental health come into play and it becomes chicken and egg, a toxic cycle. Fat shaming doesn't fix that, but rather a controlled mix of body positivity and health awareness. Some people diet forever and can't lose it because of their genetics or health issues. Nuanced issue.	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 02:16 PM
3	I don't trust people anymore Nobody deserves a relationship so ill fitted for them. Nobody deserves such blatant malpractice of polygamy. Nobody deserves to feel obligated to get their partner a piece of jewellery for part taking in something that was agreed upon, and suffer demonisation for it, and then discover they were cheated on. Your ex sounds awful. Her securities, insecurities and sex life don't reflect on your worth as a person - if she wanted to have sex with this guy and not you, that's nobody's fault, but her de…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 02:02 PM
19	Debunking more myths around male victims of violence It also completely invalidates lesbian victims of domestic abuse, so anyone who says it's not their issue because they're a feminist has a very selective idea of feminism. The idea that women are incapable of violence does not line up with any feminism with integrity - support of men's rights should always be integrated with one's feminist practices. They are so heavily intertwined. I'm starting to realise I've missed a lot of this media bias	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 01:21 PM
1	My findings from misandrist Twitter. Problem is, the gender is reversed all the time. They see it a lot, and lash back with this crap. Then men who previously had no beef see that backlash, don't realise its backlash, and then lash back. And the cycle continues forever until we accept that extremism and bigotry are readily available on both sides of the fence. People who support gender equality with integrity can work on ignoring the bigots, and identifying bigoted talking points. They're unhelpful in all situations. These screensh…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 01:01 PM
3	Pushing back That'll fix eeverything! 🤣	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 12:20 PM
5	Pushing back No man. This makes a joke out of mens rights activism. There's so many things you can do to support men, but all you do by refusing to respect women is add to a stigma about men that nobody in this sub wants.	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 12:18 PM
1	What to do about fathers who behave like simps for their daughters? Am I understanding this right? Because your father isn't as quick to send his child to legal issues as his ex, this means he has preference for women? Or specifically daughters? Would he send you there any quicker? Your child isn't your asshole ex	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 10:55 AM
0	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. Was that okay man? Did you need me to use less words for you since you don't read what I respond with anyway?	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 10:23 AM
0	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. We are constantly fighting for liberation from gender roles that victimise them every day. Every man from short men, gay men, small men, naturally feminine men suffers under social and societal expectations . We fight for men's body positivity, for men's rights to be single or primary parents, to work in sectors that aren't typical for them. We talk about the mutilation of babies, the ignorance around sexual assault and domestic violence, and the perpetuation of violence towards boys in the home…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 10:21 AM
0	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. Why would I read anything you have to say either? Your opinion and your word rises above all others? 🤣 ✝️⛪️🙏 I'll keep being a feminist and fighting for your rights. You keep doing whatever you think you're doing, and never hear anyone else. Sound good, buddy?	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 10:13 AM
0	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. It's interesting because I am a feminist, attend feminist rallies and meetings here in ireland, and we advocate for everyone and have been for a long time. Whatever specific feminists have supported near you in the past, that doesn't reflect on me or anyone I know. You have to remember that, despite feminism being a movement, we are not the same body of opinion all over the world, at every point in time. The feminism I follow is overwhelmingly queer orientated. We aren't the first in line to say…	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 10:06 AM
1	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. Yeah, that doesn't reflect a single feminist organisation or irl opinion I've heard. Where I'm from, those takes on feminism aren't taken seriously. I am a feminist and a supporter of mens rights, but I don't follow a feminist group that I feel does not have men's interests at all in mind, suggests that rape can only be done by men or any other misandry/misogyny. If my only source were the Internet, I'm sure the side of feminism I'd have seen over the years would be a bit more extreme.	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 01:00 AM
2	Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys. What makes you believe that one can't be both a supporter of women and men's rights? I'm a feminist and I'm here. I find it helpful to know more about how cis men feel - and while I do catch misogynists and anti-feminists in these subs, I now know how to point out certain double standards in feminist subs too because of the stuff I've read here. It's great to see men talk about what needs to be talked about - nobody can do it for you and you deserve to be heard. Standard feminism doesn't aim to …	/r/MensRights	03/12/23 09:13 PM
1	Can we stop calling it "circumcision" and instead call it male genital mutilation? Nope, I'm also bi and prefer people with vaginas - i still think dicks are a bit less terrifying realistically. Lesbians maybe don't feel that way which makes sense	/r/MensRights	03/12/23 08:26 PM
13	Can we stop calling it "circumcision" and instead call it male genital mutilation? There are such awful opinions from women on how dicks look. like babe. that's a genital. It pisses and cums. It isn't supposed to look good, it's supposed to be clean and functional.	/r/MensRights	03/12/23 06:56 PM
6	Can we stop calling it "circumcision" and instead call it male genital mutilation? Its disgusting. Beyond an actual health issue involving your foreskin, there's no reason to mutilate babies genitals or "fix them". There should be protests for this.	/r/MensRights	03/12/23 06:53 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? Men aren't dogs. But when someone gets bit badly by a dog, and knows that most people they know who fit their description have also had similar experiences with dogs, they'll absolutely talk about it. They'll describe the dogs who do it, they'll give advice on how to prepare for a dog bite, they'll stay away from dogs they don't know and won't automatically give them attention. It's not every dog, but tell that to someone traumatised from a dog bite, possibly several dog bites. Tell that to the …	/r/MensRights	02/12/23 04:27 PM
3	Men treated as the problem even in counselling What kind of things did it say to do?	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 04:26 PM
0	Men treated as the problem even in counselling Couples therapy is awkward because the therapist is only human. They may take a side. This problem is exasperated if one partner is a better emotional communicater, which tends to be the case with women. If the therapist isn't giving you enough space to express your own side of things, they'll side with the other person. As for women in therapy on their own, anyone of any gender can go into therapy and never mention a thing they themselves have done wrong. In this case, it'll be all your partner…	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 04:24 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? As far as I've seen, a lot ot them would have that sentiment, yes. There's men who think women shouldn't and that it's a man's job, and there's men who feel annoyed that it's them who are always expected to take on those roles rather than perfectly capable women sharing the load. The traditional way of looking at gender roles is dying out in both men and women in the younger generations - in the west, anyway.	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 04:08 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? Interesting... where do you collect those stats? And clearly from reading all of the comments posted in this forum, the traditional way is going real well. Many men seem to absolutely hate the standards enforced on them... so yeah sounds perfect! 🤪	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 02:12 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? Can women not take on the traditionally more masculine role and support her husband? This strict system doesn't seem to benefit men when it's separated by gender like that. Some guys are better with the kids and the cleaning, some girls are workhorses... shouldn't there be room for that?	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 01:44 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? Attractive men face that issue too. Some people just aren't great to their partners. Guys do it to girls a lot too, it's more of an asshole issue than a gender one	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 01:41 PM
1	Would you say both men and women are nicer, on average, to women than they are to men? It isn't really fear mongering. Women have reasons to worry about their safety with men, and so do other men. That's evident in the violence stats around the world - its mostly male on male, and the violence against women is also dominantly by males. The problem is directly sourced from many or the problems you've listed - as well as a lot of peer pressure from other men, pressure from fathers and mothers, the spiteful or degrading ideas we perpetuate against women, and the distrust & traditiona…	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 01:39 PM
7	Two UK boys arrested for misogyny The patriarchy affects men horribly. It's a war of the sexes, when it should be a war against the expectations held against both of them. But those of us ignoring it are reinforcing it for everyone, and those of us paying attention are blaming one another for it. Women's rights forums are filled with women who are terrified of men and kind of hate them, and some women still expect men to fill the male standard while they claim to support feminism. Men's rights forums are filled with men who feel…	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 11:30 AM
3	Two UK boys arrested for misogyny Do they get time for it or anything? It says a 5 year ban from the stadium. The article seems like its worded strangely. There's a whole campaign to stop verbal abuse towards referees, they probably just yelled women-specific abuse at her. They'd have been done if she was a fella too it seems.	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 11:24 AM
1	Why aren’t men allowed room to grieve Where are you based? Where I'm from, a doctors note confirming that you're too mentally distraught to work legally has to be accepted - in the UK and Ireland	/r/MensRights	28/11/23 09:12 PM
1	Why aren’t men allowed room to grieve I disagree. Sometimes these workplaces allow wiggle space for "women stuff" which would include a miscarriage - men aren't offered the same "luxury" and women might not be either if call-out culture was not as prominent today	/r/MensRights	28/11/23 09:10 PM
0	Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023. I hope you never get laid again ❤️	/r/MensRights	25/11/23 03:27 PM
1	Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023. Who gives a shit that people get abused in an industry? Usually the people working in that industry, and people who like to consume porn without knowing the subject of it is being mistreated. They can find another job, but then nobody gets porn 🤷‍♂️ lmao	/r/MensRights	25/11/23 02:54 PM
0	Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023. Porn isn't a problem stand alone, but the porn industry, as it exists now, is a steaming pile of shit and half the pornstars we whack it to are underpaid, not paid at all, and/or abused in the workplace. Porn itself is neat and there's plenty of sites that make ethical consumption of porn available	/r/MensRights	25/11/23 12:58 PM